23 Ways I Created My DREAM Life | Levelling Up & Becoming THAT Woman in 2023

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CHAPTERS
0:00 intro
1:44 making the decision & visualising your dream reality
3:48 the inner work: self discovery & therapy
7:45 only accepting the BEST experiences
10:53 redefining success
13:04 earning more money: building a brand/business
17:15 dropping the ego
18:28 stepping into your femininity
20:15 creating irreversible decisions
23:01 create stronger boundaries
23:30 invest in yourself in ALL areas
24:58 change your environment
26:52 learning key principles through books
27:50 challenging yourself everyday
28:35 improve your communication
30:34 making new friends and relationships
31:00 focus on the journey rather than the result
32:20 accepting feedback from others
33:08 putting yourself out there
33:34 taking 100% ownership for your life
34:04 work hard AND smart
35:59 quitting alcohol
37:40 starring a new hobbies
38:40 stop excessive complaining
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Montelle is a creative entrepreneur coach, travel influencer, and international retreat facilitator. She is also the founder of 𝗕𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗜𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲™. Her mission is to empower female entrepreneurs to tap into their unique abilities and build a profitable personal brand. Through her coaching, workshops and online content, Montelle provides actionable steps that help you break down limiting beliefs and go after the life you’ve always dreamed of.

[@MontelleBee]

Hope you enjoyed this video about the 23 ways I created my DREAM life. Is there anything else you'd add to this list? ✨⬇

[@OthoWilliamsJr]

Watching now lovely 💪🏾🤗🧎🏾‍♂️💪🏾

[@lifewithkashmeere]

Girl yes thank you ❤

[@Mochasweet34]

Great job

[@miadixon7849]

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[@miadixon7849]

22:47

[@helenarichard]

I decided to follow my passion for writing books because it's a second income stream but also a passive income. This way I am not only dependent on the writing because I don't think I can make enough of it. I just sent my first manuscript to an editor. Pray for me! I am going to work part time next to writing. I use quantum jumping to be the person I want to be now.

[@Hue_10]

Congratulations!!! That’s awesome!!

[@Meyri2010]

This is amazing! And it’s wild that this is the first comment I see, I also love to write and haven’t done so in such a long time. Congratulations!!! 🎉🎊

[@kaseyyyy9543]

Update?

[@sallyart00]

When you mentioned " my passion" I was like ya you gonna succeed bc it's your passion !!! Keep going

[@FulieJoos]

Woo!!! 🎉🎉🎉 What does a quantum jumping mean?

[@grannyronna]

Montell, you are 27 and I am 72. What delighted me was how much I learned from you and from this video. You lifted me up: I am brand new to KZbin as GrannyRonna and my goal is to show how much we have to learn from each other. What I love is that you don't talk about what to do: You live your life and that shows what is possible. What will be a brand new part of my journey is working on my femininity: Even though I am old, I am still a woman and am curious to learn if all those years in the corporate world taught me to lean into my masculine energy too much. Thanks so much for your wisdom, your sharing and your beauty . Of course I will be following you and checking out your videos.

[@dreagene2523]

I love that you’re 72! You must have so much wisdom! I Will definitely be checking out your page. ❤

[@grannyronna]

@@dreagene2523 Thanks so much. Now I am sharing what I have learned and the shocker is how much I learn from all of you. There is so much wisdom in young people and the world:I think we find what we are looking for.

[@jennifermolinaxo]

This is so beautiful

[@grannyronna]

@@jennifermolinaxo Thanks so much! You are a beautiful spirit and I am grateful to have you show up in my life.

[@tgolding72]

Awww granny Ronna hi

[@euphonicbalance]

At the ripe old age of 51 I am finally breaking out of the box I've put myself in and following my dreams and passions. Thank you for sharing this, I gained so much from this video. X

[@noelledaemmrich]

This was the first time I really sat down and took notes of what a KZbinr was saying. I nodded my head like 1000 times because I constantly thought "she is so right" and I realized all these thing seemed so logically too me and so basic but I never thought so deeply about it and how I as a person am really affected. I was always somebody who was very aware of myself and my situation but after this video I got a very different view of myself and how I want to live. After watching this I really feel like I can reinvent myself and my life. Thank you sooo much for this! I was never so much influenced by a KZbin video 💕 Thank you for caring.

[@patricia_1303]

Thank you so much Montelle, you give me so much motivation! For me the most important thing is my environment, I’m 27 now and I’m still living at home and I regret not moving out earlier, but my dad passed away few months ago and I can’t just leave my mum in a house she can’t afford, but I’m still trying to improve my life and follow my dreams. You’re such an inspiration 💕

[@MontelleBee]

Sorry to hear about your dad passing Patricia. Sending love and condolences to you and the family 🙏🏾 As for moving out earlier.. you cannot change the past so focus your attention on the future. There’s positives and lessons in every decision 🤍 your time will come!

[@patricia_1303]

@@MontelleBee Thank you so much, I will try and focus on what I can change now 💕

[@lifewithkashmeere]

Sorry about your dad love

[@grannyronna]

Patricia, sorry about your Dad. I admire your supporting your Mom. We live in a multi-generational household with four pets and it is a bit chaotic to carve out energy to pursue my dreams. And it was tough to decide to go after a new dream at 72, when there were/are so many doubters. But the truth is, Montelle is right. Do your work, your specific work, and your time will come.

[@thisizaria]

It’s amazing that you take care of your mom - God bless your heart - try to make the best from your situation and good luck 😊

[@capitalggbeauty]

I definitely feel you on the stepping into your most feminine self, I am 24 and was never made great decisions as far as trying to grow and now that I had my daughter I want to show her differently because I was shown procrastination and not finishing what I start and basically surviving instead of living not having plans and just living day by day. I really do see you as a role model and want to change my life and your videos have helped me mentally getting out of those old habits.

[@lifewithkashmeere]

I wish I had this info at your age

[@synmarie6878]

I related so much to this . Literally me right now

[@FineNaturalHairROCKS]

Montelle, this video was literally perfect. As a busy human rights lawyer, I don't have a ton of time to watch full length 40 min youtube videos, but I simply could not stop watching your video. You are a shining light and it is such a blessing that you've chosen to share your light with others. Thank you so much for posting this video. It was really helpful for me to get the reminder to be more positive, more feminine, and more driven in creating multiple sources of income. I appreciated this video very much.

[@chiomauluabuike7811]

Honestly this is one video where I watched it from the beginning till the end! So many useful tips of which I’m going to apply to my life. So happy I stumbled on your page.

[@sophiebe471]

love love love this!

[@valedakeys1661]

This is really good!!! Keep winning young lady!! I will be sharing this video with some winning women.

[@geometriemuffel]

I love that I discovered your channel

[@nwabisaphikwa9790]

There is so much value in this video! I have learned so much from you. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@Raycarlaxo]

wow, this is so inspiring! thanks for these points-I really need to put myself out there, i've realised I am quite closed off

[@CHIVITA01]

This is great. Thanks for sharing

[@missbloom9885]

Thank you so much. I needed this❤

[@IdealStyle7]

Helpful advice. Thank you for sharing. I chose to change mine with my passions.

[@thecoachadviser7926]

Hey young lady I came across your video because I saw you in coach Myron’s challenge. And I must say that it was a delight hearing how you opened up this space to help, not just women, because as you help our women grow stronger with your words of encouragement and guidance and inspiration, our women become better at helping their men, their sons, their partners, their daughters, and our society heal and grow. So my hat off to you for caring as much as you do. God bless. By the way my name is Theran King T. Washington ❤

[@brokegirlturnedrich]

You look amazing - this was well done!

[@PrettyRedemption]

I’m so happy I found you channel. It is helping me a lot. I am 27 and thought I was so feminine and came to the realization, also through my now partner, that I wasn’t as feminine as thought or operating in it as much as I would’ve hoped. I was big on my visions but was never putting in the actual work. There’s sooo many nails you hit on the head. You are an inspiration and thank you so much for sharing your journey 💕

[@dyneishaericka3384]

I love this!! Thank you sooo much

[@veebeezyy2925]

Girl you are the TRUTHHH!!!! I’m so glad I found your channel. You’re my new mentor🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@minervasworld1002]

❤ Thank you 😊 I wish you many more blessings ❤

[@jazzyjay9059]

Powerful keys ! Thank you.

[@kiacharles34]

Always appreciate your content. Sidebar - your makeup application is absolutely stunning!

[@ariafelisha]

Watched the entire video and these points were all GEMS. So happy for the algorithm aligning me to you. Your videos have been impactful during the most transitional phases of my life recently.

[@tobes_x]

I love what you said about only accepting the best. Sometimes wait or save to get the best of whatever it is rather than fasting up myself and getting something that’s basic. Thanks girl x

[@verycherry4459]

This is my first time seeing you. You showed up first in my feed. You are amazing! Keep it up. I am a new subscriber today and I'm going to check out more of your videos.

[@tabithagathoni1004]

Amazing information. Thanks alot❤️

[@pammysadventures]

It is sooo great to see the fabulous journey that you are on. You are very inspiring! Thankyou!

[@daddyschoice2021]

This was really good. I really needed these reminders. Thank you for saying yes to yourself.

[@sp_travel_lifetime2023]

Thanks so much for sharing.

[@Sandiswaa_ntuli]

I decided to start my channel and be consistent and it’s been great so far I’m glade I came across this channel ❤

[@_thejasmineshow]

Loved all the points you made ❤️

[@angelasagenda]

Watched many of your videos. I’m going back through a lot of you videos for a second watch with pen and notepad in hand. I hope to apply at least 50% of the great advice you give on your channel. Thank you MONTELLE. 😊

[@leiajade7381]

There is so much valuable guidance in this video, I wrote a whole page of notes whilst watching which I will be utilising! Thank you so much 💗 xxx

[@aisatacapri]

Whew! Only accepting the best experiences, creating stronger boundaries, and accepting feedback from others are all VERY important when becoming the woman you want to be! This video was super insightful and inspiring 🙌🏽

[@rosemarie3047]

Montelle, this video is full of wisdom and insights, made more personal and practical because of knowing that you have done these things and continue to do them. I love journaling, and learning and the growth mindset. I appreciate your point about defining what success looks like for us as individuals. It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that what "she" has or does is what I "should" do too. But if I have the clear vision of what God wants my life to look like, then I will define success as He defines it for me. I also agree with your point about challenging ourselves every day. It builds character to do at least one hard thing a day...even if that is just exercising! Focusing on the journey is a hard one for me. I like the end results, but the journey can be long and it takes patience and perseverance. But sometimes the "end" leaves a vacuum that I was not prepared for, and then I wished I had enjoyed the journey more. And it is true, enjoying the journey enables us to grow and sometime it helps us to realize that the ladder we were trying to climb really was up against the wrong wall. Dealing with our own internal growth, and taking ownership for our life are great points too. You really did put a lot into this video. It could have been a whole series...and really, it still could be! You are a wise young women. Thank you for speaking to your generation so truthfully...and truly, all generations as your advice and words of wisdom are timeless.

[@moniquewilliams3567]

I rarely find someone on a social network worth listening to, this is some really great advice. Thanks, i greatly appreciate it!

[@CornishaTV]

New subscriber. Powerful message and amazing presentation, darlin.

[@chantew5683]

This video quite literally changed my life. Wow I wasn’t expecting this. Thank you ❤

[@maryamfrench9660]

So many gems in this video!! Definitely will be applying to my day to life! Excited to see what will come ❤💎

[@the_Nakuru_Vlogger]

You speak with such ease and with a zen aura! I legit love listening to you❤❤

[@ExploringEssence]

I needed this ❤❤

[@maricarnation6272]

omg you're GORGEOUS!

[@SuzyBenz]

You are so inspirational, I hate the 9-5 grind, I’ve been trying to create my dream life for years & sometimes I get frustrated by self doubt or lack of results. Your video is great, keep inspiring 🥰

[@rayannaraye]

you look stunning by the way! Loved this video x

[@gabriellepitts3707]

For two years I've been planning to leave my 10 year career, in two weeks! This is my irreversible decision to step into the new me by recreating my environment. I'm 180 degrees from the girl I was when I started that career and she isn't me.

[@kele6wele]

Creating irreversible decisions is definitely what I need to be doing consistently right now, it's definitely works and is how I've managed to achieve certain things! Thank You!

[@kyarasoniar3524]

I absolutely love this, appreciate this video🫶

[@didyouknowcollection]

Literally so relatable

[@Nyotaaizeidi]

Such an informative video, really taking notes and breaking it down to understand every pint, thank you for sharing:)

[@clvkforessaycollege190]

I love your peaceful and strong energy ❤❤

[@user-qj7nf9kn2z]

Thank you very much❤

[@keabetswemotaung9191]

I recently started reading about feminine energy this year September after settling for less than I deserved. Still on my journey and I really the facts you stated in transforming ones self.

[@delsy604]

I'm getting so much help from your videos i was stuck for the past few years ....I'm ready to unstuck ..thank you ♥♥♥

[@onyxjade5474]

Wow your glow up is so real ..I've been following you since your Bali days .. I'm so proud of you my beautiful sister 🥰

[@motavation1152]

Gems 💎 I enjoyed this video. I definitely am working on being more feminine because like you I’ve been made to be more masculine on my journey of independence that I’ve lost a lot of my femininity . But she’s coming back.

[@OurStorysYours]

Thank you for being realistic about the struggles that comes with the transformation! A lot of people give up because of doubt. Thank you for reminding the doubt it a part of the process💛

[@heymisswest]

This is so true I love this

[@Olivier562]

❤ thanks so much

[@nikki4945]

Excellent ❤️🙏🏽

[@tamarajohnson5614]

Thanks for your videos, I really enjoy them❤ is anyone else having trouble downloading the 10pg book?

[@veralindberg1284]

You are so beautiful! thank you for your wise words :)

[@reneegeorge5439]

Thank you🤍

[@TeenCandy12]

You poured your soul into this video and it showed. Pure work of Art.

[@NadifahAbdurRasheed]

Beautiful list ❤️

[@Anne-vs5op]

I've taken away so many points from you! Thank you

[@Soulfulandvegan]

Looooved this 🥰

[@Marytv01]

very inspiring and informative. Lots of love from kenya.

[@EmpressSakama16]

I wasn’t concerned with how long the video was because of how valuable the information was to me. Thank you❤

[@reesies7937]

Great tips!

[@kandidwithkiarenee9157]

I like you gworl! So I’m subscribed. So many women dance around the fact that money creates comfortability. Like no, we can still be feminine and make money. To have extra hustles. Thank you!

[@rachelsantime5986]

Lovely video !🤗

[@shonwatson]

Very well and thought out tips!! Thanks 🙏🏽 💜

[@lifewithkashmeere]

I love her videos ❤

[@da1nonlyRon]

Im surprised you said you sometimes get uncomfortable with your communication/articulation skills. You're so well spoken. I hope to be able to speak like you one day! Good job!

[@ifeomanwaboku7771]

Nice one I agreed with everything you said ,it also resonates with me but making money over here is really hard to achieve most of these points 😢😢😢

[@SelinaSky]

I´m so surpised you´re only 27 years old! You´re so wise. Greate video. Thanks! New sub here!😍

[@belleexotic]

I love the video love ❤️

[@wildonez3076]

I love your look!!! It's So soft and feminine. I especially love your hair and makeup. I wish more woman took this natural and feminine aporoach!!

[@Doseof_nurseaholic]

Creating irreversible decisions was my favorite. I recently didn’t take a career opportunity for something I love & later regretted the decision because I became available when the event came. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@DeanaBahadoorsingh]

You are beautiful, intelligent and motivating ❤

[@firstgt98]

Dear, the content is so good and I appreciate you. I guess it might be better if the video will have the text on each topic that you talk about. At least, when we watch your values video we can make sure that we can catch up at the same point with you 🥰 Thank you in advance ❤

[@arianacruz3856]

This one is FIRE!!!🔥

[@MontelleBee]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Chamonix888]

Thank you so much for this video. This is my first time viewing your channel and I already find you to be extremely valuable. 40:08

[@lifewithkashmeere]

Oh hunny you gone love it I binge watch her ❤

[@eunae6655]

Inspiring and enlightning us as always✨️💛 much love to you Montelle

[@MontelleBee]

♥️♥️♥️

[@lifewithkashmeere]

Always she brings gems

[@MurunwaP-Zoe]

I love you so much montelle, you keep on inspiring to do better especially growing myself as well as my youtube channel, i thank God for you and i appreciate you ❤

[@MontelleBee]

You’re so welcome!! I’m glad you find value in my content ♥️♥️♥️ much love!

[@lexif1028]

You’re younger than me but you’re wiser than me. Thank you for these tips!

[@hellocelinaa]

You are glowing beautiful ❤

[@lotsoflovecindy]

thank you Montelle for sharing this! I've always wanted to create my dream life, hence the career change, moving out, restarting my channel, having a side hustle 💗 You're such an inspiration and thank you for sharing your journey! 🥰

[@MontelleBee]

You’re so welcome love 🥰

[@jlnae]

Thank you for this video! This is my first time on your channel. I’m 44 and still working on creating my dream life. New Subscriber ❤

[@grannyronna]

I am 72 and working on my dream life! The dream is to have the spiritual, intellectual and emotional energy to keep creating and pursuing new dreams. Enjoy the ride!

[@ednaevans2025]

Thanks.....NEW Subscriber

[@vannatran8404]

I always feel so warm listening into your videos. You just give such amazing advice in a nurturing sisterly way. I appreciate your intentional words! Hello from Boston! ❤

[@MontelleBee]

Aw that’s a huge compliment. Thank you so much ♥️

[@sandramish2229]

Inspiring and enlightening us as always, love you so much Montelle. Glad I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

[@eiraantoinette6793]

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

[@sandramish2229]

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

[@gracedaniels6172]

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

[@Jadewriteswellness]

@@sandramish2229 That sounds soo amazing, I'm so happy for you!! I really hope I find as much success as you have, its hard out here lmao. What books would you recommend?

[@sandramish2229]

@@Jadewriteswellness Rich Dad, Poor Dad" is one of the finance books I'm familiar with. A professional IA will provide you with additional book recommendations and General assistance.

[@user-jd3tk2in9w]

20:07 Great video! looking for the links to the femininity resources you mentioned, are they linked somewhere? Thats what I have been working on recently; which it was on this femininity journey that I came across your channel. Thanks for your insight!! 🙏🏼

[@MontelleBee]

Just updated the description! Thanks for watching ♥️

[@vonronkaymarie]

Hi there!! What is your entire set up when filming? Equipment and all. I want to enhance my set up and move away from using my phone, but I also don’t want to spend money on equipment and not know exactly what I’m doing and I love your set up. ❤

[@nourissi3877]

Can you make a video avoir stepping into féminin energy

[@SelfCenteredGG101]

I felt like you were talking directly to me. We are also around the same age lol!

[@sarahbarakat2961]

Can you please do a make up tutorial please? 😍

[@mumsss8731]

Hearing a UK accent automatic like❤😊