how I shifted my identity and transformed my life in 6 months... *and you can too*

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! Welcome to the first video of 2023. In this video I'm sharing how I changed my life in 6 months and how you can too!
CHAPTERS
0:00 intro
3:58 creating evidence for self belief
8:06 building the pillars
11:51 the excuses loop
14:03 making irreversible decisions
17:11 prioritise healing
20:35 find a community that aligns with your identity
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𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐈𝐒 𝐌𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐄?
Montelle is a creative entrepreneur coach, travel influencer, and international retreat facilitator. She is also the founder of 𝗕𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗜𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲™. Her mission is to empower female entrepreneurs to tap into their unique abilities and build a profitable personal brand. Through her coaching, workshops and online content, Montelle provides actionable steps that help you break down limiting beliefs and go after the life you’ve always dreamed of.

[@Snow-fy5wv]

About a month ago I decided to slow down I only work 3 times a week instead of 5 and I find myself much more productive than ever because I know I only have 3 days I’ve been making more money feeling better and have been able to focus on my mental health which has been declining because I was overworked you are absolutely right mental health comes first if you don’t feel good nothing works !

[@tamiekahollis5117]

Hi! What do you do for a living?

[@ashleynikkolex]

That's incredible!!!

[@CreativepreneurJourney]

2 weeks ago, I personally need to slow down at work because of my mental health.

[@MontelleBee]

I hope you’re now feeling restored Damalie ♥️

[@CreativepreneurJourney]

@@MontelleBee I do feel much better

[@TheMwendaa]

@@CreativepreneurJourney same here!! Working on taking that break

[@aamirakarimah5359]

Your videos are seriously rebuilding me from an extremely dark and broken place in my life. It’s one thing to knowing I want to change, but learning how to really makes this an attainable goal for me. Thank you 🙏🏾❤️

[@MontelleBee]

You are so welcome love! I appreciate your comment, and I’m so glad you’re finding value in my content. Happy new year love, wishing you an abundance of light & peace this year and beyond ✨🙏🏾

[@patoupatrickpcc6377]

​@@MontelleBee Great work Montelle. Your videos are both great in content and context.👌🏿👏🏿❤️

[@Jackthetraveller]

Call me Mr 86 im subscribing to help you 💯✌️ im on 15 and 5 days in😂 lets meet at the top 💯💯👍 Wish u all the best in life 🎉

[@tiffanypogue1190]

Make irreversible decisions to launch you towards your goals. No one has ever shown me that perspective before. I feel like I just unlocked a new superpower.

[@GloryOkings]

Taking a break really helps with seasonal depression. Just having the feeling of starting afresh, yes it's okay to feel sad and down, go through the process, rest and start again.

[@xenimolly]

I love this! I decided to grow and heal from a very toxic relationship that left me so broken that i lost myself. Making irreversible decisions is the way to go like I just walked into a gym and signed up and paid for 6months😂meaning i have to make use of my money and go to the gym. I have fallen in love with the gym in a month. I also stopped the negative self talk that I didn’t even realize was affecting me daily. Anytime i want to think something negative about myself I replace it with something positive and i feel more confident. Thankyou for the words of encouragement and advice

[@MontelleBee]

Yessss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is the energy!!! So happy for you Xenia ♥️

[@RebecasBeautifulEnterprise]

❤

[@TheOneLifeSchool]

Love this! Making an irreversible decision really hit home with me...2023 is the year of being bold!

[@MontelleBee]

Yes I agree!!!

[@desireeluciano]

Love this ❤

[@Gombakka]

❤️Believe in yourself ❤️Don't look for evidence from others who picked a similar goal, be the evidence yourself ❤️Rate the areas in life and prioritize ❤️Identify barriers that hold you back, be solution oriented

[@jenniferanyanwu2292]

I’m going to come back to this exact video by this exact time next year and tell you “ I did it!” This is me putting my accountability in public and I have no doubt that I am capable of achieving it😊

[@withsherrymcmillan]

Yaaas!!! Prioritizing healing is top tier as you’re pursuing your desired life.

[@aridjaandadam]

Happy for you 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Neesha242]

I’m tired of pretending that I’m ok. I’m trying to fight for my life by not giving up

[@TheColorDuchess]

yes for your healing! much love to you on this next chapter

[@sofiamoilanen]

Great video!!😍

[@jasemedina]

The exact content that I needed! You confirmed a lot of what I thought I needed to do. Thank you!

[@leighhelesia]

The point about making irreversible decisions is so good! I’ve never heard anyone share that advice before. Thank you so much for this video ❤

[@yolandmcleod]

Amazing video...I really needed this x

[@maxicathnry]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@jamzyy]

*Yessss. Absolutely feel this, sis. Thank you for sharing!* ♥

[@ROBERTDAVis2271]

Great video 👍🏿

[@Londoloza031]

love this 🤍

[@MiaNebo]

Thanks for this important message ❤

[@aurora-jp4ck]

You are so right about the big leapsー I am currently in the process of going to a different country and studying abroad. It was a very big decision but pushing myself was really eye opening and it has made me way calmer when facing other challenges. I am currently in a process of also getting rid of stuff and just reinventing myself. Thank you so much for your insights!

[@rebeccap2719]

Your channel is quite new to me. I watched one other of your videos from 8 months ago on the 12 week challenge. You're right, I could hear a difference in your voice in this video from that one. You sound so calm and serene in this video, it's so easy to listen to and it's lovely to see how relaxed you are.

[@itspearlineslife86]

Love this for you ❤️

[@kubiatakpanusong]

I love this so much!! Every point hit home! Making irreversible decisions, prioritizing healing and building pillars really did it for me! Thank you so much and I wish you a very wonderful year ❤

[@nicole.wacuka]

What a beautiful video Montelle! Your healing comes through, hun. All the peace you speak with, it's beautiful. Thank you for sharing this. It's really blessed me

[@allygy2004]

Hello Monette, your videos are so refreshing, I see so much of myself in you and I feel encouraged to be better!!

[@ayoadeyo]

Hi Montelle, I haven't watched the video in full yet but wanted to send love your way

[@MontelleBee]

Thank you love!! And yes I watched her video - it was very encouraging ♥️♥️♥️

[@ericawatkins1714]

Amazing advice! Just what I needed! Also very glad to hear you've overcome your seasonal depression.

[@imjessiara]

Girl you have no idea, this video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🤍

[@raihana.onfilm]

Thanks for the great content! You're definitely inspiring me. 🧡

[@abigailbrind6533]

Love this, especially like the irreversible decisions such a great idea. Thanks 🙏

[@Zinayahh]

You explained this perfectly, exactly what I needed to hear !

[@Mbalenhlechrissie]

Happy new year Montelle it’s good to see you again, nothing has changed my life like your channel last year, you always talk to me, you are loved❤️

[@lisaLisa-qq2ss]

I want to give this video a million likes. This was truly a answer to my prayers. Thanks so much for sharing!❤

[@happygolucky6284]

So motivating. Love your honesty and realness!

[@ValentinaGulpe]

Love this channel :) I am new here :) from one creator to another ! Good job ! We all need a break sometimes :) fantastic work !!

[@chanelhart4353]

OMG I just found your channel, and two minutes into the video, I subscribed! You have such a beautiful and authentic energy and are such an inspiration. Thank you for being you! Also, not me seeing this at 111K subscribers ahhh I love

[@MontelleBee]

Thank you so much loveee ♥️♥️♥️ so happy you enjoy my content 🤗

[@divine5582]

New Sub here, and it's a miracle how this vlog came into my feeds right after having a dream about Transformation.. I am glad I found you, I needed this! Especially healing You're truly Godsent, bless you

[@thenaturalgrowthsecret]

Love this ❤

[@MontelleBee]

Thank you love!! Happy new year to you! ♥️

[@Memkoh]

Amazing video, Montelle. Thank you!! “Boldly step into your next level” I felt that. Also agree with you 100% about healing over productivity. You described what I’ve been experiencing so perfectly and watching this reaffirmed it. We are so wired to feel guilty for taking breaks to heal but sometimes that’s all we need.

[@_highlytransplanted]

I’m so excited to see your content this year Montelle! 🎉 glad you took a break and reset before the New Year I think we all needed one at the end of Q4 😅 After watching your last video (telling me to get out of my own way) I bought a tripod so I can continue my own content creation journey in 2023!

[@TanyaRoseCoach]

Thanks Montelle really enjoyed this video and love how grounded you are! Thank you 🙏🏽 thank you ☺️ thank you 🙏🏽

[@e-bedai]

Great video, thank you 👍

[@lindapowell4433]

Praying for your continued success in all areas of your life!!! Peace and Blessings, to you love.....

[@JenniferKristin888]

Thank for your transparancy ❤

[@lirekoqhobela4439]

I'm so happy for you! The last time I saw your videos you were working towards 100k subs! If memory serves me correctly, you were around 24k subs. What?! 😊😁. Really inspiring girl. Thank you. Ok, now I'm gonna watch the rest of the video. May God keep blessing your journey.

[@catherinekayy]

Wow this is so motivational thank you so so much for sharing this, I had gastric bypass last year, and Im really trying to grow and talk to myself differently and change my life! This is so inspiring thank yo uso much for sharing

[@gabrijelabosnjak1648]

You are such a beautiful soul! May God give you all the blessings you need to continue following your path. ❤ And you are making an impact and thank you for that 🫂

[@simplycherry23]

Thank you love the part making irreversible decision ❤❤…..really resonated with me

[@EllenMcDermott]

You have another subscriber in me. Loved your idea or writing down my excuses and then my solutions and also taking irreversible action!!! Thank you sooo much ❤❤❤

[@ashleynikkolex]

Thank you for sharing this! I watched this while working on my vision board.... I found this exactly when I needed it!

[@drucilaalisson3804]

Hi Montelle, love your videos as always they helped me so much ! I think you should put your videos sound into podcast 😍

[@moni28b90]

First time listening to you. You have a calling on your life. Thank you for your wisdom.

[@_the.encourager]

Yes! Yes! You transformed so much! Your previous videos are amazing but indeed I see the difference. Its beautiful. You encourage me Montelle❤. Praying I will be able to really grow with your guidance through your lovely videos. I'm so thankful I found you❤

[@agirl2094]

Great video 💓 glad to see something useful on socials in a space that is often full of 🗑️

[@valeriearthur7322]

Hy montelle, i love your videos and how you integrate your faith into your videos and emphasize on doing the inner work. This is my favorite video from you and i will be applying these steps to my life asap. Thank you soo much.

[@missmo-be7636]

Wonderful tips! Thank you for sharing and being unapologetically honest. We're human beings afterall and taking to decompress is 100% necessary when transforming. Good for you and the time away has you glowing...you look AMAZING.🌞

[@jenniferanyanwu2292]

I was looking for a video to help this start off this year and I saw yours and I just knew it was exactly what I needed!

[@noramosesgoddey]

Taking 'inner work' and 'making irreversible decisions' as the strongest shots for me🥰❤️

[@Mutsa_c]

this was very much needed thank you sis!!!!

[@MontelleBee]

You are so welcome 🥰

[@RebecasBeautifulEnterprise]

This video was beautiful and inspiring. I relate to taking a break to heal, as I also had to go on a long mental health leave from my 9-5 teaching job.... However, had I not made that decision to take a break and heal my mind, body, and soul, I would not be in a good place right now. Thank you for sharing your story...

[@jenniferanyanwu2292]

You have no idea how much this video helped me! Thank you thank you thank you ❤️

[@DiamDot]

The part about watching old videos and thinking "who is she?!" FELT lol

[@blvckszn5377]

Currently in the process of reinventing myself, it has been a blast so far and getting better everyday

[@zaliecannonier]

Love this Montelle 🤍 your voice is also so soothing in this video! 😅🤗 x

[@MontelleBee]

Aw thank you Zalie 🤍

[@taraready657]

Every time I have a set back my come back always has to be different so I understand this completely

[@Ninglor888]

this is a great video. I love how you talk about prioritizing healing

[@rowzaylove]

“We create the evidence” powerful statement! The Bible describes faith as the evidence of things not seen. You’re so right, by believing that we can we are quite literally “creating” the evidence.

[@silentlyflourish]

This was a good talk. Wow, to focus on one area at a time is the most sound advice I've heard

[@taisha5985]

I didn’t know I needed this video Thank you❤️

[@MontelleBee]

You’re so welcome love! ♥️

[@mathumcube2202]

Hey, sis hey! I missed you so much! So glad to see you're back and doing better🤍. Your 12 week year video was really life-changing for me. My life looks completely different compared to the past 6 months, so yes at any moment in your life, you change your life completely. It is so possible.

[@MontelleBee]

Awww thank you love!! I’m so glad my videos have been transformational for you 💕

[@cocofecoco]

Thank you so much for being so transparent. Your videos are always so helpful and encouraging. 🙏🏾

[@MontelleBee]

You are so welcome!! I’m so glad you enjoy my content ♥️

[@jenniferanyanwu2292]

This is by far one of the most practical videos I have watched. Thank you montelle!

[@LavenderFieldsForever]

I’m leveling up my finances this year!!! 💜💜💜👯‍♀️ let’s go

[@AlyciaBoutte]

I've been missing your videos, so glad you're back! Excellent tips as always!

[@MontelleBee]

Aw thank you love!!!

[@noramosesgoddey]

Hnmm, so insightful and encouraging video ❤️, thanks

[@sylviavalente__]

nice!❤

[@Thelifeofamom494]

I love how you mentioned the enemy soo true

[@RoyaltyRoots]

Happy New Year and congratulations on hitting 100k

[@MontelleBee]

Happy new year love!!! And thank you🥰♥️

[@Ttashja]

Hahaha when you busted yourself saying trying. Thank you for this powerful wisdom 💗

[@justbeingoctavia8667]

Happy New Year Montelle 💐🎊🎉 This video has been very therapeutic to the soul! As I unpack my children clothes from our holiday, you have reaffirmed the importance of working on my inner me and I’m so excited and ready to be consistent and dedicated to improving myself this year and beyond 🙏🏾 Thank you for your transparency and I look forward to implementing the wheel spreadsheet which you mentioned ❤️

[@MontelleBee]

Happy new year love!!! Aw I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. Wishing you an abundance of success and personal growth in 2023 and beyond! ✨

[@NYKIRA]

yes to shifting & peeling off those old layers!! i definitely agree with you and your boyfriend have noticed how you've changed and you're glowing so keep it up! 💖

[@MontelleBee]

Aww thank you love!!!

[@meronitanat8062]

Its good to have you back.

[@MontelleBee]

Thank you!! 🥳♥️

[@rushaunmcintosh439]

😁🙏🏾❤Woow Montelle! This is the exact video I needed to hear its crazy you did this video at the time I was actually thinking on improving myself last year for me 2022 was not my year at all have had alot of set backs which have affected me big time but towards the end of that year I was starting to progress to where I want to be so hearing this is what I need to work on certain areas of my life so I want to thank you for doing this video!! Your killing it by the way 🙏🏾😁keep putting in that grind as I know 500k subs will be on the way soon for you.

[@MontelleBee]

Thank you Rushaun, I’m so glad this video resonated with you ♥️♥️ I pray this year is powerful and prosperous for you!

[@rushaunmcintosh439]

@@MontelleBee no problem Montelle you deserve it! Keep up the good work cant wait to see you get to your next milestone and wish you nothing but success for this year too 🙏🏾❤

[@BethanyRuby]

Happy new year beaut 🎉💜🥰 and so happy you're back and thriving 💜 sorry you had a bad time last month xx

[@MontelleBee]

Happy new year love!! Thank you so much ♥️ wishing you an amazing 2023 and beyond!

[@lalanicole.]

This is my first video of yours I’ve watched and I appreciate it so much. You have realistic tips and I just want to say thank you. You definitely have a new subscriber ❤️ bless you!

[@MontelleBee]

You are so welcome! Thank you for subscribing. I’m glad my content resonates with you ♥️

[@EllenMcDermott]

Oh wow you’re stunning ….had to comment that and I haven’t even watched all your video yet hehehehehe

[@Dasjustmyblenderart]

I'm glad you took some time off to get better. Seasonal depression hit me HARD this december too! I am sure you are going to achieve great things this year. You deserve it.

[@MontelleBee]

Thank you so much love ♥️ I’m sorry to hear that it hit you hard last month. I pray you’ve been restored and feeling better this month!

[@adenkifle649]

Don't usually comment on yt videos but I Loved this video and the way you break down things, very inspiring to make decisions and real change in my life, and loved your 12 week year plan . God bless you ❤

[@MontelleBee]

Aw thank you love! I appreciate your comment. Happy new year, wishing you much success this year and beyond 💕

[@AmberB]

Definitely missed your videos but glad you were able to take some time off. Loved this video because I feel like I am going through a transformation with my content and my identity / mindset has been a big thing! (Just not being that person i know i can be) “You can’t fall back into your old ways” this resonated with me soo much! I’m so ready to be all in and commit to changing my life and living the life i deserve .✨💕

[@Memkoh]

Just followed your channel from this comment. Wishing you so much growth💕

[@AmberB]

@@Memkoh aww thank you❤️🥹

[@amandamovio]

I love the structure of the video - and the fact that you mentioned healing. Healing is what rebirths us and slingshots us toward our greatest achievements. Loved the video Girl!!! Listened to you while I was working on my site ❤❤

[@RebecasBeautifulEnterprise]

❤

[@wendyogano5553]

This is the best video on this topic I have seen. I definitely took heed of everything and I want to test myself for two months

[@MontelleBee]

🙌🏾🙌🏾 please keep me updated with how it goes for you!

[@sharonjohns1686]

Your beautiful. Love your style. Pls do videos on your hairstyles. I love them❤️

[@tt56565]

Love your content! You also sound just like Mel b from spice girls, i love it!! x

[@jackiek4159]

Girl you are literally GLOWING! Loved these tips as I am currently in the process of identity shifting also! Thank you for your tips and Happy New Year! 🙏🏻💞✨

[@MontelleBee]

Aww thank you so much Jackie! Happy new year to you love! Wishing you an abundance of success for this year and beyond ✨♥️

[@jackiek4159]

@@MontelleBee Thank you so much beautiful girl!! Same to you!! 😍💞✨

[@ElenaDenisaOfficial]

SHE IS BACK!!

[@ElenaDenisaOfficial]

So happy to see a new upload from you

[@MontelleBee]

YAYYY!! Thank you love!! ♥️♥️

[@ElenaDenisaOfficial]

@@MontelleBee I hope you’re doing well lovely ❤️❤️

[@dearrose3275]

Im a new sub✨✨✨✨🌻Glad i found you sis

[@parisienneatheart]

Thank you so much for your full transparency! You have a new subscriber and I'm also Creating digital content including my KZbin channel. God-bless you!