First Step For Reinventing Yourself In 2024 | Power of Authenticity

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Welcome to another girl, let's talk. Winter & Fall is the season of change, it's magical, it's whimsical and I'm not letting you miss out on this opportunity to break through and find your potential. This video has a lot of gems that will help you understand yourself so that you can become magnetic to all the things you turley desire. I really hope you enjoy this video and it benefits you in every way possible! Love you all! ✨🧚🏽‍♂️
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♡ Contents Of Video ♡
00:00 - Intro
01:32 - Why You need to Know Who You Are
05:12 - Shifting Your Identity
05:57 - What We Will Talk About
08:26 - The 4 Archetypes (Carl Jung Theory of Archetypes)
08:36 - #1 Your Personas (How Do You Want To Be Seen?)
11:46 - #2 Your Shadow (Navigate Your Insecurities, Traumas.. ect)
17:42 - #3 Anima & Animus (Masuline & Feminin Energy)
20:14 - #4 The Self (Your Highest Self)
21:07 - The Self & The Soul - My Experience
25:00 - How to Get To Know Yourself
27:58 - Become an Observer
30:25 - Spend Time Alone & Overcome Your Fear of Your Own Feelings
33:38 - Why You Need to Journal
35:35 - What You Find When You Explore Yourself
36:03 - Just Like Magic Your Attractive - Power of Knowing Who You Are
38:05 - Outro

[@BahjaAbdi]

Understand that Carl Jung's Theory of Archetypes isn't an Islamic idea and I don't claim it to be. However it's a useful tool for us to learn ourselves deeper. With my understanding of the idea I was able to connect it back to my beliefs and I hope you can do the same. Knowledge isn't taking everything one person says and running with it. It's listen to different opinions and ideas and figuring out if it fits into your own beliefs and values.

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Of course. We as Muslims have to take any ideas and use it accord to islam and nothing wrong w that

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How

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“what you seek is also seeking you”❤

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My heart is sooo full! May gos make your journey easy and keep your heart grounded in faith. I'm sending you all my love, thank you for the kind words 🩷

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"When you know who you are, you are able to find peace" ... that's beautiful

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Girlll usually I skip videos like these because in my experience everyone says the same generic things but something told me click on your video and I’m so happy I did. I made a whole new mini vision board (made a big one yesterday) as I was listening to you. You really felt like a friend giving advice and going so in depth with your journey that you earned a new subscriber. Thank you and I’ll definitely be watching your videos on my self love/reinvention journey.

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00:00 - Intro🏃🏻‍♀️ 01:32 - Why You need to Know Who You Are🫵 05:12 - Shifting Your Identity🪪 05:57 - What We Will Talk About👯‍♀️ 08:26 - The 4 Archetypes (Carl Jung Theory of Archetypes)🤔 08:36 - #1 Your Personas (How Do You Want To Be Seen?)👀🧍‍♀️ 11:46 - #2 Your Shadow (Navigate Your Insecurities, Traumas.. ect)🖤 17:42 - #3 Anima & Animus (Masuline & Feminin Energy)🧍‍♂️🧍‍♀️ 20:14 - #4 The Self (Your Highest Self)👑 21:07 - The Self & The Soul - My Experience📖 25:00 - How to Get To Know Yourself💗 27:58 - Become an Observer👀👀👀 30:25 - Spend Time Alone & Overcome Your Fear of Your Own Feelings🩷 33:38 - Why You Need to Journal📓 35:35 - What You Find When You Explore Yourself🌈 36:03 - Just Like Magic Your Attractive - Power of Knowing Who You Are🪄 38:05 - ✨🌟Outro⭐️✨

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I’ll be honest. This is the first time I actually grab a notebook to take notes. I had to pause the video because I’m on the part of “Spend time alone” … see I believe I’ve mastered that already. I love being alone. What I need to work on now is learning how to come OUT of that. Learning how to connect with people again. Not fearing connections. I hope this makes sense. I would love a video on this or some tips… I’ve just been through a lot of back stabbing so that’s what brought me onto this journey of solitude. Also, I’m so thankful I found your channel. New subbie ❤

[@madzwrld14]

omg im going through the same thing as you. except my default to being alone isn't bc of betrayal but more bc of feeling SO self-conscious about myself. whats crazy is that i used to be the far opposite of this and i think it started during and after the pandemic - something changed and now im ike a little hermit that can't/won't come out of her shell.

[@alexislamberson1901]

@@madzwrld14 FELT!!!! 🥺 I used to be so outgoing too. Then I had my son in 2019 and then BAM 2020 pandemic! Omg wow. I feel this heavily girl. But that’s why it’s sooo important for us to dig deep and find the root. Practice more self love. Do things you enjoy doing. Journal positive affirmations. Repeat them to yourself. It’s a journey and won’t happen overnight. But it’s worth it 🤍🙏🏼

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@@madzwrld14same bro what I did was to create a group for myself to attract natural and authentic people that likes the same things I do . Like learning about self love , fitness , nutrition. I believe if you can attract that within your community you can do it anywhere.

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Ahhh I feel exactly the same way girl... Was done dirty by my oldest friend who secretly hated me, and had to cut off some other friendships due to baggage/trauma bonding. I'm too comfortable spending time on my own and Im trying to Work out how tf to put myself back out there when I struggle to trust and truly open up!?! I'm also big on protecting my energy and have no space for anyone not aligned with that. Good luck! I believe viewing videos like this show we are heading in the right direction.. ❤️❤️

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