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[@jimosborne2]

Any woman who is over 55 and has a must have list based on material factors is going to be lonely. Its one thing to have standards regarding character, values, honesty, integrity, language or laughter but to specify re income, material possessions, physical traits, type of career etc is just gonna turn off men who may be willing to date or marry her overlooking her “ faults” or inability to meet his wish list. The pool of potential mates over 50-55 who are responsible respectable men and women of character is very low. The more things on your wish list, the less chance you have of finding someone.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

The size of the pool is dependent upon where people live. Not small at all in metropolitan areas. I agree that people of both genders have to be realistic and not be looking for perfection or someone to check all the boxes. People of all ages!

[@jimosborne2]

@@CoffeewithCareyIyes the size of the pool varies but live in Los Angeles and have been divorced for 15 years. And I repeat- by the time you eliminate the people who you are not physically attracted to, or have health problems, or significant problems with their ex or their children, or who hate you’re political views or don’t have anything in common, the pool is quite small. That’s my experience. You may feel differently based on what you hear, but the numbers and statistics I would argue strongly support my opinion.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

based on the numerous clients I have had in and around Los Angeles I am drawn to your very large list of people whom you are eliminating. 🤐😆

[@jimosborne2]

@@CoffeewithCareyI am open to learning: what particular group should be back in the mix?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@jimosborne2 Definitely not for me to say. But if we were working together, I would certainly have you examine them. 👍

[@robertvarner9519]

My first tutoring session led to second and more tutoring sessions. Students seemed to like the way I tutored. Tutoring is kind of like a date....sort of. 👍👍☕☕

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Exactly the same. Without the romance, companionship, physical relationship, or promise of continued love and support. ♥️👍

[@abkeener81]

Hi, Carey! Please explain a bit more about the dealbreaker red flag thing.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yes! I’ll film a quick tip for you! ☺️👍

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I wrote it while I was waiting to return my cable boxes! Lol

[@sandieneitzel254]

I’m glad I watched this. I met a guy for a drink this afternoon. He’s a very nice guy and we had a good conversation, but he’s a bit on the quiet and shy side. I’m quite the opposite. He asked if I would like to see him again, and I was on the fence about it. But, per your suggestion, I told him yes! I didn’t feel a strong chemistry, but I definitely didn’t see any red flags or feel🤢 . So, a second date is in order!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@sandieneitzel254 ♥️👍 Fantastic! I’ll be so curious to know if you think he’s more outgoing and less shy on your next date. Keep us posted!

[@sandieneitzel254]

@@CoffeewithCarey Will do!