Best and Worst Places to Meet Single Women!

[@bobmoore6248]

Thanks!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Awww. Thank you, Bob. Very thoughtful and much appreciated. 🤎

[@zeekbrickett8095]

@@CoffeewithCarey No offense, but you lack game. Meeting in those places, allows room for quick dismissal. For example, coffee shop the person could easily say, "oh I'm just here for coffe", another example, the gym situation, "oh I am here to work out". Online dating is advanced and efficient, however, it is heavily dependent on your actual geographical location. Try to online date in Cheyenne, Wyoming, USA, you will find it a struggle because it's cultural, not sex positive, intolerant, and a lot of ghosting from these west coast flakes.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@zeekbrickett8095 no offense, but when you have game, you can meet people anywhere at any time. no problem. whatsoever.

[@zeekbrickett8095]

@@CoffeewithCarey No offense taken, yes what you stated is true for most circumstances.However, I meant taking to the next level which is establishing a romantic relationship by using game as leverage.

[@fahey6797]

I have found many, many women flirting are not interested in dating but are rather looking for a self-ego boost or attention seeking. So much so has this been my experience that I connect a woman smiling at me as manipulation and automatically respond with indifference.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Well, somethings Gotta give because otherwise you’ll never talk to women or flirt with them and I can assure you that you are not talking about all women.

[@StuJones-gn7te]

I flirt back but I don't bother trying to get dates.

[@Shroudedleaves]

I've noticed this too. Modern women are crayyyy crayyyyy

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Shroudedleaves yes, let’s just label an entire gender as something you have experienced a few times. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Shroudedleaves]

@@CoffeewithCarey You're right. I should have said "most" modern women. You don't see crazy

[@abj99861]

Coffee shop, that’s a myth. Everyone is on their laptop or sitting with earbuds in. I find the cat food isle in the supermarket to be interesting. One thing we ‘cat lovers’ enjoy is talking about our cats and if time permits show pics.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Hahahhaha

[@mickeyaugrec7560]

Nope - coffee shops work. It's not a Serengeti safari, of course, but I have dated women I've randomly met in a coffee shop. Gotta Read The Room, advance a conversation if it comes up, be open.

[@DebraFlower]

Very useful for women to meet men too.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Riiight!! 👍

[@lhmccool67]

Yes! As a woman interested in men, I watched so I would know where you're advising men to look. 😊 Unfortunately, I think I'm going to have to brave the dating apps while continuing to keep an open mind at the other places. Yikes.🫣😁

[@hump1953]

I really liked this video… I meet a lot of woman at the supper club I regularly frequent….

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Perfect!!!

[@truthbetold6496]

I am 51 and i still get hit on, i am 6 feet and pretty big since been training for many years now, there is no prefect place to meet, last week i went to get a tooth repaired and the dental hygienist ask me out for a drink. I get aborded at the grocery store from time to time and the women look really good, i got ask on a date by a Walmart cashier still trying to figure that one out. But for some odd reason i failed online dating miserably and got rejected by the worse below average women.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

You must be better in 3-D! ;-)

[@StuJones-gn7te]

No woman has ever asked me out, though when I was young and cute I got propositioned by a few (and a shocking number of men!).

[@KpxUrz5745]

Congratulations if you are able to somehow naturally attract women who will take the first step! (Shocking, in my experience!). Ok look, I am tall, have certainly been called good looking, highly educated and successful, in fact extremely wealthy, also very artistically talented, and a number of other seemingly positive "qualifications". Yet, I never, I mean EVER... am approached by any women, not even a checkout girl, and never see even the slightest glimmer of notice or interest from women. Therefore, when I hear stories like this, I honestly find them hard to believe. In my life's experience, if a man is to EVER develop any kind of relationship, he has to deliberately work at it, and this is not easy for an intelligent introspective well-read sort of fellow. Not easy! The few times I have attempted a "cold approach" sort of effort have met with zero interest. I think the only way to ever date a woman is to somehow KNOW her ahead of time, already have some shared interest. That was sure a lot more possible back in college.. not now.

[@bobmoore6248]

Fun podcast. Here’s a fact I learned going to the gym pretty much daily. I stop a say have a quick chat with some of the women I see daily. Have found the more I stop and talk with them. the more other women will stop and say hi. It is fun. I used to go hiking with I called it the “old lady church hiking group “. After many years I asked the leader why she always made a point of inviting me. Her response was funny but true. She said we always knew you were armed and would protect us. Meeting other s is where you are. Always smile try to look nice.

[@josephschuster1494]

Another excellent video, Coach Carey! 🤣 Lots of great ideas to try out, as they all look workable. 🍮

[@CoffeewithCarey]

☕️☕️😵‍💫

[@walterfoyt5985]

There are a few places I would add. The first is museum. While all museum are great, art museum are the best. You can always start a conversation about a painting. It also gives you a chance to put your art history class to use. I think nightclubs that are great, especially clubs that have dancing. I love to dance and have found that women love to dance. I’ve been to clubs and have women picking me up. Women love a man that can dance.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

glad you have found some great places that work for you!

[@mickeyaugrec7560]

Love these! In particular, #10 is the large print: Great reminder to be open, essentially contented and [sort o'] happy, present in the moment. As always, Thanks Carey!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Love that you love it! 🤎

[@Geone1800]

I wouldn't be comfortable chatting to someone in a shopping area or on a train some folks think it's freakish!! but I understand where she is coming but there is only small percentage of it working , meet up groups sounds interesting that's certainly a possibility worth exploring. work is no no I wouldn't try it but might work for some mix pleasure with work life..volunteering not sure about that..Good clip and advice though but I'm skeptical on some of them working through.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

People have obviously met dated and married in all of these situations. According to a recent Forbes survey, 43% of respondents have married a former or current coworker, which is double the likelihood of meeting a spouse through a dating app. But I am certain that if a you think it is not for you, then it is not. 👍

[@cranegantry868]

Worst places to meet women? China, Thailand, Philippines etc., Bars, pubs. Best places? Through friends, at weddings and other family events, at or through work, at church, at social events.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the matter!

[@oldnatty61]

Meetup groups👍 Start your own or become a host. This gives you a perceived perception of authority which really takes the pressure off. People will approach you.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I definitely agree with this. For years, I’ve been telling clients if there are not groups that intrigue them in their area that they should just start their own based on their own personal interests great way to meet people.

[@hump1953]

I meet women at the gym while I walk the track for an hour or so… the woman are approachable, checking out the scene themselves and say Hi 👋!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

If they are initiating conversation and enjoying the company… 👍🤎

[@StuJones-gn7te]

I see a woman at the gym about once a month.or so. Usually, I'm the only person there.

[@billlohan5079]

Walking a dog ?automatic icebreaker

[@CoffeewithCarey]

For sure! 🤎👍

[@koshka02]

None of this matters though if the man doesn't initiate first. If the man doesn't approach first. If the man doesn't try and carry a conversation for the first 5 minutes.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yes, Most women. It depends on age and the woman, obviously, but many expect men to approach them if they are not yet acquainted. Yup. Make sure you are subscribed. This will be an upcoming episode…

[@jackpoage5419]

I live near a railtrail and walk and cycle on it frequently. Great place to meet worthwhile women. After a few months of just passing-by "hellos" with one that appeals to me and I have never seen a man with I initiate a conversation and they often last a half hour. One thing we already have in common is casual outdoor recreation. I also try hard not to seem creepy or be a nuisance. I have never had one deflect my attention to her. It is surprising how many of them are married and say their husbands would rather be couch potatoes and won't accompany them.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I think it’s great that they are pursuing their own interest without their partner. I think everybody needs to continue doing that once they have coupled. Too many people give up things they enjoy just because the other person isn’t into it. Keep your individuality! Also… I have no idea what a rail trail is

[@jackpoage5419]

@@CoffeewithCarey A stretch of abandoned railroad that has been converted into a walking and cycling trail. Like a long linear park. Most are along rivers.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@ ahhhhh! Thanks for the education! 🤎👍

[@joshkaye5303]

I think we need a 'script' type of video with ways to converse beyond an initial attention grab or hello - something that is a sure fire method to get things flowing....

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I will think about this, Josh, but hello, really is so sincere and works most of the time. It does not come off as cheesy and women seem amenable to conversing beyond that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@mickeyaugrec7560]

A script??? Cannot help thinking most reasonably savvy women would detect a guy running a 'script' quickly, and probably find it annoying or worse. At least write your own script....

[@kwc7391]

I am 72 years old, and I have ran out of ideas to find women that I find attractive. I believe I am attractive, very healthy, and to actively doing sports, not watching sports, and slender.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yeah, I don’t know where and how often you are putting yourself in places where you will meet new women.

[@lalaheart76]

Would you please do one for women where to find men ?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I just told you where men will be looking for you, go there! 😂 …and I already have made that episode. 👍

[@GojuBrady]

How about the local bingo hall?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

if you will enjoy that, go do that!

[@matthewgroff433]

When I was younger my parents and I would go to bingo a lot, usually 2 tines a week, sometimes 3 times a week. Most people at the bingo hall are older ladies and some older men, most are married. There were some people in their 30's and 40's and even some teens and young children of those married ones who either couldn't get a babysitter or couldn't leave the child home alone or didn't want to leave the child home alone until the other parent or a grandparent would come home from work. But yes there were some single people at the Bingo hall, most were NOT looking to meet a guy/girl to date. They were more interested in playing BINGO!! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 There are the exceptions though, but few and far between!

[@mmoly-cj4bd]

I was told the best place to meet women is in the Philippines.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

It’s definitely the best place to meet Filipino women!

[@Skidderoperator]

Filipinos get no SSI. They need income for their extended family.

[@dippin1523]

sounds about right

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🙏

[@robertvarner9519]

Kind of like how do you find "Dark Matter" in the Universe. 👍👍☕☕

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Women should be much more interactive than dark matter!

[@robertvarner9519]

@@CoffeewithCarey Yes! I think you learned about some problems in modern physics. Excellent!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@robertvarner9519 Lol

[@StuJones-gn7te]

Dark matter is everywhere. In fsct, you and I are dark matter.

[@Skidderoperator]

Visible universe is a tiny sliver of creation.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Meeting women at fitness classes can be so much more genuine than at bars. Anyone else found success in unexpected places? Let’s hear those stories!*

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🍷🏋️🍷

[@michaeljohnson5365]

43 year old virgin here Carey

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I saw your movie. ;) but seriously there’s no timeline or deadline on these things.

[@ssiegreen5292]

Hahaha! In the men's room... Do I have a funny and slightly embarrassing story to tell about that one...

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Ahhahaha. The ladies room has the skirted figure on the door! ;)

[@ssiegreen5292]

@@CoffeewithCarey LOL - not when they are remodeling and turn the old lady's room into the new men's room, and you're going by habit because you're not paying attention, LOL. And what was worse, was there was nobody in it when I went in, so I didn't catch on until I was leaving it and a bunch of guys were just about to go in, ROFL. Oh the good ole days...

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@ssiegreen5292 hahaha. I have found that they are a desperate/filthy option when the line for the ladies room is too long! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@hump1953]

@@ssiegreen5292 I’m shocked by the un lady like conduct …

[@ssiegreen5292]

@@hump1953 😆 ... Those were my wild days, before I turned into a goody2shoes 😉

[@JackLopez-e9k]

Farmer's markets?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Hell yeah!

[@Skidderoperator]

Charity events

[@LenSheppard-sc2vw]

My opinion only: never at work!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Respect. But have you seen that episode?

[@leonardcasteel6617]

What the eff are you talking about. The only women I get to talk to are either married or definitely not looking for another partner!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Get to talk to? 🤔

[@nataliacaetano7242]

I’ve been single almost 15 years. Men don’t approach and speak to me.

[@StuJones-gn7te]

I see and hear this "men don't approach me" line all the time. Usually, its because women don't notice most men, regardless of what they say or do. Of course, it isn't just limited to women. I've only recently noticed how many women flirt with me regularly. It'd be virtually impossible to live modern life without ever talking b with men or women. Even a guy in a store asking where something is or giving unsoliticited advice could be an "approach" or attempt to flirt. One bit of advice we used to give in the Army: be aware of your surroundings.

[@pennypaterson8000]

Gee, maybe its your attitude ....

[@leonardcasteel6617]

@@pennypaterson8000 Possibly, but maybe men women willingness to engage in conversations are different when over 65. I have read that between 10%-30% of women over 65 are open to another partner. Or it could be that I have not had a girlfriend. That seems to be an enormous red flag.Or that I am trying to connect with people after a lifetime suffering from multiple traumas. I am becoming the person I should have been, but it does not count.

[@azmike3572]

Tried a lot of similar places. All the women I met were there for that particular event, not to meet a man--all of them were already dating someone. Much wasted time.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Of course they were there for a particular purpose. 😀 Your job is to figure out interesting ways to introduce yourself and ask if they are single or seeing someone. Unless it’s a speed dating event or singles mixer that’s going to be the case… everywhere in the world.

[@azmike3572]

@@CoffeewithCarey Thanks for your response. It was so much easier when we went to the nightclubs Friday nights in our 20s and 30s, where almost everyone there was single, available, and looking.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@azmike3572 going out to hear live music or dance is still a great place to meet singles. It’s just that now that we are older I t’s harder to tell who’s single. so yes, absolutely. those were the days when everyone our age was single! Hahah

[@azmike3572]

@@CoffeewithCarey Wouldn't it be nice if people wore small green buttons on their lapel, signifying they're available and that it's OK to approach them! 🙂

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@azmike3572 sometimes people wear a sign that says free hugs! 😂 so like that!

[@MaveRick-prepper]

I will be trying one thing at the Renaissance fair that is something that only I can use. I can approach a woman and casually mention that my uncle Leonardo invented the Renaissance back in the late 1400's. I had my DNA tested and it goes back to the family of Leonardo DaVinci. My whole life actually mirrors the life of Leonardo DaVinci. I have all his talents and interests along with his physical and mental traits. I'm very much interested in passing my DNA along to my offspring and give them a much better start in life than I had.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

What a cool story.

[@markbrown4211]

@@MaveRick-prepper To bring your expansive rhetoric back down to earth, an Italian scholar revealed in a PBS program I saw a few months ago, that Leonardo DaVinci was GAY; so you might be descended from one of his cousins or siblings, but not directly from him.

[@stevethompson8171]

They are in the "men's" room too, now.

[@stevethompson8171]

How ever they are even less approachable, not that I would want to. The ones I have encountered made me feel as if I was intruding on their space.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Urinals?

[@stevethompson8171]

@@CoffeewithCarey Coming out of the stalls.

[@StuJones-gn7te]

I'm not sure those are actually women who actually believe they are women.

[@Skidderoperator]

Women with hairy balls

[@mackelly4581]

You’re great 😊

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Wow. Thanks!

[@markblackhurst6925]

Spent hundreds of pounds on dating apps over the last few years and never had a single match. Not a single one. Only had 'likes' for a few women over the age of 70. So yeah, Dating apps are a complete waste of time.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

How many did you try.? Just curious.

[@markblackhurst6925]

@@CoffeewithCarey 6

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@markblackhurst6925 well then I think it’s fair to assume you’ve given it a go. Dating apps aren’t for everybody. There are some of us who just do much better connecting with others in the wild. Have you downloaded my free guide from in my description box below?

[@charliewhite3593]

What about someone not happy married

[@CoffeewithCarey]

What about them?

[@charliewhite3593]

@@CoffeewithCarey do they count in grocery store

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@charliewhite3593 count for what? If they talk to you? If you talk to them? To date? I don’t have no idea what you’re asking me. All I can say is practice is practice. Talk to everyone!

[@charliewhite3593]

@@CoffeewithCarey wow u know us men married or single we love to flirt lol

[@charliewhite3593]

@@CoffeewithCarey I love what u stand for 👍

[@جمالسالم-ه4و]

How can I get single woman from canada?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Live in Canada and date there? Is there a punchline?

[@charliewhite3593]

Married women do the same thing

[@jhartman8591]

the bar?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤔😂

[@Skidderoperator]

304 zone

[@Weasel_Meat]

Martial Arts Class... um maybe not. There are no women in my classes. And those that are in the class occasionally, well, let's just say I'd be barking up the wrong tree.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

One of my current clients is dating a woman from his Akido class. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@patrickstar1439]

Target store wine isle.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I’ll trust you on this.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I would’ve said candles

[@TheKCaryer]

Where to find single women? What type of question is that. They are every where … hard to avoid them

[@CoffeewithCarey]

If that’s the case, I can’t even imagine what you’re doing here. Most singles need to make a concerted effort to put themselves in situations where other singles who are looking for partnership might also be found. If single attractive women are as common as cicadas for you , I would think you shouldn’t have time for my silly advice you should instead be focusing and paying close attention so that you don’t bump into, step on, or squish one by accident out there!

[@dang3343]

Church

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Fosho!

[@StuJones-gn7te]

Bad choice. If you meet someone at church and things don't go well, church will become uncomfortable. The rule about not crapping where you eat applies here. Same rule if you have a favorite restaurant, bar, grocery store, etc. Never date or try to date anyone you cannot avoid seeing in your day to day life. OR be prepared to alter your routines in the event of a split or possible jealousy between 2 or more such people.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@StuJones-gn7te or just live with being slightly uncomfortable in one place in the world. Whoever said you’re supposed to be comfortable all the time? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Mr_Kenneth]

Buy a cute puppy. Seemed to work out great for Jeff Daniels and Pongo. They both emded up with hotties

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Adopt don’t shop!!

[@ronfesta771]

Me thinketh these days., possibly even in............the men's room!@!?🤪🤑😅😅😅

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Whatever floats your boat. I’ve definitely made female friends in the ladies room.

[@contracthit9839]

Foreign countries are the place to meet women....!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Every country is a foreign country to the people who don’t live there.

[@StuJones-gn7te]

Expensive and time consuming. And for the most part, people are the same everywhere.

[@contracthit9839]

How ridiculous.... American women are the twelfth most overweight women in the world foreign women don't have the obesity.Typical jealous American women

[@contracthit9839]

@@StuJones-gn7te It's obvious you have little world travel experience..

[@StuJones-gn7te]

@contracthit3839 - I've only been to 10 countries and stayed in 4 for more than a month at a time, so you're probably right. Online info suggests that.low cost flights to Europe run around $1000. Of course women in Europe prob not your ideal. Same sources say to the Philippines run $500-1500. It takes about 5-6 hours to fly to Europe from anywhere near the us east coast and takes about 16 hours to fly to the Philippines. Not time consuming at all? 10-12 hour round trip, day and a half round trip.

[@KpxUrz5745]

It's funny. I came across this channel other day. Thought I would watch more and see if there is ANYTHING I can agree with here (because so far I found none). Guess what? Now I see that this channel is monetized in a way that prevents even watching!!! I refuse to sit and watch VERY LONG advertisements before ever reaching the actual video! Nope. Not gonna do it!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I’ve never watched a video on KZbin without having to watch 5 Seconds of an ad. So I don’t know what you’re talking about. KZbin controls that not the creator.

[@KpxUrz5745]

@@CoffeewithCarey It's not a 5-second ad. It goes on for at least 2 full minutes.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@KpxUrz5745 with no skip button? That is customized for the viewer by KZbin. Not me.

[@KpxUrz5745]

@@CoffeewithCarey Ok, thanks for the reply. I see this happening more and more on youtube, which means I am watching less and less. They are placing an onerous burden on the viewers and only boycotting it may slow down that practice.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@KpxUrz5745 Ya gotta do what you gotta do. Good luck in finding a channel that appeals to you and isn’t monetized! 👍

[@JC-gw3yo]

BS on dating apps.. the rest of what she says is a load of crap

[@CoffeewithCarey]

40% of couples who got together this year (2024) will have met on a dating app. I have a pretty impressive résumé. What gives you credibility to call anything here a load of crap?

[@duncanmcdane388]

And the follow up video: Single women and how to avoid those predators 😄.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

#ListenToYourGutInstincts

[@donnacornette5200]

What is your name

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤯

[@mackelly4581]

😅😅😅 He’s about as sharp as a bowling ball.

[@ccjjock4002]

NO PLACE IS, GOOD TO MEET WOMEN BECAUSE A GOOD MAN WITH COMMON SENSE WILL BE AND STAY AND MANIPULATIVE AND UNSCRUPULOUS WOMEN PREY ON GOOD MEN.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Awwww.

[@knightourage7441]

You are spitting on viewres face lady

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Weird that you’re the only one who thinks so

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤤

[@thewanderingpatriot]

Who cares? No thanks.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

You do. You just watched a video and left a comment.

[@jordanbetteridge1598]

Terrible advice.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I thanks for sharing your opinion, but this is not advice. This is just my opinion.

[@thelonewolf2288]

We men know where to find a lot of single women ... at the 'Finish Line' looking for cash and prizes while they continue looking for what they REALLY want ... 'The Bad Boys'. I've seen it for decades. Oh I'm sorry, we men aren't supposed to figure that out.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Sorry, I have no idea what you’re talking about.

[@thelonewolf2288]

@@CoffeewithCarey Don’t worry, we men do.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@thelonewolf2288 my point is a professional matchmaker and dating coach with over a dozen years of experience speaking to thousands of singles cannot relate to your insinuations. 🤷🏻‍♀️ but respects your right to your chosen perception.

[@thelonewolf2288]

@@CoffeewithCarey Seriously ? You don’t know what virtually every man knows that women only see or desire the top 10%-5% of men ? If they aren’t over 6 ft tall, have a six pack, make high 6 figure income, have a degree, have over 6 inches below the belt … you are invisible to the vast majority of women. Tell me I’m wrong. The average man is totally invisible to 80% of women. Most women are completely delusional and unrealistic especially when they are younger about men and actual ‘reality’. It’s ’The Disney Princess Syndrome’. I’m a single man. I’ve dated women for decades. I was fortunate, I had a very successful career in Film, TV and the Music Industry in Hollywood for over 40 years. I never had issues that many men have in dating because, I still have what they want. But trust me, I could write books on all the insanity I could tell you about dating and women in Hollywood especially. Women who you know of in film, TV and in Music. In fact, I probably could start a completely new career just talking about it. I was smart, I never married. I still have all my wealth, sanity and resources because, I don’t have 3 or 4 ex-wives and zero child support. But OMG, do I have male friends that do. Oh, and please don’t even get me started on Cultural Marxist Feminism that is absolutely destroying society. Virtually every woman I meet is to some degree infested with it making them horrible to be around. Trust me, men are DONE with most modern women in the western world. That is why so many men are going over seas to find more traditional women. I too have considered it as well. I’m sure you have heard of ‘The Passport Bros ‘ ? I could write a book here on just my experiences with dating crazy, delusional, narcissistic, greedy, devious, militant, super aggressive status seekers, materialistic gold diggers etc. But still, I absolutely love women but, I learned the nature of women many years ago. My closest friends are all women for many years. Men didn’t change - women did. But, women want to blame men because, most women absolutely hate accountability. It’s much easier to just blame men for everything that goes wrong in society never daring to look in the mirror. That certainly does not mean there are not fabulous women there absolutely are but, I have found they are very rare just like really high quality men are very rare. But, it’s a very complex issue and our society is collapsing as you realize. There are many factors but, I can tell you the primary cause here in America is Cultural Marxism or ‘Wokeness’, has driven a wedge between men and women that grows every day. As they say … GO WOKE - GO BROKE. Men are usually more conservative than women. We did not have Socialism in America until women had the right to vote. That is a historical fact. Communism wants to turn men into women, and women into men to destroy society. You are a woman, do you like weak feminine and passive men ? I seriously doubt it. Sorry, I could go on for hours because, this subject is so complex and vast it requires many hours of conversation.

[@fahey6797]

@@CoffeewithCarey , If you're only seeing things from a woman's perspective, I understand your confusion as women have a natural aversion to being honest about/recognize their true nature. When the gentleman refers to the "finish line", he's talking about a man's success. Women, especially over 30, are primarily interested in a walking ATM machine. Women seek to date up or at worst, across, never down. A man wants to be wanted for who he is, not for what he has. A man of means has no qualms about dating the cute check-out girl at Home Depot for a possible mate. In contrast, the professional RN, who's not over 350lbs, is not going give the store's security guard the time of day. Male groups/channels, through sharing their collective experiences, have unraveled what was once thought of as the unknown mystery: female nature. Once you have that knowledge as a man, it's enlightening but bitter and sometimes I wish I hadn't sought out the truth of it. When the gentlemen refers to "The Bad Boy's" he's speaking of men whom women complain about the most, yet are in competition with each other for those men. Studies on dating apps show the top 10% percent of men are passing back and forth 80% of the available women who don't seem to mind sharing these men. These men have the reputation of being "jerks." The type of men women say they want: Hold's open doors, considerate, predictable ect, women find these men boring, but may eventually settle for this type of man as a retirement plan as they age-out and have little hope of attracting/locking-down a "Bad Boy."