He made his choices as an adult and has to live with it! I wouldn't go back
@NessaEllenesse8 ай бұрын
My sister and my father had a falling out. Neither of them hold a grudge against the other, but the trust is gone. Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to let the person back in your life.
@terisoto82308 ай бұрын
Any parent who picks a step-child over their real child deserves nothing . And does not deserve any happiness.
@aprilkerchner9728 ай бұрын
OP I'm glad your dad found out the truth but I would keep him at arm length because for year's he treated you like crap accused you of being jealous called you a thief kicked you out on the streets and took your car!! Please watch out for him because the next woman may have a worse child!!
@dianafrazier28308 ай бұрын
What kind of a father who raised his daughter all her life would take the word of someone he'd only known a few years? Shame. OP was just too easily accepted his apology, as if nothing had happened. 😻🤔😻
@KR912018 ай бұрын
An absolute moron.
@robertx80208 ай бұрын
Richt? I would not be that fast but I don't know how their relation is ...
@laurie26498 ай бұрын
I am so SHOCKED that OP's Dad wouldn't even listen to his daughter and NOT believe her side of things. She obviously has her Mother's heart, when forgiving her Father. I don't know if I, personally, could do that. Maybe forgive, BUT, NEVER FORGET. That, as a daughter would be so soul crushing to me if my Dad would not believe me. UGGHHH! OP.....I hope you and your Dad get counseling for this, because, I know I would need it.
@antoinettebates2448 ай бұрын
OP...You got used and your father believed her. 1:26 Walk Away.. Live Well..and never help any of them again!! You need your cell phone to record everything!!
@daishawilliams83018 ай бұрын
Op I wouldn't forgive your father because he was so quick to believe your evil stepsister😮.
@Msbellared8 ай бұрын
Why in every step family story is ALWAYS a shitty bio father who is never held accountable for they stupidity?
@RCMN-20248 ай бұрын
And severely mistreated OP himself, at the minimum, emotionally neglecting her for years
@laurie26498 ай бұрын
HEATBREAKING! How do you not listen to your own daughter's concerns? UGGH! I don't think I could forgive my Father.
@angelicakaufman71838 ай бұрын
Who just willy-nilly brings 30 grand home and doesn't secure it
@shells500tutubo8 ай бұрын
And did he ever get it back?
@NPRYRS3 ай бұрын
Amazing how ppl think with the wrong part and dog their biological children 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾💯‼️❗I bet he doesn't press charges for the $20000 he accused his daughter of stealing 😡
@Danarchy38 ай бұрын
Ive said it in so many vodeos. Forgiveness isnt just for the one being forgiven but also the one doing the forgiving. Im glad OP forgave her dad. Although i dont know if i would have been so quick to put the past behind me. In fact i had a si.ilar situation with my father who came down hard on me for any little thing but gave my thieving drug addict brother so many chances and opportunities he never gave me.
@perfectlyimperfect91298 ай бұрын
SHAME ON YOUR DAD !!😥🤬 I was always a daddy's girl and unfortunately he's had many girlfriends throughout my life, I know exactly how you feel. It's hard to forgive but if you do do it for yourself not for him!! From the way he treated you he does not deserve your forgiveness. 10:52 I don't understand why if you knew she was out to sabotage you. You didn't make sure you got all evidence possible against her !! 18:29 Wait your mom died and you never saw your dad cry 25:45 Yeah , it's really weird that the first thing he did when he thought you took money from him was kick you out his actual daughter!! Meanwhile in the end he finds out what the devil daughter and Her mother did and they still get to live in his house ?! You can do whatever you want to. But I don't even understand why you don't seel You're still being disrespected by your father!!!
@hvymax8 ай бұрын
Tell Dad to make it up in the will
@hvymax8 ай бұрын
OP was easy prey
@Zminator19868 ай бұрын
What is it with these parents who value their step child and ignore their real children? After hearing the story: OP is far too forgiving to her father. She tried to tell her father what kind of a person his precious stepdaughter is, but not once did he believe her. Hell, he still doesn't believe her. Why do i say this? It took his damn wife to admit the truth. Well i hope the knowledge of how crappy of a father and him being cheated on nearly their entire relationship will haunt him.
@Dreamerlighting8 ай бұрын
It gets me so mad 😡
@karinasamaniego87658 ай бұрын
I wouldn't have even answered my dad's call. And if I finally did, I would tell him I forgive him but he is now dead to me. Even after he was worried about what can happen when steps come in, he STILL chose them over his daughter. Men don't think with their brains when it comes to women.
@robertx80208 ай бұрын
It's the standard "love the new family and ignore the 'old' one" Dad is a POS! Sure he was lied to but he didn't even TRY to find the truth ..he just took the word of the 'golden stepdaughter' for it AH ..OP should kick him into a home when he gets old and take his money
@DaWhiteWolffie8 ай бұрын
Stepsis sounds like a dangerous psycho. Her own mother is afraid of her!
@yahainHotPink8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@listener7098 ай бұрын
Many people wouldn't forgive I would if someone shows deep regret
@susanmcpeak72678 ай бұрын
I would have told step-sis "I have 30,000 reasons not to talk to you"
@DeeDeeMee-vf2xc8 ай бұрын
OP's father is a jerk. How did he believe his own daughter over his wife & step daughter. I wouldn't forgive him so easily & definitely wouldn't let him have a relationship with future grandchildren. He has shown that he can't be trusted & anyone can come between the relationship with his daughter. He would be low contact for me.
@C-SD8 ай бұрын
Its up to her whether or not she wants to rebuild the relationship, but there's just no way I would have any more than a superficial one. He destroyed 2 years of her life, and put her in the position of losing her education. Now they've screwed him over, and he wants to run back to his daughter for help when he punished her instead of helping her. That's not remorse, he just realized he was in the "fo" part of "fafo".
@tyffanypoudrier66108 ай бұрын
she manipulated her stepfather, and her mother didn’t help her mother didn’t tell the truth, but OP I’m glad she forgot her father, because he realized the end that she was manipulating brat. Now they could have the rest of their days in peace. Hopefully their father lives long life.❤
@LaviniaKing-hz9ue8 ай бұрын
--- OP don't forgive your dad, pack your bags and move far away from the drama and disappointment.
@ComeliaO78 ай бұрын
To say she understands her dad said was ehh. that was a hell no for me. You understand it to an extent. I mean like when she said her and Daddy were just laying on the couch watching TV and she comes over there and says hey, can take me to the store. He was doing it to be nice while the stepdaughter was doing it to disturb their peace. But when she started breaking and stealing, and Daddy was taking the step daughter side, no question. That’s where daddy royally fucked up.
@redconvoy8 ай бұрын
Is the father sleeping with his step daughter?! This is too unusual.
@cherief9268 ай бұрын
🎉🎉
@mikeshin277 ай бұрын
About this whole inheritance thing,I don’t understand why people tells their family about it. I mean,don’t make it some kind of must have thing,its just something that u leaves after u died,if lucky u got a lot if not,not at all..thats it..telling it beforehand can only turns the family relationship worsen and only backstabbing each other…for me…it doesn’t makes you in peace just because u tell your family beforehand…before we die,we need the most people we love and trust next beside us.
@arthurhuddleston89498 ай бұрын
Well I know what she feels like I have people around me and my dad believe them so I don't know what she's going through but my dad never did apologize to me.
@emily.letsendbslintheuk5548 ай бұрын
It's so easy for people to tell OP to ignore her dad and never accept his apology, life isn't that black and white especially if the parent who turned their back is your only parent that's left. Personally id talk to the Dad and explain that your willing to talk to him but accepting him back will be a slow process. I had a big falling out with my dad and we didn't speak for over 4 years, it wasn't till I was in the hospital in a very bad condition did my dad one day turn up to visit me (this in itself was a huge step as he hates hospitals and it takes alot for him to go to one, even when he had a suspected heart attack he was out before the drs could tell him his rest results 🙄) it took us a while to get close again but now we see each other when wee can and talk a few times a week at least. Sometimes it takes a bigger person to forgive but just never forget 😊
@joyceheadlam19098 ай бұрын
No, you are not the A Hole. Both of you have been living together for years and you have never stolen from him. Why did he think you would have stolen from him at this stage? Unforgivable
@caseydemmings6666Ай бұрын
Reading the tittle and wondering how is a two year old going frame somebody
@black-wizard-zeref8 ай бұрын
I wouldn't forgive him. But i also wanna know if he threw the step mum n step sister out n disown them removing them from the Will 19:59 yea, the excuses wouldn't work ur kid tmyet didnt trust op at all.
@bonniebloom49538 ай бұрын
I wouldn't put 20 or 30 grand in a home safe and trust that nobody could ever figure the combination. Especially brand new people you don't even know!!!!! And to throw your own daughter out as college was new to her. AND take the poor girls car too. But OP survived didn't she? Step-mom is a bad person, cheater, liar and thief. BUT!!!!, her private bedroom skills must be A+ for daddy to kick OP out. Hell he was probably doing both of them. AND leaving a sticky note with the safe combination on the door.
@timothyweers80548 ай бұрын
Christine is a very toxic person. She learned how to manipulate people so to make a bond with OP's father. It is amazing how some people can press buttons to get their way like that. It is almost like being hypnotized. Christine's mom condoned her daughter's actions until it was almost too late. Growing up, my grandmother told me her story how she met and married my grandfather. You would swear it was taken out of a storyline of a soap opera. She had 3 suitors, each one engaged to, she eventually decided on one by performing ennie minne miny mo on the engagement rings. It took three runs and when she decided, invited the two who she didn't choose to her wedding. Surprisingly, they showed up not sure how a fight didn't break out but was a real roller-coaster of a tale.
@lajoycestewart75288 ай бұрын
🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@nimisilverbird12398 ай бұрын
You should have reported the car stolen. The father is sleeping with the stepdaughter
@vanderncalmus11606 ай бұрын
I'll say it now. As someone who was adopted I am disgusted by the closed minded mentality displayed in some of these comments. I mean "Any parent who picks a step-child over their "real" child doesn't deserve happiness"? Really? Blood may be thicker than water but at the end of the day it's ultimately worthless. I don't consider the scum who brought me into the world only to leave me to rot to be my family any more than I'd consider a sperm donor or an incubator to be my family. A real family are the people who love, care for, and when necessary discipline you. They are the ones who actually care for you and you don't need to share something as inconsequential as blood to care about someone. This fathers only failing is that he chose to believe one child while neglecting his duty as a parent to at least hear the other child out. That's all there is to it. Blood is irrelevant because it's ultimately meaningless. Never prioritize one child over another especially because of something as worthless as blood. Love and care for your children equally regardless of blood, success, or personal achievements. Otherwise the child you neglect will be the person who will never forgive you for your neglect.
@nimisilverbird12398 ай бұрын
Nta. Your father doesn't deserve forgiveness. There is no way the argument was mild. The steps sound like sleazy golddiggers.
@nimisilverbird12398 ай бұрын
He thinks a little crying and some phone calls make up for what he did. He needs to do more. He needs to try harder. Also where was the 20k op supposedly stole. I mean he did say take the money and go. So she should have been given at least 20k. Also you dont have to treat one like crap in order to make a others feel good. If you do that person has issues that not even time magazine can cover
@mjshaheed8 ай бұрын
Why is he always coming up with untrue stories about his family? How many brothers and sister does he have? 🤔
@MizzShortai8 ай бұрын
I wouldnt forgive the dad. He chose kristina over his own kid who zero proof. Hes a POS and doesnt deserve forgiveness. Like come on. You knew who your kid was and yet believed the worst of her because of something someone said. Again with zero proof. Dad should have said consider the $30,000 you stole all the inheritance youll get from me.
@sturgis67778 ай бұрын
OP only reconciled with her father because she wants the inheritance.
@joshuasmith19068 ай бұрын
And you know this how
@sturgis67778 ай бұрын
@@joshuasmith1906 I don't know for sure as this is a fabricated story written for entertainment purposes so I will be sure to apologize to these fictional people for my assumptions.
@vesla2668 ай бұрын
OP I think you need to try to see that your father was brainwashed by your stepmother and stepsister. Those 2 did a good job doing the brainwashing, they knew exactly what they did. Best wishes for you OP and your father ❤️🤗☺️ I am so happy for you OP and your father ❤️🌞☺️