3 Crimes a Narcissist Commits out of their Jealousy for You

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@direstraights]

They're ..yes Competitive.... my brother I think married a worse Narcissist. Not sure, but, how much does the other Family members get conditioned...even using same insensitivities etc.. or we get ill losing all our energy in the room with them for 5 minutes blame others..complain about ...they want you present but we can't satisfy them just being ourselves..it's sad. Also, I always question myself always first almost too much so .. omg

[@direstraights]

Omg The Children ..yes... They're interrupted by the NARC in their growth and development.

[@direstraights]

Danish, Have you been very watched the Movie "Gas Light" Film Noir if not ...please do. Omg

[@susanjones8489]

My older sister orchestrated the estrangement between family members, going so far as to try to arrange a false arrest, and implant fake memories of child sex abuse that never happened. These people are truly driven by their jealousy and need to destroy. Sadly, they influence.

[@Goofygoose494]

​@@susanjones8489 absolutely... Saw friends wife do same. And appears his sister was in the middle to

[@marilynschmidt6400]

Jealousy is like cancer to the body.

[@cheryldee95]

Narcissists are jealous of their own children. From the moment of the child’s birth, you can feel the disconnect in them, and you know it is built upon their resentment that the child is taking all of your time and attention (because it is a wholly dependent infant) and the narcissist is angry, because that time and attention…used to be for them, alone. So, instead of embracing the ‘family unit’ - like a normal person would instinctively do…the narcissist creates a huge divide - between you and the children (on one side of the ravine) and the (supposedly ‘neglected’) narcissist, on the other. They will spend more time trying to ‘take you away’ from the children, than they will ever spend planning fun ‘family outings’. Eventually, you will drift so far apart, there is nothing left to hold on to. And when you finally file for divorce from this person (which is inevitable) they will either try to turn the children against you, or…they will suddenly make spending time with the child, a huge priority in their life. Not because they actually want to spend time with the children, but because they want the children to NOT be able to spend time with you. Everything they do is passive aggressively vindictive and with a definite agenda to hurt you. Your best defence…is to ignore their game. Eventually, they will grow tired of trying to hurt you, when your complete ‘lack of reaction’…it is offering them no satisfaction whatsoever. Let them focus on their next victim, and be glad that this overgrown child is not yours to try to placate any longer.

[@martinmajewski27]

My father always wanted to own what I owned. It came to a situation where he decided to take my belongings. This situation required police activity and a lawsuit because I couldn't take my stuff during the move out from the house. He started to act like a retired person; even the police were surprised by the situation. He was so sure of his rights that he started to threaten the police officer. These are crazy entities, they are delusional. All of this was done to break me and do harm to my life energy. He was definitely afraid of losing control over me and my finances. The issue is that till the end you cant belive this is really happening, you are looking for some solutions other then Police, or lawsuit. I nmy situation there was no chance to talk to this person 9I noticed that he was even happy to see me in pain and frustration).

[@damian4402]

No, your best defense is to gather evidence against them and put them in jail. Many of them won't get tired of trying to hurt you when you will ignore them. They will provoke even further to get a reaction, they will stalk on you, do a smear campaign against you to further destroy you and your reputation etc. As for the rest, you're right.

[@Lilylibra]

My own dad was like this. He detested me, never forgave my mum for refusing to have an abortion. He was a sick individual and never spoke to me throughout my childhood.

[@connie9492]

Perfect Description! Thank you! ❤️

[@thefourthwritedjentleman3643]

Currently going through exactly this - it is horrible beyond words

[@Kawaii_X_chan]

Narcissist never realises his mistakes, they are the most cruel and dangerous creatures in this world…

[@rajnibhatia6581]

You never get financial,social,emotional, physical support from them ..... Whether you gave your whole life fully to them ........ They are rotten monstres .......

[@gracegwozdz8185]

Join the crowd and never, ever stay with narc.

[@Gina71954]

Very true

[@SonofGod.23]

They are mentally and emotionally sick.

[@geniousforever9254]

So true, he was always broke, oh...I have my bills to pay. Yes but you want free milk though? I asked. I left that monster, I only need to take my time n get strong n move forward . 😊👍

[@DollyDu_mybest_barbie]

True

[@sushmayen]

They are jealous people but project it on other people.

[@AliciaGuitar]

They dont realize not everyone thinks like them.

[@cazjay017]

Exactly. Spot on.

[@tiffaniesheree]

Exactly

[@samanthawright527]

I’ve noticed this as well- they think other people are jealous of them.

[@danxcastle5200]

The mirror mask that makes us nauseous. It's really a vortex on the four head that appears when you question actions they thought you didn't know they made. They suck, they will absorb you life force with this information regurgitating monitor report. They have been connected by not bonding, Instead of functionality. 😅

[@earnyourimmortality]

They HATE you because you possess qualities that they LOVE & will never have. "Sorry, but I can't apologize for the gifts that I've been naturally blessed with..." -EYI

[@braingamesballsortgame718]

Totally, agree with you.. And they try to steal that from you.. Instead of learning those positive skills from you, they do the reverse technique of reducing the good qualities of you which of course never works. Then, they will begin their evil and sick manipulations to play between relationships and when such pathetic inhumans do not get satisfied with that also, they start smear campaigns against you and also by brainwashing flying monkeys.. These sickos should be left on a separate islands along with their similar companions and this world should be inhabited by only pure souls or atleast normal humans..

[@fbs1131]

My husband is like this, he hate me because of my qualities, he hate me because i was healthy, he reuined my health, now I have health proublem

[@jomansson5742]

​@@theresamarilyn6688 Exactly 💯

[@NatzTalk]

I always told mine wow its like you like me and hate me at the same time. Why do you even talk to me then?!!!!

[@shawnj-o1k]

Btw gods divine creation gifts that only got us abused and lied about by the fake family raped by the fake church and some of us human trafficked by child molestin masons Illuminati for profit evil filth who are the gang stalkers who are lying about the victims while abusing and false projecting

[@jenniferpierce8860]

Slowly poisoned, yes that's what it's like to be around narcissists.

[@EllenBrighton]

So painfully true.

[@wendyhannan2454]

Danish, as usual you’re spot on. I’m just shaking my head in agreement. I can’t believe how alike they all are. I used to say to my narc, you like to see me squirm , he’d never answer. The silent treatment was his weapon, it went on for years. No affection, not even a pat on the shoulder. No encouragement, no praise if I had a good idea, or did something special. Thank you 🙏

[@aMessIam1]

​@@wendyhannan2454you think you are something! I heard from my ex. Yes, i do.

[@terridillon3053]

They are jealous of your humanity and very existence. True!

[@suzetteclarke1709]

True

[@francisfischer7620]

Exactly!

[@sherrymurphy855]

...."everything is a competition" sooo true.

[@MsThe90]

YES

[@NatzTalk]

Yes mine was always tryna one up me!

[@charnitamccarty9870]

This is so sad to know the person I loved the most and would do anything for , would be so wicked towards me! 😢

[@rahilaferoze9099]

I know.. we feel shattered to the core. BUT once the pain subsides, ask yourself: you were in love with a fake image/person they created? Look at the real person, all you'll do then is hate them!

[@danmcdonald8522]

This is the most confusing part of their behavior. These creatures are diabolical sneaky and callous. They torture their own family. Stay away. God bless.

[@mexicansmoothie13]

​@@jbrown2908They do it in so many many ways. Like the scripture says, they walk about looking for who they can devour. They have many demonic attachments. What a tortured existence they are 😮

[@reesedaniel5835]

@@danmcdonald8522 The wicked are estranged from the womb; They go astray as soon as they are born, speaking lies. Their poison is like the poison of a serpent; They are like the deaf cobra that stops its ear, Which will not heed the voice of charmers, Charming ever so skillfully. Psalm 58:3-5 (Description of narcissists aka workers of iniquity and seedline of Cain whose father was the Serpent).

[@nancysanchez2416]

Same😢

[@riddhidharaiya5032]

Jealousy flows with their blood, all the time, throughout their body and mind....and no amount of love and compassion can filter it out ...

[@pearlsdaughter2281]

Excellent description.

[@linaiskander6592]

True, and they get more evil and deceiving when older unless they start getting bad memories therefore people can spot their lies which is what most of their words are about!

[@linaiskander6592]

Sadism too not just jealousy. They love hurting everything good.

[@unpredictableAB-]

I visited an associates house, and called the other narcissist (that person was one too) to tell him what a beautiful home she had. I was yelled at and personally attacked for it. He made up a lie about me accusing me of something that I never did. These people are very jealous, evil to the core, and THEY HATE POSITIVE ENERGY.

[@francesmartel7948]

I didn’t used to believe in this stuff, but I now know they are demonic.

[@michaelgarrow3239]

Both are true.

[@sunnylife7934]

They don’t parent, they counter parent. Bingo!

[@blueStarKitt7924]

Right!

[@kellykajander3115]

yes...i SAW that nut purposely try 2 undo everything the mother worked so hard 2 try 4 her kids...unreal idiots EXAUHST their victims..i don't care if he was married 2 her and sired those kids..they WERE NOT HIS FAMILY THEY WERE HIS VICTIMS

[@foreverlv311]

The jealously is palpable...they just cannot hide that at all! Glad I'm so self aware now☺️

[@Gina71954]

His jealousy caused him to secretly and quietly destroy my stuff around the house,very evil and 😈 and it didn't end there

[@crob8222]

@eugenia9857 He took apart a cradle that I stored in the basement. He knew my plan was to use it for all of my grands. Hey ex narc, remember how you couldn't find that trench coat you admired yourself in? Well I cut that baby up and threw in the outdoor garage can.

[@NatzTalk]

@crob8222 😂😂😂😂

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

And there is no defending yourself !!!

[@bonnielee316]

That’s right because they brainwash you to walk on eggshells around them. The way to defend yourself is to go no contact. Do not tell your plans to them as they will cause fear in you and tell you why leaving them won’t work; remember you’re brainwashed. They hijacked your mind. It does clear though if you can leave. If you can’t leave practice grey rock.

[@jocelineblerot7887]

Nothing is impossible with God. He Always wins in the end. Satan will have his day in court...Trust.

[@David-eu1ms]

Not showing up.

[@blueStarKitt7924]

​@@jocelineblerot7887Amen!

[@victory902]

The question is- how can someone who actually loves someone act this way or treat anyone that way? The answer is- these people are incapable of love. We are better off with these people out of our life. I will no longer allow any free rent in my head.

[@Andypandieful]

I’ve seen them clinch their jaws when jealousy hits them. What we do naturally they do manually.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

Omg, yes!

[@IndianOutlaw1870]

Clench

[@marilynm2434]

I've noticed a scowl comes on their face

[@MsThe90]

My mother would give away everything she knew I wanted to keep(sentimental value)/eat/decorate/cherished/liked/wanted to save for another day. Whenever I resisted she'd come barking at me like a rabid dog and do what she had to do. She has played with my innocent mind, watched me cry and satisfied herself. There is so much that I cannot explain. It's a miracle for me that I'm coming out of it now. I was an idealist in a way, I had such blind faith in my parents. BIG MISTAKE. A Crime against myself. You should see how she fakes herself in front of outsiders, acts like she is a caring, sweet Lil woman. The more she is jealous of someone the sweeter she is on their face. B**ch is certainly going to hell.

[@linziee.8651]

My mom was the same. Shrank my nice sweaters in the wash. Gave away all my childhood toys and comics and even an octopus yarn toy I made in Jr. High. Just got rid of it all as soon as I left home. Then proceeded to do the same with my sons stuff I left in her storage unit at her apartment building. She’s always been jealous and hateful.

[@StaceyLozano-v2f]

Wow I thought I had a bitch mother like that... She's beyond cruel to me.. she loves to give away my stuff or throw it away... It's beyond compenhension.

[@1missy40]

They don’t deserve to be called mum

[@inononeeee]

my mom was the same

[@anyways661]

My mother had one sister who had two daughters. My aunt and I were always close but my cousins and mother are jealous, sneaky types. It took me a long time to see this because it's very subtle and from birth. My aunt died as a result of the rest of the family abandoning her at a time she really needed help! She knew they were all narcissistic because she told me before she died, "My girls are just like your mom." My mom didn't want to see her sister do well and my cousins are the same towards me. Withhold support to try to ensure failure. But they are already failures at life for being this way to begin with!

[@christymckee8133]

my sister is the same toward me. she has hated me since the moment our mom said she is going to have another baby. i guess im lucky she didnt suffocate me in infancy....

[@mexicansmoothie13]

Ditto! I was the youngest and she hated me from the time she knew I existed. Talk about being blindsided 😮 I never had a chance. I have no memory of NOT being abused at her hands in every way you can imagine. I'm honestly surprised I've made it into my 50's. She is unadulterated pure evil.

[@reesedaniel5835]

Cain's seedline vs Abel's (Adam/Seths) seedline. It's all in the Bible.

[@braingamesballsortgame718]

​@@christymckee8133My sister is the same.. And she told that as a joke to me that she hated me even before I was born that I will take the attention away from her after I get born. She even lifted me to the edge of the balcony to throw me over the railings of the balcony and I had gotten so scared that I would fall down. I had just dismissed it as normal sibling playful situation but now I highly doubt that she had that jealously then too and was willing to hurt me purposefully because of her jealousy. Because later when she was around her teenage year of 14 years, she had aimed at piercing my eye with a bow and arrow kit. She accepts even now that she had seriously aimed to hit the arrow to my eye so that my eyes get damaged while we were playing with each other. Thankfully, after she left that arrow the arrow by the time it reached me, the arrow had taken the usual bend and got deeply pierced to my lips.. I had to keep holding the arrow pierced in my lips and went to my mother. They all laugh at it even now as if it is a joke. But, when my sister is grown up at that age but still she attempted at harming my eyes, now I don't trust her. She is a CLASSIC CASE OF COVERT NARCISSIST and has done and exhibited all of the traits that covert narcissist do like manipulating people, triangulating between relations, mirroring, projection, emotionally torturing me by devaluing me often, horrible tactics, and cutting off relationships between her kids and even my siblings, and the last resort smear campaign trying to show me as crazy 🤪.. But, she doesn't know it doesn't work according to her MIND GAMES in the real world. Though, I am suffering now with the spoiled relationships, I am pretty sure everyone will awaken up to it sooner or later..

[@emyleewong3600]

@@christymckee8133I have two daughters. The oldest one is 16 and she always been jealous of her baby sister. Since the first day that baby came to the house. I tried everything to fix it, but I don’t know if she would change. She was the one that wanted a sister when she was 5

[@judyyates2763]

He tried to destroy the relationship between my adult daughter and myself. He was so jealous of her excelling and getting married in a big fancy wedding. He threatened to cut up my dress. He sat down and refused to go the day we were supposed to get on the road. It was totally heartbreaking. I've never hurt so deeply. I did go. I had a wonderful time. My daughter was so beautiful!

[@blueStarKitt7924]

I am glad you finally shared those previous moments with your daughter! I am glad he failed!

[@homespace1268]

He was jealous of your dress and that you might outshine him and look better then him!

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

I guess he's not her dad?

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

I am so sorry he did that....

[@Rabswood296]

Yes if the natc is a second marriage they are extremely jealous of children from a first marriage.

[@cmn6695]

Yes, the things they do are unforgivable.!!!!

[@yvonnecamacho9773]

Narcissists are always putting money in the bank ( that they didn’t work for) but never withdrawing it to make others jealous because they don’t know how to use it!

[@andrearyel5971]

Yes, it is pure evil to try to destroy someone that has done absolutely nothing to you and has only tried to love you and be there for you. But even that they are digusted because they see love and compassion as a weakness.

[@nancyhagan7553]

sadistic after 40 years of being a slave in the marriage he did everything you have mentioned but the discard has served me well my brain fog has disappeared i am healthier happier stronger he took 2 children with him one stayed with me i have grieved and i have accepted the unacceptable the doors are opened if one day they wake up but these demons have to have their karma for their destructive behaviours

[@flowerchild89]

What you are saying in this video explains how my sister treated me (started in early teens) and still did as an adult. She was cruel and didn't care if she hurt me. She copied everything I did, always tried to one up me, and took anything or anyone that meant something of value to me. Our mother is a narcissist. I'm thinking that my sister is narcissistic. I haven't had contact with her for almost a year.

[@fightback397]

Wel your sister might be my sister . She always counted on me but the reverse was not true . I have not talked to her for for than a year now . She hurted me deeply . And when i was pregnant she wrote the most disgusting letter to me . She tried to make amends , i tried to forgive but it is useless . She will grab any opportunity to hurt me . I just gave up on her . Bu i am numb from inside . As if i lost my soul . My all family is disfunctional . My mother a covert narcist . Sister overtly narcist .

[@mexicansmoothie13]

🙋‍♀️same sister here. Our mom passed away first, and then our dad some 4yrs later. I told her at his funeral that we are now done. She's nothing to me. #freedom from the narcissistic abuse I endured & survived since birth as the baby in the family. I was finally done (in my 50's, but better late than never) 😮‍💨👍🏼😎💪🏼

[@justice8563]

They get worst as they age. I know from experience, you’re better off treating her as if she dead because that’s how they both will treat you. They ramp up the abuse to physical and then protect each other and claim your crazy. Never, ever go back to them.

[@BecauseHeLovedMe1st]

They do care if they hurt you. Hurting you is very important to them and they never stop trying. I'm glad you stopped having contact and hope you stay no contact. Sad but true.

[@flowerchild89]

Thank you all, for your feedback 👍✌️☮️🙏💕

[@DebraCollins-fq4jo]

Matthew 5:44: Love thine enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you and despitefully use you. 🙏 Prayer is the answer. God will avenge. To curse the narcissistic person to the deepest corners of hell is not our job. God is the Judge.

[@sidrasiddiqui1852]

Makes me sad. A child with narc parents don’t stand a chance!!! How can an innocent child protect themselves when they don’t even know that their parent can be their “enemy”. 😢

[@editbajkai2083]

This is a very cruel world with cruel people .

[@johnmoore3521]

Very good assessment of this evil disorder. I believe it's far more common they people realize,in whatever form, it is toxic. I know first hand about this,13 years ago, i came to realize they were trying to kill me. I had to get out so i could deliver my children from being pitted against each other and me. It has taken years to restore, and I thank God for His grace in all things.

[@emj3677]

All that you describe here happened to me. He got jealous because of my accomplishments. He was jealous of our children. I divorced him and he got our oldest daughter to help him to try to destroy me. She turned out to be just like him. He and my oldest turned my other two against me. I am sad that my other two forgot me and who I am. Even my other two daughter's friends can't believe it. Their friends tell me how my ex was scary mean around them. I am healing now, but its hard living without my family. I was an orphan when I met him because my mother had just died and he tells everyone how he 'saved' me and 'found' me. He never let me forget that I owed him for that and that my accomplishments were his. He took my children away because he 'gave' them to me. There is a hole in my heart where my children belong. 😢

[@emj3677]

@@jbrown2908 Thank you. 😊

[@joseenoel8093]

Can't believe it, covert mom would visit and say how she hated to see me so poor (not so) or that I needed to clean my house (not so all I did was clean for weeks prior to her arrival). That's just sick out loud comparing yourself to your kids, those you financially sabotaged and made sure they'd have little education!

[@desireepeerman3500]

It goes both ways. Your children can also be the narcissist and hate to see you do well. Mine certainly will not be taking care of me in my old age. I do well and I can sense the satisfaction he'll experience when I'm dependent and he can withhold comforts and healthy resources. Therefore I am making provisions for alternate caregivers. Again, why remain a victim?

[@Yarrg]

You are single handedly THE BEST I HAVE EVER SEEN, at understanding these vile, evil demonic dynamics. Thank you for these. So many people do NOT UNDERSTAND THIS SPIRITUAL CANCER that exists in society. Thank you for STANDING UP for the people who cannot speak for themselves. Thanks for VALIDATING them. MAJOR RESPECT!

[@Yarrg]

Oh, I was forced to leave a job , because a Narcoparasite came into the workplace, put me down in private, verbally assaulted me, sexually harassed me , then slandered me to my coworkers and the management, and I was ostracized, defamed, and pushed out of my job. Then the NarcoSatan and his flying monkeys stalked me online , under fake names, to harass me some more. I then quoted statutes of criminal harassment in my state, and threatened to have their "worthless asses" prosecuted if I ever heard from them again, all while screen shotting their comments, showing them I was documenting it, and reminding them that I come from a family of law enforcement. Never heard from these losers again. People I knew for 18 years quit talking to me because "Joe said we are not allowed to". WTF??? What a bunch of evil cockroaches ( no offense to cockroaches). If someone is going to listen to a smear campaign and believe it without even asking your side, these cretins were never your friends to begin with. I'm good with it. They wanted to "destroy me" and cackle like the crap-for-brains" they truly are. God had another plan, I retired early, traveled the country, saved up money, I am starting a business, a Workplace Abuse institute ( Narcopaths in the Workplace), starting insurance claims so I can work for myself, and have FAR more TIME to pursue my hobbies and interests. Look like the Narcissists lost at THAT game too, like these morons lose at everything ELSE in their pathetic miserable sad excuse for an existence.

[@blueStarKitt7924]

Spiritual cancer!🎯🎯🎯 Right!

[@angelsingh185]

​​@@blueStarKitt7924right, now a days a new concept of twinflame on its height but it totally seems like a narrsistic and empath relationship but they call it divine connection 😅

[@blueStarKitt7924]

@@angelsingh185 Right!

[@janeyd5280]

❤❤❤

[@Rosecomments]

For every 1 narcissist there are 10 people around them in therapy! It’s costly for the socialized healthcare system.

[@iamclaynow]

I'm in the first minute of the video and that was the hardest part for me. I couldn't believe that someone I thought was a Christian could be actually one of the devil's own. The tactics that he enjoyed, they prove who he was serving. They prove who his father is. For me that had to be the hardest part.

[@dakoderii4221]

2 Corinthians 11:14-15 14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. 15 Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works. Referring to Leviathan Job 41:34 34 He beholdeth all high things: he is a king over all the children of pride.

[@iamclaynow]

@@dakoderii4221 I guess I thought that would be for money-grabbing preachers and false signs preachers. But now I do see its regular people walking around with human flesh on. Not Gods at all.

[@blueStarKitt7924]

​@@dakoderii4221Amen!

[@kellykajander3115]

YUP...NARC PULLS ON ALOT OF CARDS TO PLAY THIER GAMES..THE GAY CARD THE CRISTIAN CARD THE GOOD OL GUY CARD THEY R LIKE HOOKERS..ONLY ACTORS...SUM KNOW JUST WHAT 2 SAY HOW TO ACT..DIFRERENT MASK 4 EVERY VICTIM

[@kellykajander3115]

devils own...good analogy...they slowly poison thier victims and even come back 2 monitor the damages..on sum level they want u 2 know u have been poisoned ..and if u happen 2 b very strong smart with plenty of self esteem...their poisons wont work this disappoints them ive seen it time & AGAIN...so they redouble thier efforts..they leave clues 4 U 2 find when your all alone 2 suffer sum unreal shock- of course they r no wher 2 b found when u find out- and they get right off abandoning ppl...this 1 NARC pulled the fire alarm b 4 dashing out the door knowing his victim & her little dog could not reach the high ceiling 2 turn it off...i could go on but they r not worth my attention anymore..sniff them out fast- don't allow them any latitude..in fact i learned how 2 GET THESE NUTS 2gether..and I watched that gong SHOW unfold...NARC ON NARC ABUSE GETS REALLY UGLY I ASSURE U..i don't make time 4 them never think about them ..never ever sleep with a NARC..fast company every 1 OF THEM stray sluts always an agenda..sum will bed u down knowing they have sum very ill gotten STD

[@therealericjackdaniels]

My wife would laugh and brag about the first time she saw a picture of me she said... "He's mine. I'm taking him". I never thought much about it until just now. Now I realize how deep the statement was. Funny how I've never looked at someone and said to myself... She's mine. I will have her. I may have said things like I would like to be with her or get to know her but NEVER have I EVER felt an emotion of OWNING another human being EVER.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

Right, there definitely seems to be two types of personalities in this world.

[@blueStarKitt7924]

​@@Jess-kn8vlOnly two?

[@liliesandtulips2000]

They all have this. Lmfao

[@gojiberry7201]

Thank you Danish. Jealousy can show up in many ways. My mom is the narcissist for me. Growing up she would constantly make comments about my body ("You're lucky you have a butt") or about my interests, "You're so talented! I was never that talented!" I grew up becoming hypersensitive to taking care of her emotional needs. It's not just the words, it's the resentment in their eyes and tone. Daily you become attuned to it, like a sixth sense almost

[@Godschosenfollower]

Not trying to downplay your feelings, but those words sound like compliments to me. A typical narcissist will say the opposite, trying to put you down and your attributes down while trying to either over inflate their own or just try to bring you down to their miserable level. Some people mistake things for narcissism when they really aren’t. Just because someone may rub you the wrong way doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a narcissist. Narcissism is a mental/personality disorder and they are abusive in every way, not just with some misleading comments.

[@Bianca-sw5id]

My mom is a malignant narcissistist

[@gojiberry7201]

​@@GodschosenfollowerAs I said, it's not just the words. My mom would glare at me saying these things. She's also been horrifically abusive in other ways. About my body, for instance, she slapped a package bow on my breast in front of a whole party to make fun of my small breasts. She'd grab and pat my butt in public to make me embarrassed. She'd barge in the bathroom while I was bathing and glare at my naked body. If I told her to leave, she'd break into a rage. I've been in the mental hospital 5x and my brother committed suicide. That should be enough proof for you.

[@sherrymurphy855]

I'm sorry that you experienced all that trauma. I'm the empathic mom; dad the malignant narcissist, however, my grown daughter cannot, will not face the reality of her dad's abuse, the betrayal - abandonment, all of the harm he caused for her, her sister and mom. She still communicates with him while stonewalling, vilifying me in the last couple years. She surrounds herself with people who do not truly care about her or love her - the "flying monkeys" who want her to be the way she chooses to be because it suits their agenda. They can be co-workers - like-minded people who are only using her for their own narcissistic needs. Her PRIDE (for one) will not allow her to move into knowledge and healing. Once you shut down your empathy - it's all over unless you're willing to admit there's a problem... she's not willing to admit the truth to herself. We are all looking for something - SO be careful where and to whom you look... and why. 💜 Take care.

[@ginnyhylton4464]

You don't have to prove anything. I totally understand what your saying. Its very passive aggressive behavior. Intended to guilt or shame.

[@VikasYadav-tw8bn]

In the end I don't feel I deserve anything from her she made me feel like this garbage my life is ruined mentally spiritually damaged

[@jocelineblerot7887]

Hang in there. It's not over till it's over. You don't know what's happening behind the scene...

[@lisadunkle4112]

You hit the nail on the head about the parenting. Even today - 18 years later - he is still talking crap on me to my now adult kids. At least now, they see the truth.

[@amandac7056]

I found out the same about what mine was doing. Spinning and twisting and making up stories. He looks great I look bad. I give up. People can believe what they want, even my children 🙏🏼

[@Beeezneees]

They are relentless

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

Too true, Narcs discombobulate their victim by infinitely small cuts, not a thousand, more like a million 😕

[@wwilson7034]

My family 101… my 2 children are my life. I could NEVER imagine the character assassination they bestowed upon me is unimaginable. Life is short. You are bang on.

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

They tried to destroy me, but like a phoenix...

[@davidday13]

My ex-husband was so jealous of my 4 yr old granddaughter and my son from previous time that he was willing to destroy both of them to get back at me he molested her and it was worth it to him to see me destroyed and my son. I adored them both. They can't stand for a person to be normal and happy. He was jealous of me working in the yard. He turned my son into thinking I needed a padded room before he went for my granddaughter. From jail he's managed to keep this divorce going 4 years now. Horrible people. Should behung

[@NatzTalk]

I'm so sorry💔

[@tarasheikh5953]

100% correct I lived 45 years of my life with narcissistic man every thing you say its applies to him I feel much better on my own

[@shawndadah1501]

Wow as usual you nailed it. You described it to the T how my malignant narcissist ex-wife, father and my crazy sister did everything in their power to smear me and destroy me. I still have no relationship with my son because of their smear campaigns and their lies. I just sent this video to my 22 year-old son in the hopes that he will open up his eyes. Your videos are helping me more than any other expert on narcissistic abuse I have seen on KZbin.

[@guadalupeavila9045]

My poor daughter is dealing with a narcissist. The guy is crazy. He keeps gaslighting her and disrespecting her in any shape and firm. His father is also a narcissist and is helping his son to try to destroy my daughter. It is very serious , scary. And sad.

[@RawOlympia]

Oh, that IS scary!

[@1711-n2r]

Help her, tell her to pack up and go with you til late forms a place. He can start poisoning her food or drinks.

[@bonnielee316]

That is narcissism/psychopathy. It’s both of those disorders mixed together and then there is Borderline. Some Borderlines are mixed with narcissism/psychopathy. I’m only stating this for people who are doing their research and looking these disorder up in order to recognize the symptoms in order for them to get good at it and avoid these types of people. The word, “ narcissism “ has become an umbrella term for all of these strange behaviors, psychopaths and some Borderlines included. You will be with a very insane person who puts on a mask of sanity. That’s what the deal is.

[@VikasYadav-tw8bn]

She wants blessings frm me after destroying me! 😅 Idk Iam I kind heart or stupid to forgive her? Let's karma fix what she deserves in next life

[@bonnielee316]

Forgive but don’t forget. This person is dangerous to you like a lion, in the wild, or a poisonous snake. Understand and avoid messing with it, lest it devour you! They are destroying your personality, you. That’s their goal. They can’t have another person, another personality, on their stage. Only one can be the star and it’s not going to be you!

[@VikasYadav-tw8bn]

@@bonnielee316 you gaved me the clearity in my experience where I was little blind but I appreciate your irony wise words 😌 thank u

[@sophiasweet7351]

Absolutely spot on 💯 percent the same pattern and cycle over and over 🙄

[@pearlsdaughter2281]

Wow, it just keeps getting deeper and deeper. LORD help us 📣.

[@sabieandreea1425]

I Have Met Criminal Narcissists In Person And I Could Not Stand To Be In Their Presence, Because It Felt As I Was Literally Breath In And Breath Out A Constantly Rotten Flesh. It Was So Disgusting Up To Vomiting. Everything About Those Nuts People Was Just Feeling Wrong. There Is Only One Thing To Do If Dealing Within A Criminal Narcissist : Just Leave !

[@juanderuano8969]

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

[@juanderuano8969]

wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@juanderuano8969]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@judithunaegbu3776]

Are you doing some advertisement here..I saw this exact same set of persons in another video

[@Purpleiciousbabe]

@@juanderuano8969it’s a scam be careful!!!!

[@Purpleiciousbabe]

@@judithunaegbu3776 it’s a scam be careful!!!!

[@alwayshappy1598]

Thanks sir. I had all this with the toxic in laws. I pray to god to get their karma but sometimes when you hear that ex are in another relationship and everything is happy, you tend to wonder if God is listening and working to show their true colours or will the mask they wear always be there. Fake people in this age seem to prosper and get away with a lot and good people are suffering

[@jennifergray6433]

I knew a guy who was actually jealous of my relationship with my cat!!! He was jealous of my relationship with my children/grandchildren. I told this guy he was a narcissist and he didn't believe me. How can I see your behavior and he couldn't and would blame me. I felt so little and alone. I really didn't like him. Thank goodness it's all over....😢

[@Brandileadiane]

I Love coming to your channel because Everything you say is always 100% correct. I have been experiencing it all with my children's father for many years, and you have definitely helped me with all the confusion. It is so exhausting, and I can't get him to leave me alone (and you know why) it has been very scary and uncomfortable, and for fear of my safety the most I can do right now is gray rock and keep my personal faith. I have come a long way emotionally, but despite my efforts, he finds me everywhere I go and the list goes on and on.....Thank You For Being You!

[@lornasmith1286]

Gray Rock him...GET a restraining order if necessary ~ stalking! Get a lawyer if necessary...TO LIMIT any visits! They are Emotional Vampires..ignore or gray Rock them..show no response ..NO emotions...PRAY for deliverance from this person! GOD LOVES YOU (get Salvation so GOD CAN HELP & PROTECT YOU)...GOD can find a way to remove this person out of your life!

[@SonofGod.23]

They NEVER stop, they can't or they will collapse. So no contact no matter what, keep your sanity...they have none.

[@smohammed2821]

Same 😢

[@Kellers-Ma]

Boy is all this so true. Sad, but true. If only I had known any of this years ago. Well, what's done is done & all I can do now is continue to go forward. Start my life all over again from the bottom up (while I lost it all & he has everything) trying to stay as positive as possible. Thank you for your words of knowledge. ❤

[@yahphey444]

Danish you're truly gifted, and your way of explaining how damaging and dangerous the narcissist is brings healing into my life. Thank you for being here. Namaste 🙏 ❤

[@MNIceQueen]

True. Everything I have ever owned that I purchased or was given to me, he destroyed. A laptop? Thrown across the room by him within a day . Family heirloom? Smashed. My car that I saved up for ? 9 Dents punched in the side within a month by him. My summer wardrobe? Ripped to shreds. Winter coat? Mysteriously disappeared. Not to mention cruelty to my animals.

[@opheliamorgan2141]

I gave my husband my silence as a gift, the best thing i could ever done, thank you Danish... always learning from you❤.

[@sandrawelch4893]

I am God's child, light of the world and I'll be damned if someone is going to make me feel inferior because of their lack of character and insecurities! I love you God!❤ Amen.

[@blueStarKitt7924]

Amen!😌

[@wendycarstens8185]

Me too honey and AMEN TO THAT THANK YOU JESUS 😊 ❤🎉❤

[@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr]

Thank you for your Honesty! I went through 28 yrs with a narcissist,and is very painful!

[@rebeccasmoot6747]

Me too! I’m just now in therapy. All the best to you 🙏🏽

[@sarwatshahab4283]

Danish I have no words to thank you for spreading awareness about narcissism and how to recover and heal if you’re a survivor. May Allah be pleased with you.

[@catherinepeh39]

Destroyed the victim by demanding money from the victim..

[@naomiwangarikariuki742]

My boss was filled with jealousy. Anytime he would see us as managers, you could read the bitterness on his face. Narcissism lead him to habitual gossip, gaslighting, fabricating lies and made the work environment toxic. Only for us to learn that eventually even his wife left because of narcissism

[@tarey05]

The passion and truth expressed behind your words here that describe the blistering jealous attacks on us by the narcissist stir up old feelings of anger, shock and deep sadness within us.😢 Only you, Danish, truly understands the torment we suffered at the hands of these sickening psychopaths! The cruelty of jealousy imposed on another human is a diabolically sinful act that must be recognized and blocked by the victim in order to maintain one's own sanity. Thank u! ❤

[@zandatee]

agree.

[@avrilmiles]

I agree too. I have feelings of grief, for the 24 years of no love, constant refusals of somethings I wanted, refusal to allow me to entertain friends if he was home, being afraid to invite friends home, his refusal to "allow" me to work, etc. Yet he was very popular with everyone. I feel sad still.

[@avrilmiles]

Edit:we parted over 30 years ago. I did not know about narcissism until my grown up daughter pointed it out.

[@marisamartin3664]

God knows more than Danish, he sees into all our hearts.

[@Dean-mp7vg]

10:39 this sums them up perfectly, they destroy you and leave you like an empty shell. Like a vampire sucking your life out. I’m currently living like a dead person inside but I hope one day I’ll be free and happy again

[@ericgiebel498]

I don't have to leave,I own the property. That's why they are smearing me. They want to make me look like the bad guy because they want what I have n feel entitled to have it for various reasons of their own

[@scharlesnicole]

When the narcissist is your mother…

[@sunshinerain5676]

Everything you say is absolutely true! Thank you for posting this video.

[@grandparedpill2695]

My ex-wife undermined all the progress either of my daughters made. Another ex-wife I had made sure I never carried through with several great ideas that I had had for business. Several of them are multi-million dollar businesses today. Jealousy is definitely a weapon of the narcissist.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Jealousy as the Bible states is as cold as the grave.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

The problem is always your reaction to their behavior, rather than their behavior.

[@rochellet1333]

100% correct. Insanely jealous constantly. They destroy the children's souls. Very sad!

[@rahilaferoze9099]

Love your videos Danish. But there's one thing I disagree with. I was born a shining star and after having encountered at least 3 to 4 narcissists in my life (one of them being an 8 year relationship), I'm a star that shines even brighter now. So bright that i blind all the narcissists. Alhamdulillah!

[@blueStarKitt7924]

Shine on!🙂😎🌞

[@MartyMiracle]

‘You think you are so smart but you aren’t ‘ is what I was repeatedly told. I guess I was and am smart because after her saying it so much I figured out why she kept saying. She was jealous of my achievements. She did tell people how bad I was, how I was hurtful I was, she painted me as the monster. That all starting falling apart. People would find out I was ok. Then they are amazed that I was not as described by my mother.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

It's like my friend,s dad who kept asking me how many properties I had,,each time I was at his daughter's house,latter I realized I was spoken about,by them,,what is so sad is the amout of headache and trouble,and money woes, I had renting two of those properties, for some reason my friend and her family believed I was shiteng gold bricks,,,I wondered what they would think,if I truly was a millionair.?.

[@paulablair395]

My mother was a narcissist and I was the ignored, hated, scapegoat for the entire family. I am now 65 - I'm empty. I have no emotions, feelings, confidence, trust. The family hates me. They talk about me, have parties and holidays without inviting me, etc. No one believes what I grew up with and the abuse was compounded by my husbands - I married people just like the mother. I have changes in my brain - and the brain scan to prove it. I have more illnesses and diseases than I can count. Life is not good and I wish I had never been born.

[@linziee.8651]

So sorry to here your terrible treatment and neglect growing. I experienced the same but you ARE someone. No matter how you were treated. You were born for a reason-to be loved, cherished and appreciated. It’s never too late to find your tribe. But yes more challenging for us older people. Prayers and blessings to you. ❤

[@willemijnnibbering]

I feel for u and can relate to u,, THEY are so wrong and u are brave to live with deseases...please be proud of yourself and find relieve as much as u can.. GOOD to speak your truth! For me, this helps with my health-issues. Much love.

[@blueamenaa749]

You re still young enough to find your own non blood related family. But it's true that narcs destroy everything. You re going to make it, focus on yourself and what you like to do. Take care.❤❤❤

[@RawOlympia]

You are awesome and you can just cut them off. Do not let them hurt you, because they have. You will find your health improve! Be good to YOU, and you will feel your heart grow strong for you.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Call on your Creator, plead your cause,adk him to bring about your purpose in this life,it's for him,and not them,,ask him for bread,He will not give you a stone to eat

[@goddessv7236]

Had a fake friend just like that! She was so jealous of me, causing me problems at work trying to isolate me from people at work trying to detach me from my family , it was quite bad, but then being the empath that i am , i decided to get rid of her! I started mynown campaign against her, with a complaint to management , i documented what she was doing i got witnesses who were prepared to speak up , and in the end they fired her! Its been 4years now , thank God! She was so shocked it rocked her to her core! That narc deserved everything it got! This is just the short version of what happened , but i made sure that narc dug its own grave and fell in it !

[@sarahblasdell5261]

My now ex actually said he was gonna stop being upset by what others have or can do anymore. He admitted that he is jealous of people. Then when he kept doing it anyways I mentioned it. He denied he was jealous of people. He also had said at that time that he was gonna be less of an ass hole. He tried saying he was going to get back into his religion. I offered to sit and read my spiritual books I like while he reads his Bible but of course now he didn't want to. I can't even stand him. I don't have a clue what I saw in him. I didn't know him when we were teenagers either like I thought I did. We got back in touch after 25 years. He insulted me for being disabled. Said I'm not disabled until I'm getting money for it which I'm in the process of getting going. Then put down that saying I just want to live off the state. I don't want to need surgery on my foot causing me to be unable to do much at all. I don't want to feel like I'm in a constant anxiety state that he's made worse. I started to be an empty shell then I got sick of it. He also has called my special needs son bad and compares other kids with developmental delays and autism to him stating other people can work with their special needs son. I can't wait to get out of here. I'm cold to him now but still have this reaction issue due to trauma from him and other ex's. My second husband had turned my son's against me until I left him and my kids thought about things more clearly. The new ex just gets upset when I try to have my older kids visit.

[@honeybunnybunny1958]

Thank you so much for this it’s so true. They are jealous of their own kids and the people in their kids life’s. It’s truly disgusting and can even tread on insestual 🤢

[@corasteidinger9594]

Wow you were So Accurate about rather than co parent they counter parent... Narcissistic people are all about destroying anyone who is against their agenda. What is great is walking away and never having to deal with them personally... Karma Shows her face to them.. AS victims we can sit back and regain our shine and learn to live,love and serve those who reciprocate our positive energy... 🙏🙏🙏

[@joannamikkelsen1460]

This so painful. My father deliberately abused me in order to destroy me.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

I pray you get the therapy you need...it's deep.

[@warangel4389]

When I purchased my second home as a single woman - beautiful ranch on 10 acres, mommy dearest visited and said “I always wanted a house like this”. With my job she saw all my certificates on the wall - Master certified Service Manager- car dealership… she said “Oh I didn’t realize it was all that”. Never once a positive word in my life!! No kind deed. No hugs - No contact is the only way. 8 years narc free.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Sad!!

[@Blue24Osprey]

Reading all the comments and in my own experience, it seems to be an inherited gene, which certainly carried down in my family. I had a mother who was very cruel (from a very young age) to both her parents, her own sister, animals, then later in life (after an understandably short marriage), was destructive to one non-narcissistic child, but left the other one alone (narcissist also). Sadly, all you can do is distance yourself for a peaceful life, or they will destroy you.

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

it's learned behavior and identifying with the one parent who they perceive as being "the more powerful one". not everyone is inclined to be good - there are those who delight in evil..........so ignorant, they cause their own destruction.......

[@eva4adam451]

My sister is so jealous. She put even my daughter up against me. She stole my violin bow, case fotobooks books ,friends ,in a sneaky way set up my friends against me.

[@VikasYadav-tw8bn]

Karma she used me my soul

[@karenholtzclaw3135]

Seems familiar

[@VikasYadav-tw8bn]

@@karenholtzclaw3135 explain us lets have more awareness ☺ to our kind souls

[@wheneaglesfly8211]

Thank you for confirming and explaining my perpetrators. Narcissist suck and I am healing!!!!

[@danab172]

My narcissist family may have 500 FB friends, while I only have 7. But, your video has 5k likes. We are Fam out here.

[@dianeshepherd6903]

Sir this is the truth 💯💯💯 THIS is my life for 30yrs except he didn't talk negative bout me n publicly he spoke n curse me out n argue with me bout truth r didn't believe me even thou it's truth being Told also he never praise,thank, appreciate etc.yup he never discipline children never help resolve family problems especially with our daughter he rebellious to me LORD Jesus this is all so true I save this man life several times where he could've died yes u question urself like you CRAZY NEVER tell show Love nor except Love you giving yes people my in-laws stare n looks @me like I'm hiding something yes gaslighting me totally

[@rebeccasmoot6747]

I saved my husband from dying too! I don’t regret being a loving person though. I learned how loving & stubborn I can be…my love was supposed to make him want to be a better person…but now I see where I contributed to the 27 year mess, take full responsibility, and have moved on to take ME BACK FOR ME! All the best to you 🙏🏽

[@theresacrockett8559]

Danish, The depth of your insight into the mind of the narc is astounding. There is a scripture that says "what the enemy has meant for harm, God has used for good." Your intelligence along with your horrific experience has brought about a ministry of sorts to help so many people. Hard to imagine it as a gift, yet your ability to articulate and dig so deep to give people understanding and healing is a gift from God. Thank you Danish for helping me in ways you cannot even imagine. I know it is definitely supernatural healing from a loving God who has used you.

[@kendrapierce8747]

This means so much to me, thank you so much! I have 5 children, between 2 marriages..and it's heartbreaking that everything you are saying is so true. My parents are also narcissistic, I was brought to obey, to not think for myself....now that I see myself as a worthy human with feelings, thoughts, desires, dislikes,pain, pleasure, and capable of making decisions, the hardest part for me to forgive, is that these people took away my relationship with my children too. Sometimes I still do wonder if it's me, but this video has been very helpful, thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤

[@cazjay017]

Danish you have described everything I have experienced to a ‘T’. I always thought the jealousy accusations were their own projections. They truly are.

[@milana1599]

Once they have nothing left, if you have children with them, they go for the children. Watch out.

[@1711-n2r]

Explain how

[@KleeKaiPuppies]

If you’re kind successful whatever good traits you have, the narc wants it and if you don’t give it to them, watch out!

[@Lilylibra]

So true. I was completely domineered, had no opinions of my own, was totally brain-washed. Yes, also my only daughter is definitely a chip off the old block, she has adopted the same attitude towards me as her father. You have helped me understand exactly what I have been dealing with and have learnt not to allow his provocations to get to me. I simply don’t react like I used to in the past. My health has been badly affected by years of abuse, but at last I’m not allowing him to manipulate me.

[@suebryant1188]

Thank you Danish. Now I understand why my narc mother always hated my wonderful husband. From the beginning she tried to break us up. She would accuse him of things that were plainly false. She was jealous of my relationship with my loving husband. So when she was 90 we would not allow her to live with us. She was VERY wealthy. She gave it all to a couple that acted as her slaves. She even kept family photos from me. It was completely worth all the loss in order to honor my husband of 53 years. After 4 marriages she died alone. What a sad life she chose.

[@breathmovements]

I lost a boyfriend to a girl who I considered a good friend. She slowly over time manipulated him, talked bad about me, she played victim, he believed her & eventually I lost him completely. She did all that to seek revenge. She could not care less for him to be honest, but she broke my relationship just so she can see me suffer & watch my relationship burn into ashes. Until today I still miss him. He has never ever given me a closure. Until today I am traumatised by how evil a woman can be to the point of ruining and destroying a committed relationship.

[@lisaleone746]

So on point there pathetic my ex was so jealous of my older daughter because she’s VP in a company and is a woman

[@deepaedwin4300]

It's so sad to understand that many people are going through the same situation which I thought I was the only sufferer during my childhood. I never wished my worst enemy to go through this. But prayers will definitely help. I used to surrender myself to Jesus and he helped me to overcome all the pain I've gone through.

[@MultiCappie]

Yeah this is true. Most happily for me, I didn't have children with them.

[@burcatherine9638]

Exactly 💯% what my narcissist mother does to me since the day I was born. The hatred is so bitter.

[@joe7665]

These are all 100% fax I was going to a therapist and he couldn't even figure out what was wrong with me until I started watching videos about narcissistic abuse and gaslighting and then I realize all is going on one side called her out I divorced her a month later six months after that I feel a hell of a lot better

[@m.f.richardson1602]

What you are saying and describing is how I was raised from birth. NM broke my sprite. And kept it up until I could get out. I started to run away from home at the age of five years old. And one day I never went back. I was no contact for years Then she died. What a glorious day for Me. This was triggering for Me. Also, I know NM never loved Me. IT WAS NEVER MY FAULT