3 problems that you will face with Ukrainian wife

[@writtenplauge9397]

My dad married a Ukrainian woman it was the worst 5 years of my childhood. Crazy how she left right when she got citizenship, looking back I think it’s profound how I recognized her for what she was when I saw her in the airport. I’m not trying to dissuade anyone from dating a Ukrainian person but if it seems too good to be true it generally is.

[@matchmakerhelen]

I guess this is just because... all people are different and Ukrainian women are not all good the same like , let`s say, American men. I feel really sorry you went through this terrible experience specially in your childhood (( Children are very vulnerable and parents should be very careful when they choose a new spouse.

[@writtenplauge9397]

@@matchmakerhelen yeah I definitely agree with you on that point, your movie wasn’t about dating American men.

[@stevesavell128]

Well yes but Americans are not the be all and end all of matching ukraine women to men . I think you will find that ukraia women appear to go a lot better with UK and Australian guys far better than the usa Some men tend to look after a slsvic woman a lot better than Americans. Most Americans I've seen there arrive with a bank card thinking they can buy somebody. One only has to look at the marriage failure rates in the us to women from all sorts of countries and man oh man the figures of failure are longer than a toilet roll .

[@lenspaulding]

I had the same experience with a Ukrainian lady. I found her having sex with 2 of my friends!@@matchmakerhelen

[@AtulSingh-ov7zd]

U from uk

[@ap0563]

Having already have married a Ukrainian woman thru a long distance relationship and having been married for 20 years I can easily say that it has been the best decision I have ever made in my life. I agree with all your points but I wouldn't classify them as problems but as challenges. Don't be surprised if there is some suspicion to begin with but once you show yourself trustworthy to her and especially to her family you will find a true and faithful friend in good times and bad. If you make a promise be sure to fulfill that promise. I would add when getting to know her. 1) Familiarize yourself with their culture and learn the dos and especially the don'ts. For example when giving flowers give an odd number because an even number represents a funeral. . The are some interesting superstitions to respect and play along with. Like looking in mirror if going away from the house and and come back for something, not handing a item over a door threshold, not killing spiders, the monetary value of bird poop , sitting silently before long travel, holding you wallet up to a full moon are some of my favorites. . 2) Especially when visiting understand that you are guest that will be treated as a king but in many cases their living standard and wages are much lower than in western countries. Find ways to help them out without making a seem like charity. 3) Bring respectful gifts 4) When writing to her provide the letter in English and the same letter translated in her language. They will appreciate the extra care you are giving. 5) Though she may know English in many cases it is very rudimentary and rusty. Have a translator available for the first few calls until she feels comfortable without one. Also speak very slowly and in short sentences. 6) Don't rush things. It took me 2 years before I found her and then It took about a year before the first visit and about 2 years before she came to live with me. Because I moved slowly I was able to be weed out several potential scammers. In the mean time there were weekly phone calls and follow up letters and gifts for special occasions and surprise gifts. The closer you are to Ukraine the more often in person visits are feasible. In all I was able to visit 3 times with each visit 2-3 weeks in length . Once she comes to live with you in your country I would add that the more things that you can make familiar for her the better off you will be. So I would recommend 1) Find Russian speaking or Ukrainian speaking stores where some familiar and favorite foods can be found. 2) Find Russian speaking or Ukrainian speaking tv channels (ETVnet,com is excellent for Canadian and US areas and literally gives access to TV channels from all over the world) 3) Find Russian speaking or Ukrainian speaking churches or community centers where she can also meet Russian speaking or Ukrainian speaking friends. 4) Understand that because she is so dependent upon you in the beginning that in some sense you are raising a daughter as well as getting a new wife. Everything can be new and frightening. Patience is the key. 5) Even though she expects you to be the head of the family she is not to be treated as a maid/cook or 2nd class person. She may expect you to make a decision but she will want to be part of the major decisions. 6) The first few months are very difficult so expect a lot of tears and home sickness. Again patience and understanding is the key. So it is a lot of work but the rewards more than worthwhile. NOTE: Not everyone can make the adaptation to a new life in a new country. If you come across someone who expects everything to be the same in your country as in her country then this is a warning signal that things will not work out. I found the easiest person to establish a long distance relationship with is one who is main focus is being happy with what they have and not being unhappy with what they don't have. Good luck with your search .

[@matchmakerhelen]

Alan, thank you sooo very much for such insightul and detailed comment, sharing your experience and very useful tips of advice for men who choose a way of finding the Ukrainian girl. If you do not mind, you can write me and we could make an interview for men together about it. Just drop me a line here: [e-mail]

[@khiem1939]

The same goes for marrying a woman from a different culture or race, I've been married now for 53 years to a wonderful woman and extended family and there have been some "times" I would not call "difficult" but different....one has to be just considerate and things will work themselves out!

[@AtulSingh-ov7zd]

Good

[@Monkey-Boy2006]

Dude, you probably make some very profound points but that's waaaaaaay to much to put into a KZbin comment.

[@carlgriffith4660]

The problem is there are so many Ukrainian scammers that it has put a black eye on all Ukrainian women and their collective reputation has suffered badly for it.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Yes, I agree with you 100%. But still there are good women. They may be not top models and not beauty queens, just simple pretty women but sincere and with kind heart

[@MjRadha]

they all betrayers and lie about past

[@fixedgearforlife]

I went to Cherkasy to meet this one girl. She thought she was gonna play me, boy was she in for a surprise. Near the end of my trip, I ditched her at a park and then ghosted her. I got the last laugh. They're more naive than they think they are.

[@swedensy]

Never take advice from a fish on how to fish.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Funny comment )) thank you 🙏

[@VektrumSimulacrum]

* laughs in fluent angler * @Artjoms Pugacovs She's right, that was funny. Mostly because it's a terrible analogy.

[@matchmakerhelen]

@@VektrumSimulacrum 😉

[@iamTheSnark]

Never take advice from a human being how to interact with a human being? Oh.

[@matchmakerhelen]

@@iamTheSnark good analogy :)

[@StevenWJRichards]

From my experience of dating a couple of Ukrainians and a Lithuanian. Very beautiful, good cooks, good housekeepers and incredibly feminine but you have to stand up to them and show them who the boss is. Be firm, very firm, but fair. If you treat them like this, they will love and respect you, but if you don't, they will tear you apart like an angry lioness on a bad day. They are incredibly direct and honest, which is refreshing in a way because we Brits are used to having to figure everything out with our women. With our women, you never know what she wants leaving us in the abyss of confusion. With a Ukrainian woman you will know, because she will tell you directly and in no uncertain terms. These women are incredibly confident in comparison with what we are used to and unlike a western woman, she is not out to prove she is equal. That is self-evident - why would she think otherwise? And why would you? But she is still a woman and you are still a man and that is self-evident too and this is what makes them so damn nice to spend time with. Not for a lefty-liberal though, that just will not do!

[@StevenWJRichards]

@@Patronikovich Haven't dated a Russian or Belarusian. Sounds like a good idea though.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you :) Very good summary, very true :)

[@I_Am_A_Gay_Lithuanian_Man]

I am a gay Lithuanian man and I want to date a Ukrainian and Russian man and have lots of fun with them in the bedroom. Both at the same time in the bedroom would be lots of fun.

[@I_Am_A_Gay_Lithuanian_Man]

I am a gay Lithuanian man and I want to travel to the Ukraine to date Ukrainian gay men and transgender women. I have met Ukrainian people in my country but I don't think I have met any gay and transgender Ukrainians.

[@LaHayeSaint]

Elena -- That was very brief , refreshing and to the point: (1) Problems with distance dating; (2) The man being the provider and protector; (3) Being a support to your Ukrainian woman when she comes to stay with you. Even before these problems, it is important to establish if there are genuine feelings for each other. If there is no genuine affection, then the relationship is a sham and will not work. So both parties must be honest with each other and tell their partners what they are looking for / hope to achieve. I hope this resonates with you Elena too.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Yes, fully agree with you and the older we get, the more complicated it becomes, so first of all there should be feelings and a lot of love to each other.

[@LaHayeSaint]

@@matchmakerhelen Elena -- If only people were honest about some of the things both you and I mentioned, there would be many less poor-matches and divorces. A pretty face alone will not stand up to the stresses of marriage.

[@johnweber6612]

Another great video/ Thanks for the useful advice.

[@matchmakerhelen]

thank you a lot, dear John :)

[@SrinivasReddy-mf9fy]

The way ur giving replies to each and every comment proves that good women are also there in ukraine women love towards ur work

[@Daves-Not-Here-81]

I know a lot of people from the Ukraine, Russia and Belarus. ALL the Ukraine women are very stubborn and ALWAYS have to have their way while the several women I know from Belarus are very sweet and considerate.

[@matchmakerhelen]

really? We need to explore the statistics

[@AtulSingh-ov7zd]

U from Germany

[@Undercugunder]

​@@matchmakerhelenWhy you don't have all information about ukrainian wifes?

[@matchmakerhelen]

@Undercugunder what do you mean ?

[@Undercugunder]

@@matchmakerhelen I want unique ukrainian wife like Lilu with multipassport😄

[@kevinprice2274]

I hadn't considered dating Ukrainian women at all, since I'm in a wonderful 💖 relationship for life. But all my heart goes out to those brave 🇺🇦 people defending their homes 🏡 for life. Слава Україні! 💪 May I recommend your channel to a lonely German, well-educated, great-hearted bachelor who happens to be my friend?

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you a lot, Kevin, for your kind and supporting words. Thank you for wishing us to win. I really believe in Armed Forces of Ukraine and looking at so much help from other countries, I believe, victory will be there for sure. Yes, of course, I will be grateful if you recommend us to your friend who wants to find significant relationships. And I am happy to hear that you are in harmonious loving relationships :)

[@Firedog105]

I've been single my whole life. If you could find a woman to date me you would become a multimillionaire. That would say this lady can work miracles.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Sometimes the reason of being single is not because there are not right people around, good women or so, but because of some internal reasons of how we feel and how our brain works, how we usually make the choice, patterns of behaviour etc. Contact me if you want and we can discuss more in detail [e-mail]

[@MarkRobinson-zs6qp]

Hello, I am dating a Ukrainian woman. She will not leave her son and mother during the war. We communicate every day. Because of the war, we cannot visit as often as we want to. We have been together multiple times and are meeting on vacation later this summer. We are engaged and I am contemplating sending her an engagement ring so that she has something to hang onto. Should I wait until we are together or send it to her now? Thank you for your insight. Kindest Regards!

[@matchmakerhelen]

I would recommend to do it when you are together but meanwhile you can send her smth different )

[@kelvinwilson9217]

It’s interesting what you were saying, but I also think the Ukrainian woman can also be under pressure with unfair expectations placed upon her, because I’m sure there are many men who expect glamor models, as that is how East European woman are marketed. It’s a pity because there are so many simple and attractive Ukrainian woman with good hearts, and I wish them the happiness, especially in these bad times for them. Slava Ukraini.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you ! I do agree with you )

[@djopdam199]

The almighty algorithm chose to show me this and I thought it was a sketch..

[@matchmakerhelen]

not relevant for you? I am sorry then...

[@djopdam199]

@@matchmakerhelen Uhhh I have an Ukranian girlfriend... So I bet the difference

[@iamTheSnark]

Long distance relationships: Yes, I have done that. It's not for everyone. I never thought of dating a Ukranian woman. I could do that, provided that she has a good singing voice - and I'm not joking.

[@matchmakerhelen]

contact me and we will try to find the one :) [e-mail]

[@dvj]

Are you Ukrainian or Bulgarian? Where are you originally from? In which country are you in, now?

[@MikePayne028]

i have an ukranian girlfriend. She is very beautiful and intelligent, but besides the war: they can stress themselves due to social and culture pressure heavily She ll move to germany at summer (she can speak german fluenty), we met already six times ;)

[@MikePayne028]

Greetz from UA 😊

[@AH-mj1rd]

Very Generalized, i dated a few ukrainian women, usually i find the younger ones 20-28 very europeanized, americanized, which i dont prefer. the 30+ typically more traditional as good housewife. but, then also depends on which part of Ukraine they are from, Kyiv women are more work oriented, odessa women are a bit fishy tricky, women is smaller towns like dnipro and zaporizhia are more down to earth and family oriented. i personally find women from the east of ukraine more beautiful than the west. The women from the western parts looks like romainian and hungarian more, less slavic facial features. i dated alot of women from bulgaria, belarus, russia , romania etc, Ukrainian women are top of them

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you a lot for adding useful information more in details 😜

[@NeilHaeger-mb4mk]

An interesting overview my friend. I think there are many aspects of reality being shared here. I myself have been to Ukraine the last 4 years for 90 day periods of time, enjoying the many different cites, experiencing the culture and of course the amazing women. I am in the process of selling all of my toys here in America and will move to Ukraine sometime in April if all works out well. Not totally sure where yet, as the war makes it a bit of a challenge, but ready to let the dice roll.

[@AH-mj1rd]

@@NeilHaeger-mb4mk Lviv will be a good and safe option for you now

[@simras1234]

You are beautiful

[@garyjackman4363]

Elena you are a beautiful elegant lady..

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you ))

[@solifugus]

I grew up in a rural conservative area in the United States. So envisioned married life in a traditional way where the man leads. However, the United States has changed a lot since I was young. At this point, I am unsure if I could still do that. To lead in a relationship is a serious responsibility that does, in fact, require a lot time, care and attention. Still, I do wish I had that. If respected, that lifestyle could be very rewarding for a man because there is a natural sense that it is what we are made for. The thought of it alone gives a sense of purpose, meaning, and worthiness to live.

[@BosssahrFillie]

Good day

[@suret777]

I need a woman for as wife. But how to get him?

[@matchmakerhelen]

Do you mean her ?)

[@WhiteDovePBB]

Nice video, keep going.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you for your encouraging comment ) I will do soon )

[@shanef8728]

3 words of advice.... avoid. avoid. avoid !

[@danakhattat2717]

Hello Elena, would you please help me out with finding a Ukrainian wife without spending money on dating agencies and websites? Just to let you know, I live in Canada.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Hi Dana, thank you for your comment! Yes, we can help acting as an agency, but our service is not free of course. If it is ok for you, then please write me to [e-mail]

[@paulschmitz9175]

If you're looking to find a wife "without spending money", you can't afford a wife.

[@michaelfishman7174]

@@paulschmitz9175 Very true also my friend.

[@reivanen]

At least she was honest how ukrainian women see men

[@amuthi1]

Three problems with ukrainian wifes: Money, greed, hysteria.

[@matchmakerhelen]

did you personally face that?

[@amuthi1]

@@matchmakerhelen A person I know. Destroyed a familiy and left two traumatized kids not longer being with their ukrainian mother.

[@matchmakerhelen]

oh, that`s terrible (( But as I say, in any nation there are good and bad people. Ukrainian women are not angels of course. Btw, soon I will start publishing videos on scamming scheme in Ukraine. Would that be interesting for you?

[@imemoria8144]

No problem that you can't solve with money.

[@UKR236]

Ooh interesting job

[@matchmakerhelen]

definitely :)

[@UKR236]

@@matchmakerhelen if I want to talk you personally is it possible

[@matchmakerhelen]

yes, contact me [e-mail] and we can plan 15 min free consultation :)

[@avishnevsky7394]

Never ask fish how to catch a fish, ask fisherman instead.

[@bryanchannell7715]

Slava Ukraine❤

[@papakael8247]

Zaddy looking for beautiful Ukrainian lady. 👍

[@matchmakerhelen]

contact me [e-mail]

[@SrinivasReddy-mf9fy]

Im from India i need ukraine women to marry can u help me in this

[@NassorMuhammad-xb1mk]

Hello

[@walterenriquez9443]

Visiting other countries once a month is unrealistic, unless you're rich.

[@matchmakerhelen]

It can be min one per 3 months

[@walterenriquez9443]

@@matchmakerhelen either way, it is necessary, a must, for both to meet and spend time together.

[@walterenriquez9443]

@@matchmakerhelen if someone would to ask my opinion about your services; based on your videos, I would recommend them to see you. Keep up with your videos.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you very much :) Very important and ncie to hear it from you :) @@walterenriquez9443

[@ghazanfaralikhan80]

It’s true but some thing is negative in long distance relation ship with specially Russian and Ukrainian woman

[@matchmakerhelen]

I am also not a big fan of long-distance relationships so I always recommend my clients to meet sooner and more often. Its difficult to build the relationship on distance.

[@michaelgarcia2973]

After watching the film Lethal Lookalike the Victoria Nasyrova story the Con Woman raised a red flag.

[@steveg6978]

These women are looking for support till they get their green card.

[@ranjitkumardash7347]

Dear friend please do something to found a loyal Ukrainian woman aged about 30 years

[@matchmakerhelen]

could you please contact me via [e-mail] and we would talk more to know about your case and find ? )

[@charlesdelvaux1935]

A protect woman i am a duthman

[@matchmakerhelen]

What do you mean?)

[@amisikashete332]

My dream is to get Ukrainian girl 🤣 I am from Dublin 🇮🇪

[@matchmakerhelen]

What did you do to make this dream come true?)

[@michaelfishman7174]

You sound like you are on a hunt......😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@samii-ullah8802]

I want. To. Merry. One. Girl

[@ghazanfaralikhan80]

They are very beautiful with good personality but there is no loyalty. Until you will give they will be yours once in a life if you have bad time they will go with someone else. Sorry I don’t want to hurt someone but it’s the reality

[@matchmakerhelen]

Why did you make such a conclusion? I think people are different everywhere, women also...

[@michaelfishman7174]

I think this may happen in any race. If the woman does not feel happy she will pack, get her bags and leave.

[@matchmakerhelen]

@@michaelfishman7174 exactly !!👍

[@mariobaruncic2811]

This is true 100 percent. Expirienced it!

[@mavericktorresbjd766]

Im looking for a single Ukrainian woman ❤ .

[@GamageHemasiri-wd2rm]

I like to come ukraine how to get visa please help me i like it

[@dhansingh7883]

Namste🙏

[@НадеждаСпиридонова-е4щ]

🥰

[@matchmakerhelen]

thank you :)

[@willythewave]

In other words you need to have some common sense.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Yes

[@nontasxen6556]

In my opinion marrying an Unkrainian woman you get a high risk. Most of them are hungry for money and oportunists. They just want to get out of Ukraine and then always seek for better opportunities. I have seen a lot of these cases in Greece.

[@matchmakerhelen]

I think its stigma. There are different people everywhere

[@justininvestor]

I'm 79 and looking for a beautiful 18 Ukrainian girl ....she must weigh no more than 110 lb.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Thank you for making us smile :)

[@chrishuffman5829]

😕,,,, are you sure you're 79??

[@chrisnamaste3572]

@@chrishuffman5829He wants 110 pounds or less so he doesnt break any bones....

[@michaelgarcia2973]

I want a Ukrainian woman i will learn the Ukrainian Culture and get me one just like The Grand Muscovite Prince of Russia Ivan III and Sophia Paleologeous of Byzantium.

[@TheRedsunsets]

3 only lol 😅😅😅

[@matchmakerhelen]

Only 😉

[@virgiliopedrosa54]

Can you give me a ukrainian woman to be my wife...

[@matchmakerhelen]

easily when you apply :)

[@billyjohnesterhuizen6340]

PROBLEM NO. 1 = SHE CAN'T SPEAK AFRIKAANS. PROBLEM NO. 2= SHE DON'T LIKE BILTONG. PROBLEM NO. 3=I'LL HAVE TO START LEARNING THE UKRAINIAN LANUAGE.

[@matchmakerhelen]

thank you for sharing )

[@maxpyn8120]

Vie practice Afrikaans? Jy !

[@billyjohnesterhuizen6340]

@@maxpyn8120 yes I'm an Afrikaans speaking guy.

[@StevenWJRichards]

No you don't, they all speak Russian very well!

[@kalimbodelsolgiuseppeespos8695]

Questi non sono problemi . 🥲

[@cd4429]

Maybe this is best left for the few Ukranian men that return home?

[@matchmakerhelen]

what do you mean?

[@iamTheSnark]

@@matchmakerhelen I think I recognise this one. Ignore him.

[@dtikvxcdgjbv7975]

Ukrainians are good people.

[@michaelfishman7174]

They are. I know them.

[@lalva2024]

I was already taken to the cleaners from my ex. Why would I want a repeat and jump from the pan to the fire 🔥. I’m looking for a rich woman and I don’t care which country she’s from. I gave everything and was shat upon. Now it’s my turn, my time

[@matchmakerhelen]

I feel sorry for your experience of this type ((

[@greer-lr2lg]

I feel sorry for your bad attitude and hope the ladies stay away from you..that's so toxic and immature.

[@lalva2024]

@@greer-lr2lg that’s your opinion, but I beg to differ

[@Powerranger560]

hello!!! I'm a man from Indonesia 🇮🇩 I want to find ukraina woman who is willing to marry me, I'm serious, not joking...thank you

[@rorychivers8769]

The first problem I have with Ukrainian wife is: Russki voienny korabel, idi nahui The second problem I have with Ukrainian wife is: Russku voienny korobel, idi nahui The third problem I have with Ukrainian wife is : No Smoking.

[@matchmakerhelen]

I think it looks like more a problem with Russian wife :) Is not it ?)

[@Jhihmoac]

_Nyet! No have nothing... Not good catch... Nice "Da Girl" need to find party man with bottomless money pit!_

[@FJMay-jx6hr]

You see a beautiful women, she sees her new passport. 5 years of illusion.

[@matchmakerhelen]

Just one story but there are plenty of good ones

[@FJMay-jx6hr]

@@matchmakerhelen No, it's the other way around.

[@hemantparakh6462]

Can you associate with me to start a 45 Potatoes Marriage plan for Ukrainian Girls seeking Marriage outside Ukraine to keep the Ukrainian Girls Happy

[@sharknadofartquake2449]

LOL you might as well ask her for a hamburger and you'll pay her Tuesday for one today!

[@mrrichierich9916]

🇬🇧❤🇺🇦😄😁 We all go looking for love and sometimes it doesn't work People give you information but sometimes it's not about the information it's about the people If I knew what went on in a woman's mind I be the happiest man in the world or I will be the richest If I got lucky I met the right person in The Ukraine it would be probably a miracle From what I understand now is 99% of all women will only marry a man from the Ukraine Which means the odds against me I never understand what the Ukraine women want about certain men who are heavy smokers and also heavy drinkers I never understand what makes them think or even what makes them happy If there was a Ukraine woman that would be happy just to leave from 1 day to the next and accept what she has is better than nothing and that's the person for me I live in the UK England right now but my intentions are to move next year in 2024 Next year I will be looking at a new life a new way of thinking life is easy with nothing but it is easier when you have a wife or a wife or a woman in your life And beggars can't be chooses Age is just a number ❤❤❤❤❤😊

[@jedhillbilly]

Sounds like a "Gold digger" to me!

[@matchmakerhelen]

What exactly, Dylan?

[@jedhillbilly]

@@matchmakerhelen Aww C'mon now. We all can see it!

[@samii-ullah8802]

I want. To. Merry. One. Ukrine. Girl.

[@nephilimivritt8216]

theyre lazy

[@matchmakerhelen]

did you have relationship with the lazy Ukrainian woman?

[@gerardshort531]

I look at the comments here and I see many who assume Ukrainian woman are different than what you find everywhere.., All men and woem can make your life hell if you choose wrong. That applies everywhere. For what I know, older women are like Latino's and Filipino's, they are pure blooded homemakers and they desire nothing more that a lovely relationship and not fear a male who drinks too much and turns into a violent abuser. She will be as afraid as the man as to if what she is dating is really the person he appears.? Otherwise they are as good as any foreign woman and what her culture can teach you brings joy into the relationship. Compared to Western women, especially American women, a man would be better off with a jungle bunny that that.. You just have to give it time. Months perhaps spending time together just being around each other. Then, if both of you look forward to meeting again and one day you realise both of you are on the same page emotionally, them grab it. One more point, leave the sex thing at the door. You don't need complications and remember, both of you are free to walk away at any time.