3 REASONS GOD IS NOT LETTING YOU MOVE ON/LET GO FROM SOMEONE Alan Watts Motivational Speech

[@silviasweidan]

Brilliant

[@NetiNeti-q8i]

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[@Chris-vp2lm]

Three reasons why life can suck really bad. You're being withheld and you go this way and that but your always blocked. Turn around and go the other way. Nothing there to block you and it's clean and clear to flag town.

[@JacobEmmott]

False hope.

[@lunarachel4530]

And I try to give myself grace, but the more I don’t see what it is I’m supposed to see, the harder it is to trust that I’m not stupid.

[@brandonarnold970]

Are you an anxiously attached person? If so, what that anxiety is, is a want for control that's not being met, you want to know and you want to know now. But you can't see it or feel it when you try to dominate it. You're not stupid. You just need to first acknowledge that you seek control where it's impossible. It'll happen when it happens. Was there ever a life lesson your parents or family instilled in you, that just didnt resonate? Until you find yourself driving or doing some rote labor, and then all the sudden, boom, you understand it, it resonates. You weren't forcing, you weren't trying to control, you surrendered, and it came.There are things we can control in life and things we can't. Acknowledge it, accept it, then focus on what you can do instead of trying to control the uncontrollable. Think about what you want for the well-being of that special person in your life, whether it's a parent, sibling, friend, or lover. All those things you want for them...why aren't you doing those things for yourself? If you can give that kind of love to someone else, then you have the capacity to give it to yourself, my friend. Self-love and care, that is grace. Would you allow that lover or friend or family member to talk themselves the same way you're talking to yourself? I'd be willing to guess not. Show up for yourself the way you show up for others, surrender to life, it has your back, but only if you let it. I promise you this.

[@lunarachel4530]

That’s right. Time does not heal. But it has revealed nothing. I still have no idea what lesson or understanding I am supposed to grasp. It’s frustrating. Not growing at all, because I have no idea what I am supposed to understand. And I don’t know what to do. At all.

[@danyellerobinson5940]

Surrender to the unknown.

[@lunarachel4530]

@ yup

[@jacquelineweeden7768]

Do nothing just be with what you feel.. except how you feel, dont fight it. Try not to dismiss your feelings, they are important and belong to you.. Just be quiet for awhile avoid large crowds and negative people.. Enjoy your own company become happy with you. It takes practice but its worth the effort, youre worth the effort.