3 Reasons He Is Not Putting Effort In (happens all the time!!!)

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3 Reasons He Is Not Putting Effort In (happens all the time!!!) Why he is not putting any effort?
00:00 Intro
01:56 you are allowing it
08:08 you are offering to go out of your way
09:56 you offer yourself
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[@piak78]

He doesnt put in effort because he knows ure not the one and hes telling u that. All others reasons r just speculations sis. Cut your losses and cut him loose. And find someone who puts in efforts from the get-go. I have experienced this. Dont waste your time with a-holes and trying to convince them to choose you.

[@AG-vp1ok]

Hey sis. I agree with you that no one should stay with an a-hole, but Greta did preface the video by saying the video is not about giving toxic men (e.g. a-holes) a chance. I watch videos by male dating coaches for women. As men, I don't know if they would agree with you that the only reason a man does not put effort is because he thinks you are not the one. It might just be a man being a man. Just as you mentioned the reasons in the video are speculation, how do you know what you said is not speculation?

[@piak78]

@@AG-vp1ok Experience is the best teacher. U will understand what I am saying as u get older and wiser.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

@@piak78 I concur. If he wants you then he makes an effort. 😼

[@TrekkieGeneral]

YOU ARE SO SMART, GRETA. I TURNED DOWN ANOTHER MARRIAGE PROPOSAL FROM SOMEONE WHO COULD NOT LIVE UP TO MY STANDARDS. I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH MONEY HE HAS. HE IS NOT THE ONE.

[@ninc2518]

We sabotage ourselves because we react in a way that does not respond to our real interests.

[@01Mariah10]

❗️❕️❗️ this literally just happened to me.. because I THOUGHT I was supposed to do that & in reality, I wasn't even feeling him that much 😂 at the time... I thought that they wanted to see our emotions, be vulnerable, feminine, fluid, and flowing... im so fucking confused, but they say we're complicated?! So I'm supposed to not act on my feelings, but make it hard for him to get to me even if i really want him??I've been upset with myself since all this information has been sent my way now bc there's so many times I should've listened to my intuition. It's almost like fomo if I'm being honest, but deep down, I really could care less.. Like I trick myself into making me like him or want to show up for him 🤦🏾‍♀️ because I think that's how I show effort. 😤 I've always had accountability for myself and actions, but now I GRASP the concept of when they say what happens to us is literally our own faults and what we allow.

[@ak-47intelligence75]

It sounds like stories tells you about his exes ( the dinners, the holidays etc ) was to merely spite you and make you think " if I just work harder at pleasing him, maybe I'll get this same treatment too " . Dont fall for it. It will only get worse.

[@serenityjewel]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I don't know what I was expecting (I think the shirt threw me off) but this was so on point!!! I used to be this stupid but thankfully life, study, and observation has thoroughly educated me on men and how they think and act. They're not even remotely like women and we need to stop acting like they are. Unfortunately, some people never learn. I have a 47 year old friend who's driving 4 hours round trip to be with a guy every other weekend, a guy she's been seeing for 6 MONTHS, and she's not even allowed to say they're dating. "Dating", just the word dating, is too much of a commitment for him. And she really believes they're taking it slow. And other people have the audacity to tell her he really cares about her. 6 months. She can't even say they're dating. But he really cares about her. I can't with these people. Since she's the type who gets angry and refuse to listen, I just say "You're better than me" and walk away.

[@nevadatan7323]

Meet people at the halfway point. Dont run the entire lenth of the room just to be close to him.

[@mirzabeg2274]

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[@user-ik7ji6td9y]

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[@krystalh2860]

Is it my job to schedule my husbands appointments (he assumes i will) or is that really his?

[@serenityjewel]

Is he paying you? If you're being paid, than it's your job. If you're not being paid, it's not your job. The question is, is it your obligation or responsibility? The answer is still no. It's your responsibility to take care of your child or someone who's incapable of taking care of themselves AND you've agreed to make them your dependent. Your spouse is neither. If you want to be his personal unpaid assistant, you definitely can but no, it's not your job, obligation, or responsibility. And just know, taking care of your husband as if he's a child might eventually change how you see and how you feel about him. It's hard to retain attraction or even respect for someone who you treat like a child. Children aren't sexy and they're not suppose to be.