Ladies, assess the difference between naive and stupid - even a highly academically educated or professional can be naive, but not stupid.
@noneofyourbuizness Жыл бұрын
Whats does having education have to do with social skills and common sense ?
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@AbdAllah_54564 Жыл бұрын
@@noneofyourbuiznessthat's literally what he said.
@sadafsensi37563 ай бұрын
What would he mean by a purposeful relationship
@-Reussite-2 ай бұрын
THIS
@tmrsa7594Ай бұрын
I’ve been really good friends with a Muslim girl since high school and we are now in our final year of university. I have met her parents and siblings and her family has entrusted me to kind of protect as we are in University in a different country. I genuinely see her as my little sister and we’ve helped each other so much and we’ve always kept it respectful like we haven’t been in a room alone. I just don’t understand how a mutually beneficial friendships that have helped you so much in life be a bad thing.
@PassengerFifty7Ай бұрын
But if she offered you the cheeks would you do it.....Don't answer, I already know the answer. If the answer is truly "no" then she is very unattractive. Let's be real bro.
@cupofsatoriАй бұрын
💀
@parasstone841414 күн бұрын
I'll tell you my story as a guy who have lots of ladies best friends. There are some differences. I see some girls as my sisters so we became best friends, because I was never physically attracted towards those girls so we can remain friends , but I also became close friends or best friends with some to get close and win her heart and even if she have boyfriend, just wait for correct opportunity if they ever broke up, you are there to fill that part . But those girls can't never decide what is the main purpose of that guy? To have sister/brother kinda healthy friendly relationship or the guy pretending to be best friend but is actually waiting for correct opportunity. And I'm saying this from my experience.
@arrmisc Жыл бұрын
No. 3 is the No. 1
@centrist6828 Жыл бұрын
killed it bro 💪 💯
@centrist682810 ай бұрын
@@user-yt2mo8ze7y jazakallah khair bro
@teresawatson90328 ай бұрын
Yea tbh I don’t think men and women can be friends one of them always catches feelings, so if you are in a relationship you should never have a one on one friendship with someone of the opposite sex. From my experience the only ppl who disagree with this concept are either naive, gay or a cheater. Your only friend of the opposite sex should be your spouse.
@killer_cat-3213 ай бұрын
YALL ARE CRAZY. MEN AND WOMEN CAN BE JUST FRIENDS💀💀
@Ethan7_73 ай бұрын
@@killer_cat-321 Id love to see how youre gonna feel about a close opposite sex friend of your spouse. Dont be naive and delusional
@fenanluvsummer2 ай бұрын
@@killer_cat-321exactly i’m watching these because i’m in the more than friends situation and some y’all comments are correct😭
@bpop93942 ай бұрын
This all is so stupid, does it apply to kids too? Good god
@teresawatson90322 ай бұрын
@@bpop9394 no not kids lol, it’s different after puberty kicks in
@markambrose6611 ай бұрын
I agree to an extent that guys and girls can't be just friends but you can have female acquaintances and be friendly with them
@Madison01937 ай бұрын
same here, I think that applies vice versa to with male acquaintances
@nomejest59194 ай бұрын
NOOOOO !!!! ALLAH SAID YOU CANT
@Madison01934 ай бұрын
@@nomejest5919 there's nothing wrong with having acquaintances of either gender also I'm not Muslim, I'm Christian maybe the rules are different for both religions
@nomejest59194 ай бұрын
@Madison0193 You should not have unnecessary interactions with strange females or males. This is from the sunnah. Stop using thr word so ambigiously.
@Madison01934 ай бұрын
@@nomejest5919 strange?, how is hanging out with my male cousins and female cousin strange? I view one of my male cousins as an acquaintance also not trying to use words ambiguously but I'm just saying I'm Christian so the Quran and Sunnah's laws don't apply to me, none of my cousins are Muslim either so the rules don't apply to them either
@abdullahmofeez292 Жыл бұрын
100% right
@aradicalkiwi80610 ай бұрын
Okay firstly, Sexual desire is an emotion, it’s called arousal. Women are just more used to dealing with arousal around others because guys like Muhammad be creeping on 12 year olds. Secondly, I find guys are usually far more naive. Assuming that if a women takes any interest in you they want to have sex, when believe it or not there are many people attempting monogamy who also want friends, crazy. I have multiple girl friends, and a partner, and my partner does not care, and rather when we have the opportunity we are usually having sex for at least an hour and a half a day every day, usually more. Ya’ll just insecure cause ya’ll don’t know how to eat cat or use your cocks properly lmao.
@xerikl Жыл бұрын
Islam says it's haraam, reason enough for me
@0_Nobody7 ай бұрын
Escape from this cult. Islam is haram to humans.
@ResZCreator7 ай бұрын
@NoorNoor16-vq8bxMost stupid question that i ever know
@xerikl4 ай бұрын
@NoorNoor16-vq8bx it's not haraam to breathe. I don't get your point? What's so difficult in lowering your gaze and respecting your sisters
@That_idolАй бұрын
Islam doesn’t fucking exist stop getting brainwashed
@Abdullah_13579 Жыл бұрын
Keep making this content, it is important to spread these type of messages
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@Answersonapostcard10 ай бұрын
Its bollocks
@That_idolАй бұрын
No it’s not stop getting brainwashed
@ReggieRorick10 ай бұрын
even though i dont read the Quaran and not islam i agree 1,000,000%
@dresdi Жыл бұрын
I've had this female friend Ive known for years , before I reverted to Islam. I still speak to her now, but I know it's wrong. Please make Dua for me to gain the strength leave this friendship, because I know Allah will replace it with something better
@Footballfan991210 ай бұрын
Ameen brother
@zzzxxx729410 ай бұрын
Ameen, all the best. Marry her and introduce her to islam if it's an option. Otherwise, best wishes
@0_Nobody7 ай бұрын
Escape this cult. And be a human being
@digitalarslan17787 ай бұрын
Ameen
@anishashaheen65775 ай бұрын
Ur last line is beautiful
@Akil_khazali Жыл бұрын
Subhanallah. May Allah give us a good wife/ husband and jannah 🤲🏾 Aaaaamiiiiiin ☺️
@mehzgirl5044 Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@mk4_supra339 Жыл бұрын
آمين
@hafsamanar8610 Жыл бұрын
Best response that I heard for this question 👌❤
@aaishairfan37679 ай бұрын
Subhan Allah ❤...this is so beautiful just notice how Allah said don't even go near it Just think if there are colorful electronic wires are open in the study of a man,, in the love and care of his children he would told them not to go in the room because he exactly knows if the children went there they might get attracted to the wires and may touch them and ultimately harm themselves...indeed he's Al Aleem and Hakeem
@Faithandseekerofchrist7 ай бұрын
As a woman, a 100% agreed that men and women cannot be friends. They can be respectful and cordial towards the opposite gender, but that doesn't mean they should be friends. It is extremely disrespectful to your significant other and/or your spouse! Plus a lot of time the two of you are not on the same page regarding your intentions on being "friends".
@samanthabmw3306 ай бұрын
Hey, totally agree w you and also Christian here.. when I used to have BMF throughout my 20s-30s, NOT anymore. Amazing we have these Values same w/ Muslims?? Reminds me of the Detroit school board Teaching Gender changing drama...
@keifer78136 ай бұрын
So you're saying that there are no two people out there that are opposite genders, and completely platonic friends?
@CaptainQuoll3 ай бұрын
@@keifer7813I can tell you this… 5 of my 9 friends are girls! All Platonic with a capital P
@keifer78133 ай бұрын
@@CaptainQuoll Yeah because you're not attracted to any of them
@voidboi28313 ай бұрын
and if theyre both single?
@moky1269 Жыл бұрын
Baraka Allah film brother ❤❤❤
@Hussain-ul7uq Жыл бұрын
Brother you are absolutely correct.
@emmanuelompad272310 ай бұрын
Very well said.. 🥰🥰🥰
@makidadatodalo799 Жыл бұрын
Jazzaka Allahukhaira❤
@parasstone841414 күн бұрын
I'll tell you my story as a guy who have lots of ladies best friends. There are some differences. I see some girls as my sisters so we became best friends, because I was never physically attracted towards those girls so we can remain friends , but I also became close friends or best friends with some to get close and win her heart and even if she have boyfriend, just wait for correct opportunity if they ever broke up, you are there to fill that part . But those girls can't never decide what is the main purpose of that guy? To have sister/brother kinda healthy friendly relationship or the guy pretending to be best friend but is actually waiting for correct opportunity. And I'm saying this from my experience.
@djikashmir998 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly explained
@Klepto99011 ай бұрын
This is sad but 100% true and as a Muslim we can't denie it
@MDRakibHossenMasud-yx2gz10 ай бұрын
absolutely right
@AditiVerma-uk3ri10 ай бұрын
I have so many male friends nd they r just friends to me
@Khatimclothes Жыл бұрын
Masha ALLAH❤❤❤❤😊
@crazylottt7946 Жыл бұрын
Ya ALLAH Make me and my whole family and friends true muslims Allahumma ameen Jazakumullahu khairan Prb
@w31rd087 ай бұрын
Counter. What if the guy is gay?
@Jellybeantoppings2 ай бұрын
Having a gay partner is equivalent to zina
@MakiChoo-fs3pn3 күн бұрын
It's still it's a men Men will be men
@a.anonymous0 Жыл бұрын
Girls need to understand that boys just wanna use them so be modest be private and ignore them all don't be fooled and don't be showing yourself on the media as well whether or not you're wearing hijab because there is also rulings on that but not many people wanna speak about it.. (edit) Just to clarify I am not slandering as a comment has been made I am only talking about haram relationships for advice and not to go near it and to protect others falling into bad things well in some cases this can be marriage. Don't take it too seriously but the rulings of Islam stands things which are forbidden then avoid and things which are allowed no prob.
@Mohammed-yc6nn Жыл бұрын
You would be surprised how many women, especially those in western countries, are just after intimate activity.
@a.anonymous0 Жыл бұрын
@@Mohammed-yc6nn wow the dunya.. 😭 I didn't really know that exactly
@knightrider2863 Жыл бұрын
@@Mohammed-yc6nnwhy always looking at western like Asia like Middle East and other countries are any less ?
@immune855 Жыл бұрын
@@knightrider2863 because theres less
@akmyths2391 Жыл бұрын
There is no rulings about this matter, please show where it is stated in the Quran that a girl can’t post on social media with a hijab.
@The_dark_commenter5 ай бұрын
Idgaf I’m still gonna be friends with a girl. Her name is Emme. We get along so well and I’m not gonna get rid of her
@thirur92836 ай бұрын
Friendship is a feeling, an experience and a journey. With some people it’s long but with some people it’s short. If you realise this, you can be friends with which ever person you want. 😁
@anonymouslyyours612610 ай бұрын
Nasheed plzzzz!!
@patricianeal9245Ай бұрын
The 1st one is very accurate some girls get jealous of the guy being in a relationship not because the girl actually likes him byt because the guys attention does not evolve around her anymore
@saadwatson899211 ай бұрын
MashaAllah ❤
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@nathaliecastillo3579 ай бұрын
THATS NORMALLY WHEN THINGS START…… whaaatttt?? 😅
@AdebayoOlamide-oh9sc6 ай бұрын
SubhanaAllAH
@From_the_star2 ай бұрын
The no1 is so true 🌟.
@SuperServentofAllah Жыл бұрын
Facts.
@brandsfactoryacademy9367 Жыл бұрын
ALHAMDULILLAH
@HyperrBloxАй бұрын
can someone drop the hadith that says its prohibited
@LifeHecker2 ай бұрын
No, girls are not naives! She thinks I love her when I just want to be friends!
@chloetasticccc6 ай бұрын
no actually guys and girls can be just friends people clearly don’t understand bc i have a lot of guy friends and we have no sexual connection between each other it’s called BEING FRIENDLY
@keifer78136 ай бұрын
How are you so sure there are no feelings on their side?
@dtk82665 ай бұрын
Then they're gay lol
@realtalk447811 ай бұрын
Facts
@j_s5529 ай бұрын
I’ve been like this for years. I don’t believe guys and girl can be friends, especially when one ends up in a relationship, all of a sudden the ‘friend’ likes the one that got into a relationship
@DF-fp4cg8 ай бұрын
I keep learning this over and over with my guy friends.😏
@OmerS2583711 ай бұрын
yes i do have a friend of mine who is my best friend and i always wan to see her happy but what if as i start leaving and closing the casual friendship, she gets angry or sad or as if she is not a good friend and im just ignoring her or smtg like i have now realized that i like her too but no i do not have any intimate desires i just want her to be happy and satisfied , so can someone tell what would be a good thing to do here
@OmerS2583711 ай бұрын
i would love a reply from @thesunnahguy
@everythingsgood448710 ай бұрын
Leave her for Allah....if she is a Muslim then she will understand too... I went through this as well...I experienced this it was very hard for me but yeah now I'm over it.... Just do it for Allah.... Because u know it's wrong & if u still continue then it would be considered as a sin... Do u really wanna commit sin ??
@Nobody-yx8og7 ай бұрын
Just wondering, where are you from?
@OriginMSD7 ай бұрын
Guys who joke and hang out with their overweight older female lesbian coworkers 💀
@BloodyHand29 Жыл бұрын
Point number 3 should be point number 1 akhi.
@StayCoolAsh4 ай бұрын
I’m Christian and I do not understand what the Quran says, but I felt that it was right.
@T_nicklehead Жыл бұрын
I have women friends and I am a guy they are all casual friends. I have never and will never be sexually attracted to them because the relationship that I have with them is platonic
@seekingdeen. Жыл бұрын
U shouldn't be like near around them most if the time tho
@T_nicklehead Жыл бұрын
?
@seekingdeen. Жыл бұрын
@@T_nicklehead Like next to them alot. In proxemic terms. Also no touching.
@T_nicklehead Жыл бұрын
Why
@T_nicklehead Жыл бұрын
They are people to
@talhamalik2092 Жыл бұрын
Number 3 always first
@talmadgeholloway27342 ай бұрын
The Amount of Insecurity's is strong with this one
@animedude728629 күн бұрын
Facts I agree, islam the religion of insecurity
@Jamesseekstruth10 ай бұрын
Exception for me i left home at 15 i have two female friends that are older than me buy 20 years not peirs but friends in that people replace your family if your family kick you out , one is like a grnadmother / Aunt the other like a older sister in no way have i ever felt anything sexual toward them in 20 years since , again rare exception due to a extreme circumstance .
@PlayerH_ Жыл бұрын
Me as an aro/ace. Mhm interesting
@pikachustar82605 ай бұрын
My only female best friend is my sister, not sister by blood or cousin but we're related🤍✨
@DzemalD Жыл бұрын
So true mashallah. Just like how our beloved Rasool Allah s.a.w. and Abu Bakr RA were more than just friends.
@SusanAbby-ym6ip6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@Mysterious_110211 ай бұрын
I am friend with a muslim boy since childhood and we are going to do a bussines and thats work related and i dont see him that often but its that ok?
@Footballfan991210 ай бұрын
Yes for business is ok
@user-qg2fi4kw2q10 ай бұрын
@@Footballfan9912it's harram
@Annabeth-chase_x33 ай бұрын
I think me and my male friend can be just friends, I know it because I know he likes someone else
@user-hz3ml3pj9s Жыл бұрын
What is the background sound?
@aaalynch5706 Жыл бұрын
holy humming
@CaptainQuoll3 ай бұрын
Girls make up like 4/8 of my friends 😂😂😂
@MidnightDesperado66 Жыл бұрын
Its good to see that it doesn't matter your religion, guys will be guys and girls are naive.
@daddycoolzzz1544 Жыл бұрын
❤
@user-tq7zu7hg9y2 ай бұрын
I have an freind she lives far away from e and it can't led to zina so can we stay freinds or its haram
@darindk71099 ай бұрын
how about a person u know him online and u are a friend with him only online 🙃🙃 but sometimes he saying he will visit my country one day can someone explain ?
@daleferia16407 ай бұрын
I no longer talk to any of my female friends
@user-bc8eo1zu3yАй бұрын
# 2 us real
@LyricsUnlimited309 ай бұрын
in short you can be just friends in work or school related but not casual because men think differently and girls uses men for utility
@CosmicTRIA2 ай бұрын
me being best friends with a girl (were both autistic [not severely])
@ultras37056 ай бұрын
I’m a Christian but I agree
@maxwellc2065 Жыл бұрын
Alhumdulliah
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@iMMACASUAL_2 ай бұрын
🔥☝️☝️☝️
@suedearing-ex7ve Жыл бұрын
He doesn't know what he's missing. Women can and do get led by their sexual desires❤
@saaa.aaa. Жыл бұрын
But guys is more but yeah women are more emotional
@striveinallahspath40011 ай бұрын
He is speaking in general to the majority not the minority
@touchheart362911 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah I'm not naive to realize that emotions are emotions. Nothing more serious. I actually dont like going into a relationship, because i dont want. If Allah SWT gave me a good husband, I'm happy. Alhamdulilah. But at the moment i wont go search one. Avoid contact with men very much.
@maazfarooqui846110 ай бұрын
It's a person to person thing.
@user-cg3uk3ux8y Жыл бұрын
Hello
@DJEjay198Ай бұрын
While you have a good argument, it still seems going straight to a romantic relationship instead of working up to it seems sorta unhealthy
@unnikuttxn7 ай бұрын
Guys and girls CAN BE best friends
@ResZCreator7 ай бұрын
After married ? Yes
@sharkgrenadevr6 ай бұрын
@@ResZCreator Or before
@MakiChoo-fs3pn3 күн бұрын
@@sharkgrenadevrnot before
@sharkgrenadevr3 күн бұрын
@@MakiChoo-fs3pn They can be friends before
@MakiChoo-fs3pn3 күн бұрын
@@sharkgrenadevr no they can't
@user-wc7qo8xi2t11 ай бұрын
Then how'd you explain my friendship with a girl?
@The_rat_gnome10 ай бұрын
I have a friend group and it’s two boys including me and three girls on of the girls think more like a guy well more like me and the other boy and none of us like each other like we want to marry anyone Elsa in the group
@yathishk8529 Жыл бұрын
This guy is still 1000 years behind. Humans should adapt to the time. My question is why some of them misbehave. We need to find what makes them behave badly in comparison to well behaved people. The only solution is good parenting, teachings and input they get by surroundings.
@weewoo695 Жыл бұрын
Theres this girl I talk to sometimes but if she asked me out I'd def decline
@Sacofpotato Жыл бұрын
Stop talking to her. It'll give her false hope.
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@SpeedExtreeme Жыл бұрын
@Soldier368 they obviously have desires to date guys but much less than men
@madmax7539 Жыл бұрын
Cause maybe its not the girls that are the problem but its the guy.
@madmax7539 Жыл бұрын
@Soldier368 it's clearly the guy. You proved my point.
@harrismunir710 ай бұрын
I’m friends with girls if they tried to move to me Id back hand them respectfully
@animatedcap Жыл бұрын
Right😢
@audsjk8 ай бұрын
I have many guy friends, in fact about half. (11/35). I talk to the, daily and we have a great time. Some used to like me and I used to like some of them, but its not uncomfortable or anything. I dont believe in God or Allah, but I dont hate on it either. So this is only true for some people. My friends all dont have any guy friends, but Im sure some of the people in the comments do.
@ifrahshah81357 ай бұрын
see this is what he is saying. allah swt has told us to not go near the steps of zina. So, as a muslim it makes complete sense to obey him and know that whats forbidden is forbidden. its just for our own betterement
@audsjk7 ай бұрын
@@ifrahshah8135 what? im not religious. god has nothing to do with my relationship
@ResZCreator7 ай бұрын
@@audsjkWell. So can you control yourself your heart ? Your periods ? Your Blood in your body ?
@audsjk7 ай бұрын
@@ResZCreator what? nobody can
@ResZCreator7 ай бұрын
@@audsjk Sure, but how you could live if you cant control it. What is it move by itself. No. Everyone exactly know everything cant move by itself right ? So Whos control it ? Allah(God) whoss control it. why you dont gratefull to your God ?
@ApplesPlaytime10 ай бұрын
Me being gay and all my girl friends being lesbian 🍵🗿
@AhmedMohammed-xq5ep10 ай бұрын
this is not for you.
@MakiChoo-fs3pn3 күн бұрын
Go to a hospital dude
@bpop93942 ай бұрын
What about children? When I was in elementary school, I had a lot of friends, both male and female. In secondary school, I also met a few boys who I befriended. I'm also not religious.
@deedarklord2 ай бұрын
Lol, so a child is an unformed personality, and in childhood you don’t choose friends, but simply communicate with the same children from your environment
@bpop93942 ай бұрын
@@deedarklord I don't know about you but I definitely chose my friends.
@deedarklord2 ай бұрын
@@bpop9394 And how old were you then? If it's below 16, then I'll fall laughing
@bpop93942 ай бұрын
@@deedarklord What? Do you really think kids younger than 16 can't choose who they're friends with?
@deedarklord2 ай бұрын
Well, yes. Are you saying that as a 10-year-old brat whose vacuum of interests consists of chips and videos on TikTok, you can filter your surroundings so that interesting and loyal people remain in it? Are you serious?
@maryamismail11259 ай бұрын
but can we be friends in video games and i promise i wont ever come close to zina ever i have one boy as a friend and when he was trying to flrit with me i stopped him but other than that there is nothing and im not friending him bc i wanted to have someone to play with on roblox but if its haram plz tell me and i will unfriend him
@0_Nobody7 ай бұрын
Escape this cult! Save yourself from Religion. It will destroy you. Be critical. Be logical. Be friends with whom you love and care. Stop listening to these clowns.
@MakiChoo-fs3pn3 күн бұрын
Don't talk with him just play the game and Go😂
@w8asec74 Жыл бұрын
Im not a girl or a boy does that mean i can be friends with whoever i want or does that mean i cant be friends with anyone?
@Footballfan991210 ай бұрын
There are only 2 genders
@khalidibnal-waleedsayfulla68688 ай бұрын
Then your not a muslim if your not a girl or a boy.
@Footballfan99128 ай бұрын
@@khalidibnal-waleedsayfulla6868 bro he is not even a human 💀
@w8asec748 ай бұрын
@khalidibnal-waleedsayfulla6868 why not?
@moneylovepower5675 Жыл бұрын
Is long distance relationship wrong when you plan on getting married as soon as you meet in person
@Mohamedali-es5kf Жыл бұрын
Delete her contact, and get in touch with her father
@Fareeh. Жыл бұрын
I don't think chatting to know about the person without seeing each others face would be haram but I may be wrong. Also you can see the person once in photo or directly just to know wheather you find her physically attractive. Also her father must be aware of all of this. Allah knows best
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@moneylovepower5675 Жыл бұрын
Ok but I’m the only Muslim is my family in I’m the female
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
@@moneylovepower5675 contact an imam local to you and inshaAllah he can help
@Ulenia02 Жыл бұрын
Astagfirullah.
@user-yt2mo8ze7y Жыл бұрын
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74): رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma. (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama). Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. _______________ Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married: رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer. (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer). Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.” [Quran 28:24]. _________ Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂 I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq. Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married. _______
@Mimi82812Ай бұрын
Uhm..im gay bro..😭😭😭😭
@johndo26272 ай бұрын
Most are not quite as naive as you seem think
@benazeerbarudwale7429 Жыл бұрын
Allah-Hu-Akhbar❤🤲
@STRAIGHTUPMINISTRYS878 Жыл бұрын
THAT'S EXACTLY, WHY JESUS CHRIST SAID THAT YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN, 🤔 SO YOU,DON'T SEE THEM AS A SEXUAL DESIRES TO BE FULFILLED, THEY ARE WOMEN AND EACH ONE OF US WAS MADE FOR 1 PARTNER 2, BECOMES 1 FLESH AFTER THAT WE ARE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS
@IbroStephane-me8xw11 ай бұрын
🙅🙅🙏🙏🕌🕋
@atrijadhar344210 ай бұрын
Are you for real!
@martijndorr6534 Жыл бұрын
I agree although this has nothing to do with religion.
@zs7930 Жыл бұрын
When you think about it, every moral justification has to have its roots in religion. I am not talking about a moral opinion, but rather a moral justification. From an atheistic perspective, morality is a subjective feeling not an objective fact; it is nothing more than a figment of imagination or byprorduct of blind evolution. If an atheist is to justify an objective moral basis (by saying, "X things is evil" rather than, "I think X thing is evil"), he steals objectivity from religions.
@martijndorr6534 Жыл бұрын
@@zs7930 I am with you with that. The thing is that in this video there is an Islamic overkill. In my point of view it could nearly be any kind or form of religion. Religion is there to civilise mankind.
@zs7930 Жыл бұрын
@@martijndorr6534 Yeah I totally agree with you on that, my friend. Religion does civilize mankind, and I think we should look at the bigger picture here for two reasons: A) Muslims acknowledge that God sent many messengers prior to propeht Mohammed (peace and blessings be upon him). They all called for the absolute, monotheistic worship of God: (Keep in mind that Allah means God in Arabic; even Arabic speaking Christians use Allah to refer to God) [An-Naḥl: 36] (36) And We certainly sent into every nation a messenger, [saying], "Worship Allāh and avoid ṭāghūt."[698] And among them were those whom Allāh guided, and among them were those upon whom error was [deservedly] decreed. So proceed [i.e., travel] through the earth and observe how was the end of the deniers. [698]- False objects of worship - like human beings or idols. Thus, many religions around the world have certain moral aspects that are indeed from God. However, humans have altered these original, divine messages; they inserted aspects like this: 1 Samuel 15:2-3 ESV - (2) Thus says the LORD of hosts, ‘I have noted what Amalek did to Israel in opposing them on the way when they came up out of Egypt. (3)Now go and strike Amalek and devote to destruction all that they have. Do not spare them, but kill both man and woman, child and infant, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.’' As muslims, we acknowledge that God didn't make such an unjust order; he wouldn't order the killing of sinless infants and defenceless women. In contrast, this is what Islam says about massacres against innocents. From the hadith (i.e. the teachings of propeht Mohammed PBUH): ------------------------------------------------- During some of the Ghazawat of the Prophet (ﷺ) a woman was found killed. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) disapproved the killing of women and children. Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari (3014) and Sahih Muslim (1744a) ------------------------------------------------- From the holy Quran (i.e. the words of God): " ..whoever takes a life-unless as a punishment for murder or mischief in the land-it will be as if they killed all of humanity; and whoever saves a life, it will be as if they saved all of humanity. .." [ From surat Al-Ma'idah verse 32 ] " Fight in the cause of Allah against those who fight you, but do not transgress limits. Allah does not love transgressors." [ From surat Al-Baqarah verse 190 ] The concise tafsir of Al-Baqarah 190: 190. Fight in order to raise the word of Allah, against those of the disbelievers who fight you to turn you away from the religion of Allah; but do not overstep the limits of Allah by killing children, women, the elderly, or by mutilating the dead and so on. Allah does not love those who overstep the limits He has established and made sacred. B) I think we shouldn't have a narrow, secular-only approch on religion, my friend. Yes, religion civilizes humans, but that isn't the ultimate goal; the ultimate goal is to arrive at the truth that will please God. This truth will help us on the Day of Judgment - when all will be held accountable for their deeds. By that I mean, Islam is the only religion that truly reveres God with his proper reverence; God wouldn't be spit on and beaten - like some Christians believe. He doesn't need to rest after 6 days - like some Jews believe. He doesn't come down to ra**pe women - like hindus believe. If you search in all religions whilst genuinely looking for the truth, you'll see that only Islam appraises the attributes of God with their true and proper appraisal. If you want to understand why Islam represents the truth from God, you should read the Quran. Clear your mind of any biases, and read the Quran as if just now you're being introduced to Islam; that will help you in objectively judging it - based on its merits. After doing that, head to your nearest Islamic center. Ask them about anything you encountered. I suggest a site called "Quran . com" it has multiple translations if you click on settings (it also has an app). Or you can get a free physical copy if you prefer that: kzbin.infotAnoB_2-MBw?feature=share Honestly, that's the best way to learn how Islam represents the truth from God. May God show us the truth and guide us towards it 🙏❤️
@thosedreamingeyes94243 ай бұрын
Who's the Allah chal hat🤬Our Hinduism shows the beauty of the platonic nd pure friendship between krishna nd Draupadi ❤
@abettertaste310210 ай бұрын
Don't use this sound it's from an Indian movie it's not Nasheed