3 Things: Adultery Subreddit Posts, Exredpill Girl, Woman wants to leave her husband who has cancer

[@overtremendouslyblah]

The fact that there is a community of people who casually discuss their affairs like the weather is wild. Wow

[@anonanon7553]

yes. these people are horrible

[@hellohey000]

I think cheating is a kink. A fetish. The person who cheats is no better than a drug addict chasing a chemical high that eventually destroys all of their relationships. Remember , once a cheater always a cheater. As for the last lady, leave. If she was the sick spouse he would have been gone.

[@seabreeze4559]

It is. Mate poaching is the term for the sick thrill. A leopard never changes its spots.

[@hellohey000]

@@seabreeze4559 mate poaching?!? Wow. The depths of depravity that humans willingly go to for a thrill

[@lovelydeath04]

Yes, it is. Both for men and women, whether the partner knowingly (cuckholding) or unknowingly participates.

[@meilei8716]

I completely agree with you

[@nnuu7618]

The women on r/adultery are incredibly naive , back when i was nosey and used to browse there alot of the posts are women falling in love and thinking theyre the first choice even if theyre just a side piece cause they can "tell" their AP loves them more but clearly not enough to leave their wife smh. Its honestly pathetic and just sad

[@mariapaz6379]

naive and pathetic is a great description, these women talk about love as if they were teens. They act as if the AP is the love of their life and that they both feel the same, they are destined, etc. Often times they leave good husbands, family and kids behind, to follow "the rush". Then a couple of months later and is all about how "it was not worthy", the AP wasn't as into them as they thought, or the kids hate them now, or the ex-husband is being so cruel. But you know what they say about games and prizes🤷‍♀

[@TheePrincessBrat]

They need to work on their self worth

[@33-vertebrae]

The men who cheat with them openly state they know the side pieces want to be number one but can never be. So they laugh and enjoy the ride while the women have these emotional attachments and delusions.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@33-vertebrae the way they speak about their AP is like they only exist to fulfill their fantasies. They usually focus on how hot AP and how good the xes is. They also have a rule that you should avoid turning down xes with your partner so you don’t tip them off. They’re all just toys to these men. It’s sad and dehumanizing.

[@seabreeze4559]

audition smegs @@TheePrincessBrat

[@Panthabear27]

Divorcing your husband to be a side piece wow.

[@yeahiknow850]

And she's happy about it too😂 she'll never be his first choice, and she's smiling while crying! Jesus! It's mental illness

[@cerromeceo]

Can't make this shit up

[@LoveK1]

That’s good for the husband though. She’s trash and she took herself out.

[@unicorn73212]

Lol divorcing him to live alone big difference side pieces don't commit to men they usually live alone sometimes they have sugar daddy's and stuff like that but I finally figured out how to get rid of mine because he wasn't acting right after awhile breaking stuff not letting maintenance in to fix things so i might be able to be single again too it's all I've ever wanted was a place to myself. The most logical person on the police report is the woman that left or left to go be a side piece instead. If women leave you like this it's time to get some psych help.

[@hallievanoutryve3109]

@@unicorn73212thank you!

[@JaneDoe-s5u]

She should leave her Husband if he has Cancer. They do not think twice to leave us when we have something as mild as a flu!

[@unicorn73212]

I left my ex because he had dementia and I didn't feel like I could handle it. It really pisses me off that my case managers and landlord are acting like they just now realized I was trying to get away from that guy I didn't just want off the lease because of my credit he's also a danger to my safety and reputation hopefully women will start networking with each other like this to keep these bums away from women. They don't have as much power over women if you pay attention to the context of the story there's always a solution to escaping a guy with mental problems because there incompetent but if they have disability and food stamps it's not like your abandoning them with no food because the system still keeps supporting them. They still have access to things and if he refuses to leave the property at the end of the lease the eviction would only go on his file then they could just drag them off to a psych hospital, jail, or nursing home if they don't feel like they can be by themselves. He might be angry with me for awhile but he will be greatful to you later that you gained the courage to leave him when he was lashing out at people.

[@Jujubean9795]

It’s been three years and he’s still here... Divorce him and move on. OR stay married, do your own thing, date , etc. then when he does pass, collect those benefits.

[@flo9869]

😂 this is why I'm staying single, because this is ridiculous lol.

[@Happy-ey6yu]

Same.

[@vkat9762]

Team single for life, came to gather!

[@robind7352]

Exactly!!! There's too much crazy shit going on out there!!

[@melchiorlise2466]

People confuse love with sexual attraction and limerence.

[@LGrian]

“Red pill” insistence on slotting people into one of two boxes really speaks to the mental simplicity and fragility of the people who invented and are drawn to it.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

It’s quite remedial isn’t it

[@temperance2580]

Absolutely. When she said women want to be dominated. Who?? Some days I’m a kitten 🐱 some days I’m a lion 🦁 my free will is my heart, not wanted to be dominated by anyone.

[@seabreeze4559]

they cope for fetishes by generalising @@temperance2580

[@seabreeze4559]

at no point in the Bible does it endorse BDSM @@temperance2580

[@islandgirl8067]

These women are caught up in a fantasy world; they're emotionally involved but I bet their APs aren't. The lady in the last story needs to divorce this man ASAP. She's not obligated to stay with a man who mistreats her, even if he's dying. I'm questioning that since he has the energy to hang out with his friends and do everything except help around the house.

[@Happy-ey6yu]

Really, this is all just the honeymoon phase with their affair partners. They like the thrill it brings, not the actual person they're cheating with. If these guys actually took them seriously, they'd find themselves in the same predicaments, just with another man after some time surpasses. You can't build a relationship on lies and lust, which sounds like that's all they're doing.

[@kaydubya6347]

Right! And also you don't be submissive w a damn person or cheating with. It's what you want on your terms or not at all . If you're cheating you already have a mf who you're suffering with that person. I'll be damned if I "work while on vacation " (if you know what I mean)

[@seabreeze4559]

addicted to infatuation @@Happy-ey6yu

[@larachaplauske8818]

If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Ugh

[@Emptytopfloor]

Affair turns people into poets 😆

[@alleaseewsenoj161]

😂😂

[@Camille4Real]

Man, THIS! 🤣😂🤣

[@Aquariuswonder86]

I swearrr 😂

[@aal62976]

Not love. Limerance.

[@saraho9568]

Having a cancer diagnosis doesn't mean you can treat ppl around you like crap. I don't think so, i would leave.

[@Indyghurl]

I divorced my husband during his cancer treatment. He constantly told me I'd never do it, that deep down i loved him. Thing is with abusers you can't afford to show you care even a little bit as they will use it to manipulate you. So the brick walks got higher and higher. I attended his hospital appointments, physio etc. Was there when he was told the cancer had metastised. From diagnosis to death was 13 months. During the majority of that time, he did for himself or found others who would. Including reuniting with family who he'd had nothing to do with for a few years. Personally I just couldn't let him go through it on his own. It's easy to say you wouldn't do that if you've not been in the situation. It's also so confusing if you have lived it, cos you're constantly aware of how they can behave, wondering if it's all an act. Do whatever is right for you, that's all that matters. 💞💞

[@seabreeze4559]

why not wait to get the money? @@Indyghurl

[@saraho9568]

@@seabreeze4559 Cos you can't put a price on your sanity. Besides, an ex will get half in a divorce providing they've been married for a lengthy time.

[@beepbopboop7727]

Honestly rushing into marriage and kids at a young age is a mistake and a trap. Exhibit A

[@tayriobravo6204]

I’m never down with affairs. You get back what you put out. It’s says something about your character and your selfishness. I would never want to hurt someone or be the cause of someone else’s pain due to being the other person . It’s delusional and creating a relationship that isn’t really there. I hope these women get therapy and possibly delve into medication instead of getting their dopamine high from fleeting experiences.

[@UniquelyFrandi]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@catflon2388]

I am sorry, but I can't empathize/sympathize with anyone who cheats. I always equate cheating with a lack of self-esteem, low self-worth and validation seeking behavior. People who are true to themselves remain loyal no matter what the consequences are because they understand the loyalty is to themselves and their own integrity, not just to their partners.

[@abigaila2024]

For the last women with the husband with cancer….men leave or cheat on their wives when they have a life threatening illness…so the fact that he can’t treat you right in his last days you were right to want to leave him 3 years ago…

[@rn2787]

If she really hates her body and herself that much she needs a professional not a sub reddit

[@kcourtney6826]

Affairs don't have anything to do with the person, the real gratification comes from being deceptive, (we're sneaking around and nobody knows) which is why when everything is out in the open, its no longer fun and it fizzles fast. I don't know if I could stay with my spouse knowing they cheated, but also got a "rush" from doing it.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

⁠@@Tranquilityviewpoint it’s also easy to like the man while in the fantasy where there’s little liability. Get into a real relationship and see how *paranoid* you both are. Never knowing if you can fully trust the other

[@lavonnewr]

A least red pill chick acknowledges the inherent misogyny

[@GreekYogurtGranola]

The First Lady is delu delu

[@co7314]

If a man is cheating with you, he doesn't love you. Because putting you in the homewrecker role isn't something you do to someone you love.

[@jojoone1099]

The ex-Red Pill girl should take the Myers-Briggs test to figure out what she might want to do. She should also stop listening to the other Reds, and go no-contact with the toxic friends in her current circle.

[@madarawijerathne276]

Oh yeah I'm a INTP and growing up soo different from others. That was something other girls told me not that I thought I'm not like other girls. Finding out my mbti was extremely validating

[@ForUsNaturals]

The woman that hates women needs Princella the Queenmaker

[@peacefreedom4930]

I literally felt nauseous when you were reading about these affair “ love stories “. It’s crazy to me that people are out here getting a thrill from betraying their families. In my mind you protect family at all costs. So, this is the ultimate betrayal. Then to take it up a notch they seem delusional. They are blowing up their real lives to live a fantasy. This is some selfish sh!t. I hope these people don’t have children.

[@Long_May_They_Raine]

🗿🗿🗿 they sound deluded fr… END. THE. MARRIAGE.

[@insideAdirtyMind]

They need the marriage, otherwise the hidden lover would not be exciting. It is about this exact excitement, that you get away with something forbidden. These people need to betray someone, this is why affairs normally don´t survive after the split up of couples. When these people are fee they are not interested in their affair partner anymore.

[@grendelsmama2302]

@@insideAdirtyMindyes it’s the mental games not love that keeps them excited lol

[@hippie1252]

That young woman's story was so sad. She's doing a great job at unpacking though, acknowledging that she has internalized misogyny. I hope she continues to unpack all this, that she learns to love herself and others, and that she has the confidence to pave her way in the world. When we try to be one size fits all, we're miserable.

[@talkingtochapri]

Second story is soo relatable. I was 20 when redpill women content started to go viral. It was making me depressed. But then i started watching sheraseven, random videos of women who were talking incel podcast males and their leftover male behaviour it was comforting. That made me realise, it's not that serious, these are just leftover midlife crisis incel males who never got laid and became male karen 🤭💀 now we can all collectively laugh at those women hating males and move on with own lives.

[@anonanon7553]

yep. I definitely believed all the BS when I was 22. It's very sad, because I let it affect the choices I've made. Just now within the last year, I'm moving on and trying to be my best authentic self, not worried about men's egos.

[@NobodyImporttant]

I’ve been in ex Red Pill girl’s shoes. I never believed I the RP rhetoric, but when I was younger it still made me feel like shiii about myself. I feel sorry for kids these days as those ideologies are spread among boys. I heard female teachers talk about how bad boys are acting towards them.

[@anonanon7553]

Same. I let it get in my head a couple years ago when I was 22. Very sad, because I let it dictate my life choices.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

Cancer story: She should leave him or at the very least separate and see how she feels. I made friends with this older woman and not too long after, she found out her partner’s cancer was back and had spread. He was gone in less than a year. She said he could snap at her but I don’t think he was awful constantly like OP’s husband. HOWEVER he screwed her over with his will imo. She felt the same and the resentment slowly grew. She was there for him through an awful car wreck, the 1st cancer diagnosis, and now this one. He leaves almost everything for a daughter he barely spoke to. I get that he prob felt guilt for working so much when she was younger but c’mon. This woman was there through everything and now left in charge of such a disrespectful will. This was all during the lockdown too. It also came out of her pocket to hire a lawyer. I found out that he didn’t pay bills and was quite stingy. So this really hurt her. Sick or healthy. If he’s not respecting you leave. He likes his friends so much? They can look after him then

[@AndyyWithAY]

I assume she is married since she's talking about an AP. An affair is very different from being in an honest relationship. These people chase a high that's not sustainable long term. This isn't love. It's limerance and addiction to newness. I feel bad for the girl in story 2. I hope she finds advice that's actually positive. Masculine women and feminine men always have and always will exist. Women are not a monolith. Many redpillers are grifters themselves and don't even believe this 💩 but it's profitable esp among listless young people.

[@OO9O9]

Women aren't monolith but somehow you believe this sht called masculinity/femininity? There is no such things, these are lame labels created by patriarchy to monopolise things and oppresse certain demographics

[@4ElementGirl]

How you get them is how you lose them 😂

[@erzabetf9544]

I didn’t read a lot that was actually “masculine” about the red-pill woman. She has normal human ambition and normal human goals and normal human desires to use her brain and make her life meaningful. Only those weak, scared little red-pill men think those are uniquely “masculine” traits. That’s a way to insult women; it’s not real.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

This unlocked a memory. I saw a post, i don’t think it was on this subreddit, about a married woman who went to London for work trip. She had a KISS!! A freaking kiss at a bar! And was thinking about leaving her husband! She was hadn’t felt that kind of passion before, “soulmates” bla bla bla. They talked her out of it because it’s obviously so unrealistic and shortsighted. She reluctantly agreed. Was going to destroy her family over a kiss. Lady you’re _bored_ , find a way to spice up your marriage instead of destroying it.

[@daughterofyemoja]

The second story of the ex rp girl shows the dangers of defining womanhood as a set of stereotypes who you as a girl or woman should conform to and identify with. Just because womanhood is associated with wearing makeup, wearing high heels and dresses does not mean that that's the definition of what a woman is. Those are gender specific stereotypes and are very subjective influenced by culture, religion, time, etc. Womanhood/girlhood are nothing more than biological facts.

[@daughterofyemoja]

@@stucker3188 Yes, it's really disheartening to see but I don't make comments about it because I'm afraid to be accused of hating a certain demographic that benefits from people believing that womanhood is something you can just choose to identify with. However, seeing the negative effects it has on young women and girls makes me want to speak up about it .

[@fantym1633]

There's are big difference between gender dysphoria & Autogynephilia, tho.

[@daughterofyemoja]

@@fantym1633 Sure there is. However, what does gender dysphoria actually mean if "gender" is just a collection of, like I mentioned before, stereotypes about what a man or woman is supposed to like or dislike, want or don't want. What does being a woman mean? How do you know you're a woman?

[@seabreeze4559]

we don't need to earn it and we cannot buy it

[@seabreeze4559]

both RP and those ones are genderlarping but the RP is also tradlarping @@daughterofyemoja

[@sammijo125]

I am utterly confused. You don’t care for your partner but won’t leave them.

[@ninabeena83]

Girlllll the dramatic reading had me ctfu 😂😂 these people are clueless, delusional, and cruel. Smh

[@BurbNBougie]

Like how I turn that on!? Lol

[@Peachyqueen23]

The girl in the third story should watch The Queenmaker, that will snap her out of it😂

[@talkingtochapri]

And sheraseven, manifestelle, etc

[@andreasmith3638]

I wouldn’t leave him bcuz he had brain cancer BUT.. I would have a $250,000 insurance policy on his behind!! Yes ma’am

[@fantym1633]

Which will completely depleted by medical & adjunct bills if she remains married d/t the inherent financial liability

[@kconway2263]

There’s no way he could get life insurance with his diagnosis. The avg survival time for his cancer is 12-18 months. I knew someone whose son-in-law had it. The other tumor the commenter mentioned is much less aggressive. Glioblastoma is the most. Gliosarcoma sounds worse. It’s surprising he’s still hanging on.

[@7Karis]

Affair rush???? 🤮🤢🥴 nah, that’s disturbing.

[@tiffyq7794]

I did realise these younger girls were listening to redpill and believing it, that is so dangerous. Will make it so much easier for these men to prey on them if they are believing they should be married at 20 to one of these old creeps and waiting in them hand and foot, just sad. Hopefully this girl gets help, seems like she’s deep in it. She will also be a danger to other women if she doesn’t change, image male identified so she doesn’t see anything wrong with what men do and women around her will always be in the wrong. She needs therapy asap.

[@seabreeze4559]

well yeah it's called adult grooming that's why they're in these comments sections starting on women

[@vickiewilkins1579]

The person who was aggrieved should sue the affair partners for alienation of affection. People would stop this foolishness.

[@Southern.Nappiness]

In NC, the spouse can sue the AP. I think that's what happened to Nene Leaks on RHOA, got sued by the wife.

[@seabreeze4559]

Yes, needs to be legal to sue everywhere.

[@lifeisall488]

Can we talk about wives being bored 😂 the first lady just needs to ignite that passion in her marriage instead of destroying it with an affair the guy would not marry her at all !!

[@shaypope4732]

People confuse love with lust

[@lisabell3624]

Sometimes you have to step back from sex and dating and take a good long look at yourself. You can’t take anything an AP says seriously. You can’t take your feelings as healthy because it’s not coming from a healthy place. You are both reaching outward rather than inward. The reason “why” this affair has taken place. I’m not judging anyone as I’ve been an AP before. It wasn’t the best decision I made as my emotional life wasn’t going well. I realized that my AP was just exploiting my emotions. Was never love on his part. It’s like being given drugs (I imagine) and once you get that first dose you want another. The married person will be your dealer and get you hooked. The only person who will lose is the person who is not in a relationship or their outside partner.

[@Diana734]

No. I am not staying with someone whom does not appreciate me even though they have cancer. He can hire a home aid if he needs one.

[@childfreechick2980]

I’m the last story is kinda sus…..how convenient he gets diagnosed with cancer a week after she announces she wants a divorce. 3 years later he’s just living life as normal..🤔 she should leave him, cancer or no cancer

[@LaiLai..]

These people are damaged sheesh😩. You’re right about it being the thrill of sneaking around that they’re addicted to because why not just break up or get a divorce ? That would be too easy and boring for them.

[@whatever-kt6tn]

On that last story--to my understanding, glioblastoma is an *extremely* aggressive form of brain cancer and people rarely survive 18 months past diagnosis. Yet her husband is still working and hanging out with his buddies? Yeah, I don't buy it. That man is lying to keep her under his foot.

[@embo_5787]

I don’t like the adultery subreddits honestly, not really sure what I’m gaining from a deluded woman waxing lyrical about AP who don’t even choose her…, just morally icky and just sad

[@onstanz]

Burb, I don't think the adultery subreddit is even yielding interesting data at this point, these people are lame lol

[@KH-vv6kr]

I mean if he’s working and hanging out but being mean to you. Those are grounds to leave 🌬️

[@TheePrincessBrat]

“I’ll try to make this make sense” 😂😂 that’s a losing battle! It’s the adultery subreddit! Whew Burb, what you deal with to bring us these stories. Writing like contemporary Shakespeares 😂 When I was on there, the women were a lot less…delulu. Most were about as cold hearted as the men. If they _did_ love their AP, they still were clear they’ll never leave their partner. (I meant I was a lurker not one of the cheaters!! Lol)

[@strawbraryliberry4604]

That red pill type ideology really messed with me when I was young, especially when I first started dating- I wanted to give every "nice guy" a chance because I wanted people to think I was a "good" woman. I didn't want to seem stuck up. I'm sure you all know how much absolute nonsense & trauma this brought into my life. How many absolutely horrible dates. Don't date people just because they seem nice- a lot of times they aren't & it's okay to have a type & have real standards. I wasted a lot of time on people I simply wasn't compatible with & would never respect. I just needed to stick to MY TYPE. I remember the first time I was called a good woman- by an antisemitic, racist, fatphobic misogynist.... I realized that day it was NOT a compliment to be "a good woman" from that kind of person. As far as cheating & love, I'm naturally more polyam & believe they could love multiple people, BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER BECAUSE THEY ARE STILL DOING SOMETHING HORRIBLE. They are ignoring the consent of their spouse- disgusting behavior. Very immature, self serving behavior.

[@seabreeze4559]

nice is not kind, there are videos if you search

[@anonanon7553]

Yep. I also believed it when I was younger. Gave men a chance when I shouldn't have. Also tried to dim my light, because "men don't want ambitious women". BS. I'm also more polyam, which is why CONSENT and HONESTY are crucial.

[@noirefit5954]

All of this is disgusting. Just divorce and live your life without ruining others in the process

[@BlackRaven000]

Cancer story: I think her declaring that she wanted a divorce three years ago pushed things further downhill. This ain't about the cancer for him. He's pissed because he wouldn't have stayed if she was sick, so he prolly thinks she's with him for other reasons. And I'm willing to bet that he knew had cancer before she said she wanted to divorce him. The marriage has been troubled enough for a while, she says she wants out and a week later he breaks the news, now he can conveniently make her look bad. 2nd story: The girl ain't free yet. It may be a bit more trauma before she ditches the RP bs for good, hope I'm wrong here.

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Whew! Why all the affairs!!?? If it's not working, just leave. Story #3 Please get the insurance policy and other assets in order if she doesn't leave him. If he kicks the bucket before she leaves, then at least she'll receive everything.😊😊

[@brunoqnzbk7891]

Lust IS NOT LOVE.

[@Hopdog230]

All of these ppl are great examples of why people need therapy. Needing the validation and chasing the high of an affair.. all of these ppl need to be in therapy to work thru why they are engaging in behaviour that is tantamount to self abandonment.

[@SteStarI718]

This behavior is disgusting to me. It lacks empathy, violates honesty & integrity, and its often just a delusional fantasy that creates available opportunities for cheaters. Any m/w but especially woman participating in this should be ashamed.

[@zedmak]

This is sick,that affair Reddit omg.

[@shaypope4732]

He wouldn't do the same for her and using her as his punching bag please keep the insurance policy but still leave u deserve happiness and u won't get it from that parasite cancer or not he is a cancer to her life

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

I have no love or respect for cheaters. *NONE*

[@d53380]

I’m not staying with anyone who is mean to me. I don’t care what your condition is. I am not a punching bag.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

Redpill story: But whenever I (as a bi woman) point out how problematic it is for women to overxesualize other women, I get scolded. And it’s always from people who aren’t bi or claim to be bi but are always with men. I get told I shouldn’t question other people’s xesuality and there’s a difference between “EmOtiOnaL and XeSuaL” attraction 🙄🙄 My point has always been that those women are either not bi at all or so heavily influenced by society, they objectify women too. It’s damaging to bi women emotionally and socially. It’s not healthy for those women either. I am very very glad she’s getting out early. Cause she’s a sitting duck believing in those misogynistic myths, especially being so young and impressionable.

[@nki5ikni5i45]

Cheating is wrong. I have always thought that marriage is NOT forever. Get married and cheat or get married and divorce. History hasn't shown another pattern... I still think ppl should get married if their heart desires tho.

[@carlacookingvegan]

Singing 🎶 secret 🤫 lovers, yeah that’s what we are 😅. They need to stop being selfish to their spouses and just divorce.

[@nature95]

The affair people are delusional. Period. The brain cancer situation is tricky. I am opposed to divorcing a terminal spouse. However, if he is cruel...leave. Cancer is not an excuse to be cruel. If she stays, she should pack up all dishware and switch to paper products. Purchase aluminum pans and roast everything. That way post meal clean up is throwing it all away. Wash only your clothes. Send his to laundry and let him pay the cost. Eliminate all chores from him. If he adds things that create chores, trash them. If she is staying for medical reasons, fine. All that extra gotta go. Also, cultivate outside hobbies. Separate your life. He will divorce her.

[@foxy2796]

The last one, i don't think she'd be wrong for leaving. People underestimate how mentally, emotionally and physically taxing being a caretaker for someone is especially if they are awful to you everyday. He might be terminal but I fear the longer she stays the more likely she is of putting herself in an early grave. She should not continue to torture herself for someone who isn't even slightly grateful.

[@vonnii1013]

this is why i rather stay single ..and just go to adult parties..where i can just be a voyeur and pretend im in another space and time....cheating is not worth all this

[@victoryv116]

I think people cheat because they wants this instant romantic period, excitement ..they want to repeat that cycle of teen romances ..of being wanted by someone , and the passion of struggling love ...at the same time you got to keep your stable life with your married partner and went back home ..in that way you are safe and have nothing to loose...it's like reliving 4D movie where these cheaters are main characters and they enjoyed it and movie ends ..they went back.to real lives..most of them narcissist because they don't have sympathy or any empathy for their partners ...they only care about their own pleasure and try to portray cheating as if some great tragic love they have with someone whom they still love..typical narcissistic behaviour

[@AccordingToWillow]

the fact that the first lady asked “how this usually ends” lmao girl…

[@Blech-h9z]

Wow. The second story. My life is great!

[@lw1524]

Limerence is what is being experienced

[@insideAdirtyMind]

Thank you for this very interesting episode!

[@BurbNBougie]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@tlrcarroll]

Hear me out. I don’t think she should leave if he’s terminal. Alternatively, she could focus more on her life and ignore as much as she can of his shortcomings while waiting it out for the insurance. 😉

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Those are my thoughts too! Have all the assets paperwork in order in case he kicks the bucket.

[@fantym1633]

Personality changes are often an accompaniment of brain tumors tho, & viol ence is definitely a possibility that she needs to take into consideration re: staying. Hopefully he had a good bit of life insurance already in force before diagnosis, but if she remains legally married, she also remains financially liable for all those expenses.

[@Indyghurl]

​@@Southern.Nappinesspower of attorney too as well as having a will written. My ex came out of hospital with what we thought was 2-3 months left. Arranged for solicitor to visit 2 days after getting out of hospital and by then it was apparent it was too late. My ex could no longer speak coherently and was getting more meds for the pain. It all happened so quickly, so get all paperwork done asap

[@kimdavids5717]

The internet is ruining relationships. That is the thing with affairs it feels so good but reaping what you sow is not worth it. And that is what satan does, he let you enjoy yourself and then he leaves you to face the consequences.

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

I will never understand cheaters.

[@elipotter369]

The husband has cancer story - if you don't want to live with him & it's okay financially to leave, just go. Life's too short for feeling miserable and guilty. It's perfectly okay to leave. Or else take extended breaks & go stay somewhere else.

[@caleahhhh]

i hope everybody in that reddit gets exposed like that big ashley madison thing lmao

[@Blech-h9z]

See inside their brain? Well, I don't think we're going to see much.

[@Kikki305]

A career side piece wow

[@UniquelyFrandi]

😭😭not career

[@nki5ikni5i45]

3:46 ooh she sounds like she is enjoying this turmoil😂 OMG this just a wild my mind is blown but I'm just cackling at the whole concept of this support group. Whewww child 😂

[@ruthjuliana9222]

lol his great dislike of her might be fuelling his life span. I feel bad for her. Anyways the cheater, she needs to see a therapist to know if this is what she wants because she seems to be suffering from hysteria.

[@hallievanoutryve3109]

Hysteria? Please tell me I just missed the sarcasm or joke? You can't genuinely think the infatuated young lady from the affair post is suffering from a long debunked 'illness' - that was a catch all term that medicalized difficult or unruly in order to control them, often ending in institutionalization, potentially resulting in harmful shock treatment or lobotomy** Idk, with the repeal of Roe v Wade and the awful legislation in some conservative states criminalizing miscarriage or preventing *bortion even in cases of *ape or *ncest, joking about hysteria just hits a little too close to home. ** lobotomies # (severing connections in the brain to 'treat' mental illness and behavioral issues had their peak in 1940s and 1950s, but surgeons were experimenting with it in the 30s and didn't stop completely until the late 70s-early 80s,depending on the country. Europe did far more lobotomies than the US, but US had ice pick lobotomies! Non-surgeon Freeman developed his trans orbital method that could be performed anywhere by other non-surgeons, by going through the eye instead of making holes in the skull)

[@aloveaffairwithself]

Single stay looking better and better every day….wth…

[@tylerlykins6721]

Great vid burb ❤

[@BurbNBougie]

Thanks 😁

[@OddWomanOut_Pi81]

There's a deeply ingrained reason a person will continue to involve themselves with ppl that are "unavailable". That needs to be unpacked in respect to these ppl who seem to be on an affair conveyor belt? 😕...There's something going on there. Because listen to how they're talking...They clearly crave connection...buuuut...there's no future in these "situationships" without heartbreak being the endgame. Oooohhh, chyle! I'll say this...The ppl's circumstances has really made me reflect on my own past entertaining similar relationships and why I was such a willing participant. 😣 Ugh! Hindsight is a muthaf~~~a.

[@cvzdez]

You can't be qoth someone when it starts on trauma.

[@Gigi0408]

Wow, this is so toxic. Ppl need Jesus.

[@UniquelyFrandi]

This is why I’m DOLO, people are sick.

[@tabithatalon6902]

Yea not sure wht people don't just divorce and stop doing marriage contract

[@cerromeceo]

This girl is 18 worrying about redpill content 😅

[@mamat1213]

Just so confused…smh

[@Tulipsaki]

The husbands are lacking a lot. That's why their wives fall for affair partners.

[@I8Spiderella]

yikes😬

[@constancep7632]

Look, I believe some people can genuinely love more than one person at the same time. I know I have. But... if you committed to a monogamous relationship, then be monogamous. If you can't be monogamous, don't. Effing. Be. Monogamous. And like a lot of commenters have said, this is definitely limerence, not love. 😮‍💨

[@igray5311]

OMG I just dont understand how you dont respect other people so much. Like affair are terrible energy for everyone.

[@cherryh7963]

😂😂😂😂 you reading it like a soap opera back from commercial break took me out. This shows you people are marrying all wrong... Is it just me or does the cry for help sound like Pearl? 🤨

[@LetsTalkAboutItWithMara]

I hope the red pill girl gets into some therapy

[@holdontightspidermonkey]

can someone pls let me know some good Reddit pages for women’s relationship advice and also women’s mental health?

[@wiglicious.]

Not to be rude but it almost sounds like that redpill girl didn’t actually understand why redpill was bad, it’s kinda apparent when she’s claims all women want to be dominated, but it seems like this is just a common case of “oopsy not actually so daisy”, basically she doesn’t actually see the madness of redpill, she’s just not benefitting from it anymore so she doesn’t like it anymore 🤷🏾‍♀️it also seems like she has some internalized stuff going on as well which could be the reason shes having such a frontal lobe disconnect when it comes to understanding this

[@seabreeze4559]

the Bible doesn't endorse BDSM but RP treats the D part like it's Christian and mandatory

[@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022]

Some of those cheat stories sound fake, like a cheesy romance novel.

[@sherrita8582]

Women cheat too although for different reasons 😂