The amount of women being assaulted or worse in the armed forces is grossly understated and purposefully overlooked and supressed.
@jannibal92733 күн бұрын
When women are coming into the military as recruits well advanced and in much larger numbers than males, that's going to change - whether some males in high places like it or not. If it doesn't change, they're going to lose the female recruits and then what will the military do to stock their numbers? A lot of that "old school" stuff from "old school" dudes is rapidly disappearing as the muckety mucks who think it's fine to cover up sexual discrimination and sexual assaults of female members are retiring, or being forced out, or dying while sitting behind their desks at the Pentagon. The times, they are a'changin' - whether men like it or not. The proof is in the pudding - men who can't compete on a level playing field with women aren't getting married and they're not getting those babies they claim they want, either.
@Shay-rx4xu2 күн бұрын
This y I finally got the women that joined my group justice but this was in NY they were pissed cause most was about to retire b4 losing their job n get convicted the women cried from being traumatized restating the process the men cried from getting busted
@wakilahmedd33Күн бұрын
Military is the prime bastion of patriarchy, so if a woman dislikes patriarchy they should never join military. Even in USSR where female participation in military was very high the women over there faced mild discrimination and difficulties. When USSR lost to Nazi Germany the women soldiers were the first victims to be humiliated, the Nazi female soldiers cheered as women were g@ngb@ged. When Nazi Germans lost to USSR the same atrocity was committed by USSR soldiers on Nazi female soldiers as well as women from East Germany. This time the USSR female soldiers cheered on. Military service was never safe for women.
@Tessy29k4 күн бұрын
Honestly I don't care if men are failing at school. That's their business. They've had centuries to develop themselves.
@arcanineryu4 күн бұрын
They never actually suggest real solutions either. Its always either getting someone else to do the work for them, like a bully getting someone else to do their homework, or demanding others belittle themselves to make men look bigger. Thats not progress that's stagnation and regression.
@attitudeproblem64624 күн бұрын
THANK YOU! Sounds like the *first* people “not caring” if they aren’t in college is *THEM!* You never NOT had the advantage, Sir! No one ever told YOU that you weren’t allowed on campus solely because/c you have a *peen!*
@AVibeCalledYes4 күн бұрын
Exactly. They always want someone to solve their problems. They've had the advantage for so long now. Sounds like a them problem
@marys24064 күн бұрын
But men bragg they're the problem solvers
@astriddececco30053 күн бұрын
No one is holding them back; they are the ones who are holding themselves back.
@Iquey4 күн бұрын
Men: make fun of women getting "worthless degrees". Also Men: wondering why less and less other men have gone to college for "worthwhile" degrees. 😐
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
Us women, with these 'worthless degrees' making more money than the guys who turned their nose up at college.
@dumfriesspearhead73983 күн бұрын
No 2 is because of no 1. It's called: "male flight".
@gitslover98343 күн бұрын
@@smrndalodz7182 Many of these fools don't want to work period. Even in public transit lately I have seen more women operating the light rail trains, more than ever.
@pgcfriend3 күн бұрын
@@smrndalodz7182 I'm convinced that many men just don't want to work in fields where women are working, especially those that are thriving. The minute a field has a lot of successful women, these lazy men call those degrees worthless. If they keep that up they will literally refuse to work expecting to be bailed out solely because they're men aka patriarchy.
@MaryintheMiddle1184 күн бұрын
The comment about men needing to achieve on their own and not because of someone else’s oppression! Wow, this is articulated so well and spot on!
@missmayhem74374 күн бұрын
💯
@kiriki45583 күн бұрын
Yup, all the "male issues" are easily resolved and self-inflicted or not real problems at all. They never had to earn basic rights, much less struggle with everything against them at the norm.
@nicholebryant73593 күн бұрын
adding and/ or unpaid labor. As a mom trying to get my young adult (male) to launch…sheesh
@aazhie4 сағат бұрын
It's simple solution, but requires them to work harder. Absolutely true!
@hoosiergirl63443 күн бұрын
Years ago, i was in a computer science class. We had a group project, it was me and 3 guys. Bc i didnt coddle these boys, the professor tried to LOWER MY GRADE. I went above him to the Dean with a STACK of emails i sent in attempts to communicate and engage them. He put my grade back to an A, where it belonged. I told the professor, im not their mom, im not there to make friends, im there for a grade. It was completely ridiculous!!!
@ewelinaskoczylas33013 күн бұрын
I'm glad that you fought for yourself, you were not obligated to wipe this boys asses!
@jet44153 күн бұрын
Goodness, I hated group projects in grad school. Someone was always a freeloader.
@alwaysannoyedforever5182 күн бұрын
That’s why I hate that whole everyone gets the same grade principle. It’s ridiculous. If I do everything I need to and everyone else falls short on their end than that’s not my fault.
@mansanayanaranjadoКүн бұрын
@@hoosiergirl6344 i love this.
@mansanayanaranjado4 күн бұрын
Oh yes. I was in engineering studies and had 3 male lab partners. They never came prepared and would look to me for project ideas and tools. I reported this to the instructor during our peer review. Even doing most of the work , I received a lower grade than my partners. Our engineering department got an overhaul the next year because of female discrimination. I changed majors that year.
@BurbNBougie4 күн бұрын
Oh wow!
@crystalkirlia45534 күн бұрын
Currently a studying luthier, I do basic engineering class once a week to make the tools needed for the woodworking. Since finishing our first class project, the 3 men on the course still haven't finished their written work and haven't decided their next project or written up their plans. They have asked us 7 women to do the work for them... multiple times... thankfully, we ain't doing that bs. None of us are 😂
@Arrabella20244 күн бұрын
I am so sorry this happened to you! I am sure that it was only because of yours and others' complaints that they overhauled their policies. And much ❤ to you and the rest for not doing their work!!
@elainstill16714 күн бұрын
@crystalkirlia4553 Never heard the word "luthier" so as a person who is open to learn til I die (57 now) I Googled it, I learn something new everyday and usually multiple things a day! I wonder if women do this because we want to know as much as possible and/or if men don't because they "think they already know everything? 😂
@Holisticallycarol4 күн бұрын
this Sucks for your grades!!
@ashh13713 күн бұрын
The amount of men that tell me they want kids on the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date when the very first thing on all my dating profiles is I’m childfree and the only mother I will ever be is a pet mom. I specifically say I am not and will not be a step mom, bio mom, foster mom, adopted mom, surrogate mom, ONLY a pet mom.
@dumfriesspearhead73983 күн бұрын
They think that you are not serious or that they'll change your mind......pfft!
@j.munday79133 күн бұрын
They don't remember what you said on your profile lol
@dumfriesspearhead73983 күн бұрын
@@j.munday7913 And that too. They probably didn't even read it.
@CorinaGilligan3 күн бұрын
Honestly it's some kind of challenge . I'm still hearing " I'm the only man who managed to get you pregnant " off the imbecile
@StraightToYourThighs3 күн бұрын
Most men don’t read your profile. They just see a nice face and go. I have on my profile my height since I’m pretty tall and some men don’t like it but do they read? No.
@joylastname30354 күн бұрын
I came across a video on Twitter a year (or 2 ago. Can't recall) of an elected official in an Asian country begging men to go to school because women were surpassing them in enrollment and graduation. You should see the comments. The reason no one pays them any mind is because they dont tackle their problems from a find-a-solution standpoint. They find a way they can blame women and then do nothing about the so-called challenges. One of the comments that stuck with me was that women going to school has devalued education, so why should men participate. That was their consensus in the comments. Has anyone seen that news article from years ago of a medical school in Japan deliberately failing female students so that more male students could become doctors. Some households and cultures choose their sons to go to school and pay for it, but to hear men tell it, "woe is me."
@tashasc14 күн бұрын
Yes, I remember that article. I think Burb went over that article earlier last year.
@cbc-h5g4 күн бұрын
I swear they are sck in their minds if they said so - this "devalue education" Like tf?? That the clownish thing I've everrrr hear from the dust.
@mariposaflame41943 күн бұрын
They love to devalue anything women do, even if it was previously something they did and was highly valued. It's a kind of "male flight". Soon sports with be devalued by them along with the military.
@rosedevereux23913 күн бұрын
moving 🥅 posts. They can't cut it, refuse to do the work to compete, and need someone to throw under the bus (women).😂
@dumfriesspearhead73983 күн бұрын
Oh yes it's: "male flight".
@TheePrincessBrat4 күн бұрын
He says support roles as if that isn’t important. Soldiers on the frontlines *need* that support. Can you imagine if there was no one running surveillance, managing administrative tasks, or looking after the sick & wounded. Then they would complain that women refusing to accept supporting positions is costing lives. They intentionally ignore all the women who are in combat, or all the men who sign up for the wrong reasons.
@anthill15104 күн бұрын
Women had to fight to be allowed to go into combat. They just wanna twist it into saying women don`t wanna do the dangerous work or they are not capable of it. "The Knitting Cult Lady" here on youtube was in one of the first units in the US army that allowed women in combat and she talks about the reality of being in the army as a woman, if anyone is interested.
@arcanineryu4 күн бұрын
The common phrase is you need 10 people on support for every one soldier with boots on the ground. And you can tell the fake military supporters from the real ones by how well they understand that fact.
@Lysistrata20254 күн бұрын
They always do this double bind. It is an abuse tactic.
@fantym-14 күн бұрын
@@arcanineryu An Army travels on its stomach has been a saying since @ least the Civil War. Wars are won by logistics - LTC Eisenhower took a convoy on the dirt roads of the Lincoln Hwy shortly after WWI (1920, I think). That experience is why the US Interstate Hwy System was *the* thing of his presidency. - Airborne!
@mariposaflame41943 күн бұрын
@@anthill1510I have seen a few of her videos but i didn't know she was in the first allowed group of combat women. Coming from a military family I grew up hearing about women's fight to combat and the front lines. I joined and deployed before and months after having a baby. Of course when it was time for me to make rank, change jobs or locations, i was gaslit and prevented. So i left. The only reason they would accept for me leaving was "to raise my child".
@Aashka_The_Mystic4 күн бұрын
Men can more easily get a job over a woman without a degree.. we women know we have to get at least a bachelor's in order to get the same job as a man who doesn't have a degree or a lesser degree
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin80664 күн бұрын
They have more earning potential without a degree, than women with an associate too!
@briolivia4 күн бұрын
This is why I believe trades fields are so hostile for women...not because women are inept and can't do trades, they make it so miserable for women to be there that we naturally stay away. The good thing is a lack of men interested in working means women will have to fill in the gaps and hopefully the culture will change.
@anitat2773 күн бұрын
I can share my observations of Hispanic men who cannot seem to graduate from college. These guys are waited on hand and foot by the females in their childhood and teen years. When they get to college, they cannot cope with living communally. They have no clue how to manage themselves while their sisters, who have had a lifetime of multitasking, thrive in the college environment. And yet and still there is an abundance of Pikachu faces when the Hispanic men are flailing and failing.
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
I see this in the tech field. If you are a white guy, you can drop out of college and get a job. But if you're anyone else, you'd better have a graduate degree or else nobody takes you seriously. This is why POC, women and immigrants are all going to grad school and the white guys aren't. They can drop out and get a job that we can't. Also, there's this cultural trope of a man that is a 'slacker genius'. He gets bad grades, maybe drops out, but he's a genius, totally! Too many guys Bsed their way through high school and try to do it in college, and it stops working. College doesn't care that your SAT was high, if you didn't do the work, you fail out.
@tauntingsableye94743 күн бұрын
Not only that but no matter how many years of experience a woman has, she will continuously have to prove she belongs
@HellRatHolly3 күн бұрын
They know they can't get what they want from you if they tell you the truth, so they lie. Then they use the excuse that "you wouldn't have done what I wanted if I told you truth" as justification for the lie. They just do not care about anyone but themselves.
@SoCalRegisteredNurse3 күн бұрын
My aunt Dolly (I loved her) told me that when she divorced her husband in the late 1960s, no one would rent an apartment to her. She said they told her it was because she was a divorced woman with two kids, even though she owned her own dress shop and did accounting for this large company in Orange County. CA
@rengurenge3 күн бұрын
Thats how society (men) used to punish women who don't obey men
@susiebear33163 күн бұрын
wow 😢
@manonthemoog2 күн бұрын
Believe it or not, there once was a time in this country when voluntary single motherhood was frowned upon, and for good reasons. I do not know if she initiated the divorce, but certainly today, that would be most likely. Should single motherhood be encouraged or discouraged?
@bevvyjune47532 күн бұрын
@manonthemoog lol do you think it's your job to pass moral judgement on the state of other people's relationships? People should be denied the basic human need of shelter because their marriage didn't work out?
@shorty631362 күн бұрын
Women had to get permission from men to do damn near anything. My grandma pushed every girl child in the family toward education. Hard. It worked & we are all successful. The boy children? Also pushed but failure to launch for most.
@Nasha-y9i3 күн бұрын
Pure?….he’ll still cheat Submissive?…He’ll still cheat Cook/Clean?….He’ll still cheat SEGx all the time? ….He’ll still cheat Take Care of Him?….He’ll still cheat Women need to understand that it is never really about what you “do”, but who he IS. If he’s NOT cheating, it’s because he has simply DECIDED not to, or he can’t (doesn’t have any options) Rarely is it because he “loves” you….. Read that twice ❤️
@Shay-rx4xu2 күн бұрын
This y u never sleep with them married or not
@AngelicLioness18182 күн бұрын
That’s why one of their favorite sayings is “a man is only as faithful as his options”. If he CAN get 100 girls, he’ll cheat with all 100 lol it’s easier to blame women than for them to admit that.
@mariposaflame41944 күн бұрын
Everyone should watch the new movie called The 6 Triple 8. It is based on a true story and shows just how important the "support" roles are in the military. It shows how women, especially black women were barred from access or were harrassed at every turn. It shows how women achieved success in a critical area that men couldn't achieve. The movie shows original pictures and video at the end.
@makaylaforbes67194 күн бұрын
If men arent going to college or university, thats on them. Women had to fight their way into acceptance, and still got in, so why wont men do their due diligence to get their acceptance? When i got my acceptance, it was decades ago at the peak of the fight for equality, but was it handed to me? Nope. I was 16 and had to go through EVERY hoop, jump over EVERY hurdle and had to figure out a way to do it without my fathers permission (which was necessary at that time), as he would not sign. I had to push my own merits, do the extra work to find why the male students didnt need permission from either parent and point out and fight the flaw that they needed no permission but i needed my fathers. My oarents werent even paying for my education. I was the one oaying for that - cash up front. I wasnt allowed a student loan, because they were reserved for men. My older brother, going for post secondary at the same time, had no problem whatsoever getting approved for his student loan, but he was a he, so there was no question he should be allowed. So yep, i paid my own way with my own cash, that i spent from age 7 to age 16 working for to oay for that edication. If men dont want to do what they have to do to get their higher education, it's on them. Dont want to apply yourself to your studies, sont want to apply yourself for entrance, its nobodys faukt but your own
@annejohnson58753 күн бұрын
@@makaylaforbes6719 white men have long benefited from the affirmative action of wealth, nepotism, and legacy admissions.
@ChiChi-um6qq4 күн бұрын
I almost never comment but! I am currently in university in Ontario, Canada. I switched majors…I used to major in Health Sciences and switched over to Health Policy to focus more on law in relation to health. Majority of my classes have been women, with very little men. Usually it’s not a half and half split…closer to 70/30. When working with guys, very few of them actually want to put in the work like they were discussing in your first story. The only men that I notice put in work towards their futures are international students even though there are many Canadians with anti-immigrant and especially anti south Asian/arab sentiments that claim they’re stealing the spots of Canadians (lol). In Ontario there’s really no excuse as to why these men aren’t going to school. Our tuition cost is capped by the provincial government and each year (max is about 10k for Ontarians) while International students pay a minimum of 60k. And we also have a student loan service and millions of dollars in unclaimed scholarships. My own brother did not want to go to university and was forced by my parents because he wanted to “do stocks” and gamble…so he could eventually move to Texas LOL.
@wakilahmedd33Күн бұрын
You can thank the online gurus who constantly tell men that doing business, stocks and these sort of bs will allow them to escape the Matrix and become a millionaire 😂. We in developing countries see the hard reality all the time and we know that the only way for us to go up is via education.
@annejohnson58754 күн бұрын
Our culture tries to tell us that getting married is a "happily ever after", like Cinderella, but it's not an ending, it's a beginning. Put your best and strongest foot forward. Unfortunately, I only know this from bitter experience.
@BurbNBougie4 күн бұрын
I'm glad that the Disney princesses of today are so completely unlike the princesses of old. The girls of today, if they're watching Disney, get Moana, Merida from Brave, Tiana who's a business owner, and girls who are successful and achieving things outside of just marrying a prince. The messaging has changed. The perception of hasn't gone away though. Hopefully with the next generation of women we can deprogram this.
@purplelaketafahdhali77533 күн бұрын
Keep sharing your story. It's important and you might save someone.
@BurbNBougie3 күн бұрын
Are so right. We do need more and more women to share their stories
@annejohnson58753 күн бұрын
@BurbNBougie I know my self esteem was so low, I was a sad pick me girl and it led to nothing but problems at best and serious life threatening trouble at worst. I hate admitting that sometimes I at first judge some of these women in the videos, but I think I'm really judging my younger self. I do feel like these videos help me confront my past mistakes and also give me strength.
@leendsmin3 күн бұрын
My level of happiness took a turn for the better when I finally told myself that it was okay to not follow the script (I’m unmarried and childfree). And so many years later, I realized I was asexual. Can’t imagine How miserable I would’ve been if I continued to follow the script.
@ColumbiaQT20014 күн бұрын
These men on dating apps are no good. They’re never honest and always suspect you’re the person who’s being dishonest…
@pinkpugginz3 күн бұрын
Delete all dating apps. Its just too dangerous. Even if you're looking for a one night stand. Its just not worth it.
@j.munday79133 күн бұрын
Why should anyone get upset about men not going to college? They don't want to go.
@barbarathomason61624 күн бұрын
When my daughter was applying for colleges in 2007, some of the colleges had a higher female population. The state schools were lowering the qualifications for males to keep it 50/50. My daughter ended up deciding to go to TCU, which did not care about the ratio. In her freshman year, the TCU population was 63% female.
@KathleenFulton-u1x3 күн бұрын
The white men have complained about minorities having quotas, but the colleges have to quota white men. If students were accepted based only on their grades, Asian women would be the largest group in college.
@TheePrincessBrat4 күн бұрын
I hate when men say stupid things like “well if a woman did xyz, I would be happy”. Of course you would! Y’all will ruin your lives for validation. I doubt he would be all that happy, if he was genuinely interested in the girl, only to find out he was practice. She nor her family sees you as “good enough”.
@TheePrincessBrat4 күн бұрын
I had an Indian guy try to call me easy too 🤣 like I hadn’t even had xes yet💀. I was like “oh are you trying to call me a sl-t?” Lmao I’ll put men on the spot, like say it with your whole chest dummy. Cause he wasn’t looking for anything serious either so… He tried to walk it back like that wasn’t what he meant 🙄 He also wanted more “practice”. He wanted to go on dates & get out more. We never went on a date cause he said all that nonsense within our first convo 🙄 no wonder ur single. The dating app men are a defective batch
@anthill15104 күн бұрын
The important distinction is CONSENT. If the guy would have told her he wants to practice going on dates and will pay for dinner if she meets with him for that, this would have been fine. But he lied, pretended to search for a serious realtionship and tricked her. And yes, somebody else "not minding" is totally irrelevant. This isn`t about YOU, dude who commented on some situation he wasn`t in.
@TheePrincessBrat4 күн бұрын
@ I bet the guy who left that comment has used women. He’s intentionally downplaying the situation. There’s a huge difference between knowing what you’re getting yourself into and having to pry it out of your date
@nikicarrie40713 күн бұрын
Thats abuse tactics 😕 they would not be happy. They would find something else
@Tlab06243 күн бұрын
The conversation around literacy in the U.S. needs to be louder. At one time, families were proud to send their kids off to college, but now, it seems that higher education is looked down on by so many. I recently read a meme that said, "They separated us into gifted, regular, and slow classes for a reason. Social media has put us all in the same classroom. We don't all belong in the same the classroom." Really, social media has exposed exactly how awful the educational system in the U.S. is.
@raecarter8285Күн бұрын
Unfortunately things will likely get worse with this new administration, very strong indicators that the department of education will get reduced funding. There is also the issue of giving states more power to decide what gets taught to students that will probably have negative impacts
@Dulce_De_Luche3 күн бұрын
My grandmother went to war. She never wanted any of her family in the military after she retired a master sergeant when I was in elementary school. She spent her retirement looking after me, cooking my sisters and family international meals, more traveling and dressing like a supermodel lol.
@ipeefreely98654 күн бұрын
A lot of guys that I went to high school and college with were very lackluster, mediocre students who didn't study or take their education seriously. In college I had a co ed group project that was a HUGE part of our final grade. Anyway, a wyte dust mite in our group tapped out of the group project, shortly after class started. We called and emailed him to make sure he was okay. He didn't respond. So I told our professor tha he tapped out and we didn't know what was going on with him. Fast forward to the day of our group presentation (in front of the class). That dust mite mofo just sat down in class with the other group members (like nothing happened). I had to walk away because I was so furious that I could feel myself about to cuss him out. I don't know what his excuse was and didn't give a sh!t to talk to him. Thankfully, my group wasn't penalized for our dust mite group member. WHEW!!
@mariaparabello63444 күн бұрын
Did he get a grade for this project?
@RowenaSnow-px3jg4 күн бұрын
I hope he had an academic penalty for doing nothing. If this is,common, is it possible to partner with women only?
@ipeefreely98654 күн бұрын
@mariaparabello6344 No. He didn't get any credit for our collective work. I would've gone innnnnnnnnnnn on the professor, the dean, the president, and the Department of Regents!! I was still in my firecracker energy and was going to hold EVERYONE accountable, unapologetically.
@RowenaSnow-px3jg4 күн бұрын
@ipeefreely9865 great! Love to hear it
@ipeefreely98654 күн бұрын
@@RowenaSnow-px3jg Unfortunately, in a lot 9f college courses the professor groups classmates together by randomized methods. It's rare that I had a chance to select my work groups.
@JukuduB3 күн бұрын
In regards to men dating people they know they'll never be with: Men don't give a damn! Some of them know very well that they will not marry the women they meet on dating sites and in real life. They are just doing it to pass time and also to have someone to sleep with before they get married. Some of them cannot emotionally commit and so they purposely date someone that they know they'll never be with long term! Women once you find out this is going on immediately run Don't try to change anybody's mind. I'm 45 (soon to be 46) and I have run into this a few times in my life. Save yourself wasted time and energy.
@anetak.94942 күн бұрын
To be honest, more and more women adopt the same kind of mindset. I for one, believe less and less in marriage seeing how many men actually cheat while their wife is standing 2m away. Sometimes it's nice to be in male company.. but there wasn't one for a long time that I took truly seriously.
@Smw0063 күн бұрын
No one is stopping men from college except themselves.
@jet44153 күн бұрын
College work time takes away from their gaming and p0rn time.
@2stayweird3 күн бұрын
the comment about "men in college are pathetic" - that described my college BF 100%. He would fail classes bc he thought he was too smart to even show up. (I said, why not just sit in the back and read if you think you know everything?? You're failing bc of attendance which is stupid.) I graduated, he dropped out, and then he expected ME to pay all the bills while he sat at home and played video games all day. Then he acted shocked and hurt when I didn't want to marry him. This was back in 2005! Some men never change!
@Emptytopfloor4 күн бұрын
Last story: Muslim men do the same thing. They date western women, they even get into ltr with them. But marry someone from back home. I know at least 3-4 men like this.
@amberinthemist79124 күн бұрын
They've been doing that for decades. And if you warn women they are just being used you get called Islamophobic.
@krishadyn52114 күн бұрын
I've heard anecdotes about this for decades. At least one Middle Eastern guy told western women to quit dating them, their families didn't respect Western women and would never accept the relationships.
@rebekkagasmi94513 күн бұрын
Wish this had been true in my case... My then "muslim" boyfriend first intentionally baby-trapped me shortly after we came together then pressured me into marrying him so he could "get his foot into the door of Europe" - it wasn't long before he dropped his mask and showed his true colours, he turned out to be a hypocritical, narcissistic, psychopathic a$$hole I've been desperately trying to get away from for almost a decade but sadly haven't yet managed to... 😢😢😢 But I still hang in there! 🙏🍀💪
@nikicarrie40713 күн бұрын
Whats ltr
@Emptytopfloor3 күн бұрын
@ long term relationships
@Sam4Hope3 күн бұрын
Sometimes the women do the work because if they are partnered with male students who refuse to do anything, their grades suffer. I always hated team projects because the laziest person got the same grade as the one who did the majority of the work. Let me sink or swim on my own merits. I'm old now but listening to some of these college age dudes, they just want to party & get their degree without any work. No wonder they flunk out or can't hold a job later because they didn't really earn their degree. Many of them were too used to getting trophies for just showing up.
@rosedevereux23913 күн бұрын
*THIS* !!!!
@gabyszabo96153 күн бұрын
U said it well: “They lack integrity…stop trying to use people.”
@queenreg74 күн бұрын
Whoo that is so true! Mediocre men in the workplace are a sad reality.
@MadCatLady284 күн бұрын
Mediocre men would be an improvement on incompetent muppets who think they're always the smartest person in the room.
@femmefatale713 күн бұрын
All my ex bosses.
@lynettehuffstedtler81954 күн бұрын
The woman in the 2nd story should just stop doing anything for her ball and chain husband. Do the laundry, but not his laundry. Cook, but for herself and her child but not for him. Do the dishes, just not the ones he uses.
@pinkpugginz3 күн бұрын
She should tell him he has to get a full time job or they will divorce. Then when he does, do it anyway. Also why are her parents ok using their kid to bankroll their lifestyle. Kids are not a retirement plan. She could even have her parents move in with her and her husband as a buffer. Curious to know if she has other adult siblings that refuse to pull their weight.
@nicholebryant73593 күн бұрын
Only half way through the video and I’m thinking holy heck. As a mom of a young adult male, former military and current educator the commentary is spot on and far more reaching than even I realized. Outlook abysmal! I will save everyone the rant but I can track some of this back at least 15-20 years on a personal level. It’s bleak.
@BigBiteDoughnut4 күн бұрын
Oh another thing I say when my husband wants me to remind him to clean... when I was a 9 year old I'd get hit in the back of the head if I FORGOT to clean something or didn't clean right.... so that's how I was taught how to REMIND people and then I'll ask my husband if he still wants me to remind him.....
@DanaAgenbroad-pw4zw3 күн бұрын
😅
@mariposaflame41943 күн бұрын
Good one
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
Social conditioning teaches women to be obsessive about cleaning, and teaches men not to care. Like I feel like sometimes, when it comes to 'shared spaces' be they at home or work, women should just say 'screw it.' Let it get dirty. Let someone else volunteer to clean it up. Or let 'cleaning' be acknowledged as an actual job. Women get conditioning to be the magical 'cleaning fairies' that keep things clean without being asked and then the work is taken for granted.
@dumfriesspearhead73983 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@DanaAgenbroad-pw4zw3 күн бұрын
@smrndalodz7182 My Halloween costum at work was "the Dish Fairy." Adorned with sponges, dish towels, scrubbers, yellow gloves...
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
OK women in combat? A large number of women served in combat in WWII since the USSR needed any available person to fight. Many of these women distinguished themselves. People might argue ancient accounts of 'women warriors' were legends, but it's kind of tough to say it didn't happen in WWII. On college, too many men just don't feel like doing the work. They think they can slack off and just barely pass like they probably did in high school, but get by on being 'smart' or 'gifted.' Hey, that won't fly in college.
@May-nt3ow3 күн бұрын
Women fighter pilots in WW2 were kick@ss. Russia had the Night Witches who harassed the Germans, US had the WASPs. The White Diamond was on the German hit list for ages.
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
@@May-nt3ow Lyudmila Pavilchenko was a distinguished soviet sniper from WWII. Her and plenty of other women kicked lots of ass in WWII. The whole debate on 'women in combat' was settled when our great grandparents were alive.
@vikki86992 күн бұрын
Here in the UK, our "Draft" is called Conscription. Since 2008, women have been on the front lines in the British Army. Women can also be called up to arms in a world war and be on the front lines regardless of age, just like the men. I was agruing with an american man who didn't understand that the rest of the world is not like America. In the end I stopped talking to him as he just refused to listen. Even when men from the British Army chimed in, he refused to believe women were in combat. Its the only thing men in America can weaponize against women like they are jealous women are not forced to fight their wars. Its sick.
@sarahkelly40263 күн бұрын
5:48 The commenter who says women “sign up for support tasks” doesn’t know that we are relegated to these tasks, we didn’t “sign up” for them. We are “voluntold” for support tasks. Somehow I ended up as the training petty officer, which is very time-consuming. Plus, I was HazMat PO, safety PO, on the morale committee, ran the coffee mess, and I still worked on equipment and stood watch. I was the only woman in the shop 70% of the time. I noticed every other shop with a woman in it had her doing the same tasks.
@katarinaljulj77934 күн бұрын
The grand gestures don't show how a person really is. Often it's the little things that mean more. If the guy your dating doesn't immediately help his parents clean up after dinner or get in there and help cook for x-mas without being asked or go up to the kids in the family and play with them at family functions, etc. , then he is not a family man. There will be nothing you can do once you are married to 'change' him - just drop him before it gets to that point unless you don't care if you will be the one holding the bag.
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
Grand gestures are usually performative. They are meant to be seen to get social points. Like seriously, does this guy clean up after himself? Cook? Do his own laundry? If kids are in the picture does this guy show any competence in that area? A bouquet of flowers does not make up for a lack of support in day to day things.
@afriquelowery68613 күн бұрын
Great insights! I agree completely that the grand gestures are performative.
@smrndalodz71822 күн бұрын
@@afriquelowery6861 It's sort of why the whole 'send flowers to her workplace' strikes me as creepy. It seems like something an abusive or otherwise unsupportive partner would do to score public points and improve their image And there's a social script that women are supposed to care about these grand gestures. I note that media from the past, like the rom-coms of the 80s and 90s, really fed into that script. A lot of really boundary crossing behaviors there.
@astrinymris99534 күн бұрын
OT: You know, if the military wants to get serious about the dearth of qualified applicants, they're going to need to take on Big Food and the horrible obesogenic diet that is constantly being promoted to young kids and their parents. I know the Right wants to claim that it's an "individual responsibility" issue, but if the rates of obesity and metabolic disease has skyrocketed over the last half century, you have to accept that it's at least partially a systemic issue, and requires a systemic solution.
@amberinthemist79124 күн бұрын
Yes. The government is in partnership with the grifters selling us poison and calling it food and then they complain no one is fit enough for military service.
@pinkpugginz3 күн бұрын
So true. Its CRAZY watching movies from 1900 to early 2000s and everyone is skinny or at least decent size. Now every movie everyone is giant. And you see it in old photos too. Until the food gets fixed in this country nothing will change. Government needs to stop selling all our farmland to China and bankrupting farmers.
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
So in the UK, the National Health Services were created because they realized childhood disease led to too many being turned down for medical reasons for military service. At least some country got it. Like you can't 'individual responsibility' yourself out of a problem once it's clearly too big for that. The US really needs to get with the program. Like you can't fault people for eating junk food when junk food is the most common type of field you can find.
@aureyd25153 күн бұрын
@@smrndalodz7182 Allegedly, the only reason the USA got food stamps is because too many soldiers who were called up were disqualified because of disabilities caused by Ricketts.
@mermaidmoongoddess3 күн бұрын
@@smrndalodz7182as someone who’s trying their best to stay healthy with what I have, it’s also the cheaper food option. Hard to eat healthy when the healthy food is $2-$5 more expensive
@Nasha-y9i3 күн бұрын
The ideas that men come up with would be absolute trash if women hadn’t been around to actually move them along.
@bjbear52023 күн бұрын
Behind every great man there is a woman rolling her eyes.
@yenfr53064 күн бұрын
I remember in school when we had to do a project with a partner, there was always this guy who would ask me to be his partner. He never did anything, honestly. If he did, it was not very good, so we had to scrap it all. So I would basically do all the work and his job was to present it and say it in front of the class. I had really bad anxiety. Could not talk in front of a whole class. I would even have panic attacks and even get bad grades or lower scores due to not being able to present my work in front of my class. So, to me, it seemed worth it to have to do the work and he present it. I would just stand there hiding myself. Holding the poster in front of me. Which were always bigger than me. I remember doing a school project where literally the whole class basically goofed off. Except for me after finishing up the project. He presented as usual. We got to relax for the rest of the class while the rest had to do work the whole time. As I got older, it was me that did the organizing, projects, and so on. I also noticed that the most productive has always been women. With the guy just usually wanting to sit back and let everyone else do the work while he takes credit for the group activity he had no part of.
@ccannon14 күн бұрын
I think presenting is contributing to the presentation, whether or not that balances equally with what you did depends on the project (some are more research intensive). Some people say their partner doesn’t help with either part and they still get graded as a group.
@mariaparabello63444 күн бұрын
I led a group project in university, one of the guys did no actual work, just occasionally came by when we met in a public place to hang out. I talked to the professor about it, who made it clear that it was the group's responsibility to police it's members and we should make him participate.🙄 Didn't work, he just got snippy bc I was 'nagging' and the others got fed up with the conflict. long story short. He did 5% of the work but got the same grade we all did 😠
@RowenaSnow-px3jg4 күн бұрын
@@mariaparabello6344 that is infuriating. Shame on that teacher!
@smrndalodz71823 күн бұрын
So this is why I oppose group projects. There's no way to hold low performing members accountable. I tell anyone assigning 'group work' that they're punishing the hardest working students and rewarding lazy ones.
@mariaparabello63443 күн бұрын
@@smrndalodz7182 Almost like real work life 😆 being fast and efficient gets rewarded.. with more work!
@kiriki45583 күн бұрын
That teacher is useless
@BigBiteDoughnut4 күн бұрын
What I did.. we talked about what chores he'd do and what chores he wouldn't do. Ok those are forever his chores. Now you.... never do them. If it's messy it's his fault. And if people come over MAKE SURE TO TELL EVERYONE ITS HIS FAULT THERES A MESS. Say it's his chore... he just hasn't done it in xxx time. This happened to me. My husband said he hated dishes. I do them he said he's cool with laundry ok. We'll like never did them. I'd wash them and put them on the couch. There's no room and when people would come over I told them yeah hubs doesn't do his chores. And it's always a mess. He literally was like I didn't know it was my chore and I was like yeah remember x time we talked about it. And he was like yeah.... that was a while ago. And I said yup I'm not going tell you when to do your chores. Does my wife tell me when to do my chores? So why would your wife? I'm not going to nag you. Idk if the house is a mess... I grew up with 6 brothers and a junkie mom.... I like a clean house but I'm not a maid. The dishes will be done and the bathrooms will be spotless. Don't ask me for anything else.
@cupcakecanopy3 күн бұрын
The blame game doesn't work. You will still be unhappy. Leave
@Kimberly_Sparkles3 күн бұрын
FWIW, stereotypes about Americans sometimes are general in some places. I grew up near an Arab community and guys who were new to the US believed that ALL American women were whores (exact words), so they loved to date American women. I used to shock Muslim men by telling them the truth that I was religious and saving myself for marriage because they didn't believe Americans could think like that. I want to stress that guys who were born here did not think this stuff.
@stephaniemartin92534 күн бұрын
One of your best videos. Excellent commentary. It’s nice to see what I’m seeing quantified. The post exchanges, military base stores, have LARGER selections for women. I noticed a change, even on hair care aisles. Definitely seeing more women trainees.
@sylvieroche93643 күн бұрын
Ladies, veting when dating is a myth : the bad ones are liars and manipulators. The thing we have to learn to do and teach our daughters is to leave faster. We need to fight the sunk cost fallacy and all the speeches about the supposed selfishness of women who ends relationships. The men who are faking being good guys cannot wear that mask for a very long time : as soon as the mask drops, we need to be able to see it and leave. Which mean we have to stay self reliant and have a way to escape, even when we are committed in a partnership. That's the important skill to pass onto younger women. Men have that, nobody calls them selfish for keeping their job after marriage or giving full custody of the child so they can keep a good job... let's follow their "lead" lol.
@jet44153 күн бұрын
My dad was a CPA. An IRS agent came to his office to do some work. My dad went to lunch with him, the IRS agent proceeded to tell my dad he was looking to marry so he could afford to go back to school! My dad has 4 daughters! BTW, he always stressed to his daughters to be able to support oneself
@creallyreal3 күн бұрын
😳 😮!!! That's like men who divorce their wives after the wives work hard to help put them through med or law school.
@jet44153 күн бұрын
@@creallyreal Yep! At least leave these men with a pile of student loans they own.
@amourtabb78594 күн бұрын
Story 2: when she says she can’t afford a divorce, does she mean she thinks her husband will fight her and she can’t afford the legal battle? Bc if he only works part time and won't stick to a budget i feel like she should just separate from him. Some ppl break up and never get divorced 😂
@krishadyn52114 күн бұрын
My father in law did that. He and his wife split up but they never divorced, presumably to make she wouldn't get alimony. She was a working nurse and he was an elderly invalid, so I imagine she's fine. (I thought she was nice? And he was a b*st*rd, so who knows). This did become an issue when he died without a will. The wife inherits even if she had been gone 20 years. The executor had to show proof a search was done for the wife, and notification posted. After a year of probate, the judge kicked the can down the road at the hearing, then came back a day later and awarded inheritance to my ex.
@ShielaM-p1w4 күн бұрын
30:01 this is WHY you don't go on coffee dates. It doesnt matter how cheap the date is they will expect swx. I knew they would do that
@bjbear52023 күн бұрын
I've had guys show up, not eat or drink anything, so I bought my own, and still wants ssx
@BigBiteDoughnut4 күн бұрын
The second lady who cant leave... just make your husband's life hel. Stop doing everything. Get your own bank account and save money. And obviously stop sleeping with him.
@pinkpugginz3 күн бұрын
I wonder if she's even bothered talking to a lawyer about the financial aspect.
@DanaAgenbroad-pw4zw3 күн бұрын
I'd treat him like a disagreeable roommate. Pay my half of the bills, buy groceries for myself and my child, put a lock on the food cabinet, and have a locked separate frig. Cook and do laundry only for myself and child. Clean only the areas we use. I had to do this in college. Or get a place with the parents, even if it meant sharing a bedroom with her kid. She has options. She just doesn't like them. But she would be better off in the long run instead of stewing over him.
@Biiku_3 күн бұрын
17:21 I'm in the same boat as she is. I have always strived to do the right and practical thing and became disabled. The financial instability vs. Being even remotely happy/fulfilled at the expense of my childrens stability is real. Especially if his abuse doesn't leave marks and is considered "good enough" to people you hope to support you as you leave. So many of us are trapped in "too good to leave, too bad to stay".
@mikochild24 күн бұрын
So they will have to lower the requirements for men. They won't be able to talk about us.
@beeautifuldreamer22113 күн бұрын
5:14 so true when I was in bootcamp, not only were the men struggling in class, they were also struggling in physical training. During our workouts the person more likely to tap out before it was over was a male. 😂
@aureyd25153 күн бұрын
Men think that because they are physically stronger, they can do anything. Unprepared, they fail. Women have endurance. They just stick it out until they get to the strength they need.
@floofdecat3 күн бұрын
Regarding recruiting, it’s sad when the DOD has to solve this. Also, 1/3 of youth are too obese to qualify to enlist. I notice that none of the men in those comments mentioned that. So even if you pass the academic qualifications, you may not pass the fitness qualifications.
@jpatterson40163 күн бұрын
oh my, bring me back to my college days. in group projects when there are males and females. the women did the work and the men did literally nothing. they didn't have their sections done and expected someone else to help them with it. but when it came to presentation time they were all up in it. and of course they got praise from the instructor Prof. and full marks. things have not changed in 30 years hahaha
@rosedevereux23913 күн бұрын
Same!!!
@cynicalvixen92903 күн бұрын
Lisa (yv_edit) just did a video on the rise of Machiavellian traits increasing in women...I believe it's straight up a form of reactive abuse from all of these situations where women are being trapped in situations by men faking their whole personality... People think it's crazy when I say we need to just leave them be and live our best lives, but what's the alternative? Keep gambling with the consequences being anything from autoimmune diseases to financial ruin to d3ath? The odds are truly not in our favor
@Dabayare3 күн бұрын
In Asia, women mostly outperform men but they never progress. Japan puts a quota of woken at work in places like hospitals or all doctors woild be women.
@missinterpretation49844 күн бұрын
I’m in school right now doing my masters degree and can confirm. Also somewhat true in the workplace.
@bobbarker17983 күн бұрын
Your analysis is spot on.They're spoilt brats. Another great video.
@BurbNBougie3 күн бұрын
Yes they are!!
@britrah3 күн бұрын
A man recently told me that women should pick better so they don't have to worry about an abortion. He said that men should be able to have a say if she gets one. I told him you can think someone is perfect but things can change. You will never know someone's true self until that significant event happens. I told him abstinence wasn't an option either but he thinks it is... I told him that women should have complete and total access to abortion. She is in control of her body. He also said I wasn't being civilized because I was cussing lolll. Love your videos! 💜
@shorty631362 күн бұрын
The Holding Court podcast talks about spousal support allllll the time. Men absolutely get spousal support & the host cautions against allowing *any* adult to become a dependent bc the court will hold your responsible for that.
@SoCalRegisteredNurse3 күн бұрын
Look up the article relating to Vanessa Guillén and what happened to her while in the army stationed in Texas
@rosedevereux23913 күн бұрын
Ft. Hood. I will *NEVER* forget her story.
@birsancristina92782 күн бұрын
The system is severely rigged to help them and they're still failing 😂😂😂😂
@maargenbx14543 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@BurbNBougie3 күн бұрын
Thank you!! 😊
@maargenbx14543 күн бұрын
@ I still can’t bear to watch regular news, so you’re one of the safe spaces I’ll be relying on in 2025 - keep on rockin it!
@jenoakborn4 күн бұрын
I loved the "reinventing your life over and over"! Wow!
@cbc-h5g4 күн бұрын
Hey! Anyone noticed that before wmn came to college, they always painted lin movies like stpd one? The dumb blonde stereotypes, childish mannerisms etc? That was the standard for xesy one? And smart w usually was in noir movie. There is a lot of to think about...
@christinedeshano28724 күн бұрын
20:55 exactly! Get rid of the dead weight, move in mom and dad, 2 financial issues solved.
@DomoDowningNews2 күн бұрын
I feel bad for the lady who feels trapped. Young women are pushed to do their best, while young men are often coddled, particularly by the women in their lives. I also tried to do the right thing, went to grad school, and got a PhD. I went to a conference while getting my degree to learn that BW are less likely to get married the more education we get. I hate that that's the case for those wanting marriage. The younger me was shocked it would be the case, but the older me is ok with it now. I thought I'd have a family by now, but I am happy to be free to do whatwver I want. I recently experienced workplace depression, and I'm now freeing myself and opening a business. It's hard, but it would be harder if I had kids or a man holding me back. I pray everyone can find happiness...life is too hard to be miserable, especially at home.
@martibee89843 күн бұрын
Slightly off topic with the military, but if they're so concerned with their recruits having higher education then why do they spend a huge chunk of recruitment efforts in high schools? Convincing more kids to join the military before furthering their education is counterproductive apparently. We'll end up with mandatory military enlistment eventually if recruitment efforts fail continuously. I've seen a lot of rhetoric, mostly from men, that's basically saying that efforts to get girls into higher education needs to be shifted to boys. That isn't necessary, it can easily be achieved by putting more effort into the boys without removing effort from girls. They want it shifted because it takes opportunities away from girls. They don't only want improvement for boys, they want girls to decrease their achievements. Probably because they figure it'll make them look better when the stats come out after such a change, but also less independent women are easier to manipulate and use. Goal orientation seems to be a huge issue with men even on a societal level. Too many seem to have the mindset that they can float through life until something falls into their laps. It used to be fairly common to push all kids to further their education. There were issues with some of the information around that push, and people decided to completely push back against it instead of adjusting to the real information. Even the hustle mindset is more of a make quick money now than a set myself up for life. The reality of being cogs in the machine, especially poorly compensated ones, has also pushed this issue. I don't think we'll be able to make great strides in fixing the problem until we force the system to make adjustments to accessibility/affordability of education, proper compensation in the workforce, and educate children on the realities of adulting better in general.
@talesfromatiredmind47853 күн бұрын
I remember when I was in college the majority of my classmates were girls and alot of the boys that started the class with you dropped out of the class after the first hard assignment. One group project I had with 4 people 2 girls including me and 2 boys only I and one other girl in the group actually worked on the project and did the entire thing ourselves. The other 2 sat around during class apparently needing direction from one of us to do anything. Unfortunately in college there is no just doing your portion and leaving the others to fail. If the entire project isn't done it will negatively effect your grade even if you put in the work. The other girl and I couldn't afford to allow the 2 others to tank our grade which I'm sure the boys knew which is why they didn't try.
@gracea99323 күн бұрын
I had to do a project in nursing school with 2 other girls and a guy. I sent multiple texts to this guy to do his part. He didn’t. So I made his slide, made up an NCLEX question and purposely didn’t tell him the answer. Fast forward to presentation time. I let him look like the stuttering fool that he was in front of the whole class. Everyone said I was petty but I didn’t care. I worked hard to be the top student in every class and I refuse to let an entitled dummy drag me down. He also had the nerve to ask me to help him study for the finals with only two days left to go. I told him to read the book.
@justalittleturtle56003 күн бұрын
On a positive note, at the college I went to, there were lots of accomplished guys who were at college to learn and get a degree. Very serious and likable guys all around. At least from my department (STEM FIELDS). I did run into a few bad eggs, but they were mostly younger (18 year old freshmen funnily enough. Always the 18 year olds), but the gender ratio was pretty even. For reference, I also started at 18, so I’m not some old cod with a vendetta against the youngins, that age group just had the most incompetent people I’d ever met, and I wasn’t sure how they’d even gotten into the college.
@yazajag3 күн бұрын
I can understand if both people had discussed beforehand and go out to practice being social and pay for the dinner, regardless of the sex. That's actually an interesting concept and could be fun and helpful, but don't waste a person's time and your own, when you know they are looking for a serious relationship and you had no intention of following through with a serious date to get to know them. There are plenty of people who want to "just have fun" and list it in their profile. Shows not many people read much to be sure. They don't care. Also there are plenty of people who want the same things, dating, marriage, kids. No kids, Christian, Atheist, Muslim, Jewish, poly, monogamous, blue, red, purple, green, lol, come on, if more people were honest and patient they would have a better time finding the right person for them.
@May-nt3ow3 күн бұрын
Just be honest.
@Lysistrata20254 күн бұрын
Guy looking to practice should be honest and hire an actor.
@pinkpugginz3 күн бұрын
They can hire a s3x worker.
@eclecticfuzz31403 күн бұрын
Love your work. Finding the new format a bit more challenging with my hearing and eyesight weaknesses. I do rely on the full screen text and clips to engage with the content. Thanks.
@trixiesilver40303 күн бұрын
Exactly; even Hegel, & barely into the 19th century, couldn’t avoid the logical consequence of chronic oppression & exploitation: the oppressors/exploiters become the dependent ones.
@ArmyVet-Nikki462 күн бұрын
I served in the Army for 21 years, from 1996 to 2017. I retired in 2017. I deployed to I-raq 4 times. My job was logistics. I was on the roads in I-raq constantly trying to pick up and deliver supplies. The roads were RED (dangerous, IED improvised expl0sive devices, b0mbs, getting sh ot at, etc). I've seen a lot and done alot. I've lost friends in I-raq and many more on the home front because they "self delet.ed." I don't want to hear these me n whine about how we (wom en) were "behind" the c0mbat lines. I also worked in a detainee camp in Umm Qasr, Iraq as military police.
@Me-wk3ix3 күн бұрын
No colleges are denying applicants because the applicant is a man. Now, if there is some proof out there that a college is denying men but accepting women with the same or fewer qualifications, I think at this point, it's worth a conversation. That shouldn't be happening at this point, as the playing field to get into college seems to have leveled (with the exception of some STEM fields). Men are just mad because there is more competition now, and they actually have to work and be good to get ahead.
@maargenbx14543 күн бұрын
As someone who has argued for understanding of the systemic forces that have historically worked against the success of women and minorities, I hesitate to blame negative outcomes for any group on the personal defects of their members. When other groups faced hardships it was the sexists and racists who blamed the hardships on laziness and lack of intelligence - I believe that hasn’t changed: it’s still racist and sexist to say that men are struggling in college because they’re lazy and privileged. I’m aware of the claim that men and boys are struggling in schools generally, including college. I haven’t examined the claims closely yet. If these claims are true though, what we should be doing is applying the methods we acquired to analyze systemic hurdles and apply them now, rather than dismiss the failure of any group as their own fault, so too bad for them. I do appreciate the perspective that the patriarchy, in handing men success by oppressing others, has systematically failed to prepare men to struggle. I think this is true, just as children with parents who don’t read or practice intellectual engagement at home are at an educational disadvantage compared to children of intellectual parents.
@corimoon33608 сағат бұрын
Not sexist. You can’t be sexist against men. They’re the oppressor class. They are simply lazy and privileged and think they can just get by. It’s the truth.
@ginmar81343 күн бұрын
I guarantee you that that "pandering" was put in there by some jittery just-promoted _male_ Major. (I was in the USAR for a long time.) The physical tests are still skewed toward mens' specialties----upper body strength, speed, etc., etc.,----which would make sense according to demongraphics. Except the ideal soldier body has endurance, a strong core, and a strong back, according to a USSR study. Another study, which I have not been able to find, was a _Self_ magazine study to see if women could meet the Army's physical standards. They limited the participants to women who did not have the time to work out. It was astonishing. The women all lost weight and gained muscle, reaching the high 80 and 90% level on PT tests.
@unsoundfoxly3 күн бұрын
I would want to further my education if it was actually affordable and worthwhile but honestly since I grew up lower class and the only loans I can get have a 25-30% rate on them I just do not see value in taking that risk if there is no payoff. I have multiple friends who are six during debt with a degree that’s so over saturated already that nothing can be done.
@altyrrell30882 күн бұрын
I got a job at my college first, then took classes part time, to avoid debt. It's not for everyone, but it might be a good option.
@unsoundfoxly2 күн бұрын
@@altyrrell3088 if I was younger yeah but the job I have now pays out pretty good and paid training aswell
@sarahhamed4496Күн бұрын
"Women are going to college and men are falling behind." ok? Do you want DEI for men?? I thought we were done with that.
@turquesa_80562 күн бұрын
Why don't men just go to college? Nothing is stopping them though so I am confused?
@csherman4710 сағат бұрын
It used to be that everything was skewed in men’s favor so that they didn’t have to work too hard to succeed. Things were just given to them. Now that they actually have to perform they can’t or won’t do it. Much easier to play video games and complain about how women aren’t behaving the way they are supposed to,
@sarahkelly40263 күн бұрын
As a woman in a male dominated field (IT), I made multiple attempts at getting my male colleagues to “hold their own nuts”, as you put it. I was “not a team player” or “not committed enough”. Love your ideas but don’t think they can be applied in a man’s world. We simply aren’t there yet.
@Carly4now4 күн бұрын
9:20 THIIIISSS! 🤌🏽🔥🤦🏽♀️🇺🇸
@tam60113 күн бұрын
Maybe the reason they are dropping the degree requirements are due to men. There certain sectors of employment that require degrees. They hire the same people ocer and over.
@llechattonКүн бұрын
I wonder how much overlap there is between the higher XY rejects of military recruits and child free women? I mean if the military is having issues finding good men, then maybe we should let them fix men? Because they have a lot of experience with managing XY. I’d love to see their reasons for rejecting XY of breeding age.
@Aprilchelsea3 күн бұрын
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@Trinitytruth77 сағат бұрын
Not that I care a great deal but our military is in trouble. If men are not even cutting it anymore to get in the military (which was mainly thought of a inferior place to be when most couldn’t cut it in college) women would likely be less interested in the military. I work with homeless vets and stats say 70 % of women in the military are sexually assaulted, (higher for the unreported assaults of course). Damn shame you can’t even serve your country w/o being subjected to lust-filled male soldiers, even the superiors.