3 Ways Men Can Make Divorce Recovery Easier

[@d.rabbit7276]

One of the things I did was go back to school. All of that academic workload kept my mind off of the majority of the heartache. By the time I graduated, I was completely over it and increased my intellect and opportunities in the process. For me conquering something gave me a purpose beyond the pain/loss. Whatever you do, sitting at home depressed and stagnant isn't the pathway to recovery.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

This is inspiring to read. Thank you for sharing and for watching!

[@d.rabbit7276]

@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Thank you. I wished I encountered your content 12 years ago. You're the one who's inspiring and helping men positively change their lives.

[@karimtabrizi376]

Great advice

[@GintautasRumbaitis]

Thank you, Rachael for your education! First video I have seen, was about loosing your ID after divorce. And I couldn't watch that video without tears, because it realated so hard with me. Now I am 1 monh officilly divorced, 7 months of separation. I have the best connioction with my son, I have ever had. And I am starting to see the better future for my self and my son.

[@marguskiis7711]

I know well how emotions work but it does not help at all. If you get through the huge injustice and abuse then its not easy to forget it.

[@1974s3400]

Rachael you are spot on! You’ve helped me tremendously when I was at my lowest. Keep up the great work on helping us guys out.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you so much for your kind words! It means the world to me to know that I’ve been able to help you through such a tough time. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and healing is possible with the right mindset and support. If you're looking for more guidance to continue your recovery, I’d love to invite you to my free masterclass. It’s designed to give men the tools they need to heal, rebuild, and move forward with confidence after divorce. You can sign up here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Keep going strong-you’ve got this! 💪💙

[@Codyboy-wu8up]

Thanks Rachael. I apply your techniques and it helps. Part of the big problem however, is that there is such an injustice being served to the betrayed. My wife cheats and I have to pay. She could have come to me and talked about stuff. Instead, she planned and plotted for months getting all her stuff in order so that when she surprised me with the affair on Christmas Eve of 2023, she had everything prepared for a divorce. I always treated her with love, respect, and kindness, and I am at a loss of why this happened. She just said that she was unhappy. In the meantime, I am now struggling financially as I am in a no-fault divorce state and she is trying to get half of everything including the home that I owned for 31 years. My hardship at this point is just the sheer injustice of it all.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

I'm so sorry to hear about the pain and injustice you're experiencing. It's incredibly difficult when betrayal occurs, especially when you've given so much love and respect to your spouse. Feeling confused and hurt by actions that seem completely out of your control is natural. The financial and emotional toll can feel overwhelming, but please remember that this is not a reflection of your worth or the love you gave. Healing from this type of betrayal takes time, and it's important to be gentle with yourself during this period. If you're looking for more guidance and strategies to move forward through this challenging time, I’d love to invite you to my free masterclass. It's designed to help you regain your emotional strength, navigate the financial stress, and heal from the deep pain of betrayal. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Sending you peace and strength as you take the next steps toward healing.

[@GrantSatterley]

I greatly appreciate your videos, they are very insightful and wise, and they are a new perspective for me. Like many of us you are speaking to I'm a good guy, wasn't abusive, or cheated, tried to be a good husband, and now trying to make sense of why she up and left me and our family to find happiness somewhere else. Can't wait to watch more of your videos and take a break from the hundreds of hours of Narc videos I've seen at 3-4AM every night for 5 Months.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Hi Grant, thanks for watching. I'm glad that these videos are resonating for you and a relief from all the more aggressive content out there. If you're finding them helpful, you should check out my full Masterclass. It goes into more detail on how, specifically, to get off the emotional rollercoaster and start feeling better. You'll find it here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register

[@marguskiis7711]

I have tried your tips and those help only very short time.

[@boggsyboggsy]

Great advice for re-engaging to The Matrix. Disconnect from The Matrix. Live simple. Do not contribute to The Matrix.

[@RasheedahNizam]

What specific point that she made do you think should be refuted? Developing friendships, eating well or exercising?

[@marguskiis7711]

A lot of careless one night stands and arrogant loveless attitude help too.

[@matthewwakeling4978]

Drinking *less*? Oh, you mean alcohol.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

I understand your perspective! Alcohol can sometimes feel like a temporary relief during tough times, but overindulging can often make recovery harder in the long run. It's important to focus on healthier coping strategies that can help you heal and move forward with a clearer mind and more balanced emotions. In my experience as a divorce coach, addressing emotional pain through healthier outlets-such as exercise, talking to a therapist, or journaling-can lead to more lasting healing. Reducing alcohol consumption is just one way to help create space for clarity and growth during the recovery process. If you're looking for more guidance on how to navigate this challenging time and start making positive changes, I invite you to join my free masterclass: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register. It’s designed to offer actionable steps to help you heal, recover, and rebuild your life after divorce. Take care and keep moving forward-your future is brighter than you think! 💙

[@doreen3763]

And call 988, rip my son.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to reach out to someone who can offer immediate support, such as a trusted friend, family member, or a professional who can help guide you through these emotions. You don’t have to go through this alone. Healing from a difficult divorce, especially when it involves family, can be incredibly challenging. If you're open to it, my free masterclass is designed to help men navigate the recovery process with practical strategies and emotional support to build a stronger, more resilient future. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Please take care of yourself, and don't hesitate to reach out for help if you need it. Your well-being matters. 💙

[@davidmaski8467]

Women grieve in a different way?

[@niner8tangojuliet149]

Yeah, they laugh around the cauldron with their coven.

[@EerilLeeSilent]

😂😂😂​@@niner8tangojuliet149

[@EerilLeeSilent]

​@@niner8tangojuliet149 So I guess you came home one day to find your now ex wife swinging a pendulum and burning sage like I did😅

[@EricDraven-qd9pu]

No. They move on immediately and in bed with others within a few days

[@davidmaski8467]

@@EricDraven-qd9pu Monkeybranching

[@tonyward8752]

i will never make it without my wife. 32 years. i cheated. my fault

[@marcosmatos4315]

Hang in there man. Im on the same boat, but 13 years of marriage instead.

[@tonyward8752]

you cheat?

[@tonyward8752]

@@marcosmatos4315did you cheat