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@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach 25 минут бұрын
Thank you for watching! Divorce can make you feel like you've lost yourself, but it’s possible to regain control and start living a fulfilling life again. If you're struggling with feelings of hopelessness or uncertainty after your divorce, you're not alone. Take my free masterclass to learn how to regain your confidence, heal, and find your new path forward: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register
@JimHTM Сағат бұрын
Thank you for the breath of fresh air. The algorithm works well sometimes and this is one of those. I hope men that have been through such nasty divorces that may be reluctant, will just sit still and listen.
@JimHTM 2 сағат бұрын
Men listen up, she is simply trying to help us move past the trauma, not condoning vindictive behavior of an ex wife. Fact is, there is no court of law in this realm or any higher realm that will heal our pain, no matter if the whole world takes your side. The court is for one purpose, and it’s never for healing. Finding the love and compassion inside each of us, underneath the pain, is what will heal, beyond the guilty or innocent status. This is hard. No lie. Dissolutions can reveal to us as men the angles of our own fears. We need to man up and do better if we want out of that low frequency soul trap. I know from my own failures and sometimes daily struggles. I hope the best for all watching !
@JonathanVachon777 2 сағат бұрын
Alcohol is a big part of the problem and the worse part is that society encourage it
@arc-system-for-dads 2 сағат бұрын
Great video, Rachel! Thank you for helping men navigate one of the most challenging situations a person can go through. I'm surprised by some of the comments that this video is getting. It's sad to see men stuck in victimhood. Taking no responsibility and making it a gender problem will just perpetuate more pain for you in the future. This isn't a gender problem, it's a skill set problem. Heal from the hurt and learn how to have deeply loving and supportive relationship. Keep up the great work, Rachel 🙏🏻❤
@mikehammer1513 4 сағат бұрын
What you reporting is so true, but even if, in addition to being a protector and provider, you are also your wife's biggest supporter, supporting her with training, studying and starting a business, all in addition to your main job, she will still adopt a hostile attitude and claim that everyone well-intentioned act is a hostile act on the part of the man.
@JC-sh6im 6 сағат бұрын
It's not about staying quite or being submissive, it's about having less-than-constructive thoughts and expectations ( if those arise in the first place, no amount of talking can address that ), vs being mutually respectful and considerate. As a husband, I see what is going on, I know it's not fair and makes zero sense, and yet am powerless to convince her to see herself from outside of herself. The self-reinforcing convictions in her head. An unhealthy woman does not have insight or control over her emotions, and takes these at face value, and in such cases, nothing can be done to fix that, no therapy, no reasoning, no talking it out. What would help is empathy and thinking of someone other than herself, and yet that's what she grew up with and she doesn't know any other way. She only consumes, and yet you have to nourish a tree and wait for fruits, instead of shaking off green fruits and then complaining that the tree is slow in ripening the fruits.
@lesterdiamond6190 8 сағат бұрын
This is a great advertisement for why men should never get married or father children.
@TheThraxx 13 сағат бұрын
This is so good, explains so much. Thank you Rachel! So what happens next? I am just disappointed that she's acting this way, otherwise I am actually happier! Btw, the next video isn't on the screen but in the transcript. Thanks again!
@GorillaExploration 13 сағат бұрын
Never again will I ever look at women like innocent victims of society. How can u help a lady who was eating from a food bank when you met her; give her money often; help her back on her feet; get her a job; buy her a car, teach her to drive, marry her; have a child with her & once she feels secure enough, she changes & tells u she is unhappy, stabs you in the back with an unexpected divorce, take your child, hire a lawyer to take half your networth. I've worked hard all my life & never did anyone wrong. I pay my taxes & was always taught that the Christian way of life is to help the less fortunate. I did & she ruined my life completely. At 47, how can I start over again? I ŵill never trust any woman again & NEVER help any woman with anything ever again. Not worth the risk!
@realityba3ed 14 сағат бұрын
Honestly Most modern women in the US have become spoiled brats who are selfish and obsessed with materialistic items. I believe if women want a good masculine man she should brass check her attitude and stop sleeping around with dirtbags. She should start being thankful for everything she has and what country she's been born in.
@jonathanhunt371 15 сағат бұрын
There’s the jealousy but also the sadness that I can’t experience that close intimate moment with her any more
@MauriceDeClerk 17 сағат бұрын
Typical modern women. Don't talk or tell the man, hide your feelings, then gleefully hide emotions. Trust me, ladies like this are the worst things in life, and fully not authentic.
@DystopianUtopia8 18 сағат бұрын
I'd be in prison.
@setzer6452 Күн бұрын
Men should not be afraid of successful women. They should be afraid of broke girls with no clear direction.
@setzer6452 Күн бұрын
I don't EXPECT God to protect, provide, and give me a sense of purpose; and yet women expect it from men...
@lichtbewolkt Күн бұрын
Woman treat relationships as how men treat jobs.
@SharonVillareal-t8j Күн бұрын
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@soundjunkiea22 Күн бұрын
Sorry I was at my therapist appt. Yes had to do with my divorce 26 years ago. People, do everything you can to NOT divorce. It’s a curse you will never outlive. You loved the person you married. Hold on to that. Go to counseling and do everything you can NOT to divorce.
@chaunceyrash5067 Күн бұрын
Ya? What if it’s not your choice??
@Amk4792 Күн бұрын
@@chaunceyrash5067 50% divorce rate. 80% of that 50% is initiated by her. When she isn’t “happy” and driven all by feelings and emotions without logic, its over. Happened to me. Still traumatized.
@TechWeLove Күн бұрын
Most of those resources to deal with that pain, is going to the ex-wife. Ergo, I don't see how I could get married knowing this. I would have to have an ironclad family trust or something, to protect my assets before the marriage, and trying to get as much as my money into the trust during the marriage, if that even helps. I would need to talk to a financial advisor, and lawyer about this, before even considering marriage.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
Thank you for your insightful comment. You're absolutely right that navigating the financial and emotional challenges of divorce can make many men feel vulnerable, especially when resources often seem to support the ex-wife. The idea of creating a financial plan that includes a trust is a smart approach to protecting assets, and consulting with a financial advisor and attorney is a crucial step. It’s important to safeguard your future while also addressing emotional healing and personal well-being. However, it's equally important to recognize that beyond financial protection, emotional support is key. The emotional and mental toll of divorce can be just as damaging, and finding resources to process those feelings is vital to moving forward in a healthy way, both personally and in future relationships. If you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, I invite you to join my free masterclass, where I dive deep into strategies for overcoming the emotional challenges of divorce, regaining confidence, and building a brighter future. You can sign up here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Looking forward to supporting you on your journey!
@walterhill5228 Күн бұрын
Masterclass Getting 2nd divorce. This is 16 years. Need to understand how to work thru this one
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. Going through a second divorce after 16 years is undoubtedly challenging, and it’s completely understandable to want to make sense of everything this time around. Each divorce can bring its own unique set of emotions, even if you've been through it before. It’s important to address both the practical and emotional aspects of the process. This may involve reflecting on what you’ve learned from past experiences, setting healthy boundaries, and prioritizing self-care while navigating the complexities of this new chapter. If you're looking for tools to help you process and move forward with more clarity and peace, I encourage you to check out my free masterclass. It’s designed to help individuals like yourself understand how to work through the emotional pain of divorce and create a healthy path forward. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register I look forward to helping you through this journey.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
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@NomadKrishnan 2 күн бұрын
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@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
Hi there! 🙌 I’m so excited you’re interested in the masterclass! Here’s the link to register: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register This could be the life-changing chapter you’ve been waiting for. Register now, and I’ll see you at the masterclass! 🌟
@julierosato9780 2 күн бұрын
I’m the wife and this was helpful. Ty
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
I’m so glad to hear that you found the video helpful! Separation can be incredibly challenging, and it’s important to find ways to create peace and understanding during that time. The strategies shared in the video can really help to maintain emotional clarity and improve communication, even in a difficult situation. Remember, it’s all about finding balance and working through emotions in a healthy way. If you’re looking for more support and tools to navigate this chapter, I’d love to invite you to my free masterclass. It offers deeper insights into managing tough relationship transitions and creating a stronger foundation for whatever comes next. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register. You’re doing great, and I’m here to support you along the way!
@Amanda-kh4cf 2 күн бұрын
he pushed me away and i took it personally and i regret it. i just wished he opened his heart to me instead of me having to get it out of him. i wish he wasn’t suffering and thought i could help him but i can only do so much. i miss him
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
I’m really sorry you're going through this-it’s hard when someone you care about pushes you away, especially when you’re just trying to help. It’s important to remember that depression can make it difficult for people to open up, and it’s not a reflection of your worth or love. You’ve done your best, and now it’s time to focus on taking care of yourself too. If you’d like more guidance on navigating tough emotions like these, I invite you to my free masterclass. It offers tools to help you heal and build stronger emotional boundaries. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register. Take care of yourself-healing is possible for both of you.
@KeiPyn24 2 күн бұрын
I've been through both. Death and Divorce. Frankly, Death is easier. I unite my suffering to Christ's Cross. The person I've had to deal with is evil. I pray for all of those men who endure such a loss. Pax Christi
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
I’m so sorry for all the pain you've endured-losing a loved one, whether through death or divorce, can feel like a deep, personal grief. It’s powerful that you’re finding strength in your faith, and your compassion for others going through similar struggles is truly admirable. It’s also important to acknowledge that everyone experiences loss in their own way, and sometimes people’s actions during divorce are influenced by things we can’t always see, such as their own emotional pain or coping mechanisms. If you’re looking for more support and strategies to cope with these complex emotions, I invite you to my free masterclass. It offers tools to help you navigate the emotional challenges of divorce, healing, and finding peace after painful transitions. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register. You’re not alone, and healing is possible. Pax Christi.
@gc2161 2 күн бұрын
I never thought he was better or wanting to compare myself to to this imaginary him. I just think they are a couple of immature fools. And I walked away.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
It sounds like you've made a strong decision to walk away from a situation that wasn’t serving you, and that’s something to be proud of. Sometimes, the hardest thing is recognizing when it's time to move on, especially when others' choices don’t align with your values. It’s not about comparing yourself to anyone else, but rather about finding peace in your own journey and reclaiming your power. If you’re looking for more support on how to navigate this emotional rollercoaster and move forward with confidence, I invite you to my free masterclass. It’s designed to help you build emotional resilience and clarity after divorce. You can register here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register. You’ve got this, and there’s a brighter future ahead!
@TheThraxx 2 күн бұрын
This is what I'm going through now. She's a self-proclaimed narcissist, and I was like I'm being the adult here, why is she doing this? Watching this helped tremendously; Aha! She's got the survival mask on. I broke early on, losing my core relationship and the possibility of losing the children was like nothing I've felt before. I had issues reminiscing the recent smiling and throwing her a massive surprise 40th, trip to Europe to stone cold heartless, and now telling her friends she hates me, why? I feel that breaking down early, going for therapy and realizing that only time heals, understanding your faults and maladaptive schemas allowed me to be kind and gracious to myself. I will come out better and I wish you all the best too. It's not easy, one step at a time, you don't have to be happy all the time. Good luck all ❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹
@anthonyc9207 2 күн бұрын
I can really use your help how can I contact u
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
Hi Anthony, Thank you so much for your comment! I’d love to connect and support you. You can learn more about my program here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/bbd-enroll-now Also, feel free to watch my free masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Looking forward to connecting and supporting you along the way!
@AZGATOR2002 2 күн бұрын
Excellent information, will watch many more of your videos.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
I'm glad you found it helpful. Thank you for watching. I also have a free Masterclass that goes into more detail on emotional regulation and how to get your own nervous system out of fight/flight so you can function at your highest level during divorce. If you like my YT videos, you should really enjoy the Masterclass. You can get it for free here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839
@andre1987eph 2 күн бұрын
1 Timothy 2:12: "I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet." (NIV)
@JonathanVachon777 2 сағат бұрын
The best part is the verses 15 in my opinion; live in modesty and holyness
@Lightspeedwoosh 2 күн бұрын
She is so right. Sadly in our 40s we dont just end up divorced we also end up incredibly lonely. Its a double whammy.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
You're right, the loneliness is agonizing. For some it is even dangerous. A man in my community just posted recently about realizing how much he missed human touch, and how powerful a real hug from a friend, and then, later on, from a woman on a date, was for him. Feeling connected to others is important for us as human beings, and so often in our culture we focus all of that connection only on our marriage. Do you have a support system or anyone you are able to connect with now? A lot of the men I work with find Divorce Care groups a good way to ease the loneliness. They have free or low cost meetings in most cities and lot of towns. That might be a good way to get a little more human face time as you go through all of this.
@chrismeyerlawfirm 2 күн бұрын
Rachel's NLP techniques are truly amazing! I definitely recommend her. Worth every penny.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Күн бұрын
Thanks for the kudos, Chris! I'm glad you're finding the tools and program so helpful. Thanks for watching and commenting!
@tommywanders 3 күн бұрын
Thata boy Tommy, that’s how this channel found me I’m sure. Thank you Rachael these have been helping me through these dark times.
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach 3 күн бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you for watching, I'm glad the videos have been helpful. Do you have a good support system as you go through all of this? If you ever want to go a step deeper and get more concrete tools, check out my free masterclass: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register
@dalord63 3 күн бұрын
The only difference between a man getting married and playing Russian Roulette is society encourages men to keep getting married.
@AnthonyBrown-zy7po 3 күн бұрын
Masterclass
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach 3 күн бұрын
Here's the link: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Thanks for watching!
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach 3 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching! Tommy began dating and how is happily with a new partner. You don't have to stay stuck or overwhelmed by pain for years because of an unwanted divorce. You just need the right tools, which is exactly what I teach in my free Masterclass Get the free class here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/bbd-enroll-now
@YourLocal_Reyes Күн бұрын
Love it 😊
@AnthonyBrown-zy7po 3 күн бұрын
Masterclass
@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach 3 күн бұрын
Hi Anthony, thanks for watching, I hope you found Tommy's story helpful. You can get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register
@MarkSummers-g2n 3 күн бұрын
Just don't marry again!
@MaxMojo-b1b 3 күн бұрын
Stay single. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Some of us learn the hard way. Only the stupid ones will get married again. Not worth it.
@icecreamcone9490 3 күн бұрын
So very interesting