3 Ways To Stop Feeling Lonely

[@paulcooper5748]

To all the lonely people out there i give a big embrace i feel your pain i live with it too you all matter and are special.

[@jonway2350]

I've been a loner all my life. Ive never had confidence and have always been socially awkward. Then once someone accepts me, I get to attached too easily which usually doesn't turn out well. And it becomes a never ending cycle.

[@torrescouto]

Are we twins?

[@farseenaansar1418]

torres couto same thought

[@justice6143]

Jon Way how's you now?

[@jimmcbobason1745]

I hear ya.

[@jimalford6359]

Jon Way I understand Reach out I will try to be here for you Jim 513-500-7330

[@userme2803]

1) Reach out to someone! what a BS. I am alone, so how can I reach out to someone!!! alone person means he/she knows no body., do you know what does alone mean? That is why I do not listen to those people because they do not know what they are talking about. They are not empathetic (not been in someone's else shoes)

[@Youniversou1]

Userme you’re not alone as you might think you are

[@susiearviso3032]

Userme, You don't have to feel alone. Did not your Maker tell everyone something very important in the First Commandment? "You shall love the Lord (Jesus) your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind and strength." Jesus is alive and real and still changing lives today. That's good news. Your Maker never told you or anyone else they must live a lonely life. The first Commandment tells us that our Creator desires a personal relationship with everyone. We don't have to go through life alone, or try to come up with ways we can beat loneliness. And you can't reach out to anyone who is alone without first resolving your own loneliness.

[@barbarariley3488]

Yes I do. Are you able to get out of the house or are you housebound because of some physical or mental condition ? If you are able to go out even to a library or grocery store start just.giving someone a smile or.hello. Go to Church you will start to get to know the people there. If.you.are housebound see if.your community has Homecare to visit.

[@sixtysense]

This is going to sound weird, but I live in a community which I am totally overqualified for. I am a health provider and I help people all day long. But when I get home I am SO lonely! No one mingles with me socially, and although I am a very friendly and humble person, I am also older and single, so its difficult to go out! I do also author, but that keeps me stuck in my research and my town people cannot relate whatsoever. Although they love my service, they are also 'afraid' of me because of my standing in the community. I visit my children often, but they live far away.

[@NoOne-kn6em]

@J OneLife you should improve your social skills and self confidence. Just go to a club and meet people or use social media to find people to hang out with. If you are in you 40s then why dont you invite your neighbours over

[@futurelane3377]

yeah ur right it is the worst feeling.... I've been like this for months n it feels like forever... I just wana escape now.

[@doctorjodi]

Connect with people by running errands and talking to cashiers, anything to break your isolation will help.

[@AIStocksInsight]

Jodi Aman . . I had so many relationships in the past. People used to ask me for tips about how to talk and impress women. That last breakup came heavily on me so much that I developed a profound approach anxiety. Every time I feel like talking to woman, my subconscious starts screaming "she is going to kill you" I can't believe this. I feel like I am living someone else life. After watching tons of videos and reading countless of blogs I don't have slightest of clues how to fix it. I don't know what happened. Its really really hard to forget relationship with a narcissist.

[@farseenaansar1418]

future lane exactly

[@justice6143]

Red rebel how's you?

[@barbarariley3488]

Yes when my husband die.I would.get.very depressed doing the grocery shopping. He used to do it. Anyway I started to notice many elder people alone so I started to smile at them and say hello. Or even say "what a pretty blouse you have on". It helps to cheer others.

[@colleenseibert5934]

Hope this helps someone. I set goals. I have coffee with friends. I redecorate a room or a renovation. Taking up a musical instrument. Exercising at a gym or some type of regular exercise. Getting books from the library to read. Realizing we are not alone. A lot of people going through the same thing.

[@babyface5035]

When I joined a church group( I'm not religious either ) I didn't feel as lonely . There are very friendly supportive people there .

[@lailad.1125]

When I feel lonely i go to hair salon, shopping center, listen some happy music, I clean my room, I watch comedy movies, walk, do yoga, I’m learning new language...

[@jeanpierrepolnareff9905]

hehehe imagine corona preventing most of those thighs

[@doctorjodi]

Great ideas!

[@bebe553]

Too many young people feeling so lonely. Unfortunately loneliness is a part of growing old all to often (children not having time for you, divorce, death of a spouse but loneliness should NOT be a part of youth. Praying for everyone who is lonely 🌹🌸💞

[@jakia2020]

Beverly Robinson 🙏🙏🙏

[@messifahmi5757]

Yeah especially when i couldn't find a girl

[@mimimingles9070]

my own negativty eats at me alot. must be why i feel like crap alot. its hard to be my own best friend because i dont know how to be a friend. see, thats my insecurity. i feel unworthy.

[@doctorjodi]

+MimiMingles You probably are a great friend. I can tell you have a good heart!

[@AIStocksInsight]

MimiMingles . You need a revolution like I need.

[@chandrahaschouhan4218]

I feel the same about myself

[@arunkumarindla9016]

Hello Mimi mingles

[@susiearviso3032]

Mimi, Jesus can help you. I'm serious. He helped me when I was 21.

[@millicentevans9232]

So true loneliness is harsh. I try to keep positive

[@doctorjodi]

Good for you. It makes a difference!

[@shefalikaushik5454]

I am feeling alone at every single time.. i am reading , i am working, i am talking with my friends but i dont feel good. i am still feeling alone.

[@sammifoo657]

Shefali Kaushik i feel the same way as u

[@shefalikaushik5454]

Sammi Foo my husband is beating me . my parents are not with me. they saying u got married now you r not our responsibility. no friends no relations.nothing. ....

[@farseenaansar1418]

Shefali Kaushik same

[@susiearviso3032]

You need Jesus. He is what completes us and gives us fulfillment, peace and joy.

[@sayanray5999]

i do feel the same.. as i am growing the more n more i m feeling lonely

[@abhishekkumarkushwaha8183]

It is such a strong feeling that it make u overthink. I lived large part of my life lonely even i have so much loving people. But this comes from within

[@Sona-cz4wg]

Hm

[@grinningshine9631]

ABHISHEK KUMAR KUSHWAHA it really does, I’m overthinking way too much. Will you please tell me to stop overthinking things? I could use it coming from another person for once lol.

[@jovenvalenciaflores6029]

Kinda feel the same, I'm socially awkward and I'm trying to change. Hope it gets better for me in the future.

[@janetagallardo4]

help me I feel lonely cause I don't fit in with my friends

[@SavitaRana88]

Janet Gallardo then they r not the right frnds for u

[@joanagoncalves169]

Janet Gallardo me too 😞😢😢

[@valserafica3104]

Janet Gallardo same

[@user-gl5dy2ms6c]

Janet Gallardo same.

[@cyberpunk6554]

ur not alone broo

[@drumdude46]

"itty, bitty, shitty committee! Lol!.....indeed. laughed so hard when she said that!

[@jodiaman7866]

drummerfella 55 Thank you!

[@doctorjodi]

❤️

[@lilacandme8234]

Do something that keeps your mind off from telling you you’re lonely. Take time off from social media, and do whatever is good for your soul.

[@okaykatee]

I feel so lonely and sad. I am not doing anything to help myself, instead I just start to cry because of my miserable existence, thinking everyday that no one needs me. I have social anxiety and it's hard living with it. I spend too much time in the Internet watching KZbin videos, but what else can I do? I don't want to stair at the wall because I never do anything, and I stoped even caring about my future and my hobbies😭, this is one of the worst Christmas I had and I don't feel loved at all💔

[@okaykatee]

And I've been isolating myself from everyone. It's like I don't want to see anyone

[@okaykatee]

But nobody cares.

[@doctorjodi]

Is there anyone you could help? Is there someone you know of who may need your assistance? Service to others can ease our loneliness because it helps us connect and feel valued.

[@simonexpress9591]

okay kate hi Kate. thank you so much for sharing your feelings. loneliness is something I have suffered with too in the past, and I would love to share with you some good news. there is a cure!! I have seen your comment, and felt inspired to create a video on my own channel about how I have cured loneliness in my own life, and cured it in the lives of many young people I mentor. let me know if it helps, and also if you want to make a new friend that cares about you :) sending my love, Simon :)

[@satishrachamalla922]

same here!!

[@akaaka7316]

I dont have any friends, even when i want to go out i have nobody to hangout with and i sucks

[@doctorjodi]

You do not suck! No one sucks, I can tell you that! Don't hesitate to go to a trusted adult when needed. I hope this video helped!

[@rega5950]

This is advice for someone who is lonely for a day. Long-term loneliness can almost be chronic. Just be positive is not good advice. You have to fight, and fight hard to stay positive otherwise the negativity just tends to creep back in from the periphery..

[@barbarariley3488]

You need to.change the beliefs.of your inner self or heart. Cause.what you speak over you life will come to pass.

[@messifahmi5757]

@@barbarariley3488 hi can we get to know each other

[@doctorjodi]

Who said, just be positive? Hope you have gotten out of your shell in the last 5 years!

[@marylawson6060]

There is one who sticks closer than a brother. Jesus. I am lonely sometimes but God is just a breath away and gets me through it.

[@tinkusingh8660]

Share your feeling with someone , If there is no one to talk, talk to oneself, It surely helps.We don't know it but let me tell you ,"I" am my best friend, this best friend never fails oneself , but we people always look for others by ignoring the self.

[@johnp8409]

How can talking to yourself cure loneliness, you are lonely BECAUSE you ARE ALONE!!!!!!!!!!

[@doctorjodi]

Thank you ❤️

[@turbokyubi2742]

Its been almost 7months since my break up. I still feel lonely and suffocated sometimes...

[@syboski9253]

Reading these comments actually help I been going thru the same thing

[@doctorjodi]

I'm so glad

[@raikab.894]

i feel so lonely sometimes :( maybe bc i am depending on someone but doesnt satisfied me with love and support . naaaaaaaah ! idk , or maybe im just too dramatic sometimes :( being introvert is hard .

[@barbarariley3488]

Do some self love meditations right here on youtube

[@messifahmi5757]

Hi can we get to know each other other

[@ghirahime5282]

those tips are great for primare loneliness... but what about a deep one?

[@barbarariley3488]

Go to Agnes Vivarelli.here on youtube and do some.of her self love meditations. They do help.

[@doctorjodi]

Connection is what everyone needs.

[@abhijeetpatil3221]

feeling lonely feeling helpless

[@doctorjodi]

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[@John-ud9tq]

I used to feel lonely all the time and with that came anxiety and depression and now I want to help people feel less lonely nobody should feel lonely very good tips and i really like that you are helping people

[@doctorjodi]

Thank you!

[@dhrubapatgiri3986]

I was never knew that i m going to be the victim of this...but wanna to be happy again

[@nancyreyes5219]

I have no appetite and want to sleep all day!

[@doctorjodi]

Get out of isolation.

[@norawigan199]

Sometimes loneliness make us deppress...

[@doctorjodi]

of course it does and depression also makes us lonely!

[@Eternally_Moon]

I feel lonely cuz i miss my sister. :((

[@sanjeev3144]

i kept on losing my school friends and peoples i loved and finally i had no one, but a girl found me. meeting her was like listening to a song for the first time and i knew it was gonna be my favorite. thankfully we were together, i was the happiest, i had a legit reason to live and to be happy being alive, but suddenly she said she lost feelings for me, she doesnt wants to be with me, when i told her i love her she said i sound pathetic. and i am not able to talk to her since then and i miss her so bad, i love her so bad but i know this is wrong, i cant make her happy because she doesnt loves me anymore and she has lots of peoples to talk to and she is a good girl and has lots of friends but just knowing she is happy without me makes me feel relieved for some reasons that i dont even know. i will be able to talk to again after 6 years because she told me to come back then, i will do that just to let her know i love her. i decided to make her the last person i love, i dont want to be in love anymore but i love her so bad, i am sure i will be happy seeing her happy, ofcourse i will feel sad because its not me but still she made me feel alive more than anyone or anything else, so i will always keep her inside my heart. i wont love anyone except her, i wont have any relations with other persons. atleast i have someone to love unlike before when i had no one and everyone left me. i just wish everyone will always be happy and i had powers to disappear and when i disappear everyone who knows me will lost every memories of me and will not be able to tell if i existed.

[@jimalford6359]

There seems to be a lot of people that have watch this video and reached out I would love to figure out a way to get people to gather that are struggling with loneliness Does anyone have any suggestions

[@tinan1103]

I agree, and have often felt I should create a meet-up group. There are single clubs but they are so awkward and obvious. I've gone to a few of them and it's all about eating, drinking, acting crazy. Not into that. So I thought I could create my own group and include the people that were more like me. But now, I'm stalled, not sure how to proceed.

[@nikitamakkar7289]

Very nice points helpful... Thankyou.... Ma'am..

[@jiechigs1878]

How i wish i can get out this loneliness. No one i can reach out.

[@doctorjodi]

There is always someone. Watch people for a while to find a nice person

[@jiechigs1878]

No one bother.. People nowadays are self centered..

[@sangeetar6758]

Hi I m from India female 47, I also feel so depressed and lonely will you be my friend

[@sangeetar6758]

Hi I m from India female 47, I also feel so depressed and lonely will you be my friend

[@bonitasetiawinardi]

I'm not gonna lie but I cried when I watched this. I don't even know why I cried. but I have been feeling lonely without any clear reason. everytime I am in my room (I live alone in a house-dorm) I always wanted to go home. for the last 5 months I didn't feel it because there are 2 other people in this house-dorm. but now they both moved out, I am alone here. Friends in college does help me to forget about this loneliness,but after I got back to my room, I always want to go home like crazy, I want to meet my family so much, I really want to cry all the time and just sleep all the time so I could forget this pain. but it is so hard... I really don't know what to do at all..

[@bonitasetiawinardi]

and just a side note, it took 2+ hours from this city I take college to my home.

[@doctorjodi]

Connect with people by running errands and talking to cashiers, anything to break your isolation will help.

[@bonitasetiawinardi]

+Jodi Aman I go to college at 8 am and end usually around 3 or 5 pm. after that I go to dorm. I talk with my friends through chat. at first it helps but as day goes by, even when I am with my friends at college or when I am talking to somebody, my mind keeps making me thinking about the loneliness.. I want to get rid of it fully of my mind. it is irritating :( like when I am alone it is worst but when I am with others sometimes I just want to be alone ;-;

[@sueblackwood6843]

I would rather be on my own then people treat me like shit

[@doctorjodi]

find nice people.

[@AmatistaLife]

I was born in Paraguay, grow up in Argentina and now I live in USA. Is hard, I feel lonely most of the time.

[@doctorjodi]

I hope the tips in the video help you.

[@LabRat6619]

I'm lonely because my mother said to me "always be yourself". I have always done this and people don't like my personality. Which is open honest and fairly humorous. It seems people form unofficial gangs, not true friendships.

[@doctorjodi]

Find YOUR tribe. Observe people and see if they are nice first!

[@sangeetar6758]

Hey will u be my friend

[@chetankhatal716]

Nice video.... keep it up..!!!

[@bishalpoudel481]

Let me give people a tip U should give yourself time Say one whole day and think like what am i best at what could be the thing i can do that nobody can Maybe like Dancing Cooking Vloging Magics Songs writing Journalist and many others Then u create a goal like i can achieve this and i want to be like this Then u sorround yourself with those people with same interest And Chase that dream You can truely get out of loneliness Believe me

[@Lizzy-cw4ho]

Fact 🤗

[@doctorjodi]

❤️

[@deborahevans4472]

Thanks I was feeling lonely. Most of my family is in a different state.

[@doctorjodi]

I hope you have made some connections since!

[@Kyra-fe6do]

I believe the lack of community connection is the #1 reason people are so lonely nowadays.

[@doctorjodi]

yes, so true. The structures of our lives don't allow for the connection like they did in the past.

[@raniamaireche4089]

every time i try to talk to someone of my family they start talking too or they give me a task .....i never feel they're interrested at all eventhough i always listen to them .that's why i keep my self away from them......and my friend ....well the're not real friend all they do is judje me ...

[@salmamursi2504]

Rania Maireche sameee😭😭😭

[@salmamursi2504]

my friend didnt. make me comfort when i talk with them i am neverrr feelll nutural in any moment in my lifeee

[@fareezdragneel3900]

Rania Maireche i feel u too..its really hard to deal with it

[@dineshchandran4073]

same about me

[@doctorjodi]

❤️ You would like my book Anxiety, I'm So Done with You! amzn.to/2zudoHZ

[@tylerbless7141]

My ex hurt me so bad he made me feel so great and happy and now that he broke up with me I'm so lonely and sad

[@doctorjodi]

I'm so sorry to hear that you're hurting. Keep reaching out and be sure to take care of yourself. You are not alone. I have a free series of videos you may want to take a look at

[@tylerbless7141]

Jodi Aman thank you I'm trying my best but it's been 5 months and we were together for two years and I'm don't feel like I can ever love again and not bragging but it's plenty of men that address me and try to take me on dates but it's like I feel nothing like my heart doesn't care and my reply is usually Ik taken bc although Ik I'm not I mentally taken by my thoughts

[@hannahmut9667]

The voice in my head which tells me negative things even has a name and it's Cheryl.

[@doctorjodi]

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[@rohanpayeng2237]

Very nice

[@danielle8331]

When i get in them crying moods and lonely I scream and cry and soak my pillow with tears ✌🏼😢

[@jacquelinetillyer8666]

NO! The pathway to Hell, know it well. The mood grabs you and shakes you but calm it down

[@futurelane3377]

I have 1 friend... n can u give more examples of improve rlsp with urself... n doing things wit purpose...

[@doctorjodi]

Not sure what you're asking. Give people compliments. It makes you feel good and see good in you!

[@waterboy4081]

I just feel that social media like Facebook and Instagram and video games have really messed with my mental health and make me feel lonely. I usually feel pretty depressed so I have deleted Facebook and Instagram and have taken a break from gaming. I will see if this works.

[@doctorjodi]

Yes, awful! Keep taking breaks and making conscious decisions.. You may really like my book: Anxiety...I'm So Done with You!, too. amzn.to/2zudoHZ

[@Shown..]

But ma'am I have no good friend to spending time so what I do ,,,,

[@doctorjodi]

Get involved in a group that is already made.

[@martinwood744]

Jodie Aman? I beg to differ. Jodie Awoman!

[@adamsebastian3375]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@kristyburton6507]

Thankyou 😀 for making this world 🌎 a better place

[@jacquelineellis7136]

There is light at the end of the tunnel....I have been so called lonely most of my life, but now, after soaking myself with the word of God, attending church, and tons of personal development information, BABY, LIFE IS GOOD, AND I AM WORTHY. Learning to love yourself is stepping into the 5th dimension...loneliness is a 3rd dimension illusion. Self Pity is Addictive

[@doctorjodi]

Thank you for your comment.

[@diyapathak2413]

you know the feeling when you've been in bed all day not wanting to get out, just want to lay there forever and cry because you have nobody? family doesn't support, don't have any friends, depression and anxiety rule me. I procrastinate all the time, I feel so so lonely and I wish I never existed and everything and everybody sucks. can't reach out to anybody because I have nobody. seeing others live a great life makes me feel so sad. have sucidical thoughts often, because I feel like there's no meaning to this life. build a relationship with myself? tell me how do I build a relationship with myself when I hate myself to the core? I know nobody is gonna read this but okay

[@doctorjodi]

Watch my demystify self love video!

[@carlssonfrancis9815]

Feeling lonely and broken 💔

[@rowannehagen875]

This is tripe. Most lonely people have no one available to reach out to. That is why they are lonely. They may be stuck at home with disability, for instance. What good is cultivating self love if it is not able to be shared and reflected back from others? Instead of giving lonely people advice they may not be in a position to follow, why not encourage communities to seek out lonely people and offer some company? Yeah, I get it. No one's got time.

[@doctorjodi]

Not true, people most of the time have people but they keep themselves isolated for many reasons. I always encourage people to seek out lonely people, but if you are feeling lonely I don't recommend just staying home and waiting for someone.

[@rowannehagen875]

@@doctorjodi Perhaps you have never been in this situation yourself, but it can happen that people get left and forgotten, particularly if they are housebound, disabled or elderly. They may not have family, their friends may have left or died, they may not have a car or any available transport to take them anywhere, they may not be eligible for social worker visits, and not everyone finds online social media fulfilling. Those who keep denying this situation can happen might well have an isolated person living right next door, yet they do not see them. This is not because people are uncaring, it's because they're often in too much of a rush in their own lives. If isolated people seem to keep to themselves, it might be because they have been rebuffed, ignored or refused too many times before, and so they withdraw to protect themselves. I am disabled myself, so I know how easily it can happen. I have also taken the time to approach single elderly neighbours who have poured out their gratitude that someone has come to the door to say hello.

[@finabond8926]

So true .

[@finabond8926]

@@doctorjodi sometimes you got friends but at night or weekend they're with their families and you bit disabled. You can't do much buy yourself is very hard What else can you do? to help yourself not easy

[@lakeofire4456]

i live in a hostel and lonliness is the worst

[@men_on]

what do I do? when I don't have anyone to reach out to?

[@doctorjodi]

Connect with people by running errands and talking to cashiers, anything to break your isolation will help.

[@tedbates1236]

With this Covid 19 I have spent many months isolated to myself. I have a cat, and that helps. I also talk to God and do things like writing Christian books and that has helped me a lot. Also I lived 9 or 10 years in the mountains of northern California in cabins, so I am accustomed to a certain amount of isolation and loneliness. Also at night I listen to some Christian KZbin videos that are talk downs and help me to find mental comfort. When I was 19 I had a severe mental breakdown but with help back then and experience in life, I have done pretty good alone. I do like occasional one on one conversation rather than a lot of noisy crowds. I do have my times and my struggles, but I have found that the Lord helps to bring me through those periods and returns me to an inner quietness. When God speaks, He often speaks in a "still small voice" and I hear Him better when I am quiet. Still people are created as relational beings. We need time with others in particular someone of the opposite sex. When God created Adam, He gave him the job of classifying all the animals but there was no one comparable for Adam. Then God said, "It is not good for man to be alone." So He created Eve. When Adam first saw Eve, he said, "At last! This is bone of my bone and flesh. She shall be called woman...." So it is not good to be all alone, but for me it can be lonelier being around people too. Thank you for your video. I am concerned that as I get older I will be alone and I am not sure what that will be like for me. I am somewhat self sufficient and hope that I will be able to manage my life even as an older person. My best friend will always be Jesus. Without Him you have not a hope or a prayer, but with Him you become a child of the living God.

[@doctorjodi]

thank you

[@sheldoncooper2218]

I liked that quote tho from your friend 👌✌

[@doctorjodi]

Thank you

[@samuelowusu5895]

God bless you for points

[@shrutijindal1409]

realised that its true 😊

[@doctorjodi]

great!

[@doctorjodi]

❤️

[@naxam7617]

the lolenlyness i feel just never seems to disapear you may tell me to block em out but that just gives me more emptyness blocking out negativity with positivy still doesnt change anything theres still negativity just wearing mask of the positivity my grammar may be bad but thats how i feel when i tried to follow your advice

[@doctorjodi]

who said to block it out?

[@naxam7617]

0:50 umm didnt you mean that

[@doctorjodi]

not really. I was asking "Wouldn't you like to turn down the volume on that" ? I didn't say "Turn down the volume."

[@naxam7617]

nah forget i said it i doenst matter anyway

[@psychochan3907]

I have social anxiety in school I'm very shy and quiet many people judge me whenever a teacher picks on me to answer a question I blush (turn red) everybody stares and sometimes laughs people call me "quiet" and "shy" I have no friends in school my 2 friends well they... ugh well one of them was using me because when her friend was "sick" from school she came running back to me and my stupid self said yes... she left me the next week she's done it for months now and it's made me develop loneliness and depression and my other friend she just made other friends and left me... it annoys me because she always talks about how all of her friends betrayed her and how she has such a bad life but she's so confident and she has so many friends like 3 or something 😭 somebody tell me what to do...

[@doctorjodi]

Observe.in school, take some time. There are always nice kids somewhere. Just find them through observation and then begin to smile at them, and start conversations. Find YOUR people!

[@davidphilllips9349]

When people make fun of people or put others down they are the ones with low self-esteem they do that to make their self feel better but in all reality they are the ones that have low self-esteem about their self do not let that bother you God bless

[@janetnash6286]

I did !! Over no words ( but that's Ok

[@shauna5466]

I’m very lonely and I’m thinking of ways to change it but In another way I don’t want to do anything about it, But I know in order for it to change it is I who has to do something, join a club, join the church, join the library So far I’m not doing anything....

[@doctorjodi]

I get how hard it is!

[@tonythegreat4275]

I need a woman lol feel like no girl really likes me..

[@producerronk7786]

Bboy. Tony I feel you man

[@vipervon1035]

We both on the same page dude

[@peacek1133]

Here i am tony

[@susiearviso3032]

Find a woman.

[@doctorjodi]

how about now?

[@benedita2004]

it's not that easy......

[@banishedfromthedwarfplanet530]

Nothing worthwhile is easy.

[@joelwilliams5576]

Yeah people these days just don't accept stangers even tho I've been here over a year. It really sux

[@doctorjodi]

Hard and easy are mere ideas that we use to trick our brain.

[@abhijeetpatil3221]

what should I do please help

[@doctorjodi]

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[@Radhouen93]

When loneliness really kicks in. None of these ways will work. Tried them all and they are jack shit.

[@doctorjodi]

Go out and make some friends. Talk to everyone you meet, smile and say a kind word. If you stay home and don't do anything of course nothing works. Humans crave community. You must make one for yourself.

[@RaySelwood]

Long term loneliness saps the confidence and you become so socially paralised that little or no change can be made...

[@doctorjodi]

Yes, when loneliness limits your comfort zone, it gets smaller and smaller. Start with baby steps to make your comfort zone bigger. Do one little thing and then the next and then the next until it gets easier. Like go to a coffee shop, and talk to the barista. Go to a free lecture at the library. Don't stop, because living in a tiny comfort zone is devastatingly lonely.

[@bishalpoudel481]

Let me tell u something thats really gonna help Find a purpose of doing something u like Take a day to look up for ur passion and push yourself to the limits sky is your limit For eg. if u choose dancing viist institutions partners videos etc and chase dream

[@doctorjodi]

❤️

[@adriannefluet2896]

Not so easy to do when you're depressed I have no friends I have no Pals and I'm lonely depressed and questioning everything and getting nowhere

[@doctorjodi]

It is so hard to help yourself when you are so heavy with depression. Try to at least go to coffee shop and say hello to the cashier. Any moment out of your head, is a moment out of your head. Keep stringing more together and you'll give less precious energy to the depression.

[@kendalberry9058]

Excuse me? I'm been having a big problem having Sad life, and I can't get rid of it😞

[@doctorjodi]

Believe you can and you will do something different.

[@francesyoung2086]

Reach out to someone??????? There IS NOONE! That's what lonely is!!!!!!

[@doctorjodi]

No. There is always someone. We think there is no one but there that is just anxiety and depression and worthlessness saying that.

[@nosaizekor8389]

i found this video helpful

[@doctorjodi]

Glad it helped

[@grinningshine9631]

I hope for all of us that one day we will be brought into a beautiful life that makes us at peace ☮️ and we are overjoyed with nothing but happiness 😊 and love 💗. I love 💕 you all.

[@samuelowusu5895]

Great points than you

[@ushap1355]

I have no friend

[@sangeetar6758]

I hv also no friend,

[@doctorjodi]

Make some!

[@123-c7k7e]

But nobody is even in my house all of them are in england

[@garrytanner4812]

Which comes first: Being alone or indulging the thoughts of loneliness in your brain? I think it is the thoughts that you choose too indulge yourself in, followed by the existential state of loneliness. If instead one thinks about what they can do for someone else then goes out where other people are in need one will get involved helping others. If you are obsessed about your own needs, about what you need for other people to do for you, then you will not like yourself because you will realize that you are engaged in selfishness, and other people will not like someone so engaged. You will spiral downwards into self hate.

[@doctorjodi]

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[@jeevanandamramesh48]

If we can able to reach out someone why we're in loneliness

[@doctorjodi]

Loneliness is largely perceived. We keep ourselves there.

[@sangeetar6758]

Hi jeeva

[@wholovestravel4965]

I'm so lonely now😢

[@doctorjodi]

Keep reaching out!

[@frankrichard5827]

My friend feels lonely .He thinks that even his family dont care about him so he do smoking and drugs . And the worst part is he is only 15 year old Please suggest something

[@doctorjodi]

Keep encouraging him

[@terribrown5989]

Easier said than done

[@doctorjodi]

Our beliefs control us.

[@annamariehewitt3173]

Loneliness causes Languishing which goes hand in hand with lack of motivation....It's a vicious cycle..The only way out is to do something no matter how small to make yourself happy......I took up painting....

[@doctorjodi]

True!

[@dicky7]

I love playing videos games, thus makes me happy a lot. But that's what my parents doesn't want me to do I'm So no games for me leading to over thinking & loneliness Always finding ways to myself happy but still doesn't work😕

[@doctorjodi]

I'm sorry to hear that! Here are some of my blogs that may help you institute happiness in your life! jodiaman.com/?s=Happiness I hope this helps :)

[@margalitvanbergen6620]

Go outside. Get FRESH AIR. Have a walk around the block. Hold the door for someone, say hello to the busdriver, the cashier, a passerby 🌻🍁🌷 Smile at people. Smile at yourself. Know there are others who are also lonely. Wish them well. Know there are others much, much worse off than yourself. Self-talk positively to yourself. When you get home, write down 5+ reasons why you should be thankful. Stick the note to the bathroom mirror and repeat the list aloud when you get up and when to go to bed 🌹 La vita e bella 🙋

[@doctorjodi]

Thank you!

[@sonuyadavyadav6886]

Hi.. Jodi,

[@doctorjodi]

Hi!

[@Emma-de9if]

caus kindly all the comments says ther're lonely , why should is do a lonely club ? 😂

[@doctorjodi]

You should.

[@daviesmp83]

That "silent is violent" reminded me of Car Radio. Great song.

[@doctorjodi]

❤️

[@sanoafmohamed9621]

ya.. That may helps .. But the First step itself a difficult one.. There is no body to reach.. That's y am feeling lonely?? Its like "I don't have a apple" so u gave a solution that "Buy a apple" .. It seems silly

[@doctorjodi]

It's all about breaking the isolation and making tiny attempts to connect... go the library and ask for help finding a book, go to stores and ask a cashier how she's doing etc.

[@sanoafmohamed9621]

Jodi Aman that will be fine for others.. But ma problem is about my lost Frnd who once was everything to me.. as she was everything for me, her absence changed me a lot and had a lonley feeling..

[@RizkaKitchen]

I m lonely all da tym.. no babies..husbnd spend only 2 hours wid me dur to work... 😢😓

[@senhun4422]

i so lonely now

[@doctorjodi]

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[@ishitasenger7594]

No body wants me....if I call them they shout at me...maybe I don't have a way to get rid of my lonliness.

[@doctorjodi]

when you feel so down, it's easy to think there is no one, but that is almost impossible. You sadness wants you to think that. It may not be true. Look for someone to trust.

[@ishitasenger7594]

@@doctorjodi I don't know to whom should I trust....becase I trusted someone and told about my lonliness. The other day I was scold by my parent. Hope you understand what I am trying to say😔😔

[@lenigomes4473]

I Never felt lonely. am I crazy?

[@doctorjodi]

Perhaps just be in the moment and enjoy your peace of mind!

[@pranitarai7005]

don't ever feel lonely because we have our life for once which we could not get back again for what you are how you are what matters is you to be happy n make others jealous of you that you are happy in such little things n let those jealous peoples fins the way of your happiness n get reveal on it and consider yourself that you are the lucky one to feel this painful world... cheer up n be happy n try this get rid of that word loneliness....

[@doctorjodi]

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[@pauljennings7668]

If you have just moved somewhere new, none of this applies.

[@doctorjodi]

While it is understandable to feel lonely and you can have compassion for that normal feeling in your situation, the ideas to get connected still apply!