30 Lessons for 30 Years

As Iturn 30 I reflect on 30 of my greatest lessons.

[@lungelomathenjwa3815]

welcome home to yourself ma’am. As as a person who has followed you even before your first ever yiutube video, watching this made me so happy for you, I can’t even explain it. you have built a great community for yourself and you always tell us how you see us in those Sunday nuggets. but I just want to say that we see you too. you have a safe space here and I loved the vulnerability in this video. I could tell certian things were hard to say or explain, but you said it like how it is and how you feel and I hope we see more of that in your 30s. Say it like how it is. I loved that, the vulnerability was just amazing and I loved it. I don’t always comment much, so I could go all day right now. Happy Birthday and Welcome Home to yourself.

[@connieramontsho7022]

Your wisdom is beyond your age! I guess that's why God endowed with grey hair😂. Keep shinning mama❤

[@thatotlhowe]

Loved this so so much, My take away is playing catch-up in my 30ties and not because I was focusing on fun but mainly because I had to work 10times harder to help mom. I am super proud to say against all odds, I have achieved my young adult dream of being a Bcom Degree holder and enrolling for my honours, finally getting to graduate in April 2024 at 34. The thought of this just makes me want to cry, praise and scream louder because it's been hard y'all, to enjoy my early 30thies and catching up on the lost 20thies has been the pits😅

[@nombulelomolebohengdube4439]

Congratulations girl 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤ super motivated

[@palesamoloto1974]

Congratulations! 🎉 You did so well for yourself and I’m super proud of you ❤

[@zibusekunene]

Congratulations on reaching 30. Pesonally, I believe you should be listed among Forbes' 30 under 30 and The Most Influential 30. I came across you serendipitously on Spotify when you still had the podcast with Yolz. Then the episodes stopped and suddenly I found you on KZbin and enjoyed your content. If you are this influential at 30, imagine who you will be at 40, or 60? You will be a global brand! Happy birthday Mpoomy Ledwaba! May the Lord bless you and keep you. May He bless the fruit of your womb. May He bless your generations to come and may they aways be the head and never the tail. May the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob be your light and guide.

[@Kelesitse.m]

She made it on the Forbes under 30 a few years ago. She has been on a growth climb and it is amazing.

[@sizakhelehope1170]

'don't aimlessly follow a religion that doesn't work for you' ❤ I take this as a confirmation... Thank you 🙏

[@MichelleMuku]

this woman is such a powerhouses ❤❤❤

[@amandamzimela7979]

Yhoo this was a lot to take in yet soo wonderful to listen. I think I'm going to watch this again with a notebook and take notes. Just what I needed for my year 29. Thank you ❤️

[@khathutshelonetshipale844]

I was thinking the same thing

[@tiisetsoqhena6766]

I’m turning 30 in September. This was lovely. Happy birthday 🎈 to 30 🥂

[@spm9130]

I’m old enough to be your mom but you are teaching me so much in this episode alone! Thank you so much for teaching us by being you and being honest about it! Happy birthday baby girl, your future is brighter than ever 😎🥂🍰❤️🌷🎂🎁🎈🎉🛍️

[@ronelchauke8797]

I'm only 20 but trust me I've learned alot, thank you mama ❤😊Thank you for being a guiding light on my personal growth journey through your insightful KZbin content. Your wisdom and advice have made a profound impact on my life.

[@amantletamajobe8986]

I’ll definitely keep coming back to this 🤞🏾

[@ireneghadi6658]

I like your point on questioning God because when you do, he reveals himself to you.

[@blancheafrikaner8565]

You saved me from wanting space from my kids thought I was the only one but 💯 agree with you 😅

[@kgalamalefoka9069]

Who you hang out with is who you become.

[@nomthandazoshezi8245]

Thank You Mpoomy. This was very enlightening and honest. I've taken notes from this.🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯

[@holly_kalonji]

So much wisdom packed in a single video!😭 Thoroughly enjoyed watching this!!!🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@samukelisiwenkabini7656]

You are just a burst of fresh air Nana. Your content is always sound and within perspective. We love you❤❤❤

[@2022Inno]

I’m turning 30 next month🎉🥹 I really needed to see this

[@relebohileshai9382]

This was so beautiful. I was screaming ‘yes, yes, yes’ all the time. ❤

[@achatwithgoitse]

Always loved growing older as well 😅… I felt the more years you add on the freer you become.

[@lethokuhlezandinkomo5858]

Listening to you gives me so much peace and comfort, thank you so much Mpumi for inspiring me.

[@eunicedupont567]

You are so wise Mpoomy and I appreciate that about you❤... I've gotten to accept that I'm different and that it's really okay. At just 25, it makes me so happy to confidently say that I've incorporated 80% of the lessons you just mentioned and this is why I love you so much because you make me love and accept myself even more without comparing myself to my peers, which helps me better understand why God created me the way he did and why I went through all that I did so early on in life.... both the good and the ugly.🌸

[@chadydee5442]

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[@lifewithzandihalley6512]

Oh Mpoomy, this is so refreshing thank you so much for your honesty and vulnerability.

[@SIMPLYBASSIE]

Took a lot from this ❤thank you so much Mrs Mom 😘 you've inspired me a lot in my life and in starting my KZbin channel, I was inspired by watching your Vlogs from a long time ago while you went to vacays with Brenden to the birth of Nuri, your traditional wedding then the baby shower for when you were expecting Zani, yoooooh I can go on and on. You are TRULY AN INSPIRATION ❤❤

[@kraftedbyamy]

You're so wise and as im in early 40s i have learnt so much from you. Thank you for reigniting the reader in me.. I have committed to reading one book a month and thanks to you. Happy birthday and cheers to more and more

[@mbinaomukuambi2459]

Firstly welcome to 30 honey, the best era and like you I love aging, been enjoying the fact that the more I age, the more I grow into myself. May it be gracefully good to you… I could relate so much to a lot you said, almost like standing in a mirror, so refreshing and freeing hearing another say it and most importantly own it… Happy 30th darling, here’s to you 🥂, Bless Up 🙏🏾

[@silindilemarilynnkala4281]

Sooo eye opening. Thank you Mpumi❤

[@hlobsiledlamini6516]

Thanks for touching on the issue of kids...I also have moments where I don't want them around...I love my me time n always look forward to being away from people

[@nompumelelo_skhosana]

Loved loved listening to this episode on podcast. Literally replayed the episode about 3x. ❤

[@katlegopru]

This was too beautiful to watch.. Took some notes 😊

[@lemogang_mongala]

You definitely freed me as a new mom I’ve been feeling so guilty about asking for a break from taking care of my baby. Made me feel like I’m saying I don’t want to be with them, honestly I do all the time but that is not working. I need time to myself alone without having to worry about their needs❤

[@boipelorabothata5058]

Well done Mpoomy! You have achieved great things for a 30 year old. ❤

[@mirandamasego4826]

Physically? Old version of Nuri. You so look alike! Thank you for the nuggets of Wisdom. I love how you personalise everything.

[@xihlamarisomayimele5164]

I've had so many take aways from this, so much wisdom for everyone to learn from🙏😀.. Thank you Mpoomy for being honest with us and God Bless you for all of us ❤❤

[@Journey_with_Gwendol]

This video says to me “reflect, invest in yourself , figure out what you like , don’t explain yourself “

[@Virginia6710]

This is helpful Mpoomy Ledwaba. These are lessons that are so relevant even to a 40 year who never gave themselves permission to actually live their life. I love it and find it so life changing as I’m turning 39 this year (2024) Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

[@Thato54]

I’m turning 29 and this made so much sense, I listened to the podcast now I’m back here. This hit so good🥹😭

[@mizbuka]

I think I need to listen to this every single day cos woww. Mpoomy Ledwaba has definitely been a part of my growth all these years. O ya glower moghel shem! ❤

[@liyemasibidla6195]

Hearing you talk about giving away and God trusting you with giving away cause you're generous reminded me of Kurt Carr's Bless somebody and I think that's a song everyone should live by. Even on The Best Man:The Final Chapters, Robyn says, "If you have more, you can give more" and that's always stuck with me

[@sinazomgxekwa1587]

Oh wow 👌I am turning 30 on December, I am learning alot from you. You are such a blessing lovey.

[@onneetsegiddie4293]

One of your best videos Mpoomy, truly learnt a lot from you my pal…to bigger and stronger 🎉

[@melblose5244]

Also congratulations on entering a new decade. Your own personal new year. I'm turning 23 in Feb this year and highkey can't wait for 30. I'm hoping beautiful personal life changes would have been made by then

[@thapelothapelo6979]

I’m happy to have bumped to someone who likes the idea of getting old. I’m turning 23 in Aug and I’m so excited about it ! Let’s make most out of it and leave no stones unturned. ❤

[@qothoasek5815]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 30yrs well lived 💖Happy birthday Mrs Mom... Now, let me watch the video 😊

[@Ingrid_Maungo]

Happy 30th Mpoomy. Thank you so much for making this video it was so insightful and a bit emotional for me only because I could relate to a few things... you know those things you know aren't good for you but you do it anyway and you kind of need someone to say them out loud for you to really hear them and snap out of the denial bubble you're in... yeah I had one of those moments😂 I'm turning 24 this year and have so much to learn in life and can't wait to see what God has in store for me. Thank you so much, May God continue to bless you. love all the way from BW!

[@siyamthandandlakuse8042]

I related with almost all of the points.. Love seeing you happy and soo content with you - it feels encouraging for me to continue to create room for me in my own life, through self discovery and loads of grace & kindness.. WelcomeHomeSelf❤ Welcome to the 3rd floor and pray that it’s everything you pray for.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

Thank you sis 🤍

[@ellenmahoai9118]

Wise beyond ur years❤ Confrontations make my stomach turn😢, I think I need to start implementing no.28 in my family, thank u sooo much for this🙏🏽🥰 and ur style mam❤️‍🔥🖤🌺

[@MillenialKay]

The idea of getting is so excited Happy 30 years 🥂🍾🎉🎉🎉 Enjoy your new decade and hope you continue to become the woman you were born to be

[@msbeephakathi]

It’s been a while since we’ve heard you be so vulnerable, thank you for sharing and happy birthday Mrs Mom! May this be your best chapter 🎉❤

[@bricelegendnducho]

amazing lady ❤️

[@nonstindisomfuduka8548]

The last lesson hit home,literaly crying. Self-work is a lot but thank you for doing the work in public, taking us along your journey. It is inspiring and encouraging. Happy 30th mama💝

[@jinaratsoma9306]

We are so similar is mad, crazy, love this so much

[@OlipaKatongoKunda]

I feel the same way about getting older, I'm really looking forward to every year that I grow I'm super excited about my 30s and 40s

[@lysterchloetapera5627]

Thanks mpoomy,happy 30th,going to buy a brene brown asap😊

[@phumezaradebe8977]

beautiful sit down, to growth🥂

[@thembinxitywa9754]

Thank you for this 👏🙌👌♥️

[@noziphokhumalo2963]

This upload is a gem 💎 🙌🔥

[@buyisilezulu4782]

Hi. Loved this. You reference a lot on savings and investments. Please may you kindly share if you can, which investment have been most fruitful and most rewarding for you. Thank you

[@mmatsie_tsotetsi]

Love this so much Mpoomy❤❤❤ some of us are in our 30s but there are nuggets to take from this ❤

[@maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093]

Great Lessons 😊. No' 22 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽😁

[@zamile_d]

Thank you Mpoomy., very insightful ❤ welcome to 30...

[@melblose5244]

listen!! I'm on lesson three so far and these are unique and profound. What a refreshing list of lessons🥰🥰

[@SibuleleTafeni]

I loved this... might be a bit older but this has helped me. Thanks❤

[@pearlsimelane468]

🥰Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. You're wise beyond your years. Happy blessed birthday beautiful

[@The_Third_Place]

i love you Mpoomy, youre a star. a lot of what you said happens to people at 40, its beautiful to see people get the epiphane early on such that they live a full comfortable life

[@JamaneNgubane]

I Swear That Giving Away Your First 1000 being the hardest. Felt that, Its been a 6 month battle with me and God and you just freed me. Thank you Mpumi

[@oko904]

Please explain more on giving away the R1000?

[@nicolechippobenzah3918]

Happy 30th year Mrs Mum❤️❤️❤️you have really become my role model

[@thabithadiale8999]

Amen welcome 30 years 🙏

[@nqookuhle]

Always and forever my mentor.

[@utakatjivena66]

Gal you are something else..❤❤ everything you just said...enjoy 30 Mrs Mom

[@liciouslicious6808]

I love your 30 Lessons for 30 years 🥰🥰For me I can relate with 16 and 19, I thought I was the weird one for enjoying my time when the kids were not with me 😂 not that I don't love them but I need time alone.

[@masegomase3389]

I listened from start to finish. So much wisdom. Thanks for sharing

[@Joy25-ce6vz]

You are God sent, Happy 30th Birthday❤ Hope the 30s bring more success🎉🎉🎉

[@hlengiwehadebe_]

The point about kids. I relate so much❤

[@michellemaseko4508]

I live by so many of these principles. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@sibusisomoweli1345]

You need to write a Book Mpoomy ❤️

[@keslyasser2930]

Hi Mpoomy Just read your Sunday nagget this morning driving to work in cab...I don't know why I have tears in my eyes (maybe I do) alot has been going ish....so I started self-love journey plus spiritually journey man is this hard...how do I stay positive with negative environment just how.... I am honestly trying...how do I enjoy alone time and solo date and do what I love if to begin with I don't know what it is.... I think I am going to read your email over and over..but thank you so much you really saving souls....❤️❤️❤️continue doing this I am reading...

[@amukelanikhosa2591]

I loved this mama ❤

[@somakwedini]

I am 22 and relate so much to almost everything you have said. It makes me sad that I cannot have unplanned fun but it's okay, it's who I am and I find comfort in that. I am actively seeking ways in which I can fill my cup. It's also crucial to leave spaces that no longer serve you or the person you're trying to become. I am battling with that because confrontation also makes me feel dizzy but if I don't stand up for myself, who will? Thank you for sharing this insightful and personal video with us. It's a refreshing conversation that I didn't see myself having.

[@Shamiflo]

I also turn 30 later this year....team 94' , looking forward to it God willing...I guess I should say wise words there big sis ,❤❤❤

[@khanyolukhanyo4091]

Happy birthday Mrs enjoy we keep learning everyday stay blessed

[@jabulileshongwe29]

I resonate with number 19

[@nicolekurebwaseka]

Loved this video so much! And I learnt a lot from it as well! 30 looks so good on you!

[@LGHhhhhh]

Happy birthday Mpoomy, you’re a star.

[@louiseagnes5978]

Am sooo proud of you mpoomy.. And we love you.. And thank you for being a mentor man... Learnt so much.. And thank you for being honest, I used to feel guilty for being too. Honest but I feel better when I am, lol.. Now I know am not alone...

[@lucricia_mokgolo]

I didn't realise how much I needed to be reminded of some of the things you touched on! Have thoroughly enjoyed this segment!❤

[@lindyn4]

-"I like me" full stop ,deep powerful. we like you 2 -I love the candid Convo about your kids I feel the same I must say I love ppl who are totally moms so I do feel in conflict within me but definitely feel you -"Do hard things always" wow that hit deep since I started listening to this video yesterday this has been marinating in me like just do it Lindy, when student is ready ne! -omg you hit the spot for me with hosting I thought I like hosting then realized after my son parties I'm exhausted not enjoying the party.So that's going to be my rule when having parties or inviting ppl over, love it Mpoomy your awesome This was aaaaamazing 30 times over

[@erinayoayodele-bamisaye4790]

What a lovely lovely podcast episode🥹🥹. Everytime I think of how far God has brought me, I can't help but count Mpoomy Ledwaba twice. Thank you so much for shining your light ever so brightly. Thank you for never allowing your light to stay down. The way you lead your life has given me permission to shine my light brightly too. Thank you so so much. Please keep shining. We all need a dose of Mpoomy in our loves. HAPPY HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY. *why did I tear up writing this😅😭

[@amaliarodriguestimana6764]

I really enjoyed

[@khanyisilehailey869]

Wow Mpoomy. You are a big sister I always needed. I'm always learning a lot from you. Thank you so much. And may you gracefully flourish more in your 30s. Happy decade gorgeous. May the Good Lord continue blessing you and may you keep doing the HARD things. I love you so much woman of God❤

[@juliahlalele9526]

Welcome home gal pal🎉❤

[@JeanetMakgati]

child i love you so much. you just great i needed to hear this in my love.

[@mphilisikhomo8599]

Happy Birthday Mpoomy, you're a blessing. May the Lord continue to mature you. Thanks for all you do for us. 💓💓💓

[@khumalolungile973]

Lol. I'm 32 this year but im still in my learning and building stage. I want my kids to watch this so they can get it right ngoba mina vele sengisele kodwa its not all lost, ngiyaphusha just to make sure that by the time I reach 35 nami sengizishayela izandla

[@nonhlanhlasithole2093]

That's why I love you❣

[@ayifani]

Can we have a video where we delve into the checking in with siblings and parents please and how you went about it.

[@preciousmkhwanazi]

Beautiful ..... ❤

[@hannahshiflar]

Hey Mpoomy❤ you impart so much wisdom and it’s so beautiful to listen to.

[@masegomogae4385]

Thank for this Mpoomy, am pumped up now to start 2024, this was what i needed.

[@__Sive]

Loved this so much and learned a lot from it, motivated me to reflect on my journey as someone who’s turning 30 too this year ❤

[@bettymukolwe6600]

Mpoomy this was soooooo good. Am blessed and lots of reflection and lessons for me. Thank you

[@jessicanhlapo9339]

Happy Belated Birthday Mpoomy. Beautiful clean & empowering Podcast. I can listen to you all day & everyday. Thank you for sharing you with us. Wishing you and your family the best in 2024. God does make all things possible and new.🌺🎂