31 Things I Quit to Simplify My Life

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

NOTE: MY APOLOGIES FOR THE CLICKING SOUND IN A SHORT PORTION OF THE VIDEO. MY NECKLACE WAS CLICKING MY MIC AND I WAS UNAWARE OF IT UNTIL LATER. OOPS! Onward...😀 What have you QUIT that has made something simpler in your day. I've enjoyed reading your tips and questions in the comments. Thank you for watching and sharing! 😊💖

[@Eve181dublin]

Hi there, I’m new to your channel. Are you related to the teacher Ms Chang?! You have same positive energy!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@Eve181dublin Hi Eve. No, I'm not. But I had to look her up. 😄 What a fun person! I guess we both like positive energy. 😁

[@Flieder9]

Thank you. It is hard for me to listen to your tips while the necklace pendant is hitting the microphone. Talk about HSPs….

[@Eve181dublin]

Absolutely! And it’s appreciated - you’re both great pick me ups with useful advice 👏😻 happy vibes 😀

[@deborahgraham3972]

#31 Yes, yes, yes! 🙌🏼👑

[@bananie2383]

Hi Gwen! I quit being with people who are not kind to me or others. I surround myself with joyful, happy and loving friends. 😊

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That sure makes for a more peaceful life! 🙌🏼

[@lindadrew5047]

I quit feeling guilty for not being a people pleaser🙌🏼

[@ooohlaa13]

@@lindadrew5047 LOL ... get over it, its knee-jerk and not who you really are!

[@Ruthie843]

The tip that resonates the most with me is the idea that I don't have to be productive all day. What a relief and thank you!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You're so welcome! Realizing that takes pressure off of us that we just don’t need. Lol! I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@vivienlee610]

Same here and I didn't realise it until I heard this just now!

[@whiteswanrs]

I have tried all my life to be productive all day and I have accomplished a lot but at 82 I think I can take that pressure off of me. A puppy helps to re-organize priorities.

[@janetstonerook4552]

I'm retired and have learned to pace myself as I too cannot be productive all day long. I get up at 5 a.m. and I try to do at least 3 of the hardest tasks first by midmorning. This a.m. it was cleaning up my kitchen, laundry room and sanitizing the kitty litter area. Then i reward myself with a great lunch and a little me time ( which usually means a warm bath and a wee nap!). By mid-p.m. my energy is mellow and I do less demanding, more creative stuff. And I enjoy my evenings with reading, music, catching up with friends in person or on line. No heavy duty late night work. Befure I go to bed, I do write a list of my 3 big tasks to do the next morning 😊.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I like the way you structure your day. I don’t do any heavy work in the evening either. I’m just done by then. Lol And sometimes I’ll have a midmorning nap myself. Lol. Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you.😊

[@larryherbert252]

Real good comment, l found that at a certain point l need to get going with doing chores or errands, and l want to certain things done by 2pm , l need to to watch my westerns etc, l like your advice about not having to be productive all day long if l read that correctly, yes l want to be productive, I’m retired, so l can pace myself, great comment from you and inspirational!!!!

[@larryherbert252]

Exactly!!!!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@larryherbert252 thank you!

[@sandyd2527]

Thank you for the tips. No coincidence that I came across your video, today I woke up thinking that I need to declutter and get rid of things I don't need. Four months ago I became a widow. I live alone and I need to simplify my life. It's only me and Jesus now. My spiritual life and natural living have to be at peace.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Sandy, I'm so sorry you became a widow 4 months ago. I am happy that God sent you my way. I don't think it's by accident either. I will do my best to create content that will be helpful to you as you simplify your life in this new season. I said a prayer for you as I sent this reply. Love and prayers to you. 💖

[@larryherbert252]

GOD and JESUS CHRIST 1st

[@larryherbert252]

Real good point!!!! You taught me something, don’t have to do everything ALL IN 1 DAY etc EXCELLENT!!!! I wish it could be a live discussion because there are so many great points and comments from others Thanks so much for the great pointers and advice!!!!

[@RockerProf]

The problem with using debit cards is that debit cards are not as protective against fraud as credit cards. Trying to get your money back on fraudulent debit card purchases is much more difficult than getting your money back on fraudulent credit card purchases. My son, who is a vice president of risk assessment at one of the largest banks in this country, told me that I should never use my debit card because the way that debit card purchases are dealt with where fraud is concerned are not as efficient or consumer- friendly as credit cards.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I appreciate your input. Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@HopefulEmpath]

You’re right. I never use my debit card for purchases either online or in person. Your bank account could be emptied if the card info was part of a data breach. I use a separate CC that I pay off before the statement end of cycle. I keep my credit utilization below 5%.

[@flonotflow]

100% accurate. Your liability limit on a credit card is $50. On a debit card, it could be everything you have in that account and worse yet if your savings account is attached to your checking for overdraft protection. My debit card is strictly used to withdraw cash from an ATM, and only ones owned by my bank.

[@RodiniAuguste]

An FBI agent told me the same thing: never use your debit card for purchase and only use a debit card at the bank ATM network only.

[@faithrada]

I never use my bank debit card... that would put my bank savings at risk... plus other issues. As far as check writing.. I keep that acount fairly low just in case it gets stolen, "washed", and the amount changed. I ALWAYS mail any check payments DIRECTLY into the Post Office fir better security. Plus, I use a special pen where the Ink can not be "washed" and altered. I DO use credit cards for Safety reasons.. carrying a lot of cash around makes me WAY too nervous. Of course.. ALWAYS pay cards OFF.. in FULL.. ASAP. 😊

[@carolgomborone6034]

"NO" is a complete sentence...no explanation needed! Period. Amen.😇

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That's right. 😀 Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@whatsonmymind3366]

#9 turning the storage containers upset down to see what’s in it. Brilliant

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@whatsonmymind3366 You can probably imagine how much food I wasted until I figured this out. Lol. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654]

⁠ I put posted notes on lids With my luck, the lid would fall off if it’s upside down

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 that's a great tip.

[@virginiabaker4471]

I just went to my fridge and turned things over! It also seals the top so air can't get in. Brilliant indeed!❤

[@yvonneschermerhorn866]

This makes such good sense! What a concept! Thanks.

[@candacechapman4689]

Not explaining myself is one that resonated with me. I've been working on this. It's ok to just say "I'm not available". You don't owe anyone explanations. Another is feeling like I need to be productive all day. This is a big one for me! Even when I'm sat down I'm making notes in my notepad for what's next or going through emails on my phone. I've been trying to teach myself that if I'm feeling burnt out, taking some time to just do nothing and recharge is actually a form of being productive. Hear me out! For me to be functioning at my optimum level, recognising when I need to recharge and not wasting mental energy feeling guilty about that overall leads to being more productive. I hope that makes sense!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That makes perfect sense! Thank you for sharing.

[@ooohlaa13]

Amen it took me 81 years to learn that. Just last year I started to sleep in a bit and just relax. Someone once said, Relax, we will all die with a to do list!

[@meriawakened]

I quit getting manicures. So freeing. I also stopped painting my toenails. I stopped doing an errand each day. I just pick one day in the week to get all the errands done.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Running errands is one of the things I dislike the most. Lol. My husband will often run errands on his way home from work. I'm not a fan of getting my nails done because I don't like sitting for it or paying that much. Lol. When I'm sitting there I'm thinking of all the other things I could be doing. And I kind of like painting my own nails. Now if I can just get past coloring my hair... Lol.

[@ingegaasbeek296]

​@@simplifyyourlifewithgwenWhat a wonderful life you live... so much LOL Your husband married a teen! LOL!! Get real.

[@bethweiss229]

​@@simplifyyourlifewithgwen That's one thing I'm working on: quit fighting with my hair. It's crazy naturally curly and probably all white under there somewhere. Trying to wash and go, and come to grips with it's real color! 👩‍🦳

[@alicel3992]

I have just started getting my nails done, with gel polish, once a month. Easier to keep my nails from breaking. Toe nails, clear gel polish only. This is the one thing I like doing. I don't color my gray hair and cut it every 3 or 4 months. For those who've given this luxury up👍🏻.

[@valeriebenjamin1778]

Earlier in the summer, I started neatly trimming and filing my nails and using baby oil on them. I’m saving at least $60 on the mani, pedi and tip when I do that - and they look great!

[@TubeYouLena]

first time i met a person who does not like dishwashers. i hate that automation as well. Ialways wash dishes fast as soon as i have them, dry them with a towel, put back where they should be and that's it. done. thanks for mentioning this, now i know i am not the only one.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

There are a few of us that don't like dishwashers. 😁

[@maureengalusha3172]

First time listener as well. This is funny, I always wash pots and pans after dinner and I don't do dishwasher for a couple of days because there are just two of us but I will rinse everything. I hate putting away dishes from dishwasher but I do not even think, just wash the dishes and put them away!! Oh my word! And, no is a complete sentence, perfectly said. 😉 worship before prayer and Bible reading. So many ahas but those are the ones that stand out. Thank you for sharing 😊

[@vivienlee610]

You're not the only one!

[@ellenhofer3343]

Dishwashers save water. Hand washing really does waste water.. first washing, and then rinsing

[@TubeYouLena]

@@ellenhofer3343 i personally do not use water when ‘washing’, only wet rug and dish soap involved. Then i rinse. And this process is much more enjoyable to me. Not everybody would like this practice and agree with reasoning behind it. Totally agree on that. :)

[@johnnyritenbaugh1214]

A capsule wardrobe is the very best. I wear exclusively black/white/red, and it's amazing how many compliments I get that I'm always coordinated. I thank them, knowing full well that I could get dressed in the dark and end up looking just as put together.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You've got it figured out!

[@SharonDLorse]

We never answer unknown calls. If it is a valid call they will leave a message and we can return call.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That's how I see it I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@paularose847]

Me too!

[@arabellalunkes4532]

I don’t even have an answer service anymore. If I recognize the number I call back, otherwise no worries.

[@bhquilter]

I answer all calls because of my husband's health issues. Medical offices often have numerous numbers besides the one in my contact list. If it goes to voicemail, I have to call back and 99% of the time leave them a voicemail. It's easier and takes less time to take the call and just hang up if it's not legitimate.

[@BeingLadyC8387]

@@bhquilter With a lot of grandchildren, mother, daughters, sisters, and a host of other close relatively, I answer all calls because they are knowns for calling from unknown numbers.

[@beverlyjones3657]

I think the last one is probably going to be the most influential overall the rest. So often I try to tackle my life and daily chores without touching base with the Holy Spirit first. I’ve also found that if I pray the Lord’s prayer, reminding myself I only have this day to be responsible for, it puts things into a better, more balanced perspective. This is the first time I’ve listened to any of your videos and I’ve enjoyed every single suggestion. Thank you for sharing. You are inspiring me.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You are so kind. Thank you. 💖 #31 has definitely made the biggest impact on my life. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@jennifergarbett96]

I like to know what's in my freezers, so I can meal plan & budget. I have 2 tips to share: I label all the containers that go in and second I keep a paper list of what's in the freezer. So much easier to plan off the paper than standing by the cold freezer.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Great tips. If I don’t label freezer items I’ll have no idea what something is. Lol. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@AudreyRooke]

This is a great idea! Index what’s frozen in that deep abyss especially when the labels wear off and I have to de- thaw to figure out what is in that mystery package😂

[@4myfavoritethings]

I also put the date opened on things like mustard, ketchup, mayonnaise, sauces, now I don’t have to think how old something is.

[@sarajean671]

I like the worship before reading the Bible. It helps change spending time with God from being just one more chore to check off the list to putting it back into being a part of my lifestyle. I can worship anytime, anywhere!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Yes and amen! 🙌🏼

[@nakkeya]

When I went to the Caribbean, I noticed the dish drain was built into the cabinet. What a game changer. I recreated it for my tiny home. What a game changer.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That’s a great idea!

[@pearljames5838]

I am 64 and I identify with so much of what you are doing. I have quit doing so much and really simply my life.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@pearljames5838 good for you! 🙌🏼

[@peacelovejoyandhappiness]

This video is superb!!!! ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@peacelovejoyandhappiness you’re so kind! Thank you for watching watching and commenting! I appreciate you! 😊

[@peacelovejoyandhappiness]

@@simplifyyourlifewithgwen I’m definitely 💯 following!!! I know a lot about what you said and all of the short cuts!! Your channel must be really helpful! I love surrounding myself with successful people, you are certainly one of them!! I can’t wait to learn, listen and grow more together with you!!!

[@luisjiron8154]

Numbers 29 and 30 hit home. I feel like explaining yourself after you have said, “No.” is a form of people pleasing. And we don’t need to please everyone.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for your comment. It's very insightful!

[@TarmoAlholinna]

I like that! No random places!! I decided to put my phone always on the charger… I always get rid of my mail now everyday. Either pay the bill or shred the junk mail.. ❤each bathroom has its own cleaning supplies.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You've got a good system!

[@lindahassell9711]

I’m a first-time listener. I really appreciate the tip to worship before reading the Bible!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@lindahassell9711 Thank you! That’s my favorite! 😊

[@lynnmeade1669]

These are great. My shopping mantra, that began with my teenage daughters, If you don’t LOVE it at the store, you won’t LIKE it when it’s in your closet. This helped them to decide whether or not they should buy it. They are around 30 now, and still use this.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That's a great mantra. I have found the same to be true.

[@mayLibertyprevail1a]

Unfortunately, if I followed that rule, I'd be running around naked! lol Never can find anything that's "just right." 🤷‍♀

[@melissamoore9764]

Hi Gwen! Thank you for telling me about Dave Ramsey. I just paid off 2 small debts. I put everything I owe on paper and added it up . I was shocked at how much I really owe. Way more than what I thought. Besides 2 credit cards I have other companies that I make monthly payments too. Today Saturday August 31st I made an intentional plan to pay off all of my debts. I have my mind set that this will happen and make happen paying my debt off. I made budget for September and up to March 2025. Did all of this - this afternoon. I feel God had your video pop up to meet you and get help and motivation in different areas in my life. God bless you Gwen. 💜Have a Happy Labor Day weekend. 💜

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Way to go Melissa!!! I'm so proud of you!!! You are going to feel so great to have these debts paid off. You can do it. 🙌🏼 I'm thankful God brought you to my channel and I'm so happy I could help. You comments made my day! God bless you and thank you for watching! 💖

[@laurennguyen1008]

I love the idea of not cleaning all at once. I'm retired and there's no reason I can't just do 1 thing I don't like to do a day (bathrooms, floors, etc.)

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Mopping is my least favorite. I don't mind cleaning in general but that mopping... Lol.

[@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654]

Check out Flylady cleaning. Its a great system. A little a day

[@Star-333]

Just found your channel- I like cleaning and doing laundry over time rather than all in one day. Separately, laundry is never ending. Today even though I need to do it I won’t because I have other things to do that I have been putting off that are important- if I start the laundry I’ll get caught up in it. You can get sucked into all the recurring tasks and not have time to do other things like get your pantry ready for winter, clean out /organize your closets, etc. One thing I’ve noticed is I always think the next week I’ll have more time to do those kinds of things and I never do. I am dedicating a day off to those tasks that never seem to get done. Sometimes that’s all you can do.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Oh I get it. Next week always seems like it has more time... until you get there. Lol. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@hopefulforhumanity5625]

I think your advice to worship first before reading the Bible is excellent. I agree it would help to quiet the mind to be more receptive to God's word. I have found modern American life to be very fast-paced and a huge amount of work. I beat myself up for years for not being able to keep up with my own desires for perfection. I am trying to simplify everything these days.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I understand completely. I think we are often just too hard on ourselves. I have lightened up quite a bit as I've gotten older. 😊

[@aleithea2715]

Wonderful video. Loved no. 31. We can never lose out by remembering how awesome our God is.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@aleithea2715 I agree! I appreciate your watching and commenting! 💗

[@rondaellison2955]

I’m happy to hear another sister in Christ likes to worship the Lord before settling in to Bible study 💕

[@marietroutman4584]

First time I ever saw your video. Loved number 31. I am going to love your videos. I am a 75 year old Christian.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Maria, welcome to my channel! I am so blessed that you are here and I appreciate your watching and commenting. You have blessed me. 💖 #31 is my absolute favorite! 🙌🏼

[@eleanorbenner1885]

I love "can't good be good enough?" It can!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you. I appreciate you watching and commenting. 😊

[@conniekreider6414]

Today was the first I ever watched you and I loved it! Thank you especially for # 31😃 What a beautiful way to begin devotions, worshiping my Heavenly Father! Thank you!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting. #31 is my favorite of all!

[@tmonaghan9]

For years I couldn’t say no. I remember when I started saying no, my life became much easier and I didn’t feel bad for doing it.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@tmonaghan9 exactly. People hear no all the time. It’s really not as big of a deal as we think it is.

[@cindymcmurray9017]

Hello Gwen! So glad I found you today as a few things really hit home with me. 1. Clothing - only keeping what I wear and coordinating it all. I've procrastinated long enough on going through it. 2. Having one makeup (and toiletry) bag to grab and go! I'm often doing overnights with family and I spend so much time repacking each time. 3. I appreciate your take on worship and scripture reading. The heart and mindset is key to being open to listening and discernment. Thank you for sharing your wisdom here!🌼

[@cindymcmurray9017]

I've learned to say "Thank you but I'll pass this time" to offers to eat out (or join in on an activity). I'm selective with the groups I spend time with, the menu/restaurant, and the expense I'll incur. Everything needs to align with my priorities at the present time and I don't feel one bit bad about it. Knowing when to say NO has been huge for me but it took me a long time to figure out it's okay!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for sharing your comments!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank so much for watching and for comments Cindy! You're very encouraging!

[@cindymcmurray9017]

@@simplifyyourlifewithgwen You're welcome! We all need encouragement in every endeavor!! Life is hard enough not to be positive and thoughtful toward one another, right? 😉🧡

[@arabellalunkes4532]

One thing I don’t do anymore that has been one of the best is having friends who were too demanding … I feel so relived and hardly even even remember them, while 6 months ago I considered them almost best friends. What a waste of my time they were. Sadly, but happily!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@arabellalunkes4532 sometimes that’s necessary.

[@ellenhofer3343]

I have found out who my real friends are by stopping to send them messages first or calling them. Some I've never heatd from again.

[@anncarr6510]

Learning to say no is the best advice - I quit yes a Long time ago! I am a Bible reader at 2 am & after my prayer & worship. Agreed!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@anncarr6510 Thank you for watching!

[@debkincaid2891]

I'm with you on the credit cards: I never feel like I own the thing I bought on credit card until the bill is paid. It takes the joy out of the purchase for me. Whereas, if I pay cash, the joy is NOW. 😊

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I couldn't agree more. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@lollettealipe9363]

I’m a senior and it’s wonderful to find another person who does a lot of things the same way as I have been doing. #31 is exactly what I do for my morning devotions…and my favorite song to start worship is “Goodness of God” by Cece Winans! Isn’t this amazing? I totally agree with your #22. We haven’t had a credit card for the past 30 years and we’re doing fine. May I add one more thing? I have pairs of scissors by the kitchen sink, coffee station, in the drawers of tables in the dining room and living room, beside my desk, my vanity table, and the counter of the bathroom. And I have a small one inside my purse. This way I don’t have to keep looking for one when I need it. God bless your heart for sharing these tips. When we simply our lives we can focus on what really matters.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I love Goodness of God! It's one of my favorites. I agree with having scissors where you need them. Good point. I have them in my office, three in the kitchen (one for cutting up chicken which I never do anymore) and one in the bathroom. Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you!

[@sammybrown6703]

I totally agree with 29 & 30. It was hard at first to say no to anyone. After many major health problems I learned very quickly that I had to learn to say no. Also, no explanation should be required.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Good lessons to learn. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@srubes195]

I just recently quit being so productive so I could enjoy caring for my infant granddaughter. It was an adjustment but my love for her and wanting to enjoy her more than one day a week has made me reassess priorities. So I still work, but more efficiently and get to care for her 3 days a week. Love it. 1. Had to quit being so over productive. Making more, I was spending more and paying lots more in taxes 2. Quit worrying about people pleasing and avoid negative, ill intentioned people even if family. 3. I quit trying to fulfill the perfect wife role therefore takes lots of stress off and makes me a happier, fun wife😁 to be around. * I love the purse idea of having everything in bags * I love the travel makeup idea as well. Great tips

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Isn't it amazing how when we take the pressure off of ourselves to perform to some expectation we have more fun? I love your comments! 😀

[@galejohnson8086]

I agree with cleaning supplies in every space. I have them in both bathrooms and kitchen area.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for watching and commenting!😀

[@theresebickford]

I am glad I waited until the end. Because my favorite tip is definitely the worship before spending time with god in the bible, or praying.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I'm so glad you waited! It's the best by far!

[@themurnane7]

I would love to see your idea of a capsule wardrobe and I really enjoyed your video today great ideas

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Awesome! A capsule wardrobe is on the list. Thank you for your kind words, and for watching and commenting!

[@InceptionMine-p3p]

I absolutely love and needed to hear the one about not trying to be productive all day. The next would be trying to be perfect and you’re talking about number 31 right now and I really believe that that was they could change for me as well.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I'm so glad that these are encouraging you! Thank you for watching!

[@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom]

.I use to force myself to finish watching movies I was not enjoying or finishing a book that is boring. I no longer do this

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Good for you. Why waster our time right? : )

[@ColleenKelley-fp4fd]

Something not mentioned was jewelry. I read a tip that having two nice pairs of earrings (hoops & posts) with two nice necklaces is all one needs. I’m not really a jewelry person so this resonated with me. 👍🏻

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@ColleenKelley-fp4fd That works for me too. I have simplified jewelry.

[@vondasmith8715]

Love #31! Going to do that! Great idea! After all, that’s what we all do in church. We worship and praise first and then receive the Word of God! I have been doing the opposite in my devotion time. Thank you for sharing this! Have a Blessed Day!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

#31 is my favorite and has made the biggest impact on my life. Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you! 😊

[@leeanneshaw1899]

Oh the explaining myself hit home and feeling like I have to be productive everyday

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@leeanneshaw1899 Be free sister. Let it go. 😊

[@LindaMavrosHale]

When you said your done in the afternoon because I too struggle with this. Thank you for making feel like I'm not the only one.❤

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

There are many of us. 😀 I appreciate your watching and commenting. 😀

[@kassandramcpherson2839]

You’re not the only one! This goes for the gym, too. If I don’t get there by noon, forget it, it doesn’t happen!

[@Etta_Goodman]

Pre sorting laundry was a life changer for my stress level and ADD 🙌🏻

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@Etta_Goodman 100%! 😀🙌🏼

[@ediewilson4043]

What time-saving, mind-altering, straight up helpful advice. You are such a brilliant speaker. This was the first time I have seen one of your videos, but I definitely want to see more. My favorites were stop spending without a plan and stop keeping things you don’t wear. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You are so kind. 💓 Thank you for that. I appreciate your watching and commenting! 😀

[@cazfromoz1]

Really good video, so I'll take LOTS of your tips on board. I've quit being with people who don't feel right to be with. I'll give them just one try and then decide, immediately. It's taken me many years to get to this point. It has saved my sanity and self-respect. :)

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you so much! The people we choose to spend time with really does have an effect on us as you know. We must choose wisely. 😊

[@TryMyMartini]

The only thing about not using a dishwasher I have an issue with, is that I really like the high heat sanitizing that it provides.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@TryMyMartini Thank you for your comment. 😊

[@carlenerosinski5095]

Total agreement on no credit cards. Being debt free & paying with cash is one of the best feelings in the world!!!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@carlenerosinski5095 I agree!

[@dr8nkw0t8r]

I have 2 sets of sheets and 2 sets of pillow cases for each bed. I keep the extra set that is not on the bed in a nightstand drawer next to the bed. No more sorting through piles of sheets in a linen closet. Also, I love my QUICKZIP (brand) sheets. No more hassling with fitted sheets: You just zip off the top portion. Easy to wash. Easy fold. Easy to store. They cost a bit more, but they are so worth the ease of use!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@dr8nkw0t8r I haven’t heard of those. I’m going to check that out. Thanks!

[@dr8nkw0t8r]

@@simplifyyourlifewithgwen You will love them! 🙂

[@cindy9540]

This was so good! I just stumbled upon you. I really resonate with just being able to say no without necessarily giving an explanation. Also, not feeling like I must read every word of every book! And breaking down cleaning to daily chunks! Oh, and I always feel overwhelmed with stacks of mail! That one is huge for me! Lastly, love your reminder to put worship before Bible reading!! Thank you for sharing! I’m a new subscriber!😇

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@cindy9540 Thank you so much!

[@margaretfrise8047]

I really think the dishes are more sanitary when they are put through a dishwasher, especially cups during cold season.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@margaretfrise8047 I have a friend who feels the same way. And it’s probably true. I wash in the hottest water possible and figure people have been handwashing since the beginning of time so we’re probably okay. 😁 Thank you for watching. I appreciate you.

[@YG811]

Great tips, and I will definitely use some. I also worship before reading my bible. I am more intuned with the word if I worship first. Thank you for sharing your tips.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for your comment!

[@dr8nkw0t8r]

When we say "yes" to one person or group, we are automatically saying "no" to someone else. Too often, by default, that "no" is to those we care about the most.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@dr8nkw0t8r you are so right.

[@kassandramcpherson2839]

THIS!! and the “no” is usually to my precious family bc I’m running around fulfilling my “yesses” to everyone else

[@jramsay8075]

So happy your channel popped up on my screen this morning. This video is just what I needed today. Joy

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Awe! That makes my heart so happy!

[@elainemonterio22]

I enjoyed you so much. You are so honest, down to earth just like so many of us, but don't admit these things. You gave me so many ideas that make sense like the mail, when your a senior every organization thinks you can give to all. I wish I could. Thank you, I can't wait to tell my daughter. You. Are great and very helpful.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@elainemonterio22 Thank you so much Elaine. I’m glad these tips were helpful. And thank you for sharing with your daughter. 😊

[@renaparker4579]

Thanks for explaining the clicking sound. I thought it was my cat. I kept trying to figure out what she was doing. 😅 I love your videos. Thank you so much! I do one or two things a day, + put off other household chores for another day. Sometimes, my hubby says, you've done enough, go sit down. I also prefer to cook dinner in the morning + be done with it. I am considering getting another crock pot. I'm undecided because I have an instapot already. Thank you also for sharing your faith! I too am a woman of faith! ❤ I sometimes enjoy time singing to the Lord.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@renaparker4579 Thank you for watching and sharing your comments! I appreciate you!

[@maryannpapandrea3086]

Not being a perfect teacher sounds good. Teachers are always told, by administrators, how their lesson could have been better. It’s a never ending battle. I’ll do my best.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I think our best is the most reasonable thing to give. Thank you for being a teacher. You are a blessing to your students. Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you. : )

[@Jennifer-nz2ss]

You should transfer to another school where they respect and encourage their teachers. Not make them feel bad. Teaching is a dieing art and most are retiring or going into another profession. They are lucky to have you! Resect yourself and move on!😊

[@HelloThere12341]

I did many of these from my early 20s and more so now in my 30 I’m just lazy and found doing stuff like these living life easier 😅😅😅 good to know I’m not alone.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Rather than being lazy... maybe you're simply efficient. 😁

[@margrose5]

Some good ideas. I’m not giving up my dishwasher, though!!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Enjoy your dishwasher. They're very beneficial for a lot of people. 😁

[@jeannie82024]

I love the idea of the bags that go inside the purses so it’s easy to switch purses! I’m definitely doing it. I’m tired of forgetting stuff I need. 🎉thank you!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Glad you like it!

[@sweetsarah9702]

First time seeing your channel - subscribed now. So many of these make so much sense and I have done many of them, but need to take care of several more!. I do have a tip for you - there is a way on your phone (at least there is on my iPhone) that any call coming in from a number that is not in my contacts will not ring, but go automatically to voicemail. If it is a legit call, they will leave a message and I can call them back. Also, all my appointments are kept in my phone calendar. I always have it with me, so I pull it out whenever I need to schedule something. No way could I remember all the "things". I am a retired widow, Bible study leader and prayer warrior - not necessarily in that order!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for sharing you tips! I appreciate your watching, commenting, and subscribing!

[@terricoach7119]

yes, just discovered this and it is great.

[@tamb7587]

Many , many years ago I told myself I ONLY buy it if I love it! I also have been working on the capsule wardrobe. My two base colors for shoes are navy and black. From those two colors I have built my wardrobe. Now packing for a long weekend is so easy. I usually only take two pr shoes ; sneakers and sandals in the same color and all clothes that go with.. That way everything goes together..Black shoes , gray, black , khaki and white clothes . Navy shoes, navy, Kahki, and white clothes.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That's fantastic! Those are my colors as well.

[@ernie9071]

#32 Every two years give away 4 or 5 box’s of things that you thought would make you happy. Give it to someone who recently had a tragedy in their life. Thing’s don’t bring you happiness but, blessing other’s will. Don’t be a pack rat, no one brings a thing with them when it’s all said and done.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Great points! I appreciate your watching and commenting. 😀

[@laurieinfinger2984]

That's right! Nobody ever took a U-Haul with them to the Other Side!

[@ooohlaa13]

@@laurieinfinger2984 LOL but I bet they tried!!!

[@couponfirstlady2991]

That LAST ONE worship BEFORE you read and pray-Excellent. I too wake at 4am Love this

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank yo so much! I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@9cats7]

I put almost everything on one credit card. I pay it off every month and I have the protection given to me by the credit card company, and I also have a record of my spending throughout the year. I understand not everybody can do that, it's just what I do.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for your comment. I appreciate it. 😊

[@claudiawilliamson5701]

Gwen, I stumbled across this video, and you had my full attention from the start. Great advice!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@claudiawilliamson5701 You are so kind! Thank you for watching!

[@creativeman17]

Great stuff Gwen. You could have entitled this "How To Live Your Life". I relate so much to many of your points but being male I can disregard all the the things mentioned for the ladies. Organization, yes; clothing issues, yes;credit card use, yes, and so on. I have a system I call the " X theory of organization ". Everything goes on the X! Keys, glasses, drivers license, back scrathers, body brush, etc. At 81, time is my most precious " thing". I don't want to waste a minute of it, hence the desire to make every motion count. Cleaning? I choose to be neutral in thought. Just do it! And love the result! Scissors? I have recently bought 4 more pair to place on X's where needed! One of my best ideas (I think) is my "door buddies". Boxes I have made that go beside main doors so that there is always a resting place for packages, groceries, miscellaneous items so that your hands can be free to open and close the doors. No bending over! I capture water when doing dishes in gallon jugs then I can use that waste water to water my garden. I have a gym membership and go every other day to shave, sauna, spa, and shower. Eliminates ALL cleaning. Enough for now, but there is more!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You have a great system! It helps so much to stay on top of things. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@verlenefults2419]

Worship first! I will absolutely incorporate this into my morning routine. I always start with my reading/study first.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@verlenefults2419 give it a try! You’ll love it!

[@joanneblair2087]

I need to quit saying yes, and I don’t answer unknown callers. Actually I need to take a number of these suggestions to heart. I really like #31. I need to do this.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@joanneblair2087 number 31 helped me most. Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@Annie-le1vv]

This is excellent ! You offered some awesome thoughts ! Thank you !

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you, Annie!

[@CMorgan-qy5qh]

I'd love to hear about your capsule wardrobe

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I made note of it. Thank you for your input. I appreciate you watching and commenting!

[@karent561]

I read through most of the comments after watching this video. Your #31 made an incredible impact! I am a night owl, so hearing you get up at 4am blows my mind...lol. It might be 9am that I get my coffee and read whichever devotional I am on and then read a chapter or so of the Bible. I do tell God good morning from Florida when I wake up and remind Him that I want to say and do whatever He has for me to say or do . I ask that the Holy Spirit help me NOT to say or do what does not please God. Having my quiet time talking with Jesus before talking with anyone else is a day changer. I have purged 80% of our stuff of 40 years married and keep a bag going all the time for donation. Having a place for things we use everyday, like keys is essential. Process that mail and spend the extra few minutes to unsubscribe from emails that you don't want actually saves time overall. I use my phone's google calendar for any event, appointment and things I need to do. Girl, I like all of your 31 things...but using credit cards still works best for us. We all have to find ways to reduce the stress we put on ourselves. Thank you.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@karent561 I appreciate your watching and sharing your thoughts! I’m not a night owl at all. Lol I am definitely an early bird. Lol.

[@ws6284]

Not only do I not answer unknown numbers, I no longer have a voicemail. It's life changing not to have to go in and delete all the spam messages.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Great tip. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

[@virginiabaker4471]

AND I don't answer the door unless I'm expecting someone. Family is different and I love my video door bell for this!!❤

[@kathywiseley4382]

​@@virginiabaker4471 Same. And I refuse to feel guilty about it, even if my car is in the driveway and they know I'm home. My family and friends know to text first to see if I'm available. Several of them are also now doing this.

[@Nancy-1249B]

It sounds to me like your system is telling you to slow down. Stop and smell the roses. Good for you for listening! I appreciated many of your points.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you! Yes, it is. And living slower is much more enjoyable. 😊

[@daniellem5175]

Great list but #31 is the best and what I needed to hear. Awesome idea!! Thank you!!!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

#31 is my favorite too! I appreciate you watching and commenting!💖

[@janpeterson6851]

All of these! Thanks.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you for watching!

[@debkincaid2891]

I buy a roll of yellow painter's tape & label everything that goes in my fridge and freezer, including "use before" date. Cheap, takes a second, and tells you all you need to know.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Great idea! Thanks for watching and sharing your tip!

[@nancybenner2496]

These are the things that you mentioned and have changed my life: 1) I grocery shop on the Walmart website and have my groceries delivered. 2)I presort my laundry in a three compartment sorter…white, black and colored. 3)I have a limited clothing selection. All black items. 4) I clean one area at a time when it needs it.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Nancy, this makes me heart so happy! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! I appreciate you!

[@debrabenson4613]

Wow! I love #31....I have experienced that worship puts me in a condition to receive deeper meaning from the preaching of God's Word. But I never thought about it in that way in my personal time. I am going to implement this in my personal time with the Lord. Thank you so much for the good advice.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@debrabenson4613 Your comment makes my heart so happy! 💗 Thank you for watching and commenting. 😊

[@alisonlee4723]

This is a great helpful video, thank you for taking the time. I do not have a credit card anymore, best decision I have ever made, it is cash only. The hours spent going to the bank when someone stole my card number, sorting it all out was a nightmare. I am old enough to remember going to the Bank with a Passbook, cash out or in, signed by the teller, then off home !!!!! ❤

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you! And yay for cash!

[@tammygarrett9261]

I quit everything.😁 I only do what I feel like. Some times I can go for days not doing nothing, and I'm fine with it. I hate when I tell hubby, DON'T answer the phone! He answers. Sometimes I DON'T want to talk to anyone right now, he STILL answers the phone. I swear at him cause he HAS to answer the phone. He retires soon. It's gonna be so much fun.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Enjoy retirement. 😁

[@dawnmireles2912]

Worship before prayer! Yes!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

It's made a big difference for me!

[@orobinson721]

Trying to be perfect and feeling like I always have to be productive.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@orobinson721 those hung me up for so long. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 😊

[@sharonfoy2410]

Thank you! I especially needed to hear the last one. I’m going to change the way I do my devotions and read the bible!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I’m so glad to hear it! It will bless you!

[@susygibson5673]

The dishwaher saves a lot of water. As for DW electric usage is 2% of your bill. Your lights ard 7%. My water bill dropped between $ 30 to 40.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@susygibson5673 My water bill rarely goes over my minimum amount I’m charged so it wouldn’t save me money. I don’t even have a dishwasher. 😊

[@heavenbound-1957]

Just found your channel and loving it. Yes for capsule wardrobe

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@heavenbound-1957 Thank you for watching and commenting! I appreciate you! Noted on the capsule wardrobe. 😀👍🏼 Thank you!

[@LadyLocksley]

Your #31 is THE best. I will take that one and worship first and then read my Bible. Thank you!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

#31 has been life-changing for me! I know it will bless you too!

[@marthaivester7348]

You hit so many things reading a book, reading the Bible makes a lot of sense to listen to music first appreciate all the items you talked about 🙂

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you, Martha.😊 I appreciate you watching and commenting. The worship before reading was life-changing for me.

[@carolebersole4025]

Hi Gwen, love your content. Why not use your empty dishwasher as the ultimate dish drying rack? No more need to clutter your countertops with big clunky dish racks and drip trays. And you can close the door and hide the dishes while they dry or leave the door cracked to speed up drying. Hope this helps!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

That would be a great idea but I don't even have a dishwasher. 😁

[@naturalwitchery]

Our rule of thumb on clothes is I have to LOVE it. Like, I put it on and say, I LOVE THIS! or it's a no.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

@@naturalwitchery That’s a great rule!

[@whiteswanrs]

Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you. I do so much better with my budget using mostly cash. I use my debit card for online purchases and I have so much better control.

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

I like the simplicity of one account and knowing I'm spending my money in real time and not paying for it later - even if it is without a carryover balance and interest. I'm a fan of "as simple as possible". Lol.

[@jeanperdue346]

Thank you for that last reminder. Yes, Lord !

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You're so welcome. Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@deniseatthelake]

Getting rid of paper clutter, magazines, books is my next focus! love that makeup travel bag hack! One step further, I have a duplicate toiletry travel bag which has everything I use at home; I never have to pack and repack just refill occasionally. Best thing I ever did was pay off credit cards, and dont have anything but a bank debit card with CASH only...if I dont have the cash, I dont buy it. What was surprising is I have more money since I did that! Its incredibly liberating!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Amen to these comments!

[@ireneroy8820]

Thank You!!! You pointers are some I never thought about and believe me My mind is always running on how to make things easier! You took a lot of guilt off of me today!! Can you make a video showing your home? I love what I seen on this video so far! My first time here! Love this!!

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

You are so welcome! I appreciate your watching and commenting. I will add a home tour to my list of videos. 😀

[@marylynch2510]

Yes great video x

[@stacilanae74]

My first time watching your videos and I thoroughly enjoyed and related to your ideas. I've been trying to simplify life since being laid off, not feeling so guilty if I don't want to be as productive as I used to. Things get done in their own time, the house will get cleaned, my family gets feed, and I'm not as stressed :).

[@simplifyyourlifewithgwen]

Thank you! I appreciate your comments. I'm sorry you got laid off. Simplifying your life is a good place to put your efforts.