True, avoidants show empathy in a different way, like not criticizing/highlighting your defects. Words come easy, can be empty, but actions speak louder. I've found them to be very sincere; but one has to be very tuned in to see what they're conveying sometimes. It's not for everyone. Anyone who is thinks an avoidant is a narcissist has not understood either of these things.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
Very true
@BirdieHaze22074 ай бұрын
Agree..
@iamashleyiam4 ай бұрын
My boyfriend is more like this than narcissistic. He’s just super distant and it’s really annoying and hurts more being in the relationship than being single
@bandida994 ай бұрын
Agree
@RepentImmediately4 ай бұрын
One can be both Avoidant and Narcissistic
@johndoe8923-k2d2 ай бұрын
The ONE thing avoidants do when they realise they are TRULY in love with you - They discard you. Ironically the highest compliment they will give you also destroys you.
@callunafrph2 ай бұрын
😭😭
@DonaldMeyers-v8c2 ай бұрын
Truth!
@lozer93gurlАй бұрын
I’m an avoidant and it’s quite the opposite. If I realize I truly love someone (and they’ve proven they are a safe and trustworthy person) I become healthily attached. They either didn’t feel safe with you or there is more going on with them than just being an avoidant - like having commitment issues.
@johndoe8923-k2dАй бұрын
@@lozer93gurl You do not represent the vast amount of people who had experiences with avoidants. You're the special case here.
@lozer93gurlАй бұрын
@@johndoe8923-k2d And just like that you showed you’re not a safe person. When someone who is an avoidant is trying to tell something personal/about themselves and you dismiss them as if it’s not THEIR experience they WILL shut down on you. Re-read what I wrote with your ears open and you will understand and if you still don’t ask about what is confusing you/doesn’t make sense about what I said. This is how you communicate healthily. (The guy in the video also mentioned what I was referring to as well - and he’s right)
@EmpathEss4 ай бұрын
MY DA was the clingiest cuddliest people pleaser until we decided to be vulnerable. 😂
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
Ya see!!
@angelinadenisenko73964 ай бұрын
Yes!!! Same. Can be the softest teddy bear until talk of moving in, engagement, starting a family.
@doyoueatrocks3 ай бұрын
@@angelinadenisenko7396don’t talk about it, just let it flow from one to another
@Flufero233 ай бұрын
Yes. That’s how it happens.
@777-h6nАй бұрын
@@doyoueatrocks👌
@VictoryXR3 ай бұрын
I used to be anxious but now I’m heading into avoidant territory with some anxious sprinkled in
@ShineWine3 ай бұрын
You can’t force Avoidant’s so it’s important to be sure of yourself & whole within cause if your not careful you’ll chase them away. Avoidant are some of the most beautiful souls that will naturally fall into a person that is secure & confident
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
100 percent
@shereses.32983 ай бұрын
Dysfuntional would be the proper adjective.
@ShineWine3 ай бұрын
@@shereses.3298 Your comment is more the reason why you should be somewhere healing & not judging ✨🌱
@shereses.32982 ай бұрын
@@ShineWine girl, I'm a healing Avoidant, and I said what I said. The behavior is DYSFUNCTIONAL💯💯💯💯💯💯
@luketimewalker2 ай бұрын
😧😧😧
@susanwhite67613 ай бұрын
Im an avoidant but its because I need to feel safe.
@wizardofaus2985Ай бұрын
I'm anxious because I need to feel safe.
@sasb3675Ай бұрын
I think all maladaptive attachment behaviour was created as a way of keeping you safe, it just shows in different ways - activating (anxious) or deactivating (avoidant)
@Flufero234 ай бұрын
I know my FA ex loved me.. On expressing deep feelings, he began the slow fade, eventually monkey branching to another after three years. We had a mostly good four-year relationship/situationship. His fears got the best of him. He wanted to be friends. I said "no" and let him go without a tear. No anger, no questions, nothing. NC forever for me. I have no resentment or jealousy even though I was heartbroken. After nine months of inner work, I am finally getting over him. I have accepted the fact that it would not work with us. I know he isn't doing healing work. I know he feels guilty for hurting me, and I don't expect him to try to come back. For myself, I know I could not go through the heartbreak again.I am sure we both still have love for each other. That's why it is so sad.
@Flufero234 ай бұрын
Yes, I forgot the acts of service. My FA ex would do anything for me. He helped me in so many ways when I needed help. Funny thing, before he left, he had asked if I needed anything and even offered help before I answered. Watching this video brought back so many remembrances for me. Even though we both have moved on, I know we will always have a place in each other's heart.You seem to have a way of being able to speak of avoidants with compassion.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
@@Flufero23 Thank you, I appreciate your comments 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Flufero234 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourtYou’re welcome.
@Nika-je6zd3 ай бұрын
It means you were absolutely exhausted already, hence you let him go - you really need to move on, and find a new better non-DA partner!
@echase4163 ай бұрын
Once women get into a FWB scenario, it can be almost impossible to go to a ‘real relationship’ level.
@davidhoward56874 ай бұрын
It happened in this order for me. She "Love Bombed" me, she started with the acts of service. She forgot to call me one night and I brought it up to her, she withdrew from that point forward. I now realize she is an avoidant and how I should treat someone like this. She shared so many things with me but the chemistry me and her had was insane. I broke it off with her after 2 and a half months to give her some space and she agreed with the breakup. Everything she did is almost 100% what a DA is.
@Jochms2 ай бұрын
So you brought it up the first time she "forgot to call you" is this something she shouldve remembered or what. Im not sure i follow.
@THEpamstevensАй бұрын
He falls in love fast. When we met he said he wanted to take it slow BUT he told me I love you at about the 6/8 week period.
@dimensionsofagemini3 ай бұрын
His intro hit ME so hard. It is very difficult for me to be vulnerable especially with the opposite sex, because of how I've seen women be handled in my life time. It caused me not to trust men no matter what. Stand on your own 10 toes. It has cost me so many chances of relationships with men i was interested in. Some how guys fall in love with me fast. We fight because I won't open up to them and allow then to earn my trust. I'm working on improving my self esteem and recognizing what my actions project.
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
🙏🏾❤️
@JenGrice3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. My (long distance) FA partner does all of these things, which works out because I feel most loved with acts of service and then quality time. Last week he drove over 2 hours one way to see me (and back in the same day) and take me out for my birthday. He has also said he loved me one time but like you said not in a lovebombing way. He was being vulnerable because I told him (not that same day) we need that to grow. I really see him trying to improve on his communication, putting in effort although it’s harder for him, and he is self-aware of his issues. That’s what keeps me in this relationship with him while I work to be more securely attached.
@Whyurforeheadsobig3 ай бұрын
Theres nothing more fulfilling than educationg yourself on how to better understand and love the dearest person in your life
@JustMeAndMyBoy4 ай бұрын
Mine did relay something very personal that they may not have told anyone else. I’m thankful that they felt the trust. My question is: WHY did they share it with me?
@Nikkiole843 ай бұрын
Lord I realize I have avoidant tendencies lol. Oh boy, explains alot. My traumas have scorned me.
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
Now that you’re aware, you can change
@DonaldMeyers-v8c2 ай бұрын
For now. You can work on them and overcome them for sure
@elainejones54734 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. It helps me cope with the heartbreak of the sudden discard that blindsided me right when we seemed to be drawing closest. No explanation; he just made a lame excuse that didn't make any sense at all and he left. It was so sudden. I was devastated. I spent months trying to figure out what I had done. What about those sweet things he'd said? Were those just lies? Was I nothing more than a little fling for him? Now that I understand the avoidant better, I see he had been doing all five of the things you mention in this video. Okay he's gone but it helps to believe that his feelings for me had been genuine -- at least, genuine at the time. That is a sweet gem I will treasure in my heart. Thank you.
@sadiqua74 ай бұрын
This is helpful, my ex did most of this, his struggle was being transparent about his finances. If he could’ve owned up to that we would still be together. He ended a relationship with me because he wasn’t ready for a family financially.. I never pressed for a baby immediately, and at my age now I’m stuck trying to heal from his confusing behavior and getting to a point where I can trust someone new. Don’t see myself having a baby naturally anymore. Waste of time, but lessons learned.. no longer giving grace to men who can’t be open and honest about how they feel about me and our future or who can’t navigate life’s stressors with me.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
Oh yes, many Avoidants I know hoard and are secretive about finances. I think losing control of that scares them.
@BirdieHaze22074 ай бұрын
I agree, they are being slayed on so many other channels. I went out with an FA and he was the kindest most caring man. So much to the point that he couldn’t switch off and detach from feeling helpless to help me and burning himself out. One thing I saw though was he thought I needed “ tending too” and that was his job, instead of just loving me and being there if I needed him. But a genuine person that couldn’t say how he felt in fear of upsetting me, or letting me down.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this comment 🙏🏾
@BirdieHaze22074 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourt thank you for what you do, you explain things so well and also keep the respect and the human element in people.
@gayleneflower3984 ай бұрын
Same. He did everything for me. He came to my house he fix things he paid for dinners he did so much and I said I don’t want a handyman. I want a boyfriend he got offended, but it was true. I didn’t want a handyman I wanted a boyfriend and he couldn’t, do that why, I don’t know. He just couldn’t put out emotions and love. It was sad. I did love him but I couldn’t be with someone that couldn’t love back.😢❤
@marciasloan5344 ай бұрын
This is describing me
@doyoueatrocks3 ай бұрын
@@gayleneflower398you kinda slapped him in the face with that one 😅
@shamayim20013 ай бұрын
i am an avoidant ( not by choice) He is spot on
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
I appreciate the confirmation 🙏🏾
@doyoueatrocks3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 my gf is dismissive avoidant as heck, but she is amazing, I can wake her up at 2am and say I am thirsty and she will get up, get a bottle of cold water and bring it back to me and go back to sleep as though nothing had happened.
@RS-ms1bz2 ай бұрын
Why the hell would you wake her up to go fetch you a bottle of water? Seems very selfish to me. You must be a narcissist.
@TenYah1444 ай бұрын
I like how you seem really gracious about avoidants. I’m leaning about them now that I’m experiencing one but unfortunately I’m someone who’s dealt with narcissistic ex husband and ex boyfriend so when avoidant showed narcissistic type behaviors I bounced lol. Well got really triggered and became dismissive and altho I tried explaining my behavior and why, they seemed to not be able to lean back in (as I see they’re not communicative and couldn’t reciprocate communication) which triggered me more lol. Currently not speaking 🤷🏾♀️ thanks for your insight
@ashton19524 ай бұрын
What type of narc behavior is he showing? I'm curious because my story is similar, although my DA ex didn't show narc traits. He's the only one I'd consider taking back
@TenYah1444 ай бұрын
@@ashton1952 I say because it was the narcs in my life that I experienced, blocking, stone walling, shutting down or shutting me out, unable to see/hear the other person’s point but only seem to want to drive their point, shuts down when I’m trying to communicate important emotional needs, just someone “emotionally unavailable” and a bit emotionally immature. I understand that these bahaviors are in many people (and maybe my unhealed self sometimes) not only narcs. I DONT consider this person a narc because they ARE very empathic, considerate, self-giving but sometimes some of the same behaviors can show in an avoidant as I’m leaning or someone severely anxious as I’m leaning and for that I could give him a pass some day but having experienced some of these same things that triggered me about the narcs just really set me off. Fortunately I was able to recognize it for what it was early and even attempted to take accountability in a mature way (which they DONT do) but the repeat blocking is a strong no for me so right now I’m not even trying to go there. We will be in no contact for however long we have to.
@Trust_worthy_242 ай бұрын
Literally same same same
@Trust_worthy_242 ай бұрын
Avoidant and emotionally unavailable ppl are exhausting. It's so sad how we try to teach them how to communicate even tho they know all the principles for healthy communication but wen it comes to the real deal they hide and avoid you and dnt respond
@echase4163 ай бұрын
I have some Avoidant friends and I do try to establish that Safety is important for our friendship.
@cinthiagoch3 ай бұрын
Yes, I noticed they tend to follow this pattern in friendships too. Feeling ultra safe is important in any kind of relationship for them to get close and open up.
@CremeDeLaCreme5203 ай бұрын
Extremely useful, thank you 🙏🏾 😊❤
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
Then you for watching 🙏🏾
@sanschmidt54573 ай бұрын
okay good to know. He only did no. 1. Confided in me when he did with noone else. He didn't do acts of service. He only ever just hinted that he liked me whenever I brought up the topic and he felt he needed to say something back. I only ever met one of his friends online and his Dad by accident. He didn't make time for me and always had a ton of things that he needed to be doing before he could see me. It's very painful to have to admit to myself that he didn't have any feelings for me except liking the attention that I gave him and kinda using me for that.
@Sfinchphotography20 күн бұрын
It’s almost impossible to spend time with her. I don’t chase, I don’t message her all the time, I ask her to go places and she always has an excuse. I haven’t seen her in about 2weeks and now I offer to take her to the cinema and she says no with no valid excuse. I am trying to make it work, trying to work through her avoidance and allow her to love me but it’s impossible man, I am not chasing her to spend time with me but equally I want our relationship to progress and actually go places with her.
@angelinadenisenko73964 ай бұрын
100% accurate - he had my back, spent so many resources on me, helped me so much, opened a whole new world for me; heaps of acts of service and affection. Talked about his past. But never vulnerable words. Ever. Could barely tell me he loved me - he said "I want to say the L word to you" and never did.
@angelinadenisenko73964 ай бұрын
I love him beyond words, but at some point it just gets too much to carry on my own. Too much emotional baggage that I'm carrying for both people.
@Sofiahansen_30694 ай бұрын
So sorry girl - did it workout in the end?
@janetlabrador79512 ай бұрын
Oh God yes now he's back to me and giving me everything..I'm in awe..he trust me too much..and he said he loves me.after all what happened and what I've been through..I walked away from him before I stand where I stood .but I keep all his secrets with me.
@angelinadenisenko73962 ай бұрын
@janetlabrador7951 good luck, 👍 but remember your worth. I've met a new man and it's a total breath of fresh air and I can breathe a sigh of relief, I'm not walking on eggshells, I'm able to share my thoughts and feelings without being criticised, it's mutual give and take. I hear compliments from him all the time, I know what he's thinking and feeling, everything is very clear and progressing naturally. Unlike my ex - it was his way or the highway, he barely went out of his way apart from spending money on me (which he would recklessly spend anyway). It took me 6 full months of pain to get over my ex. But it's doable and there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
@lauriechan29663 ай бұрын
Avoid the avoidant. Problem solved.
@kashmirirose37332 ай бұрын
My avoidant ex used to confide in me when it came to talking about her husbands betrayal of her with her best friend. She was also my work wife always making sure my tie was stright (amongst other things).. She said to me that ' When she got into a relationship with me, she never thought that she would fall in love with me. (as she did). She used to be my work wife, offereing me her home to use as an after hours work space....I think it was too much for her....Or maybe the relationship became monotonous. Even the intimacy was scheduled in as a weekly session.
@a.d.b5354 ай бұрын
My DA does all these things, even stuck by me even though I embarrassed him in front of his friends and they expressed their doubts about me to him. How's that for love? We've since patched and I no longer behave poorly, thus proving that people can work thru issues.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
That’s great to hear
@a.d.b5354 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourt And thanks for posting a video that's positive about DAs.
@luketimewalker2 ай бұрын
Damn, this really conjures moments.
@joshmorehouse3352 ай бұрын
My DA boyfriend did all 5 of these things. :( What's hard is I know deep down he really did love me.
@Under510Ай бұрын
This is eye-opening!
@teanna45693 ай бұрын
He said when you around I felt free, then he told something personal and said this is messing with my confidence and I don’t have anyone to talk to because I don’t want anyone thinking Iam weak, showing his credit score and telling me personal stuff normal men that are woman centered won’t do, and he texts me good morning 4-6days a week we talk sometimes threw out the day and sometimes on the phone but I can also tell he soooooo scared
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
That sounds about right
@chloerobin6304Ай бұрын
Me, an Avoidant: 👁️👄👁️ uh oh
@IamCoachCourtАй бұрын
@@chloerobin6304 😂😂😂
@courtneytaylor3332 ай бұрын
Hello Court!! I’m Courtney! Thank you for the video
@IamCoachCourt2 ай бұрын
@@courtneytaylor333 I’m Courtney as well!
@randalchandler23664 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this knowledge. Im not sure if my former partner is an avoidant, I don't have the training to say that about anyone however it appears she may have been. In some form I saw everything you described and so I was confused for a while by how easily she gave up.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the feedback Randal
@salubashiru80212 ай бұрын
Literally this perfectly describes me
@JustMeAndMyBoy4 ай бұрын
When u say they share finances, do you literally mean sharing their finances/money with u, or being open about INFORMATION regarding their finances, like sharing their personal worth, how much they have?
@0Demiyah03 ай бұрын
I think this also depends on whether they are a man or a woman. Women don't tend to volunteer their financial resources as much as men do. Those "men are provider"-roles in society are fairly engrained. So I think that point is more appropriate to observe in men than women, and heterosexual relations more than other sexual orientations. A man who is interested in a woman, will pay for the dates, get you an occasional gift and all that. They will in time also volunteer information about their personal worth. In my personal situation, my Avoidant SO paid all the dates in the first 6 months and even would fight me over the bill if I tried paying. As things proceeded that evened out a bit more where it was 70-30. He told me when he had major loans paid off, or what his inheritance looked like, and I could look into his bank account, he emailed me his salary slips. Not just out of the blue, there was context to how this was brought up. But in any case, I knew a lot of personal information about him you'd trust only with someone you feel intimate with.
@JustMeAndMyBoy3 ай бұрын
@IAmCoachCourt ??? Bc we’re very open about DISCUSSIONS, but it’s not like we have a joint bank account.
@RosaK373 ай бұрын
Oh! That means he is NOT in love with me 😂
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
🫣
@micaelanamu22403 ай бұрын
Yup😢 Same😅
@Jo-kh1yoАй бұрын
Number 1: It`s unhealthy to use one another as a therapist. Go see a professional.
@SeanOzz4 ай бұрын
I’m still trying to figure out if my ex is a fearful avoidant or a covert narcissist. She has traits of both so it’s pretty confusing.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
I would say the Narcissism trumps the attachment
@sannasunshine41614 ай бұрын
I heard somewhere that all narcissists are avoidant, but not all avoidants are narcissists. So if she has narcissistic tendencies, she is a narc with avoidant attachment style.
@selfdiscoverysupport2 ай бұрын
@@sannasunshine4161I saw on Personal Development School's channel that narcissistic people can come from any attachment style that is insecure. Some types of narcissism are more likely to have anxious attachment or fearful avoidance also rather than dismissive avoidant attachment.
@johndoe8923-k2dАй бұрын
@@SeanOzz the major difference between narcs and avoidants is the "intent" of their actions. Their behaviour is very similar. Thus they hurt people a great deal and you see stories from people broken by the discard
@kellymaresha2 ай бұрын
Please DO NOT trust me less that 90 days in with your drama dumping. If you choose not to go to therapy, that’s your business & hurdle.
@northshorelight3521 күн бұрын
Nah. The DA is my option. He still keeps his ex in the pic. Truthfully, I think he’s in love with her because he’s been with her the longest. I know it’s very toxic because they always bicker and he doesn’t do things with her anymore but the fact that he won’t leave that house despite never wanting to marry her and telling everyone that he is single….Im not waiting on him. I have the person I’m supposed to be with.
@cobalto652 ай бұрын
So for example...She feels dismissive sometimes or that she doesn't care, but at the same time, she tells me to go an work on her art work shop for my therapy and refuses to charge me, and I know im the only one she refuses to charge, even though I know she is struggling for money (I bake her goods in return)... Is it her sharing resources?
@rosaliaaaaaa3 ай бұрын
They fall in love !?
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
Yeah, when they do it’s obvious
@cynthiarowley7193 ай бұрын
How about two avoidants?
@Nika-je6zd3 ай бұрын
Never works - they avoid each other 😂
@ANU_WRLD3 ай бұрын
@@Nika-je6zd😂😂😂
@nancylakot81393 ай бұрын
😂😂😂@@Nika-je6zd
@JustMeAndMyBoy4 ай бұрын
I believe my SO is both DA and FA. How do I know which is dominant?
@ashton19524 ай бұрын
It's a good question, and a person can be 50/50. I find DA's to be on an even keel whilst FA tend towards drama.
@JustMeAndMyBoy4 ай бұрын
@@ashton1952 mostly even keel, but yes I’ve been thru several bouts of drama. I’m thinking DA leaning FA?
@aspiringrootwoman243 ай бұрын
What do you classify yourself as? FA tend to lean anxious with a more dismissive partner and avoidant with a more anxious partner
@JustMeAndMyBoy3 ай бұрын
@@aspiringrootwoman24 Secure :)
@divadiva5883 ай бұрын
What is DA & FA....
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
A Dismissive Avoidant and fearful avoidant
@divadiva5883 ай бұрын
Thank you I just came across your channel and trying to o work out what the person I am with is. He does not say I love you he finds it really hard he does not share his money willingly, but can be generous always wants to know how I feel rather than share his feelings...I just don't know
@JustMeAndMyBoy4 ай бұрын
I just realized, u didn’t say if you’re referring to DA or FA.
@IamCoachCourt4 ай бұрын
Dismissive
@JustMeAndMyBoy4 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourt thx Coach. When u say sharing resources, do u literally mean money, or INFO about finances?
@ANU_WRLD3 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourtwhat’s the difference between?
@desiloui3 ай бұрын
I think I just realized my friend is in love with me………………………………………….
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
is that good or bad?
@desiloui3 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourtbad… because I now also realize he and I are both avoidant.
@sahsahsah123Ай бұрын
Frankly When an avoidant feels like loving you , they will run and disappear. 🫠🫠
@negraconlyme22703 ай бұрын
My ex did all these, even told me he loved me first. Then he left me shortly after 😔
@sherrymshephard-massat59293 ай бұрын
Well he did all of that. He told me immediately about his situation with his mom that bothered him so much, how she took up so much of his time. He called me every night, took me to the grocery store no matter how late it was, helped me with bills when I needed it, told me he loved me, got on his knees, grabbed me around my waist like a child when I told him that I loved him. He broke up with me four months later, but would still ask if he could come by. I would've been okay with him just being a friend but after he would come by, and I'd give him a call some days later just say 'hey, how's your week going'', he would either ghost me, of tell me to stop bothering him. AND HE WAS JUST AT MY HOUSE. I don't know WHAT kinda' love that was supposed to be.
@JOEYDEEZ3693 ай бұрын
I fear love… I’m a classic avoidant… I’m the only individual on this stunning planet that’s ok with unrequited love… cos it’s less work to do on my part and I can control what happens and where the relationship goes… Yep… sounds nonsensical but it works for me !! Thank you CC Ciao ;)’
@ANU_WRLD3 ай бұрын
Oooo can u go deeper, what abt makes u satisfied?
@JOEYDEEZ3693 ай бұрын
@@ANU_WRLD yep… a one sided relationship suits me just fine because of the fact that I get all the joyful moments but without the heartbreak… heartache or drama.. there you go… now you know… thanks for your reply… wishing you a fabulous day today…. Ciao ;)’
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
I would looove to talk to you. Even it it’s just a quick chat
@JOEYDEEZ3693 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourt oh yeh… is that so Mr I Am CC… ok… so what would we be talking about exactly ?? I’m just curious is all…
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
@@JOEYDEEZ369 about how confident and honest you are. How becoming this self aware came about. It’s honestly intriguing
@KLEFF7182 ай бұрын
I was going to say, why do I care what an avoidant does when they're in love with you? It's so toxic that I don't care!
@RyanCharem-eh3yv3 ай бұрын
All these are just typical things someone falling in move with you would do.
@MsPatriot4203 ай бұрын
This is valuable information. Thank you.
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@cytinachavis91572 ай бұрын
This video helped me alot! My avoidant man does all of these things. How can I get him to go all in and commit?
@marysh38402 ай бұрын
I wish I could meet the one very soon
@intensepassion33823 ай бұрын
I'm having difficulty with these terminologies... avoidant etc. Many terms today are not defined. People are not completely avoiding others.
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
Mainly avoiding pain
@moneyisweird78623 ай бұрын
Attachment theory was developed in 1907. Perhaps you think it's new because of the progression of the Internet and having access to this more than going to a library looking for it
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
@@moneyisweird7862 this right here
@Dreamsareareality3 ай бұрын
I always love this channel. Coach helped me before. Keep up the excellent work. You nailed it with this list. 🙏🏽🙏🏽 1:30
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
It's so good to see you again Tammi! Keep shining!
@Dreamsareareality3 ай бұрын
@@IamCoachCourt Thank you kindly. My channel finally started growing. 🙏🏽💜
@IamCoachCourt3 ай бұрын
@@Dreamsareareality I see that, you’re killing it!