35 Lessons

I'm 35. Here are 35 random lessons I've learned.

[@big_darkside2716]

Chucks 35 Lessons: 01. Put Family first 02. Get married soon 03. Have Kids 04. Be very intentional with your time 05. Number your days 06. Create community 07. Collect memories 08. Journal and log 09. Communicate 10. Provide Value (@work) 11. Meditate 12. Sleep well 13. Eat well 14. Workout well 15. Life is messy (roll with it) 16. Sweat the smell stuff 17. Love the mundane 18. Take your time 19. Believe in something 20. Figure out how you work 21. Be consistent 22. Do really hard things 23. Never stop learning 24. You don't have learn that thing right now 25. Read good books 26. Life is in seasons 27. Find a mentor 28. Don't chase your passion, chase what you're good at 29. Perception is reality (people see you!) 30. Make you proud of you 31. Always assume the best 32. You love what you know 33. Lay your life down (serve others) 34. Being smart overrated 35. All you have is today

[@diegoolivera6081]

W

[@codclever]

Thanks Brother!

[@gibson2049]

Thank u

[@smallqwaro]

King

[@big_darkside2716]

For the best community ever 🙏

[@steveh.7664]

Your channel helped me fall in love with Linux and python coding.

[@rajdeepverma360]

Me too

[@Cyberman-v1t]

Same here

[@mystealthlife6991]

Ditto ❤

[@alirezam1744]

Me too, but I'm struggling to find projects(easy to hard) to practice with as well as having documentation in case I need a little help if I get stuck halfway through. I'd appreciate the help

[@mandla-nkosi]

Welcome home, buddy. I love Linux as well, for me though C++ has always been a brother to me, but I guess I am going to have to make Py my friend too! Welcome home.

[@lcork]

As my boyfriend said to me when I turned 27, "Oh Honey. You're not old! You're really, REALLY OLD!" Seriously though, you are doing great, kiddo. Keep up the good work.

[@sandramaxsadventures5703]

I’m 36 yo female with a family. I originally took a “break” from college when I was pregnant. I recently went through a similar mindset and returned to college after a decade off. My first class -intro to networking, the professor shared a link to your video. I’m aiming for Cyber security as a career. It’s a lot of information and my brain hurts but I’m loving the challenge. Your videos are a great help, thank you.

[@kenleague]

I'm half your age, would you recommend having kids as early as you did?

[@networkdude8790]

Thank you so much for posting this Chuck. In a time when the world is drowning in "influencers", it is so very refreshing to hear someone with your reach and impact be as authentic and genuine about their real life as you were in this stream. I enjoy your IT related videos immensely, but getting a glimpse of life through your eyes and hearing the things you've learned in your life, including about your faith, was a great encouragement to me. Many of those lessons you mentioned resonated loudly with my experience in 42+ years of life, and it lifted my spirits to know someone else has had similar experiences and learned from them. So again, thank you Chuck for this stream and for all you do, not just for the IT community, but for the world at large.

[@horizoniki]

This has quickly become one of my all time favorite KZbin videos.. absolute GOLD.

[@DaOtterDude]

I’ve just recently discovered your channel and all of your informative yet easy to understand videos have helped me learn the fundamentals which I had been lacking in web security and just Cybersecurity in general. I find myself watching this video after tuning into the stream so I can listen to the lessons I might’ve missed and take more detailed notes for the career ahead of me. Thank you for all the amazing content.

[@MartinJohannesNilsen]

Wow. I finished my 5-year computer science degree a year ago, and despite loving my work and new city, it has been challenging at times. I guess this was some almost fatherly advice I needed to hear. So thank you for that, Chuck.

[@umutunal9964]

Great advice Chuck, happy birthday too. God bless.

[@SatoshiSky]

All of these lessons are soooo so good. Man, I cannot express enough how helpful this was. Being at the start of a career, 24, it is so easy to focus inwardly, get sucked into ambition and growth and neglect the wife, kids, church, family....but all of those things need to come first. They are what life is truly about. The career is just fun and you don't need to obsess over it all the time.

[@jokelot5221]

Chuck is a great guy, great channel.

[@GunLobster]

These are good lessons. Will follow as much as I can. But if you're stuck in relatively toxic family group that wants to put you down as much as they can like I am, you're playing on hard mode. I'm not saying it's impossible, but if you're in the same situation, cut yourself some slack if you can't advance as fast as people in a normal household do. On the bright side, you'll be a better person after knowing what not to do or follow.

[@Kyaonias]

I agree with most of what you have said, when and where you can find it. If it's not already on your list, FOLLOW YOUR PASSIONS! WHEREVER They may take you! LIFE IS RICH DIVERSITY, AND DIVINE CHAOS! EMBRACE IT!

[@ZambeziSentinel]

Got my second son arriving in 3 months. Can't wait! Best job in the world and as you said, they come first. hack the planet after :)

[@bilalramzan-v3s]

Hey Chuck, you have upgraded to more than our guide. ❤

[@GrishaOniani-w1k]

Happy birthday hope you will live longer than 70 years ❤

[@TheyAreNotLikeUsLikeThat]

For Lesson 05. Number your days - Totally i agree i am 24 year's old and i don't know how fast the times goes

[@Brian-hu6wr]

This is an inspiring and inspired video! I already liked your content, but now I'm in love. Keep being a force for good and you'll reach more people than you could ever imagine.

[@NazzYr101]

I really wish I didn't miss this stream. But hey, glad I got to watch. Thanks Network Chuck for the golden nuggets you drop so effortlessly. It really helps a lot to get into gear again.

[@sinson678]

Hell of a show Chuck, Thanks brother.

[@Bennyblanco-xx6ki]

That’s som great advice, thanx for that!! For careing for others and trying to help others lead their best life, thank god for people like u!! God bless 🙏🙏!!

[@drcrankenstein]

On point #4, it's very true other people will try to take your time if they don't believe what you're doing with it is important. If you have a wife, several kids, and you say, "sorry, my time is taken", they'll understand. But if you try to craft your life free from obligation so that you have free time, and then you say "sorry, I've made choices so that I will have this free time, and I won't give it to you", then people will be resentful. I don't believe it should work that way, but all the evidence I've seen suggests that it does.

[@8080VB]

We love chuck without glasses❤️

[@kyle98927]

"sometimes you just gotta know when to pivot".... ...cool, can't wait to see how much it costs...

[@Simple_Minded]

if you want to build a good community, you need to have the dojo module where basically you have people constantly teachings the ones in "lower ranks" everyone would basically a student and a teacher.

[@Cyberman-v1t]

It is so nice that you can learn skills and life lessons in one channel specially from chuck ❤

[@LawlessCarrot]

I turned 35 a few months back bro. Feels crazy doesn't it. Tech aside, life is halfway over. Yes I agree, have kids. I have 1 and it will change your perspective.

[@TomasRamoska]

My Meditation is a dog walk in the morning and evening ✨️

[@MianTalhaZia]

Your channel changed my life and urged myself to do something lethal in hacking

[@djKenpLan09]

Finally someone saying true/real life facts!

[@olemortensen3354]

I'm 30 and has none of the things you have. Yet I have spent time on hobbies and learned stuff and watch detective conan all episodes in 2 years. Despite all that I have done. I feel like crap for achieving none of the things you have. A familyof my own(I'm a really big family man), a 'stable' Everyday 'job' that pays what i spend. I really look at everything i have and no one to share it with. It's like Living in Palace that has no people.

[@azharalibhutto1209]

Thank you so much for teaching all stuff ❤❤❤❤

[@tori_on_7237]

I love these videos!! I would love to see more

[@markmoyer]

Chuck, you're a true role model! Keep it up!

[@theellenders]

Realy Good Advice Chuck!

[@hanthuhein5423]

Love this. Make these types of videos more

[@sean_vikoren]

It was fun to hang out and see the human before editing :)

[@MFoster392]

Great video Chuck, very good information i'm 52 and wish i had done these ideas when i was younger :)

[@cugansteamid6252]

A very important thing folks: GAMING IS SUCH A WASTE OF TIME, DONT BE A GAMING ADDICT.

[@ExperiMentalDon]

Gaming is most definitely not inherently a waste of time. Gaming addiction is a problem like any other addiction and should be treated, but saying gaming in general is a waste of time is completely ridiculous.

[@fcimmm]

May if I can suggest one between 17 and 21:"Search or Imagine how is your life after death or when leaving your family"

[@mzafarr]

This was wonderful to watch Chuck, I do want to mention one thing Chuck almost all of the lessons you mentioned and a lot of your thoughts and opinions are part of what religion Islam teaches us. Do read/watch some stuff about it, I am sure you'll like it.

[@husanegamnazarov4443]

Happy birthday buddy 🎉

[@DavidMadeira29]

Why only 35 and not 60?! I don't wanna talk taxes. Namastè.

[@s3rverius]

Everyone is wise when young. Time verifies these wisdoms :)

[@mansart26]

This was just what I needed today, thanks.

[@cugansteamid6252]

Thanks for this live stream

[@husquestyt]

thank you for valuable life lessons!

[@Soniboy84]

3. Have kids 4. Guard your time .... 😂

[@ArunabhSingh-gj4op]

I'm loving linux bcause of u ❤❤

[@0xshack]

for meditation I would say not to cuz it has alot of disadvantages proven by researchers but instead you can sit for at least once a day and ask the ِall-knowing for help, ask him for mercy, ask him for guidance to the truth and ask him for anything you want in life, he the only one who will hear you and the only one who can help you and if you do this god will help you and you will feel better in every way and thats why we (muslims) pray 5 times a day to remember why we alive and not care too much about life and its stuff

[@Michael_ATL_82]

YOU GET A PRENUP???

[@blockchainsecurity]

If you have to get a prenup then you’re not really getting married.

[@jrg_lmnop]

@@blockchainsecuritynot every perspective is so this or that. Some people want to get married without the distraction of assets in their relationship. I wouldn’t get a prenup either, but I do understand when people do. It’s not for everyone.

[@blockchainsecurity]

@@jrg_lmnop I understand. Personally speaking, a prenup can feel like planning for failure, which kind of goes against the whole idea of lifelong commitment in marriage. It can seem like there’s a bit of hesitation to fully trust or share everything with each other.

[@feelinproudtobwyt-qz8gu]

block chain security, stop giving people advice. If a woman can't handle a prenup she wants to steal your money

[@blockchainsecurity]

@@feelinproudtobwyt-qz8gu Come back when you have reached puberty and remind me how that worked out for you. 🥴😂

[@BLynn]

Thank you, for clipping off the majority of the wait at the beginning. (Personally, I find it annoying when channels leave that long wait when they could have clipped it after the live session. I'm rarely going to be able to watch the live & that wait when it is later.)

[@syngramadigitals]

chroma key grey on photoshop, cool stuff on sketching

[@Simple_Minded]

i wonder if you would like the simple obsidian setup

[@HyperdriveRecruiting]

Ok Chuck just tell us who you're voting for LOL jk jk, great video brother

[@Iron_ReapeR]

You've changed PS layout color to green xD

[@jamesross3164]

Love obsidian, notion is great too for making systems. I'm currently designing an ERP using Notion. Very powerful tool.

[@CR7andJP]

Great video Chuck...i'm just a little bit older and know exactly what you're talking about!!!

[@awesomearizona-dino]

Thanks Chuck, this was great.

[@Trooperos90]

0. Have money -1. Get Born in usa -2 have luck to find a person u wont get divorced to -3 have normal family

[@pawelkamarashef6656]

ON point

[@AlexeyMinov2]

Thanks man, this was really helpful and warm video

[@haydnblackburnlovesjesus5542]

I wouldn't meditate in the sense of clearing my head. I would rather read the Bible or go outside and walk with God and spend the time handing Him the head mess. Its incredible.

[@WiSPMusic.]

Thanks for this great stream, Chuck.

[@MianTalhaZia]

Thanks again Chuck

[@Johan_tube]

35 years. Where did you get it? You look 129years old with that beard. Just kidding. Happy birthday then. Young man.🎉

[@mdbk8516]

At least I have come across someone who sticks to christian values , the Abraham values peace be upon him

[@matt8870]

ok i get it i had this 11 years ago its a mid life crisis.

[@Brhamabull]

Chuck Chuuk Chick Chack Cha cha cha chocolate chill cheel chuwol chul .

[@treyquattro]

6 kids?! wait, is that beard hiding Elon?!?!? (Sorry!) It's a different lifestyle to most of us these days, but kudos. Oh, and happy birthday (belated)!

[@ShawnMac3]

Sound is good!

[@gamereditor59ner22]

That's cool!

[@bokuden79]

Healthy dose of survivorship bias in that list.

[@Sibleader]

Can you list the apps you mentioned like the meditation one?

[@ItIsTheJudge]

Thank You!

[@MC--nh7vx]

Hi Chuck, looking for work after 8 years off from retirement. I was a nyc firefighter and was in IT prior to that. I have started with AWS CCP but i am lost. I past my MCSE 4 A plus. I know it’s old but I am finding it so hard to get back in the field. any suggestions

[@masslubricat9850]

I believe that you mean everything you said. I dont want to say that you are wrong, but besides politics and what we can agree is right, then I think you should find your own way.

[@emanuelRed56]

Es sind wertvolle Dinge die du uns mitteilen. Und ich werde daran abreiten und umzeten! leider ist mein englisch nicht so gut aber ich werde besser ich bin froh das sie unser Mentor sind und uns ihr wíssen und Erfahrung teilen mfg ER 😊

[@xXMcCloudWalkerXx]

36:42 AI takin careers

[@charlesoneil664]

Great points. You must really enjoy life, not the work you do.

[@KenSherman]

25:51 Art 🤩.

[@ForeignWerewolf]

I turned 18 yesterday =)

[@petlas100]

Thanks!

[@deanhaycox]

Good video this was, but sad at the same time I’m 45 now, having difficulty deciding where to go next is really hard, well, I’m pursuing a career in cybersecurity Some of those on the list hit home I regret not having kids that is a massive regret for me but something i will have to live with Has you get older you stsrt to think of those things that don’t really matter in life Family and true friends are the most importance thanks for the video

[@Agent_008]

Timestamp for me cuz this life advice is amazing 18:56

[@RoccoLefevers-g4s]

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[@tori_on_7237]

Thank youu 😊

[@TheGreyHatGuy]

God bless you🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤣🤣

[@backendtower6580]

Respect bro

[@eliasperez5168]

I hissed when he said kids lol 😂

[@kerubi5s]

ikr, and in this economy really?

[@drcrankenstein]

Yeah, I can see how kids could be rewarding, and I've always been open to the idea, but I just don't believe in the "f-it, I'll figure out the expense part later." Life is so much more competitive now, and with the way the world is going if you don't have adequate resources, you're gonna be in a bad place trying to raise kids.

[@kerubi5s]

@@drcrankenstein why is it that having kid has to be always about the parents? that's too selfish don't you think? You shouldn't have kids just to feel rewarded. You should have kids if you do want to raise kids and if you have the capacity to do so.

[@KooLaidStudios]

Dang I missed it

[@shalomarputhasingh]

Can't you go live in Evening time (India)

[@salamonasefa]

hi

[@Donell_B]

people you considr fam

[@und3rpr]

Really like Chuck’s channel, but this coffee stuff is getting out of control.

[@ExperiMentalDon]

It's standard coffee drinker stuff. They can _never_ stop talking about coffee. Everything has to be about coffee. All. The. Time.

[@geovanijarrett6071]

🙏

[@RhondaPerez-m3b]

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[@bryancollins9024]

*Get saved first

[@xXMcCloudWalkerXx]

xoxoxo

[@About_Flipper_Zero]

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[@eliasperez5168]

Young still