4 Funny Ways Men Show They Like You Without Saying It

[@deec411]

Personally, I hate sarcasm...say what you mean and mean what you say!! PERIOD

[@SherriFlemming]

What is it about NJ?

[@JonathonAslay]

Noted

[@margaretcampbell2681]

I think many people rush into something else so they don’t want to feel unwanted it’s not a great feeling

[@bernaditteduron3545]

I only married once to the same man, yet im still learning how truly damaged he is. Sometimes he remembers things from his past that is not pleasant and I thought I've asked him long time ago if he was over his pasts? Yet he is not!

[@livelearnandgrow5422]

Did you all see the last season of the bachelorette. she was very damaged from her father, leaving her and she gravitated towards men that was equally as damage and so at the end of her show, she ended up with nobody, and I think this is what Janice is saying, tear down those walls and recognize those walls and other people, and then you have a good prosperous relationship

[@alexstar5182]

"Needy guys are better than avoidant" so true ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly

[@Sherryyahoo]

Personally, I’m not into needy men. I did in the past and I am past that

[@babbiie7]

I believe you cannot truly heal. It’s just your a new you and you should find someone who is in the same stage of life as you.

[@Beautiful131313]

I luv a needy romantic Man 💜💜💜 A holes are A holes 💯💯💯

[@Sherryyahoo]

It almost does take an investigator

[@clairefoxall2313]

Wow … J really a sombering podcast … got me to go that bit deeper thinking about myself …how I am showing up also in relationships. Thank you for sharing much appreciated ⭐️

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad it was helpful!

[@anneiconex1473]

Right after divorce-YEP SAME STORY HERE. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@JonathonAslay]

How so?

[@marciahershkowitz4823]

I think you’re awesome Jonathon!

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thanks

[@janetcarrier313]

A woman or a man should not put a second relationship/marriage ahead of the children from the first marriage. So, caution should be taken when giving advice in this regard.❤

[@yelodoggie]

I agree. To NOT put the child first (underage children) is to just cause those kids trauma that they will take into their adulthood. It's an unending circle. Any step parent or girlfriend/boyfriend of a person with kids should be emotionally adult enough to understand that.

[@marciahershkowitz4823]

I disagree. Children need to understand that mommy and daddy have other roles and relationships besides parenting. There’s plenty of love for kids and for peers and for interests.

[@Sherryyahoo]

@@marciahershkowitz4823absolutely!

[@ashlireitz9750]

Good morning everyone and Jonathon❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Hi

[@tamarawolverton3895]

“I really hope you’re not fat?” Oh Jonathan!!! lol. That was a doozy!!! Bless both you rabbit hole hearts!!! Love the radical honesty and statistics you bring that balance all you coaching out!!! 💕🙌🏻

[@tanaponwarabut3268]

thanks for sharing i like a content of you talking about yourself childish side. love that!

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@Elsagu1313]

Love this ... Not me... I love it when men are romantic and share it!! I tend to be very transparent and vulnerable ... I see you and your pain from your break up. This recently happened to me. It's not fun at this age. I'm also interested in vetting questions... do you have more on this?

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@deec411]

While instant spark is great, I've heard many times that the spark happened later after getting to know them. Relax, if you like the person, get to know them and let it develop naturally. IMO

[@bettybergeon]

This is what I experienced

[@gayleneflower398]

Can you talk about how to approach someone if you would like to get back together with them after a period of time? It is a difficult process to figure out what to say/do thank u!!!

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes 👍🏼

[@debbystage2409]

I enjoyed this Thank you Jonathan I'm glad you've gotten past that first stage and I believe that your comments were very on target We need someone to actually compliment us and vetting is very important yes Good points about oversharing and emotionally unavailable &❤ romantic guys, The guy I'm talking to is very romantic also Yes

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@deec411]

Spark Alright Fun Enthusiasm

[@mariaf.bothfeld8247]

Never be sarcastic on women body type or being fat or not, we don't like that lol sorry 😂

[@JonathonAslay]

I didn't say funny was healthy... 😬

[@misstab2869]

@@mariaf.bothfeld8247 Agree. Some sarcastic jokes are not to be said to women you like. Save those to share with your guy friends.

[@verarobinson6759]

My boyfriend is showing by his actions

[@aurorawalls3177]

No if you change scenery.

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Really don’t think a person can use a child as a support person or you can put another person first.

[@JonathonAslay]

Actually, it does happen.

[@livelearnandgrow5422]

I feel you

[@kathrynlolmaugh3438]

I use sarcasm a lot. Usually there is some truth to it

[@JonathonAslay]

Sad but true

[@margaretcampbell2681]

I really liked Marie. I really don’t think one can be in a relationship until the traumas are healed because we just don’t see things accurately. We misinterpret things. Then we argue. And we don’t develop the skills we need.

[@JonathonAslay]

She's a beautiful soul and I wish her all the best.

[@Sherryyahoo]

Ditto Jonathan!

[@Sherryyahoo]

TOY is nice

[@charmee4045]

Walls are there for a reason, to protect us from harm, mine will stay up until I feel ready to take them down, it may be never, a human being can only take so much, the older you get the less you can tolerate.

[@JonathonAslay]

Walls also block love 😪

[@Sherryyahoo]

True

[@janegivero1641]

True...

[@dianedorney5147]

Did you and Marie have a NDA between you?

[@JonathonAslay]

No

[@dianedorney5147]

Will AI hit the dating sites? I wonder

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Was this show pre recorded?

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes

[@livelearnandgrow5422]

Am I to understand that you have not had a long-term significant relationship since your divorce 20 years ago, not judging just please answer.

[@janegivero1641]

🙏

[@susanharrie3326]

❤

[@JonathonAslay]

♥️

[@mariaf.bothfeld8247]

I'm went on my 12th date Wednesday, he finally opened up about his family and how he was raised, all this info shocked me a lot of bad things, I really like this guy but I think sooner or later his past will affect him, what should I do?

[@CindyKrueger-z4z]

Conversation about all of it!

[@JonathonAslay]

Most likely

[@sallyal5266]

Be patient and empathetic in your conversations with him, its taken a lot for him to open up and trust you 🙏 Good luck I hope it works out 🤞🏼💕

[@mynameisMelt]

Trauma and failure is how we grow, it has made him who he is now, and you really like him! We all have baggage, hopefully it is now a 'carry on' luggage size. Ask yourself if you can manage to carry his bags from time to time, or is it too heavy? Maintain your independence, take it slow, trust your gut feelings and listen to your owns needs and wants, be honest. Be brave and and act like a Bison; walk towards the storm instead of running away.

[@jacquelineaulet2186]

You may shock. I thought I would put up the highest walls ever. After a mayor break down. Mayor. Hospital and all. One year ago. After nearly four years of a most dedicated relationship. But I have found that I am not capable of putting any walls up.

[@debbiemoeller2169]

I think trying to fill a void by going from one person to another isnt healthy, of course. Some do put up walls to protect themselves from getting hurt again. Thank you Jonathon for opening up to thousands of us who have been through what you have. Thats so sad about feeling in second place. 😔🫂🙏❤️

[@janegivero1641]

❤