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@chrissymalos35018 ай бұрын
I agree with Jonathon. Best sex between two people is better when they are both physically close.
@rachelgarza93457 ай бұрын
All I have to say is WOW!!!! You are amazing with this information,although I believe if we dig and search within ourselves we really know what we need to do. In my case I’m a patterned person….definitely not good!!! I’m not sure why I continue this behavior… Help!!!
@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay Avery special man……full of love and caring . ❤️🙏thank you
@valkyriesardo2788 ай бұрын
I thought we were progressing nicely until I got sick. He knew I was flat on my back, sick as a dog, and running a temp for four days. He knows I live alone but he did nothing. He did not ask if I needed him to run an errand, did not drop off chicken soup, and did not even offer a few words of sympathy. I told him we were done because I cannot accept that complete lack of consideration from a partner. He explained that he stayed away because he didn't want to get sick himself. That was just too lame an excuse. All I needed was a little reasonable TLC not a blood transfusion.
@shelleywelke95518 ай бұрын
You made the right decision! 👏👏👏
@sorangelmargulies86188 ай бұрын
He could of left maybe soup for yoU, or some tea & a few healthy items like Elderberry extract, tea & soup! W0hen my exes dad had Covid and thought he was dying I sent 2 different teas & soup packages all he had to do was add water! So sorry that he didn't step up! No excuse he could of avoided close contact with you, & still be considerate of how sick yoU were! Maybe some will disagree? But I believe he could of done something to make you feel he still has respect, & cared for knowing how sick you were! Hopefully you don't have kids they watch & learn from our examples as adults! I hope that you're recovering & feel alot better! Sending wishes for you to not only get better but for you to find a wonderful caring partner! ❤
@truemorris66958 ай бұрын
I recently learned narcissistists dont like sick people
@zenmaiden18 ай бұрын
Amen sista good decision he didn’t show up for you in time of need … next !! 🎉
@staywellandstrong41998 ай бұрын
How serious were you two at the beginning of this relationship? Hadn't you been taking care of yourself until then? So what was defined before you were sick?
@CC-kr3mr8 ай бұрын
As a woman, in my experience, the best way to make sure that you aren’t dating a guy that isn’t serious about you is don’t go to bed with him. Just make sure you don’t go anywhere that you can lay down such as a couch or a bedroom. men went to lease analogy is bang on, but make sure they have established plenty of time. A.k.a. hefty down payment. I think most of our LOVELIFE dramas come from the full problem that we go to bed too quickly quickly with strangers and people that we have not truly gotten to know their character or intention
@maristella2878 ай бұрын
YES. No sex! Someone else can provide THAT.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Pinkcandy7778 ай бұрын
Waiting till marriage
@Pinkcandy7778 ай бұрын
Amen ❤️
@hgfw92958 ай бұрын
I don't agree 100%. Yes true don't go on a first or second date just so you kniw you dont deal woth some serial killer. However though he might be not sleeping with you for long yet be sleeping with his fwb and in the end also concuer you after them 90 days or so and treat both of you as his fwb on a rotation. True is if the guy has values and only wants a monogamy he will sleep on the first date and still commit.
@The_Sister_Grimm8 ай бұрын
1- refuses to define the relationship 2- you don't come first, instead their problems (work, ex, children, friends, etc) take precedence 3- barely interested in your life/not a teammate 4- their friends or family don't know about you 5- sporadic communication/marginal perspective 6- avoids sharing how they feel about you as a person 7- refuses to talk about future
@kristinej.41828 ай бұрын
Thank you for the list. Very helpful.
@fionadale10117 ай бұрын
I would not be interested in a man that doesn't put his kids first. My kid comes first, before any man and a decent father does the same
@kristinej.41827 ай бұрын
@@fionadale1011 Well said. I completely agree with you. While it might be nice at first if the man gave us most of the attention, it's definitely a red flag if he doesn't know how to put his kids first. My kid comes first too before anyone so I'm with you on this 100%!
@reginasimon87842 ай бұрын
Thank you. This is such a help. 😊
@collettehediger43428 ай бұрын
Sometimes we being alone is better then then trying to hard.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Indeed
@MariahFan098 ай бұрын
I love that you keep calling out the players! It seriously helps women to not be confused by them! Thank you!!!
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
I'm so glad!
@1daltizer8 ай бұрын
You really give great advice. I am a widow. Ive been alone for 2 years. I am not looking for anyone. I dont think there is anyone out there.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
I understand how you feel...
@glamaz0n8 ай бұрын
So here is the red flag: when your conversations revolve around “working on the relationship” and it’s always you adapting and changing, never him, RUN!!!
@natalieweems54552 ай бұрын
So sad... lip service
@travelchannel3048 ай бұрын
If he's not coming to see you, he's not even making an effort.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@tonih48878 ай бұрын
Jonathon I was jumping in my chair when you told this woman in the hot seat the truth. So spot on. We got to love ourselves enough to not accept the BS and move on. Hopefully when she reads the comments she get more clarity. Life is too short. ❤
@cheryladams72888 ай бұрын
Men can compartmentalize, women can't.
@sherriflemming32188 ай бұрын
Both genders can compartementalize.
@kristinahaugen55348 ай бұрын
Move on and be free! You’ll make yourself happy!🙏❤️🤗💪
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@laureenquattrini71607 ай бұрын
I think we as women many times get scared about losing a partner. we end up accepting their bad behavior and staying with them anyway because we figure it’s better than being alone. We all need to make a stand and protect our hearts and our time.
@JonathonAslay7 ай бұрын
Indeed
@elizabethsanchez1458 ай бұрын
I had a boyfriend for two years he was selfish selfish selfish. Only cared about his needs , not a good person at all. I finally dropped him. And I don't miss him at all. 😂😊
@silviadambrosio72344 ай бұрын
There are many narcissists out there,be careful.
@kristinahaugen55348 ай бұрын
You’re so right! When a man is not serious he’s all that you explained! Thank you!!❤️
@cheryladams72888 ай бұрын
My ex husband would not get out of bed to drive me to the doctor when I had covid. That really hurt.
@Kpleaides8 ай бұрын
That is horrific
@sherriflemming32188 ай бұрын
Committment and true love is all in. I will take care of you. Terrible how little these men care.
@lesliestewart62398 ай бұрын
WOW. That's horrible
@Teewriter2 ай бұрын
People were scared shitless by the horrible liars in the CDC, NIH. If you got covid you would die.
@CCrockergirl8 ай бұрын
Is it a sign when he says “ let’s take it easy “
@Gigi-wc3kl8 ай бұрын
Yea it is and it’s not good. He’s using you.
@CCrockergirl8 ай бұрын
@@Gigi-wc3kl but he hasn’t gotten anything from me lol
@Gigi-wc3kl8 ай бұрын
He will be exiting soon
@CCrockergirl8 ай бұрын
@@Gigi-wc3kl exiting what? He’s in another state lol
@marilynlarson97818 ай бұрын
I believe that’s the excuse they use to keep you around while they are swiping on other women!
@SurprisedOstrich-iz2on6 ай бұрын
I'm a 77 year old woman. My male friend is 55. I'm just not into him. He definitely is all about himself. I really enjoy being alone. You nailed my situation. Thank you.
@beegee53058 ай бұрын
So true that dating was always 3 year breaking down process. They don't teach relational skills in school. It's sad. It would have saved a ton of grief and pain.
@karolinah128 ай бұрын
I encourage my daughter to watch & learn from positive teachings on you tube. The more aware girls & women are, the healthier their relationships are becoming..self love means knowing what makes you happy & not settling for less or accepting poor treatment
@stephaniepersin42228 ай бұрын
I’ve never wasted any man’s time because a man I was in a relationship for nearly 3 years in my 20s was wasting my time. After Ken, I decided not to be like him, and after 2 dates with others, I use to make a determination if they would get along and end it. Since my mid 40s I’ve given up, but not all women waste any man’s time.
@taihicks10018 ай бұрын
I keep missing your lives! Just watched & I can relate to Sarah's situation. Was doing all the driving to see him. 45 mins away. It's really unfortunate. I don't deserve bread crumbs. I wish I would have left a long time ago. I have to start loving myself. I deserve someone way better than that. Thank you Jonathon!
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
I understand
@therocknrollcook8 ай бұрын
Absolutely true on all. LMAO when he said ”Men are hunting for vagina.” 😂 WORD.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@jenniferlyn69798 ай бұрын
I appreciate you. Been with a man for 5 years and he refuses to move in, still live separate and no ring in which he knows I want. He acts like my husband always with me then leaves to go to his house every night. I bring up our future and he gets upset.
@SharonElizabethWhitfieldАй бұрын
He might not want to move into your house. Because to him it would give you the upper hand. It would make him look weak. It would make him look like he could not take care of himself. He may feel that he is not financially capable of being a good husband. On the other hand, he just might be a jerk that is using you.
@janereinhardt47158 ай бұрын
I don't feel used 1 bit, but there is no sex, a huge advantage. He has never been married & I don't ever want to get married again, so this works for us! We enjoy each other's company. Neither of us has any children & we are a team.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
I understand
@karenduncan1008 ай бұрын
Wish I had found you years ago. Thank you for opening my eyes and giving me better insight into understanding men's view of relationships
@LisaGemini8 ай бұрын
My biggest beef is selfishness! Everyone I run across wants Lisa the Robot, not Lisa the beautiful woman with a brain. I hate the lying, too. They often claim to be interested in a long-term relationship or even marriage. Yeah,, as soon as they've bedded you, they quit. In fact, I notice little effort compared to guys say 25 years ago. Everyone wants it my way or the highway and should just get a pet! Emotionally immature and entitled people of both genders. They don't love themselves or care about being growers and mature. I hate the games and BS. I believe in growing up, and compromise! I feel like a dinosaur and I'm losing hope.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Yes, and Rob, the robot, too...
@ScrantonsRebeccaRuth8888 ай бұрын
The car metaphor great example. I use it a lot when I talk about relationships how most men trade in their women for a younger, or newer model.
@tresjolieme818 ай бұрын
Sometimes a younger looking woman will win and she could be older
@JusttRaquel8 ай бұрын
Sarah, Trust your gut. You know the answer.
@starVox18 ай бұрын
Have to do " abundance dating", rather than settle for abusive "situationship" which is what I've been getting in the last 2 years since breakup with my longterm relationship. At least this way I can just say men are like trains, another one coming in 15 minutes! Next!
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Yes
@glamaz0n8 ай бұрын
This meant that as long as I stayed mute on relationship issues, all was well, but he would never ever raise any doubts or complaints because as long as I’m in the groove, what’s not to like? This means that whatever issues I raised were mine alone, and he took to responsibility in working together.
@007stinkey8 ай бұрын
I was in a similar situation about a yr ago. I ignored it at 1st but and it took a few months. But it was like you sit over there and as long as you be good. We can have a good time. That is what I felt like he was saying in his mind. I could tell
@pinoniks15 сағат бұрын
We are not stupid for doing too much for someone, we are doing stupid things. We are desperate and lonely. :(
@007stinkey8 ай бұрын
This is the video I needed!!! Thank you for preaching to us!!!❤
@sharynthevegan80298 ай бұрын
Hi! I am new to your channel and I'm finding it very informative and interesting! This particular video hit very close to home. I just let go of a 'spender' after one year. Never met any of his friends, or his family. He always had lots of priorities and I felt like I was never one of them. I made a lot of excuses for him over the year, but I finally realized that it's better to be alone than to be in a relationship that makes you feel like you're not enough. So thank you for validating my decision ❤️
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Thanks for subbing!
@1daltizer8 ай бұрын
I really like this video. It really is an eye opener. In this day and age it is very hard to be single. It is very hard to meet good people. I stay home a lot.
@anaaviles65528 ай бұрын
Sarah you deserve better. Even though you have the answer,it feels so much better when you hear it from us. It’s called support and reaffirmation. Your Jonathon your penance is a joy 😂
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@anaaviles65528 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay you’re welcome! ✨
@audreymickens43908 ай бұрын
I agree Jonathon. I even had that conversation with someone that "I like you" and explained to him that to me it's more important than love. He looked as if he had no idea what that meant.
@bethrook8 ай бұрын
Sarah, you seem like a beautiful person, don't settle anymore!
@Gigi-wc3kl8 ай бұрын
So I’m on millionaire match. Had what seemed to be a nice guy like me. We chatted a little then he stated we are not a match because we have too many different answers to these silly questions the site asks. Ok, best of luck to you 3 weeks later he pops back up with a message ‘so have you found the love of your life’. I responded I’m not looking for the love of my life just a man who won’t waste my time. He responds you’re bitter. Good bye. I blocked him Men are CLUELESS. They are not just ‘winging it’, they are wingless. It seems they expect you to drop everything you’re doing ti answer them. The exchange goes on for a few days then crickets Not this woman! If he can’t wait for an agreed upon appropriate time to speak live, BLOCK! You can think what you want, I do not want these spenders drifting in and out of my chat box.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
As a man, I've experienced the same from women. It's a human thing... 🙏
@janhatfield768 ай бұрын
Hi Jonathan! I just want to thank you for a video I watched a couple days ago. It was about men that are broken. I have been in a relationship for 6 years with a broken man. I was thinking he would wake up and realize what he had in me. You definitely opened my eyes to what the problem was. I just wish I would have seen the signs and realized this sooner. I guess I was one on the way from here to the moon.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@bethbrown61557 ай бұрын
When my children were young, I told them.......when you meet someone and you think you love them, make sure you LIKE them. Loving someone is easy......but if you don't LIKE someone......it won't stand the test of time.
@JonathonAslay7 ай бұрын
Exactly
@beegee53058 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's not about accepting crumbs but one people get attached they get addicted to the "chemicals" and all addictions are hard to crack.
@natalieweems54552 ай бұрын
I hate that I see the crumbs... it that sometimes it feels like toilet paper stuck on their shoe...
@glamaz0n8 ай бұрын
But then when I observed the subtleties of my marriage to husband No.2, I realized that as long as we were ticking along without tweaking, or any conversations about issues, all good. But I was always the one with issues in the relationship, always requesting discussions, but he never ever voiced any concern.
@bonnygoldberg58528 ай бұрын
This resonates. THANK you for your wise words of wisdom. I'm learning so much.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
So glad!
@rousse617 ай бұрын
I have been single for 22 years now, the last ten by choice. We get too involved too fast and men take advantage. If more of us dragged our feet this wouldn't be happening
@sjordan70858 ай бұрын
A rich independent woman does not need a man. And, compromise usually means sacrificing oneself doing what the man wants. Cell phones and the internet, make it easy for folk to compartmentalize their lives, and that goes for men as well as women.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Yes
@deec4112 ай бұрын
I've been dating Ed for over 3 months, he was widowed over a year ago. We communicate every day by text. We see each other 2 to 3 times a week. I've met his kids, his sister and other family members and he always makes me feel cherished. I was breadcrumbed for over 11 yrs and this is a wonderful change. We have not said the L word even tho I feel it, I want him to say it first. he had a wonderful marriage of over 36 years so I'm giving as much space as he needs and letting him set the pace ✨💖✨
@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
Left in tears because ihave to face the facts. At our ages, I thought we had something very special.
@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
I had that happily married, with my deceased husband. I don’t understand how I fell in love with this guy I grew up with with. I rocked him as a baby. Im6 yrs older. Now he’s tall and handsome , has a successful business and drives Indy race cars. Is that my problem?
@kristinahaugen55348 ай бұрын
Yes! Waisting time! I love you’re teaching and caring! You’re wonderful!❤️
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@lisasol06148 ай бұрын
Yes u r right! Its a tough world no one wants to put in effort at all.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Indeed
@glamaz0n8 ай бұрын
I think women respond to love bombing when a man says they’re the best, the smartest, the most beautiful, etc. because they think that such positive input means they want a relationship. WRONG!! They can tell you over and over again how unusual and special you are, but THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.
@karolinah128 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this ❤
@isabelitaranada79518 ай бұрын
Moving on is good...Especially if he is just using you
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Yes
@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
I just today started a journal to try to change this love affair. I just wrote on first page. Rejection is Gods protection. It might help me. Now it’s just tears.
@sherriflemming32188 ай бұрын
Amen Jonathon keeps calling out the users and spenders. I'm worth more than crumbs or men that waste my valuable time. Full committment and aligned or I'm out. The 10 Commandments Of A Secure Functioning Relationship. 👍👍👍
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Will do
@sherriflemming32188 ай бұрын
We love you big brother! ❤️
@LaoSoftware8 ай бұрын
I find that older people who are divorced aren't interested in relationships. They're done. They're exhausted. They want to be left alone.
@sherriflemming32188 ай бұрын
Some are.
@bonnygoldberg58527 ай бұрын
That is not necessarily true.
@kristinahaugen55348 ай бұрын
If you love yourself you don’t need crumbs! You are happy in yourself! Go dating instead and have fun. 🤗
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@heathermcculloch98934 ай бұрын
Two years ago I gave my left kidney to a friend. Through the emotional experience we started dating. Now, two years after the kidney donation I feel like I’ve been discarded. I believe he’s having trouble accepting the gift from me and then accepting my heart. My trouble is that he now has time for everyone but me. I know it’s hard for him to see me as a “lover” because I saved his life. I want to be a woman he loves because he loves her and not a person he loves because I saved his life. I know emotionally, from the guilt, it’s hard to look at me. We’ve broken up and I’ve lost my best friend.
@aprilrushing26468 ай бұрын
I’ve had some enormous blind spots in relationships. It’s awful! I’m doing my best to accept people for who they are and value myself enough to walk away. And oh yes I will no longer accept crumbs anymore!
@valerielarson92598 ай бұрын
Sara, he is absolutely not into you. The fact that nothing has happened in five years is this will go on forever. End it like that because he will hurt you more.
@mariarooney6262Ай бұрын
Yes, Jonathan, you are correct, liking someone is different than loving someone. I believe loving and liking someone, whether child or adult is the ultimate. That brings true joy. You are the only person I’ve heard or read that have said that. Thank you.❤️
@JonathonAslayАй бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@beegee53058 ай бұрын
The breadcrumbing thing...my ex HN never bread crumbed me while dating... but the day we get married he stopped opening my car door and started bread crumbing me. I left shortly after that. He didn't have interest in counseling so that was that.
@MichelleSmith-ji4kv8 ай бұрын
Great session Jonathon and everyone involved. Really found it informative thanks 😊
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@paulafrate95198 ай бұрын
I just ended a 6-year relationship of crumbs...learned so much I was putting up with...ty Jonathon
@MARGO-ze3er8 ай бұрын
You are Very Wise, Jonathan❣️
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
🙏
@JoySpirit8883 ай бұрын
Sarah you are awesome Don't let this guy use you You are awesome you deserve so much better Amen
@RRthee18 ай бұрын
Matt Kahn & Joy Kingsborough "I'm all in. Through thick or thin, I want us to win."
@jinnefersmith53888 ай бұрын
Jonathan i know you remember the saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. It is better to get to know someone for a long time and in different situations without sex.😊
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Yes I do...
@krissyu8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Jonathan. This was one of the best videos I've seen! All of your videos are helpful, but THIS one was especially! ❤
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
You're very welcome!
@yvonneschwartz39298 ай бұрын
It is very simple you built as you go putting the same effort he is putting first! It is not complicated because time is also an investment as nobody lives forever! Don't waste your time with people that do not care for you the way you want them in the future to care for your children! If he can't die for you he won't for your children. You want a father that will feed, provide, protect and take to the hospital your children. If he can't do it for you he will not do it for them. If he mistreat you he will mistreat them!
@mahaliahoyte60388 ай бұрын
Some women lower their standars such that the men are taking them for granted.
@j.t58418 ай бұрын
Yes, you crack me up too. Sorry I turned it in late. Had oral surgery. I did give a little donation. Thank you for all you do and I'm sorry to hear about your son. I had to send it also passed away of SIDS. God bless you.
@karolinah128 ай бұрын
Age doesn't protect us from being used . I hope Sarah got out and lived way better. I got out after a year when i realised he wasn't progressing much . I dont care how many women are "married" around me, i refuse crumbs or cr*p
@stephaniepersin42228 ай бұрын
Some people who have aged know how to not get used. When you don’t take break(s) between relationships is when you don’t get wise on men.
@lostintheseventies79696 ай бұрын
i dont sleep with them straight away-so they cant USE-THE GENUINE ONES STAY
@Pinkcandy7778 ай бұрын
A long friendship 1st!!! At least 2yrs as friends first ❤ a firm foundation
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Who pays during this long friendship?
@Pinkcandy7778 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay ?.pays what
@Pinkcandy7778 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay what if we just jump in then? Before even developing a relationship. Unwise
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
@@Pinkcandy777pay for dates or dinners and stuff...
@Pinkcandy7778 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay when your 1st building just a friendship that's not dating 😊. Yet.
@adelante39388 ай бұрын
hey !! i'm in argentina too! it's been a roller coaster looking for a well-meaning man.. i feel for you jill
@nancyhitzroth59415 ай бұрын
I agree Johnathon that both sexes are accepting of bad behaviour simply because that most of the people out there are broken and not serious about finding a serious relationship. It is extremely difficult to find that person who has it all together. I am not a negative person, but am becoming very disappointed with what I am seeing out there. I can definitely understand why the good people prefer to remain single and not deal with all the crap out there.
@noraknudsen61048 ай бұрын
Great video! Thanks Jonathan for sharing your message with us; you definitely do it from your ❤. I’m learning so much 🙏
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
I appreciate that!
@natalieroseannehadlow47868 ай бұрын
Hi Jonathon, thanks for the work, your guidance is fantastic and helps so much. Good luck with your search for a harmonious, committed relationship, may you be blessed with happiness, love, and all the sweet things that come with doing this precious work, for yourself and in service to humanity as a whole. Remember that you are Eternally Loved, you always have been, and that this Divine source is in finite. Blessed Be.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Awesome, thank you!
@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
You got it right. We spend quality time but it goes no where.my big brothers are all passed away. What do I say to this man I love that we have to break our connections.
@emgee6918 ай бұрын
One question I ask right up front, from the start. How AVAILABLE are you? Likely response? Available, for WHAT? This is where one has to be very honest, personally. My answer...be truly, freely, available to even start or want to put in effort, time, into a genuine, full relationship, long term. With any woman. Whether or not it's me. With any woman. Then listen for what answers you get. In my case, if the guy is already pretty well attached with someone else , me, it's thanks but no thanks. Life is finite, time is precious , I'm not waiting and fussing around with a maybe or perhaps a sort of yes but, no but...yes but.... No buts. Thanks but no thanks. Start from AVAILABILITY.
@bonnygoldberg58527 ай бұрын
I like that idea. Start with availability.
@rozannamurayama96296 ай бұрын
Great video!!! Great information!!! Thank you! 😊
@JonathonAslay6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@AIshanChatterjee7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the right words.. Always felt like that in our relationship but couldn't fathom the clear status of it. Although it ws tremendously difficult to separate myself from the person I love madly..love is still there but without any obligation..any expectations..I m healing 😊😊
@mercedesescoto6287 ай бұрын
Thank thank you for sharing your wonderful information.
@JonathonAslay7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@JusttRaquel8 ай бұрын
Culturally, argentina and south americans and spanish people (like me) are different. So alot of men from the culture find it off putting and emasculating when a woman is "too forward".
@hollymorgan33237 ай бұрын
Thank you once again Jonathon ❤
@anaaviles65528 ай бұрын
Congratulations Maribeth🎉
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Indeed
@Racinegirl8 ай бұрын
How did you get so wise Jonathon, so many things you say are SPOT ON .
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Observing humans for 18 years...
@Racinegirl8 ай бұрын
Well, I'm in your dysfunctional category, but also broke, so I can't join your help group, but I sure enjoy listening to you, I'm glad you don't take yourself so serious either, I truly think your one of the good guys. 🙂
@kellymulligan21578 ай бұрын
Hes serious but still has an ongoing divorce and can't get rid of the baggage...lives with me and I'm not fulfilled..
@Kpleaides8 ай бұрын
Growers are all in threw thick and thin they want to win......
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@cheryladams72888 ай бұрын
The oil/gas job now a web designer sounds very much like the common scam. Extra caution if he says he's from Ireland.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
She dated him...
@j.t58418 ай бұрын
Thank you, Jonathan❤
@TameraEdwards8 күн бұрын
Thank you very much for what you shared today!!
@JonathonAslay8 күн бұрын
You are so welcome!
@MNHMoore17 ай бұрын
OOOOUCH! I really needed to hear this today, especially about the breadcrumbing. 😭😭😭
@MargaretCampbell5838 ай бұрын
Talking to my psychiatrist this morning we agreed that our society here 🇦🇺 is fucked. So many people just don’t know how to create healthy interpersonal interactions. Hopeless !! Margaret again
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Margaret again?
@maggiehaines22038 ай бұрын
Keep up the honest truth in Coaching ❤
@jillmtaylor9229Ай бұрын
If I didn’t get to meet his family…wouldn’t stick around.
@travelchannel3048 ай бұрын
There is NO Friendship in FWB! Men don't really do "friendship" like that. That's so disappointing.
@JonathonAslay8 ай бұрын
Indeed
@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
Much love for what you do❤️🙏
@mahaliahoyte60388 ай бұрын
Any man who makes himself available to every and any woman should be allowed to walk