4 Month Baby And Mama Update

Everett is officially 4 Months old and we are full on into the 4 month sleep regression. I update you guys on where we have been and how I am doing postpartum.
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[@bri_r_f]

“When you talk about how hard something is it means you’re not grateful for it” girl fuck yes. 👏🏼 I’m 6 months pregnant and if I ever have anything negative to say about my experience so far, people like jump on me like “well this is a blessing” “you should be so happy some women can’t get pregnant” it’s really crazy how people push that at others. People can be grateful for a situation they are in and at the same time be upset, disappointed, emotional, stressed, whatever the feeling is. Those feelings hold value too and when people say stuff like that it makes you feel abnormal and that’s not the case at all. You’re entitled to those just as much as the positive feelings. Thank you for saying that it made me feel understood❤️

[@MelissaThompson432]

Tell them to expletive off. That's how you know who your friends are. They support you when you complain. ❤

[@bri_r_f]

@@MelissaThompson432 this is so true ❤️

[@alishabagley4176]

I finally went to the doctor last week to start medicine 10 months postpartum so I can be the best me I can be. I put it off for so long. Thank you for sharing and being transparent! Also I started excusaucers/activity tables once head control was good and steady! Between 4-5 months

[@catherineb5066]

So so proud of you..💝🙏💪🕊taking care of you so you can take care of the little one...no two people are the same nor their needs or experiences. Dont listen to encyclopedia heads listen to your heart and your doctor.. do what works for you.💝

[@HeavyRoller252]

For the jumper it was always suggested to me that as long as they had strong head control that they would be okay in it. So if you feel like he would benefit, and he has that neck strength, I would say give him a try.

[@leahkuten2258]

One baby is an adjustment, having 2 little ones relying on you is just overwhelming. You are so fortunate to have John who helps you in so many ways.

[@MsAmanda1104]

Am I the only one with no little adults but love this channel? Just came on to say you have a wonderful family and you are kicking ass momma!!!

[@LydiaVacs]

You can absolutely “complain” and still be grateful! I am 35 weeks pregnant and it has been very difficult. It’s hot outside. Im exhausted. Im done. I am SO excited to be a mom and so grateful for this baby but it sucks, there is no denying the struggle. I hope the solidarity gives you a little comfort. You’re doing the best you can and that is awesome!

[@lisawoods1352]

If you had a “typical” job you would be on maternity leave still, in Ireland anyhow, so don’t give yourself a hard time over vlogs, just do what you need to do to look after yourself and your family ❤️

[@aprilpfeiffer367]

I'm a old mama mine are all grown so now I'm keep 4 every day so their parents can work and not have strangers with the kids. I put them all in the things to sit or jump not by age but good head control. Just start out just like we do with all things with babies a little at a time so they don't get sore muscles. He is so cute.

[@jeanetter256]

You are doing great Lauren! Mommas are so strong and you are handling it well. I understand that you are just busy momma don’t worry about vlogging your family will always come first and your mental health is so important. Your baby boy is just so adorable!

[@monicafortner89]

Girl! I feel like you just described me last year! We struggled for a few months and sleep trained at 10 months. Best thing we ever did! My son is now 14 months and still sleeps from 7p-6a or so. Thank you for sharing!

[@Sheli-_-]

Yes sleep training is so important. Fortunately my daughter did this from the time my grandson was 3 months old because she knew she had to work. I take care of him during the week while she works so I make sure during naps I follow all the rules. 😊

[@racoulow]

Thank you for the 100% honesty and opennes lauren and the update! :)

[@teesmom0086]

Thanks for the update. Glad you are feeling better. Be gentle on yourself. Take your time you are doing great! Thanks for letting us see Everett love hearing him telling us “stories”🥰 Hope John had a very Happy Fathers Day….and hi Ella hope you enjoy your summer👋😘❤️

[@kellymadison3351]

He is so stinkin’ cute! Take care of YOU, Lauren!

[@MissBellaboo702]

Thank you so much for being so brutally vulnerable and honest about your health anxiety. That was super brave. Know that you are not alone, a lot of us moms feel the exact same way. I personally have had health anxiety for just about all of my life I think. I can’t really measure when it ever started but it’s always been there and every once in a while it rears its ugly head. I’m sure this is completely normal, especially if you are a mom. Stay strong and keep fighting against it. We absolutely love your vlogs and are so happy that you are on an upswing regarding this. Health anxiety is definitely a roller coaster ride for sure.

[@karenbrearley2222]

So good to see you all

[@dianamorelli4288]

Thank-you so much for always keeping it real with us, that’s what makes your videos so good, it’s real life, things aren’t always great, your a great mamma, Everett is so cute, growing up so fast, and Ella is thriving, I hope you guys have a wonderful vacation, maybe Everett will sleep better for you, that would be great, right?

[@jessicamacleod758]

So much love sent out to you all. Weather you post. Once a week or once a month we all enjoy every minute you share❤️

[@tasha4052]

Those baby talks & laughs are just the best! 🥰❤

[@rebekahatchrimi241]

I absolutely enjoyed this vlog Lauren...I'm glad you're so open and honest as always...I struggled with postpartum anxiety and major sleep deprivation for almost a year postpartum because my son didnt sleep well until after he was a year old. I didn't even realize how severe my struggle was until I was out of it...I felt so alone because no one was openly talking about such things at that time...I know these chats are helpful. You're an amazing & beautiful woman!!! The Brazee bunch rocks!!! Ev is the cutest baby boy and the chats with his daddy are priceless.

[@jennyevans8160]

I love the fact you are real, don’t stress about vlogs Lauren you are doing great don’t put pressure on yourself. Go with the flow it will all fall into place, keep being you love you all 💖💖💙💙🌈

[@edithwootton3854]

You are a great caring mother Lucky to have John to relieve you. We do miss you posting. 🙏💖

[@megankingsland2962]

💕 so happy to see you! You look great. 💕

[@traceyfunk7452]

You are one awesome mom. You have every right to share your feelings and share what ever you need too. I enjoy listening. If I lived close by I would come help. Would be fun. Keep sharing and being real. Sharing your heart is so worth it. 💓

[@patriciafolan9387]

It always help to have support. I am glad you did it is wonderful.

[@michellevv46]

Love to hear baby's chatter!

[@KeepingItHopeful]

You are such a great momma. I will be praying for Everett to get some good rest.

[@lisarene1786]

Routines are constantly changing but the good thing to remember is that this phase won't last forever. 😊You got this momma!

[@louisethomson9798]

You got it girl, take one day at a time and enjoy the good, bad,nappies and sleep or not sleeping 🥰 so happy you feel better and able to share the rollercoaster of motherhood and baby development. 😀

[@TeeshaKeen]

What a cutie! Hope you all are having a great summer! Babies grow so fast and I’m sure KZbin is difficult with those growing changes! We’re always here for you when you can film!

[@brennazwicker8688]

You are so so strong!!! These phases will be over soon ☺️

[@lisajustlisa2923]

Lauren I think you are doing a great job! Keep your head up Mama, sending lots of love and encouragement your way. 😄

[@jaimemurray7809]

You absolutely have the right to say what your going through is hard and just because something is hard doesn’t mean your not grateful, the struggle is real just life in general can be hard and if you want to get on here and talk about how hard something or heck even complain this is your channel and your prerogative and no one should judge you for that. Trust me girl the PMS struggle is real I go through all the feeling extremely once a Month and I could imagine PMS’ing on top of what you’re going through so just know there is a community surrounding you especially when the times get tough ❤️

[@amylage4054]

Lord the 4 month sleep regression is terrible.!! It feels like it will never end but of course it does. You’ve got this Lauren.!!

[@emmabicheno]

You should never feel bad for not always being alright, it's ok to not be ok. We've all been there so we get it. It's normal and ok to be fed up, annoyed and stressed etc with life at times and be honest about it. Keep it real girl

[@danettehartsock6366]

God bless you guy's! John doing baby talk was HILARIOUS and your baby boy is SOOOOO STINKING ADORABLE!!!!! I really appreciate your videos and how honest you are about your feelings. LOVE and PRAYERS ALWAYS from Gainesville Florida.❤🙏😊🙏❤

[@meganmcpherson3997]

He is so cute such a happy little man you are doing such a great job with him keep it up

[@pamelar9206]

He is precious 💖 I would never put him down!

[@dayshasquad7153]

You got this momma keep doing what u are doing u rock

[@tasha4052]

Feeding him a little bit of cereal at 4 months could help him. Not just for sleeping but if he's going through big bottles pretty often then he's needing something more. My last two kids were like this. My oldest son was fine with a bottle for the longest time & didn't want cereal or most baby foods lol. You've just gotta find what works for yall. I hope you figure it all out & get through this phase soon. Hugs!

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

Much love and support to you. I’m glad you’re taking good care of your baby and Ella. Continue on your road on getting the silver play button along with interviewing with Chris ULMER of SBSK

[@jenniferfernandez4487]

We started using a Little Einstein bouncer for our son around 4 or 5 months. We stuck towels or blankets in there to keep him upright.

[@Sparker17]

So cute! He looks just like his Daddy! Hope y'all are doing well.

[@itsvee3599]

Our babies are the same age, my boy turned 4 months on the 18th and we put him in the jumper for only 5-10min at a time, I was told on his 4 month checkup that they worry about it bowing his legs so as long as it’s not for a long time its fine, my son LOVES it

[@MamaBearsStorytime]

We put our daughter in her bouncer for the first time yesterday. She's exactly 1 month younger than your son. She loved it! Stayed in it for 20 minutes and kept wanting to go back.

[@katelynhenrikson9239]

Babies are HARD. I am too a sleeper and don’t do good with interrupted sleep. Some nights both of my kids would wake up, it was so so hard. Hang on for the ride, don’t be hard on yourself and go with the flow! Like you said, once you figure it out, it changes again lol. Do what feels good for your family and you. On the sleepless nights I always told myself “it’s a phase, it’s only a phase. You can do this” love your Channel!!

[@brennazwicker8688]

I nanny for a family and they have a jumping swing that hangs from the ceiling and he’s been using it since he was like 5 months. I think you can use any jumpers when they have a bit of control of their head like holding their head up!

[@alison5390]

Lack of sleep causes anxiety and lots of problems .My baby wouldn’t sleep unless I was holding him.I became broken after a year.My healthcare worker told me baby’s need to learn to fall asleep without you.put them to bed and walk out.then only enter the room for a dream nappy change if they cry don’t go in. My husband basically had to told the door to stop me going in and I stayed awake all night watching the monitor. But it took 2 nights for him to learn to put himself back to sleep.He was such a happier baby. It really works but it’s the hardest thing to do. It also worked on my second child. So I know it works but not everybody will agree it’s a good thing to do. For me it was the last straw I wasn’t coping.

[@powderandpaint14]

You can do angentler version where you put them down and go in if they cry and comfort them etc but just don't pick them up or take them out of the room (unless time for a feed or change)

[@ashliehinkle2501]

He is the sweetest!! I waited until 16 months postpartum with my first to get help and it was so hard. Raising a baby is so hard. I didn’t expect it to be as hard as it is.

[@autumnjohnson7839]

i started my daughter in her little bouncy thing at like 5/6 months old an she LOVEDDDD it!

[@susanbressi1971]

Absolutely love Everetts little “Chat Session” with his Daddy!!! 🥰 Like you, I thought it was too soon for my daughter to be in any kind of walker or anything too but turned out it was just what we needed, she was so active she just wanted to go go go with those arms and legs all the time. If you’re Going to be using one eventually I say give it a shot and see how he does with it. Maybe he’ll tire himself out! 😂 ❤️ from Pa!!!

[@debbiegreenwell6392]

your babies are precious and you do what you need to do,we will wait you are wroth it

[@carolinerobertson3599]

Your doing great it is hard at this stage but you will both be fine xx

[@elizabetha6234]

I started my kids at different ages in a fisher price piano seat. I go by how they are holding their head up. If he seems he's doing well around 5 months I would wait a little bit. ❤ I agree with you about the waiting on cereal. I waited till 6 months with most of my kids.

[@louiseshorey1840]

mommy and me groups were once the thing to do. Since Corona people either aren't able or unsure with newborns. To me this is how you're able to fill that void along with many other new mom. You're helping others and most of all yourself. Keep doing you friend,this too shall pass ❤

[@Bethnesjourney]

My boys both started the excersaucers around 4-5 months. They loved it.

[@grow.prop.repeat]

Thank you for your honesty ❤️ I’m pregnant with my second and postpartum always makes me more nervous then birthing the baby!! We put our daughter in the bouncer that they lay back in and can kick- probably 4 months. She enjoyed looking at the toys that hung in front of her. Eventually she figured out out to kick her foot to bounce. I didn’t do a jumper til there was head control.

[@lisanagata1670]

Your human and all these feelings your having is because your human...its okay take it day by day , that's all you can do..Enjoy the day as I always say ...it's a good day to have a good day ❤..Everett is so precious and Ella as well . Just breath and take it moment by moment. My kids were eating cereal at 4 mths and they 21&22 now . Also have a 26 step son . Been in his life since he was 3 and his bio mom died when he was 6 so Im mom now...they didnt give us an instruction guide on being a mom , we do the best we can and that's ok. NOBODY IS PERFECT ..WE ARE HUMANS THAT GO THROUGH UP ,DOWNS,GOOD,BAD AND WE LEARN EVERYDAY NEW THINGS . JUST BE YOU AND ALL WILL BE OKAY 😊❤❤❤❤🙃

[@brookeburks6268]

I got my son a jumparoo when he was 4 1/2 months old he loved it. Just put a blanket behind him to take up the extra space. Sell the swing & get a jumparoo. 😀👍

[@brittanysanford2129]

As soon as I was confident in his head strength and he could do tummy time for at least 15 minutes. My son was just before 4 months when we moved to California from Ohio. This kept his up and moving and active while I fixed a home out of shambles. Highly recommend because I think it really helped eisen with core strength needed for crawling (he has hernia like a little old man)

[@marcelagalone]

Hugs Girl!!! Thanks for share...

[@heydanixo]

I feel ya girl on 4 months being rough. My little one was born 2/24 so we’re right there with you. We’re struggling with reflux really bad this month, she is literally 9.13 lbs :( to the GI specialist we go to hopefully get some help. My mental health was really great postpartum until recently. We got this!

[@stefaniyslas]

My son is going to be 4 months on July 8th and I bought him a jumper 2 weeks ago and he loves it!! He gets so much Energy out. Fisher price jumperoo says it’s for 3 months and up

[@alyssaoglesby6666]

We started our daughter in the jumper at right about 4 months old. It was literally the best purchase I made, she was an active little girl!

[@megan6574]

I put my babies in exercisers around 3 months..just prop some pillows or blankets around him.

[@ashleereed7902]

very cute family and Good luck

[@shanelle4451]

I say put him in the jumper. I have the jolly jumper and used it as soon as my baby was able to hold herself up in it well enough. You’ll know if he’s ready or not. The jolly jumper was a life saver though my daughter loves it.

[@LaurenGott0516]

I put my son in tha jumper when he was 4 months old. At first he didnt really jump to much but about 2 weeks into him being in there he started to realize thts wat its for. I think if you think hes ready go for it. Every child is different in size and strength at this age but he seems big enough and strong enuff for a jumper. I would deffinelty try it. It will probably make him more tired for naps and bedtime too. Btw he is so freaking ADORABLE i cant. Im 6 months pregnant with my 2nd boy rn and its been 8 years since iv had my 1st. He makes me want this bby out rn even tho im soo nervous cause its been a while. But you gave me such motivation to kno tht i got this. Your a great mom. 👍😍

[@susanharris1285]

He's perfect💖💖

[@melodiethornock1406]

Ev is adorable.

[@samanthachavez1358]

Hi! New commenter here 😁 we started putting Ellie in her infantino sit, spin, and stand, play thing just before she turned 5 mos! She was outgrowing her swing too. She mainly used it for naps from about 4 mos on & lately she's been preferring her crib for naps! I've been wanting to get a jumpy too so if anyone has any suggestions I'd be grateful!

[@deborahfont8697]

Hi Lauren, you are a great mom, you are doing a great job. Usually when they can sit with or without pillows around him he should be good in a stationary saucer. The Johnny jump up has too many negatives from professionals. When you do decide on a walker, don't leave him in for very long, it can affect him learning to walk because they push their chest forward and it causes problems in the end.

[@chriswhite3340]

Everett, oh my goodness!! Look at that face ❤❤

[@sarapadilla508]

Enfamil A.R was a lifesaver for us. I tried breastfeeding and unfortunately my daughter had such horrible acid reflux that she couldn't even keep breastmilk down. Our pediatrician put her on Enfamil A.R. and it was such a game changer. I know its so annoying to get so much "advice" but it really helped us out so I thought I would share. You're doing great momma!!!

[@kaylatreptow1822]

Omg he is just so adorable!! My little man will be 5 months on July 2nd and I feel like your boy and mine are so much alike! Mine is sleeping good so far but have been a little fussy but I think he is getting teeth. I just started giving him spoon fulls of some food we did avocados mixed with breast milk. He seems to like it so far but it is more just taste of food not a meal yet. Also I have started putting him in the baby jumper seat because he love to move and be upright

[@stepheniehyde8508]

Sending lots of love xxxxxxx

[@peanutlexie8329]

First let me say you look beautiful today as always. I put my baby in saucer / walker at 4 months. Maybe need blankets to prop up. Also has the pedi said anything about him needing to eat so often ? 8 Oz every 2 hrs is a lot. And maybe his discomfort is he’s over full. Causing gas pain. He is such a beautiful boy and so sad to know he hurts. Never feel bad voicing your feelings. You are awesome parents and no one can ever question that. Praying for you girl. Love you ❤️.

[@lorimitchell9025]

Where are your head bands from? They are super cute and I would love to purchase them

[@anitathompson6571]

This sounds strange, maybe, but when it comes to worst-case scenario anxiety (I may not be here for my kids, etc), I actually get through this by literally imagining this could happen. It’s an exercise in my mind creating different scenarios of how things would work out…..because I wouldn’t want my family to quit, right? And the best gift you can give them is hope and encouragement to “keep going.” No matter what life serves-up. And then as I imagine these scenarios, I get peace! Things happen every moment of every day to families. And allowing it to rob us of joy and peace is the unfortunate part. That worry “energy” can be redirected, in theory. But this exercise helps me in droves. And yes, right now our kids are adult and independent. Next up, our elderly parents and how their end of life will go. I use this same imagery to help me sort through many different ways it may happen and how we all continue afterwards. I see my peers losing their folks weekly…..They are in their late 80s, as are mine. So the constant change is a lifetime challenge. Do we ever just “coast?” I wish. Hang in there, I hope you can find rest and peace (maybe the latter happens first?). You’ve got this!

[@carolynneyounan571]

Hey Lauren, maybe check with your chiropractor about Ev and an exersaucer. I think the concerns surround posture, stability of the neck and spine etc. They’re life changing for sure! A great help for mama’s and dada’s sanity. I found that the next older child was so interested when the exersaucer reappeared for the little sib, so them playing with it on the outside also helped to entertain the baby on the inside! It WILL be okay. It’s okay to express how you feel. Normalizing the hard is helpful to others. It also makes us appreciate the great stuff!

[@karccrn]

Ev is soooo cute!!!!

[@beautifulandbold7117]

Jumperoo with pillows and blankets. Did it with all 3 of my boys around 4 months. They all were crawling by 7 mo and walking by 10 mo.

[@jennyevans8160]

Oh my heart ev u r perfect 💙💙

[@tinainman8776]

Omg he is soooo cute. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@susanninos]

My son used the saucer at 4 months but I used a burp cloth for his back and a folded blanket under his feet if he didn’t reach the floor!!

[@lilifriio452]

He’s getting so big, he’s beautiful, I wonder if his not sleeping through the night and crying, has to do with the beginning of teething? I love when you said that sometimes we have to relinquish control and lean on our village…best advice for me!

[@christinabirtwell1343]

Your a amazing momy hard days will come but those are the days you will grow from .

[@brookes4148]

Hi Lauren! Those bouncers have stages for different ages. So the lowest stage is lower for younger babies. As long as he can hold his own head up and his feet touch the floor in the bouncer he should be good!

[@meganmcpherson3997]

As long as everyone is ok that’s all that matters It’s understandable that you worry about your family

[@chriswhite3340]

I'm just wondering if its possible that you could have some PTSS from your infection & all? I had a physical injury drama years ago & was just told by my doctor, this last year he believes I am suffering from it. You are a great mother, a beautiful woman & so strong!

[@sammichmaker4021]

Right there with you mama, only difference is mine is 7 weeks...and my 2 year old has decided if baby girl is awake He needs to be awake! 😭😑

[@tameygray7609]

Lauren Thursday is June 24th I have a breast biopsy appointment Thursday morning ! Ella and Everett are precious ! Don't forget to give yourself some grace !

[@lisamurawske4168]

Tamey...thoughts and prayers for you❤

[@tameygray7609]

@@lisamurawske4168 thank you !

[@angelapapp758]

Prayers🙏

[@memyselfandi6525]

If he’s holding himself up and not going to fall forward and bang his head go for it. We sometimes would pack a blankets around the body to prop them up. You’re there watching so long as he’s not unsupervised… you’re the momma. Make the decision and screw what works for other people.

[@karenofchinick5324]

As long as he has great neck control he’s able to go in the excersaucer but Make sure his little feet touch to floor so his legs don’t dangle and fall asleep. Momma here to 5 and have cares for many other full time for over 25 years.

[@tashawoods4614]

I never went by age I judged it based off of how my child was doing if he seems ready I would try one it will only help build up leg muscle

[@amandajohnson9659]

Your doing a great job. What about a bouncer seat he can move it toys in front of him? A baby exersaucer he needs head control. Do you think he is teething why he not sleeping? My son starting teeth at three months and doctor noticed it before I did he wasn't sleeping.

[@helenruzicka6548]

I put my son in a seat of any kinda when holding head up but it also depends on if his Dr and you come together and agree if it's fine for him

[@debzhughes5270]

If you don't mind me asking what is 4 month sleep regression my boys are now 28 33 I don't remember a thing like that they both slept and I didnt see any difference at 4 months

[@patriciamora2915]

Do you have a sound machine.

[@beverlyvincent2620]

Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

[@theblendedtruth1408]

My daughter was a water at night maybe skip or shorten his last nap ? Also best advise my dr gave me and this was baby number 4😂 was babies naturally wake In Cycles but if they are tired they will go back to sleep within 20 minutes. So I started waiting it out and now she sleeps and even if she woke up she went back to sleep on her own. I also try to not get her screaming because then they associate bed with negative I try to be super happy when I get him!