4 Powerful Steps to Make Him Chase You So That He Becomes Yours Forever

[@bobbiellison4315]

The only reason all these games are necessary is because you're trying to hook up with people not meant for you. If you don't want to be alone, by all means increase your odds and play the game. If you find someone really perfect for you and you're both as into each other as the other it will just flow and you won't have to remember any rules.

[@amiebishop3739]

I love that there are no games in this video! ❤

[@Beausbabealways]

You f you don’t like the tactics why be on this page? I’d love to know how many natural connections you can count that worked out? The odds are the same regardless. Being naive doesn’t change the odds!

[@Princess15732]

1. Showing interest 2. Rewarding him 3. Allowing for his progress 4. You being attainable. Becoming warmer and friendlier over time. When he's cold you should be cold and when he's hot you become hot. You pace his interest 5. Open up by him sometimes so that he can open up 6. Let him know when he does sth attractive

[@roe9275]

Thank you

[@maureenrobertson6059]

Wait! Why is it only HER submitting and giving into his needs...maybe they don't belong together dsrlin

[@angelsattachedtoangst7576]

Lean back and show some self control. If that’s all I have to do right now, that’s pretty straightforward 🤔👍

[@DeeDee-nl7no]

I just stopped thinking about my crush after 9 months and a huge relief was lifted off my shoulders, I was less emotional and relaxed. Now I can just be me around him and oddly I was able to connect better.

[@joeldwest]

No marriage, no sex. No money, no marriage. Real men protect and provide. A grown man doesn't expect another momma.

[@cherylwilliams9202]

Hi Cheryl from Trinidad, my guy & I have been seeing each other for the past 4 years. He encourages me to improve my life financially, & work wise like getting a better job that allows us more time to see each other. What do I do to encourage the relationship to grow after 4 years

[@kandacemccrary8842]

This!!!!!!!! Very well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@tweetybird1970]

I've been dating my child hood sweet heart he found me after 32 years we've been dating for three years how do I get him to commit even further

[@carolineward5153]

Mat you are the best out there hands down. You make things clear as a bell. You speak at a pace that the information can be taken in. You are very knowledgeable. Not harsh it needs to be said straight. Great stuff. Thank you.

[@christinethompson3282]

This is unbelievable. Almost everything you said was exactly what I needed to hear. And I was really a little shocked at how off base I have been! Thank you so much!

[@melodietaulman4774]

It's a lot of hard work just to have a man in your life...lol

[@leonoravillanueva6268]

I'm 60 years old my boy friend is 54 were ok in2years byt now were getting cold he likes to chased woman thank you i love your doing

[@connienamutebi9451]

Melodie Taulman .right!? headaches just.

[@suelong9935]

No shit

[@elizabeth4275]

Forget about it and go to work

[@blondiegurl9655]

Cause roles have changed. Women are stronger now

[@Meegsi21]

I’m listening to you while I’m working and your giggle is infectious 😂

[@mariapancorbo4952]

Thanks Mathew, I have done, I think, as much as I can, it’s been almost 3 weeks and had not contacted me. I guess is the latter option that is coming, the one that we do not want to hear, he was great though.

[@MatthewCoast]

Welcome! Thank you too for sharing, Maria.

[@jelizabethpetrie6656]

I think for women to strike a balance and not show too much interest. Is to be the one to end the conversation first. To give the ‘I like you, but I don’t need you’ vibe. It can be a sweet game of cat and mouse. If he turns beet red. Perfect indication of interest. And if you feel all glowing inside with him and the energy builds it’s proceed ahead but in limited amounts. Enjoy the beginning, it’s the fun enticing stage. Savor it. Too many people rush things. Lean forward, lean back, lean forward, lean back...😉 What are the videos where pair-bonding is explained & discussed? Thank you. You give the best explanations out there. 🙏❤️

[@MatthewCoast]

If you're coming from a space of confidence and strength, the only thing you need to do is pace.

[@lesleykeirn7137]

Thank you so much.

[@carolineward5153]

The best out there yes i agree.

[@blondiegurl9655]

My boyfriend up n left ... he’s gonna he interested when he sees another car in my driveway ☺️

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Maybe you should want the guy parked in your driveway...

[@didil.8155]

is it there now?

[@sgmermaid3189]

His love is greater for your car than for you...u r nothing more than just the provider of his love for car. Common sense.

[@camelia2722]

I feel the attraction between us but when I leave he doesn't initiate or show any interest but when I'm in front of him he does. I dont know

[@Miko-yw5xt]

forget him, sounds like he's giving enough so you chase...x

[@pattyswain380]

I'm interested in a spiritual relationship too

[@antoinettehellyer9522]

Love Jesus He is The Way The Truth And The Life. There is love and there is love And Then There IS HIS LOVE!. His LOVE NEVER FAILS.

[@pattyswain380]

Women love a faithful man . A man that can keep his own . Committed to work helping people that takes care off his self . And a man likes the same gentleman spirit

[@rudinaalbania]

powerful steps: treat him like a baby, hero, king, and make your mood depends on him... if he is cold, be cold if he is hot, be hot... how about my personality? or it doesn't matter ...

[@shahyawar3709]

No...

[@kimgordon3695]

A much better place is in your true elevated, non game playing place. High value wins in the long run.💙

[@natashamahoney9659]

I learnt that having expectations that puts stress on the guy 2 do what he dont want 2 do..causes disappointment...in both people

[@lenalewalker3660]

You crack me up. Good advice. I HAVE to edit this. DO NOT EVER send a man flower's, unless you WANT him to run in the opposite direction of YOU. Dear God.

[@carenyousef2540]

You are really amazing! I found your video randomly! I hope I did find it previously Please do many of them 🥰

[@MatthewCoast]

Warm welcome, Caren

[@shonaboris6832]

Always best to trust your instincts when your with someone there is a difference to be a friend or a dating partner, being a friend is someone to just be a friend but,, long term goal is a deeper level of connection in your heart

[@candacebutler7475]

I could never be clingy I know I was in my younger years but I know to give space give them time to miss you so that gives him time to come and reconnect with you

[@sheronavis4465]

You are like saving my life right now! You are so great, thank you!!!

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

That is truth. We need to get what we want out of it too. If they can’t or won’t, then we need to find or wait for someone who can and will. The thing is, I’ll be alone before I hang around continuing to give when I’m not getting what I need too. Like I was fine before they came along, and I’ll be fine if they are no longer around. It’s cuz I know I don’t need them, I just want them and would like to have them around, but only if they are willing to do their part.

[@meaning-mcmeaning]

You are beautiful!!!

[@lihong9389]

Your material is genuine and useful. I wish I had watched this 7 years ago.

[@MatthewCoast]

So nice of you, Li! Thank you for watching!

[@mkglee2622]

What a lucky woman you have.. Thanks, we really appreciate you. 💙

[@yr5425]

Just be yourself, If he’s the one, he will stay. Love is not supposed to be so complicated. If you do all this with the wrong guy, is a waste of your time.

[@MatthewCoast]

You can be yourself AND learn how to better connect with a man, they don't contradict each other.

[@edithliggayumaniago6006]

Hi Matthew! I am just new here but I found you so good and precise in giving tips and advices.You speak clearly and pronounce words so right. I am beginning to love your channel and I'll be your regular follower from now on. More Power!

[@madasafari]

1tt. T t. T. T.

[@mayhampson4896]

I have had two long life relationships but they have not made me happy I have put up with giving but not receiving , I have had lots of admirers , as I never realised I was so attractive , and happy naturally,But men can be possessive jealous and bring you down I was so young , learnt too late about the games they play .Years ago society was so different ,I never had much self worth .i was always a giver ,not materialistic . Got hurt very easily. Now things have changed they have reversed . I have become more sensible ,still kind but independent .always been on my own when I was a teenager ,but dragged down through divorce . Now I have my children ,my sons to tell me what men are like . They lie , cheat , and are very selfish , these are only the men I knew . My ex wanted me back , I said no ,he really cried he realised what he had lost, but too too late, we had four grown up children , I wanted a father figure who would be kind, considerate and take care of me. .i never found one . But I have companionship in my old age , but missed being loved .have come to accept it now ,at lest I have never been cheated on .

[@Fitlover24]

You really open up every detail in your video wit examples......it really really helps...please keep up th good work

[@rebeccamilstone9651]

I have been in a relationship almost 5 months. We are long distance. We used to talk everyday and call and text. We see each other on weekends. He has stopped calling completely!!!! Only text??? I feel like I am getting crumbs of what used to be. This video has very good ideas and points!

[@jenpia7216]

Well said Matt. But I think it’s also great when the woman is equally attracted and both can learn to ignite the sparks for each other overtime.

[@queentop5221]

I know of a great man who helped me restore my broken 💔 relationship back, without know stress or delay.

[@queentop5221]

If you need help try mess..age him

[@queentop5221]

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[@queentop5221]

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[@alinaitweglorious6073]

Ooh Mathew l love yr English pronunciation And the video too Thanks so much

[@jlandrum80able]

I cant express how much this man knows what he's talking about!!! Thanks for all the info!!!😍

[@MatthewCoast]

You're welcome!

[@carolineward5153]

I agree hes so knowledgeable

[@riahall45]

I say take good care of yourself and the rest will follow.

[@martaorzechowska2860]

Wow! You catch the core issue in women. Good job to notice things you're talking about! That's a wise speech 😊

[@MatthewCoast]

Thanks!

[@lunaluna9343]

My guy hot and cold for two months no stop metting up three times a week and then he ghost. It's been going on over a year and a half. The last time we met he told me that he is in love with me and then ghosted!

[@DoubleZippea]

I like how you explain if he’s not going to give you what you wanna walk away that wasn’t harsh or rude that was straight to the point short and sweet facts

[@joansheekey9874]

Ah I don't understand men but yu no what don't chance him our text let him chance yu belive me if he wants yu hell do it hunters they are the dog chances the bone not the bone chaceing the dog just a goid saying yur wort it 💓💓💓

[@andreabellott115]

That was excellent excellent advice about being exhausted I'm going to lean back all the way and see what happens

[@littlefarmerette123]

Good grief please get to the point of the video. So much excess repetitive rambling.

[@shonaboris6832]

I believe he will make a long term goal to be with the woman he loves to do what ever it takes to be with her on a deep level to make a real commitment with her and be actively involved in her family life and with her social circle

[@sophiasala352]

"Aaand... Here we gow" 🙄🙌 LMAOOOO!!!! 😂🤣😘

[@serrinatirrell6163]

Why do they come on so strong and then fade out?!! You mentioned in the beginning of the vid

[@lilianebrown4262]

Hello from France Matt, I am listening to your great advices and like seeing your cute baby face especially when you smile.

[@MatthewCoast]

Thank you! 😃 Glad to have you here.

[@enchantedrose7595]

What an Excellent explanation!!! Where have you been all my life 😁

[@jeanettemaneclang3839]

I dont understand why he complains and takes it as ignoring him if I dont chat because i was aslept during the night.But when I chat him on my day time, he just see it sometimes and dont reply....but if he wanted to do video chat ,its my dawn tgats why I couldn't reply most of the time....our time difference affect our communication..

[@dtakaki851]

Hi Mat! Love your advice's and inputs.. Looking great as always.. Love relistening and hearing your engaging presentation! Kudos!!

[@edithliggayumaniago6006]

Thank you for all the wonderful and useful Tips and Advices. More Power to you!

[@leandrageneveleandra5510]

Great video, you won a new subscriber 😉 (I am watching you from Geneva, Switzerland). I wish you a nice summer

[@hannaheinvold6541]

I got a boyfriend bcus of this Thank you😚 (Edit: wow! I got pinned!)

[@moraykedarosi3849]

Thanks, watching from Paupa New Guinea. Love all your advice!

[@MatthewCoast]

My pleasure, Moray

[@bonniecrawford4870]

I don't believe that love is a game , and I am not a manipulator I let a special friend be open to me and I to him. I am thankful I shared with no expectations. Our friendship developed into deeper relationship He is to be thanked. He told me to be me. I'm unique in that I am brutally honest / desire commitment " there are no good men they are dead or married ". One of my early comments then I was open to communicating being real though it is long distance I am deeply in love. Your words are refreshingly honest. Thank you. Bjc. I ran track for co Ed. Thought that's the only place they chase me. Lol. When they trailed me in the half mile. Smiles. He's got a sense of humor as I do 😂😆😆😆 so glad for humor

[@Honeybeethatsme]

Learned so much, thank you Matt! 😊😊

[@janetdiaz8916]

I think this process will work, but I also think if he is the right one for you there will be a flow and it won't take alot of effort on your part. If you are finding yourself having to force all these actions with alot of effort, then he is prob the wrong guy.

[@kimgordon3695]

Men in the virtual tour are losing in the long run when they can't put away their personal device long enough to connect in reality. 😢

[@kimgordon3695]

55:50

[@melodietaulman4774]

You're speaking to me in soo many ways. Thank you for this video ❤️

[@MatthewCoast]

You're welcome!

[@chrispuetz3564]

Hi this is Russell from Missouri thank you for all your help

[@jennyhoang1704]

Thank you for your help. All of ur shows are amazing,

[@MatthewCoast]

You are very welcome

[@lpngolfer]

One thing is he can’t be a narcissist!

[@victoriadaoana3055]

Hi..thank you for your great advice

[@MatthewCoast]

You are so welcome!

[@mildredcooley9101]

Hello 👋, this is a very interesting topic. Thanks 😊for sharing .

[@MatthewCoast]

You are so welcome!

[@darlenewells2510]

Hi, you are wise beyond your years...Thanks so much, I'm learning from you.

[@pascalledouven7022]

Super video!!! One off the best a heard

[@MatthewCoast]

So glad you liked it.

[@marlimarlirni]

I like the way this guy explain things

[@marieanne6600]

I like you're video because a.lot of people will learn, we had the same perspective regarding love relationship.This video is resonate to me, you're ADVICE is what I did always to man who'm I attracted for eversince. I had strong personality but I can go with the flow depends on the situations.I'm always want BALANCE and always telling the TRUTH and respect myself, I valued myself and want JUSTICE in every situation if I'm betrayed specially with the man I love, that's why my ZODIAC sign is LIBRA and it's fit to my personality.I was attracted to a narcissists eversince I was in relationship and they're all comeback to me because I learned from my experience. I'm a woman who'se very independent and have confident, I did not obsessed with a man instead I obsessed with work, I'm a workaholic woman I'm full of energy physical, emotional mental and spiritual.I know how to transform immediately negative energies to positive because I'm grounded and connected spiritually, I'm always listening to my spirits guide they pushed me away from negative and toxic people ,Im divinely protected since childhood.Thank you to this reading, awesome

[@angelitajackson4893]

Great advice. TY. I will stay tuned in to your channel.

[@MatthewCoast]

Glad it was helpful!

[@alexandraalejos5811]

I dont know how i got here but this video is so fuckin good

[@kato6125]

Hi. Thx for sharing your perspective. Very insightful

[@fabiennegaillez]

You still are the best Matthew ❤

[@MsGigi777]

This is truly brilliant advice. Thanks so much, Matt!

[@MatthewCoast]

You're welcome!

[@stanzindojay4836]

Hi

[@carriethompson9826]

I don’t understand. How do you do these things? I need examples!

[@clintonmask743]

I know of a powerful sorcerer who help me out

[@amparitogalvez1758]

Hello watching you here in Melbourne Australia

[@MatthewCoast]

Good to have you here. Thanks for watching.

[@shonaboris6832]

I agree with you he feels appreciated and valued he will do more for the woman who he loves

[@ofwbj8795]

Hi. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

[@MatthewCoast]

You are so welcome.

[@antoinettehellyer9522]

My ex catchphrase was I've Got to Go. After I Married Him. I spent the day getting the House and myself ready for His return, to be the best , he said he'd be back at 6.00 but always back at 11.00 or later. So I devorced Him,after being dumped every night. Lonlyest time of my Life!. He invited me to His wedding x I was Happy for Him. Then He wanted me back a few days before his wedding, but I didnt want years of being dumped by Him. So moved away. Better on my own.

[@whiteisacolortoo7427]

I'm very attracted to a man 10 years younger than I am. We have locked eyes a great deal and gently joke with each other, share frustrations, laughs, and get along really well. I'm scared to death if I give him stronger signals that he will be repelled. It gets deeper. He is my contractor. I'm also petrified of screwing up a really close friendship by crossing the line. We aren't young, but very active people. What to do??

[@adj5767]

Be patient. Something will break open soon enough.

[@whiteisacolortoo7427]

@@adj5767 Thanks. Patience is clearly something I have NOT been good at. We all want it NOW. Of course you're right. Would you mix the two? Work and intimacy?

[@andreabellott115]

Matt I wish somebody would have told me that information 18 years ago when I let him move in and he was supposed to get me the ring and we were supposed to get married never happened

[@sgibson806]

My situation: i worked with this guy that i liked And he liked me. Everyone at work saw that the was chemistry and that we were together. However he actually had a girlfriend. Fast forward. 5 months after I quit i finally got over him. He contacted me. We hung out more got to know each other more. When things get close. Nothing intimate yet, he goes a wall on me. For a couple days to a week. I feel like what did I do. He even said that we're together. But if he says that. Why is he ghosting me for that long when he said we're together and things are great when we're around each other

[@catsmeowtaurus8313]

Hey sunshine does he ghost and then come back like nothing happened

[@sgibson806]

@@catsmeowtaurus8313 yes he does.

[@evelynpendall9507]

Sexual interest and having to do it?!? The story goes that many men when they get what they want they disappear. What do you mean by giving them what they want?

[@candycorn9976]

Evelyn Pendall...My thoughts exactly. It does not appear that he knows what love and a relationship is. All he knows is gettin what he wants. Pretty sad.

[@Jennyshengm]

We women are price, let the man do the work to earn us little by little rewarding men after they done it

[@deborawalsh7750]

Q

[@MatthewCoast]

Sexual interest is the carrot that they NEED in order to invest. If he feels like you're just going to friend zone him, he'll end up leaving if he feels like sex is never in the picture.

[@ebonyheart2931]

@@MatthewCoast ok so what happens if you've been together for 8 months ( in and out of a relationship but always around ) so you've already had sex and he wants to have sex with you but doesn't value or appreciate you. Says he wants us to be friends first when we've already been in a relationship. Do you stop having sex with him and let him have sex with other women? Do you sleep with other men when he's said he didn't want you sleeping with other men? What do you do when there's already emotions involved?

[@Waterlilys.]

This video is helpful, to say the least!!!! 😊

[@MatthewCoast]

Glad it was helpful!

[@bektiller1622]

Running, drinking game sounds hilarious! I've always been a cross country runner and have friends who do marathons. However I can't imagine running through a forest and making it through mud pools, like I've experienced before, with a trail of flour or anything plus a drink in my hand lol! Can only imagine it would get v messy! Would I do it on a pub crawl, yes for sure... but not in a competitive sport! Lol!! 🍾🤦‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@angelag2662]

How long should I wait before I realize he's not interested?

[@MatthewCoast]

How long have you waited?

[@angelag2662]

@@MatthewCoast its been a week today

[@sgmermaid3189]

@@angelag2662 Its still early n take baby steps..no need to rush

[@Babe18-vr1os]

Coach Matt how bout it it's already 67 days after the breakup? He's still not chasing me

[@debramedina9347]

Boyfriends and close friends don't get husband benefits. Boyfriend and close friends are for courting to learn if there's compatibility, then lifetime commitment via marriage then husband wife benefits all the days of your life. Prematital sex is just that, without love, without commitment. Just for a moment, then he'll leave and go to the next. The player syndrome.

[@Miko-yw5xt]

I've been in situations that turned me off. I know there not all creeps but I can't take men seriously...x

[@angelicatorres3892]

Mathew Coast I’m a female with so much emotions, & Ive Been single for almost 7 yrs. Recently I met the Man of My Dreams. He’s a gentlemen a very responsible single father & in the short time I’ve known him, We’ve been on the phone 24/7 We go to sleep on the phone & wake up to each other on the phone. His kids love Me I Love his kids. After spending quality time, he’s still saying all the right things but on the phone now,our conversation has taken a nose dive? It’s making me overthink & I cannot figure out wat happened here, at the same time I’m trying so hard to not show that it’s bothering Me, but We just sit on the phone and listen to Eachother breathe & for once I don’t know wat to say? Any suggestions how do I get our conversation to be fun and exciting where We feel like Bestfriends or feel like We don’t want to hang up anymore, & wat things should I avoid saying or better yet wat are the things I should say to reignite without looking or feeling desperate?

[@queentop5221]

I know of a great man who helped me restore my broken 💔 relationship

[@queentop5221]

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[@queentop5221]

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[@queentop5221]

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[@shelleypetersen1608]

Matt, you talk about telling him when he does something that's a turn on...what about if he does something repeatedly that's a turn off? Do we say something or ignore it??

[@Miko-yw5xt]

say something, I did, didn't see him for dust but no one wants to be with a turn off...x

[@Shasha8674]

A woman may want flowers so assumes a guy may want flowers. They maybe wishing he would send her flowers and is showing him what to do. Flowers shows her mood.

[@frnandalimon2158]

Hi I have a problem with my guy we got into an argument because I was texting a girl that he knows because of his ex and then because I put pictures of me on his Facebook page he also got mad at me and now he's not trying to let that go and I want to fix it he gave me a second chance but how do I fix that because now he's telling me he don't love me but that he did love me

[@bingchina10]

Hello Matthew my boyfriend use to call me everyday now he doesn’t call me that much so getting him to chase me is very difficult his very stubborn

[@pattyswain380]

Men like women that work out

[@samaracanfield3211]

Hi Mathew, I really appreciate your insight into men.

[@MatthewCoast]

You're welcome!

[@loria.garcia1355]

Yes I understand thank you so much

[@MatthewCoast]

You are so welcome

[@kimberlyannwright3964]

I love you, your amazing. You are so wise! You are Authentic!! Wow!!

[@MatthewCoast]

Thank you

[@stanzindojay4836]

Hi

[@Saitamastronger]

Thank you Matthew all you do. So Matthew, I have ??? I am " in LDR a relationship 2yrs this guy from German,we have been meeting in different places and i have been at his home once. He has been coming to me most of the time. So last time we talked he told me that he loved me and everything seemed fine. But ever since than I have not hard from him, so I sent jim a txt asking how is day was going he then sent me " generally fine" then i called him two time he didn't answer me!🤔 so I left him alone and now it's been three days and can see he is one line but DOES return my calls. What do you make of this?

[@maralindalund287]

Hello Matt I'm from idaho love listing to you !

[@MatthewCoast]

Thanks for listening!

[@kimgordon3695]

My guy collects watches. I have chosen specific masculine styles for him over the years. He also is a fantastic engineer... so a tool box filled with personal items rock the man who has the gift love style 💙

[@queentop5221]

I know of a great man who helped me restore my broken 💔 relationship back

[@queentop5221]

If you need help try mess..age him

[@queentop5221]

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[@queentop5221]

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[@femaritestimbal8219]

In my culture even you like that guy so much no sex out side marriage And I so much respect and believe on that because when there's something wrong it easy to let go and move on. In my opinion.

[@abcdefg208]

Wow matt your amazing thank you because I'm learning these things

[@hoiliswu6070]

I .meet you guy amazing you are brilliant guy.I love so much miss you

[@MatthewCoast]

You're welcome!

[@venus67venus]

Men don’t actually get fired if they show romantic interest. Perhaps if he’s persistent even though the other person says their not interested and just can’t take no for an answer, if it’s a good workplace. The more common thing is that men, still to this day, get away with sleazy sexual innuendos and looks and comments, and even assault, and women being quieted, not believed in or being told they take things too seriously. This situation is moving towards something better and more equal, and there are most likely some men who gets accused of things through miss communication but that’s just not the norm.

[@MatthewCoast]

Men DO get fired for showing romantic interest... they also often get falsely accused of things, which I have multiple friends who have (I've even had false accusations thrown my way, fortunately not in a business setting). In fact my brother was accused a couple months ago... they ended up firing the women because they had evidence the women were lying. It's actually gotten to the point where men are starting to avoid women at work and avoid working with women (www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/aug/29/men-women-workplace-study-harassment-harvard-metoo) and men are starting to refuse to be in situations alone with women at work (www.fisherphillips.com/news-insights/men-refusing-to-work-alone-with-women-the-hr-and-legal-guide.html), which just makes sense. Unfortunately, there are plenty of men AND women who abuse their power in the workplace. Maybe we can actually move towards something that makes sense at some point here in the future. Also read this - www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2019/05/17/60-of-male-managers-are-uncomfortable-in-job-related-activities-with-women-heres-why/?sh=304459e6478c

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As it said in the article you shared with me: Ironically, men say they’re sticking with other men to avoid any #MeToo issues, but segregating by gender who you meet with, who you mentor, who you go on business travel with and who you dine with is also illegal. It’s very clearly gender discrimination to favor men over women in these situations. So, in addition to harming women’s careers, this strategy is also not the best route for men trying to avoid trouble from litigation. Why Men Are Avoiding Women Nonetheless, men are avoiding women, and it will undoubtedly impact women’s careers. For years, women were focused on breaking through the glass ceiling to reach top management. Now there’s an additional barrier they must break through for career success, this invisible barrier segregating the sexes at work that I call the sex partition. As part of own my research on this sex partition issue, I investigated why men were reluctant to interact alone with women and found there were five primary reasons. The other two links you shared led me to “page not found” and everything is about men avoinding women, not getting fired, and especially not for flirting once you know... Like I said, there’s most likely some men that do get accused through miscommunication but that’s just not the norm. It’s unfortunate for those specific men absolutely. But I think your focus lies on the wrong thing. It reminds me of people being worried of false accusations of r-Word, which is a risk lower than half a percent, while the risk for men of getting sexually assaulted is much higher, and much higher again for women.

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