4 Psychological Tips to Make Others Like You

[@CindyPsych2go]

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[@nicholasleipzig5448]

I don't focus on the fact that others would like me. I focus on the fact that I'll be fine if others don't like me

[@ArxxWyvnClaw]

And yet here you are on this video about how to make others like you

[@nicholasleipzig5448]

@@ArxxWyvnClaw it was eye catching and i wanted to see other people's opinion is that illegal ?

[@gracegugz]

@@nicholasleipzig5448 dumb

[@wndybbhmm7258]

Good mindset !

[@davidcohen26]

That is the solution for most "problems". Hard to achieve for some though.

[@dizzysoul6684]

Yeah one thing I would like to add is - • when messaging someone or meeting in person always try to mention their name, it's a proven psychological fact that most of the times that person will feel better and most likely end up liking u

[@narinderkumarbilla3226]

Timestamps:- 0:28 The Pratfall effect(The tendency for interpersonal appeal to change after an individual makes a mistake.) 1:46 I feel the same way!(When you find similarities between each other,use the phrase,"I totally agree!") 2:54 Don't tell! (Share secrets with each other.) 3:50 I'll see you again!(Think of some situations where you'll meet again and make sure to let them know) 😶😶

[@SymphonySinger]

Another tip I discovered for making other people like you was something I found out in college. A lot of people enjoy talking about themselves. If you listen actively to them, as in paying attention and showing an interest in what they are talking about, they will often appreciate that, trust you more, and grow to like you as a person. I've always been a quieter person myself, so I did this a lot in college, especially for people I met in my choir class. Come to find that at the end of the year (and in my subsequent years in choir), everyone knew who I was and people wanted to get to know me. I made a lot of wonderful friendships in college as a result, many of which persist to this day. TL;DR: Wanting to be heard is one of the most fundamental human needs. If you show yourself to be a good listener, people will grow to like you more and open up to you more as a result! I hope you have a wonderful day, and don't forget to take some time out of your busy schedule to slow down and show someone that you love them! :)

[@zorathemagic7310]

It just gets so tiring when they never do the same for you

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). The pratfall effect 0:27 2). I feel the same way 1:47 3). Don't tell 2:54 4). I'll see you again 3:50 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@unknown11215]

Cheers🎉

[@A55a551n]

​@@unknown11215 thanks

[@myungnyangz4ever]

Thanks!!

[@WolfyloverAlyssa]

gahh tysm!

[@A55a551n]

@@myungnyangz4ever not a problem happy to help

[@sonzai5162]

Who cares if they like you or not? I refuse to lose myself for the sake of pleasing others. I've learned the hard way. Most people don't care anyway so why worry?

[@geemail369]

👌🏻 Well put. Being fine with not having everyone like you doesn't mean intentionally ticking off the people around you.

[@shraddhaanikhindi620]

Ur MBTI type must be IXXP then, based on ur comment

[@shraddhaanikhindi620]

Also, if you have no friends, you might wanna have at least one person to like you... 😞 so...

[@sonzai5162]

@@shraddhaanikhindi620 I have a few friends tho. I just do me and they're fine with it so no problem at all

[@Sumnerstrain]

Lemme try this 0:26 The Pratfall Effect 1:45 I Feel The Same Way! 2:54 Don't Tell 3:49 I'll See You Again!

[@PokidotGamerX]

I’m always afraid to show people my emotional side, I always feel like it’ll be unnecessary or I’ll be a burden to others and not wanna bother them with my problem.

[@geemail369]

Be aware, your "emotional side" ain't _solely_ comprised of "problems"!_ Plus, *hiding* core facettes of yourself effectively fractures your self image and people might sense that as not being genuine. I prefer *presenting* people an in their perception "valid" reason to leave than setting myself up for fostering superficial relationships in the future. 🌱

[@whitefeather2354]

Your struggles are just as important❤If people don’t accept or understand your emotional needs and feelings, then they don’t deserve you.

[@PokidotGamerX]

@@geemail369 ah ok

[@shraddhaanikhindi620]

Yeah, I'm always afraid to share my secrets and secret interests because I think people will make fun of them or not like them. I mean, I DON'T KNOW WHO LIKES WHAT I LIKE, HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FIND OUT WITHOUT GETTING HUMILIATED? Im also afraid to just randomly start a conversation with someone I don't know. Well, not afraid necessarily, it just feels awkward for me, and I'm bad at conversation, and they're draining, so... I mean, unless it's some kinda nerdy talk about an interest we both share and are really passionate about.

[@PokidotGamerX]

@@shraddhaanikhindi620 yeah same

[@tjorbenhartz1167]

A great tip in making someone like you is increasing contact and asking for small favours if the other person fullfills the minor deed their attraction towards you rises // the first is the contact bias by Allport the second is something i got from Dale Carnegies "How to win friends and Influence People" Also be sure to remember Names and for example birthdays and congratulate others 😊

[@eggifer3892]

Birthdays is an important one because often if you forget someone’s birthday it gives the impression that you don’t care😢 Today was my birthday and nobody congratulated me except my mother. It made me feel like people I care about forgot about me or that I’m not important. So yes try to write down birthdays to remember them

[@compact-disc]

@@eggifer3892 True! This year, I started asking all of the people I talk to more often their brithday, and I write it down in my calendar. So I can send them a text message or even give them a small gift if I want to be closer to them

[@Cherry_picked00]

@@eggifer3892 Hey, belated Happy Birthday 🎉🎂

[@Psych2go]

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" is great. Dale Carnegie's book has some great timeless advice! Thanks for sharing! ❤️

[@edronc2007]

I don't want to be "liked". I want to be respected and left alone.

[@jimdandy8996]

Buy a guard dog.

[@1missworld-]

totally cool too!

[@dandelion5978]

I'm 22, I watch SpongeBob and I'm proud of it. If you think, that it should be a secret, it's not gonna work out between us.

[@royalrod_]

I’m 27 and still watch SpongeBob. It’s my childhood, and it brings so much joy and relief to some of those stress-filled times of adulting. Timeless.

[@Creidskers]

I watch adventure time :D

[@Psych2go]

Let's make this clear: You are never too old to watch SpongeBob 🧽🧽🧽

[@irene_f.]

I don't need everyone to like me. I expect courtesy and manners.

[@whitefeather2354]

Whoever is reading this, you are an amazing person. Every imperfection or failures YOU believe defines you, is false. You are an ethereal, beautiful, unique, lovable, funny, pretty, priceless human being and I gotta say, I love stating facts😉❤❤❤

[@shraddhaanikhindi620]

Thanks bro 🙂

[@Psych2go]

What a lovely sentiment! Same to you! 😭❤️

[@whitefeather2354]

@@Psych2go thank you🥺❤

[@Fern_On_Four_Paws-k8u]

Thank you for the comment you said! That boosted my confidence and motivation to keep on going forward and reaching for the stars

[@whitefeather2354]

@@Fern_On_Four_Paws-k8ushame on me, I completely forgot to thank you😂 That really made my day… I’m glad I made you feel that way ❤

[@Tim_Kul]

Feeling like you are on the same level is such a big factor when it comes to deep connection.

[@jacygameplay7059]

I really feel I don't do anything to make others like me. Others probably like me because i have a very kind and caring nature. What they also like about me is that I'm someone who has a very high drive, someone who wants to do anything to make something complete.

[@Yashuop]

Raise your hand if you've been watching Psych2Go for a long time🤚

[@SkyChildAmongTheStars]

✋

[@mr.eeee3eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee837]

Yo I’ve been here for a long time but I feel like I barely go on there videos even tho I have my nots on

[@WolfyloverAlyssa]

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[@shahinaperveenlipi5301]

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[@AnkushMiracle-lq9dx]

Here

[@mr.eeee3eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee837]

The easiest way for me to get a friend group is to take bits of each of there personalities and try to make them my own

[@borndrago]

People would often mistake that with not being yourself, but I don't agree with them. Even when we are copying things from people we like, we will naturally do it differently The important part about this is to *copy*, not *replicate* other ones

[@TheBestLoser1]

THANK YOU! I always wanted people to like me and not treat me like nonsense by default. Maybe this will help.

[@ives3572]

Food For Thought: You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.

[@Psych2go]

It's quite surprising how much people don't really think about us. Accepting this can set us free from what others think about us. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

[@Fernando-pz5ug]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ives3572]

Food For Thought: You can’t please everyone, and you can’t make everyone like you.

[@RayPeng-07]

Honestly to be more likable I used some of those tactics like sharing secrets. BUT... I was kinda trusting others too fast so after a while my trust was betrayed in many cases and because of that the heart broken. It's HARD to have balance in all this. But indeed other tips seem to be good and genuine. And is it just me, or this animation style is new and also super adorable? :) P.S Love the face of Psi in 4:54 when he blinks towards us. A perfect positive icon for an eventually new avatar x3

[@HikerNikki]

I find that sometimes that color of clothes will impact how people perceive me too. Whenever I wear pink or blue, people tend to trust and like me when meeting for the first time.

[@Psych2go]

That's very interesting! What about other colors? Have you noticed any other patterns that you could share with us?

[@GlenHunt]

Gotta be efficient. I need to make a mistake while anticipating telling a secret about something we have in common.

[@myungnyangz4ever]

OMG THANK U SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO

[@daelclapperton8990]

good tip to be more personable: use people’s names when speaking to them!

[@MoonGlow22]

THIS NEW ART STYLE IS SO CUTE UwU

[@KcRobb-kh2uz]

I love youre videos! They always help me

[@MuizMusthafah]

My school changed my class when i was 10 yrs old... I try to make new friends there and i did few of these tips.... I had like 12 classmates on my side, meanwhile 3 of them were pretending to be my friends after i watched a video about " How to know you have toxic friends."

[@AngelWish3]

I pre-warn people that I’m a train wreck and I miss social cues. I let them know that I am just pre-warning them so they can decide whether or not they want to have anything to do with me. Sometimes it works out great sometimes, not so much. On the plus side, it helps keep me from wasting their time and mine.

[@TheNonameHousehold]

These are good, I am planning to be more social in the future... 🤔

[@christianoberlin1996]

Thank u needed this my entire lifetimes

[@desily1y]

I hope we all find good people who likes / love us just the way we are ❤

[@Voices333]

yes be open open up your mind open up your heart and encourage others to do the same be crazy be freaky be weird and let all your natural flow, problems and akwardness are just incsicurities based on illutions.

[@MsLilac88]

I always found clarity from your amazing videos. 😊 Keep on uploading more interesting videos. 👍

[@erikblue7842]

Is there a video about feeling split? Like you're lying on how you truly are to others, because you don't trust them and feel like you aren't good?

[@zelvxcu]

The second one is actually what I do not because I want to it's because me and most of my friends share the same thing because it's what I like :D and I'm happy about that so don't be afraid to be who you are :) Hope everyone has a great day :D

[@ClawsAndTeeth]

"People find making mistakes more likeable than perfection." My teeth have been set on edge, for whatever reason.

[@metarunner514]

I have gone. To so, so, many lengths to try and change to be likeable, and the other day it finally clicked with me. I am likeable. It’s just that everyone else in my school is an awful person. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Me and my friends are the outcasts of our school, simply because, we are the most mature, sensible, responsible, and intelligent people. I will say that I try to be modest when I can, and this is a purely factual statement.

[@geemail369]

_"If EVERYbody likes you, no one will take you seriously."_

[@ozz3201]

Exactly. Same exact situation with me, except I’d consider myself unique to even a lot of my friends at school. I’ll find my group soon…

[@geemail369]

@@ozz3201 _"Your vibe attracts your tribe."_ ⛵

[@Der_Deutscher_Wolf]

I dont feel like i have much purpose anymore no girls like me, everybody insults me, i treat people with respect and all i get is people calling me names and thinking im a loser, the few friends i do have whenever i try to talk about this stuff with them they dont give a crap. I dont know what to do anymore and i know at least one person is reading this comment, and if you are please oh please treat people with kindness and respect, that all i ask of people anymore and i dont even get it. So please treat people with kindness, when if they are a jerk to you.

[@springstorm7724]

I don't even like myself right now and don't believe others do either. When I try to express my thoughts or feelings I'm shut down out of exasperation or ignored. In total agreement with you on being kind and even more so to those that are being ugly. We're all just trying to get through the day and never know what others are going thru. A few kind words can turn someone's day around.

[@Der_Deutscher_Wolf]

@@springstorm7724 amen

[@SwayzeOnYa12]

Your voice really is perfect for this

[@ritaolorunleke]

Not me doing all these without knowing I was😅

[@purple.willow1]

I love your videos and your voice is so calming

[@ISchots]

The Pratfall effect, it depends who you are dealing with. A colleague with low self esteem likes nothing better than when I make a mistake. With great delight he'll rag on me for doing so. Obviously I really dislike the guy but I understand he tries to feel better about himself by cutting me down.

[@viper3074]

I really like that you colored the sub title, its a nice toutch and detail ... it seems like though that love is a far thing that I will probably not reach :/

[@Cattoman-]

While opening up is shown to be good for you I personally don’t like to share the really deep stuff I fear they might leave

[@geemail369]

Don't just tell anybody - let'em earn it.

[@TheScammer1]

Haha, I told a friend a secret in the second grade and now I am regretting it because he is spreading it

[@kingslymopeli1991]

0:18 I don't care who likes me, and who doesn't. I don't try to get anyone to like me. 1:52 I like those who aren't like myself. The ones who are like me I find them boring

[@magnipettersson4432]

So you just admitted that you are indeed boring? Bruh.

[@WolfyloverAlyssa]

999 views. watching this at midnight. Thank you for this video Psyc!! Your channel had helped me learn more about myself, and what to do. I hope you are okay as well :) ❤️❤️

[@valeriekzxi]

Needed this since my mom tells me to by myself but it doesn’t work ❤

[@kevalsoni4985]

hello 👋 lots of love ❤

[@darkphoenix7342]

I don't know if it would be a good idea to show my flaws before I get to know the other person. I learned that sometimes it's better to let the other person open up first and then I can decide whether I'll open up to them or not. Cause otherwise they might use the embarassing stories I tell them against me. Or maybe it's just that I had too many bad experiences with people 😅

[@doodlesyoru2108]

The way that Psi was drawn here is super cute.

[@koi8363]

Compliment the other person

[@niasiamack9333]

I love your helpful tips of advice

[@Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge]

Merci beaucoup madame 🌹💐🌹

[@sukirosupido]

3rd one is proved, my ex girlfriend used that on me back when we only just met. Told me a secret although she only wanted to be bestfriends it still worked the same way.

[@jovannamirelez8140]

I believe having similar intrests help you seem more Likeable

[@pauligrossinoz]

I predict a lot of spilled coffee in my future! ☕️ 🤣

[@syedsadamhussainshah1395]

So cute 🥺 Cartoon ❤ Perfect opinion 👍

[@arthurpenfield8229]

Love is confusing and painful. Some people aren't cut out for relationships. I know I'm not. I don't ever want someone to love me because I don't deserve it. Life is hard and miserable and I don't want anyone to struggle with me. They all deserve better than being my friend. Period. I never received any kind of love growing up, why should I want it now?

[@bhavesh1paradise]

Exactly the same 🎯👏

[@arthurpenfield8229]

@@bhavesh1paradise , so you understand my pain?

[@bhavesh1paradise]

@@arthurpenfield8229 yes, myself I am in the exact same situation and I reciprocate exactly how you feel.

[@anthonywalker6268]

I share nothing with anyone.

[@Eluderatnight]

Bring extra waters/sodas/energy drinks to hand out at sporting event.

[@aron1626]

Thank you

[@CYNTURIES]

TY this helps, Maybe I wont have to change my personality anymore, yk like turn off fake extrovert.

[@giostechnologygiovannyv.ri489]

4:42 I hope I could see them again :'3 but ... real facts, that's not the case :'( 😢

[@anarerdene1106]

Thanks

[@LyleMizuhara]

For the next topic, how about 'revenge'? Is it good for our mental health or not?

[@Psych2go]

That's an interesting topic! If we were to do a video on this, what would you like to see us cover?

[@LyleMizuhara]

@@Psych2go "The Effects After Doing 'Revenge'" , "Pros and Cons about Revenge" or "Even we got bullied, threat, or mental abuse, why 'Revenge' is (not) needed?"

[@Cat.12345.]

Im always scared and afraid to talk to someone in my school in the class i am is very toxic and idk what to do im scared to make friends.

[@s4faexox_965]

This is why i love phsyc2go , it shows u the reasons.

[@bluesheepredanimationskind7690]

gaaah i always love the art in these

[@AverageCommenterOnYT]

I do these all the time without realising, lol.

[@RunnyBabbitMom]

I don't know, my biological father's family loved me when they thought I was perfect and then when something bad happened they all ghosted me birthing perfect me and if anything bad happens I tell no one.

[@NynyshAulia]

Me being the clumsiest women 24/7, yet I still didn't know how to communicate cause I'm basically not only clumsy but also rude

[@buupuu3521]

im clicking on this video because i think the title is honest to god for toxic attraction, i dont think there is any way to “make” people like you. everyones different, they either like you, or they dont.

[@gispechy]

Nice

[@Laminogg_original]

pls make 10 REASONS WHY SEX IS THE BEST THING EVER

[@jimdandy8996]

Its true. Women flock to me when I share with them the trials and tribulations of my irritable bowel syndrome.

[@m0m0l0ver4everItimestamp-ry8th]

Early and this is great tips

[@Koola0811]

To make others like you? Me: Hmm I don't care though, but i will still be respectful of everyone's principles, beliefs and preferences.

[@DarkSpace420]

Then who do you know who to love back truly?

[@geemail369]

Sweety, it ain't love if there is a voluntary decision to be made!

[@C15H28]

Do a video on how to manipulate people into doing what you want

[@geemail369]

Step 1 - join the dark side ✅ ...

[@sonzai5162]

I concur. We need some dark psychology videos too

[@teegutta4689]

HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND SO CALLED FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, WELL IT'S TIME FOR ME TO TAKE MY MED'S FOR EPILEPSY NOW INTELL LATER ON MY FRIENDS AND SO CALLED FAMILY, HAVE A BLESSED DAY, TEE 💯🙏💙💪. I'M RAISE MY HAND 👍. TEE

[@BR-ig9el]

What is the background music called?

[@BR-ig9el]

Song?

[@Sixer_XD]

Tell me how to make my bf blush plsssss😢

[@killedbydead2953]

I swear theese animations get cuter and cuter

[@LitIbar-ti5bf]

Tell musk he might come up missing

[@lerawings]

Why anyone wouldn't tell about watching spongebob I love spongebob with all of my heart and yes I'm 20

[@BR-ig9el]

Song name pls?

[@PopPop-by6xv]

Pineapple on pizza is a masterpice

[@offwhite_and_the_seven_giants]

Hey i like pineapple on my pizza-2:31 Don't u-

[@tonyg5132]

This goes against the people pleasing bullshit. Either people love me or not. I’m not catering to people anymore

[@LivvyTube24]

Day 6 of asking for a video of how to heal after being cheated on

[@Cmgrogan]

1. Get rid of the things they gave you, bad energy. 2. Write a list, focus more on the things you didn't like about them. 3. Realize you didn't deserve to be treated that way. It's not your fault. 4. Spend a day doing stuff for yourself, even if it's just small stuff. Reinvest in you. You're worth it. 5. Cry if you have to, but don't hide away like Gollum & obsessively treat that person like they're the one ring.

[@Cmgrogan]

I mean, yeah, generally people who actually have similar interests is a good one. But some people just use that shit to rope you in. "Omg! Samesies!" Really? Or are you just saying that so I like you? Authentically having the same interest is one thing. Saying you do so people like you or give you a chance is just sad & people need to stop doing that.

[@LowKeyTroll]

1. Be rich 2. See 1.

[@LitIbar-ti5bf]

He got sick or or just died out of nowhere

[@davidg1829]

🌷

[@bruh-bn3ni]

time to become a manipulating villain