4 reasons why you shouldn't give the woman you date money

[@aerodiary528]

We need to protect this woman.. she's a rare gem💙💙💙

[@adeyemitemitopemichael3078]

Dang 😂. You're right afterall

[@andries1704]

Why do you have to protect this woman, and how would you do that. She doesn't need that she can stand on her own feet. That many subscribers and that smart. She will be able to help herself very well. We should help ourselves by showing this to other women.

[@martinshabangu9854]

@@andries1704 I think you just missed the plot and your response is goofy lol

[@dennisadanutty8113]

heyyy Jessica. your message is just on time... I perceive it's really gonna help out of something I have really indulge myself. thanks so so much 🥰

[@rambostewart2161]

Miss jessica GM here in jamaica we say miss as a matter of respect ,u such a motivational speaker I'm so impressed by z things u r saying it's confirming my policy ,women having that crave for money u give to 99 times nd z one for z is not met she will find some else r several others to get it i'm assuming ur speaking is gift ,r u studied at z university ,all z best for ur channel love u nd God richest blessing 's which includes health ,wealth nd long life

[@passportninja2994]

Dated a woman just recently that would constantly ask for help with something and was always wanted to go out to eat, needed a phone bill and gas etc. Even wanted me to buy her a wig and she has hair that comes down to her butt. I would try to give her financial advice and she would tell me that I'm not get daddy like an elementary student would say. I dated her for a about two years and just ended it because i got tired of helping her and when i told her that I'm tired of helping you because you're an adult that should learn how to handle your money and do these things on your own without me. I don't blame her though because its my money and i could have just said no but i thought it was love and that I'm supposed to do these things for her but it was just overwhelming because she doesn't have a drive to get in a better situation for herself. I have advice and i was shot down or told that I'm wrong about my opinion. I told her that i felt used and she for mad and blocked me but it was definitely a blessing because it showed me her true colors after two years. I was the simp and i paid the price and it's definitely a lesson learned.

[@MyDeeroc]

Was the sex good?

[@brianmboya6590]

This is so true. Word for word. Especially that part when the well runs dry, the damage control at this point is irreversible. Am totally loving this truth 💟

[@soendly1457]

Don't spoil a woman on a date with money, it's a bad start.

[@powerbad696]

Amen,preach !!! Preach !!! There's a reason you have a J.O.B. !!! YOU can also work a part-time job for EXTRA money.

[@owenekechukwu8887]

When I go on a date witha female, we play dutch.

[@bobbyibitoye3978]

@@owenekechukwu8887 💯

[@gideonchristianomeje3433]

I made this mistake last 2 years and it still hurts

[@kobbyacquah7655]

we legit have to protect this woman at all cost.

[@andries1704]

Why do you have to prtect this woman, and how would you do that. She doesn't need that she can stnad on her own feet. That many subscribers and that smart. She will be able to help herself very well. We should help ourselves by showing this to women.

[@abekyankson3103]

"Love is a good thing but don't let it take over your senses or the way you think." Deep! ❣️

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Don't be blinded by love. Don't let it overtake your senses.

[@austinebruduakpo8185]

These are factual errors in a relationship we do that leads to regret, thanks Jessica, your are too good and blessed with your countless advises 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️

[@jamesrome7362]

Jessica, that is what is happening to me right now, a woman who I' loved for years, is doing exactly what yours saying, thank you

[@owenekechukwu8887]

Hopefully, you did not oblige her.

[@realitycheck9463]

Run my brother

[@ikemchukwuemeka4327]

Then what are you still doing with her

[@aniexcels]

All you've said in this video is nothing but the whole truth. Thanks for putting this up here. 👍👍

[@timmbue9783]

Jess, You are spitting nothing but the truth! Thanks . Fan from Cameroon 🇨🇲 (Africa)

[@ssemakulaspiridon7430]

@@timmbue9783 Hey brother, am From Uganda (Africa)

[@pretiepatie4694]

It’s crazy how the pressure has been extended to teenage boys by girls of their same age to have enough money to take care of them 🤷🏾‍♀️ This speaks volumes 🙌🏾❤️

[@owenekechukwu8887]

Teenage or adult, no male should be obligated to provide a woman. To do that under any guise, marriage, relationship, etc, is a euphemism for prostitution. Quid pro quo arrangement. No worthy woman expects a recompense for being in a relationship

[@bmzchamp111]

God bless you ❤️

[@bmzchamp111]

@@owenekechukwu8887 only an irresponsible man won't support his wife. I do not agree with you when it comes to the aspect of "wife" I agree with you if it's a girlfriend or whatever

[@owenekechukwu8887]

@@bmzchamp111 while I respectfully disagree with you, I respect your opinion.

[@raymondcudjoe]

I don't know what is wrong with this our generation, a teenager will have a girlfriend of the same age and the girl will be expecting the boy to buy her an iPhone. It surprises me alot

[@Phoenix_A.W.810]

I been there, done that. Jessica you are absolutely right in everything you said 1000% .

[@CarlosRamirez-xx6jz]

Thank you very much Jessica !! This is the video I was asking you for, to hear from a professional perspective on what we should do when we are in a relationship with someone who wants money from you all the time !! This video explains it all !! Thank you so much Jessica !! God bless you my dear friend !!

[@stephenamoakoarthur3330]

I love the content of this video, particularly how balanced it's. Money should be given out but not always. You nailed it Jessi, Thumps up!

[@owenekechukwu8887]

Money should never be given out unless it is reciprocal or she is an invalid.

[@yeisane]

I hope there is more South Africans watching your channel. There is plague running rampant among our “new money” brothers, it’s sad. Thank you Jessica 🤑

[@Modikana]

😂😂Bro we are living in SA where unemployment is too high,you meet someone she has no means of making money are you just gonna watch her struggling,i agree with the facts but are living in reality.

[@peguscleaning7415]

LMAO im South African so i clicked on the video very quickly, since this is a pandemic here

[@yeisane]

@@Modikana I hear you. Jess is not saying don’t help those in need, she is saying let’s empower those women to make their own money. Issue with giving money is, people who are used to receiving never learn how to generate their own, so they will always be broke. And when you go broke, you have no one to go to.

[@yeisane]

@@peguscleaning7415 we love blessing our women hey. That’s until you feature on “I blew it” then this video will make sense 🤣

[@princejeshurun9214]

Jessica this video is insightful and gives that picture of how to build and sustain a good relationships. I already shared your thought even before I watched this video. I realized the way I make money and the way and manner some ladies demand from me, if I yield constantly to such demands I will run dry. And this has actually happened in previous relationship, talking from experience. So I decided to set up a plan where I teach her how to fish then tell her to spend on her numerous needs, I realized that she couldn't and was scared that the business could crash. Your videos believe me are transforming. Thank you Jessica

[@emilebroadfield7197]

Thanks so much Jessica. I have learned a great lesson today. I have been giving her money with the intention of showing her love but little did I know that I was ruining my relationship.

[@inibeheetukudo4248]

You speak exactly the truth... And this was actually my experience with my ex while in college

[@daddielawrence]

You’ve just gained a new subscriber!! I appreciate your honest for the fact that it comes from a woman it speaks volumes

[@Raptured_and_back]

If you are an ATM she won't respect you, and if she doesn't respect you, she's going with someone else while still withdrawing from you.

[@otiss3213]

Very enlightening indeed-and I am in agreement 100% with you on this topic Jessica! Thanks again for sharing your thoughts and opinions.

[@chrismalekane5106]

Percy Sledge "When a man loves......" this is the mentality of most men Nice stuff Jess!!!🤔🤔🤔

[@eigobike3929]

“Finding another waterfall to bath in.” Priceless words my Ghanaian Princess 👑

[@cruisewithchris_]

This is so true, you just said it all Jessi. As soon as the money is gone, her love is gone as well because you're literally buying her love and commitment with the money.

[@nobs997]

When was the last time you saw a poor guy loved by a woman?

[@oem8697]

All of these are because of our poor choices . We do choose wrong partners.

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@Wisdomkey7]

Well said. You're opening up the eyes of the blind and the fools. I'm surprise it takes a woman to do so. Great job!

[@edgarsserugo2436]

😂😂😂 many guys never knew this

[@godwin7063]

So True, I lost a good relationship cos I violated these principles, "too nice" ruined the whole thing 😔

[@MULLAMUSICWORLDWIDE]

I just love this lady lays out her view point soo calmly Awesome

[@captainkeyboard1007]

This topic is the main solution to a problem I began to have since my first date in 1971, just after I graduated from high school. Your facts complement each other, like Bible verses in the Old Testament complement the New Testament. Your lesson makes ultimate sense. I think this show was produced with me in mind.

[@richardfofana9696]

This sister deserves a standing ovation for being an advocate for many of us men. Sis, you are highly appreciated for all your knowledge. Information is power! Cheers! Rich Fofana

[@michaelg7456]

Hey Jess! Keep up the Great work! Stay True Green stay healthy! And as always... Live life with passion!

[@josephnguma3386]

At one point my ex said to me, "Send me money like all the boyfriends do." 😂😂😂 It was hilarious. I responded to her with a text, "Go tell those boyfriends to send you money." 😂 And I loved it. MONEY IS NOT LOVE, Thanks be Jess

[@fabstouchcosmetics3191]

Stingy

[@josephnguma3386]

@@fabstouchcosmetics3191 well, if you need money, make yours

[@chriso.nwaorah810]

@@josephnguma3386 VERY nice answer. If one needs money, then the person should make hers and not call people stingy.

[@bobbyibitoye3978]

💯

[@czarlifestyle5335]

@fabstouch wait untill age catches up with you😎..hahah...u will remember this youtube comment

[@lindaonderi5222]

Thanks a lot l,ve learnt a lot from this coz l have fought with my boyfriend on this issue and after some silence his answers have been just like you...always teaching me ways to improve my business☺️☺️thank you now l understand

[@ubongsunday6592]

In my own contribution, excessive spending on dating brings strong pressure on the giving end. The giver stands a greater chance of breaking down quickly at every slightest misunderstanding. The receiver got nothing to lose.

[@jefferyringer6799]

U got it my sister u are 💯 Percent RIGHT! Keep Educated the men of today and the Ladies.

[@123KCONTEE]

I absolutely love your advice! My problem is putting it to work.

[@owenekechukwu8887]

Why! It's simple. Don't give. Let her go. Be man enough.

[@arnoldasiedu6264]

😅 I like your honesty

[@ogbefunaugustine1483]

what more can I say than too say tnx.jessi.you always hit exactly on what's happening to me in my relationship.

[@benardmensah9861]

This is very helpful Jess. Thanks so much 👌🏾

[@sarahboakye7691]

Most men go for women who do not earn,yet love extravagance. It depends on why you shouldn't give a woman you are dating money....if it's to help fine, but to waste dierr. Great video Jessica 👏❤️

[@bmzchamp111]

✊Fact!

[@Modikana]

I agree if it's to help we are good to go

[@nanapoku5259]

Totally agree!

[@sarahboakye7691]

@@bmzchamp111 🙏

[@sarahboakye7691]

@@Modikana 😇

[@alfredotoo5367]

So much wisdom Jess. Thanks for this. We promise to apply 👌

[@intergalactic11]

I hear and read you loud and clear, Jess! I hope it's still not so late for me! I owe you!

[@weluvmusick]

I think you’re 100% spot on with this

[@felixowoicho9130]

I love the fact that you're actually saying the truth

[@mmolokikiddoh4427]

Been used a lot by girls this is the perfect video for me🥺

[@phantasma9391]

Sorry man, guess we could say you were "user friendly".🤣

[@mmolokikiddoh4427]

@@phantasma9391 well you never know 😂

[@alananice9179]

@@phantasma9391 😂😂😂

[@saif9amar417]

@@phantasma9391... User friendly.... But now he knows... He won't allow to himself to be used again...

[@Mr.ENJ1]

@@phantasma9391 That's a bar 😂😂💯🤯

[@KofiAClement]

That's okay.. I think you've got your reasons for this particular topic correctly stated and actually proven you are a strong woman... Cheers Jessi !

[@kuusegdavid1428]

I like your honesty...keep it up dear

[@joereigns1551]

Big Shouts to all the ladies keeping it real out there. Your sweats will yield your own comfort in a bit🙏 Bless you Jessy🙌

[@mwanzafitalpha9827]

IF SHE CAN'T GIVE YOU HER BEST, WHY SHOULD YOU GIVE HER YOUR BEST? 1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf🚀👀💯✅✅✅

[@VitalisKalu]

Bless you

[@emmanuelmwendwa5486]

Please expand on prioritizing appearance???

[@jkkennedy8919]

Very accurate 💯

[@johnkaluba6633]

You're on point Jessica. Thank you for opening our eyes. May God prolong your life so you can continue to offer similar priceless lessons.

[@toonvisioncartoons]

Very wise words. very wise

[@phantasma9391]

Great content,as always.

[@toksthoughts]

Jessica you are always very straightforward that's why I love your channel, more wisdom in Jesus name Amen

[@mariusdeffosoh9112]

Hi Jessica. Absolutely true. Thank you. I will keep watching.

[@EderJean-nv4nj]

So good to hear you voice in this kind of thing!!!

[@mosesgodwin9710]

Thanks a lot for the advice...it came at the perfect moment and phase of my life right now..thanks Jessica.

[@joaugustine]

Jessica you're so full of wisdom. Can't wait to jump at having you if given the opportunity. I love you so so much. Marrying a woman like you would be my greatest desire and Joy.

[@007-bourne]

"it doesn't guarantee commitment" well said! Thank you Jess

[@markoseigyimah1532]

Jesse... You have been a blessing to many ... with your great and educational counseling, many have built a Glorious relationship and even marriage WE THANK YOU

[@emmanuelelisha8912]

I really needed to hear this. Thanks a lot

[@Blissed-Out-Psychic-Healer]

I love you, Jess. The fact that they do leave when money ceases, perfectly aligned with some worst decisions my old self had to make. That's some good stuff. Keep on keeping up💯💯

[@nwachukwuohameje8570]

Very most appreciat this video young Queen Jessica.

[@jamesmaina7004]

This is one area l got a weakness in...my girl tells her friends that l am a 'source!'. I broke the relationship since it took a horrible turn. The current one received some US $500⁰⁰ from me. She asked for some more, l didn't say no but now she is not talking to me. I'm thinking of getting rid of her as well. Thank you for your vlog this time.

[@trovononthedragon]

Does she treat you well bro ? Do you feel that she loves you ?

[@jamesmaina7004]

@@trovononthedragon naw she don't. She don't even reply ma emails. me feel she a swindle

[@thyeocroft205]

move on.. There's Someone Better Waiting Out there

[@tandtpodcast1079]

@James maina I can sympathize with you bro. I definitely know how you feel. You're supporting this woman, that means you care for her. I can offer up some advice. Confront her, Tell her that you think that Shes only after your money. A relationship is a give and take. You cant be only giving and this girl isn't putting in any effort. Also she is ungrateful and unappreciative. Confront her. Let her know this is wrong. You have certain needs from this relationship, correct ? I asked for time spent together and a sign of commitment. She's been demanding, its time for you to get your needs met. See If she will agree to met your needs. If she makes a fuss or doesnt agree then cut her off !! You are helping and doing your best. So you deserve a woman who sees and appreciates that !!!

[@jamesmaina7004]

@@tandtpodcast1079 she don't say thank you or send a receipt txt msg! Thank you for your advice. appreciated 👍

[@charlzyrexton7208]

I am overwhelmed with this message, great lessons; Thank you Jessy 😊

[@wamank.oppong673]

Thumbs up Jessi! You got all correct, loved it.

[@abdussalamsulaimon2512]

Thanks so much dear , I can't thank you enough this . Please are you in to mentor ship .

[@kgomotsoseabelo8481]

Second day watching from ZA and I love Jessica

[@majr2675]

Great advice! I really enjoy your channel.

[@kikasdabanda4530]

Thanks a lot for your Wisdom Jessica. I'm taking notes ✍✍✍

[@sunsettrekkersafrica]

Thanks for your knowledge this is so true I witness this

[@emmanuelmbao686]

Exactly...I rarely give my girlfriend money n things have been going great without it

[@thyeocroft205]

exactly

[@lovethinspiredtv4964]

You are right and you are the best my mentor,I respect you

[@victoribe6039]

God bless you Jessica. U are absolutely right

[@mykingsley]

I've really learned a lot from this video. Thank you so much 🥰

[@yodassankouassi5093]

You have such a charism when you are talking. I really appreciate.

[@wealthforex1]

After watching this video I decided to test my woman and said I won't give her money and I gave an excuse that it is because she's not my wife yet and she dumped me that same day 😂😂😂 and I have let her go, thanks Jessica for saving me. You're an eye opener

[@josephnguma3386]

Hello Forex trader🤝

[@wealthforex1]

@@josephnguma3386 whatsup

[@josephnguma3386]

@@wealthforex1 I see you are quite a trader

[@wealthforex1]

@@josephnguma3386 yeah that's right

[@007-bourne]

😄😄😄😅great choice!

[@felixkonlan756]

Hmmm lovely one there,one thing I like about madam Jessica is the top notch English language she speaks

[@shekucmattia2706]

Am grateful for this wonderful opportunity It's exactly true....

[@samuel22mcofw52]

This is true I love this 💯, watching from Kenya.

[@fr3m3kinggeorge]

I've never skipped an ad on your videos. I feel like you should be paid huge to rely these informations. Thank you the education. Bless

[@taavishilongo685]

This woman is like an angel to me! 🙏

[@gideondazi3070]

Thank you so much Jessica you’re wonderful.

[@cliffordnebangwa7036]

You are spot on, Jess 👍🏻👍🏿👍🏼

[@giannizampolli]

Excellent thoughts Jessica! I really enjoy your videos specially now that I am separated and next to divorce…. Thanks!

[@muritalaakande69]

Kudos, may God increase your knowledge.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*When you give money to a woman you’re dating, it can unintentionally shift the dynamic. It might make her feel indebted or uncomfortable, and in some cases, could even make her less interested in you for who you are, rather than what you can provide.*

[@aduwaosazee7473]

Very insightful. Thank you for sharing 👌🏽

[@charlesmakoza2106]

Great advice Jessica...well illustrated.

[@cruisefamilytv1472]

needed this Jessica thanks allot 💝...

[@georgeedemonye.1986]

You are right dear sister.I love what you are doing here.

[@sankoelasankoela718]

Hey! I'm speechless but may God bless and keep you on his right hand forever. I want to say you run the right track

[@sportsmantv8397]

Most women confess it's hard for them to ask money from men they truly love

[@trash8280]

For a very long time even after my wife and me were getting serious in our relationship. She had full access to my bank account and wouldn't use a dime of my money for herself even when I would tell her too. She would always say it's my money meaning me.

[@tashingasithole9718]

I go for this

[@wilbertshirley]

Greetings Jessica, as always very good videos and advice.. This one is very true to the core.. Continue to shine like a diamond 💎 with your positive words about relationships. Have blessed, safe & uplifting day ahead my beautiful 🌹 sister 🙏🏾 🖤❤️💯 ✨

[@henryezejelue5028]

God bless you my dear,your an angel in disguise you've said it all...

[@derrickdawson1243]

Thanks Jess you have made me open my eyes I love the way you break it down coming from a woman it's mean a lot to a guy to hear this

[@nelsongeorgemwanga2622]

Good good stuff you are putting out there Jessica.

[@farmGits]

Jessica you are simply the best. Nice tips to ponder about... More videos

[@umarupetersesay5105]

Thank you very much Jessica, I love this video so please tell us how to love her without money please!

[@studioxtremeng1220]

Do everything you do for her and your best interest to the best of your ability. She may not like it all the time and you will not get it right all the time but in my experience, for a woman who truly loves you, that would be enough. And u guys will be golden nonetheless.

[@iheanachohenrydenwigwe6942]

I love this message of yours. Welldone Jessica, this is really thought-provoking. Kudos and Gracias

[@MB-ql7ze]

Loved it. This is probably going to be your most viewed video yet. 😅 i love that you gave it out straight.

[@ezeigwechukwubundu3999]

Thanks for this information ℹ️ℹ️

[@aaronategeka2295]

Much love from Uganda

[@benardmigwimugo9517]

Eish wisdom i tell you. Thanks. Your one in a million.

[@itoro-obongcharles6274]

Nice one there... Much thanks for always using yourself to feed us on the modus oparandi of "this gender!"