4 Ways to outsmart women who play games with your heart

[@JessicaOS]

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In your deep voice.

[@mcculler1]

I really need your advice on my girlfriend

[@davidakins3788]

@@JessicaOS Amen 🙏

[@felixmususa1738]

❤ lovely day 😊

[@felixmususa1738]

❤ lovely day

[@Bob_Sunday]

"Walking away can be tough but staying in a toxic situation can be tougher".... Choose wisely dudes.

[@ronaldnkausu4506]

You are never in control of someone's actions but,but you are in control of yourself

[@marguskiis7711]

Does not matter

[@Annihilatedd]

@@marguskiis7711 why

[@marguskiis7711]

@@Annihilatedd You can do whatever you do, women just don`t care at all.

[@Annihilatedd]

@@marguskiis7711 Depends for sure 👍🏼

[@RichRayBeatsnFilms]

This is how (and why) so many women are single. No man has time for those childish games.

[@tayebizem3749]

And all of them say they're not single to seem desirable

[@Aditya-qo1yy]

@@RichRayBeatsnFilms yes absolutely, a man is someone with a purpose earning bread and reputation he has no time for this bs

[@simbarashetereraichimhanda6386]

Thats a red flag to me. a woman that speaks of another man especially in my presence is a deal breaker ​@@tayebizem3749

[@hermesalonso2310]

Thank you,I keep it moving,grow up

[@carlossantana425]

FACTS 💯

[@mountzioncenter]

A good wife comes from the Lord brothers , if you wanna marry the right person. Be right with God and he will bless you with a good woman

[@ModelJames13]

It's not promised and there is no guarantee.

[@masannehceesay]

@@ModelJames13there’s 💯 guarantee with God

[@darrylwilliams6627]

😂

[@ModelJames13]

@@masannehceesay Where in the Bible is there a guarantee that every man will be given a good wife?

[@joybwoy]

@@ModelJames13 Your so ignorant about it why ✍ there's plenty a verse for that anyways

[@princenelsonsinko5237]

It is important to remain calm, don't allow them to manipulate you, they love playing stupid games yet risking your life

[@MoorBlood]

Men, if women are playing games. Just walk away. A woman doesn’t play games with a man she wants to be with. You’re a second or third option if she’s playing. Don’t settle for this behavior. That simple.

[@anthonymurchison8035]

My same thoughts exactly because I seen women drop everything for one man and playing games wasn’t even on their mind while with that man

[@Victory_Channel001]

Setting boundaries is not about controlling your partner but about safeguarding your self. On point 👉

[@marguskiis7711]

Women do not care of your boundaries.

[@shaamadam7893]

I had the same situation last year. She used to text me regularly and we used to go out for a date but she suddenly changed telling that she will be busy with her life and will not able to answer my messages as before! I did stop texting her and I walked away!!

[@JessicaOS]

Good for you

[@davidrivas6412]

She is not busy for the man she has burning desire for. The thing is she lost interest so good thing you moved on. Good for you

[@some3sharks]

You might have showed her too much attention which made her lost interest

[@RevealedFilms]

Busy getting her face shoved in pillows by guys who show less interest. Lesson learned kiddo, they want the guy who doesn’t text regularly and makes them wonder.

[@jefferystackhouse3434]

That's the only and best remedy for that kind of treatment. I am going through that currently, she is saying that you are not worth her time and effort. Situation is beyond repair and not worth your concern. Walk away 👍💪

[@yelughoo1289]

While she plays mind games for real, “walk away” and never look back for real 😊

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath]

How long have you had this information?!🤔

[@yelughoo1289]

The day Sega released their first console video game 😁

[@christianbenn316]

& it,s a total red flag

[@marguskiis7711]

And then? Wank alone?

[@pboi5339]

@@marguskiis7711😂 u crazy bro .

[@MichaelMillerVlogs]

How to deal with a woman playing games. Stop talking to her. Find another woman.

[@JessicaOS]

😅 basically

[@Princewilly226]

@@MichaelMillerVlogs The best way up

[@nanapoku5259]

Simplicita!! No time to waste - keep moving!

[@deantecunningham1241]

U just don't play them at all accurate

[@Paschal123]

@@MichaelMillerVlogs Hey Mike. Wish we were close; would have bought you a beer Lol.

[@nakdickson]

She disrespected me when I was trying to be there for her while she was angry. Out of respect, I gave her space until she tried to play victim. I called her up, engaged her about her disrespectful behavior. She justified her actions by saying she asked me not to come close when she's angry. I was stunned, had no option than to go quiet.

[@antoniomckissic5402]

@nakdickson Wow the same thing I did & got the same response 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nakdickson]

@@antoniomckissic5402 bro, that thing hurt me bad. But lesson learned.

[@darriuspeterson9165]

@@nakdickson this! This the exact situation. I walked away. Never looked back. Now she tries to make contact

[@ericheffner112]

You have more options brother. LEAVE!!!

[@jgirling6890]

The reason why it drives you mad, is because "Your Queen" is treating you like an option. 1 - Sacrifice your Queen, and she MIGHT come running back wanting you as her King 2 - Start getting more involved with other pieces on the board, she aint the only piece you have to play with 3 - ACT LIKE A KING

[@rodgamwo]

❗️

[@fredschair-heavytalk2683]

Chess not checkers

[@hendrecksethoga8921]

True. A person will love you regardless of having money, expensive clothes, or anything materialistic. You do not have to pose to be a person you are not...

[@clintonziizigah996]

A good woman really comes from God , let keep praying.

[@issadiawara38]

My ex has all this you mentioned that bit..ch was good at playing games 🤣🤣🤣 I walk away now she’s coming back and I don’t want her anymore because I find peace within myself without her 🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@jacobmahlaba653]

Don't even text her back bro she's as good as dead to you I'm going through same

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

Same. She was playing games, i stopped texting, she reached out in 3 weeks

[@ronnietil7086]

Keep it moving bruh..

[@ytuser13082011]

The real question is: do you really want to be with someone who is able and willing to do this to you? I would never do this to anyone, so we know there are people who don't do this. Choose them instead. Discard people who are toxic, manipulative. Those are your boundaries right there.

[@johnnycorn7225]

This is the best post I've seen in a while on this subject.

[@ellyomondi6613]

I can't stop listening your videos ..i just got married last year..keep posting Jessica and be blessed ❤ much love from Kenya ,the pride of Africa

[@DeBoto84]

I had to subscribe because the girl I’m crushing one just started leaving me on read all of a sudden while posting on her IG stories and making notes, talking about how she misses her ex since they broke up a while ago, and didn’t even say thank you when I was reassuring her shes not ugly or anything like that. I was nothing but nice to her throughout this whole situation. But people are telling me don’t keep reaching out, she will come to you at some point and when she does, DO NOT REPLY. Keep focusing on your life and only speak to her when she speaks to you while keeping it short. Anyways though, great video and I love the ocean example you used!!

[@TheWMBWLife]

Jessica is always 💯 spot on. Understanding the game is big-time important, and once you do it is likely to be less bothersome and leave you unphased rather than drained. "Don't hate the player, hate the game."

[@marguskiis7711]

Women never like the straight conversations. They will take the defencive position and start blame you first. ALWAYS.

[@HJCreative18]

Applying your tips has really helped me alot in my relationship with my ex, i had to just breakup cuz it looked as if i was d only one in the relationship, she made me feel like i correct her too much, everything i do irritates her, she disrespects me, she compares me.. thank God we're separated now cuz i watched 😊 you video about knowing your worth as a man...

[@robinbanx456]

@@HJCreative18 yeh she was tryna play n your face hard asab. Good u bailed out.

[@Quhron]

I’m going through the same thing, but one thing about it, we reap what we sow…

[@mattyice7546]

unless you are married to them and under the same roof, why even bother confronting them? That little "can we talk?" gives them all the power to control and manipulate you more. Essentially it got a rise out of you in some capacity. Better off walking away, and not saying anything. Or my favorite text "This isnt going to work, the energy and vibe is different and this is not something I see as acceptable in a relationship, goodbye" is best way to walk away and end things. The people that do this are extremely insecure, have issues, and are toxic and you WILL encounter this again. They very rarely change.

[@raymondwittah619]

Jessica ano ne brofo bekumi ooooooo. My listening crush from the days of City FM. One of our best radio presenters in Ghana. I love her soo much. She could be on the radio from morning till late afternoon and we never get bored of listening to her lovely voice. I love her very much.

[@JessicaOS]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️ appreciate you. Thanks for finding me here

[@MrCarlero1]

Thanks, Ms. Os. I will listen to this over and over again. There two many women playing games

[@journeywithdr.collinsokafo9414]

They play games with the good guys and get bent over by the bad guys. I did not set boundaries in my own relationship, but I have learnt my lessons. Thanks for this video.

[@isaacchinonso3749]

This is wow..! i love this video and I think many women are not going to like you for it. .. don't settle for anything less than what you deserve in any relationship (at least a respect). know what you want and stick to it. The right person for you would LOVE you unconditionally without requiring you to play games or to pretend to be who you're not.

[@lildajo1275]

This video was very helpful. Thank You. I still have a lot to work on but I can now see where I was wrong. I wasn’t enforcing and setting boundaries for myself. I self sabotaged not even realizing what was going on. I wasn’t reading the board. I started becoming someone I wasn’t, and I started losing friends. I couldn’t put my finger on the why. I felt depressed. Now im protecting my energy. It’s Still hard for me to speak up about certain things. I try not to let pride and my ego get in the way now.

[@uplift56]

Wow, that last statement that you made about what an acceptable relationship should be is something that needs to be in writing in a picture frame 🤩!! People do need to do self work before they go cozy up to the next person, really ☝🏽.

[@Shiv00532]

Lady I must say " You have an amazing soothing voice".

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you! I appreciate that

[@Shiv00532]

@@JessicaOS Welcome

[@LukeShowBizTv]

💯

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

8:17 basically be the leader. This is always a topic that comes up in these videos when talking about our other halves. Setting boundaries and its always targeted at us men. Set boundaries because you are the leader. She does not respect a man who has no boundaries. You could do the most debauched things under the sun but if you set boundaries with her she will see you as a masculine man. I know because i tested it myself. This comes from experience and wisdom.

[@exfoliage]

This is one of the realest videos out there. Excellent and intelligent presentation !! I thoroughly enjoyed the realness.

[@YolanchiMiller]

I walked away but healed was the baddest move i ever took , it ate me from inside until i ate it up now im 🔥🤝🏾

[@rahabmugambi7697]

The content is so timely.very important piece of advice.thanks Jessica

[@JessicaOS]

You're so welcome!

[@HJCreative18]

Your videos are always on point,it has helped me alot to overcome relationship stress, know my worth as a man & etcetera.... Much love from Nigeria...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JessicaOS]

Wonderful

[@michaeljewell53]

Blowing hot and cold game seems to be on the increase with many women lately and has certainly been a popular pass-time with many of my ex's, but yes your right Jessie it's very confusing to most guys when they get this,In my case Im afraid I tend to loose interest fast (maybe I should be more 'playful' ) but I do try to look at myself and think 'what did I do wrong'? thanks for great Vid again Jessica 👍🏻x

[@paulcolin9071]

Same even if I found her very attractive initially

[@Phillips66Geo]

Great advice for men. Thank you Jessica

[@dalac_93]

Thank you Jessica! You’re an amazing sister who all need. God bless you 🙏🏾

[@JessicaOS]

You are so welcome

[@collinskirui]

This video came right on time. I now feel relieved. Thanks Jessica.

[@imanishimwerenovat8622]

Watching this from Lusaka Zambia 🇿🇲🤝, and I think you deserve 1M+ views.

[@damienrobbie5974]

there was a girl i knew in college, 35 years ago, who was like a plain looking girl. 2 years ago i came across her online and went for a date. long story short, she figured out i was well endowed and wanted to be "friends with benefits", after i told her i wanted a relationship. a few months after i found out she was in a 20 year long relationship with some other guy, she obviously never told me. for once i did or said nothing wrong whatsoever, and she became more toxic and passive agressive as the days went by. so basically she lied to me, used me, treated me like a dog, verbally, for 2 years until i realised she wasnt worth it and i walked away, its still hard for me, but in the end i knew it was pointless

[@alycemaloney2982]

Heck with women & their games. When people start pulling sh*t with me, I just walk away. That's not the type of person I would want to be with. I will communicate concisely that the game is over & I will be done 😂

[@ytuser13082011]

same.

[@Kingglory1997]

When you are with right person, you’ll always experience a sense of peace.

[@serwornu1572]

@@alycemaloney2982 fact

[@marguskiis7711]

You remain alone.

[@marguskiis7711]

​@@Kingglory1997 problem is: you never find the right one.

[@brightmafara9920]

I follow this lady for her eloquence in the English language

[@allenedufulesaah74]

Im going through same but thank you for these tips. I need to protect myself first.

[@ImadAhmadsalih]

keep remembering this, how you helped me believed in myself anf move on with my life ladle. and now i living my best ever life Emad from Norway

[@claymorekwaramba6937]

An On Time Word ! Y'all need to pay attention! Jess O stays dropping some brutal truths 💯💯🖤❤️

[@abahiduh3246]

"Think of ur emotions as the ocean, when you stay calm and steady you are as a peaceful sea" 👈Jessica, this powerful 💥hot like fire

[@samuelmawulikplim8126]

I come here also to learn new words and expressions. “A short fuse”, that’s a good one to keep💯

[@JessicaOS]

💯

[@CadePlaisance]

Very clear, concise, mature, and truthful advice. This is how to attract a loving and mature person.

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

6:03 I dont respond with my own games. I just tell them straight up. If you aren't happy being here the door is there. You can leave at anytime. If they play stupid game, i just flip the script on them. You want to compare me to other men then i say, "well if you want that then go find him. You sit there acting like you are perfect but nobody is perfect". I make it clear if they want something else that the door is there. My answer is always the door is there. Saying that i kept my own house clean and cooked the meals(where i live, most women cant cook to save their lives) so i would constantly be asked "what am i here for" they knew why they were there because they brought nothing else of value to my life.

[@matthewokunola5673]

Thanks so much for this. This is what I'm currently going through. I've been played . I'll work on what you shared here and I believe it going to be helpful. Thanks

[@bluelotus333]

I needed to hear this thank you 💯❤️

[@javanoflagos1439]

Jessica you just helped my life, this particular video is for me cos I'm in this situation

[@JefferyOwusuBoateng]

1. Build your capacity as a man i.e. make money, fit body, dressing. 2. Create options for yourself, get to know other ladies, never narrow your choice to one person. 3. Be always ready to walk away if you perceive mixed signals. Any woman really interested in your personality will put themselves deliberately in a position where you can have them, they won’t dabble in frivolous mind games and tricks. You deserve better.

[@gsvirk19731973]

So perfectly explained. Loved it 😇

[@darnelljones7220]

I’m not having no conversation with no woman that does this bs she knows what she’s doing fellas just leave her be she won’t be the last woman you talk too there’s others 💪🏿

[@esssaaaa5417]

I like that you made this actually a positive experience, by making this about one’s personal strength and a learning experience. Ty 👍

[@geoffreygitonga401]

Thanks Jessica you really help Soo many people out here...am proud of you 🎉🎉🎉

[@weswilder858]

Thank You Very Much Jessica!!!! Your Videos are great and as a Single Man your really helping me out a lot ❤️ GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!

[@moeketsiclemend.5791]

Thank you Jessica Os🙏🙏. I am facing that currently 2:31.

[@josephsampa8131]

Thank you so much for your videos. Much love from Zambia 🇿🇲

[@femipopoola8955]

Brilliant! Brilliant!! Brilliant!!! tips on how to handle games playing & manipulation esp from the female side. You're so intelligent 🧠. Beauty + Brains 🧠 Thank you Jessica

[@KwrisfordExplains]

Treat them well and pull away when they begin to play games. If you have good and clear intentions as a man, the exit is inadvertently a win for you. It's like evading a stray bullet.

[@IvanMartinez-hm9pn]

Thank you, I needed to read this

[@isk6436]

But should I delete/block?

[@DeBoto84]

@@isk6436 Depends on what they’ve done, but most of the time I wouldn’t just since that’s a a bit extreme 😅. However if they do reach out to you at some point, I wouldn’t respond at all. Also resist the urge to respond back, focus on your work (job or schoolwork), hobbies, and indulge in yourself more that you WILL NOT be easily manipulated. It’s always important to stay calm and mature hence why she used the peaceful waves in the ocean example. Now if y’all do somehow talk, STAY MATURE/CALM while being stern and straight to the point. Don’t start cussing and using foul language, if it starts to get toxic walk away. That will drive people crazy, once you just simply walk away with a smile or happy smirk on your face. Everything starts and ends with you, at the end of the day it’s your choice. I was just explaining possibilities and scenarios you can do. Good luck 🍀

[@Hardcorehiphop6877]

You are right about this. Thank you. I really appreciate you Jessica. Blessings to you.

[@nonenone6884]

all of the games have the same goal. to make you unsure about her feelings towards you and make you question where you stand in the relationship. all of the games are a power play she has it and is using it on you. you must lkeave as soon as they start because no mather how much she likes you she likes the games more

[@paulkazibacharles]

Thank you for this wisdom.

[@bennyboom4509]

“If you’re presence isn’t valued, offer them your absence”

[@billskab8350]

See your emotions as the ocean ❤

[@mondaybakare9454]

I always like the dopamine you always bring

[@OneClick287]

I've been liking this girl a workmate of mine. She is giving some actions that is quite inviting we stare to each other a lot after work in the elevator and we Convo when there's no work but after a month she just resigned and the experience of having feelings for her is still lingering inside me. Hopefully I will get to move on and focus on my work all the way and wait for the right woman that will come to my life

[@binbin2550]

Really appreciate dear Sis❤,thank u very much 💐

[@francisomogara7839]

Coming out of a breakup after 7 years together from University and all and this is the second time she's doing this, and seeing my past relationship reflect in most of yhe explanations you've made about these things, I wonder why I wasn't watching these videos and to be a smarter man all these while, I'd not have felt so much hurt. Thank you for this.

[@JessicaOS]

Better late than never

[@Kelsbyname]

Factual information and reasoning. Spot on!!!🔥🔥

[@mrbabyhugh]

0:00 there is only ONE WAY. You walk away, do not play any games with any woman when it comes to matters of the heart/emotions.

[@nonenone6884]

if you vaule yourself you will leave they cant play games with you if your not there

[@storiestotell]

Facts facts

[@gabbyinza3006]

I totally agree bro... ❤

[@RobertLenior]

Truly some amazing advice you give

[@Herv66]

Thank You so much for your content. It's really appreciated! 🤩💯

[@JessicaOS]

You're most welcome

[@robertevansjr9742]

Jessica, you are wise above your years! Im impressed!

[@jamesigamba5763]

Thanks 😊😊 Jecissa 0s, for the advice. I also did this to my ex she was not ready to respect me or take my redirections

[@JessicaOS]

Good job!

[@YouTubebuddy277]

​​@@JessicaOSmadam I am going through the same situation. The girl used to give me attention when I approach and told her I like her she's not flirting with other guys.

[@emmanuelamofo62]

Well, the inconsistency happened, and I asked her to discuss it and figure out what's going on, and she refuses. It's left me thinking - what if she just isn't interested? She keeps saying she is interested though.

[@Yawziggyentertainment]

This video came at the right time 😂😂, Thanks jess

[@trappnathaniel5000]

Much appreciated advice!

[@AphrooneRichardson]

Greeting from CHI-TOWN CHICAGO, IL, USA! Thanks for sharing this highly informative and enlightening podcast! AMEN-ASE!

[@benah511]

You have nice teachings. where was i to find you at this time?

[@ismaelnamuyimba5032]

U changed my life and thanks

[@InfiniteManifest6649]

This channel loves your videos. very educative and almost the same relationship tips as this channel, even though our channel uses faceless automated videos we agree with you on all your videos. Well done and continue to engage your audients with these wonderful videos.

[@fawhoogangdem7059]

Thank you for this video Princess ❤

[@francisgkmamuzu5048]

Me, walking away is tough? Once I read the signs vividly and they are discomforting, me na me kɔɔɔ no. I'm long gone!

[@davidmatovu4230]

What if the mind games are draining my pockets???

[@davidmatovu4230]

What if the mind games are draining my pockets???

[@Seandiddy25]

@@davidmatovu4230 walk away

[@webbymonk5228]

Don't give any woman money except your wife or the one that's humble enough to mother your child/children.

[@rajib-dey]

May be just be yourself, if it's true love partner will not go away no matter what the game.

[@HeyFriend812]

I wonder how many girls are watching this and thinking shit I do that I better change it to something else

[@Kiddx1on1]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you were on point 🙏🏽

[@Its_superdave09]

Great tips! Really helpful

[@JessicaOS]

Glad it was helpful!

[@stochasticxalid9853]

I subscribed yesterday sister. You really know what you are talking about. Thank you from the very bottom of my❤ for your amazing work. Love your voice. Thanks.

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks and welcome

[@kobederiq6781]

The right person will love you unconditionally with requiring games, they embrace your flaws and celebrate your strengths. No disrespect in times if adversity!

[@alberthull7579]

I just went through this. She did everything Jessica said.. Wow.. She played me.. I should have walked away a long time ago. She got me good though. Even played victim due to her not setting boundaries.. Tired of lessons and wasted time.. I will get through this though...

[@ChalyFlows]

Thank you 😊 so much 👍🏽

[@Afriaus92]

Weak man chase women, strong man chase purpose

[@christineMaccallum-uo3qx]

Hallelujah hallelujah is the highest I praise 3 I Hallelujah hallelujah is the highest I praise 3 I ❤❤

[@kevinc7128]

Jessica, you are a genius ! You’re analysis is always on point ! 👌🏽

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you think so!

[@andrewessiaw3836]

Jess, I needed this video two weeks ago. Anyway, thanks for this.

[@JessicaOS]

Better late then never! lol! Glad it was helpful!