If you see these signs, stop pursuing her immediately

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@Kuldaprince]

You did well Jessica your point where absolutely useful.

[@idictak9591]

Yes please.

[@ericephemetherson3964]

Jessica! I never in my life pursued a girl or a woman. All I did was ask her just once and never forever more.

[@collinsaddo2000]

Thanks Ms ❤

[@mrluvit8232]

great job jessica ⭕️ big salute ghana! 🇬🇭 keep going! 💯 😁👍

[@royalusala8527]

Someone was once asked.. 'Who is your type'? He answered, 'My type is anyone who likes me back n returns my same level of energy'... This life changing response transformed my perspective of relationships forever!!!

[@paulcolin9071]

It's very wise seems obvious but people rarely cop it

[@cjjohnson3827]

I felt that in my soul 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💯💯💯

[@thisworldfakeashell4098]

Accurate!!😉💯

[@boywonder8114]

DAMN …… I FELT THAT!!!

[@bronxbully6261]

Yeah guys rather chase 10s all day

[@paulsanjurjo4390]

Choose someone who chooses you. I have just stopped pursuing a woman who was acting interested in me but she was "bread crumbing" me. Thankfully I realized it and saw the signs of it and stopped the pursuit. I'll never see her again in this light again. When it's over, it's over. I feel free and liberated again. Your advice is good because it frees you up to be available to someone else who is going to choose you.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Very well said.

[@Laurus44]

As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Johnsonspy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.

[@hernadezrita4226]

I appreciate your guidance and encouragement in helping me track my spouse phone . I would not have been able to do it without you *Johnsonspy* . I am impressed by the superb work you do, and this time is no exception. It was not easy, but I knew I could count on you. I hope that you continue to embrace your creativity and utilize it in your work for as long as possible.

[@AlfredWilliams-yl6zy]

"Give your love to a woman who actually wants it"--Jessica. 100 agree.

[@WilleneBusinessLifestyle]

Sometimes, loving yourself first enables you to love others. It’s as simple as that. Love yourself enough to start your own business, build your habits and make your life a happy one, then you can love another. 💙💥

[@martinkimani7550]

True

[@ohgeejp3]

That goes without a question. You always have to Love you 1st

[@auroraleielsalama261]

💯, correct.

[@TheWonderwiess]

That still doesn't avoid the pitfalls of relationships. Ok lets say you build all that then your striking out to go find someone. You can still be dragged on, be played etc etc. Loving yourself only go so far, and there is pitfalls to Loving yourself too much. One such pitfall is you develop a low tolerance ceiling and in relationships its crucial. And yes you can love yourself and STILL don't know how to love someone.

[@prestige_killa]

@@TheWonderwiess totally i gree with this ..

[@Tabankaman]

i ended the friendship immediately because of most of these signs. know your value to people who would wait on you and vice versa. essentially don't be a a back up plan if youre not her first option

[@DTKRDMNK]

A long time ago, my Mom told me something very important. "Stop thinking about someone who doesn't think of you."

[@omellemmor4732]

Same as "it's does not make sense to pursue someone who doesn't want to be pursued" Don't chase someone who does not want to be chased

[@harunabonqiato6558]

These words are really too deep!

[@Truckguy1970]

Her not returning your texts or calls is a sign all by itself. If this is happening, this alone means you need to stop pursuing her, you don't need any other signs. Everyone today lives on their phones and if she or he is feeling you, they're going to be checking their inbox regularly to see if they might have missed a message from someone they're expecting or hoping to hear from. Even if their phone is having problems and it's genuinely not getting your message (Highly unlikely) they're going to wonder why you're not reaching out to them and then hit you up to see why.

[@youngOG87]

This is why I suck at dating because if I get even a hint of one of these I’m out. I hate when women play games I got no time for it and even less time as I get older.

[@dieudonnemcful]

I feel you. I let 3 go last year bc they were not ready to go. I deleted them. They were all off / on so I turned it all off.

[@RajA-wi2ut]

Wow...Jessica is so much more knowledgeable than the many 'life coaches' on various SM channels. Bless you Jessica.

[@abduljabbarmohammed4188]

Those coaches will never tell you the truth because it will hurt their businesses.

[@donmckinney4091]

She's spot on with this video. I had two women recently who were interested in me. I'll call them A and B . Well Woman A would call me and we talked just about everyday. woman B would call sometime but wanted me to pursue her(which was ok) Now Woman B told me that if we hooked up she was expecting a RING in six months and we'd be engaged. Woman A said she was fine being single but would like to get married. OK my B-day came up and Woman A went out of her way to make me happy. Woman B-decided after I told her I wasn't going to propose in six months to not even acknowledge my B-day which was fine. So I ended up with Woman A. and couldn't be happier!!

[@aaronandrew360]

She's interested in the concept marriage and not in you as a person. Wise decision 👍

[@marcoi7035]

@@aaronandrew360👍

[@johnmurphy6556]

The women that want to give me their love are not the women I want to be with, and the ones I want to be with don't seem to want to be with me. And the world keeps turning, and around we go.

[@kday9438]

I’m not going to even lie … this women is telling the WHOLE TRUTH!

[@BotchedInvestigation]

Nothing but the ....

[@antonyndegwa6265]

IN SHORT, QUIT IF: 1. You're not her TYPE. 2. She's too hard to PLEASE. 3. Her affection for you is not DEEP. 4. She's too NICE to tell you NO. 5. She suddenly plays too many GAMES. SIGNS: 1. She's passive-aggressive. 2. Attends only expensive dates. 3. Ignores your phone calls or texts. 4. Consistently gives breadcrumbing attention. 5. She never initiates dates unless you do. 6. Eager to refer you to her friends. 7. She only suggests public meetings. 8. Dislikes physical touch. 9. Busy schedules.

[@tyriley7488]

Common sense basically people do lack that in 2023 unfortunately

[@NANA-.1]

Can u help with the man also……

[@macgoldie7771]

@@NANA-.1 NO

[@chrisbreezy192]

🎯‼️

[@MalcolmWong]

Consider dodge bullet

[@patiencetagbor1303]

Jessica everything you said is true... I wasted my life and time on this girl who never even had any feeling for me. It's sad but yh life moves one ...

[@magdalentagoe2112]

This behavior of some ladies mmmmm

[@harryhaizel]

I still can't wait to see you with your 1million subscribers plague ❤️ so happy to be part of your channel, have learnt a lot from you Jesse ❤️ thank you soo much ❤️

[@orarichman9948]

When she says " Check her schedule", there are other men lined up on her schedule in a dance line like on Soul Train. Your video is on point!!! She has appointments with other men on her calendar schedule and she doesn't want you bumping into the other men that she is screwing. 😆 Wake up men!!!

[@djdarkphador]

Thank you

[@mauricemutua869]

@orarichman9948 so in short "lines are busy", try later🤣🤣🤣

[@darkest_magnum]

Jessica you're really helping us. 'Truer' words have never been spoken. Big ups!

[@Erik7prc]

The sad part is that a lot of what she mentions is exactly how a narcissist operates.

[@tomjones5338]

You have to have outburst reactions to be considered that

[@jameshunt3504]

@tomjones5338 it's called narcissistic Rage 😆

[@latteARCH]

Great tips. Definitely dropping a girl i was interested in. I will say though that asking them straight up if they’re interested in you is a good way to deal with most of these signs already. No need to worry or play the psychology. If they’re honest, you’ll know very quickly so you can move on.

[@leondaniel5407]

Jessica this video not only opened my eyes it reminded me of things women do.

[@tatendastambotatelsysta2942]

That's very true!! Thank you so much Jessica you really helping me to discover myself. Some things are being unveiled to me and they have been delaying my progress!!

[@pablomills1901]

Thank you sister Jessica, it takes two hours to reply back when she’s online.hmmm

[@sneakerbay1836]

I got a girl who will at most text me 3-5 times a day and sometimes she won’t respond for several hours . I’m into her but i feel like this ain’t what it’s meant to be

[@ItsDItsmeddEveryman]

Thanks!

[@JessicaOS]

No problem! Thank you too

[@davidrjrc1812]

My girl you hit all the points!!!! That's 100% right... This is a reality!!!

[@ericephemetherson3964]

Jessica! I never in my life pursued a girl or a woman. All I did was ask her just once and never forever more.

[@user-em8zo5ct2r]

Can we appreciate the effort she put on✌

[@colinsweller]

I think where it gets confusing is when youve already been intimate for awhile and she talks to you like your the one and then starts displaying all those signs.

[@Mac_TO20]

At that point, someone better than you turned up

[@blackvenmo2273]

@@Mac_TO20 truee

[@RobertRayDmv]

@@Mac_TO20 Why play that game at all?

[@allhailzamasu69]

It's hard for good man to find love and someone who actually actually like them back

[@TheWonderwiess]

Same for good woman.. its hard to navigate all the dudes that just want be friends with sex benefits.. Hungry dudes put themselves out there more than the good ones because hey, they're hungry. So it paints the impression on good women that its only or mostly hungry dudes out there.

[@muritalaakande69]

Reality

[@allhailzamasu69]

@@TheWonderwiess k

[@youngOG87]

Yes most women don’t really want good men. They want to see what bad men will be good for them.

[@boywonder8114]

@@TheWonderwiess we’re here but Not THRISTY because we’re constantly working on US So if she’s in my life she fits like a piece to a puzzle 💯

[@Justrichards]

You are too good Jessica. You’ve got the perfect answer to every question before it’s been asked. Kisses

[@sarcasticcrypto]

Jessica, this is the first video of yours I've watched. I have to say, you're message and its deliverance is down-to-earth, calm truthfully intelligent advice without any hype or attention seeking. Navigating through the ocean of spotlight-seeking content creators, what a breath of fresh air you present. Thank You

[@leoncomlanhekpazo4386]

It might because I'm a seasoned 40+ years old folk with a hell of experiences behind but I can't just figure out why people can be unaware they have not connected with a person they like. Jessica just tried as much as she can to put some words on those "signs" but it's all about feelings. It does not apply to women only but to human being in general. When someone does not like you, your soul always sends signal to that lack of connection and you FEEL it. Nobody needs to tell you because you KNOW it. The real issue is most people cannot accept rejection and just move on.

[@TheWonderwiess]

Because there's also part of human nature that likes the HUNT, soul feeling be damn. Remember we are animals too Some women DO crack under the pressure of a persistent person. Some women DO come around to liking a person. Some women will give you thr crumbs then the whole meal later. All this requires a delicate balance, and the reason players most times wins is because they often don't have one person courting. They've developed a skillset that allows them to court multiple

[@tmac326]

Some Women (people in general) LITERALLY do whatever they can to keep you around and make plans just to break them but always have a “legit” excuse so you can’t question them or feel bad for second guessing them. People like this are manipulative and insane.

[@seanjones6516]

It's the sex

[@goodman4093]

@@TheWonderwiess when you have bills to pay you are hunting, and pushing 100 women?

[@keepcalm1224]

These were great warning signs. Especially the ones about not reading your texts for over a day and number 10, her not initiating anything, texts, phone calls, meetups. A lot of guys fall into that trap. Any woman who is truly into a guy will, both make time for him and initiate conversations even if its just a text saying hello. Fellas stop wasting your time and energy with women who never seem to have time for you. Because its a lie. She's making the time for other things and people, you just aren't one of them. If you've made some errors in the past by not paying attention to the signs and then acting accordingly, it's ok. Don't beat yourself up about it. You can make the change starting now. Just remember, you ARE worth someones time and attention, especially if you are actively making the effort and when a woman does everything OPPOSITE of what's on this list, that may be THE lady that you want to focus on because she'll appreciate those things you are doing.

[@ohgeejp3]

100% give your love to a woman who actually wants it

[@skylletx]

This video was actually something i needed to hear... considering this week i asked someone if she had time, for us to hang out, she said she was gonna be busy "But we can find some time". I'm about to go back to work, and all i had was sending me a message today, saying nice status (when i used her own words, "But we can find some time" and so they never did...). From all the signs you described, she present most of them, if not all of them... i wanted to tell her that she could have at least apologized, a mere excuse would have sufficed, but all things considered, it's the lack of time, but interest. By now i don't think that would have been a good move to reply back, so i just left her on read, like she did many times and moving on it's what i must do...

[@davidnsonamoah8179]

Jessica hits the nail right on the head

[@kevinngaleu1545]

I improve my English speaking skills with you and I understand relationship better. Thank you, Jessica.

[@agona-piesieabankesieso7539]

100% support to Jessica's program, and watch every moment. I love you girl

[@soultaker9112]

Think I’m in this exact situation and it’s a little tough to pull away.

[@TheWonderwiess]

Only tough because of the investment you've made. You know how it slowly builds in a relationship, then do the same to leave. Slowly pull back and rebuild you, slowly pull back communicating, stop helping financially if you did, etc.. If there is kids involved then it becomes a little more complicated but just keep being there for the child, if there see the change in you and don't care to even bring it up then you know they don't care.

[@tatendastambotatelsysta2942]

Just like me and it really hurts because you truly love the person and they take it for granted, if you don't start them they won't start you if you keep quite they don't bother to ask what's wrong if they notice that you are angry the only thing they do is to say sorry without any change. Love it really hurts sometimes!!!

[@RBS4u]

Greatly spoken Jessica, thanks for all the great info, reminds of the saying," The minute you stop after chasing someone. You look back, and see who's been chasing after you". ✔✔✔

[@philipapollo5185]

Bitter truth.. More love from Kenya.

[@aarlam]

So based off your list, there's just No Hope 🤷🏽‍♂️😆🤣😂

[@DustedinShadow]

Great content!

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you and i appreciate the support!

[@Slimphizzy]

This video is very helpful. I'll watch it again and recommend it definitely! Thanks Jessica!!

[@BrotherKingV.P]

thanks Jessica u really help n saved my time i left a gel wu wz plying me after listening to yo audios i found a loving serious one now am happily married

[@bafanankentshane3262]

Jessica ure hurting us with this truth 😂😂😂 Thank you. I needed to hear this. God bless you Jessica

[@darkest_magnum]

I like the point you made about "a girl playing hard to get" and to leave her alone. It's high time they get realistic. It's hard to interpret those games.

[@TheWonderwiess]

Naw, most men see the games that being played and thinks this we be a fun challenge to try to win her over. Pride and ego gets the better of us, and all we have to do is just take the L and move on. Most women do like to be pursue BUT BUT, she has to always show interest and be CONSISTENT with that interest being shown.. One thing i noticed with women, they don't like to waste time and effort and seeing as feeling drive them, if she's feeling you she'll hunt you.

[@philipskrusso1153]

Jessica,you were given smarts.

[@GT1324]

Oh this video has been soooo helpful 😂😂the girl I’m asking out always suggests meeting in groups, don’t like that…The issue is now I’ll be seeing her nearly every week at church.

[@s.beccari4678]

If she hasn't asked "what are we/where is this going" than you have not gotten her full attention...

[@Wz96-i4c]

If the female isn't asking you any questions , clear out fast , don't waste anymore time.

[@cmack3795]

If you're mingling it shouldn't matter

[@peterforbes2678]

This is so TRUE !

[@sthembisobrian]

Looking back i can now admit i have been a sucker 4 love good to know we got woman like you looking out for us as much its hard to accept rather safe then sorry

[@nana1official]

Stop 🛑 chasing women and chase tha bag instead fellas !! 💰💰💯

[@rjlopez3738]

Nothing wrong chase girls.

[@the_great_97]

Do both... learn to understand woman psychology while you chasing the dough. Nothin is stronger than a man who knows how to seduce women and who get money

[@MatrixRC]

Chase Jesus Christ

[@mlbjmaur]

Chase yo dreams

[@eli__vibez]

Make women chase you

[@alexanderchepkiyeng]

Thank you Jess. As always clean crystal pieces of advice. If someone wants to be a part of your social life, they will Always make an obvious Effort. Always.

[@odinakajulian7474]

Jessica you always make sense and I love your voice and intonation 😊

[@joeroyes4382]

Hey men, know your worth and do not entertain nonesense from ladies. They want to give you a million hurdles to test if you’re good enough for them or not. Spend your time building you and a great future. Flatten them and be the one to lay hurdles for them.

[@harryngugi1154]

The video was very helpful in deed.. I liked the part "its over for you bro". Thank you for opening our eyes

[@coreyceasar5795]

This is very true for guys and women who don't understand the game

[@hlalelemohale7296]

Jessica today you made my day!🤣'she always tells you she will check her schedule '

[@Nonenm]

Or " I will let you know" 🤣🤣🤣

[@hlalelemohale7296]

@@Nonenm eish brother!🤣

[@TheDalinkwent]

Had an old flame come back into my life...we started off pretty decent, but we went from talking on the phone almost every day to simply texting. Plus when I called, she said she couldn't talk, then blew off our date and mostly texted me after that. I learned from redpill that a women makes time and effort for men they really want to see, and I don't feel that effort is there. So I ceased any and all effort.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Phones are for setting dates. You chatted your way into the friend zone. Corey Wayne's Channel discusses this over and over.

[@Erik7prc]

It's better to run into someone organically where the attraction is mutual.

[@asaretheophilus269]

Jess, you're the best at this, on the Internet. God bless you richly

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Thank you my Mrs Jessica Os I give you big respect for all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@SubiloMusonda]

Always waiting for the "my name is Jessica"... Your insights are so accurate❤❤

[@gabrielbabatunde3793]

Me leaving this place knowing that I have been single for a whole year and just didn't realise it.

[@Just54]

Thank you Jessica! You just helped this man here!!

[@DanielDZEM]

Thanks my dear Coach for providing us good lessons all the times. May God bless you more and more... And keep up doing the good work☺️

[@Treeshousepodcast]

hey Jessica one thing i like about this video is the clarity of this message..

[@katabaziwillis7277]

As always thank you for letting all the brothers know🇺🇬

[@Berthasglobe]

Powerful 16 tips for the men😃 great job always Jessi👌🏽

[@panfoankomah9417]

Jessica you are the best... The girl showing all these signs has already ”friend-zoned” you. It’s best you stop pursing her

[@geoffreymalimo3312]

Absolutely true once experienced that with a girl.

[@johnvillamil3138]

Thank you for posting this video. You are spot on young lady. So true in all that you say.

[@CarlosRamirez-xx6jz]

Jessica Os is always on the point of everything !! I really like this woman !! God bless you Jessica Os !!

[@jonathanliwoyo7498]

I love ❤️ her too.

[@laaryking]

This is so for me. Thanks Jess for this heads-up.

[@epyorulinuswilliam1429]

You are really an amazing person with the way you present your ideas

[@Flabino]

This video really open my eyes on a certain female

[@namupalabenhard6529]

This is definitely true, its a great reaffirmation of this vital information.

[@tejanjalloh9686]

Look every time I got difficulty I search ur KZbin for advise

[@cannahd9828]

❤️ all the way from Zimbabwe

[@dots560]

Video on point on all points! Kinda like the way you say..."my guy"😁

[@gantswood]

Great videos and helps us when we begin to slip. Keeps us men sharp

[@lufuluwabomikiladi]

This makes sense, thanks for the sharing those ideas. Keep it up mrst.

[@atommindproject9060]

Give your love to a woman who actually wants it.

[@bapbap22]

Good straightforward video. Men listen up

[@adamclark1972uk]

So impressed with your videos. Goodness knows where you get your wisdom from!

[@ihunenyeokezie4310]

Jess your talks, tips & advice about love, dating & relationships have been really helpful; Kudos to you. please 🙏 keep it coming.

[@1stKing_]

Thank You Mam... I learnt so much and this knowledge is beyond just chasing a girl

[@jeffreyacquah-f3k]

Thank you, Aunty Jessica. I really appreciate your post.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad it was helpful!

[@shedparker]

This is your best video yet!!

[@peterm9335]

Damn,... All these happened to me.. WTH. I just silent her at the end... She wanted to open up then. Never again.

[@nzeuzoreberechukwu3779]

Well said. Thank you for sharing this.

[@Walk_Africa]

I have learned so much from this Jes...❤

[@blackpixels]

This is why I can't be asked... I focus on my Goals & Dreams... especially in these economic times... don't have time for Women that want to try and waste my time.

[@karlmullowney998]

JESSICA YOU ARE A DIAMOND. !

[@thamindlandla4142]

Hey, Jessica. Thank you so much for your informative and educative content. With that being said, kindly lay down how to navigate a situationship (whether with a girl whose doesn't wanna date but is down for something like hangouts, dates, as well as being intimate with you

[@kashkahines5554]

With all of these stipulation and rules, they wonder why they're single. No one wants to hear that garbage about not knowing what they want. You know what you want from the beginning before you start a relationship. So there's no excuse for I don't know what I want once you're involved with someone. That's pure garbage

[@ANGELJPRODUCTIONS]

I can watch your videos literally ALL DAY...God bless you queen..😍❤️

[@sthembisobrian]

I always say never invest your time and resources where there's no interests