4 Signs You Might Have a Keeper

You’re ready to date, but how do you attract the right people? What kind of qualities should you bring to a relationship? What should you look for in a spouse? We’re talking about it in this message.
ABOUT THIS MESSAGE
We often define our lives by the big moments. But most of our lives consist of ordinary chapters. They may not feel significant, but ultimately end up changing everything. In our new series, The Book of Ruth, we'll discover the hidden beauty of life’s small moments.
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Watching the Story Unfold - 00:00
Dating Can be Awkward - 00:22
4 Signs You Have a “Keeper” - 05:04
1. Seeking Character - 06:34
2. Exploring Connection - 12:10
3. Showing Consideration - 16:56
4. Receiving Confirmation - 21:14
Boaz Chose to Give Ruth Everything - 27:16
Your Marriage Is Not Beyond Repair - 30:33
Feeling Broken? - 34:11
#lifechurch #craiggroeschel #thebookofruth

[@life.church]

What’s the best piece of relationship advice you’ve received?

[@melaniemartin730]

No advice at all, because I'm not dating.😭😭😭😭

[@dsidwell88]

The 222 rule. Every 2 weeks go on a date together. Every 2 months, take a weekend get away. (No kids!) Every 2 years, take a week long vacation and appreciate eachothers company.❤

[@melaniemartin730]

​@@dsidwell88what's the 222 rule?😮😮😮

[@connie10000]

@@dsidwell88 How healthy. Love this concept, 222 Rule

[@dalibofurnell]

This video. Thank you

[@connie10000]

Thank you for preaching to us singles. We matter too!❤

[@angm2060]

Been single for 5 years and have been praying for a Godly man. I receive this prayer and believe!

[@safariking417]

I'm on the same boat. It's been a long ride. But God is the captain.

[@BansheeKing22]

Good luck with that. I personally won't waste my time hoping for something that will never happen.

[@glennthing2570]

Psalm 37: 4: Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

[@helloyamel]

I know my man of standing is praying and looking at/listening to messages like these. I know because I am doing the same. I pray God makes me the woman of character my man is praying for. I know God will see us through. We will meet one day and we will know each other. Oh, what a wonderful story it will turn out to be! Thanks for obeying the Lord and preaching this wonderful series, Pastor Groeschel! Praying for you, your family, and your ministry! May God continues to use you to bring glory to His powerful Name!

[@theshanamaster]

When you do meet your Boaz, remember to have patience, most of them are very careful in their choosing, because of the way of the world is right now, especially how easy is it for women are too willing give away their body or sell it. Let him know you are a keeper of your faith by your actions, rather words like the lost do.

[@life.church]

Very wise 😊💜🙌

[@coledisabato772]

i am surrending my life to jesus

[@life.church]

Thank you for surrendering your life to Jesus. We’re so excited for you, Cole DISabato! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -

[@crazycano18]

This got me bawling. Pray for me and my wife. Been separated. It's been so difficult but with God it's gotten better. Praise God.

[@life.church]

🙏❤️

[@karenwildfong]

praying

[@dnk121110]

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@nicholeogden2796]

My marriage feels broken. I give it to God. And trust no matter what comes, God has a plan for my life. I believe my marriage can be redeemed.

[@reyesalejandra85]

Praying 🤍 that God restores your marriage in Jesus name.

[@IsabellaMwaura]

Praying for a relationship and to honour God as I serve Him

[@Jcperformancehorsenforge]

What a powerful and incredibly encouraging message. Timely. Thank you. I desire to be married. And I am believing for God's answers and timing. I trust Jesus.

[@life.church]

🙏❤️

[@nathanielstephensoniii2873]

Lord Jesus give me a Ruth

[@minnie7827]

What a lovely message ❤ Trusting God not only for redemption but for grace in finding a lifetime partner that'll be glorifying to Him

[@sonjanaifeh7757]

Yes. I'm 71 and meet a nice man on line

[@jasonjackson5493]

Ol Craig got the guns out 💪😮 this man has changed the way I'm looking for someone! Please pray that I will find that someone 🙏 thank you, pastor

[@life.church]

We’re praying for you as you navigate the world of singleness and dating. If you’re looking for wisdom or support, you can find both here: finds.life.church/tag/dating/ -Team LC Ronnie

[@amandakhumalo8305]

As I wait patiently, trusting God for my Boaz🙌🏽

[@life.church]

We’re praying for you as you navigate the world of singleness and dating. If you’re looking for wisdom or support, you can find both here: finds.life.church/tag/dating/ -Team LC Ronnie

[@user-dp1rf2te7n]

I do agree with you, as I wait patiently, trusting God for my Boaz

[@yehzay]

I’m thankful for the Prayer. As I am asking to meet the person who God’s wants for me and our Forever. To glorify God. With our life on earth. Amen

[@DonMoenBestChristian]

Greatest man in history, had no servants, yet they called him Master. Had no degree, yet they called him Teacher. Had no medicines, yet they called him Healer. He had no army, yet kings feared Him. He won no military battles, yet He conquered the world. He committed no crime, yet they crucified Him. He was buried in a tomb, yet He lives today🙏🏻. His name is Jesus.❤

[@latoyajackson8686]

Wow, no wonder none of my relationships worked out I was intoxicated the whole time. This is such an eye-opener. Praise God for his word.

[@life.church]

Glad you enjoyed the message. Have a blessed week!

[@maryann8692]

Thank you for the message.

[@devonjones8465]

I’m a single Christian trying to date and this message was so good and clear. Thank you Pastor ‼️

[@life.church]

So glad this message resonated with you @devonjones8465. We’re praying God brings hope and peace in your life in the days ahead. Blessings to you. 🙏 Beth - Team LC

[@cindyloguirato8435]

Thank you Pastor Craig!

[@mlilianaruiz8953]

❤ Thank you for sharing this message

[@nicolekollar4387]

Oh my goodness!! I am 36 and divorced and this was such a great message!! I laughed quite a few times, thank you for being authentic! I listen to lots of your messages!!

[@priscillaharnage5711]

It's so true! Love this message.

[@hollandspruill9312]

I love this! So blessed! Thank you God❤️🙏🏻

[@user-im3tq1qb5f]

Thank you for preeching us .

[@jamirabernard2159]

He’s been on fire with these lately and I love it honestly !!

[@user-dp1rf2te7n]

God bless you Pastor Craig

[@jessyjonas4988]

Thank you Lord for the book of Ruth💞

[@CiaoBellaFran]

Such an awesome word 🥹

[@se5549]

Awesome message.

[@sainelopez1176]

Please Pray for my marriage. It’s been tough lately. My husband is giving up on me. I need prayers. 🙏🏻😭

[@life.church]

God, I lift up this marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In Jesus' name, Amen. -Kat

[@latoyajackson8686]

Such good timing in my life to hear this word. May God bless this ministry.

[@janetdalme6071]

Praying for a relationship 🙏

[@EatorCookwithAnn]

Thank you Lord for your amazing revelation of the book of Ruth!

[@stellargravity5195]

I appreciate you guys discussing these topics since my church doesn't discuss them at all. I always find dating difficult. Its difficult to find someone who continues to pursue Christ and a relationship with God.

[@shanicepereira59]

Thank you for the prayer and message❤

[@life.church]

🙌💜😊

[@fabrizioobregon5074]

Pastor Groeschel, you are in phenomenal shape wow. Your discipline is very inspirational. Thank you & God bless🙏🏽

[@stand4truth607]

Amen! The only thing I want to point out is the people who care about you confirming. I have people in my life who claim are godly and call any guy a "good man." He could be a heavy drinker, but extends kindness to them. This happened with one of my mother's boyfriends who passed (He would get abusive and they knew that). A relative who would say that, and I would call her out on it. He had his nice moments, but overall, he was someone she should've never been with. So I would be careful with that. Aside from that, great message! God bless

[@vitahernandez7416]

True. I have family members who care for me but who hold a lower standard when seeking character and will recommend someone who is not seeking God. I believe they're intentions are good, but they also just want to see my desire met. I am 43 and single...still holding on to hope, having faith that God has a good plan for me. It has not been easy to wait and trust this long. Pray for me.

[@BansheeKing22]

@@vitahernandez7416 good luck with that. At 32 I've long given up. Love doesn't exist and I won't waste my time hoping for something that will never happen.

[@wisemanntihebuwayo2000]

💕Thank you so much Pastor for this so powerful message!!!💕

[@life.church]

♥️

[@lynn7348]

Amen! Thank you Pastor Craig ❤ I'm loving this series..

[@life.church]

Hello Lynn, very happy you are getting something from the message. God Bless you - Team LC Ronnie

[@dominiqueconner1507]

I love how raw, real, and transparent you are with these sermons! You don’t hold back, and your funny! You never miss with your messages, thanks for all you do! I love this message!

[@life.church]

❤️🙏

[@carolynknapp6625]

I've been single and not dating or anything for 7 years (now at 32 years old) I've almost got too comfortable being alone and scared to meet someone. I get extremely guarded. Praying God helps me discern who is meant for me if it is God's will for me to have a partner. My early twenties I made some mistakes and I've been trying to heal and be better since. ❤

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

Our stories are similar. Let your guard down and discern well 😊

[@carolynknapp6625]

@@PoSHEmediaglobal thank you 🙏🏻 🤗 ♥️

[@BansheeKing22]

32 myself, I've long given up. Love doesn't exist and I won't waste my time deluding myself into thinking a girl would ever want me. Ill never be good enough for any girl. It is what it is.

[@aroulamysiri2683]

Thank you brother Graig for your message. God bless you all in life church 🙏💙❤️Please pray for my daughters Eli and Anna. May they 'll be led by Holy Spirit in every area in their lives and especially their future husbands🙌But please keep praying for my daughter Anna to attend a church. Thank you so much. Sending you my love and prayers 🙏❤️💙💜🧡

[@amayabaker5809]

Great sermon today and great advice to take into consideration and pray on. Thanks Life. Church! 🙏🏾

[@life.church]

Amaya Baker, very glad you got something from the message. Team LC Ronnie

[@richardcastillo3831]

Always on point with everything bro thanks 🙏 Jesus . We are truly amazing people 🙌☝️

[@life.church]

That's great to hear, Richard💗! Thank you so much for sharing that! Glad you've joined us! Keli "Whoever finds God, finds life!"

[@boservant1693]

Always surrendered to Jesus, my Friend, Lord, and Savior, amen! Alleluia! Hallelujah!

[@jessyjonas4988]

Amen Look at what you are able to teach someone

[@EkaPu7i-su1es]

Thank you, Pastor Craig.. Praying for my relationshiop🙏😇

[@GalaxyFluke]

I’m single female. I’ll be 37 next month, never married, no children, desire both. It’s so hard to keep the faith I’ll meet my husband in time for children of my own which is my greatest hope.

[@tracysmith9006]

Praying for a relationship

[@JT-cf5ol]

Thank you for preaching the word. I've not heard this level of honesty in the church, I believe churches should have basis psychology courses describing reprobates (sociopaths, narcissists and their flying monkeys).What I've found in real life and online helps my resolve in becoming a hermit.

[@melaniemartin730]

What are reprobates?⚫⚫⚫⚫

[@life.church]

Hello Melanie Martin, found this for you online. www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/reprobate Team LC Ronnie

[@user-zv7yc2pw5l]

Prayer for a relationship for myself and for my daughter's relationship!!!

[@mariokweku594]

I put it all in your hands Jesus❤‍🔥

[@life.church]

🙌🏻

[@seyhagrace699]

Please for my relationship. Amen Thank you pastor

[@lindseymcroy8998]

Praying for my broken marriage

[@turquesacarolina]

Let it go and let God. Sometimes we try to fix it by having deep conversations or try to make plans to bring them back but when we feel our marriage is broken, that's when we should be still and know that He is God.

[@gabriellevini_2993]

I'm surrendering myself to Jesus, amen.❤ Thank you God, Pastor Craig and Life Church team! May God bless you abundantly! ❤👏🔥

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, GABRIELLE VINI陈丽芬_! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Beth - Team LC

[@impactbar7305]

Thank you My God

[@desr278]

Praying for a Godly relationship ... the one I've waited for my whole life. ❤️

[@kingdomcitizen4788]

Praying for the godly husband, I believe and I receive 🙏 🙌 Amen&Amen

[@priscillacastro224]

Praying for a relationship for myself and for others

[@mattbrown817]

Pastor thank you, I was abandoned by someone who I loved and I never truly understood why. I think I understand now.

[@Erica-mr3bd]

We love you! Amen!

[@life.church]

🙏

[@OliviaKruis]

Pray for a relationship ♥️

[@aidenortega6293]

I pray for a relationship , 🙏🏽 Amen

[@Hey_look_its_Jonni]

Please pray for our relationship 🙏🏻❤️

[@billybetines1062]

I this community I hope one day a life church location will open up in NJ!

[@terafraine828]

“Thank you” doesn’t seem to be enough when it comes to a sermon series such as this one… I’ve been widowed for seven years now… It’s been a “huge” eye opener to be single again at 40 years old. In observation and through experience, the Big “C” church often falls short in ministering to those of us who are single adults. It revolves around a traditional family unit. We live in a “hookup society.” Hooking up is not only permissible, it is encouraged because there in no commitment involved which equals no vulnerability and no risks. Needless to say, it is hard for those of us who strive to walk in godliness to find potential partners. Thank you. Thank you for ministering to those of us who often feel lesser than and segregated in the place we should feel most welcome. - Tera (Nashville, TN)

[@life.church]

❤️🙏

[@se5549]

Live in KC 4 yrs... at the end was apart of what was probably largest Singles Ministry ever... Met 2x a month. (One fun activity, one study , or spiritual movie etc... 30+ and older... their was always at least 100+ ppl there. Definitely not enough for Christian Singles....Women groups and Men Groups , young married....

[@terafraine828]

@@se5549 Thanks for sharing your experience. What a blessing it was for you to be able to be a part of that, even if it was only temporary. May God use your experience and place you into the right position to be able to do this for others. I conquer 100% (and some) that there is not enough available to singles within the church at large. Obviously, I didn’t chose my fate…being widowed at 32. However, God allowing me to stay single for this season has broadly opened my eyes to the need… and has also tuned my heart to the difficulty of it. Originally from NC, my brother still lives there. Until he recently got married in January of this year, he ran into the same thing…a lack of availability within the church for singles. And “only”singles. I’ve spoken to my pastor about the need. My argument was simply this: “As a Christian, we’re advised not to meet someone in a bar, yet there is not enough available to us to meet someone in/at church.” I can’t help but wonder if a large percentage of Christ Followers who are single do not have and/or participate in a local church because they choose not to go alone. I recall the first time I went and sat on a pew in a church service by myself after my late husband died. It did something within me. It.Was.Hard. Needless to say, I’m thankful that there are those of us who see a prominent need. And I fully believe that in HIS time, God will bring the desires of our hearts to fruition.

[@chrisgreeve8129]

Pray for a relationship 🙏

[@kanyevshitler]

Facs i love you dawg

[@cindyloguirato8435]

Pray for our family

[@whitneyboyd1634]

Lord prepare me for my Boaz! Perpare me to be the woman you want me to be in a relationship in a holy union you create me to be in

[@user-dp1rf2te7n]

Yes I surrender my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @user-dp1rf2te7n! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@wa2k99]

What can I give to a relationship... Ok that's a good one! 40 plus years, I never heard that.

[@formancfore6659]

I wish to pray for both the marriage of my parents, and the parents of my spouse. Neither of them are saved, and it's taken a toll not just on us, but on them as married partners, and everyone else associated with them. I just pray that God works his good will out of their brokenness, and saves their souls as well.

[@life.church]

Lord Jesus, we ask for these marriage relationships to be strengthened. Most of all, we ask for each person to come to the point of surrendering their lives to you for their salvation. Their redemption. Please help them to see their need for this. We ask for your protection on Forman Cfore's marriage. Please help them to continue to grow in you and in their love for each other without the undue strain of family members who don't share their faith and who maybe creating tension in their relationships. Please restore and heal. In your mighty name, Amen. -- Jenni

[@user-dp1rf2te7n]

I'm praying for my family

[@Twobeatsonesound83]

Nice man🙌 3:19

[@graciousdelicious9805]

Pray for relationship ❤

[@monicapeter4487]

Prayers for broken marriage of my parents and for a Godly spouse for me🙏

[@life.church]

Father, we lift up Monica's parents and their broken marriage, asking for Your healing and reconciliation. Restore their relationship with Your love and guidance. We also pray for Monica, that You bless her with a Godly spouse who will walk with her in faith and love. May Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus' name amen! -Kat

[@annalantagne6902]

Please pray for my relationship

[@abhishikthrubdi]

Pray for a relationship. Thank you!

[@life.church]

Abhishikth, Lord, I'm praying this relationship has You in the center of it. I'm asking You to lead and guide this relationship to flourish and asking Your Spirit to work within in Jesus' name Amen. Laura

[@Canal.2-qz3qq]

Amen in the name of Jesus hallelujah thanks amen

[@life.church]

🙌❤️

[@debbiegroshong1363]

I am surrendering my life to Jesus

[@judygraessle7358]

Widowed twice and prayers for healing and restoration ( recovery)

[@dalibofurnell]

For some reason I made a decision to choose this video (you have so many) and God is good because I think that he is showing me something and telling me something specific and in a weird way this is a mini type of confirmation to some thoughts I was having and when I listened to this, someone specific (who I am almost sure I already love in a way that is new to me, and it is a love connected to God and so is this person I love) and this someone came straight to my heart and mind simultaneously and I felt like there is hope and that if this is the person God wants me to work towards, I can almost see a future with me in it, and I am not alone. God is showing me this person, and he makes me want to stay alive. God is busy doing something good. He is demonstrating His love. And He is demonstrating His love through this person who also loves God and sees the love of God and God is showing me my own heart too and how His love can flow in and on and through me in a way that this person has seen and mentioned. I didn't really realize this until now, I think I am going to pay more attention to him and what God is showing me and where God wants to guide me. He is worth it. God is so amazing, I love Him and I think I love this man he placed in my path too, and that is with the love of God- which is agape. Glory to God

[@life.church]

Dali, thank you for sharing. We are praying for this new relationship that if it is in God's plan for you and him, He will grow it just as he did with Ruth and Boaz. And that he will develop the character in you that Boaz noticed in Ruth, and vice versa. We always find our meaning and purpose in leaning closely into God. ❤️

[@tracysmith9006]

I'm praying that God connects my son with the right friendship and one day a God-fearing, loving, and serving girlfriend/wife.

[@mariakohlmann2313]

Pray for relationship 🙏🏼

[@c_siph6945]

i am surrendering m y life in Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, C⁴_sīpHø! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Team LC

[@anahastings2588]

Amen!

[@joshlockerbie5638]

Praying for a relationship. One that is damaged, but I pray is repairable.

[@life.church]

Lord, we know that You rebuild broken relationships we ask that You heal and restore this relationship to flourish with You at the center and we ask that the relationship seek Your guidance in Jesus' name Amen. Laura

[@KelyTube]

Pray for a relationship please

[@davidgleason434]

Pray for relationship

[@Twobeatsonesound83]

Agreed 0:36

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

Dating can be complicated

[@MrSeals151]

Pray for my relationship ✝️

[@coledisabato772]

prayer for a relationship

[@Birad9]

Lord please help me and my wife to honor you always Lord. Me and my Wife today are starting our 40 day fast today to get back to your ways 🙏. Lord we are also going to be abstinence because in the beginning me and my wife didn't wait before marriage and we believe that we need to do this in our fast to break off the worlds ways and get back to your kingdom. Thank you for blessing me with my amazing wife Lord and thank you for allowing her to know you and to have a heart for you Father.

[@life.church]

🙏

[@LauraCruz-yo8im]

Amen 🙏🏻❤️

[@dragonfruit5429]

i am surrendering my life to Jesus 🤲🏻

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @dragonfruit5429! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@kellymorrell3508]

Help us believe God that You never hold good things back from us, but that You deliver what we need in Your perfect timing. Thank you God for opening our eyes, softening our hearts and preparing us to receive the good things You have in store for us. Never too late, never too far for God's arm to reach, God's ear to hear. ❤

[@life.church]

Amen.

[@amandakrystie4522]

Prayer for relationship