4 Things That Destroy A Woman's Attraction To You

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[@butternuts842]

At the end of the day, if she likes you, it will be natural. If she's not into you, it will feel like work.

[@mjl_99]

💯

[@brainiac.computer]

I learned the latter pretty quickly. Just the lack of reciprocation and effort on their end feels draining. Not saying that because you’re attracted to someone, you’re entitled to a relationship. If it’s not going anywhere, it’s just better to cut your loses for your own sake and sanity.

[@martyrivera2503]

Roll around in the grass……❤❤❤❤

[@Z-Interceptor]

pretty much

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

When a man showers more attention than the woman wants - Clingy behavior When a man gives less attention than the woman wants - emotionally unavailable. You can't win with woman 🤦‍♂️

[@dannorris642]

That "chronically online" bit is pretty serious. I hate being nostalgic, but the days before the internet and social media were way easier on our minds. Now, we're overthinking and over-analyzing everything, because of some crap we heard online.

[@CaliCurmudgeon]

More like crap we *experienced* online, since there are so many dating sites and apps.

[@seanc546]

You can also add to that advent of texting and even mass use of mobile phones in general. Now it's like, if you don't get a response/call back in a couple of hours, it can start making you wonder.

[@brianmeen2158]

Way too many people these days analyze this stuff to an absurd degree.. they put 5 times the effort into analyzing this stuff thsn they do actually going out and meeting people

[@christopherhogbring7771]

Totally agree with you. I was better off before, there are som good pointers but overall it just make you stuck in your head.

[@mooseyman74]

Women's phones are taped to their heads, if they don't reply it's deliberate

[@koolandblue]

1) 0:28 Expecting her to lead 2) 2:52 Neglecting yourself 3:47 Sponsor Ad 3) 4:52 Chronically Online Behavior 4) 7:28 Overly Clingy or Seeking Validation

[@justingary5322]

Exactly Men are expected to lead in the relationship with her, take care of themselves physically/emotionally and psychologically as well as be self sufficient because Women like Men who are better than them in certain aspects but are Women deserving of Men? Roma Downey is another KZbin channel with content like this. I love an ideal Lady who's nowadays a borderline imaginary chick with brains and beauty who is kind , accountable for their actions and words and doesn't hate people 😭💔. I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals AMEN 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because I'm succeeding alone in DA ZONE 😂. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on KZbin and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a fellow Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

[@jackdonith]

I guess sponsor ad will destroy a woman's attraction.

[@theDeathJoy]

Heh... fuck.

[@ErikPelyukhno]

I was looking for this, thank you! I like being able to read to summarize since I find it hard to focus on audio only

[@cisium1184]

@@jackdonith Every time I say, "this sexual experience is brought to you by SkillShare," the woman kicks me out of her house.

[@brianthesnail3815]

I saw a young adult couple out at a nice high end restaurant the other day. Both sat looking at their phones at the table. My wife is age 59 and I am 60 and we have been together 40 years but we still can talk for hours without looking at our phones if we are out together.

[@goldenknightsfanatic]

My wife can’t communicate at all

[@Robinson8491]

Imagine being able to look at your phone all day and neglect your partner and still get laid. Golden times🎉

[@deusexaethera]

What you're missing from that picture is that the young couple were probably looking for funny things to show each other and interesting topics to discuss, and you just happened to notice them when their behavior didn't conform to your ingrained expectations.

[@brianthesnail3815]

@@deusexaethera For an hour? I know what you mean but that wasn't what they were doing?

[@cpellercpeller5463]

​@@Robinson8491We both look at our phones all day. If we don't, we get into heated verbal arguments. Never mind the getting laid part!

[@DS-ew7sp]

As I watch this video online I can't help but feel a deep sense of irony when watching the "Chronically Online" segment.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂

[@MermanManly]

lol, ditto! Oh the irony...

[@lighthousexiii2391]

@@AndrewAung1992 Some Red Pill channels offer valuable warnings and advice, but a person should take care not to become too negative in advance and should give a new woman the benefit of the doubt. You should be discreet in what you say to any new person, not immediately look to start aguments and so on. But 'stay away from those channels?' Ah, no. Given how risky dating is these days, awareness matters. You have to be careful.

[@lighthousexiii2391]

@@AndrewAung1992 I've been happily married for five years, and lived with my wife for four years before that, so it's not about me. If you think there's 'nothing wrong with modern women,' you don't seem to have any idea of the sort of culture we live in now. I hope for your sake you don't learn some unfortunate relationship lessons in the future.

[@JACQUEZJOHNSON23]

​@@AndrewAung1992facts

[@deusexaethera]

My mother is a feminist who was raised by Communists, who believed (because they were legally required to) that men and women are explicitly equal in all respects; my father is an odd mix of take-charge Army officer and mama's boy, who expects men and women to be equal not only in principle but also in action; and I'm autistic and struggle to correctly interpret subtext and body language. Let me tell you, #1 "Expecting her to lead" is an incredibly hard habit to break under those conditions. I'm supposed to just do what I think is right and wait to see if she nonverbally signals that she appreciates it? Maybe you'd like me to walk across a minefield with bricks tied to my feet, too. I'm trying, but damn it's hard.

[@vladimirandreevich]

Same here. My Party-man Soviet upbringing made me expect all people to be men, wich ruined my marriage

[@om4real]

Pay close attention to neglecting yourself. It doesn't only mess up the relationship, but when it ends due to that, you're going to be in a position where you have to get back into shape. I took it for granted when I got what I wanted and ended up worse than where I started. But yeah that’s good advice

[@user-rn1kh4km2i]

00:12 Is among the best advice that can be given. If it is not going to work out with a woman due to timing, personality, whatever--move on. You must develop the emotional strength to carry on without becoming bitter.

[@ChrisW1019]

2 things that I've had women say they appreciate about me is always having a positive attitude. I've also been told I'm very disciplined and dependable.

[@Cee_Eff]

I've heard that many times...usually followed with a "chemistry isn't there "

[@jasonmarchant4525]

@@Cee_Eff dependable is another word for predictable

[@simonschneider5913]

funny thing is: women know they actually need that. but as long as theres a welfare state to live off...no man needed. until other peoples money is gone for good. like in eastern europe in the nineties.

[@JohnM...]

@@jasonmarchant4525it’s another word for ‘emotional tampon’.

[@savioblanc]

Dependable is code for "good husband material" Which means they'll want you once they've run out of other options.

[@blackswan7568]

Hi Courtney. I just wanted to say that one of the things that I love about your videos is that you're able to show that instead of some pick-up artist hack or hyper-masculine facade, 9 times out of 10 all it takes to understand what's attractive to good women comes from good old fashioned common sense. The chronically-online folk (have to put myself in that category unfortunately) often get to the point that they forget what common sense is, so it's very important to have someone like you giving us that reminder. Objective for this week: roll in some grass🙂

[@maj0rdave]

Taking the lead is not as black and white as some may think. There are nuances to it. Your behavior sets the tone/example and leads the way if you are persistent with it and disciplined. But to imply that leading means having to always take the first step in every situation equates to trying to preemptively act upon what the girl is thinking about or possibly desiring at that specific moment. Also, having to always make the plans, set the time, choose a place for dates, gets really tiring after a while. It's alright for the girl to make the suggestion every so often because it looks like she is contributing as well, otherwise it's just one-sided and it feels as if you're dating a child or an uninspired bot. If the girl has something on her mind, she should also communicate it instead of trying to hint at it so subtly as to make it impossible to pick up on it and then you are told you didn't take initiative when you should have. Been there, done that. It's frustrating as well.

[@thecapone45]

Courtney, I’ve recently gotten back into running and getting in shape and listening to your videos for some reason is much more helpful to me than listening to music. I feel like I gain confidence just listening to your videos and I stand a little taller and feel more confidence in me because I envision the person I want to develop into. Thanks for your videos and it’s great that you respect men and don’t trash talk. I have subscribed. Now time to get back to this run. (:

[@jefferydebbink282]

Another thing that can destroy attraction, rushing things! I’ve learned over time that women need time to get comfortable with a guy and know that he’s trustworthy.

[@pace1195]

Has a women you ever dated or were interested in banged Chad an hour after meeting him? If so, she liked him and doesn't like you enough. She uses the excuse of "needing time to get comfortable" before finding a way to kick you out of her friendzone, especially if you cut her off with financial or physical help.

[@justme1025]

Duh!

[@coryleblanc]

if he's Chad, she will rush

[@johngonzalez4298]

I love the green 💚 shirt on you, Courtney! Wishing you a wonderful relaxing weekend

[@CourtneyRyan]

You too my friend! ❤️❤️

[@johngonzalez4298]

@@CourtneyRyan Thank you! ❤ ❤

[@justingary5322]

@@CourtneyRyan Green looks good on you it makes your blue eyes and black hair stand out.

[@justingary5322]

Exactly Courtney Men are expected to lead in the relationship with her, take care of themselves physically/emotionally and psychologically as well as be self sufficient because Women like Men who are better than them in certain aspects but are Women deserving of Men? Roma Downey is another KZbin channel with content like this. I love an ideal Lady who's nowadays a borderline imaginary chick with brains and beauty who is kind , accountable for their actions and words and doesn't hate people 😭💔. I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals AMEN 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because I'm succeeding alone in DA ZONE 😂. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on KZbin and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a fellow Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

[@728huey]

I don't know. I'm getting creepy Katie Britt vibes with that sweater. At least she's not in the kitchen. 😂😅

[@gumnaamaadmi007]

I haven't watched your videos for a couple of weeks and was pleasantly surprised to see(and hear) you using a new opening line. Thanks for another great video. Staying in love is often more difficult than falling in love, and that begins with attraction.

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼 thanks for being here!

[@gumnaamaadmi007]

@@CourtneyRyan Anytime.

[@tomix3568]

You talked about the "chronically online" stuff in the most sensible, diplomatic way. I really appreciate it. I just took a long walk after watching this video :)

[@Redsentinel27]

I really like that. Chronically online behavior. You can always see that kind of behavior in people, both men and women. I tend to steer clear of these types of people for good reason. Sound advice regarding the topic to unplug from the online matrix!

[@maxwarp]

Great Video Courtney. I like what you mentioned in the video about nuance... and having chronically online behaviors (too much combative speech). I think many of us do this by accident as I have seen it myself just observing people.

[@faisalshabbir408]

Your video reflects a comprehensive. Research and effort for every word you speak. Awesome presentation with majical voice.

[@AG-rc2np]

What you said at the 2:20-2:40 mark is so true and I think a lot of guys don’t understand that. Just tell the girl when & where, don’t bargain, if a girl is interested she’ll gladly tell you a time that is better than the one offered.

[@justingary5322]

Exactly Courtney Men are expected to lead in the relationship with her, take care of themselves physically/emotionally and psychologically as well as be self sufficient because Women like Men who are better than them in certain aspects but are Women deserving of Men? Roma Downey is another KZbin channel with content like this. I love an ideal Lady who's nowadays a borderline imaginary chick with brains and beauty who is kind , accountable for their actions and words and doesn't hate people 😭💔. I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals AMEN 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because I'm succeeding alone in DA ZONE 😂. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on KZbin and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a fellow Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

[@doom9603]

men always lead, even if they don't lead. Think about it.

[@ErikPelyukhno]

Yeah it was a shock when I realized that when I set the plans, women are very willing to make things work in their schedule to stick with my plans. I always wanted to be super flexible and empathetic to their schedule but I found women prefer having concrete plans made so they don’t have to make the final call.

[@doom9603]

@@ErikPelyukhno funny enough, for me it didn't matter whether I made the plans or not 😆 Probably some personality stuff

[@AG-rc2np]

@@ErikPelyukhno 100%!

[@user-pj4cv2ou6z]

Love your opinion on validation. A mantra that I hold near and dear to my heart about that is. “ love is not something you look for love is something you become. “

[@75egcg]

I’d like a gf but every time I didn’t have one I did much better in my life. The problem is I keep getting girls who try to “fix” me and they end up ruining my finances and vehicle and I lose another place to live. I’m really hesitant on pursuing anymore after the last one.

[@75egcg]

@@LinkinVerbz44 Nah. I’m just looking in Asia now

[@DaRkShadOwxXx14]

what, they crash your car and take your finances to buy their frivolous shit?

[@KBowWow75]

@@75egcg I am in East Asia. Not much better here mate.

[@75egcg]

@@KBowWow75 okay nvm. I’ll look in Antarctica.

[@justme1025]

@@KBowWow75 asian women are much more likely to be materialistic and transactional: It is a contract and if you default, they walk. Western women are more romantic and feel an obligation to support a man "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer,", etc.

[@AnonymousProPublicaHakr]

The no laptop always throws me off! Love the Sunday posts Courtney!

[@CourtneyRyan]

It does for me sometimes too! Lol thank you 🥰

[@KarriemPerry]

Always knocking it out of the park!!! Thanks!

[@michaelgolfetto9619]

This whole channel highlights the cognitive dissonance we see between gender norm expectations and the reality of modern life. Wanting men take the lead is fine, but this concept has been so pejoritivly generalized that it's created false expectations. Especially in an era where the populist feminism movement is pushing for equality (rightfully so), but not seeking to shift expectations and responsibilities that accompany it. Equal treatment by definition carries the expectations of equal sharing of responsibilities, especially in a day and age where men have increasingly more risk associated with traditionally normal counting roles. Why should women expect men to initiate dating, and be the only ones to face rejection? If a woman is interested in a man, why should we not expect her to ask him out, or plan the first date? If your answer is "that's not what women want", while guess what; then they don't actually want equality.

[@gorryumbul9031]

you nailed it 🎉

[@justme1025]

Because smart instinctively understand the sexual dynamics. Initiating means they are more interested than the man, who is therefore more likely to take advantage of that to " pump and dump" them.

[@binglebonglebellybarrelbla9071]

Not to mention that being forced to face rejection and be absolutely humiliated is "not what men want," so why not compromise? It should be normal for either party to engage first.

[@DavidClark-hk5dl]

You are so beautiful! Thank you for another wonderful video. I am especially interested on the topic of what attracts women. I like the way you explain everything you say. You’re always easy to understand and feel uplifted after every video you release. Thank you!

[@Ezilla82]

Another valid piece of information that is useful. Thanks Courtney.

[@rastajay8883]

Keeping a healthy mind and body keeps me good all the time. Less is more and having no expectations is peace. Don't ask from others what you can't do for yourself is my motto.

[@Novaximus]

Life need not be so difficult. If she likes you, she's going to give you validation. That validation is going to make you feel chemistry. That chemistry is going to make the man want to put in effort.

[@Odd_Exterminator]

Good morning, Courtney! I'm freshly out of a toxic relationship, and I was clueless about how to better myself as a person and a man. Unfortunately, these things weren't taught in my family and watching you over these past few months has given me so much. I feel like I finally have a road map and attainable goals to achieve that bring me closer to a healthy happy relationship and life overall. I can't thank you enough for your insight, wisdom, and advice. You've been amazing for me, and I imagine a lot of other men. Please keep the gems coming. Wishing you and yours the absolute best, take care.

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥹🤍 I’m so glad I could help. This means the world to me - wishing you the very best!

[@Odd_Exterminator]

@@CourtneyRyan 🤍

[@Noodur1]

Great video! Would love to hear your thoughts on how a man can understand what he wants vs needs in a woman. I was divorced last year after almost 20 years with the same woman (mid-30s now), and my first instinct is to seek out women who are the opposite of my ex in every way. Probably not the correct approach. Thanks!

[@drip369]

If you do have to ask her what she brings to the table instead of using your observation skills over time, and she says I am the table, you may remind her that men built that table and it's her job to make it beautiful and pleasant and sanitary if she actually cares about you. Like Courtney says you shouldn't be asking a question like that but you also should know that when a girl says she is the table she is telling you she is absolutely useless and she doesn't have heart for other people because if she is the table she is getting used and she might not notice how language speaks volumes but you don't want a used dirty sloppy table

[@doberchic]

Everything that exists in society wouldn't be if not for the unpaid labor of women so stuff it. Any woman with more than 2 brain cells can smell the attitude from a mile away.

[@TRUTHaintHATING]

I get your point but it's to long just summarize it next time

[@SinnerChrono]

Im passive because i dont want to upset people. I dont like aggressive people. Im not a door mat, i just have been told so many times that nobody wants to hear what i have to say.

[@user-vz8fl2jk7f]

Keep in mind that do these things in early ages since possibilities reduce step by step, Thanks Courtney.

[@ThaAlecman]

The validation one is well-said, because it's critically important that both parties in a relationship are validated. That said, it's the "making it your entire personality" bit that makes it problematic. Balance in all things.

[@JesusGarcia-Digem]

Superb content, kudos.

[@Gertjan_A]

I really enjoy following you Courtney 👌I already do it myself how you describe it, but it's nice to hear from a woman how women see it (perhaps confirming that I still have it in me 😌) And your eyes match your sweater very well because of the beautiful color 🤩Greetings from the Netherlands 🧡🧡

[@dakahunaaikidomaster]

I just want to say thank you, you are rational sensible and it is so refreshing overall that the world isn't so crazy.

[@Hawtload]

speaking of chronically online behavior, have you seen modern women and their phones who post to their timelines every couple hours?

[@byronalfaro5550]

So glad you mentioned the chronically online bit. I was sucked into the redpill content for years. Took a break and Went back to it the other day. it looked and sounded like the WWE except they actually believed they were the undertaker.

[@MermanManly]

'Stage 5 clinger' is mentioned in most of your videos. Could you please elaborate on this? What are the implied 4 previous stages?

[@dreybiba]

Dont worry guys, hopefully the next video/content will be better 💯 I know courtney can give advice beyond/summed up as "just be hot" (which admittedly this video was 🤦🏾‍♂️)

[@drip369]

I've always been that kind to take the lead and make those choices, like you are indicating, but when you say put in the effort, especially when it comes to building a relationship, women naturally will do the bare minimum if at all. Men are incumbent to do everything and if a woman is really really all about you, she will try to do things to make your life easier but don't expect her to put in personal effort on herself because women don't think, they typically just feel and if they don't feel like it's necessary they won't even think it's a thing. Just so the fellas know in case they haven't really dealt with women because I've been dealing with women in a positive way since I was a preteen and soon I will be in my mid-thirties

[@simonschneider5913]

so, are you married or did you give up on maintaining something meaningful with modern women? because people like you dont get treated the way they should. things will change, but not until it gets much worse even than its now. i like your perspective, but you left out the part where this touches your personal life. and therefore, its a little sus.

[@doom9603]

Exactly, don't waste your time and resources. If someone is worthy, they will prove it.

[@PolishKnightUSA]

Exactly. The problem with her advice is that it's largely for upper betas. Unless he gets into some marriage game later on, he'll be a "leader" in a household doing everything his wife wants while he has to pretend it was his own idea: "You know, I was thinking it would be fun to spend our whole Saturday shoe shopping! You too? Great!" Nothing wrong with that, if that's what guys here want and she means well and she gives wonderful insights and criticisms but overall, she wants what's in her and other women's interests, not in ours.

[@victorsperandeo3609]

Ms Ryan your demeanor and soft voice are a great part of your video’s as well as content🍷‼️

[@bastidface]

Once you realize and accept the things that are out of your control, you'll realize it isn't worth the effort.

[@gajananjoshi404]

I clearly remember during my courtship days with my wife, it was always me planning out the venue as well as time for the dates .... Clear psychology behind this is that any girl who tends like her man, ideally would love to know about him as a husband material ... So when a man ideally plans out these things and communicates the same to his girlfriend, she is then more then happy to block that time from any other meeting or work just so that she can spend the time in knowing how good of a husband material her man is .... Seeking validation ... Not at all happening especially during dating since it exposes that the man is terribly short of confidence and also unsure of the way he carries himself ... Anyways I hope this video is helpful to all the young dating men out there ... ☺️.

[@briar35981]

Good statement. Especially about planning dates. Get your chance to plan now. When you get married, she will plan your life away. One weekend at a time. Women can fill your life up with more shit and projects than one man could do or afford in a lifetime.

[@harrisonpowers4265]

Good morning Courtney, digging the green 🍀😌

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

[@justingary5322]

@@CourtneyRyan Awesome videos Courtney IDK you but you're doing good things for people 😎

[@SigmoidConMan]

Good morning, Courtney! If I were to suggest a time and place for a date and the woman says that day doesn’t work for her, do you think I should suggest another time or ask what day works for her?

[@AlexanderSkinnerVids]

If she doesn’t suggest an alternative, she’s not interested.

[@Sygmus6]

I went in expecting to relate to all 4, pleasantly surprised that only two applied to me. Maybe there’s hope.

[@aztecvspec002]

You nailed the chronically online section. Too many dudes get sent down rabbit holes because they can’t critically think and aren’t internet savvy so they end up being contrarian incels with a chip on the shoulder.

[@VideoGameRoom32]

I buy things with my own money and don't need her permission like other men need to ask her. I know someone at work wants to buy a laptop with his own money but he thinks he needs her permission. I said to him just buy it. Does she ask you permission when she buys a purse or dress? The answer is she doesn't.

[@simonschneider5913]

its insane where the baseline is set today. unstustainable would be the understatement of the century. all courtesy of printing money.

[@doom9603]

Who asks their lady whether they can buy anything (for themselves)? wtf?

[@simonschneider5913]

@@doom9603 my father isnt able to choose his own socks without getting approval....its insane, yet thats what i grew up with...he was a school principal and now he is stewing in alcohol and TV-propaganda for a retirement. and he projects all bad things on me! ;)

[@pace1195]

Duh, that's because this simp has it in his head that his money is the couple's money and her money is her money. She will keep him around only as long as she gets "paid" metaphorically. Most likely, she is in debt up to her eyeballs, and he has no idea.

[@doom9603]

​@@pace1195sounds ew.

[@FredDurst00]

I'm going to follow these tips to ensure I get left alone.

[@user-cz5lj2vx1f]

Why are you even on this site? No one needs MORE negativity about dating these days!!!!

[@brianmeen2158]

Bullshit Fred. If you were that disinterested then why are you even watching this content?

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Many of her tips don't actually work. Men who have actual experience with women know this. The only ones that follow her advice are those gullible, naive ones who aren't good at analyzing trends in people's behaviors.

[@whyme9278]

Awesome video. I just subscribed. Keep up the excellent work.

[@lawrence31415]

Following up on the last point: stop texting a woman continuously, especially if you have only gone on a few dates with her.

[@Chuck_D]

unless they are texting you just as much, then go with the flow!

[@KBowWow75]

This one frustrates the piss out of me. I think texting good morning and good night is polite. It's a great way to start and end a day for someone, and it lets them know you are thinking about them. I know the game to play is ignoring them and pretending you are not interested, but I hate the game and I think it's cruel, so I refuse to play that game. I don't really push people. Just ask them questions or their thoughts on something. But today apparently saying good morning every day and good night is considered clingy. Like where the hell has society gone to?

[@TRUTHaintHATING]

​@@KBowWow75I know what you mean but to the modern women you can't text them as much. I woukd say no more than 3 a day while you getting to know her. Everything gotta be meet up in person. Hop this help

[@cniht]

What I've found is I ask plainly for a text back requesting an item, a time or date to meet up, or something for her to come back with a clear answer showing her interest and her making herself available. If she doesn't text back, I don't follow up, it's done move on.

[@gerritdj2016]

I need help. If things go well at meeting each other the first. So there is some interest between us but after a while of talking to each other what do I do when I feel like I can't think of what else to talk about? I feel like I struck blank

[@Robert-tp9vy]

Great video Courtney. I really like your green top perfect for St. Patrick's day!

[@yvesgysel9834]

I agree with you. Now, let's reverse it. What's the fastest way for a woman to lose all the attraction of a smart man who is also fine by his own. 1) Behaving masculine; 2) Having a dating schedule (dating multiple men at the same time); 3) Entitlement, argumentive, being bossy...; 4) Talking like trash and acting like it; 5) Being disrespectful to people in general. waiter...; 6) Being on stupid fans. Yep, Courtney smart men will test women from the get-go by setting boundaries according to their values and morals. Before any commitment, of course. That's not a bad boy, but it's definitely not a simp either. If women cross any important boundary, he will no longer be interested cause he understands what will work in a long-term relationship and what will not. Looks are less important for such a man. Just a bonus. You know why, cause he understands that physical looks déminage by ageing.

[@johnbodine8381]

Thanks

[@CoachSteveJandS]

Love in such a way that the person you love feels free... 🎉

[@GoodOpsec]

Could you make a full video breaking down chronic internet usage, please? I'm a cyber security expert, so it's a concern. Thank you. 🎉

[@newfire1018]

Hey. I appreciate your videos. They have really helped. Can you do a video on friendship btwn men and women?

[@CallsItLikeISeizeIts]

Chris Rock covered that😊

[@daniellehotsky1776]

Long story short - yes you can be a friend but NEVER EVER it will be like with other men.

[@AJSchnell]

I don’t care if she’s attracted to me or not. I do the things I do because I like to do them. I don’t do the things I do to attract a woman, if she’s turned off by me and my actions, then “bye. Now I’m glad you know how I feel about a majority of the things you do. “

[@ejays99]

If I meet a girl on an app, she's not getting some elaborate creative & expensive date. I think all these ladies are still expecting to be chivalrously pursued by a man like their grandmothers were, but that world is long gone, dating apps finally killed it when they gave women a sea of suitors to chose from. If you simply breathe wrong on that date, all the hard work in putting it together is for nothing because they'll just replace you with someone else.

[@brettmurray3543]

I will take this advice to the bank. Also I haven't had internet for a couple of months so basically I was living under a rock and didn't know squat. Which not having internet was kind of like a blessing in disguise, I noticed I was happier and less irritable now I don't spend too much time online any more. Exposure therapy has helped, focusing on reality helps. Rolling around in grass... Helps.

[@asta1011]

I can’t even get the date taking care of yourself only gets you so far and some people just aren’t gonna get what they want

[@danielm4949]

Courtney, I sense a Tide endorsement coming since people need to roll around on the grass! Those stains. Solid Advice, Excellent video! Taking initiative and being decisive in a positive way is key.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂😂 this made me laugh!

[@mhmmrp6297]

Thanks for your explanations. It gets better if you also use some visualization

[@nordynutsjr]

I think the bigger problem is even getting us interested. Feminism is making women single forever

[@paweszaduro7946]

Kobiety zamieniły facetów na koty, psy, wino i wibrator...

[@user-cz5lj2vx1f]

WHY are you even on this site if all you have to say is "Don't date women" Move along...

[@brianmeen2158]

@@user-cz5lj2vx1f it is beyond ridiculous with how many men that binge watch this type of content only to comment that “we no longer care about dating or women!” .. it’s such a lack of self awareness and I try to point it out to them every chance I get lol

[@jabbaweezy]

1. breathing 2. existing 3. being an average man 4. satisfied with being an average man

[@Brittanyjones-sf7rc]

💯

[@bezimen1]

Yes ma'am, thank you ma'am 💚

[@gracerules2008]

This video can be good tips ASSUMING a man meets a certain woman who is worth trying to win her attraction over. I think the author is speaking in that context. Not all situations are beneficial for a man to worry about winning her attraction because she might penalize him by giving him a hard time about not calling enough or not making enough effort to spend time with her.

[@dylancooper3690]

I do most of these, except for the online thing. I've tried to work on being less clingy, though it doesn't seem to matter.

[@geoking.3079]

Sometimes we all Need alittle reminder, Thanks 👏

[@generalursus4682]

I've come to the conclusion as an alien living on earth that I just don't understand women and never will, and have nothing in common with them.

[@savioblanc]

My problem is the more I understand women, the less I want to be married to one or be in a relationship with one 😑 I very much enjoy their company, I absolutely love the sexual chemistry I develop with some of them. I just no longer want to be in a relationship with any woman.

[@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM]

@@savioblanc Same here, they used to be mysterious and intriguing. But the more I learned about them and understood them, the more it's best to just keep it shallow and keep your distance from them. Be polite, but never put your happiness or assets at risk for one.

[@thetruth5232]

"Women understand women, and they hate each other." - Al Bundy

[@XFS540]

Two seconds into the “Neglecting Yourself” segment, I knew the sponsor plug was landing here 😂

[@SL-lb6lz]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@georgehowelliii5666]

Good video!

[@dreday1302]

4:55 to 7:25 women hate when men called them out on anything, truth is most men are not looking for dates that they need to be a goofball with. They are looking for women that actually want to be a wife and searching the mentality of that person it’s so important. This is why men are asking whatever questions we need to regardless of how any modern female feels about it today. Our solution for that is if you don’t like the questions of what we are stating we are looking for, that’s perfectly fine you’re entitled to believe any fantasy that you and the sisterhood have created and freely walk away. This is where most guys are now, you can see it’s working just fine and the girls are posting everywhere having a hard time getting commitment. Dating is not the problem for men , it’s the relationship not lasts forever. What are the things women do to cause men to turn around? These are questions the sisterhood will never look for until they hit the wall. The rest of the video is absolutely awesome and factual men need to lead because real men ultimately know if they don’t they will instantly be flaked on.

[@jpurvis1]

Another good one, Courtney!

[@davidhodges7535]

The green looks nice on you👍👍

[@kinnymonster]

If a guy makes plans 50.1% of the time wouldn't that make him controlling & misogynistic? Women want equality. 😏🤣

[@justingary5322]

Not really

[@doom9603]

exactly 😆

[@olciaw4513]

And men want a traditional woman but complain when they are the sole provider in the relationship. We can say lots of things like that about both sexes but it's better to concentrate on the positive qualities of men and women :)

[@doom9603]

@@olciaw4513 good point xD

[@kinnymonster]

@@olciaw4513 If I wanted a traditional stay at home woman then I would accept being the soul provider.

[@elementalheroneos7289]

Hi Courtney, the chronically online part, what if you just like to listen to music all the time, listen to scripture or bible app, or watching Netflix and Anime. Is that being chronically online?

[@ideamachine39]

no

[@philiparmand3534]

That's so good, "touching it is not enough, roll around in it." Hahaha!

[@antonioboyd2036]

Calling the kettle black it so many women out here who lack confidence in thereself who dont no how or wont communicate who have soo many trust issue because of fealing with the wrong type of man in their past and dont heal! Its crazy men take all the blame for the relationship not being healthy

[@OnlyPainAllDayEveryDay00]

Great content as always, Courtney. Keep up the great work!

[@davidj.espino2435]

How about you let the woman pursue you? Then when you see she's worth your time or potential in her, then that's the time you take the lead. Sometimes you do all the work that the woman don't do anything anymore, you just tire yourself by then.😔🇵🇭

[@justingary5322]

Exactly what I was thinking 🤔

[@xjoemallardx]

They'll only pursue you if you're attractive.

[@davidj.espino2435]

@@xjoemallardx I know, and that's what I mean, as an attractive guy, I just let the women who like me pursue me to see if they're really serious, cause a lot of this ladies are just in for games, and not worth my time anymore.

[@gerardoa9179]

"I had a woman who constantly contacted me first, and even asked why I didn't contact her first. When she reached out to me, I wanted to plan dates, but she only gave me excuses. I deleted her number, but she messaged me again two weeks later. I didn't answer. These types of women are exhausting and just want attention.

[@rallycapandstanding]

🇵🇭

[@cymbergan]

At what point do you transition from nonverbal to verbal communication when initiating going out?

[@tommygunn6901]

When you take the first step to improve yourself in a mental way, you take the first step away from chronically online behavior. By the way, I surprised the girl I'm seeing the other night when she was performing in front of a small crowd. Her face lit up when she saw me!

[@GeorgeT370]

Got it....thanks Courtney :-)

[@DaniPrays]

I am enjoying your content and I am finding it is very helpful : )

[@familyengineering5591]

Im chronically online looking for gun parts and deals ☹️

[@sibarra417]

lol

[@doom9603]

Sig Sauer is back. 😆

[@Aerodos12]

Idk why, but i burst out laughing when you said that number 3 was Chronically Online Behavior (don't get me wrong, that type of trait is unattractive, but it being relatable is the funny part).

[@PabloSanturbo]

Valid…. Thank you

[@AbstractM0use]

They want you to lead in everything except what's for dinner. Man: "Where would you like to eat tonight?" Woman: "I don't know, whatever you want, I guess." Man: "Ok, let's go here." Woman: "No, not that one." Man: "Ok, then Restaurant B it is." Woman: "No not that one either, we just had that last week." Man: "Well, what, then?" Woman: "I don't care." Man: 😵‍💫

[@DistortedBirth]

Hey Courtney, I must say that green compliments you very much!

[@slicerneons3300]

Men will stop asking modern women what they bring to the table when women stop asking it with their no icks mandates and 6 or higher requirements. If women want men to lead, then they need to appreciate the effort, not criticize and compare it constantly with strangers they saw online.

[@mooseyman74]

Start of relationship "I love it when you come home dirty smelling of work" End of relationship "Get away from me you're in your work clothes"

[@samsl3497]

I want to keep it PG but you cant always be lovey-dovey in bed. Learned that from one of my relationships.

[@CourtneyRyan]

👀

[@CallsItLikeISeizeIts]

Some like it rough 😂

[@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd]

Not with 20 year olds, because they're dumb

[@cledosliop4175]

true

[@thejohnallcornshow9842]

It's literally no matter what I do it's never enough. There just isn't enough honest women out there

[@kevinbradshaw6127]

I like the green top , youre a week early , St Patricks day is next sunday , i,m going into Dublin city shopping tomorrow to buy something green to wear for the parade, not the touristy t shirts , something stylish