4 Ways To Make Your Ex Want You Again

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@jazzmynjohnson 2 жыл бұрын

Breakup Brad, you are a genius. I've been listening and applying your advice to my dating life. So far, I've noticed a huge difference in the way I'm treated and the results I want. I'm so happy I came across your channel.

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzbin.info”

@beseek9385 Жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning aaaaaAAAAA q

@igorsoarescanuto7155 Жыл бұрын

Any updates?

@anblogg 2 жыл бұрын

Already did most of these and I think she is way way long gone

@baddybitty7485 3 жыл бұрын

He said “fuck it”😭 that really made me feel better after my breakup …. Love this guys energy 😂

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Help yourself feel better too. Life is short! :-) Go out there and meet your friends, take a new hobby whenever possible. Basically just try to live your life again before meeting your ex, that's when you'll get the best chance of getting her back. Best of luck and thanks for watching!

@lindalochrie8664 3 жыл бұрын

Love these videos they help me lots having no contact gives u thinking time and learn if you ever want them back ..

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, not to mention that it helps you give more clarity to the situation and your ex, especially if you're dealing with an abusive one. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Take care!

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

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@sarojsaroj9071 3 жыл бұрын

Been broken up for 4 months, applying your techniques brad. Wish me luck.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDRfqeCe9RjZpI but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

@juztienbayog1043 3 ай бұрын

Any updates regarding this?

@jonspruillsr.602 3 жыл бұрын

I've done everything possible to make sure she will not come back!! But I'm very glad you mentioned that we are not bad or we have to be better for them!! Thank you

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, be a better version for yourself for your ex or for someone new.

@Amctothemoon 3 жыл бұрын

Great advice , Dam I’ve done all those stupid things in the last 10 weeks of break ups , until last week I rang and said I need to stop coming through , it’s hard going no contact but it’s for the best

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z4bCeoKjbdSZfNE

@alexandrafaleschini9582 Жыл бұрын

Is it ok to start the “no contact “after 2 months?

@mireyaluna9073 3 жыл бұрын

Every person thinks different but in my case if a person leaves me in my bad momments then I think it's better if he is away in the good ones too. He is an ex for a reason ;)

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!

@dianaespejo97 3 жыл бұрын

These videos are giving me hope Brad! I really do hope it works !!

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!

@chanphio9270 3 жыл бұрын

Broke up with my girlfriend for about 2 years. Begged and plead. She's in a relationship now. Now were living more than a thousand miles from each other. And I am not doing any drama regarding the break up. I guess I've moved on. But I do miss her sometimes. Do you think that she can probably miss me too ?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

If you haven't heard from her in years? Most likely not, man.

@SPCBRAWLERZ 3 жыл бұрын

Not an ex but an acquaintance that rejected me. Only hung out 3-5 times over 3 years ago, got rejected & haven't seen her since. 2 months ago, she contacted me saying she was sorry and she wanted 'closure' (pfft) Just did small talk of only 1 text and her replying. Thats it. This video seems helpful.

@masterpotato3583 Жыл бұрын

Brad, I made a bunch of mistakes in the first two weeks after my breakup. I apologized a lot, asked why, and I allowed her to continue the flow of conversation until we got to the point in which we don’t talk. I’m in the no contact phase, but I’m wondering is this a lost cause now?

@DBeattie 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Brad. My gf broke up with me last week and she made contact with me Tuesday this week. She asked how I was and we had a quick conversation. She said night and I replied with goodnight, it was nice talking to you. She aired the message in the morning. The convo was positive.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

That's what I call the "check-in" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and here's how to handle each text. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jH6keYmAa9mpia8

@lamineaim5562 2 жыл бұрын

I genuinely think you are the best the way you speak, the tips you give i look forward to have one to one coaching session with you soon keep up the good work , greetings from Algeria 🇩🇿

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

@lamineaim5562 2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning I'm already subscribed and I'd be happy to share your channel to all of my circles

@mehdif9543 3 жыл бұрын

Cant find my last comment so I type again: Hi. Brad I made a mistake last week and texted her around 1h after 17d. Do u think nc can still work or I screwed? And btw I just talk about what I did in last 2 and half weeks shortly and shared some musics.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

This all depends on how she responds.

@laceycastillo6598 3 жыл бұрын

My ex is my ex, we are in good terms now but not to the extent that we are getting back together, just friends thats it! I am happy now without him as my boyfriend.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@jazmineelnaji8493 3 жыл бұрын

it hurts because we stopped talking for a while and then he came back apologizing and all and i thought that yes he finally realized my worth as soon as we started talking again he never mentioned us coming back and we kept talking as friends . guess I was just a person he got the validation he was seeking for with no intention to actually work things out

@ptrsrfns 3 жыл бұрын

There's no need to stay friends with an ex.

@RR-oy5mt 3 жыл бұрын

It was too soon to meet up, and never be friends with your ex

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

@gigibibi2829 3 жыл бұрын

I created a slideshow of our relationship together the day he broke up with me and sent it to him. I did all the wrong things within the first three days. Do I still have a chance?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Watch this first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJrOiGePjqhsr9E So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

@katebajda6960 Жыл бұрын

We did no contact for close to a month, no progress. We talked yesterday and I guess we’re gonna be friends so either way it’s easier. Move on by drifting apart or fix things in the healthiest way possible instead of jumping right back into things.

@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын

I don't know your entire situation but it looks like you're on the right track. The progress should be felt on your end... this is assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

@nightmaregaming3813 11 ай бұрын

It seems to be effective . Im trying myself to get my ex-girlfriend who lost interested all of a sudden. I asked her the problem and she never mentioned it until now. Later we broke up , we still have a contact each since we are in the same class. It's a tough period. If this tips useful , I would be happy. But im proving myself better while im listening your advice. Great work!

@BradBrowning 11 ай бұрын

Good. Just make sure you have good conflict resolution and try to see if the problems can be resolved or not.

@moonwolf4145 10 ай бұрын

I was just dumped after 3 years of being together after moving to the UK for my ex, it’s been hard but I will definitely be applying all of these tactics because I truly love her and believe somewhere that she still cares . I’m going to just have o contact for 30 days and if we bump into each other at college I’ll just give a little “hi” and be on my way. Thank you for these tips 😊

@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын

You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!

@the_tune_tribe 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Brad, thanks for the advices. I have one question. What would you advice for me in regards to no contact rules as I am working together in the same department of the same company? In fact, both of us has to do the same work together. Beside this, she is intentionally trying to make me jealous by being into another guy in my office. Please I need you suggestions. Thanks

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

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@bobfico7296 Жыл бұрын

Hey Brad, need advice. What would you do after say 4 months of contact and I still feeling same but her saying she still needs more time cause she still angry and wants be left alone.

@bucketbucket4027 Жыл бұрын

My penpal and I have been exchanging letters for years now… we recently ran into this app Text a letter and we’ve been sending 2 letters per week because it is sooo freakin easy

@crystalhofawger8353 3 жыл бұрын

Will this work for my husband that has left and been gone almost 5 months? We still text occasionally, he always texts me first. He says he don't know what he wants to do. I made the mistake of telling him I was giving up and moving on. I think he took it by surprise. I totally figured I wouldn't hear from him. And he texted, we had small talk. He says "I don't know ALOT"!!

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

If things seem hopeless and you're wanting to save the marriage on your own, my clients found their peace by having applied the tips similar to the ones I mentioned on these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGLRd4isqdSZbbs AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqerYYaKjbukmqs If you're still having trouble, consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

@hvboyboy7400 3 жыл бұрын

After a long time KZbin notified me for ur video

@hvboyboy7400 3 жыл бұрын

@@brieebleassy2293 I don't want someone back

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

When you click the notification icon, it will immediately prompt you of my new videos!

@jumbomaryvinah3887 3 жыл бұрын

I already have begged and pleaded and trust me, I looked like a fool. I was really embarrassed myself. But how can I change that? How can I repair the mistakes so that I can move on

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hau5qqCPo7Z5is0 Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGjdpouhYtiJqas It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

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@nauffi2818 3 жыл бұрын

Brad, I would like to say thank you for your help, but unfortunately my ex moved on way to quick, she’s 16 and she had moved on for a 26 year old who lives on another continent. This is a week after the break up bearing in mind. Is there any hope ?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA

@swedlepop7092 3 жыл бұрын

Wait wait wait- she’s into a 26 year old?

@Skeletonman37 3 жыл бұрын

Hey brad!! My girlfriend and I broke up in November but we talked a pretty good amount since then and now. What should I do, did I screw up?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@av03 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Brad! I love your videos. She communicates to the other before breakup that first week of December. And now ask for space for the both of us. Is no contact still a step to do?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

If I understand your question correctly.... yes, you should apply No Contact for at least a few weeks, especially if she's specifically asking for space

@anki_inspiration 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Brad I broke up with my Ex four years ago. But in the first two years i gave him all the signals that i wanted us to get back together but he kept passing them all and didn't reciprocate my efforts so i gave up. I've been like waiting for him to act but nothing until lately when I found out he might be seeing someone and i feel very horrible and sad about it. All the pain just hit me back again. What should I do Brad?

@anki_inspiration 3 жыл бұрын

@@bradbrowning9168 Hello Brad

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Always strive for balance in relationships. If you're the one constantly giving without getting anything in return, that should be your clue to walk away.

@ericfriendzoned1303 3 жыл бұрын

I work with her in the same facility so we cross paths every now and then she asked for time and I want to give it to her but working around each other "I'm maintenance" she's "therapy" it's Healthcare.... makes it hard to no contact at times. What should I do becuase i don't think this will be effective? We ended on understanding each other and I know she isn't seeing anyone else.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@nicolenicole319 3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t say to my ex that I brought another person to a secluded beach the other day and it looked better than when I went with him… LOL that may make him a bit jealous… I know it would make me a little irked☹️

@minajan4316 3 жыл бұрын

Do you girl but don't use someone else to get over him as you'll end up hurting the guy and don't tell your ex either. None of his business 🤷🏼‍♀

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah do away with the details, you'd want to be mysterious!

@scottstone1475 2 жыл бұрын

Brad how do you do the 30 day rule if you have kids and have to talk to her. Almost impossible to not see or talk to her. I'm confused

@braydenwilson7680 3 жыл бұрын

Hey brad, I started no contact 3 weeks ago. But I wasn’t happy with how I left things. I used your clean slate text and she responded well. Do I need to restart my no contact?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Wait a few more days before contacting her. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDRfqeCe9RjZpI but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

@paconator2762 2 жыл бұрын

I always try the go out and have fun with my friends approach and I do at the time. But I always end up breaking down crying when I get home because I wish she was there with me.

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

I feel your pain. It's always awfully painful when the breakup is still fresh. Take time to heal though and love yourself first, all right? Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!

@madisontreherne3070 3 жыл бұрын

Hey brad I need some guidance. My ex and I had a one month break and then decided to break up. The breakup went well and we agreed that it was mutual. I am currently in no contact and am curious what next steps I should be taking once no contact is up. P.s we are still friends

@pablosanjuan3941 3 жыл бұрын

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@RR-oy5mt 3 жыл бұрын

Cut all contact for at least 2 month and don’t be friends with this person.

@ptrsrfns 3 жыл бұрын

I would say don't reach out. Let him come to you, and if he does just assume he is interested again. Be normal and casual the way you were when you first knew him. If he is really interested he will ask you out again.

@pablosanjuan3941 3 жыл бұрын

@@RR-oy5mt no bro no contact is for one month two months she might get into a relationship with someone else and not be willing to get back

@RR-oy5mt 3 жыл бұрын

@@pablosanjuan3941 sometimes one month it’s too soon in my opinion. You have to let the dumper miss you.

@xremyfraggerx1972 3 жыл бұрын

I broke up with my girlfriend because she was desperate for me to collect money for marriage, I was on a tuff spot to do that since my salary is small, we've been together for 3 years . And she was controling me for the past 3 years I just follow her words attitude, because I love her. But the time came where I can never put up with that. And frustrated when she ask about the money, she was a college student. And now after the brake up months after I'm still sad and feel regret.. I don't know what to do, she was toxic to me she didn't respect me anymore. But I still love her. So many memories it's hard to move on.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. In situations like this, I always suggest for folks to really take a step back, gain the clarity you need (that she was abusive to you and may only want your money) and then accept it for what it is. Being stuck happens when you have this idealized version of how your ex really is and how she has treated you versus who she really is and what the relationship was about. Yes, it takes time to do all that, I've had clients who has suffered for 5, 10, even 14 years in an abusive relationship, but with time, you'll get there. Right now your mind is having trouble accepting because of the great memories you two shared and it's trying to make sense with how she was with you towards the end of the relationship, when her mask came off and she showed you who she really is. Get my coaching program if you need more help with this and/or make sure you watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship form divorce, pregnancy, financial problems, protection and wealth, etc,,

@ladyautumn9443 3 жыл бұрын

I did all these things and then after i stopped talking to them all together and got to the point where i didn't even like them anymore and they tried to contact me telling me sorry and trying to talk to me again... Trust me when you dont want them anymore then they will come back...

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

That's mostly the case, yeah. This means you've already made a lot of work on yourself too and not obsess with your ex.

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

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@alicedavis6635 3 жыл бұрын

I want him to want me but now I will never ever go back to him

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!

@frijole10 3 жыл бұрын

Should I do 30 day no contact? Or just don't contact her at all? The 30 day mark is this Sunday

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

So, you've completed 3+ weeks of No Contact already? If so, good job. Probably safest to stick it out for another few days until Sunday before you start thinking about reaching out, but you're nearly there! Watch this vid before you contact her: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U

@rishikhomane8790 3 жыл бұрын

Hey brad, Can you please make a video on having a break, like me and my girlfriend we are have a break and beings friends right now and hoping for the best,can you please help.she’s still cares for me but she’s just isn’t have the vibe she had before what may I do to bring it back. Loved this video it is of a great help, Thank you so much 😊❤️

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Already did. Feel free to browse my other vids! But here's what you're looking for: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h4GtoaWAqstgn7c

@riyaazcr7672 3 жыл бұрын

Hii Brad.... I watched many videos of you it's mind relaxing one during this my breakup situation . I don't know what to do after 30 days no contact , I want to initiate the text with my ex or I want to continue the no contact after 30 days and wait for my ex text ???

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@christinatangney8363 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Brad, what if your ex reaches out to you in a positive way (last msg he wants to meet up) after day 6 into no contact, break-up was two weeks ago. Is it rude to just ignore them? Some say it's still too soon, this no contact is quite confusing.. I'm afraid after 30 days he will start dating someone else.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKvFYmugbL-Ahqc but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m3uzeKWhqraho5I Best of luck!

@lucydavid7345 3 жыл бұрын

Heyy Brad..!! We are in a long distance relationship and we broke up 4days back.. We didn't have a fight...He just blocked me off saying he loves me but can't do it with me anymore...Out of frustration I blocked him back...Should I call him or take the no contact..? Or should I unblock him to make it work ? Plsss do Rplyyy🙏❤

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Unblock him when it's time to contact. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@harleyduhon2415 3 жыл бұрын

I am three days in to no contact the last thing I said to my ex through text was that I had some of her things to get back to her she did not reply. She text me today just a random text saying that she took a kratom shot that I bout for her and that she was feeling it. As of now I have not replied what should I do brad?

@ericfriendzoned1303 3 жыл бұрын

Shes playing a game or testing you. She messaged you to see if you would reply just wait a day and say something like "oh cool" or "nice" and leave it at that then she will text you more then just gradually build things back up

@harleyduhon2415 3 жыл бұрын

@@ericfriendzoned1303 so you think it would be better to say oh nice or cool then to go with no contact?

@ericfriendzoned1303 3 жыл бұрын

@@harleyduhon2415 your doing the no contact by waiting a few days the simple reply is just nothing more then acknowledgement then leave it at that then she will start to wonder and end up messaging you more just play the game

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Act cool. That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaS5g2qvi5mLbs0

@almasy1146 3 жыл бұрын

I really love your advices

@verunika2064 3 жыл бұрын

We have been for 6 months unofficially together. He just have problems to fall in love with any girl (include me). He really did care for me. He tried so much to fall in love with me. But then it was very emotionally breakup (we wished all good in our lifes for future apart) I am in 2 week NC. Will no contact help to get him back in this situation? I am desperate. He was perfect...

@verunika2064 3 жыл бұрын

UPDATE: he reacted on my storie on IG..we had small talk and then he told me, he is dating an awesome girl...

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, make him realize what he has lost. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKariHaNmqxkrtU However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

@niktniewiem4785 3 жыл бұрын

How on earth would no contact help to get someone back? I did that unconciously with my ex, way before I've even heard about any "winning your ex back techniques". I was just mad at her and didn't want to contact her, but after about a month I started to miss her, so I wrote to her and we started talking. Turned out she already had a new guy. I now think she ended up with him exactly because I didn't contact her and she felt very sad and lonely, so she was susceptible to romance and feelings from other guys. She was hot so there were always some guys hitting on her, that made it easy for her to get comfort after break up. And no, she didn't left because she already had a new guy, we broke up after a big argument, and we were both mad at each other.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

How long were you in a relationship with her? It doesn't look like there were deep emotions there if she can do that easily... or she may be rebounding, depending on what your real issues were in the relationship aside from the constant fights especially if you constantly ghost her for long periods of time after the fights. And no, she may not have dumped you for someone else, but 9 times out of 10, she already has stacked up a bunch of suitors for her to go to as soon as you two break up. It's her escape plan.

@niktniewiem4785 3 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning 7 years man. We've been through so much shit, obstacles, fights yet we stayed together, that was a love like in movies but that's a story for another time, so don't say there were no emothions, while I stated why she found someone so quickly, and the reasons are exactly because she had so much emotions in her that she had to release them in a way she in that time thought would help her. Idk why you speak about "constant ghosting", I've never said that, even after big fights we couldn't stand not to contact each other for more than an hour. We didn't even have almost any fights in about a year before breakup. It's not that I'm making it up, we've been talking with eachother after the breakup, and I know her so well that I can tell what she said about what she did exactly fits her personality. She was mad, lonely, lost, sad, and she hates to be single, like she fears it, that is weird but we talked about it in the past, so I think it is one of the main reasons she found someone so quickly, and those are the reasons we are not together anymore. Idk if she is different than others in those areas but I don't think so. It is psychology, and when you are a pissed off hot girl with a lot of options you will not wait untill HE graciously talks to you and allow you to be together again. Mad sad and lonely state makes girls want to fall in someones arms, so if you wait untill she falls into someone elses... well I don't think that's a good strategy.

@oigbochieloveth1802 3 жыл бұрын

i Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divor ce,............

@ANNucatlns08 3 жыл бұрын

don't apologize that's easy!!!!

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Don't apologize if you have nothing to be really sorry about. However, you ought to take responsibility if you did something wrong. Be the bigger person, but then again this depends on the situation. Only you would know if an apology is overdue or not!

@hasanghwidi5718 3 жыл бұрын

Brad, but she works with me .. at the same place!! I mean im a subscriber and I saw your vid about unavoidable contact. But still she can see me walking pass by her several times .. how can I apply no contact, I tried to ignore but that also not gonna help, its just hard tbh .. any suggustions?? And guess what I did the No contact period 30 days .. and I start the attraction phase and I did it in a good way joking , texting funny things, bringing back memories and all that .. but something went wrong at work ..and she went back cold again.. I can see her watch my stories but i didnt contact since .. I dont want to fk it up Your openion matters

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

You can ignore her, just stop looking at her when you pass by her station/cubicle/office! It's all about self control, man. If she dumped you, you really ought to focus on yourself and your well-being. It will feel like you're stuck on her now especially since you work at the same place, but with practice and prioritizing yourself first and how you need to heal, you'll get through it.

@oigbochieloveth1802 3 жыл бұрын

i Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divor ce,............

@MsOrigin123 3 жыл бұрын

Right before me and my ex broke up we were sitting in the bathroom holding hands and crying about how she doesn’t want to lose me and that I’m her soulmate in a friend kind of way and we wasn’t exited to see me when I went over anymore then we shared a kiss, do you think I have a chance or should I move on?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

She's acting confused, which is understandable. Give her time and space. Discussed that confusing behaviour your ex tends to experience here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gqXdf3yYjLVkprM

@montefuscocibele 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Brad! We broke up almost 2 months ago, and within the first month we were seeing each other and trying to adjust things. But he said he wants to be alone to do the things he wants to do in life, without having to do anything for anyone. I found out he's been seeing a girl for two weeks. What to do? i broke up with him but i was doing this too often.

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA

@emmis1994 3 жыл бұрын

Tell me what to do @brad ! Me and my ex have a dog together and I tried the No Contact thing, but he can't respect that and says he misses his dog. No Contact only lasted 2 weeks and he got to see his dog.. I was the one to break up due to daily anxiety, we were together for 6 years, engaged for 3. I really miss him, but he has a rebound relationship and had no problem to jump into another womans arm after 4 weeks after breakup. Please help me.. 💔

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA

@yummyteagm5018 3 жыл бұрын

Too late brad😭 i did your list of mistakes like begging and pleading, also sudden appearance on my ex workplace to say something and trying to reach her out with her mutual friends on social media in 2 weeks after our break up. Then she blocked me, the later after 1 week, she unblocked me and then after 2 days. She blocked me again even if i didn't do anything.. what should i do brad? 😭 Please help.. i want her back

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@2.22am Жыл бұрын

Hey Brad, what to do if you've been blocked on every social. How can we show that we are living our best life?

@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын

You're doing it for you and not for anyone else. As to being blocked, I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4a3amV_d5qondU Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80 Good luck!

@zinnyfaith3072 3 жыл бұрын

I really love this video!

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Hey I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

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@georgettedzifa1937 3 жыл бұрын

What can I do when my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him meanwhile I am not? Also we've stopped contacting each other but he hasn't told me if we've broken up or not? What do I do?

@georgettedzifa1937 3 жыл бұрын

@Make Saviour okay thank you

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Discuss things like adults. What made him think you cheated? What did you do and did you try to explain stuff to him?Just do your best to explain it to him and give him time to process that information.

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship form divorce, pregnancy, financial problems, protection and wealth, etc,,

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

write to him on Watxap

@aileentracy7062 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Brad, what do I do if he doesn’t want a relationship rn (maybe in the future) but still loves me, wants me in his life, finds me beautiful etc. Right now he just doesn’t want a relationship how do I change that as soon as possible. (This is after no contact) Right now we are talking daily, planning to meet up next week and continue to meet up etc how do I get him to want a relationship with me

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Hi there! Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk but watch this too as this contains equally important information: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH23cmevn7mWaKs The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!

@tonyrossi3814 3 жыл бұрын

I really don’t do social media, hate it. Any ideas on how to show her I’m good? Ex wife and I reconnected after years. We don’t have same group of friends, only our son and her kids that I’m close with.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Just do well for yourself and if you have mutual friends, which I'm sure you do, word will go around. This is something I've discussed here, around the 4-minute mark: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDHmJR3np14mK8

@almasy1146 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I really want a second chance :'(

@lintrixmatthew3275 2 жыл бұрын

Such a nice channel, but i have alrdy done all of the things that is said not to do in the video, i don’t know if i can do anything now

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

@trafelder5530 2 жыл бұрын

Peace Brad. I did all of these things. I was love struck when I 1st met her. She was beautiful and sweet. She has a past (4 kids) and a lot of drama. But I ignored all of those things, because of her character. I completely cut off all of my hobbies because things were so good with our vibe. The 1st 4 or 5 months were honeymoon stage-like, the last 2 months she became cold. I found out 2 in a half weeks ago that she was seein a coworker at her job. I saw the messages and confronted both of them, she told me to stop textin her. I said I was sorry and that understood. I told her I wanted another chance with no reply. She called I didn't answer but called back she didn't answer. She texted me sayin she didn't try to call me. That was October 11th, been in no contact since. I'm tryna hold it together but it's hard. Her parents and her kids love me. I want her to love me again.

@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын

Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!

@jessichristenson2957 2 жыл бұрын

What if your friends with your ex? What can I do with that? I'm trying to get back together with my ex because I regret breaking up with them.

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

It's off to a bad start if you agreed on being friends right away instead of giving each other space first. If you meant you ended things with your ex though instead of being broken up with, try to apply the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5mqn4Oqpa-HmK8

@mikepena9519 2 жыл бұрын

Been watching a lot of your videos as of recent, only to find out i did everything you have said not to and i know she is already "seeing someone" (more of a fwb situation). She has me blocked on all social media and doesnt reach out. Even when i was texting a lot she will rarely respond if even that. She claims her walls are too high up to let me back in and that she is done and i shouldnt have hope. Is this done? is there any shot? I feel she doesnt even think of me after 2 years together.

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

You've become aware you've been making mistakes yet you still texted her a lot? Try to do the right thing first which is accepting the breakup and give her space. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

@MikaheelTV 3 жыл бұрын

Good morning brad here from Philippines. I'm using the no contact right now, but i've been seing her post something about letting me go. What should I do about this? Is this a sign that there's no chance for us?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6PSfY1tjbBsnbs

@thewheyoflife3548 3 жыл бұрын

Hey brad! Is it cool to ask her to a movie date right after the 30 day no contact if I phrase it correctly? Because we had both talked about seeing it while we were together and I think it would be a good idea, but what are your thoughts? I don’t want to come off too strong but I feel as if this could be a good opportunity.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly bro it’s hard for me to answer that without knowing more. Generally speaking a movie night as the first meeting since no contact would probably be too much too soon, but if you know she’ll agree to it for sure it’s probably a gamble worth taking. It’s sort of up to your intuition to gauge her reaction when you suggest it. If there’s a decent chance she’ll be weirded out or outright decline, don’t do it. Good luck!

@thewheyoflife3548 3 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you brad you’re the best!

@corydavis5636 Жыл бұрын

@@thewheyoflife3548 no bro terrible idea, stay strong ignore her move on

@diegocasillas9104 3 жыл бұрын

brad! it’s been months since my ex has spoken to me. i never got the chance to apologize for my how i acted leading up to the breakup. she now goes to school 2,000 miles away. should i send her something with an apology along with it? thank you 🙏

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I do, especially if it makes you feel better and just get it off your chest... assuming you really did something wrong. What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJrOiGePjqhsr9E and from my other vid here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hn-QYWqhdtl8oNk but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5-oYmxom7p-rqs

@mickeyn757 3 жыл бұрын

My ex used to fall out with me nearly every few months for the past eight years, now I think it's over because I said some hurtful things during the last break up. I just lost it! Tired of getting accused of cheating while I'm at work etc. We both have our faults I suppose. Brad, will the no contact work for me due to the fact I said some bad things? Any comments would be much appreciated. Thanks

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Have you lied to her in the past? That could be the root cause there why she's having some trust issues. Try to be sympathetic of what she's going through. So try to reassure her. If you haven't lied though and she's just throwing blind accusations, then that's not good. If this is the case, the breakup may be a blessing in disguise.

@mickeyn757 3 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning hi, no I haven't lied to her to be honest. She's just insecure it seems for example, when we're driving somewhere, she will accuse me of driving in specific routes as she thinks I'm doing this on purpose so I don't get seen by women who I'm supposedly dealing with etc. I've appologised for the hurtful things I've said but that's as far as it goes. To be honest brad, I feel weak appologising. Please tell me I'm not weak? Lol

@fiona4745 3 жыл бұрын

Im ur fans from Thailand. I try to follow ur videos😋 i hope he will come back in no time! Now me and him still talking to each other he say like he give me a chance but we start like friends first so he will see how it goes. And see if i can change myself as i told him or not😂 wish me luck🥺

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIuUfJiqdrGNqMU

@fiona4745 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for ur comment🥰🙏🏼 yes will change for myself first but if he comes back then is a bonus!! Haha

@gustavomorter5925 2 жыл бұрын

Probably won’t see this but I recently got out of almost 8 year relationship and she said she didn’t want any contact with me and fell out of love with me . I’m blcoked on everything and she’s out there living her life like nothing happened. I asked her I needed a friend because what I was goin through isn’t easy . She told me to figure it out and get over it and to not text her again . Out of nowhere she started treating me like she Dosent care at all . Can this be that she found somone new ?

@kaseybernard288 2 жыл бұрын

@Brad Browning does any of the tips work for long distance

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

This depends. A long distance is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM and/or kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@mohamadshareek6613 3 жыл бұрын

Bro my girl broke up with me...She blocked me on whats app only...And i been doing no contact for a month now..After a month she comment and liked my photos on Facebook with a heart react...and...one day i noticed that shes not coming online..soo i went to her profile and i noticed that she was unfriend me...But she didn't blocked me....i need a help..I want to know is why did she do like that? And what should i do now?

@giannakhseleimon6516 3 жыл бұрын

Call her

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gX6wp2yin8mloc0 AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3_CiXSdfc-UfK8 but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!

@botolichishi8902 3 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend is ignoring me, then twice I have seen him with a girl, I do not know wether he is cheating on me or not but now he cold and distant towards me. Just yesterday he text me and blame me that I am not texting or calling him up,and that I am different to him

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

He could be projecting his own behaviour to you. If he's creeping behind your back, you could be better off without him, as much as it hurts.

@pablosanjuan3941 3 жыл бұрын

Just what I needed bro💯

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

@chrisdove8015 2 жыл бұрын

Hey brad, would no contact be affective with someone that is anxious preoccupied and rebounded within 3 weeks?

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

It's bound to work one way or another. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzbin.info/www/bejne/imW2q2l6nryFqbM

@Johnny--gd2fq 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Brad so i think i’ve figured out how my relationship ended with my girl. First of all we were together for about 7 months. One night we where face timing and i got a little upset with her about something (nothing major) i ended up yelling at her, but i didn’t raise my voice. In general she is very emotional and sensitive, she hung up and started crying her eyes out. A couple minutes later i felt really bad and she ended up calling me back and i apologized and she said she forgave me... so i thought everything was okay. About a week later something wasn’t right... she wasn’t texting me she was only replying to my texts and didn’t want to facetime as much as we used to. This went on for about 3 to 4 weeks. I just thought it was because we haven’t seen each other in a couple months due to the pandemic. I ended up confronting her about it and asked what’s going on. She told me she was feeling distant ever since i got upset with her that one night. About a week later she told me that it would be best if we broke up, she was very emotional about it and said that she still loved me and she hopes things work out in the future. it’s been about a mouth in a half since the break up. I’ve texted her a lot at the beginning. Then i came across your youtube vids and i started following your advice. I haven’t contacted her for a couple weeks now, i’ve been posting on my social media of me having fun and enjoying my life, i’ve told her the break up was good for the both of us, and i haven’t showed her my emotions. Now... i still love her and i want her back more than anything because i honestly feel like she’s the one and we broke up for a silly reason or something. It feels like i’m the reason we broke up and i hate myself so much for it. What do you think my chances of winning her back are? Thanks

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJrOiGePjqhsr9E but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5-oYmxom7p-rqs Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!

@lucywood4988 Жыл бұрын

Boyfriend blocked me want him back what to do 😢

@helicopter140 Жыл бұрын

Hey, can you update us how is the situation right now... I am going through the same right now, so please inform me how is it going

@liliankwamboka8146 3 жыл бұрын

Hi brad...it has been a week and a half since i applied no contact rule with my former bf...until yesterday when he texted and i replied...then he kept asking me to take him back...that he wants the old us. I told him i needed to think and he replied that after i have thought things through i give him an answer...Brad! What do i do next?? Coz i still like the dude

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

If you feel the same way, give it a go.... or if you feel like the issue has not been resolved, then meet him halfway and don't commit fully yet.

@bibekkumarshah2519 3 жыл бұрын

Nice video

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@hadassahdoxsee2091 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t know why he broke up with me, but one of my guy friends sent me a video that was inappropriate on KZbin saying “this is awful” so he wasn’t sending it to me cause he liked me, he sent it to tell me why would someone post stuff like that, and I sent a screen recording to my bf to show him the gross video someone posted, and he acted dry about it and I realized I didn’t have even context in the screen recording. He might’ve thought my guy friend liked me, and taken it the wrong way. He said “it’s cuz he wants you” and then stopped texting. About a hour later he broke up with me. I’m not sure if that’s why he broke up with me, but now he just wants to be friends and I think he’s moving on to another girl. I rlly want him to be happy, and I’m sorry if I sound desperate, but all I do is wanna fight for us. I am truly in love with him. And I don’t wanna lose him. I can’t be his friend because if he moves on, I can’t be happy for him because I like him, how do I fix this and get him back. Is it too late or not?

@JakeFields92 3 жыл бұрын

What if you want a 3rd chance with your ex if you were the one that dumped her both times?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

@Shashi1234567891 3 жыл бұрын

What if she's back with her ex boyfriend. Does no contect work.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

I really hate to burst your bubble here but let her finish whatever unfinished business she has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!

@jakevinoya2057 3 жыл бұрын

I hope i can apply this .. and she will come back ..

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship form divorce, pregnancy, financial problems, protection and wealth, etc,,

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

write to him on Watxap

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

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@tomparks6948 3 жыл бұрын

Hey brad, i have a pretty unique problem. My ex broke up with me about a week ago and ive been using no contact since then. However school is starting up again soon and we are in the same social bubble (for covid) during break and lunch. My normal friend group who are also her friends are in this group too. Should i try and stick to the old friend group and just limit direct conversation with her, or should i speak to others in the social bubble. If i did do the second option it would be a fairly big change and might seem passive aggressive. What should i do?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHzLf3ueetKMg8k but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid,check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!

@Darkprince21 3 жыл бұрын

My ex blocked me on social media but I didn’t text back because I don’t know if I’m blocked we still have mutual friends and now he’s in a relationship but I just want to be friends what do I doo I can’t even sleep

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4a3amV_d5qondU Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80 Good luck!

@Harsher83929 7 ай бұрын

Hey brad , my no contact period with my ex has ended of about a month , and now we've started to talk(ive initiated it) , but im afraid by talking this way she'll start to see me as a friend, how do i actually make her fall for me again. ??

@BradBrowning 7 ай бұрын

Hey man, getting an ex back is a process. When it comes to trying to re-attract an ex, it's best to treat the situation like new. Make her fall in love with you again the same way you did in the beginning with hopefully all the lessons learned and you and your ex are better versions of yourself. This is what my Ex Factor Guide is about but to get an overview, watch this vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas

@jonatz793 3 жыл бұрын

Brad what if i talk to her after break up 1 month ago. We talk and she said therw is no chance of getting back each other. Can i apply the no contact rule after i beg and plead? Can no contact rule worked after i beg and plead 3 months after we broke up?

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Really sorry, but your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m2TPZn6NetV8ptk and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship form divorce, pregnancy, financial problems, protection and wealth, etc,,

@davidgeringas8210 3 жыл бұрын

write to him on Watxap

@lucasmarshall4433 Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@UzmaKhan-fy8le Жыл бұрын

Would it work if your ex broke up with you because they were not willing to convert to your religion to marry you? I accept him how he is but it's just a formality thing he would need to do. He even refuses to even look into it to see if it could work with him, he didn't have this attitude before and it makes me think it's just because he fell out of love :(

@Davis-w5d Жыл бұрын

Thank you for helping me sir

@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын

You're very much welcome! Take care!

@Meksikalikiz90 2 жыл бұрын

Hello, my boyfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago, by phone since he moved to another country for work, but because i wanted to find an answer and try to save my relationship, after the breakup we talked to see what would happen and i came to visit him, and I don’t know if it was a good decision, I really want him back (although his attitude is good sometimes, I remember one day he said that when he makes a decision, there is nothing and no one that will make him mind change) but i dont know what to do, even we still act as a couple and we enjoy the time together

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

Trust me when I say you'd wanna be with someone who's sure about you instead of one that's on the fence about stuff, which as you can clearly see is where your ex's head is at right now. It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoLIXmd3YqijjLs On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@beast__boy82fitnesscoach16 3 жыл бұрын

Hi brad me and my girlfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago I’ve done everything you said not too she’s pissed if I do this now do you think it’s too late we’ll she’s pissed at me but still text me goodnight I’m just gonna leave her yeah I’ve also begged like a idiot I feel stupid hope I haven’t stuffed it she says she still loves me but Iv annoyed her big time you think it might work ? Cheers mate

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGjdpouhYtiJqas It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

@נווהמכלוף 2 жыл бұрын

What if after the breakup we talked a lot and for two months were very close to getting back but when it came to that she insisted she didnt want a relationship and cut me off?

@drmopperthegreatspellcaste8170 2 жыл бұрын

@fb

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't tell for sure since I wasn't able to monitor what happened between you two, but chances are you asked too soon. Take time to review this first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gmHLqYyKeK9lnrc

@ninabasu7004 2 жыл бұрын

My ex husband left me and my two small kids for my neighbour he don’t wanna have any contact with me so i don’t know how to bring him back to me and my kids i need help he won’t even have eye contact or see me

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Give it time and see if anything changes where you're both actively building your marriage back up and in which case, this may help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fH_EaaGPo9Wiqa8 otherwise, I'm sorry, but there's very little you can do here, especially if your spouse doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to actively repair your marriage. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the marriage, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too and check out the vids from this channel, which I've solely dedicated for married folks: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU Just remember that there is no right or wrong answer here because it is your marriage and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your spouse is worth it, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay?

@davidlee6117 3 жыл бұрын

Brad it's a bit of a problem in this current situation with covid

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

This pandemic has affected people worldwide. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN

@dolcedomenica5055 3 жыл бұрын

How to get back with your long distance ex during quarantine??? 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U however, due to the current global health crisis, everything may be put on hold. Remember, your health comes first so there's nothing much left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN

@cash2979 2 жыл бұрын

My situation is different we live together yes occasional sex we were together for 6yrs hes not in a rush for me to move out but he says he doesn't care or love me anymore I'm about 20% done on my part also but Its so weird how we sit on the couch have fun go out on the weekends together which gives me mixed feeling I don't understand it please help me

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's tricky. However, try to refrain from doing things like a couple in order to help your brain accept the breakup and process what happened and how he wants out, all right? Try to apply the tips here as best as you can: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpm5g5iLfp6JsNU

@nokenchuba8081 3 жыл бұрын

Love is a waste of time guys. Accept it and move on. It's better to love yourself first atleast. Talking though experience.

@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын

True, but whether you fight for it or not, depends on the relationship and its history and other factors.

@stephonjairaj8872 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate man

@stephonjairaj8872 3 жыл бұрын

@@elsamarie6150 ok

@vampirediariesisthebest7589 2 жыл бұрын

I’m 12 and my boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago… I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do!! He keeps looking at me at school with such sad eyes! I know he still likes me I just don’t know what to do! Please help!!

@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын

Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!

@oreoluwaveronica2790 2 жыл бұрын

T e X t h m o n w a s s a p f o r h e l p,,

@romanmunter800 6 ай бұрын

What should I do, I already made the mistakes in the beginning but some time has passed with no contact? It’s been a few months.

@BradBrowning 6 ай бұрын

Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!