4 Ways to TORTURE The NARCISSIST | Marcus Aurelius

Discover the power of Marcus Aurelius' Stoicism to transform your approach to dealing with narcissists. Learn to control your emotions and use reverse psychology effectively. Gain insights on stopping overthinking and applying Stoic principles in daily life for significant change.
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0:00 Intro
1:42 What is Narcissism?
4:25 Emotional Strength
8:16 Power of Perspective
11:56 The Art if Indifference
15:21 The Practice of Acceptance
17:14 Affirmations
19:33 Summary
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[@hd98_883]

Own the things you've done and may still do.. be better.. dont hurt others w selfishness..be happy n free......

[@stoicseveryday]

Yes absolutely 💯👍

[@allisonnovak500]

This wisdom is helpful for stoic growth. I don’t believe that practicing stoicism in order to deal with a narcissist will change a narcissist. They’re incapable of self awareness, reflection, realization, or admitting that they’re anything less than perfect.

[@stoicseveryday]

So true! Dealing with narcissists is like trying to teach a cat to fetch!

[@tekatt1]

Assigning and shamefully embarrassing to themselves. What do they hope to accomplish with each endeavor? Good question and if they have friends how do they treat their friends⁉️ They need the Lord I guarantee this will change whatever is happening in that Brain space 😊 Do they keep friends thinking this way?? Silly Birds!! 😝

[@stoicseveryday]

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[@WhtBfrm215]

Before I watch this . I have hit my bottom. I'm tired of being manipulated by someone I truly love. The disrespect and lack of effort to want to do is better. I am done. Today. But I don't want him to suffer because I love him. And maybe when I'm gone and he's alone I the 15yrs will mean nothing and I'm positive he has the next girl lined up. I wish the best. Bye.

[@stoicseveryday]

Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. It takes courage to open up about personal struggles. We're here to support you.

[@abbz23]

You have to now detach emotionally

[@enoch6977]

You have to radically accept that of they are in fact a narcissist they have never loved you because they are simply incapable of loving you. It's only when you swallow that bitter pill that you can begin to heal and regain your autonomy.

[@stoicdiscoveryus]

I don't know if you can read my comment, but I still want to leave a few lines here. Think more positively, girl, maybe it's God's will, he wants you to find someone who knows how to love and appreciate you more

[@xyzlmnop5206]

Good for you Girl....go live and enjoy YOUR life and not be trapped into making a narc's life content and happy. YOU are far more important the he will ever be.

[@user-co2gk7lu1n]

Thank you. I needed to hear this today !

[@stoicseveryday]

I'm glad it resonated with you!

[@a_paradoxfunction4156]

Thank you i’m dealing with this situation-the video was awesome❤

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[@ayanahmed2072]

Wow, thanks a lot. I really need that. Yes, I was dating a narcissist for 11 years. Thank you so much like to read and listen to more of this kind of videos.

[@stoicseveryday]

You are so welcome. I am glad you are out of that relationship. Good luck to you.

[@ayanahmed2072]

Hearing your speeches and your motivation, speeches, it uplifts all kinds of women in all kinds of relationship for me. I appreciate it and I will always listen to it inspire me to do better. You make sense thank you so much for doing a great job and giving us the inside and things we already knew, but we forgot, and you reminded us and much more, I wish there was more guys like you so much. I got your comment and yes I will. I don’t actually need luck. I am moved on and there’s no way he can put my middle so that good luck is for him. Thank you though appreciate your comment and returning it take care. Have a good one.

[@leonramsay21]

Profound teachings. Respect.

[@stoicseveryday]

I am glad you like it...😌

[@bethanyphillips622]

Why are there SO MANY narcissists out there?! Actually they are everywhere, to one degree or another. We have to look for the signs and when they show up, break that relationship asap. I’m 71 so I have met quite a few of them through the years. Good luck!!

[@stoicseveryday]

"Thank you for sharing your experience! It's unfortunate how prevalent narcissistic behavior can be, but you're absolutely right about being vigilant and recognizing the signs early on. It's crucial for our well-being to set boundaries and prioritize healthy relationships. Your wisdom from years of experience is invaluable. Wishing you continued strength and resilience in navigating any encounters with narcissists. Take care!"

[@karenjoslyn4051]

Thanks so much!! This is soo helpful!!

[@stoicseveryday]

Glad it was helpful! ☺️

[@tried2once]

Very helpful….Ive lost my “self” over the years. I’ve allowed a narcissist to jumble my head up like a jigsaw puzzle and anytime I try to put the pieces back together they come and jumble it up again. For me there’s no immediate way out…I have to deal with it for the time being, but I heard a good quote this morning, “pain is inevitable….suffering is a choice.” Thank you for posting the video

[@stoicseveryday]

I am glad you like it, remember you need to be in an positive environment to be your best self. no matter how hard it is to cut all the ties with that person, being with her/him is never gonna help you in the long run, it will just drain your energy. Take care of yourself.

[@Taller-yl9yn]

Leave them alone .

[@stoicseveryday]

exactly 👍

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Thank you so much for this information. It is a great help.

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You are so welcome! 🤗

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Hey, thanks a ton for the shoutout! It's awesome to hear that my lecture is making a difference for you. Keep up the positivity and keep rocking on your journey to happiness and peace.

[@williamhunter719]

Emotional Strengthen.

[@user-lm9xw8wd1y]

Very hood information thx u

[@stoicseveryday]

So nice of you. :)

[@111raimundas]

Thank you for the wisdom.

[@stoicseveryday]

You are so welcome

[@brianmurack6082]

So many of these people it's like trying to doge the devil

[@stoicseveryday]

True, Indeed.

[@stayingfitandfocused]

Ignore them mfs and set yourself free and you will never have to worry about them.

[@stoicseveryday]

"Absolutely! Letting go of negativity sets us free. Thanks for the reminder!"

[@Wau12345]

Noone, can manipulate me anymore, I don't care for Narcs, tactic is no ways 😅❤❤❤

[@stoicseveryday]

haha.. so good to know that :)

[@khanjanki8207]

Amen

[@HildayulianaYuliana]

I love this ❤

[@stoicseveryday]

Thanks a ton for the love, really appreciate it!

[@anni730]

18:33 Narcissist'ss are also very insecure. They experience resentment and envy because they were starved of genuine love and affection. It is said that they were seriously neglected, psychological and emotionally. This has led to them becoming this way. Remember protect yourself but don't lose your compassion. They are often empty without having this type of behaviour. It's very sad. Be boundaried and believe in your self.

[@stoicseveryday]

I appreciate you highlighting the importance of self-protection and compassion.

[@tried2once]

Great point! Never give them a ‘taste of their own medicine.’ In my experience when they are exposed or confronted with their insecurities they will lash out to unwarranted extremes to get ‘pay back’. They can be a vengeful sort and know when and where to ambush people they deem deserving of their wrath…. Which is anyone that gets too close and starts to see behind the mask

[@sharoneh8929]

YEP! That is true. He got his revenge on me, when while we were engaged he married someone else. That is too extreme, I had no idea until someone else told me. What a shocker😮😮😮. The end is definitely a new beginning for me. Now the worm is his wife's problem and she has no idea that she in a demonic entrapment. He married her after 2 weeks on NO Contact. I am in a place Peace now. I accept the rejection. God continues to keep and protect me👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💯💯💯.

[@DianaRovatti-bw8fs]

❤🎉😂thank you for this message ❤️ 🙏 it has brightened my narrow minded pain that I haven't seen until now.

[@stoicseveryday]

That's awesome to hear! Keep shining and growing!

[@CarmenMartinez-us8tn]

I appreciate all the advice suggestions ❤❤❤ thank you 🙏

[@stoicseveryday]

You are so welcome! 🤗

[@janeycooper940]

I got away! But the trauma & guilt continues 2 years on

[@stoicseveryday]

Two years on and the trauma & guilt are still trying to steal the spotlight, but you're the director of your life, don't let them take the lead role.

[@velandasmith8393]

Thank you!

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You're welcome!

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It was very educational and opened my eyes...thank you so much😂

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[@Mia-sp8jc]

Effective advice. Ty 💥

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My pleasure! :)

[@tomcharter4127]

I like everything you're saying except for the part where they realize something I don't know that that's possible

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[@paulineking-wood3882]

, 😮 this gave me a greater understanding of what's been going on around me thank you very much❤

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Awesome to hear that you found the video useful! Keep watching for more insights.

[@DonnellDDrew]

I am an eagle with my eyes fixed on a narcissistic sparrow

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Amazing ❤

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[@stoicseveryday]

@@pellestianomasai1220 thankyou so much for such kind words.

[@georgesontag2192]

In other words, change it if you have control, if you dont have control, just dont give a fuk. And mean it.

[@stoicseveryday]

Wise words! It's all about focusing on what you can change and letting go of what you can't.

[@AnaSilva-to1sy]

lf you were tormented the way that Narcissists were when they were at a defenseless age, you would think of ways to get back at humanity too!

[@stoicseveryday]

Totally get what you're saying! Childhood experiences can have a lasting impact on how we view the world.

[@alcrys000]

My bf's niece behavior is like that when we have family gatherings specially outing. She did guilt tripping, i can read her actions and know every details of her. She's jealous i might get her bf because i look younger that her but she's younger than me. My bf is her uncle i can't do what she's thinking, its immature mindset for me and unempath, my bf told me his niece is matured and intelligent according to her actions for me she's not, she doesnt know what is wrong and what right, she the only acquaintance i have encoutered thinking about those things for me. But its okay for me, I know myself i have respect for myself and others have respect me. I just want to look young and to be a cool mom and wife for my kids and husband soon. Fitness doesnt mean flirting but for healthy living.

[@stoicseveryday]

Wow, that sounds like a challenging family dynamic. Keep being your awesome self!

[@Yubeta1]

I believe my stepdad is a narcissist, however my mother doesn't see it. But I see it or atleast something that is not genuinely good. He will say my house my happiness right in front of her and me.

[@stoicseveryday]

It's tough when you see something others don't. Have you tried talking to your mother about your concerns?

[@Yubeta1]

@@stoicseveryday I appreciate you as a stranger hearing me out, it makes me feel better about my situation. However yes, and she replies with if I'm not happy that I can leave.

[@stoicseveryday]

so sorry to hear that. you try to keep surrounding yourself with positivity my friend. may be i hope one day she realizes the truth. i know its hard to leave someone in a situation which is clearly wrong, but you cant do anything in that case, because their mind has been manipulated to feel and live that torture, all you can do is just keep your doors open for her and take care for yourself. all the best buddy.

[@Thunderroad8517]

Thanks for this wisdom. I am going through a separation from which another family member is a narcissist. It seems that my partner has been groomed to turn on me and run away from responsibility and accountability. We are selling the house and it feels that most of the responsibility is thrown off on me. I am trying hard to see what I have done that’s cause all this. I look back in my life and see many narcs. I guess I’m teaching people how to treat me. I really never learned to stand up for myself with these folks I just continued to blame me in one way or another. Getting away from them has helped only to attract more. What am I missing here. As of now I don’t know how to best navigate my life situation. I want to change the pattern and the outcome. I have spent many years in trying to heal myself. I have not been to a psycologist. I haven’t had the resources to keep one long enough to unravel this mess. I will continue to listen to this video and trust I can make the change necessary to move to where I want to be. I’m tired of the hog pin with the swine! Thanks for listening.

[@stoicseveryday]

I'm grateful that my video could offer some insight. Remember, you're not alone in this journey.

[@Thunderroad8517]

@@stoicseveryday It sure as hell feels like it.

[@kathryngracey7993]

Thank you very much for your heartfelt sharing. I can closely relate to everything you wrote. 🤗

[@stoicseveryday]

@@kathryngracey7993 Much love..Keep supporting each other, as we are all one community here. :)❤‍🩹

[@Thunderroad8517]

@@stoicseveryday there is a song that speaks to this. I have it on Spotify. It’s New way out by Tremonti. Thanks for your response .

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[@user-lm9xw8wd1y]

My son is a narcisist

[@stoicseveryday]

That's tough, man. Have you tried talking to him about it?

[@HikingHalfdead]

I’m destroyed by someone and will not be ok for a long time. But I’ll figure it out somehow. Perhaps this man has never met someone who no matter how logically and calmly you answer someone they will still manage to make you into a pice of filth .

[@stoicseveryday]

I am sorry to hear about your experience. I have met people like you have mentioned, and yes I know it's hard to change someone like that..but still I hope that with my videos someone can help themselves earlier than I did myself.

[@tracylyle1902]

A way would be divorce…

[@stoicseveryday]

that's sad, but yes you should always give yourself priority, if you are stuck in a bad relationship, getting out of it can be the only solution. take care of yourself

[@Flokix4]

😢

[@xyzlmnop5206]

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE A NARC!!! Good try tho!!!

[@stoicseveryday]

It's tough dealing with a narcissist, but recognizing the signs is the first step.

[@HikingHalfdead]

That’s hilarious, go ahead try to get them to see a different perspective it’s called cognitive dissonance, doesn’t work.

[@stoicseveryday]

Hey, thanks for letting us know your perspective. I agree with you, but instead of focusing on changing them, we can just save ourselves for our own mental health.