41 Years Old, Never Been MARRIED, No KIDS, and 400,000 Yuan in DEBT

[@son6342]

He is not a failure. He found many things precious along the way.

[@4evertrue830]

He is a failure, don't sugar coat his business failures.

[@penguinvic9892]

@@4evertrue830A heroic failure is still sadly a failure 😞

[@tiendang7531]

@@penguinvic9892a catastrophic failure of epic proportions. 😂 no sympathy for the guy though…..

[@John-c4r1o]

I can understand why his girlfriend stood beside him, he is a good man.

[@Anton43218]

Why do you say this?

[@77loneranger]

This guy has a very strong work ethic.

[@hientrinhle6160]

The reason is small farm in China can't bring the good profit and it's not a worth while job

[@kokoyaro]

Like most rural Chinese people

[@vvcc-kg9dp]

It's rare for a girlfriend to stick around, but a man has to be able to support a family. Can this kind of life truly make her happy?

[@son6342]

Have you seen wives who were provided for from head to toe? Are they happy with their lives?

[@John-c4r1o]

Materialism does not make you happy, the quality of the people around you does.

[@Ericwolf520]

She’s a keeper good luck finding a gf like that in the west

[@ThomasDavis-e4g]

Why are you asking such a question? No woman can be made happy. Only entertained for a few moments.

[@penguinvic9892]

You may not be able to make a woman happy … but if you don’t have a home and mountains of debt 💸, I as a man would not blame any woman for not choosing a life like that. It would simple be grinding poverty. People can waffle on about love and loyalty but … … love flies out the window 🪟 when poverty walks in the door 🚪 .

[@Anonymous98766-e]

Let’s say he was working 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. In a 30 day month, that would be 26 working days. 12 hours x 26 days = 312 working hours. His monthly salary was 200 yuan which is $28.08 USD $28.08 / 312 = $0.09/hr Those people were treating him well? Really? He wasn’t an apprentice. He was a slave.

[@SueC2558]

Chinese always been a slave. Now a day, I called it MODERN SLAVE of the world. In the olden days they kidnapped the slaves to their workplaces to work for them. Now they realised it's better to take work to their slaves so, they don't have to suffered the consequences and side effects of the slaves' descendants like we see it in america, england and many other countries and, also removed all liabilities and responsibilities in keeping slaves.

[@TellthetruthaboutChina]

It's tough for men to start businesses in rural areas. We're always misled by these 'get-rich-quick schemes' and end up buried in debt.

[@cashi4225]

I feel sympathy for him and a lot of man who failed. Your advise is right. We need to focus on our learning and business.

[@4evertrue830]

Don't feel sympathy for him, he is an idiot. He got many advice from people who warned him about his businesses and what not to do. He did it anyway.

[@SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel]

There are plenty of Chinese women in the same situation as him, I ll bet they are not put under the same scrutiny.

[@tiendang7531]

@@4evertrue830agree. He’s a stupid man who gets himself & his gf into this situation. He’s playing the victim instead taking a hard look at his decisions which cause him to fail. People also need to judge his gf for deciding to stay…

[@jtrade738]

If he was able to reduce his debt from 700k to 400k, that means he does know how make money now.

[@bairamkhan8]

This man is so lucky. Because her girlfriend is not ready to breakup with him even after knowing his debt status. Sooner or later you will pay back all your debts. But the real jem you have is your girlfriend. I would advice this to get married with her asap.

[@tiendang7531]

I think she deserves so much better. This poor man has a big debt & even bigger ego. Once he pays off his debt & becomes rich maybe he will be having mistresses to inflate his ego. The faithful wife who stayed with him during her prime years & his worst years now would have turned middle aged & a burden to come back home to, if he even manages to buy her a house 😂 I am a woman I need to know if a man has prospect, trustworthy & dependable because I have a window to my prime years & I value myself. If she doesn’t value herself then once he becomes rich there’s no way he will value her. That’s how guys think.

[@bairamkhan8]

@tiendang7531 bigger ego?? How?? Did you notice anything??

[@bragiodinsen4604]

@@tiendang7531 behold, the chinese soul.

[@Spukke-uh8dq]

Failed with money but get much live experience and the win in that who most fail, find a good woman.. That alone makes this man a winner and is in top 10% of all the men. What is better good woman and no money vs much money no good woman.. Woman is more important. How many men have killed them self's thanks to bad woman.. How many men have try to find good woman in there live time.. This man is a winner and found what matters. He just don't understand it yet. I hope long and healthy live to both of them and 3-4 kids :) It is nice to see kids growing up whit nice parents.

[@roythousand13]

If you are single and childless, you shouldn't be in debt!

[@4evertrue830]

My thoughts exactly 💯.

[@SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel]

Correct, but that applies to women as well.

[@tiendang7531]

@@4evertrue830this guy is a failure 😂 only his gf is too blinded by love to see it. He has no prospects & her prime years is passing by. They’re both living wasted lives by choice

[@Anton43218]

​@@tiendang7531 failure, but is any of this his fault as he was gullible? Or because he genuinely had bad luck?

[@NaturalDisasterObserver]

As a man, it's okay to fail, but repeating the same mistakes over and over is pointless. Face reality with reason.

[@soullessemperor6572]

what would you propose?

[@christianjuru8836]

As a business owner, I don't see the mistakes he is repeating. The only thing He seems to lack, is a proper approach to selling thing plus a seems to have a poor network. When He mentioned He started delivering food before the App, I understood He wasn't techwise. He need two things: - learn how to sell starting a little business - be techwise as there is a lot to do with AI, Blockchain. Be patient and build one brick at a time !

[@tiendang7531]

@@soullessemperor6572I would suggest his gf proposes to some Saudi Arabian 🇸🇦 prince instead of choosing to stay by this loser

[@NashDr]

@@christianjuru8836 that's a stupid advise too... he need proper solid experience... long years to start making decisions and cash flow to adapt to market changes

[@squiggs1002]

This guy would have been better off just getting a factory job instead of doing all these various get rich quick schemes. He should have realized that early on after repeated failures instead of keep taking out bigger and more risky loans. It is sad that it took 20+ years to develop self awareness of the problem,.

[@nikkoBcool]

Finally, a woman carrying a man's financial burden!

[@tiendang7531]

Trust me there are heaps of them in poor traditional religious cultures across Asia. No common sense & fear of being judged for female hypergamy 😂 men don’t face the same cultural stigma for wanting to have younger women but women face all the stigma for leaving broke broken men

[@NightmareManX]

To be honest, his persistence seems more like stubbornness. Continuing down this path will only bring hardship for himself and drag his girlfriend's future down with him.

[@tiendang7531]

What I don’t understand is the gf’s stubbornness in wasting her prime years staying by this loser? He wants to prove himself worthy. She wants to prove she picks the right bf. They have similar values, stubbornness & don’t face reality with reasons

[@lkhbhydroponic6858]

Shecis truly rare woman

[@tiendang7531]

I hope 99% of women picks better partners than her….😂

[@fatzrabbits4081]

Chinese woman love money, you are lucky. Keep trying, you will win.

[@MCC876]

This man worked hard, had low pay, tried many businesses and now is in debt. Yet he wants to marry and have children. His children will only suffer the same fate as him. Why do we blindly bring children into suffering?

[@tiendang7531]

Correct. If this couple chooses to get married & have children then they choose their children’s fate. Same as them. Simple as that. I don’t have much faith in their children being out of the cycle of poverty & sticking with bad men because that’s the reality they inherit from their parents.

[@albajgurd]

Being unmarried doesn't mean he's still a virgin

[@4evertrue830]

There has to be a part 2 to this sad story. A part 2 video of, how he met his girlfriend and why she chose to stay with him despite his failures in business. I want to know why, she didn't leave him like any other woman will do knowing his terrible situation. I hope "china unvarnished" is reading this comment and may do so.

[@ChinaUnvarnished]

Thank you for your support. I will look further into whether there are any updates, and if so, I will get back to you. Thank you again for your support.

[@SueC2558]

​@@ChinaUnvarnishedplease do, I want to know more about his girlfriend she's amazing woman❤!

[@4evertrue830]

@@ChinaUnvarnished Thanks a lot.

[@tiendang7531]

@@SueC2558I think she’s silly for not valuing herself during her most reproductive years. Men must have assets to marry, he can get rich at middle aged & have younger women as mistress. Women’s most valuable asset is her diminishing youth. She’s having the wrong values. Both of them are silly.

[@ChinaUnvarnished]

Hello, my friend. I saw this man's latest update, and he has now married this wonderful woman. The couple is currently working hard to pay off their debts. Thank you again for your support.

[@kokoyaro]

Badluck man. I was like this before I discovered my real purpose in life. This man is just a little late to discover why he's here

[@4evertrue830]

What is that real purpose in life you discovered? Pls share it.

[@kokoyaro]

@4evertrue830 There's a reason you always had something you were better at than everyone else around you, since your childhood. That one thing got you into and out of trouble. No matter what it is, your true purpose in life aligns with that thing. For me, it was creative writing - poems, rhymes, proses, stories and songs since I was 9. I abandoned it while growing up because my family didn't see any economic value in such theoretical stuff and neither did I. I was rather steered into learning more popularly demanded skills like Business IT and International Relations. I wasted my life being an IT Staff,.... Software Project Manager, IT Manager, International business man etc... for the money. Just like the man in this video, I totally disregarded what I was actually good at, and did everything else just for the money. But none of these things I did was permanent and neither did any of such vocations give me fulfilment. And then I decided to revive my writing talent and find a way back to my true purpose. From that point on, anything I did had to align with that purpose. I started including my creative writing into my profession. At that time, my last position held as a corporate slave was "Business Development Manager" in a foreign country. I became the best report writer they ever had and they adopted my detailed report writing style as mandatory for all staff according to new company policy. I ended up doing more writing than my actual job description. All business proposals, contracts, policies and project documentation would be written by me, no one else could do the writings as meticulously as I did in a very short space of time. Meanwhile, I also made a personal journal/story of daily events of the company. By the time I finally said goodbye to corporate slavery, I was already making money from writing articles online (though it's not what I'm best at but it's still some form of writing). I made websites and wrote multiple entries to generate ad income and that grew higher than my highest ever salary back when I was Software Project Manager. Gradually, one thing led to another and I was introduced to a producer for song writing. I got paid much higher for each song that took me no more than 15 minutes to conceptualize, compose and scribble out (of course I didn't tell them how easy it was for me). Some of the artists are still well-known although I'm not credited as the writer due to contract terms. I'm also writing 4 books for my passive income stream. In addition to these, my personal poetry writings include prophesies and predictions that have NEVER been wrong since my childhood. And one more thing. Some times your purpose in life does not even align with your physical appearance. Just like I'm 6'3 18 stone muscled guy with a tough face and strong voice looking like an arrogant MMA fighter, yet if you read my poetry stories they sound like written by a woman, leaving out no detail. When I was a teenager, I rejected my purpose as I thought that talent wasn't manly enough. But now when I look back at my archive of 3,655 poems most of which are 12 to 36 stanzas long (the ones in English), over 200 proses, hundreds of songs, stories, etc written since childhood, I realize that whatever is productive is indeed manly. After all, after I'm gone those words will still make money for those I leave behind. That's my real purpose. To fight and warn the world through those creative words that will outlast all generations after me

[@kokoyaro]

@4evertrue830 It looks like YT instantly deleted my detailed response so I'll try to rewrite the first paragraph: There's a reason you always had something you were better at than everyone else around you, since your childhood. That one thing got you into and out of trouble. No matter what it is, your true purpose in life aligns with that thing

[@tiendang7531]

@@kokoyaroa man who knows his why (core value) will bear any how. I think people know why this man fails at business & his gf still chooses to stay. Their actions speak volumes about their core values despite unfavourable realities.

[@ЭдРусскиймедвед]

Как же жалко его. Столько усилий. И всё напрасно. Но у него есть огромный плюс. У него есть девушка которой большинству из нас даже не светит.

[@knockknock1246]

Youll bounce back, my friend. Focus and determination.

[@light5978]

he is impatience and always goes all out

[@fallskjermjeger.]

So many harsh lessons in the absence of good mentorship.

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

It's always the cities spitting on who feed them.

[@coinsadventurer]

wonderful story, keep up and success will never say. Your kind and still have a good heart. not only in China..

[@Ariel-sv9de]

He doesn't know how blessed he is. To find a woman who is ride or die like his girlfriend is rare and his problem is not the failures those are teaching moments. His problem is he doesn't stick to one thing he keeps hoping one to another never gaining expertise in one area. He should have stuck with the mushroom business he probably would have figured out a system to make it profitable.

[@rationalsamrat3247]

One problem i see with him is that he goes too fast . He never learned to go slow. Had he gone slow, he would have succeeded in those endeavors

[@user-of7pj7sx4r]

That's like 56,000 USD... wow

[@alexb2417]

Makes me think about how people made profit selling shovels to the prospectors in the California gold rush. Honestly he lacks self awareness in a way-caring for living creatures wasn't his forte and he should have accepted it after the pig farming...

[@lindseyg9666]

The CCP Ripped the heart and soul of the people the proletariats , he is a product of the CCP system , in China if you know a CCP member things go well you make money nod nod wink wink ohh where are all the entrepreneurs middle class, oh fckng dead dead dead millions 40 million 50 million 100 million who cares in China about this , they still have huge icons of the killer Mao Zedong. The man in the video he is an un educated peasant as he and his forebearers were in time in memorial,

[@bryanxtom999]

So sad story brother 😢😢😢

[@englishpedant]

It just sounds like he took too many financial risks and got burned. There is another clip on this channel of a guy in his 40s who just worked regular jobs, stayed frugal, and never bought a house, never married or had kids, and now has 600k rmb saved. This guy here simply made some bad calls.

I pray that the Lord bless this man. His gf knows a good man when she sees one. I hope he turns to Jesus. He may end up with nothing in this life but he will attain eternal life in heaven. God bless you.

[@Bantallas]

Well, get this man a wife or kiss your 400k goodbye...if he has no legacy, he wont care about repayment...

[@Chanel-5878]

I think we should work for other peoples first to gain an experiance before venture into the business .. we can learn pros and cons about the business first before cash out the money. However this guy ia a nice guy.😢

[@jumboJetPilot]

Someone with his work ethic would do well in the US. General laborer or the skilled labors crafts such as plumbing, welding, HVAC, drywall, painter, etc. can all pay very well in America.

[@mynde8633]

I've never seen so many chickens before in my life.

[@hdcvo2570]

If you are not part of the club, the corporation will make sure you stay low. Corpration do not want competition.

[@dingdongchingchong8659]

Really feel bad for this guy 😕

[@angelastewart9497]

How so much debt . Without family. Look like you should have more money.

[@BuddhaBelly519]

Marriage is not about “like”, it is about duty.

[@poodlescone9700]

The problem is he tried to start big. This is the worst way to experiment on a business. There is no reason why people start businesses from home with little to no overhead. Establish the success first before borrowing large sums of money and going big.

[@tiendang7531]

Agree. It’s a marathon not a sprint. Ego should be left at the door in doing business. Same with starting a family. His gf is a keeper but he is not a realistic guy.

[@MarkoRunjevic]

he's pretty much one foot in the grave

[@nanums650]

at least you can say you never gave up. 😢

[@just_another_bot0110]

The man was stubborn and clueless. He refused to think things through and believed he was special. The advice he is giving others is also wrong because raising poultry can be done if done properly. He tried to raise 10x the amount any sane man would attempt then wondered why everything was going wrong. His advice should be this is how not to do these things

[@tiendang7531]

Agree. He should be honest with himself about why he fails and listens rather than taking ego trips with business. If he doesn’t learn then hopefully his girlfriend has more common sense & leaves.

[@ZxSpectrumplus]

Work 14 hours for 200 yuan? That's slave labor.

[@lindseyg9666]

£43k , but much higher as you have to take into account Purchasing price parity, ie what does a house cost in rural China he also states that whislt working at a dumpling house his montly slaray was 200 yuan , it is £2000 her in the UK average , , I was told by a lecturer at University once Communism is the highest state of Capitalism , i tend to agree

[@MirSts-d2u]

So sad.

[@dhavalkrishna5848]

Sigh life is more and more difficult

[@ivannightly1919]

hes living the american dream .its a nightmare sorry about your luck

[@DareAbiodun]

Please don't think of starting a family when your own life is yet to be in order, or at least a semblance of it.

[@capedeh8225]

is the dude recording under a rain? why? to show of water proof camera?

[@uvveshlurvvesh6515]

"Get rich program" says it all 😂

[@Asmodeius]

feel sad for the dude. but he is not alone like that. a lot of people, like him, partake in a rat race and lose. and what's worse, they are pushed by society into it.

[@mtube620]

debt mean nothing if you owns nothing

[@valvio1331]

This is the result of NO school. You reap what you sow...

[@Luminousplayer]

This guy is like the bad luck character in an anime, yikes

[@teachmetech2023]

He just lacked knowledge about these things.

[@hbsong9964]

He should have stayed in school...

[@minhlu3518]

Ir buy crypto like $hex went up 10,000x fastest than bitcoin and eth. $pls up 6x $plsx up 12x $inc up 25x in 3 months. Best be dollar cost average buy in.

[@SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel]

He is only 41. Plenty of men, especially divorced men like myself have been in his position at that age, although I didn't have any debt. By 50 you can be financially secure, just don't take stupid risks.

[@fialee8]

] [nm ,While this person has ambition... but he has a fatal flaw, very very stubborn. In each story, it's his personal decisions which caused his own failure...including not taking other's advice, pursuing "get rich quick" farming schemes, and likely keep spending, and worse, borrowing money when the venture is failing. The narrator is right... he should marry his GF, who's stuck with him through the tough times... as he'll never ever find such a woman at 41yo, no assets, and deep into debt. No normal woman would want to marry such a guy.

[@rudychan8792]

He was too Greedy, feeding 1000up chickens at Once. Not Started Slowly, Step by Step, One by one. 👣

[@ArchivePaparazziYT]

Man was clearly a sucker from the very beginning, going after blatant get-rich-quick schemes. Not learning from his earlier mistakes didn't help out the older he got.

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

It's always the cities spitting on who feed them.