426 - Chronic Pain, Mental Health and Balance on the Homestead, Don't let Comparison steal your joy!

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A Squirreling rambling Chat video about all things in life lately and how I try and deal with the issues of chronic health as well as making sure that what we accomplish I acknowledge!
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[@jomackay8889]

Never listen or read negative comments. When you look in the mirror every morning see the person we (your followers) see, a strong, multi talented person.

[@emarshalls2742]

Also a lady who struggles with health issues and makes a big difference in her family's lives! Nissa you are amazing. There will always be people judging in bad ways but remember us your followers who find you to be the very best!

[@TinaFisher-u6b]

@@jomackay8889 you guys are acting like I said something negative towards her .I didn't you all must have husbands that always are helping more than you need lol ..he's a dude..It's not personal.

[@Cristina-pk2zv]

Hi..i normally dont comment even though have i have been binge watching all your video's.All i want to say is that i have much respect for you and all you do.Before anyone says anything negative..let them.walk in your shoes..

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Thank you Cristina :)

[@brittanylacroix4432]

I feel like I am waiting for my pen pal to write back. I feel like I have a best friend that i can talk to. Ty for being who you are, I am happy to be invited.

[@mplummer1574]

I hope everything settles down and you stay healthy❤️

[@BACONfreak.jw.73]

I homestead on a very small scale. By myself. I have some health issues that prevent me from doing stuff some days. And other days i can do absolutely nothing. So i get you. Homesteading is a lifestyle. I feel like there's no completion just the next fire to put out. Let negative comments pay what theyre worth. NOTHING!

[@BACONfreak.jw.73]

I LOVE guineas

[@jorobinson6640]

I very much respect and admire you, Nyssa. A bush block would be so challenging for homesteading - so much work! And ... managing chronic health issues with six kids as well - I can't even begin to fathom how you manage. I'd like to say, I can listen to your "squirrels" easily. You mentioned you have trouble finding words, but you are so articulate; your speech flows very freely, and you're obviously highly intelligent and creative. With some other KZbinrs, a half-hour voice-over puts me to sleep. You keep me hanging on your every word! Please don't let nay-sayers affect the content you create - they're everywhere right now, and they're obviously very disturbed and sad individuals who need to find another outlet to manage their issues.

[@OurSmallFootprint]

I'm thick skinned which is lucky hehe, Darryl avoids the comments because he struggles, but mostly I can just shrug things off, but I do sit there and think, why, why would you make that kinda comment a lot hehe. I think the Aussie bush definitely impacts a lot of things in the 'homesteading' sense, there's more and different challenges added on!

[@tammiegurl9824]

As a suffer of trig neuralgia and a wife of a husband who had a serious mental health breakdown I 💯 understand how life is! And you have 6 kids to look after and homeschool. You and everything you have achieved is amazing! I love that you keep things real and show that life isn't always sunshine and roses! Also talking about chronic illness and mental health is creating a voice for health issues that often people cannot see so therefore don't understand. ❤❤

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Darryl always says he's happy for me to discuss it from my side because he doesn't think it is spoken enough about. But I struggle because I don't like to harp on it, or blame things on it either hehe :D

[@kcnelsonmueller]

I’ve been in my house for 24 years. It needed massive repairs when I bought it. But the location and the land made it worth it to us. I’m still making adjustments and changes and upgrades to it. 24 years later. It takes money and time. It also takes knowledge. Sometimes baby steps are the only steps you’re able to make. Try not to let the ignorant people bother you. Keep moving forward. My dad used to say that the only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time. It may take years, but it will get done. When my father in law lost his license to drive, we took his truck so he’d stop trying to drive. That was 9 years ago. He passed away 5 years ago and because he never got the title we have not been able to get rid of it. No one will buy it without the title. No one will scrap it without the title. We’ve tried to get a replacement title and an abandoned title. One thing or another has prevented that. So we have an old, ugly, beat up, non running truck in the driveway. It’s hideous. I hate looking at it. But what did I do? People don’t know your circumstances. It’s easy to say what someone else should do, how they should do it, etc. everyone is an expert on other people’s lives, but their own are what they need to concentrate on. Ignore the ignorance the best you can. I’m also bipolar. Life is sometimes a struggle. And anyone that doesn’t deal with mental health has no clue how hard life can be to navigate some days. The internet has created a vile society that for some reason feel they have the right to say whatever ridiculous crap pops into their empty heads. Everyone starts somewhere and we never know what’s going on inside other people’s homes. People usually only put the good on the internet. We need more people to be real. I love that you’re so normal and relatable. I appreciate that you are honest and not pretentious. So keep on moving forward. Don’t let life get you down. You have created a beautiful life. It may need to improve, but most of us live lives that need to be improved too. Are we going to be able to get things shipped to the USA? I really want a family tree for my mom for Christmas.

[@melissalee1531]

I feel this for you . I have had 3 strokes this year , Crohn’s disease for years, Rheumatoid Arthritis, permanent brain damage from strokes , heart disease , high blood pressure, migraines and recovering from surgery to remove a tumor from my throat and base of my tongue . I live chronic pain all day every day!!!! Meds are horrible for sure !!!! I get it !!! You do what you need to do for you and your family!!!!! Please don’t concern yourself with ugly comments. You are an amazing woman !!!! I love watching your channel!!!!!! Never do why can’t I !!!!! Those others don’t live with your health ! I know they don’t !!! I deal with the same thoughts !!!! Please know I will be praying for you and thinking about you !!!! Right there with you clear in America!!!!!! ❤ God bless !

[@merrilday5344]

Thank you for being so honest and raw. Don’t worry about the haters. They need to look into their own back yards before pointing the finger.

[@OurSmallFootprint]

I'm pretty thick skinned luckily hehe, but Darryl doesn't look at comments at all, he wouldn't cope hehe

[@GypsyNanny]

Hello Nyssa please don't worry what others think. I think you are amazing with everything you do. It is a pleasure to watch you. We all have our problems you can only do what you can do. All us genuine subscribers will always be here for you. Take care. Love and hugs to you all. Maree ❤️❤️❤️

[@marythurmond5975]

I am sorry people are mean and critical. I would say ignore them but I am sure that is difficult. I love your life. You are surrounded by family. You do amazing food products. You are debt free and not dealing with working 9-5 and being gone from home. You have made a life many of us envy. Thank you for sharing your health journey.

[@Lilredfrog4576]

I would like to say, no one has any right in life to send negative comments or thoughts, you give your all to the videos, your family and life. Stay strong, we watch from all over the world. Tam xx UK

[@farmbabylife9618]

This channel is a huge highlight in my life. Thank you. Hope you understand how happy you make so many people ❤

[@reannejarvis9464]

Nyissa when I heard you going into details about your health issues I immediately thought why. Answer is trolls…I.e negative people. Everyone has unique circumstances. You are amazing truly. You feed your children a very natural balanced, homemade diet. You go over and beyond. Your stamina and energy is to be applauded. Please remember they do not experience your circumstances you do. I just wish I could do half as much. Of course if we could we would, no ones place is perfect, unless there’s a team of gardeners, cleaners, cooks and others. You are a true Australian, doing the best you can under adverse conditions. Ignore them, don’t let them in your head, block them, they have no empathy. We love you for who you are. I love seeing slices of your life. But remember it’s your life not theirs. I bet they don’t achieve even a quarter of what you do. Keep on doing you girl, 🇦🇺🎸⚡️🤘🏾🤘🏼💋💙💙

[@TheCurlyclub]

Exactly, well said 👏🏻

[@reannejarvis9464]

@@TheCurlyclub thank you

[@happycazimero1349]

People always have crap to say but I guarantee their lives aren’t any better. You’re super woman for all the different things you need to do to help keep your household going.

[@brishwilson3867]

Just words of support and appreciation.

[@AnnWilliams3197]

Hi Nyssa….can I just say, you and Darryl are doing a fantastic job, you have both lived with major health issues and to achieve what you have is brilliant….your property and children are a credit to you both….i also live with chronic pain and it isn’t easy. As far as the negative people and comments, ignore them, I enjoy your videos and listening to , what you say , your squirrel rambling ! You are a credit as parents and homesteaders! Keep up what you are doing! ❤️

[@MistepMissy]

There's so much I want to say to you - first and foremost the people who criticize are (a) jealous (b) miserable and (c) are living in their parent's basement and have never struggled or built something from nothing. You should be proud, Nyssa. You and your family are inspiring. What I've learned in my 52 years is you'll never be "done" with anything - and who'd want to??? Learning, creating, and changing is the spice of life. I'd love to be able to do what you do. I wasn't joking when I said you need to offer the "outback experience" aka make people pay to do your work and eat your delicious food! LOL. God bless you and yours. Don't change who you are, we love you for who you are - authentic and genuine. ❤

[@TheCurlyclub]

Well said 👍🏻

[@TheCurlyclub]

Honestly I’m always in awe of what you achieve. You achieve more than most people who don’t have your health challenges.

[@coletteblee3419]

Lovely to see you back on KZbin miss your videos don’t mind what the begrudgers have to say you have 6 beautiful children and a happy safe home, hoping your health issues can return to a manageable level and wishing you all the best with your shop launch… personally your my favourite channel to watch and I just really enjoy when you post videos so keep just being yourself and look after yourself and do what’s right for you and your family xxx

[@traceysmith7661]

Nyssa, you are amazing in what you do and how much you do. You are very intelligent in my mind and your cooking skills are amazing. Personally I look up to you. Look after yourself ❤

[@Lexma27]

Hello from Northern California. I nearly cried listening to your side effects from the medications. I still take the same ones. I have had all the same symptoms as well. Weight gain as well. The loss for words and just over all brain fog is so disheartening. I just want to validate your point and that I see you and I hear you. You’re not alone. 🙏🏽

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Its horrid having to take them to deal with the issues but then feel like the side effects are almost worse than the condition you are treating :S

[@Lexma27]

@@OurSmallFootprint i completely understand. I have tried so many different things. N yet always come back to the same stuff. It’s like do you want some pain relief? However at the cost of your memory. Let alone how completely it can wipe you out. I did a spirulina and sea moss cleanse to remove toxins and heavy metals from my body. Especially after years of these drugs. Felt better but still need them.

[@sambalina8856]

You are amazing Nyssa… you and Darryl have a lot on your plate, your viewers accept that and are very grateful for anytime you post a video.. we are interested xx💐😊

[@theresaduggan426]

We live in a world now of instant gratification. If you haven’t got it, don’t wait just go buy it. Homesteading isn’t like that-at all! Homesteading is a slower life, using what you have, addressing the needs as they needed. This is how you address your life. Anyone who doesn’t understand this shouldn’t watch your channel, much less comment upon it. Ill health certainly impacts your ability for massive progress but be proud of what you have achieved as an individual and as a couple and as a family! I’ve gained so much inspiration from you. I can’t homestead as much as I’d like but I’m doing ‘enough’ . Enough to complete my life. Enough to slow my life so I enjoy the small wins and nature’s joys. I have MS and some other bits and bobs so I struggle daily. Nyssa you’re amazing. Don’t let anything caste that shade over you!!

[@maryprice9065]

People who always say something negative don't walk in your shoes. They don't pay your bills. Don't ever worry about those people say as long as you and family are doing fine you have a good life.

[@lyndiekite1428]

Nyssa we are our own harshest critics! Your artwork is incredible, never doubt that. Ignore the keyboard warriors, they’re cowards hiding behind a keyboard and couldn’t do what you do. Your meals and recipes are wonderful and I wish I had the energy to do what you do. Keep being you!

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Definitely our own worst critics lol

[@deannacarter00]

I think you and your family are wonderful.

[@ronalee34]

I love your squirreling! You're doing a great job. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[@donnalaird8569]

Don’t worry about what others think! I agree with another’s comment..before someone comments negatively let them walk in your shoes! You are awesome! ❤

[@sandrajune1172]

Nyssa, you and your husband have suffered the loss of a business. Both of you have had and still have health issues. You are great parents, you are a wonderful cook for your family. Take no notice of the negative comments. I think you are doing a fabulous job, especially on such a limited income. I know I couldn't do it. Watching your videos always gives me a lift. You always smile even when things are going wrong ❤

[@AFPB11]

Hello lovely girl, I know it is difficult to ignore some of the comments that are posted, sticks and stones, these people really are not people that I am sure you would not want to be friends with, Just know that if I lived near you I would be proud to call you a friend............I am nearly 75, trust me life will get easier as the years roll along. Take care lovely and try and rest a little to relax your mind. I love hearing your geese!!!

[@shellywinters2162]

The Internet is a wonderous thing EXCEPT if you are going to be part of it you need to have a really thick skin and be able to let negativity wash straight over you. Just know that it is almost guaranteed that every negative responder is probably living in a one room apartment and wouldn't know the difference between a pot plant and vegetable garden. Stay strong Nyssa just brush them off and keep on being you.

[@bcerliano]

I find lives with people coming in as they progress and asking already answered to be tedious. I come for the squirrels. I like the way you paint a picture of your life.

[@robynhogle2435]

Please don't stop being who you are. Your a beautiful lady with so much on your shoulders. I wish you could get away for a few days and relax. Take care of yourself.

[@Ladythyme]

Day by day…..step by step……ultimately one can only be glad when those steps are heading in the right direction ….😊

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Yes, so long as we are moving forward!

[@vivianpearcy720]

thank you for today's squirrel post...excellent as usual!

[@lilybailey5349]

Ignore the negative. You are our inspiration you guys do it all home-schooling preserving building. I just can only wish to have part of your enthusiasm and drive chin up lovely 😊

[@sandraschulte9398]

You are doing your best and that is all all that is expected of any one. 😊😊

[@dorisbannister8059]

Seriously people have nothing better to do than criticise…. I totally envy you… I would love to do what you do… I have to say I have stretched my grocery shopping from weekly to monthly thanks to you… but I really want to stretch it further… to the negative people… life is way to short for negativity… Nessa you are brilliant keep up the great work…. Oh and I know pain like you… Psoriatic Arthritis for me and it can be totally debilitating some days…

[@OurSmallFootprint]

I'm so glad people are finding the same thing as I did with extending the grocery times, I never would have thought it would save money the way it does, but it really does! :D Thank you :D

[@janicedelp2775]

No matter what, you do great! You should see the many projects, craft jobs, cleaning, clearing the weeds and baby trees from the garden and fences, organizing everything inside the house, someday I want to get in the basement area and throw away junk, organize the stuff that we want to keep, clean flower beds, clear land, just to name a few that I have swirling around in my mind but seem to never get to. It is a comfort to me, though, just to know that I have something to do. Now that's how silly I am. Certain things are planned for certain seasons, also. I'm usually not bored, for sure. But being retired, I don't stress about anything. If I never get something done, I don't worry. And I can't imagine dealing with your health issues while trying to keep up with everything. One of my daughters has several chronic pain issues, and my heart goes out to her. She keeps going usually because she went for years, not doing much, thinking she would hurt worse. Then she decided no matter what she did or didn't do, she would be in pain, and she got up out of her bed and forced herself to get active again, and she is happier. She does have days that she can't do anything but go to bed. She has very bad migraine headaches, fibromialgia, neck, and back pain from falling downstairs at work years ago. So I do understand a little bit of what you go through. I will keep you in my prayers. I love you, and like others have said in your comments, I hang on your every word. Never let potty mouth comments upset you. Take care and keep your head up. Janice from Arkansas USA

[@Caroline.123]

People attack because honestly they are jealous they want to hurt because they hurt . Honestly you guys are amazing. Love you and have learned alot from your videos. People who attack dont understand life on a bush block they have no idea. Work never ends and its a life time on going of chores. You are amazing.

[@melaniegenga]

Hi, thank you Nyssa. You are an amazing human. Love and light ❤️🤗. Never compare yourself to anyone 🤗

[@sylviahufer7019]

Who doesn’t love a good squirrel , you do a fantastic job , all the cooking you do without all the modern equipment the average household have , home schooling 6 kids . You can hold your head up high and just keep doing what you do , it’s you and your family’s life .

[@gillianmellin8315]

Thank you for being so honest, you are a marvel.

[@oliviafox3605]

WOW! The hinged covered garden bed is PERFECT! Great job. Thank you for sharing.

[@louisechapman4009]

You are an amazing person!!

[@deesmith7880]

Hey Nyssa, I’m halfway through watching this video, but I needed to pause and comment. A massive THANK YOU for sharing and being so raw and honest about your life and your struggles. We need more people like you showing what real life actually looks like. You do so much in your life. You are living off-grid, which is a full-time job in itself, whilst being a mother, school teacher, carer, homemaker, gardener, farmer, vet, chef, breadwinner and the ‘family rock’. You make KZbin videos, deal with nasty comments, and still commit to making regular content for those that love you and love watching what you make and do. I also live by the mantra of ‘progress, not perfection’. You are kicking goals, even if you think you may not be, sometimes. All my love from a fellow chronic illness sufferer xxxx

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Thank you Dee!

[@dawncampbell4221]

Nyssa, you're doing a fabulous job. You do not need to explain to anybody. Living resourcefully as you do takes a lot of time and effort. Keep your chin up. Your family are very lucky. ❤

[@elizaC3024]

For folks who desire perfection, they must have a massive disposable income, and never built a Homestead from scratch. For those of us who live on a tight budget and we have what we need, but budgeting is a necessity for survival. As a mom we frequently put our needs, including our health, last. But it eventually will require our attention. You have done an incredible job 👏 doing all that you have. I absolutely love your video's, especially your chatting with us.😊

[@holtsent]

Always enjoy your videos. You are an inspiration to all of us. Thank you.

[@gracemeisner6314]

You work hard and accomplish so much every day. You should be proud of yourself and your family.

[@soniachambers6460]

I'm glad this channel helps you out a bit, you're a very resourceful woman ♀️😊

[@allison1199]

Nyssa you do an amazing job. I'm so sorry you're in pain all the time, I know what that's like. Don't listen to those people who comment thinking their way is superior to yours. One foot in front of the other is progress, one bite at a time instead of looking at all the things to be done. You and your family are awesome, thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@aprilwright8056]

I just want to give you a big ole hug. You’re doing the best you can when you can. I’m proud of you. Keep it up!

[@aglioammuffito1300]

I can only join in with what everyone else has already said. You do you , don’t listen to the negative ppl. Listen to those who support you. Life sucks and IS hard, but you keep going. And you do it great. Because you and your family is great. ❤

[@sues.9791]

You are amazing! You can only do what you can do as life happens. You do not need to satisfy another person’s schedule or idea of how something needs to look.

[@lauriesworld7008]

People are just mean!! You're doing great Momma. Everyone's journey is different, unique and important!!! I love catching up with you and your family. I hope and pray your health issues get better and more manageable for you!!!

[@ezbh810]

Wow. It sucks you felt the need to explain yourself. Living off grid takes a special person and family. I couldn’t imagine not doing things on my time. When I feel motivated to take on a project I take it on. It’s obvious y’all work extremely hard. The fact that you’re keeping yourself, kids, animals and a garden alive off grid is amazing. I can’t even fathom having that many projects going on at once. Making dinner everyday for my family of 3 feels overwhelming. I too have bouts of high blood pressure so I hope you get yours under control. I can’t believe you’re able to have so many things health wise going on and you keep chugging along.

[@lisatakeitorleaveit]

You have a lot in your plate and you are doing so well dealing with it. We can only do what we can do day to day. Just so you know, we have all times in life when all we can do it make it day to day 💕

[@bethenyauker4727]

You are my favorite channel and I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos. I love that you are so real and I admire your family so much! You're doing amazing!!

[@rbud57]

I so hear you, we have an ongoing kitchen remodel that has been in the works for nearly 20 years or so now, and all that has happened is that I accumulated the materials (countertops, lumber, and cabinet doors that came out of my dear departed husband's parents' home, made by his oldest brother, who was a talented woodworker and cabinet maker - and lots of other materials.) It all leans about in the room that I want to move my tiny kitchen into. So far the only other thing that happened is we moved the fridge, table, and microwave into the kitchen-to-be, which used to be the old original living room. Then Hubs got cancer and passed away.... lost a lot of momentum there. Then our daughter got MS and is living in the former NEW living room, (can't climb upstairs to her old bedroom!) which it took us years to create from our old bedroom, after building on a new back bedroom for just me, now, sadly. The former new living room is now basically a bedroom again, with the new porch and new front door off of it. I have no living room! And there are always things that need done before OTHER things can get done, it's endless. Plus, now we don't know what to call the two rooms - it was "old kitchen" and "new kitchen" - now it's back to just "kitchen" - where the sink and stove are, still - and "the fridge room", haha! As they say, life is what happens while you're making other plans! (((hugs))) ♥

[@Bush_Edge_Homesteading_Aus]

I hope the stresses subside again for you Nyssa and your health improves again as it does.

[@wandadevers9598]

People often are judgemental because their lives have been abundant and they are ignorant and spoiled. They couldn't survive an hour in your life. You are a hero and just try to pity the fools.😊

[@kareninsask1375]

Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Totally appreciated. ❤🇨🇦

[@Cynkarl1]

Nyssa, I have wondered how you were, don’t even think about people who are invisible, behind their keyboard, you are awesome and I would eat any dinner you made , the food always looks awesome and your children are healthy and happy. God Bless Cindi

[@countrymousesfarmhouse497]

A very touching video Nyssa. 🥰 You did an amazing job of this. Thank you for sharing the real stuff even though its really hard. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@margaretfiggs2606]

Oh you are so awesome and everyone has these problems with life. Your trying to work, manage everything and your in pain. Your health issues are very important. Family is important and so is your health. We understand and if people are negative shame on you. Love your videos and keep smiling. Your amazing. 😊

[@gloriadavidson8599]

Nyssa girl love your squirreling it's what makes your videos real life 💓 So to all the negativity by people stop being so judgemental. This lady is AWESOME doing all that she does while battling chronic health issues is to be admired NOT judged. Nyssa your garden beds are fantastic 😍😍😍 Good to see you girl ❤❤ Love from the UK x

[@daylemunn1334]

I love watching your channel because it is unique. Your commitment to your marriage and family and determination to make things work is a lesson to us all. Prioritizing family looks different for everybody. Your explanation of your thought process as you confront all of these problems is inspiring me to think in a more open way. Bravo!

[@debbiekolthof6496]

Hello from Canada! I have so much respect for you, you are a joy to watch! You are a strong, intelligent and beautiful soul! Love your channel ❤

[@debbiesavage7107]

Chronic back pain, here. It was a process for me to give up some things and do others differently. It was like a grieving process for me. So many of us have some kind of medical issue and totally understand. Learning to give yourself grace is also part of the process. Otherwise, you do no service to your family or yourself. I wish you peace, love and laughter. 🙏🙏🙏

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Definitely a learning process to figure out what you can and can't do and I agree re a bit of grieving on letting some things go!

[@mylife-321-0]

Hey Nyssa! I know it’s hard to deal with your illness and be a Mom and a wife along with everything you do day to day things. I can really see so much success on your property. Both of you are amazing parents and now days few parents could do all that you both do have done and sacrificed to reach as far as you both have. Give yourself a pat every now and then. Take your time and do things as you can, your health is way more important. I love your fan club 🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🖐️hello guys! TFS!!!❤

[@sarahdunningham8661]

I just wanted to say that you are amazing , Ive lived with Chronic pain for a long time and it impacts your life in so many ways that not everyone understands. I hope that you get lots of orders as it all looks fab. Plus the garden.beds look great

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Sometimes I think about all the tiny ways it affects things that you don't realise even yourself until you sit there and go, well hey, maybe that is the problem!

[@sarahdunningham8661]

@OurSmallFootprint yes I think it becomes part of who you are that you don't realise how much it impacts you as you just have to get on with it. I always think of my pain like a person who is trying to dominate me and the battle is filling my mind with other things like creative outlets, relaxation and self care so it doesn't take over if that makes sense ?

[@cinapoowee7582]

You're such a strong woman and I admire everything you do for yourself and your family. I know about chronic pain. Went to the doctor's yesterday and yes the pain and physical limitations are worsening. I hate it! I've been independent my whole life and I can see it drifting away. As for your property....it looks lived on. The people that leave negative comments probably don't own anything so they're envious. I live in a very nice neighborhood. Lawns well kept, houses are all in great shape, beautiful trees, etc. Inside my house at the moment i won't even comment on. For years I've been trying to save for new flooring and paint but in the past year I had to get new plumbing, new toilets, freezer, washer, hot water tank and dealt with a terminally ill dog. You do what you can when you can!!!! Like you, I've always been a homebody but I could go when I wanted. I've lost friends since I can't do what I want anymore. Hang in there. Prayers to your family.

[@judithbutler9695]

I’m happy if you’re happy! I admire you so much and enjoy your channel! You get enough done. I know the conditions you both have. You are both heroes 🙏🏼🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌟🌟🌟🌟❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@juststoppingby390]

Hun I'm so sorry you dealt with pain. And you have both been through so much. I have chronic pain too it's hard to be hit and miss with life. But the videos you do are wonderful and so are you. Anyone who thinks you need to do more just look at the thumbnails you work really hard and thats just a fraction of your life.

[@elainecoad205]

Just looked at your website. Can see i am going to be spending hours looking at everything on it, wonderful!!!

[@heideray7343]

I enjoy everything about your channel! I am so sorry you are dealing with health issues, keeping you and family in my prayers.

[@barbaraallan5954]

You can only do your best, you will get there in the end, just concentrate on the most important things and enjoy your family xxx

[@ErinBudgetsAimlessly]

Honestly, your property is the place my husband and i would love to take a ‘working vacation’ - camp out but do work that is needed.

[@doobs444]

Nyssa, I love the animals interrupting, so funny, and please don’t let anyone get you down with their negative comments, I have health issues also and you make me feel so tired seeing how much you accomplish. Keep your chin up and please 🙏 keep the squirreling going. God bless you, Snookums 😊

[@TinaFisher-u6b]

I have a 15 year old back injury.I get it..I had to start seeing a therapist..I saw her for several years...I have to take meds for depression I didn't need them before the accident...I spend a lot of time in bed ..lying prone relieves pain.I also get injections in my spine...my psychologist did a study in college and his thesis was on how chronic pain and traumatic brain injury affects our brain in the exact same way ..I am now experiencing symptoms similar to ADHD...I understand nissa... Taking care of your mental health will be so important for you...

[@OurSmallFootprint]

There's definitely a balance there on getting stuff done but lowering expectations based on situation, there has to be, otherwise you just piledrive yourself into an inability to get 'anything' done!

[@TinaFisher-u6b]

@@OurSmallFootprint I've learned to focus on what I accomplished..If you are like I am you can complete 30 projects and only notice the one that you couldn't finish...we are hard on ourselves just a woman thing I think..

[@sallyethridge1393]

I wish all the best for you. I was diagnosed with MS 20 years ago. I gave myself a shot everyday for years. I quit the shots a few years ago and I take Gabapentin 300 mg and have no side effects.

[@peggybrunner1414]

Hello from LA (lower Alabama) my wife and I love your videos and mostly your squirrels! They need to make a programs to shock the negative people every time they respond! You do more than most can and it’s amazing to watch you work in the kitchen! 64yo and I could never see us cooking on a 2 burner or using a grill as a oven! We look forward to every visit from you and you have really made follower out of us! Thanks and keep them coming!

[@marygarcia5449]

I completely understand what you’re going through! When my symptoms of fibromyalgia & MS started I had 4 kids 2 with severe ADHD and 2 with ADD. My house was crazy 🤪. And I worked full time. Working on site and Running my brothers interior/ exterior paint company. Morning’s were awful 😢. The pain and aggravation of getting every one out the door ( mind you all the clothes and book bags were ready the night before and lunches packed) but it never went like it was supposed to. Nights were full of homework, cooking and baths. I was so stressed and it did take a toll on my health. Now everyone is grown and I miss those days lol 😆 life always has a way of throwing a wrench into everything doesn’t it!

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Definitely, nothing ever feels simple! lol. And I know that one day I'll look back and miss the busyness, but at the moment, it would be nice to have a little less hehe.

[@Char-lei]

I manage a few chronic illnesses and a pain issue as well. Some days getting out of bed deserves a medal and when you have kids you have no choice but to march on. Don't listen to anyone negative, they could do with a hefty dose of empathy for others rather than sitting in judgement. There used to be something floating around the internet about spoons and fibromyalgia (literally called the spoon theory) but related to other chronic issues as well. It always helped me remember that when my energy and ability to get things done was more limited. I hear you on the comparing. I got rid of all social media a couple of years ago and am very careful with what I watch on KZbin. It's very easy to believe someone's highly curated stuff is real life. And that's what keeps me coming back to your channel. It's real. Keep being you. That's what we love 😁

[@amandachurch5740]

Thank you so much for making this video. You don’t have to explain yourself, however, I love when you squirrel. Fingers crossed for your health and the garden 😂❤

[@australianange9779]

Love the garden bed cover idea! Let haters be haters they are not worth your energy to acknowledge, you do a great job doing what you do in your own circumstances just keep on being you. I am looking forward to the shop opening! 💜

[@staceyjones3261]

I look forward to your videos whenever they are released. You and your family are doing a great job. I know church isn’t your thing. However, I pray for you. ❤ I think you’re talented and quite strong and brave.

[@kimmcvitty3580]

Those hinged garden beds look amazing!

[@lynhanna917]

You need to give yourself grace, no apologies necessary, I do a honey do list, it's no one's business what my list looks like but it gives me joy when i get to mark off what i have done. To work thru pain is a hell yea. I could not do what you do. You are one heck of a worker. Keep hanging in!

[@KarenShady-l4b]

I have nothing but respect for you Nyssa. Im in awe of all you do. I didn’t know you were a thermie consultant. I have a TM6, but, will definitely contact you when I want to buy another one. I also just signed up for youre newsletter

[@sheilababineaux488]

Y’all do an awesome job with the resources you have. ❤❤❤

[@judywatkins744]

Nyssa i have alot of respect for you on how well you manage your family. Don't compare yourself to anyone else.. You do what you can at your speed. Alot of people never understand what it's like to live in chronic pain and function in daily life. It affects every aspect of your life. I speak from personal experience as I live in chronic pain every day of my life 24 hours a day. We can only do what we can and keep putting one foot in front of the other. God bless you and your family. By the way.... I love your videos .

[@PattyMiller-d3x]

I think you’re doing a wonderful job!! One can’t expect you to do everything that one would want done. Life is life!!

[@SpatchG]

I think you're flipping amazing! I live with chronic pain and an autoimmune disease, so I know how tough it can be. You do so much, you're an inspiration.

[@deeinsa]

Ooh I love that hinged cover for the garden!!

[@simonewright3720]

I love watching your videos, watching the highs and lows of this lifestyle that you show, you dont pretend its all rainbows and unicorns. I love how authentic you are . So much respect for you and your family. Sending love from Darwin ❤

[@robynclarke5274]

I love the latest garden bed covers, these should make a big difference with your success. Good on Karmic for helping.

[@OurSmallFootprint]

I definitely think they'll work well!

[@elizabethmcenearney7860]

The realty of life is that children require time, attention and work. X six! You’re doing a terrific job with them. And yes, kids do have issues and growing pains and different ideas from their parents. Keeping up with them is always a dance. That happens even if you have a ton of money. And really aren’t they more important than building fences and walls?

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Definitely, Life currently is about what needs to be done, its coming to terms with that sometimes though!

[@jillwalls9330]

I definitely understand about wanting to do things around the house and not being able to due to limited funds. If we had an extra surplus of cash everything would look great like we want it to. Life is definitely a struggle and we’re all just trying to get by and have the necessities that we need to just live sometimes. Take care. 😊

[@annfromma8456]

While I completely love watching your videos, your health and the health of your family should always be your top priority. I don't know if I'll be able to purchase as the shipping will be ridiculous to the United States but once it's live, I'll definitely take a look. Stay well.

[@OurSmallFootprint]

Yes! I'm not sure what shipping is going to be like, will have to play it by ear, but that is why I did some stickers and stuff too, nice lightweight stuff that should be inexpensive to ship if you want just something small hehe :D