45 signs they are NOT for you & you need to breakup

[@dearxdiary]

One thing I've realised is your body will automatically reject anyone who's not meant for you so if your heart starts racing or you feel drained around them then they are not meant for you.

[@lucaspranav]

i was dating someone a couple months ago, and i remember i would feel so anxious around him. there were nights where i would just cry and i had no reason to be crying because he didnt do anything wrong. turns out he wasn't over his ex and i broke up with him

[@jesusrules9925]

Yes you are both correct.

[@Seraphina93]

I get super chubby when someone emotionally abuses me, And basically skin and bones when I’m scared! Guess what my parents are like?

[@dearxdiary]

Yeah if you get abused you gain weight because your body tries to protect you

[@Seraphina93]

@@dearxdiaryit tried its best!

[@simonesquared]

if he is watching this can u click off

[@darceysinclair8929]

absolutely not

[@fangirlinneverland6335]

BAHAHAHHAHAHA

[@duan_ri]

Exactly what I needed😔… I recently broke up with my boyfriend who never prioritised me and never felt soo sad ever before but deep down , I realised that I am saved.

[@ldrgod]

THE TIMING OMG

[@shamiram1111]

another way your body will show someone isn’t for you is when you lose your glow or you even become uglier 😬. i’ve been through this, you can even tell in photos but i love your videos, straight to the point. ❤️

[@anchan_dulal]

now make a video titled 'signs they are for you and you need to stay together for life'. ❤

[@richasaini4204]

Agree

[@sandydotsea]

a lot of these signs can be applicable to relationships that aren't romantic too. this video was so validating damn

[@cloud6318]

so real

[@Ruby.rubes.s]

Yessss!!! I recently went through a ‘breakup’ with my friend. She turned out to be suuuuper fake and was constantly talking bad about me behind my back and just created issues sooo often. I’m so glad I dropped her, I’m moving on while she’s still posting and reposting about it 🤷‍♀️

[@irishlivs]

The way you are always at the right timing. Posting this on Saturn Retrograde is SO REAL of you! You are our angel 🤭

[@itshazzybee]

When the break up feels more right than the relationship....yeah bbg its done for GOOD!!!!

[@Seraphina93]

Here’s my personal checklist that I won’t ignore from today 6pm ❤. -they say misogynistic things, even in jest, or apologize violence against women in ANY way, shape or form. -comment ur body, ONLY ur body, girl ur a person -one mistake? Ur worthless And if ur friends and family hate them, At least ask them why. I love u

[@samco63]

Ahhh literally every single one is my relationship now. I’m 37 and still need to listen to this. He’s so unsafe for me, but I keep trying. I needed this. So thank you!

[@indigo_diary]

I hope you find the courage and strength to leave him soon ❤

[@Natalie32star]

You got this. DON’T WASTE TIME BABE. ❤

[@whitethienpoison]

thank you for slapping some sense into me, you are saving my life girl

[@Asistha2]

i cannot even concentrate simone is gorgeous

[@_taenosaur]

I think i realised he was not for me 1 year into the relationship because everytime something minor or major went wrong in my life i would immediately think oh its because of this relationship and then i would question why did i think that and blame it on me, eventually a year later i broke up with him cuz my gut kept giving me too strong signs

[@vinishag.8909]

SIMONE!! i relate to every single one of these points but not with a guy, these points are an accurate description of my relationship with my mom 😢, i wish you could make a video on leaving a toxic parent creating distance, an escape plan, financial stability and becoming fully independent gradually

[@pro.crammer]

omgg queen is back! ♡♡♡

[@martine8455]

OMG TYSM, I was so confused when I felt like I couldnt trust my ex bf. Like I thought everything he told me was a lie and I didn't feel comfortable around him. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED, a confirmation that my choice of leaving was right(even though he was a nice guy and my friends didn't understand but still supported me lol).

[@Audrey-ot2pc]

i love your relationship/friendship videos PLEASE do more💖💖💖

[@shimiiisan]

The timing is crazy omg thankyouuuuuuu 😭

[@Jessica-kn5re]

Simone,your timing istg. Sending all the love in this world.❤️

[@Jenifferrai]

it feels like you're describing me. I've been trying to detach from him while being a relationship for over 3 months now and somehow it's not working it's like that heroin addiction you've talked about. He lovebomb one day & I again start imaginging myself getting married to him. It's not that am scared to leave him, I am scared to see him with someone else. IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME GET OVER THIS. you have my blessing

[@vladilenanouzen]

Amazingly, Queen Simone, you have posted again been waiting! I adore your voice sm. whenever you speak or say something, it seems as though your words and advice immediately come to mind, whether I'm alone or in public ❤🎉 I LOVE YOU! You're my forever queen, sister, and greatest girl friend online here! Stay healthy!

[@tejalsonawane1997]

I am seeing this video as a "validation" for leaving toxic people behind!

[@ArunimaMandal15]

7:51 omg I could never put this feeling into words. BOY BYE he has always been a red flag ew

[@urfavgiselle]

this is exactly what we all need to hear periodt 😙🤚🏻 thank you papi you’re amazing 😝‼️🫶🏻

[@Nk-ob4id]

They knawr they knawr they knawr

[@savageornah7696]

Everytime I met someone like a date and I get sick a day after really sick o know that god and my body is telling me he is not for you it’s super crazy because I had a feeling or signs but I ignored it I don’t want to seek someone so no dating apps only dustys are on there ! working on me !

[@NotebookMapofLemon]

Thank you i needed this. 😭😭😭😭😭I was going back and forth abt this guy. Now i know. I M LEAVING HIM 🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡

[@dearjiya4496]

At this point I’m the red flag 🚩

[@Chila-ty9sy]

Me too, damn I feel sorry

[@emptycupp]

Same

[@Finixia.]

I meet individual points myself, but it's a sign that we are aware of it and we need to do something about it

[@Boobooboba2506]

Dude seriously I was thinking if he is not for me and this shows up love you babe❤

[@YourlocalTarie]

Dear Simmone and other readers!

[@nivedita7589]

12:38 really needed to know that thanks!!

[@Seraphina93]

He was so attentive. Like literally, I felt ugly, I told him so and he said „ur always beautiful“, now suddenly (like a hot minute after confessing to me that he likes me), he ignores me and never has time to phone anymore. Today I told him (after he didn’t even mention the call that we wanted to have yesterday or that we didn’t text for a whole day for no reason, AGAIN), that I don’t want to phone anymore and he was actually surprised. Know what he said: „y?“ Not even anything else, or a „why“. And now he posts s*xist pics, ok.

[@leighs1nterlude]

you dodged a bullet !!

[@User69362]

Girl leave him. Don’t waste your time with immature men

[@Wthrev]

JUST IN TIMEEEEEE❤❤❤ ILY

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

Stunning job, Simone!❤

[@MangoDiorr]

I love you and I just started subscribing🥺

[@kyokohorii]

MOTHER❤

[@amahleinathilande]

how to leave is the question 💔

[@ud29]

omg so EARLY!! love you simone

[@asterialumin_2030]

Hi ya Simone! Every time you upload, the timing is crazyyy!

[@lofisky4355]

Thanks for saving us girl💪😭

[@drinkingmiranda1831]

Dear Simone, will you kindly make a detailed video on "friendship" how it's supposed to be...how to find out if they really are our friend/ best friend or no. Solemnly, Best regards Hiba Api

[@BrookeFranklin-bz4my]

This was a great video!

[@kyokohorii]

okay mother I'm taking this as a sign from God:O

[@Seraphina93]

Same :s

[@marccolomayt82094]

Enjoying this! ❤❤

[@adelphipanthers]

This describes what my ex girlfriend did to me . She was so narcissistic and self centered . The sex was terrible too. Thank god I broke up with her .

[@keii3561]

Timing was never more perfect.

[@TATAKAEEEE_ey]

There was this guy I was talking to he said he likes me and wanted to date me but I was confused I had a feeling he has a gf but he always declined then 2days ago he blocked me on ig and i found out he has a gf guess what I had this dream back in nov 2023 that he and I was in some sort of confusionship and then I found out he has a gf and this exact thing happenedddd!!! GIRLS ALWAYS BELIEVE YOUR DREAMS AND INTUITION ITS A SUPERPOWER AND ITS A SIGN FROM GOD. thankfully I never trusted him fully..I'm kinda sad tho

[@aahanaghoshh]

this video is sign enough that i should leave

[@rowan.marie.forsythe]

The timing is insane! how did she know

[@bh4rti]

NAWHHH I REALLLY NEEDED THIS. I WAS THINKING OF BREAKING UP WITH MY BOYFIE BC OF POOR COMMUNICATION AND DAYUMM UR NEW VID WAS ABT THE SAME FUCKING TOPICCCC

[@itschia8518]

What if a guy is doing therapy and also speaks greatly about it and how important it is, but at the same time I have the feeling that he is a playboy?

[@glowupgirliee]

MOTHERS BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

[@oogaboogass]

where was this video six months ago 😢😭😭

[@Uhm_huh]

Simone, who do I contact for help for SSS-society?

[@sarahlidia4449]

I needed this fr :((

[@irishlivs]

I know he is NOT for me because I could literally list SO MANY things. However, possibly seeing him is stopping me from cutting him off on social media (since most likely, we’d be classmates again for law school). 😩

[@irishlivs]

And the way we’re not even together, just had a sort of situationship very much says how I should leave! (I left but still stalk him at times 😩)

[@Seraphina93]

Doesn’t matter, Don’t even acknowledge the b*tch

[@shunpofx]

thanks i needed to see this

[@mímimími-004]

so…my parents and all my friends are not for me 😔 idk i kinda fake everything when im around them

[@prettylilnerdy6802]

But from this list I think that leaves no one for me

[@honeymayfair-rt9tc]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍excellent analysis

[@HamzaHabi-z7h]

I like them more when I am with them in real ❤

[@Seraphina93]

Feel free to ignore, rant. -he was so kind and attentive. Six months and counting. Then one day I told him my girlfriend asked me to live w her, And he exploded on me, Told me everything he hates about me, And that I deserve the xyz experience I had (many women know what I mean), And that I provoked my ex to do it. And when he made me cry he acted as if he didn’t notice. He was still surprised I stopped talking to him today though.

[@belissegiovanni]

Was he always like this when you guys argue

[@dIvYaa487]

Wht xyz experience

[@Seraphina93]

@@dIvYaa487don’t want to speak about it kind of obvious

[@Seraphina93]

@@belissegiovannino Usually he said „it’s fine we have two different opinions“. I think he felt rejected, But he’s been hardly speaking to me since mid May, Still saying he appreciates me/ just busy but um You’re not a mine worker bestie

[@israabenkhelouf8497]

Good topic

[@Alexiahbnr07]

But the real question is.. How and WHERE to find such a good man???

[@Seraphina93]

I waited for a sign today, And all he did as reaction to me pulling away was post something about s*x. Nothing else. And this shows up :/

[@ludovicaangotti8452]

literally everything

[@sriyanka4915]

Actually some things you said in the video i do it.😢😢

[@prisha4430]

Is he bad at communicating or am I just isolated and on my phone 24/7 while he just has a life?

[@prisha4430]

He interns at this big a$$ company and also is studying at a big a$$ university with the biggest textbooks I’ve ever seen

[@DaffadilSunshines]

hey i've thought the same at one point. you feel like the you in you is slowly going away? because maybe you feel more focussed on loving him than yourself? imat the same edge r n different situation

[@alainasarchive]

okay i’m going through this right now too 😭 i’m constantly conflicted

[@Letsstudytogether-at]

Earlyyy finally 🎉✨💕🌷

[@ira-9181]

are u like psychic (ur videos are always on time)

[@Seraphina93]

Honestly I had a 6pm timeline for breaking it off, I told him a month ago I want to be cherished, He said I deserve it (but did nothing), Then today I said I no longer want to phone, he only asked why and posted s*xist jokes for some reason. And then this shows up

[@prableenn-]

Me being single but watches anyway

[@nalinimaharjan5939]

Papa papi❤

[@GargiThakare-y3o]

NO WAY U READ MY MIND

[@--Singularity--]

Construction work is the same reason as those guys don´t care your "rules".

[@simonesimmons]

whatever that means dawg

[@--Singularity--]

@@simonesimmons It´s no accident. It means.

[@adrilous]

Lovee uu💞💞🤍🤍

[@4triis]

THEY'RE NOT FOR YOU ⛳ youre always posing/lying to their questions you make excuses for their behaviour they dont communicate and act avoidant they make you feel unsafe they say hurtful things in a fight/normally they dont consider your feelings (they do something they know will make you upset) they dont add to your life (you're upset before 7am bc of a relationship, he has to go) they dont want to compromise they don't ask questions/get to know you they continuously cross your boundaries they don't acknowledge where they went wrong "im never gonna get therapy" people they don't make an effort/expect you to do everything they ghost you as a punishment they blow up over small things you said someone who runs away from their feelings (they'll run away from relationship to avoid getting hurt) they try to change you they are controlling (not out of love) they're manipulative (im gonna change and then doesn't) inconsistency in efforts your body rejects them they don't make time for you they try to isolate you from world you have to force yourself to talk to them you only like them sometimes they cant control your anger you have incompatible lifestyles they bring out the worst in you(you start being more angry and toxic bc of them) they dont make you feel special

[@Sarpy777]

45 is crazyyyy 😭

[@zodiacnights712]

WHY CANT I FIND ANY OF THESE SIGNS AHHHH

[@angelikap8303]

Earlyyyyy ❤

[@finny_and_autumn]

it feels wrong to be this early

[@carolinavaldez8450]

45? Wow 😂 interesting, that’s wayyy too much dear😂

[@drinkingmiranda1831]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yerbamate_viviana]

💯 ❤

[@kyokohorii]

❤😭

[@ohohpelia2166]

Simone i woke up with that pit in my stomach ahhhh

[@paolasimone6805]

Can this be use also in friendship?

[@Seraphina93]

Of course

[@prettylilnerdy6802]

why didnt you make this video before

[@Rosesarerosiehehe]

can this be applicable to friendships?

[@Seraphina93]

Yes of course

[@Lolcoca]

I do not take The Defense of anyone but if you see that a person is not made for you ! Focus on your life and your Goals ! Complaining will not help ! Let their blah blah blah 😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@Valerz7]

Angellll

[@--Singularity--]

I don´t believe in therapy, cosh i know more math than you do. That construction work was a therapy. Got it ?

[@robert661]

first?!

[@--Singularity--]

Jesus said it: Only the sick needs Therapy.

[@simonesimmons]

everyone is sick dawg...

[@--Singularity--]

@@simonesimmons Well. Thats true. Manipulated in this simulation.

[@--Singularity--]

@@simonesimmons So. Who you gonna call ?

[@mariaaaa180]

I was just thinking of you and dmnn you posted 🤌🌝

[@ud29]

i love how the videos don’t seem repetitive and same 🫶🏻

[@Chila-ty9sy]

Omg, I´am the red flag

[@st1tchedheart]

so real