JAPAN VLOG AND MAKEUP VID COMING SOON ON VLOG CHANNEL (and tiktok, gonna try to be active there): @simoneunsquared
@r3naaa-q2i10 ай бұрын
おお!日本に行ったんですか!楽しかったなら良かったです☺💕
@michaelscofield246910 ай бұрын
add subtitles on your videos
@fizakhanam833710 ай бұрын
Amazing content as always ❤ Simone can you please make a video on male- female friendships like how it should be and how they should be treating each other
@yourstruly817110 ай бұрын
“if you are questioning whether or not a man likes you, he doesn’t” FACTS queen😮💨
@damsykl10 ай бұрын
Good one to remember😊
@Breb199910 ай бұрын
That’s what I thought of before clicking!! 😭
@deliverus834010 ай бұрын
Not true sis. The devil also can tell you that someone doesn't like you...
@solfh10 ай бұрын
@@deliverus8340but if a man makes NO ROOM for doubts, even if the devil speaks, the woman heart will be at ease
@JesusLightsYourPath2 ай бұрын
Not always true
@withlovedolly10 ай бұрын
The timing bruh, the timing 💀
@maithilee.2110 ай бұрын
+1
@badwitch942010 ай бұрын
Ikr 🥲I was just thinking abt it
@cherrypie33310 ай бұрын
+1
@lilyy.71710 ай бұрын
FR REAL!!
@user-os9ut3jt7b10 ай бұрын
Literally 😂😭
@chickenmcnuggets335110 ай бұрын
if u ever have to ask yourself if he likes you, he doesn't. a man who like you will make it ultra obvious that he adores you. you won't ever have to question a thing
@Pieza_De_Queso10 ай бұрын
I think people can like you - heck, even love you! - but be horrible at displaying that affection, BUT THATS THEIR PROBLEM. We should not take them as projects and stick around, feeling emotionally malnourished and miserable, until they learn how to love. That’s their own responsibility. If someone sux at loving, it’s on them to fix it. What is the use of being loved by someone who is incompetent at showing it? I guess what I mean is: Love is NOT enough. If there is no action, no actual effort, it doesn’t worth your time and energy. There are plenty of people that matches us and that would cherish us profoundly. I think “they don’t love u” can also be a delusional excuse for insensitive and overall trashy behavior from a partner. Like a way to escape quickly whilst simplifying the situation because we don’t wanna face the fact that WE wanna leave, even tho we are loved, for that love does more harm than good. Yes, they might love you. Yea, they’re horrible at it. Do you wanna hang around a horrible lover just because they love you? Is it even worth the pain and the damage? We can let go of love that doesn’t nourishes us too. ⚠️ And some people can be amazing at displaying affection and actually not love us at all. Important distinction to make.
@silvij441610 ай бұрын
@@Pieza_De_QuesoYou explained this really well, better than I could have and I have actually had this mindset for a long time.
@Maria-em4oz10 ай бұрын
@@Pieza_De_Quesothis is the best explanation I’ve ever seen, u are so wise
@hayamisakai10 ай бұрын
WHAT IF I FEEL IT OR AM IBEING DELULU
@MS-ns4ki10 ай бұрын
I already tell people if a guy is not crazy about you you should walk away because once you experience that feeling you’ll feel like everything else doesn’t feel right
@terresa5510 ай бұрын
Once you realize how it looks when he doesn't like you and when you stop gaslighting yourself, game changes! Everything will become easier.
@lilyy.71710 ай бұрын
Trueeee
@silvij441610 ай бұрын
I have just realized this because I found someone who likes me so much that I don't have to question it and I feel so secure that I almost forgot what it was like having to constantly wonder if I'm doing too much or think "why hasn't he texted me?"
@terresa5510 ай бұрын
@@silvij4416 yeah! You just literally need one good guy like that and you will realize that everything else is bullshit.
@cxlliecxlde9 ай бұрын
I hate how we in this generation have to play all these emotinal mind games and tricks just to keep somebody interested in you. What happened to love and faith in people?
@SydneyLautner4 ай бұрын
It’s gone…
@limedaiquiri10 ай бұрын
Yes! I recently cut off this guy and my thoughts were exactly what you said. "We're not even in a relationship and he's stressing me out."
@eisenhower906910 ай бұрын
Saamme
@nehapardeshi404510 ай бұрын
Does cutting him off means removing him from social media, completely?
@limedaiquiri10 ай бұрын
@@nehapardeshi4045 normally yes. Unless you have to be in contact with them because of other reasons
@poweidethompson725610 ай бұрын
Bruhh
@debolinabhoumik930410 ай бұрын
Ah I can feel your peace of mind. I gotta do the same girl!🥲
@h.757310 ай бұрын
I've spent an year over a situationship and I'm telling ya it's not worth it. Move on, don't waste time on guys like these
@andriavinithalobo581310 ай бұрын
Yesss!! You are right Just a waste of time. Girls pls focus on your life goals and stop wasting time on these players. You will find the right man💕
@MC-eu8wm10 ай бұрын
Same… leads nowhere, if they don’t want you, they won’t want you with more time either
@kqtering10 ай бұрын
i was hanging out with a man and he gaves me vibes that he haven't get over his ex so i told him 'i think we need to stop hangout' and he was in silent for like 2 seconds and then he was like okay, he didn't even ask 'why' so that was the extra confirmation i needed
@MuhammadUsman-xk6ir10 ай бұрын
You already made your decision to leave him. he did not leave you.
@crownde10 ай бұрын
bro was probably still recovering from his ex so when you told him it won't work he probably thought it was better not to fight for it since the last one didnt work out yk
@kqtering10 ай бұрын
@@crownde i though the same and i mean we work together (he's my boss) and of course we talk and joke around it's just not in a romantic way
@rodriguesaplacino661210 ай бұрын
Do you know why he has not asked? He has done so multiple times and always ended up appearing desperate. So he now just leaves silently when asked to do so.
@kqtering10 ай бұрын
@@rodriguesaplacino6612 could be
@annrami10 ай бұрын
60% divorced Out of the 40% only 5% stay in love Sent freaking chills down my spine
@maniiaeforever10 ай бұрын
Marriage is a sham for sure
@奶油饼干-c6j10 ай бұрын
Sad but true.
@yasmine-ib7kh10 ай бұрын
ok but why do i obsesseively fantasize about running into them and ignoring them lmao.
@Vxruxxss10 ай бұрын
Same lmao
@Togepi-tj8kr10 ай бұрын
You are so obsessed
@Alexandra-dn10 ай бұрын
so relatable
@kitkat076810 ай бұрын
I tried to do that once, and he wouldn't let me have the peace of walking past without acknowledging him. He wasn't sorry for dumping me. Stopped me to ask how I am! I got dumped abruptly by phone after not seeing him for weeks (said he was sick) but he would bring up girls that were calling him but didn't like it when I questioned why he did that.. It wasn't about me or wanting to speak to me. His ego just couldn't take me walking by and not acknowledging him. I warned him before, if we broke up, I don't want to speak to an ex if it was a bad break up or done cruelly.
@SuperSilverJay10 ай бұрын
I do that but I fantasize about our eyes meeting and the look of regret on his face that he lost me. I also imagine I have the same look of hesitation on my face before I collect myself and walk off.
@RedDeadReverie10 ай бұрын
I hate how we have to play games and learn how to manipulate people just because women are only “prizes” and sexual conquests. I want to give love and receive it without hidden agendas. Life is too short to play these mind games and throw people away when you’re bored.
@RedDeadReverie10 ай бұрын
I’ve lived with my spouse for 5 years, had a kid, and yet I still have to worry about my partner ditching me when they want to boost their ego by sleeping with younger people. It’s ridiculous. Men, get your priorities straight and grow up.
@jibberism991010 ай бұрын
@@RedDeadReverie If he acts that way, I would advise taking a hint from the video as well.
@chuucake10 ай бұрын
the importance of why you should not revolve yourself in a man is truly astounding. simone ilysm!!! THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME A MUCH NEEDED REALITY CHECK
@zodiacnights71210 ай бұрын
if you think this is a sign, it probably is.
@Ringostarr55510 ай бұрын
Man the timing, i just got rid of this 8MONTH situationship. Spoke up to him and got him to spit out what he actually thought about us. Feeling kinda sad rn but it’ll be away by tomorrow :p
@ajmosutra766710 ай бұрын
What did he say
@my_merodi10 ай бұрын
yess good for you!! 👏 and just think about how much time you’ve saved not letting it drag on any further 😌 never settle as we don’t chase, we attract
@sue_nguyen10 ай бұрын
@@mohiniinks u can ask me if u want lmaooooo i'll slap into ur face "mentally" of course but if u have to ask a question then maybe the man is not for you
@Ringostarr55510 ай бұрын
yess i'd love to help@@mohiniinks
@paperboxes10 ай бұрын
Congrats 🎉
@irishlivs10 ай бұрын
I also thought being nice and accepting his apology because I thought it was the good thing was one of the worst decision I ever made
@citizen_of_de_wOrlD010 ай бұрын
Simone, I'm really grateful for how much you helped me to grow I remember after breaking up with my first bf I realized how immature I was and how much i didn't know about myself , I felt really empty. I had a friend that time who was like a movie main character, she was really pretty and I wanted to be like her. Then I saw your main character video, I really liked you and your energy from that day and I started following you and now I think I have learnt a lot from you and still learning. I really appreciate you and thank you♡
@noelle778610 ай бұрын
for me, I just want to focus on making myself happy and when there are potential partners, to just enjoy it in the moment and not get too emotionally attached since everyone is their own person and it's unfair to create a standard for someone (if that makes sense.) this way I don't make excuses for people who aren't showing up in the way that they should, and I am not getting overly anxious over how someone else feels about me.
@xoxjelloxox10 ай бұрын
How do you know when to keep seeing them?
@solfh10 ай бұрын
So how you distinguish if it is time to cut ties if you don’t really care about them
@kimtaj261210 ай бұрын
@@xoxjelloxoxwhen they make it obvious about liking you
@xoxjelloxox10 ай бұрын
@@kimtaj2612 but doesn’t it take time to like someone?
@yukisuperstylish10 ай бұрын
Girl you are so young. When I was your age I was busy making a living so I never thought about these things. I appreciate you telling young girl about men.
@_xBrokenxDreamsx_10 ай бұрын
a lot of the times he doesn't know if he likes you or what that even means, and he definitely doesn't know how to show it. hindsight is 20/20 but our present vision is always occluded by the anxiety of now.
@xoxjelloxox10 ай бұрын
Oh.. how long until he knows?
@linaasia867410 ай бұрын
@@xoxjelloxox about a year
@nofybn779410 ай бұрын
Yeah right, he knows.
@jibberism991010 ай бұрын
@@nofybn7794 As he grows older, he has more things to consider. The luxury of jumping in slowly fades.
@idkwhatimdoing3619 ай бұрын
the birkin bag analogy is actually genius and i think it changed my life
@Pieza_De_Queso10 ай бұрын
OMG, SIMMONE! The exercise to write the story and break it down is kiiinda like what I’ve been doing recently for my relationship. But I wasn’t aware enough of a structure, so thank you for providing it. What I’ve been doing is just retell our story to me and notice all the things I’ve missed or chose not to look to - had a “why” for most, but not for all, and surely I was making myself feel guilty for not noticing the big good things too… Thank you! Such a huge self awareness exercise! Helps us catch the behavioral patterns, the trauma responses, the limiting beliefs, our flaws, our addictions and distractions…Yk, when we know what we want and what we look for, what we really like and aim for, people can’t notice first and control us through that. ❤
@alexviolett10 ай бұрын
The story of your friend is almost exactly how my "situationship" (I was unaware of that word then) unfolded. Luckily, it only lasted six weeks. It took me also exactly six weeks to get over that story, but now, looking back at it, the only plausible explanation is it was that chemical reaction. Once the "drug" wore off, I don't even understand what I found in the guy. Needless to say, I don't want him back ever, even if somebody offered me a million dollars😂
@Chaotic_mess623910 ай бұрын
SHE POSTED EXACTLY WHEN I FUCKING NEEDED IT 🛐🙇🏻♀️❤️
@j1nnienchrist10 ай бұрын
U accept what u deserve is very real
@robert66110 ай бұрын
i agree with everything you said around minute 4:01 but, unfortunately, some guys will act like they don't like you, when they actually do like you. they're immature and don't know how to express their feelings or how to treat a person they like - and even so, yes, that's not an excuse and yall should not date them anyway. date someone who's at least TRYING to work on themselves. you should not become your boyfriend's therapist just because you like them and see some potential 🫶
@auds_e710 ай бұрын
Right sometimes it takes time and it’s not black & white
@bradsalz408410 ай бұрын
"some guys will act like they don't like you, when they actually do like you" .... maybe because he listened to a male KZbinr giving him similarly crappy advice. Do you really want to take potentially life-changing mate-selection advice from a random 24yo woman on KZbin? You can probably do better thimking for yourself and using your own judgment. But, hey, I'm just a random commentor to a video that I can't understand why the KZbin algorithm sent me here in the first place.
@elyuvc10 ай бұрын
I'm on a dating hiatus rn, but still watching it cz like just in case lol
@LLLL-jq4ix9 ай бұрын
I agree with the main message of the video and think there’s a lot of truth in it. But I also want to add that while it’s ok to not like someone because of the way they pursue you, we shouldn’t disrespect them or call them a clown. Don’t ever take anyone for granted. Just another woman’s perspective.
@darbirhian10 ай бұрын
Legit so true. When they're into you, there is never any question, period. When we were just starting to date, my now spouse would already be making plans for the next date 5 minutes after he picked me up for the present date. It was so endearing, I just adored that! 2 kids, a mortgage, and 12 years later, here we are!
@tubadurantdoda10 ай бұрын
The perspective you gave about getting married before and after 30s was something I've never thought of before. In general, and technically, what you said tends to be true and instead of seeing late marriage as failure, we should actually think about this issue. The social pressure gets to everyone but nothing is worse than feeling lonely in a marriage forced by social pressure. Plus, I believe the new 30s to be the old 20s.
@Savageking000010 ай бұрын
Writing down how you feel about a person is cool in all but the best way to learn is from experience and making multiple mistakes or by focusing on other things besides dating because we are slaves to our habits until eventually we grow out of them through experience or we develop new habits to replace old ones like exploring your options instead of settling for a specific type of person, you may also learn more about yourself doing this! You have to find yourself before you can find someone else.
@rxhrevfr9810 ай бұрын
Ommo Momma, you really care about me and my sss girlies. One time I msgd Simone on a Saturday abt a billing concern on SSS and she immediately replied even if it was a Saturday. She lives up to her values of being empathetic. Thank you for coming to my and our lives. We at the SSS loves you so much. And Alex hahaha
@simonesquared10 ай бұрын
ilyyyyy
@rxhrevfr9810 ай бұрын
@@simonesquared momma is me the one organizing the Thailand trip ily more! Each single day! 😭😭😭
@kimm943510 ай бұрын
I do agree, but I also think it takes two people to communicate effectively. Sometimes people hold back because they might not think you’re that interested in them. Don’t give up so quickly. Make sure you’re communicating your feelings openly to them, and if they still disregard you after you’ve shown an interest clearly to them, then you’ll know it’s time to walk away.
@devashrijoshi907910 ай бұрын
*sigh* that whole being strategic part is what I personally hate. I'm wayy too direct, I can't be strategic when it comes to this. I might as well be myself & let my authentic energy attract someone than be fake/strategic. I feel like it's a wholearse game being strategic & all. I dont personally like to toy with anyone's emotions
@warrenmiller204410 ай бұрын
As a guy the part around 3:45 is a little inaccurate. Guys have learned if they show too much interest they push girls away so they often try not to be so naturally giving & try to make her wait and guess and feel unsure
@solfh10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 tffff.. good women do not want to guess or play dmb games. Leave that for immature-know-nothing-about-life people. Jeez I really hope you don’t actually believe women want that
@diskursm855810 ай бұрын
@@solfh tottaly agree. As a guy I believe that you just... love and dont play games since "The player" is usually unstable person and there is no reason for a women to make family with someone unstable
@suzannecermy370010 ай бұрын
That's g ame playing,especially after 50,we have been to the circus,we have seen the clowns!
@anki333610 ай бұрын
There is nothing called too much interest. If you know what you want then your interests will automatically align with right person. If you dont know what you want, you still want to show the level of interest you would like to show (whatever that is) so that you weed out the people who dont reciprocate. It might take a while to meet someone this way but atleast you wont start/break off multiple times with wrong people. On the other hand, if you are lucky you will meet the right person sooner.
@KatyaVasilivna10 ай бұрын
And that's always going to be true contrary to what women say because this is how we are biologically wired. We're simply not attracted to desperate men and honestly men aren't attracted to desperate women either. It comes down to building your self worth and loving yourself enough so that in return it teaches people to love and value you the same if not more.
@Girl_in_mask10 ай бұрын
Don’t be too available in your cellphone! Just to talk someone! Too much attachment is not LOVE If you want Love Let them chase you And create emotional for you! You must whole by yourself! Completely to yourself! It’s hard to them to play your feelings! That’s why don’t too much attachment! It’s not love!! It’s a trapped… they’re take advantage of your feelings! That’s why You got play! Girls don’t too much emotion!
@fairysblessings77710 ай бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH QUEEN THE TIMING IS SO PERFECT. 😭
@fawngthci10 ай бұрын
the timing is mad PERFECT
@hinokaichikunn414010 ай бұрын
HELP THIS HELPED ME SO MUCH, I LITERALLY THOUGHT OF ENDING IT BUT THIS CAME RIGHT IN TIME OMG
@Galliapatrianostra10 ай бұрын
I m a man, I was with a girl lately and I can tell the same. Everything was perfect with her, I ve never met someone this beautiful and with the same values than me. I talked a lot with her by message and invest a lot of my thoughts and was imagining me with her nearly for the rest of my life. But she completely skipped me for a stupid reason after we went out for the third time. I think it’s all a matter of balance, if one person put more energy than the other, he will be the victim of the situation. You have to find someone who invest the same as you.
@canesugar91110 ай бұрын
This most likely never happened. Even if it did, what exactly is a"stupid reason".
@Galliapatrianostra10 ай бұрын
@@canesugar911 we hang out, we didn’t plan to go to restaurant, but she wanted to after we went to the bar. I asked her if she was ok so to pay for her cause it’s wasn’t me who invited her. She took it personally and didn’t want to see me again for that reason…
@AAA-kr7nh10 ай бұрын
@@Galliapatrianostranot surprised , it's extreme turn off for a dude to ask ,,pay for yourself " that early cuz it shows you're greedy to save as much as possible on meeting her, it's not about paying for someone constantly,it just clearly shows you will start being cheapskate as soon as opportunity comes and most women don't find it attractive, it doesn't matter if she proposed it or not , it was about spending more time with you and u f it up,you and other dudes can deny it as much as u want but women look for non cheapskate dude as much as men look for beautiful women, what she skipped you for is not stupid, it puts a perspective what kind of dude u r
@Galliapatrianostra10 ай бұрын
@@AAA-kr7nh ok then but when do u stop that ? After one, two or three restaurants ? And if she left after the fourth I don’t accept to pay ? And me, you think I didn’t offer also my time for her ? And there is many other way to show investment than paying for restaurant lol I know it wasn’t classy from me but I don’t get that view, it’s just prove that she wasn’t interested by me if she left just for this reason …
@warrenmiller204410 ай бұрын
@@Galliapatrianostraur right
@onlypjm10 ай бұрын
simone is the sister i never had
@manasvigurjar200410 ай бұрын
Big sister to the rescue 💪❤️
@osnapitzlyn9 ай бұрын
i think its hard when they treat u so well at the start when you weren't even that interested and when you fall for them, they just pull away like a mofo. i struggle with letting it go :") any advice?
@LuxeByLo10 ай бұрын
That ring thing is so true because I literally don’t understand being together for that long and no ring
@oni838710 ай бұрын
As a guy, I saw a lot of my own flaws watching this video especially with communication but sometimes I just want time to myself for like 2 or 3 hours and I know I should just communicate better but I think its difficult to me to tell her id rather watch a movie right now than talk to her. I've had this in most of my past relationships and realized it. I also find it tiring constantly tying to impress her or be charming. Not sure how to fix it but to be honest I'm fine being single and focusing on my marks and that.
@solfh10 ай бұрын
Yea you should probably remain single and not make another woman waste their time with you until you have the energy actually to have a serious relationship that requires and always will require that effort of communication. Respectfully telling you, as a 32 yo woman who has been struggling all her life with men like you. I am just very confused as to what do men want .. seems like all is do what they want when they want
@KatyaVasilivna10 ай бұрын
The dude wants a few hours to himself. Anyone would get tired of being the circus clown. The relationship doesnt revolve just around the woman and her wants and needs@solfh
@solfh9 ай бұрын
@@KatyaVasilivna he can just state so to his partner. That’s what I meant. But men don’t say sht. Want women to guess. Just read what he said.. what is so hard to say I am going to watch a movie now, call you later.
@sofiaekholm114010 ай бұрын
OMG! the comment about if you make me feel stressed before we are even partners... This is exactly what I'm feeling atm! I´ll have to be gone soon too!
@michelleclaras10 ай бұрын
I cannot believe this video came in the PERFECT timing, ILY!
@darkschocolatee10 ай бұрын
thank you very much for this useful video!! I’ve never dated guys, so I don’t know much due to inexperience, but thanks to you, I’m learning a lot of things to be with the right person. thanks again!! I love you and wish you good health!
@ArizonaAirspace10 ай бұрын
As a man, I’ll tell you that unless he’s an emotionally damaged defect, you will know whether he likes you or not. I’m direct and if I like a woman, she will know because I put her as my priority. Even if I am busy, she will get my response within few hours at the latest. I will not make her wait for days like some jerks who play games.
@basshunter901810 ай бұрын
so true...a guy at work really interested in me, then i bought him box of chocs at valentines...he recieved them well. then he just turned silent a week later - no more interest shown in me since then.
@shine267810 ай бұрын
You have no idea how much i needed this rn! You are a life saver Simone♥
@BabaJaga10 ай бұрын
Hey girl, I just wanted to mention that when you say „Ich liebe dich“ at the end of a video is the singular form of I love you. I you want to address multiple people it’s „Ich liebe euch“ 🥰
@c0smic.aurora10 ай бұрын
you made this especially for me, didn’t u? thank you😭
@xzk40857 ай бұрын
This girls is 23 and she talks as though she is 35. She is not only beautiful but WISE as well
@CrystalWi10 ай бұрын
I feel like this applies to friendships as well. Like, so many ppl be making friendships so complicated T ^ T like it isn't that hard to let your friend know if you can't talk at times, or ask them how they are. I met people online who either will not answer your very simple questions like if they say they're going somewhere and I ask where they will not answer or they will only talk about their boyfriend and not even prioritize you as a friend or ask how u r or insult you when you tell them you didn't appreciate what they said cause it hurt your feelings . . ? Like just no, stop being such a red flag in friendships T ^ T Like, I always do my best to let my friends know if I can not talk and do my best to answer their questions or thoughts. I don't think it is that hard : - (
@Tippytoessss10 ай бұрын
Tysm! I needed this really bad 😭💗
@tohhnee161910 ай бұрын
Thanks queen. will rewatch whenever I need to take off my clown wig and fix my crown HAHAHAHAHAH ily ily
@jordancarlin968710 ай бұрын
Yas queen
@hirahi10 ай бұрын
such a clear direct to the point video. thank you for the encouragement at the end when you said about not being on this planet long enough to navigate it, there should be no pressure learning and growing:)
@sarahmicro10 ай бұрын
Action matter more than words . This is how I know what his intentions are. Very simple
@rodriguesaplacino661210 ай бұрын
I beg to contradict. On all the dates I have been to, when I expressed that I liked her, she lost interest. When I kept my mouth shut and let her wonder, she came back and wanted more. What do you think I will do next? Tell her I like her? Not really.
@sirapopchutikuntanakit252610 ай бұрын
She always knows WHAT IS UP. THE TIMING.
@writeforacause10 ай бұрын
I was just watching the video u mentioned here when you uploaded this 😭😭😭 love u and ur vids sm
@sofiyasnoopyhearts10 ай бұрын
he didn’t like my instagram story & I got disappointed. THE TIMINGGG OF THIS VIDEO
@Confusedwasian10 ай бұрын
im sorry but girl 😭
@heo967910 ай бұрын
I broke up with my bf today, needed this
@keyamarmat667110 ай бұрын
Bruhh ...I cannot stop admiring u gurl... U r one of my biggest role models ❤🎉🎉🎉😊
@RammsteinLover29410 ай бұрын
As a guy, here's a tip that will get a guy to chase you nine times out of ten. YOU make the first move, YOU go sit at his table at the mall cafeteria, or at the club, or on lunch break at work. And then YOU show interest first. That's how the good guys are found, is if YOU chase them first, then they'll chase you to the ends of the earth unless they're genuinely uninterested. The good guys (such as myself) almost never make the first moves because they are never really looking for a relationship.
@RammsteinLover29410 ай бұрын
@rossafayza that's why I said 9 out of ten
@KatyaVasilivna10 ай бұрын
A man's job is to initiate and a woman's is to reciprocate. If you think a woman is of value and worth then you'll want to make her yours without her doing the hunting for you.
@CocoMin9510 ай бұрын
Father Alex, the toxic dating coach you ae referring to. 😂😂 i am a fan too
@ralpherl565710 ай бұрын
The best advice for girls is to just be direct. Ask a guy "Do you want a relationship with ME?" He may want a relationship, just not with you.
@Morningvibe82410 ай бұрын
« By forgiving him I thought I setting an example »🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@peekaboots0110 ай бұрын
I did too when I was young. You're supposed to treat people the way you'd want to be treated so I applied that.
@Morningvibe82410 ай бұрын
@@peekaboots01 it would work in utopia….it doesn’t work like that in real life…
@jibberism991010 ай бұрын
Bottomline, correct. One possible exception: don't expect any sugar before we've met up in person. I am not your personal supply of anything, but maybe we can strike a deal later on.
@Babyygirllllllllll10 ай бұрын
The TIMINGGGGGGG😮
@realnageeyang10 ай бұрын
The good ones won't run from you ❤
@itsakpearlmawn10 ай бұрын
I’m a man, and interested in a serious relationship. I make 750k a year, been sober for 5 years, own my house, and run my own business. I’m at the stage where unless a women shows high interest in ME, consistently reaching out to me, showing her interest, I lose interest FAST. This whole culture of not showing how you really feel has gotten out of control. If you like someone, you should make an effort.
@sciencehau510 ай бұрын
This only applies to people actively engaged in dating. Doesn't apply to say, the cute guy in the office you're crushing over
@sonicsymphony121210 ай бұрын
A much needed video for all of us!
@Taytayslove10 ай бұрын
Tysm simone you're the best advice giver lysm
@irishlivs10 ай бұрын
Simone calling me out about my boundaries… is what I needed
@da1zhaa10 ай бұрын
SIMONE YOU FUCKING SMART ASS QUEEN!!! The timing is wild!!!
@amandamarcellex10 ай бұрын
Amazing content❤ met a guy from london in the internet and we gonna meet in person in a few weeks , he seems like a nice guy, so far lol, hope london men are good like you said . Love from 🇧🇷
@Kn1shqa10 ай бұрын
Tysm for this, really needed it !!
@monimon-ee3zc10 ай бұрын
sis be giving life saving advices, always!!
@Gatozparty10 ай бұрын
When she said that if you feel stressed out around a guy that’s not even your man, leave him, because tell me why every time I talk to my guy friend he makes me anxious and says some things that make me re question why I even wanted to befriend him in the first place ngl 😭
@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km10 ай бұрын
Excellent reminders, thank you for sharing your advices and experiences! Happy belated birthday as well! :)
@r3naaa-q2i10 ай бұрын
i was wondering my self if he likes me, or am i being delusional. 😭😭 thank you queen
@KaushikBala33310 ай бұрын
It's always in the mind
@tapashyasaikia317610 ай бұрын
Bro the timing is perfect
@carnivorouswatermelon10 ай бұрын
I needed this yesterday man
@sayantanisengupta713210 ай бұрын
and girlie popped up in my feed when i was overthinking over a guy, who says oh I am very immersed in my job, i dont have my notifications on and bla bla bla. As if i dont have a job, as if i am not occupied. Dude we didn't even have a proper conversation in like one week, that too after pointing out that this habit of his is making me overthink. And its ruining my peace. TWICE. And today after listening this, i explained it for the third time and he tried calling me and i was like nope I am busy.
@Doeeyedcatfaced10 ай бұрын
really needed this video so bad
@ella_umbrella10 ай бұрын
Girlie out here saving me from myself 😂😭
@LimeGreenAdventures10 ай бұрын
This has that horoscope energy
@JamFlava110 ай бұрын
Most men are players and manipulators because I use to be an player….. They just want to go into your pants, that’s all….The real thing is when a guy really really likes you he won’t be desperate to get into your pants or even reject sx because he wants to know more about you before he goes to the intimacy part, he want to know more about your personality, your hobbies, asking a lot of question and much more that you’re the real deal who want to spend life with you. Because players want only sx, that’s the truth and they will expose themselves at certain point. Thanks for the video….
@solfh10 ай бұрын
As a woman, THANK YOU for validating our innate feelings of knowing that if a man truely wants you there won’t be room for doubts or disrespect. Is so hard to date nowadays. 32 yo single forever here. And is not I didn’t try. 🙄
@JamFlava110 ай бұрын
@@solfh Yes, I know how it feels to be single at age 32. I am 34 myself. Because most men go for the young ones, it is what it is. But I think you will find one, you just need to try more and put more effort I think, eventually you will meet the right one👍
@FerminineForce10 ай бұрын
I turned 21 on Wednesday…I’ll appreciate the birthday wishes ❤
@robert66110 ай бұрын
i just LOVE gilmore girls references in videos like these
@spooky_kitty9019 ай бұрын
this is the perfect timing tysm
@justsanythings10 ай бұрын
Thankyou.. really needed this ❤
@divaagrawal688710 ай бұрын
Queen always to the rescue🛐
@hellohellocake101010 ай бұрын
We literally just started texting again😭 THE TIMING.
@jasmine660410 ай бұрын
Thank youu so much,Simone! ♥
@irishlivs10 ай бұрын
It’s my birthday today and he greeted me but I felt so off about it and confused PLUS the guy I liked years ago will have his birthday tomorrow so I needed this because both of them led me on! They were confusing! And I’ve been wondering so much 😭 I know they don’t but I still needed this!