5 Crazy Sexual Behaviors of a Narcissist | Part 2

[@narcabusecoach]

Break the Trauma Bond in 5 Steps: www.emotionalabuserecovery.com/breaking-the-trauma-bond

[@Tiffany-g4w]

I wish this was offered free. I'm financially dependent on the narc that I am trauma bonded to and never have money anymore because of his gambling.

[@fallon7616]

@@Tiffany-g4w My situation as well. He has financialy abused me

[@erikakossany]

No he want me to see that he had sex with other women as my friends

[@sharronaltman9533]

@@Tiffany-g4w Call the name of Jesus! Ask him to set you free

[@erikakossany]

@@Me-mn4nw so sad 😞 I’m so sorry 😢 about your father ( i don’t understand why peoples commit suicidal )

[@tmmello1094]

Omg omg!!!! All Danish's words are sooooo true!! I could see so crystal, like water all these steps he described here! They really are demons.

[@jackiecolbert3915]

Omg you are spot on. No other Narcissist expert has ever mentioned the sexual behaviors like this. My ex husband had to have sex constantly. I felt just like his sex toy and I always told him that. He cheated on me with his ex girlfriend from high school and went with her after 21yrs married to me. Dropped me like I was an old toy he dumped in the trash. Thank you for sharing this video. 2yrs divorced and it's been rough.

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

one narc who always cheated told me that he HAD TO HAVE SEX TWICE A DAY OR ELSE and yet, still cheated. boy, were we stupid. but that's a narc for you.

[@userSTAR3330]

U SHOULD BE HAPPY. U SHOULD BE THRILLED......U SHOULD BE CELEBRATING.🎉🎆🎉🎆🎉🎊🎉🎉🎊🎊✝️😇😇😇😇😇

[@HayaBookstore-hx4lc]

Don't be sad anymore, happiness is awaiting for you. Big hug Sis ❤

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

seriously, you should be GRATEFUL he is long gone and that he exposed himself for what he is, a liar, a cheat and perverted in his attempts to get pleasure at your expense. BE HAPPY GOD EXPOSED HIS BEHAVIOR. after you have a good cry and get over feeling sorry for yourself, look at how you enabled his behavior, change yourself so you never attract trash to yourself again. I too had to wake up, we are the ones who have to change.......God made us in His image, respect that in your Self. Honor Self, value your Self. be good to you. I had to learn this as well. God bless you.

[@jacquelinemarie1078]

Bruce Lipton, Dr. Joe Despensa and Neville Goddard are three to listen to for life changing information. You deserve to be happy, listen to speakers such as these for faster and more complete healing. Bless you. And be happy in spite of him.

[@ilkkak3065]

A narcissist is like a defiant child. Always wanting the opposite of you.

[@jacquelinemarie1078]

Yes, my narcissist is like living with a disgruntled teenager.

[@beautyinthedark7406]

SA/R absolutely happens in marriage. Not hard to believe when one partner thinks they own you like property 🤷🏾‍♀️. Forget any kind of intimacy. With a narcissist you will see that any hole will work for them🙄.

[@userSTAR3330]

🛑NOBODY WANTS THEM🛑✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️😇😇😇😇😇🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🛑✝️🎆🎆🎆🎆🎇🎇🎇🎇🎆🙏🏾✝️

[@cyny6305]

When I was six my psycho narc mother let a grown man violate me while she watched. That broke me. I knew she'd never protect me.

[@dsmusicbird]

Oh my Gosh!! I am soooo sorry. It wasn’t you. It was never your fault. That’s horrible! That’s sick, twisted and evil what she and that so called human did to you! That has had to effected you in countless ways throughout your life. Go back and love that little girl, in your mind. Picture yourself taking her hand and leading her away from those monsters, to safety. She’s safe with you now. Let her know that you understand. Take her to your happiest place. ❤ You can parent you now. I’d love to hear your story. Those things are hard to share though it was your reality. Your experience. I am also a victim of childhood sex abuse, and other things. You are not alone.

[@pinapple60]

How utterly devastating for you at that tender age, I am so so sorry this happened to you.

[@Merbella]

Horrible 😢 I'm so sorry. She's suck and you deserved better. ❤

[@yuu_miran]

I hope your wounds can heal one day

[@maidinthamiddle]

My mother never protected me either. And i was so nieve and delusional, I have my children to her thinking they would have a better life. All they ever needed was me and I couldn't step up. I'm so sorry you went through these things. When I hear of the horrors others have survived, it really puts things into perspective What is my excuse? Be well, dear and God bless you.

[@geanieollman2320]

I lived this. Thank you for confirming my suspicions. Very glad to be out.

[@lou15176]

The more videos I watch on narcissism and toxic behaviours, the more I realise I am happy to be single. Everything is manipulation these days. Aged 48 1/2 at the time of writing this comment 😌

[@tito6559]

Well , i have never in relationship but saw some people with trauma and irritated behaviour.😢.

[@Arya-cf7vu]

Withholding- thank you for your kind validation Danish ❤

[@MakedaMix]

Thank you Danish. Spot on. I really stopped to think about this overnight after I watched. 10:02 this is what I experienced. My narc would go party every night and even said it was his “job”. He would sleep with anyone or anything even if it didn’t move. He’d seek any hole he could. He’d go to clubs and use tools. He even bought a teddy bear he later ripped a hole into…sick. I’ve said enough. But this was major triggering in a good way. I can purge it now. Thank you for your wonderful insights you are helping so many people! Much love much respect!

[@lolabear6788]

All very good insights. Especially that last one. It’s that dumb. They are perverse is all. There is no emotional connection to have a preference… it’s strictly physical gratification at all costs.

[@MSSHARIII]

💯💯💯

[@elkebanhart7045]

Neither they have a body nor a soul. What does that mean... Like a robot they chase ppl to get power and control over them. That's all.

[@Fortypoems40]

Letting Go I really didn’t want to this act of letting go, so, I dragged my feet and wallowed. The process moved so slow. But suddenly it was over, as my hands released the rope, and the boat it started drifting, on a sea of hopeless hope. And I turned my back and started, walking towards the East, and where the boat was heading, I cared not in the least. For its hull was never solid, and its deck was never clean, and there were rumblings in the galley, of things that went unseen. So, I will let the ocean take it, far away from me, and I’ll steady keep on walking, as each step now sets me free. Free from an illusion, free from one more try, and free from the imposter, that was nothing but a lie.

[@pheart2381]

Thats lovely. Sad,but lovely.

[@ForMeNotAgainstMe]

This is a breathtaking piece. 🙏 I feel so honored to have been able to see it. Thank you for sharing. You're strong and your words will help others one day. I'm sure they already have. ❤ 🎉❤

[@mrsecrist713]

This is sadly so true! You bring beauty to the ugly truth of the nars. This is art! Thank you for sharing your truth to help set us free!

[@SuccessfulUnicorn]

Are you the poet/poetess?

[@petalflowers4765]

He just described “The Master Narcissist “ P. Diddy . Danish, please do a commentary on this music mogul/ rapper who is currently making headlines around the world. I believe it would help many people understand what this pathological condition is and how to protect themselves from such people. Thank you for all you do for us.

[@elderlypoodle9181]

Thinking the same thought!

[@jackiecolbert3915]

Exactly what I was thinking.

[@susanlovesjava4961]

How do you expect him to discuss issues about someone he knows nothing about? That's foolish.

[@lisapannell3528]

When he would hit me he would make monkey sounds and faces and if I would dare to respond he would be smilling and act like he enjoyed breaking me

[@sharronaltman9533]

You have described my ex fiancé perfectly. I am so thankful to God, for delivering me out of the hands of that man before I married him. Your videos have helped me to stop thinking of him in a romantic way. I don’t have a longing for him any longer. He was a monster and still is. Thank you for these videos. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@lorettajoy7275]

Covert nex would make me stand in front of him and take a drink of the home -brewed tea he'd told me to make before taking a sip, acting as though "something" might be in it. This was so humiliating, especially in front of his friend. Strange thing is, I was the one with multiple severe symptoms of poizening all the years with him, until my escape! I think he also wanted/needed to feel as though he was rapping me in order to perform. Once he opened his large pocketknife and put tip against the top of my neck, telling me he wanted to rap me. :(( I dissociated because i was so scared, and i can't remember what next happened. I was so humiliated i only told one person he'd done this because i blamed myself and had been taught it wasn't possible for a h to rap a w. Now i know better and am finally FREE. ✴

[@jackiepowell7513]

No looking in your eyes, no facial facing each other; no intimacy. In reality.

[@fallon7616]

Yes I have seen that blank stare

[@anonymous01411]

No looking in the eyes is soooo real😭

[@shelleyCollins-o6y]

they don't have any facial looking at us because they are always doing someone else in their ignorant minds I won't have sex anymore with him I left doing no contact.

[@lynnedev1920]

Zero intimacy he wanted “porn quality” sex.

[@lynnedev1920]

Wow! This video just turned on a light on for me! My ex was a sex addict and I have low sex drive-probably less due to his treatment. He would push me so hard. It never dawned on me how much was enjoying the pressure. Once he was pushing right when I walked in the door from work where I had just tried unsuccessfully to save the life of a child. This was a regular torture for him.

[@donovangray4246]

Everyone said that my father was gay, even though he had been married before and after my mother. He married women who would support him financially (he was a con artist for sure) and had affairs with men but I believe he did that only because when he was with men, cheating and having affairs did not get him the same consequences as when he was with women. I always believed my father was a sexually manipulative person who did not care about the gender of who he was sleeping with as long as it gained him some sort of advantage, usually financial.

[@jcarey1010]

Thank you for all of the info and taking the time to talk about the more uncomfortable situations that occur with having a narco partner or spouse. Keep your head up everyone. Just remember its not you it is them....!

[@JesuisLord]

May God expose all the perverts 🙏

[@clogs4956]

That does happen. Divorce proceedings started.

[@shelleyCollins-o6y]

Lord jesus Christ will expose ALL sexual immorality sick people they will all have to stand before Lord Jesus Christ and be accountable they sure won't go to heaven unless they repent and stay away from it all.

[@jacquelinemarie1078]

That's all of washington DC and most of Hollywood.

[@sadiayasin1463]

I wanna leave this comment to tell you danish you get them inside out. I’m with one with 20 years and 13 of married to him. You spoke absolutely truth.

[@paulinejackob5089]

Danish is saying exactly what I'm going through

[@fallon7616]

Trauma Bondage

[@kimberlylamantia7794]

Well said! 🤭

[@Rachelanna1612]

They just like to sleep with everyone and have weird sexual manipulation tactics

[@Rachelanna1612]

​@@kimberlylamantia7794use your real name nastelka the ho pro

[@dsmusicbird]

Exactly what it is!

[@Rachelanna1612]

I would say sleeping with multiple sex partners that the russian wife has organised is one weird sexual behaviour!!!!!! Pervert woman!!! If 2 people in a relationship enjoy getting a little adventurous there is nothing wrong with it if both parties consent and are happy!!!!

[@hettykoster9447]

Thank you so much for your valuable addition to Part 1 🙏🏻 It touched my soul again 😔

[@risingphoenix1248]

So true!!! My x was “repulsed” by any advances I ever made, saying I was acting like a whore and being disgusting. But, if I was exhausted, ill, or had just had a baby, that was the only time when he showed interest in me “performing my wifely duties” and shamed or belittled me for being a sad excuse for a “partner” or forced his way on me, only to tell me I was pathetic for crying and then making a big deal about how “last night was so beautiful and magical “ while grabbing my butt or my breasts in front of the kids, violating me all over again. And when I told him I felt like I was just a sexual object and not really taken into account during the act, he used religion to dismiss my feelings because we had “acted in the most beautiful, sacred union” and how dare I diminish the sacred relationship of man and wife !

[@wendyg.2664]

😢 I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

[@terrydavis5223]

Thank you Danish!❤ You are Educating people as to the Perverted Manipulation and Ultimate Control and then Disposal of their Victim! Normal people don't think like the Narcissist does and try to understand what they did wrong! Thank you for your channel, Danish❤

[@lauraantic1384]

In their sick mind word no or stop gives them more power

[@mikeshawearing]

Right…. Or it hurts.

[@AlizasMa]

Omg Danish once again you hit the nail on the head ….

[@moniquepeerboom2196]

true story again..😞

[@fallon7616]

Pornography 💔💔

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

my roommate is a female and is totally all about that, very dirty and filthy on the outside as well, smells and it corrupt..............so porn fits right in........is not a real person who loves.........all about sex or control so women narcs are this way too.

[@arielleonaBudget]

He accused me of having S with his teenage kids, with people at the gym, people at work. It’s literally crazy

[@MaryOuellette-z2z]

Unfortunately, yes, I experienced this and this was one big clue to me that I was in a relationship with a narcissist. Thank you for sharing as the validation is helpful for healing 🙏

[@Ifyouonlyknew22673]

Control control control they are so sad and pathetic

[@lc9629]

And if you do agree with their desires they change the script or 'you're not doing it the way I want it'. So demeaning. You can never please them.

[@Tiffany-g4w]

My day to day experience is just like this, its disturbing how parallel to my life this is. My life is a living hell because it doesn't stop. He even put My personal photos and videos on adult websites of all kinds without my knowledge or consent. If I told him that I found out he's just going to get angry at me and punish me for being upset. I wish I could leave but I don't know how.

[@kimberlylamantia7794]

It's not easy to leave. I finally got out of my trauma freeze yesterday and made an appointment with a divorce attorney. I would recommend contacting a lawyer as your stuff was posted without your permission. Maybe the police as well. I hope my comment helps. Just know you aren't alone ❤

[@lolabear6788]

I would ask a lawyer about that. It’s probably illegal what he did.

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

watch these kinds of videos. try to wake up as to what is abuse and what isn't, if it doesn't feel good to you, don't keep thinking it's okay just because you have been used to it. you may have this in your background and don't remember it or being treated like you don't deserve anything good in life. get free counseling or adjusted paying scale therapy *search online maybe, or ask any of the people doing these videos where to go or to start. I would recommend learning to meditate on God as well, honestly. I know it sounds way off the subject but it isn't. I only did it because I was scraping bottom and had no where else to go but up, so I condescended to trying to learn and did it. amazing journey, not easy but once you include God, you start to know that you are never alone and this will help you to be guided rightly and to become stronger. God bless you, you can do it.

[@gabrielatomaz4162]

Just lieve. Go away, the more you Stay, the more you Will go seak.

[@weronikaasomsson2404]

👉❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons He is stepping in right now!🔥💪♥ He is coming to avenge! Innocent go first- all the children of the world will disappear first then the adult believers.🥰 Jesus is coming back to pick up all those who accepted His free gift of His death for their sins. Yes, after 2 000 years He is coming back with promised salvation!🙌♥🥳 As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, abuse amd manipulations. Before He comes we will see Alaska's back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3, we will also see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊 Jesus removes His believers and then Apocalypse starts, do not be left for that! 🥹❤You can still call out to Him when kids are gone! Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you, ♥ 😍 Trust in what He did on the cross for you! He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! !🙌❤🥹

[@roksannastephens4375]

Thank you Danish so much for part 2

[@judyyates2763]

It's weird! They tell you its not important, yet when you do not desire it, they want it! Control. These people are power-hungry. Whatever you desire, they'll make sure you do not receive it.

[@sonialola4329]

So unfortunately true for All of us surviving this. Thank you Danish for this insight.

[@maryzourides821]

And just falls fast asleep afterwards 😴

[@monongahelacats]

My ex started withholding sex when I lost my job. It turns out he was punishing me for not bringing home a paycheck. Eventually he withheld sex altogether when I got sick and went on disability for a couple of months. He only wanted me for my paycheck.

[@normawilson9400]

Girl that same shit happened too me.

[@purplerose3565]

Same happened to me. Anytime I disobeyed his orders or when I got laid off there was now sex.

[@sponkmcdonk3898]

The withholding is probably the worst one that women pull all the time

[@angelamatthews4565]

Thank you for this. This needs to be discussed. Good work

[@carlaplotner]

Yes to everything you've mentioned here!

[@all1747]

Omg this is so true - They are similar. I’m going through your videos one by one and each video is so true I’m shocked Omg - The person I know is an extended family member and is a female and Each of your videos describe this person very well 😮

[@SUDIPA81]

Each and every words are true.. Thanks Danish..

[@kashishdholpuria4200]

OMG! this is so true! I started relating to this video from the very first point!! Narcissistic people are really something.

[@suzettewalsh2854]

You are the best! No one discusses this part

[@josephinestory9091]

POWERFUL ! TRUTHFUL ! Thankyou Danish you are a huge help and supportive to the maximum ❤

[@Kim-t5w1i]

This was spot on it's an eye opener

[@murielbraniff9363]

Absolutely true 👍

[@CherrysJubileeJoyfully]

Oh in here for this 1✅️ Yep i was even trafficked as a child 2 ✅️ yep his ED was my fault i once got so sick of the tiny feelingless kisses i said "why cant you just kiss me like a man." Big mistake 3✅️ this is why i cheated. I wasnt proud of it but it was in part because I wanted to feel like I still at least had control of my own body 4✅️ yes even if i cried the whole time 5✅️ yes ....just yes....

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

I know #3 and it was the best thing I ever did.......I wasn't married but the person was so sweet and loving and it helped me a lot...........I too was afraid to stand up. but one of the best things I ever did, I really truly wish I had stayed with that person, I just didn't think I was worthy to have anyone good. Now it's different but I know how that was then. God bless you, you ARE worthy, YOU ARE WORTH HAVING THE BEST IN LIFE, GOD LOVES US AND HE ACCEPTS YOU AS YOU ARE AND WANTS YOU TO BE HAPPY. stay strong. sorry about your childhood experience, you did NOT deserve that at all. God be with you.

[@CherrysJubileeJoyfully]

@JustMe-uu3bh It's mothers like mine that should not exist. But it was more than her. It was also my family who knew she was sick but didn't want to know how sick it was. The people who could tell I was being abused but didn't want to rock the boat or were too afraid of her wrath. I still love my family, but it's hard. It's hard knowing they knew she was sick and they were so afraid that they would see something awful, but they didn't look, and that's why it lasted 10 years. Until I made it stop when I was 12, and I no longer cared if I got killed. Unfortunately, she shamed me and ridiculed me and abused me so horribly. When I tried to tell her something was wrong that I never told anyone again for so long. And she had to stop using those drugs because of an overdose. 5 years before I made the abuse stop. She just let it keep happening.

[@meeramoodley754]

They set traps all over the house especially in your walking space so I must trip n fall n be dependent on them or have an insurance payout for my injury.like extension cords or hose pipes or screws lying on the floor or even water on the floor intentionally

[@juless7807]

Thank you for your neverending insight, Danish

[@kimberlylamantia7794]

Last time my husband forced me into bed with him, I was streaming tears the whole time. I made my mind leave my body otherwise I would have unalived myself. Additionally, he calls my mom and tells her everything I've ever done and now she's on his side, even though he beats me. I'm an only child and my dad's deceased. I have one friend in this world and he's sick of all the drama surrounding me. I'm in such fear of losing him I can barely breathe 😢

[@MatrixofLife]

Run dear, as fast as u can. Watch videos about Saltanat for inspiration to run from tyran

[@kimberlylamantia7794]

@@MatrixofLife Thank you for your advice ❤️

[@MatrixofLife]

@@kimberlylamantia7794 please take care of urself dear and get rid of narcissist. It’s adrenaline type of love. Treat it as addiction, u can get out safely

[@lademoiselleketoret6958]

@@kimberlylamantia7794 you are going to have to flee and never look back. There are support groups online to help encourage you. Go slow, but when it’s time to run… babygirl… run!! 😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@weronikaasomsson2404]

👉❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons He is stepping in right now!🔥💪♥ He is coming to avenge! Innocent go first- all the children of the world will disappear first then the adult believers.🥰 Jesus is coming back to pick up all those who accepted His free gift of His death for their sins. Yes, after 2 000 years He is coming back with promised salvation!🙌♥🥳 As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, abuse amd manipulations. Before He comes we will see Alaska's back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3, we will also see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊 Jesus removes His believers and then Apocalypse starts, do not be left for that! 🥹❤You can still call out to Him when kids are gone! Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you, ♥ 😍 Trust in what He did on the cross for you! He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! !🙌❤🥹

[@cletiawilliams1436]

Great video! ❤❤❤ 💯 absolutely .

[@mjkay8660]

I wondered why my clothes were getting stretched out.. and I knew something was in the coffee

[@lorettajoy7275]

That's scary to realize....but better to know.

[@mjkay8660]

@@lorettajoy7275 my antennas went up sky high after that.

[@vikkara2043]

Mine didn’t understand how I can forgive him so quick and want to be intimate after arguments! I loved him, I didn’t want to go to her angry. I would be forgiving and wanted intimacy to connect! He started withholding it from me as a punishment! 😢

[@lisapannell3528]

Was physically abused for things that happened in my life prior to my relationship with him!

[@anonymous01411]

Watching this made me soo upset again💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 cos except first thing i experienced all of it

[@sonjabrady1032]

Yes they do

[@SumaiyaFahmida-h9z]

In my case it became opposite,my narsistic husband became too much physical with me that I get mentally and physically disturbed and sometimes he doesn't even let me touch him,I touch him anyway...

[@sharnelgezwint3990]

I was asked at one stage in my marriage"If I cheat on you would you take me back"? 😮

[@bk966]

U r right..my narcissist husband have been doing to me for the last 10 years...n I was blamed n so on...at one point of time I was thinking n blaming it was my fault but now after watching your videos m clear that it was not my fault..he is really disgusting no emotions at all..thank u Danish..

[@rosiereid2414]

Yup

[@bethbanfill6049]

I WAS GETTING DRUGGED AND RAPPED ALSO WEIRD AROUND MY GRANDSONS

[@xefirah8753]

Yep

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

I will share what I do know about.......these examples are from friends and relative's experiences so I can elaborate on this subject, and it pertains to this video......the men all wanted *other men* involved or wanted to hear about it. *(gee, wonder why closeted?) I think it was (is) to mask their real desire which is to be with another male. or stories about other men and describing everything in detail OR listening to their accounts and describing their GROUP encounters with LOTS OF MEN and ONE WOMAN (this happened a lot). 1. jumping up to shower immediately afterwards to get "clean" from any time together. *like YOU are the dirty one and NEVER ever cuddling. it is sex, period. end of story. *I have heard of talking about about kids too. and their not thinking that it is weird at all to fantasize about young kids and sex and describing "parties" where this went on, so it happens. (men seeking out single mothers with young kids......for instance). 2. cussing or saying curse words to describe everything or that's the whole conversation, never appreciating nor loving but a constant stream of verbally cussing. 3. criticizing performance; "What is wrong with you!!???? you don't respond at all like all my other wives and girlfriends do and they ALL LOVED this and responded in THIS way so there is something WRONG with you - OBVIOUSLY." *(but it is rather that they are not all that good in bed and will not and do not make any efforts to please YOU. besides, it is not about YOU, but THEIR needs that are important, so get over it). 4. it has to be THEIR idea, not yours about initiating unless it serves them. they are in control, not you. 5. my sister in law told me it was constantly like rape to be with my "golden boy brother". I know of another relationship with another narc who had sex this way. this particular man also confessed that he raped while he was in the military. *very messed up emotionally disturbed people and would put the women in a choke hold and be from behind (maybe also to not see her face). 6. the constant belittling and criticism, "you just need to lose maybe 5 more pounds......." or laughing at your shape or pointing out body parts and making comments. *I do think they hate women because they actually have a fear women, starting with "mommy dearest". 7. has to have the porn; raised by my psycho narc mother, my "golden boy" brother's wife told me that he would not (or could not?) have sex unless they watched porn - this is when they were trying to have kids. 8. she told me it always felt like rape. and it always becomes more jaded...........the one who liked to talk about kids and the "parties" where kids were involved, later would travel to "certain countries" where the "lady boys" were so feminine and young looking with their equipment intact, so I do believe they are closeted or messed up emotionally inside. sexual intimacy is about being willing to be vulnerable with another person and there is no way a narcissist can do this. so they have to create distance and make the other person an "object"........for their pleasure. just my 2 cents. better to fix yourself so you that you will never allow another narc into your life. thanks Danish.

[@xefirah8753]

PERFECT DESCRIPTION

[@Merbella]

#1 💯 bc it's disgusting to them. Porn is preferred.

[@EllenBrighton]

So very true. Sadly

[@Dr.Gayatri-jp8qk]

you just echoed my inner views and voices exactly ......❤❤thnx a lot

[@Nasboosa]

Man you are just phenomenal. you know everything. Just please tell us how to deal with these behaviors

[@fatimaahmed445]

Thank you Danish No words to say Allah bless you.

[@nyxiebaybe8141]

ure so smart and full of detail thanks a bunch❤🎉

[@sunflower5737]

I don't know if it relates to the first behavior explained but my diagnosed narcissistic ex wanted to record a video of us doing it and I don't know if he wanted to share it with other people behind my back, but thankfully I broke up with him before it could get there.

[@sunflower5737]

And unfortunately in the first video everything resonated like a well fitted shoe, I thought in my past relationship that it could get better but it just kept going south. Deep inside I knew I had to let go because this isn't my first experience dealing with narcissists, most of my family members are narcissists and sadly I found out rather late that he was diagnosed as a narcissist.

[@amandaserle3343]

Was like kissing a mechanical robot. Definitely not normal no emotional connection zero.

[@merciart3090]

Prolly discuss it w/their children too..rampant emotiinal incest w/ narcs

[@anbumangai5055]

They also say it is you felt more pleasure than me. And they want the assurances by words and not by feeling which is the worse thing

[@michelleaththas659]

You are so right 100%

[@noor-ul-ain386]

Hell true, the first point is mine 😢

[@Spicyleo1]

This was so interesting

[@ashokkumarsharma6065]

Danish u r 95% ✅✅ narcissist falsely blame her partner that he has physical relationships with other…just hide her faltering with others

[@sunnycatc6491]

All true! Thank you for the validation Danish😊

[@ICU442]

I've never😂 begged for it or chased it and NEVER WILL!

[@klarafly7197]

20 years with a covert narcissist: fireworks and fanfare for the first three years, I didn't even notice that there was no real intimacy... although it bothered me that there was no foreplay, which I eventually took care of, which of course impressed him, kissing was really forced. Then less and less, I was surprised that I didn't want it anymore. He has completely ignored me sexually for the last 6 years, thank god. In the last days before he moved out, I found out that he was addicted to pornography, I found disgusting websites on the house PC, e.g. "the most disgusting old women" and gay sites, I didn't want to see any more of it. He couldn't even satisfy all of us ballerinas in his harem, I talked about it with others at the beginning of the breakdown of the system, when I didn't even understand what it was about.

[@lademoiselleketoret6958]

Just crazy. 😭😰😰😰💀

[@sonjabrady1032]

Dont give up or in

[@Strongerthanyouthink78]

This happened with me with my ex

[@Hasnainlegacy]

They absolutely lack empathy

[@shayadayan3343]

Not just not my preference, but what I found painful, degrading, and disgusting

[@yuu_miran]

I once overheard how my late father discussed with his lover over the phone how I, in his opinion, needed a lover with certain bodily attributes in a very vulgar expressions. I got so disgusted. I guess he was irritated that i didnt have a sexual life and was a virgin, or who knows what he thought. I dont really care now.

[@A.J.Canfield-ym2fe]

I have unfortunately had "sex" with more than one relationship that ended up being with a narcissist. I put the sex in quotes because, contrary to popular opinion, it is LOUSY!! One was forced and the other was oddly rigid...as if she were "tolerating" my being with her at all! I think that there might be a reason why people think narcs are such great lovers. It has to do with the personality types...When narcs get together...INTENSE SEX IGNITES!! For instance, when an overt narcissist encounters a covert type, the sex often VIOLENTLY EXPLODES, is mutual, and can result in serious injuries. My "wife" showed progressively worse injuries as the years of her affair(s) progressed. In fact, I believe she had been killed by a sudden stroke while having sex with her lover! But, I agree that they almost "force" themselves on you to begin and how you "respond" determines if they ramp it up or not...Almost like being raped. Either way...when they WANT YOU...THAT IS IT! You don't exist anyway...as we know...ALL THAT MATTERS IS WHAT THEY WANT! My wife would get an intense, rage-like stare when she would lunge at me. It's almost theatrical rather than being truly arousing...I personally do not care for being "attacked." It feels very uncomfortable. It was not at all stimulating in the way I'd prefer. As someone said, it feels as if if they're just "getting off" with you and don't care at all for how you feel. Such is the fate of the co-dependent...

[@BadEngrish]

So true w/ that hole, has nothing to do w/ looks as long as it itches it's good to go w/ them narcs.

[@streaming5332]

So why do people have relationships with these abnormal creeps.

[@dsmusicbird]

Because they didn’t know what and who they were in the beginning, in most cases.

[@jaijai8829]

Because they are charming în The beginning!

[@weronikaasomsson2404]

👉❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons He is stepping in right now!🔥💪♥ He is coming to avenge! Innocent go first- all the children of the world will disappear first then the adult believers.🥰 Jesus is coming back to pick up all those who accepted His free gift of His death for their sins. Yes, after 2 000 years He is coming back with promised salvation!🙌♥🥳 As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, abuse amd manipulations. Before He comes we will see Alaska's back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3, we will also see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊 Jesus removes His believers and then Apocalypse starts, do not be left for that! 🥹❤You can still call out to Him when kids are gone! Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you, ♥ 😍 Trust in what He did on the cross for you! He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! !🙌❤🥹

[@clogs4956]

Innocence.

[@sonjabrady1032]

Oh they fabulous at this i read

[@duck9886]

Can you talk about a narcissist on coke? Or just drugs at all. I feel like they’re the actual devil !

[@parulpatel4903]

What is treatment ? Do this t people get better? Or stay whole life as is ?

[@katentropy]

Is narc sexual behavior a result of anger about their own sexual abuse? Does narcissism run in families, i.e., parental neglect creating grown up children who feel they do not deserve respect and therefore, disrespect and compete with their own children?

[@terriarnold4364]

Very "horrible behavior towards another!" Bunch of control freaks!"🙀

[@sonjabrady1032]

I lock up the door

[@JohannaBell-d7r]

my Ex took a photo of me as i was pregnant and showed this picture to his collegues. This picture was titled: the secondary pump...

[@JAYNEmM1962]

I grew to hate sex because of all these. Married 47 yrs to a charmer narc. So covert no one understands.

[@anewbeinging6115]

Can someone please tell me what the R stands for

[@amberstephens6167]

Nail it.