I'm a white guy working for a hispanic boss and while we have our communication problems, he is the best boss Ive ever had. Ive learned a lot about not only work ethic but also how to separate work and home life and how important that is. Home time is family time. That has transformed my life for the better and my marriage is stronger and more passionate than ever. His wife bring us all sorts of amazing foods every Saturday for lunch. It's crazy how many different ways they approach foods from different regions of Mexico. Truly amazing persons.
@randomcamus94454 ай бұрын
I really had better gringo bosses than Hispanic ones because Hispanics as bosses are sometimes very bad.
@ferrisxlove Жыл бұрын
You’re not joking about the party for any reason. My Mexican neighbors built a driveway and when they finished it they threw a party for that reason. 😂
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Yeah, some of them celebrate kinda everything 🤣
@LauraSegura-yv9wt Жыл бұрын
As Hispanics, we are very affectionate. Its how we are raised and continue to pass it down to our kids. Everybody hugs everybody ! lol
@juanayala2640 Жыл бұрын
Yess!!!! As a Mexican I love to hug my family. We are affectionate people.
@lindarichmond1197 Жыл бұрын
I love the Hispanic/Latino way of relating! I lived in Mexico for five years. Grew to enjoy the warmth in human connections. Saw this in Argentina, a very different country, too. Now that I'm home again I'm struck by how distant we are from one another, physically and emotionally. It's sad, really ..
@alphapithecus39073 жыл бұрын
I’ve never really thought about it but yeah we do hug a lot.
@azothamenti3378 Жыл бұрын
Lol😆😆😆….yep.
@quwaran.7264 Жыл бұрын
LOL🤣
@Canev821 Жыл бұрын
My bf shocked me with that I never hug in my family
@sandraguzman6983 жыл бұрын
You will get used to the hugs 🤗 and the love ❤️
@Hootyhoo-jq9vq Жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful couple. I like the video. Mexicans are very wonderful people. I am glad we have so many latinos in American.
@BeADad2447 Жыл бұрын
Mexicans are not Latinos, Mexicans say they are Mexican. Only an ignorant person claim to be latin. Or Latinos.
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@yolitriviz1028 Жыл бұрын
Yes, us Mexican people are very affectionate and love to hug. As for them preferring women to stay in the home, it has a lot to do with us being very traditional, that's how most of us are raised. Yes, we love to party, mainly because we love to be in good company whether it's our family, or friends. We like to enjoy life.
@temosgarage Жыл бұрын
Im Mexican, born and raised in Mexico and now married to... my wife is White. Not all Mexicans are affectionate. I know I dont give hugs as much as I should. My wife will hug me more than I will hug her. I personally believe this is because of the way I was raised back in the day. Love/affection wasnt shown to me very much as a child. My dad spent years in the US working to provide for us. Mom always worked. I think this has resulted on me not being affectionate. I do love my wife. I can't see myself married to a Mexican woman lol love my Guerita
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Yes and we do believe live languages also still play a role. The hugging we were talking about was honestly more about friends and acquaintances as forms of greeting. Thanks for watching !
@3NERGY33 Жыл бұрын
Güerita...Güey!
@gabriellemartinez4960 Жыл бұрын
From my experience so I've been told plenty of times that most men desire a Latina woman. So your actually the 1st person I heard say that you can't see yourself married to a Mexican woman?
@temosgarage Жыл бұрын
@@3NERGY33 si güey!
@temosgarage Жыл бұрын
@@gabriellemartinez4960 yep! don’t get me wrong, there are some gorgeous Mexican woman out there… but they’re not for me. I love me a white American woman instead. She’s also part German
@aprilsmendoza5.20182 жыл бұрын
i'm anglo and Yankee- From NE USA and my husband is Mexican-Arab and let me tell you, I am still struggling and Yes,... I have schooling Spanish and I get along better with Colombian and Equadorians speaking Spanish than my Mexican husband LOL.
@pjandellis2 жыл бұрын
Wow very interesting! Just keep going
@bloom9254 Жыл бұрын
Girlfriend you forgot the spicey and salty snacks on yo list!😅But yeah...there is too many big parties lol
@cirosilva4146 Жыл бұрын
My birthday is next month! I’d love it if you came to the carne asada 💐
@OscarEDodier Жыл бұрын
Also there is the funny thing that happens where a lot of issuez or interpersonal items are not discussed regularly, but instead all come out in large emotional outpouring and then periods of silence and denial. I am used to steady stream of discussion and emotional displays of affection with occassional drama.😂
@BeADad2447 Жыл бұрын
Dont forget real Mexican men are hard workers, they can work all day! They can work harder than you can! I hope you can handle that.
@rebeccahernandez7411 Жыл бұрын
O can definitely relate to what you said about the Spanish. Thd Spanish learned in classes, online studies etc. Is completely different. I need a class that teaches the REAL SPANISH
@eunicemclaughlin3884 Жыл бұрын
I do recommend to read the book “Foreign to familiar” and also is an Spanish version “ ¿Por qué somos diferentes?”
@eunicemclaughlin3884 Жыл бұрын
I’m Mexican and my husband is from USA. The author of this book is Sarah A. Lanier
@OscarEDodier Жыл бұрын
I have had culture shock being married to multi european mixed American. They have such a funny impersonal way of interacting with lots of people even their own families. And that is just the beginning.😆
@marcelogarciajr7672 Жыл бұрын
The lady should not be so surprised since Italians immigrated to Michoacan, Mexico from Italy in the early 1900s and founded the city of Nuevo Italia.
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
That is a cool fact. Thank you for sharing !
@azothamenti3378 Жыл бұрын
We have big hearts If we love you …your family
@rejanedesevigne Жыл бұрын
Oh how cool! My late husband used to say he wondered how me and my family didn't get chapped lips bc we kissed each other all the time, lol. 😊We hug and kiss and really show our love and appreciation for each other. It's just who we are.
@liberalinoklahoma1888 Жыл бұрын
Definitely, we Mexicans are very touchy , feeling when company is coming or going , we need to know if they are packing or stealing !!!😅
@benitocamelo4143 Жыл бұрын
I never noticed the affection as a thing until I hit puberty and I received kissed from my aunts and I was a rocker trying to be against everything lol.
@rafaeltorres2886 Жыл бұрын
Visiting the inlaws in Mexico can be a 8 day party everyone that related shows up to celebrate our visit I have to mention I'm usually having to pay for the food and drink😅
@randomcamus94454 ай бұрын
That's not good, that's abusing, many Mexicans like Asher parties on the backs of others.
@virginiasantillan6371 Жыл бұрын
I.learned Spanish from books and the dialect from my husband and I can speak to all Hispanic without much trouble with understanding me
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Wow! great job 👍🏼
@virginiasantillan6371 Жыл бұрын
I have 27 years with my ⛬ husband who is Old School in not Chicano I'm USA born and breed white items 🐝 a interesting journey
@allenhill1223 Жыл бұрын
My nephew learned spainish in school and college. My friend from Mexico said my nephew speaks. Proper spainish. I ask what he means? He said mexican speak hillbilly spainish. Joe speak Spanish spainish. Like different American english to England English.
@3NERGY33 Жыл бұрын
Hillbilly spanish? It's the most proper spanish there is. Pronunciation sounds exactly like how every Spanish dictionary writes it! Ask anyone
@IGNACY-fp8zo Жыл бұрын
There's a lot of slang, more than the others, but at least they don't lisp their c's
@westcoastmex629 Жыл бұрын
1. Not true their is a lot of mexican who are low key.2 the Spanish is based on region unfortunately we use a lot if slang3 .yes majority of women are more traditional But that depends on the situation.5. Food is not always hoist on you but a drink is. 6. A hug is an easy hug not a bear hug not in my mexican home their is only hand shake.you have to understand that a lot of behaviors very depending on the region just like the food and even some of the customs
@stewartkraintz47523 жыл бұрын
So sweet ❤️❤️❤️
@ReadDaBible Жыл бұрын
LMAO the thumbnail
@willywheats6016 Жыл бұрын
Mexican man usually date outside the culture Its because many of us are very cloy-ly, like we cloy aaaaalooot, and many mexican women like "real men" ive dated only 3 mexican women, never lasted as i dont drink, smoke or party, i just work on weekdays and spend time going out to malls or other places. And yes im mexican xd
@wm3277 Жыл бұрын
Something is always on the stove
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Interesting !
@joyking2231 Жыл бұрын
I an a lady in the US, who has a crush on a Mexican man who is 10 years younger than I. For near a year he has been a Gyrokinesis trainer. After a few months of his class, a crush developed. He is 50's and has said positive statements OR HE PICKS ON ME. Which makes me laugh, I really like that he makes me laugh. NOW, I wonder how to gracefully give him my telephone number with a message that we may have much in common. Requesting any thoughts that Bunny may offer.
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Well, if you ask him about interesting Mexican food he might invite you to try something new, and the relationship will grow step by step As Mexicans we love to share our culture.
@BeADad2447 Жыл бұрын
Well of course you do Joy! I never understood why a women would not go after a man you like. It's crazy not to! Just tell him you enjoy being around him, give him your number and ask him to hang out with you? Go do something he likes to do. If you are toxic, hateful, angry, please leave him alone. Please don't hurt a man.
@joyking2231 Жыл бұрын
@@BeADad2447 I have done lots of work on myself to be a positive non complaining lady, learned what I did wrong in previous relationships. I am building my courage to give him my phone number if he would like to '' hang out '' sometimes. Thank Q for you encouragement, I appreciate you,
@enn4983 Жыл бұрын
The Mexican should also tell us his culture shocks ;
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
That video exists! Check out our video with the American flag in the background 🙂
@vegasdano7569 Жыл бұрын
Ok yea 👌
@sarahs72532 жыл бұрын
im married to a mexican man...i hardly get hugs and affection..maybe he just doesnt love me :/
@AlinaRusakova72 жыл бұрын
Maybe he was raised in USA?
@huntingfashiondolls33072 жыл бұрын
All men are different. Some men didnt have a lot of girlfriends in their youth so they seem to value more their current gfs, this guy seems the kind of guy that doesnt get a lot of dates so i guess he cherishes his wife more
@AlinaRusakova72 жыл бұрын
@@huntingfashiondolls3307 I agree on this.
@johntrojan9653 Жыл бұрын
Sarah S -- Two words : CHEVY SILVERADO ! 💪 * (😃)
@BeADad2447 Жыл бұрын
Some men carry years of pain inflicted by women and we don't talk about it. Do you know how to treat a man? I don't know the situation. If you always treat him with respect, kindness a man would want to be close to you and will feel love for you. 1. Husbands love your wives 2. Wives submit to your husbands We do terrible damage to each other when we fail to follow these 2 commandments from God. Nobody knows these rules and every divorce and broken home is the result of violating these 2 rules.
@johntrojan9653 Жыл бұрын
Chester ? Who's Chester ??
@10793Andy Жыл бұрын
Number 5 & 2 😂👍
@wm3277 Жыл бұрын
Spain
@oleogabalo Жыл бұрын
Some Hispanics are also White. We are ethnically diverse.
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Totally true
@akherali9953 Жыл бұрын
Hi
@davidneyra4418 Жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does she seem uncomfortable with him? Lol
@pjandellis Жыл бұрын
Not at all! We are best friends as well as husband and wife
@huntingfashiondolls33072 жыл бұрын
I think some americans are still fixed into thinking they must get marrid 🤪
@El28z Жыл бұрын
Which is a good I think, I respect them for being so traditional, over in the States if you're romantic you're labeled a simp & in Mexico you're a Gentleman
@akherali9953 Жыл бұрын
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@ismaelquiles2274 Жыл бұрын
All Latin people are very loving and family oriented blood is thicker than water