5 EDC Items a Gentleman Always Carries (But You Don't)

[@Gent.Z]

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[@kennethbates8349]

You share all the items an average person carries and you shared the other items a gentleman carries but where do you carry all of these items without having bulky pockets? Bulky pockets aren't very attractive. Please make a video showing how a gentleman carries these items and please include sunglasses.

[@Gent.Z]

@@kennethbates8349 you just wear a blazer

[@Enschede19]

@@kennethbates8349 That is why I like to were a blazer wherever I go.

[@the.hamel.mammal7802]

The fact that dueling pistols didn't make it into this list...

[@alwaysbeclosing5797]

Yeah…Doc Holiday’s rolling in his grave right now 😝

[@johnmcintosh8673]

I have my duelling pistols carried by my second.

[@corporatemcmahon2815]

😂 Gold!

[@sidbemus4625]

Glock 26 or 19, at least 1 spare magazine.

[@EmilehUnk]

Not to mention a pocketknife.

[@mph7282]

I had a friend who had his name and phone number embroidered on a bunch of handkerchiefs. He'd give them out to the ladies when they needed one, either crying or spilled her drink, or whatever. Brilliant.

[@Gent.Z]

That’s quite the touch 😅

[@peaceonearth8693]

Phone number on a handkerchief? Is that not tacky?

[@temujin1970]

Awesome 😂❤

[@theruggedscholar1544]

​@@peaceonearth8693 My uncle use to carry three handkerchiefs. One cheap handkerchief for himself. The second handkerchief was for a friend, family member, et cetera. The third handkerchief had my uncle's initials and very small amounts of lavender and eucalyptus oil, which he offered to an attractive lady. One of those ladies who received one of his handkerchief, became my aunt. After marriage, my uncle always carried three handkerchiefs; yet, he only offered the handkerchief with his initials, eucalyptus oil, and lavender oil to his wife.

[@mph7282]

@@peaceonearth8693 I guess it depends on who you ask. It’s a bit rakish, at a minimum. And he didn’t give them out at funerals or anything, but things like weddings, movies, bars…it was effective, I have to say.

[@aqua2752]

A multi tool is a great EDC carry for a gentleman! For example, a swiss army knife from Victorinox or the Leatherman multi tool would raise the appeal of a gentleman to a whole new level of class. You never know when you might need one!

[@sitbone3]

Gentleman...not construction worker.

[@tonyryan3630]

A small SAK would be good and a toothpick can be useful when out and eating, to remove stuff from your teeth. A multi tool is definitely NOT what a gent should carry. He could employ someone who does have one though!

[@KSingh-fg7dn]

Are you going on a fishing expedition or needing to rewire something?

[@skepticaloptimist1917]

The Leatherman is too heavy to carry in your pocket and will wear a hole in your pants. That's why they come with a carrying case. And swiss army knife is a bit bulky. A small Old Timer is good enough for most tasks and will not harm clothing. Leave the Leatherman in the car with your self defence equipment and other tools...

[@peterolbrisch8970]

​@@sitbone3Exactly.

[@briannicholas2757]

The Pen is a must along with a small notepad. While i am retired now, i still carry both, and i end up using them almost every day. I also recommend chosing a pen with a cap, it helps with getting it back should someone borrow it. An old friend taught me that. I like Waterman roller balls. If someone asks to use your pen, take it out, un-cap it, and hand it over. Keeping the cap reminds you to ask for the pen back, and should they swipe your nice pen, the liquid ink will bleed out into their shirt or jacket. Also always carry a small pocket knife. It is invaluable.

[@martingreenberg870]

The knife so when the woman steals your pen you can track her down like the thief she is. Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret)

[@youraveragepasser-by7367]

The pen trick is useful, am definitely going to do that

[@monstermegahoschi]

There is nothing as ungentlemanly as a ball pen. The ball pen is the sandal of the writing utensils.

[@stevemoore5053]

Good idea about the pen with a cap. I've been carrying a small pocket knife for years now, and I call it a " gentleman's knife." But I'm not too far from a bigger knife if I might need one for a bigger project.

[@iamsoshibby]

Every Gentleman Should Carry a Pocket Knife

[@Wannabearborist]

I carry a pocket knife (sometimes 2) And a box cutter (because I work in construction so I have that stuff on me daily lol)

[@RustyZipper]

@@Wannabearborist- I like the slim WorkPro folding utility knives. Very thin, and easy to swap blades and can be used in an emergency ….

[@Wannabearborist]

@@RustyZipper I don’t have a slim knife, my edc is a pretty bulky knife but it conceals perfectly when I wear it on the inside of my belt, I can wear just a thin t-shirt and you would notice it’s there, I do have a somewhat slimmer knife but about 50% of the blade is serrated and I don’t find that very useful for edc, if I’m out in the forest doing photography it’s very useful to cut through branches instead of breaking them to make a blind, breaking makes more noise and than it would be useless to hide on a spot where you just chased away all animals lol 😂

[@anthonyhowells4560]

I thought you arrested with a knife?

[@corporatemcmahon2815]

Why?

[@GVan1953]

I have always carried two freshly pressed handkerchiefs in my pockets. One for use and one for emergencies. When I walk in, they get tossed into the clothes hamper immediately, both of them. When wearing a suit jacket I use also a monogramed pocket square. First and last initials only. J.S., for John Smith I still carry and use my Cross pen & pencil set which I got back in college. Who doesn't carry that ubiquitous dollar sign money clip? I have always carried my Zippo ever since High School. It's been engraved from my military service. I also still carry my old Boy Scout Pocketknife. My grandchildren wouldn't recognize me without it. And, yes, I do use it for hundreds of tasks daily. Besides a pocketknife from the 1950s is a great conversation starter. Ever since I was a child, I was told, "A gentlemen always wears an undershirt." I'd get smacked in the. back of the head if I didn't wear one. It also provides an additional layer of clothing on chilly nights so that I can afford to be gallant using my jacket to cover a lady's shoulders. I still carry my forever ago bill fold with my "papers" inside.

[@jamestrent-nw9zb]

I always carry 2 freshly pressed hamsters in case a lady needs them as handwarmers.

[@skepticaloptimist1917]

I totally agree about the undershirt. It makes the outer shirt look better and prevents sweat stains from showing.

[@Philobiblion]

WhenI was still working I used to carry a Victorinox Swiss Army knife in my pocket. The last version didn't have scissors, but did have a corkscrew, which was handy when traveling if I wanted to have a bottle of wine after the business of the day was concluded. Now I have a small (58 mm) silver Victorinox Alox on my keychain that is very useful: two blades, a nail file (very handy) a screwdriver, a can/ bottle opener, small scissors, and more. No tweezers, toothpick or corkscrew, but still a very handy multitool that I use all the time.

[@broederbond60]

Excellent presentation. My EDC for decades has been a Walther PPK., folding knife, Dunhill Gemline and a pack of Camel Wides, Waterman pen. Keys, Money clip credit card 3K USD. I plan to carry a handkerchief again once my banker's dozen arrives.

[@overman2306]

Confirmed American.

[@RustyZipper]

🇺🇸 I like the $3k in cash, that’s always handy.

[@broederbond60]

@@RustyZipper It can definitely keep life off your head.

[@corporatemcmahon2815]

Just bought a Waterman pen right now. I only trust Waterman since 2008! Kudos for that!

[@danelisslow3269]

What the heck is the cash for? Are you a drug dealer or something?

[@suzimajor9532]

What a smooth, sophisticated gentleman you are! I’m glad that you’re passing on your knowledge to other men!

[@daphoneguy934]

I have a pen that attaches to my keychain. I am amazed at how many times it has come in handy and made me look prepared.

[@carvinylizbeth5110]

I don’t know how anyone gets through the day without a small multifunction swiss knife or leatherman as appropriate, letter opening, cutting food trimming a thread filing a nail tightning a screw ……And also some kind of light

[@alineharam]

I agree. I thought a small pocket knife was also important, just in case.

[@johnclaybaugh9536]

I carry a multitool but rarely need it. There was a time when most men carried some kind of knife. That isn't the case as much anymore. As far as a lighter, not everyone smokes.

[@rattleyourdags]

Or removing a stone from a horse's hoof

[@sitbone3]

This is not advice for escape and evasion. It's for a gentleman to carry when dressed for dinner. Some of you must be real hicks.

[@elminero49]

A pocket knife including a leatherman in a pocket is considered a canceled weapon. This can get you arrested in many US states and Mexico.

[@richardzak2140]

I carry a small Swiss army knife that has a nail file and nail clipper. This keeps the snag at bay.

[@JAS-16341]

Two things that i carry everyday are a pocket comb and mouth spray. Ever since i saw Don Draper comb his hair with one i realized how handy they are. Whether it’s readjusting your hair before a date or a presentation at work, a pocket comb is a handy tool. The mouth spray is great when you’re in close proximity to people and don’t want to chew gum. Great video - cheers!

[@theruggedscholar1544]

Excellent comment! As an alternative, I will respectfully and humbly suggest Altoids or natural tablet breath freshener.

[@ImYourOverlord]

Not every gentleman (or cultured barbarian) uses a comb. It depends on hair style. For we long-haired gents, I recommend carrying one or more hair bands that are understated and kind to the hair.

[@castelodeossos3947]

Afraid it's long since been unfashionable to comb one's hair. Both women and men now deliberately opt for the messy look.

[@kennixox262]

Glad I have very short hair. Mouth spray is nice or a sugarless mint of some sort. Anything with sugar will cause your breath to go nasty faster.

[@uglukthemedicineman5933]

Mouthspray, fantastic. I gotta start carrying one too, thanks for sharing

[@paulcunningham2859]

Handkerchiefs are much more classy than tissues. I keep two or three just in case. I have bad sinuses but keep one separate just in case a clean one is needed. A discreet pocket knife is good too. Also a budiness card or personal card is great.

[@classicgunstoday1972]

Business card! Good one. I do that do. And keep a few in your breast or inside coat pocket in easy reach

[@ImYourOverlord]

Shrimpin' budiness, of course 😉

[@401Blues]

This may be a bit obvious.....but a high quality manual analog watch. The hands-on nature of manual winding watches are for the gentlemen who relishes a sense of control (when every second counts) and its the ideal companion for intimate dinners, formal gatherings and moments of reflection.

[@MrEab2010]

a high quality, expensive watch is a must if you want to impress people. Somehow it means something to them.

[@darrcook1]

THIS! It doesn't need to be a watch that has a comma in the price. A $200 Citizen still looks nice.

[@lynn5447]

The atomizer with cologne is also great for travel. I carry 3-4 in my dopp kit. The handkerchief dates back to the days before tissues. There was no alternative. In those days, men carried two, one for personal use and a second, kept in a separate pocket, for someone else. Keep washed and ironed.

[@theruggedscholar1544]

Thank you for your comment. I will respectfully and humbly suggest men always a have dopp kit in their automobile and/or travel luggage. My uncle carried three handkerchiefs.

[@sopwithtv]

Omega Seamaster, gold Victorinox pocket knife, brass Olite micro flashlight, Walther CCP. Arise, gentlemen.

[@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226]

AWESOME!

[@kennixox262]

Rolex GMT Master, or Omega Speedmaster, a Seiko automatic, Casio or Timex when going to the gym or other places. One has to be careful these days when wearing a high line brand watch. Too many incidents in Beverly Hills, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or even here in Las Vegas - Summrelin with watch snatching. Flashlights are on the phone these days.

[@theronwolf3296]

@@kennixox262 phone lights don't compare to Olites

[@jamestrent-nw9zb]

And a partridge in a pear tree.

[@rafaelz1580]

Seiko Sbdc051, victorinox huntsman with black scales, taurus 82s steel, fisher bullet pen

[@richardgall8844]

The one thing I carry every day and use is a small flashlight. After an evening out, this is very handy to use when walking through a parking lot so my wife or myself don't trip over anything.

[@erikhn9331]

Agree - especially during the dark months of the winter ( I live in Scandinavia 😉)

[@slaffkas]

So if a lady asks you: "got a light?" - here you go!

[@erikhn9331]

@@slaffkas 🤣

[@nwjh1957]

Things you might trip in the dark over include bodies dropped by the gentleman with the Walther CCP in his pocket!

[@jiovanni6237]

Makes sense but your phone already has a flashlight.

[@gordonbrandt9739]

For a lighter I prefer a butane instead of the standard fuel type, less spillage. The one item I also carry is a pen knife or equivalent small blade as you never know when you need cut a thread etc.

[@weirdshibainu]

I have a nice thin Swiss Army knife.

[@kazdnn5949]

I try to avoid women who smoke, so I’ll swap the lighter for a high-quality pocket knife or multitool.

[@KlausKokholmPetersen]

Or a pack of condoms.

[@nunyabitnezz2802]

Maybe her hot friend doesn’t smoke. Think outside the box. And BTW, women who smoke will put anything in their mouth. 😄

[@kazdnn5949]

@@nunyabitnezz2802 Excellent points.

[@kazdnn5949]

@@nunyabitnezz2802 Excellent points.

[@UnlikelyToRemember]

I have zero interest of putting mine in an ashtray. No lighter for me.

[@SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi]

I'm 55 and I'm stunned and also "stun" people that cash is becoming such a "rarity." When I go out and expecting some kind of "service", I always feel obligated to leave a cash tip, since I had past jobs that I appreciated it myself.😊❤🎉💯 .

[@antinancy]

Also, cash tips leave no records for the IRS...

[@tonyryan3630]

Your story about the handkerchief at the funeral mirrors mine exactly. I always carry a silk handkerchief in my suit and happily give it to someone who needs it, mainly ladies, and I never get it back. Last time it was my own brother (age 70) who when giving a speech about our deceased aunt (and his Godmother age 101) suddenly and unexpectedly, burst into a flood of tears - very touching. So I handed him my hanky and went up to complete his speech.

[@ABC-rh7zc]

People might not know that when you pay a business by card, the business has to pay a transaction fee of 1.5% to 3.5% on the amount. That can really eat into the business's profit margin. It is really helpful to small local businesses to pay them in cash.

[@RustyZipper]

Absolutely 👍 I despise using a card except for online purchases. And it keeps the government/ bank out of my business. I do despise when the person behind me sees that I’m paying in cash and rolls their eyes because they think it takes longer. I always want to say that I don’t need to borrow money to pay for my groceries and I don’t overspend trying to get “cash back / points”

[@uglukthemedicineman5933]

Paying with cash is classy imo.

[@Zundfolge]

Additionally, when you put the tip on the credit card, the full amount is reported on the server's tax filings and thus they pay tax on the full amount of the tip. When you tip in cash, its like providing tax-free income to them (yes, technically they should be reporting all of it to big brother like good little serfs, and most restaurants will assume un-tipped tickets paid a cash tip, but they usually only report a fraction of what you would actually leave). This is especially important if you have recieved exceptional service and wish to truly reward the server.

[@A190xx]

@@Zundfolge Just to give another side, I pay tax on all my income, so why should others avoid it? In the UK, it pays for schools, roads and healthcare. And we also have an issue with barber shops that only make 2-3 cuts per day, but are used to launder drug money.

[@A190xx]

@@uglukthemedicineman5933 Other than the pocket of change that wears away the lining and rattles when you walk.

[@hangtimedangjang]

Tipping in cash is such a class move. I've also started carrying Go Natually cherry hard candy. There's only one better way to part company with a beautiful woman than to hand her one and say "here, have a candy" like Cary Grant in People Will Talk.

[@RealDapperDude]

Put the bill, and a full tip, for all the staff, on your card, but carry cash for a bit extra for the server. Won't matter now that there will be no tax on tips, but it's the server will appreciate something he doesn't have to share.

[@ronaldpoppe3774]

Carry everything you mentioned except the lighter. I also carry a pocket knife and have sense I was ten years old. It comes in handy every day. A good Swiss army knife with scissors is very useful. Cheers Ron

[@mattleach958]

I always carry a small inexpensive Swiss army knife. When my girlfriend, a master accordion player, got one of her accordion bass buttons sadly stuck, I immediately offered her the Swiss army precision crafted tweezers to un-stick her accordion button. She was impressed. Gentlemanly Mission Accomplished.

[@parabellumstrategies]

My work EDC is to try to avoid and or diffuse confrontations, while dressed in a suit. Pistol: Glock 19 + Pocket Magazine Flashlight: Streamlight Micro Fixed blade: Mini Scandi Medical: Tourniquet + H-Gauze Cash: 1x$100, 2x$20’s, 5x$1’s

[@alineharam]

Isn't the glock a little 'showy'?

[@alwaysbeclosing5797]

@@alineharam Not if someone has a tailor to allow the right fit for daily CCW. Sports jacket or suit jacket are actually quite good concealment for a respectable gentleman 😎

[@classicgunstoday1972]

@@alwaysbeclosing5797thinking about a good coat liner is something to do depending on your mode of carry. I learned this over 20 years of concealed carrying under a suit or sportcoat. That pistol and holster will wear a lot of ordinary liners out

[@TheMOV13]

The Glock not permitted here in the UK but the way things are going perhaps people will start to carry one anyway.

[@chinoyhouse8247]

What I have in the past 20 years is 1. Parker Pen 2.Handkerchief 3.House keys on leather organizer and car fob 4. Wallet 5. Phone. I’m almost 40 now and these hasn’t change. I have a multi-tool but it’s in the car inside my briefcase same as the lighter and compact flashlights for emergencies. I keep the lighter in case I need to light up something to keep warm especially here where I live where we have significant snowfall and deep freezing winters. Keep up the good work!

[@drg6161]

I did pretty well on this actually. My daily carry is: Slim profile wallet (genuine leather) Phone Single car key fob with nothing attached (2021 Alfa Romeo quadrifolio) Chrome Waterman ball point Chrome business card holder (for business contacts, but I also carry around a QR/NFC business card with my personal information for more personal interactions - Plus, you can program these to automatically download the other person's information) Travel fragrance (Dior eau savage in spring and summer and mont blanc legend Spirit in Fall and Winter) Chrome Walther PPK .380 Wristwatch (of some kind) I don't mess around with girls who smoke so a lighter is irrelevant

[@lvhdmya4807]

Nice car!

[@samfeikema9447]

I've stopped smoking for a year but still carry a lighter. Every woman I've met has at least one single good looking friend who's a non smoker and it automatically sets you up with a good first impression. The lighter can be a good conversation starter as well. When I was younger and interested in going to bars and clubs, I was always the one sent out to soften the group of women. Any guy knows the stress of going up to groups of 4 or 5 women and I enjoyed it.

[@ericgeneric135]

I always carry a book with me in case I'm stuck waiting. It's way more productive than scrolling on my phone.

[@theruggedscholar1544]

Excellent comment! I would respectfully and humbly suggest remaining vigilant around seniors, who are retired; not technically savvy, and want to waste your time with idle conversation. I would humbly and respectfully suggest carrying earbuds.

[@Breakfast_of_Champions]

An e-book right

[@benjaminzipser6021]

I carry a kindle. absolutely invaluable. Especially during commutes.

[@qed456]

yes I carry "emergency" books in my car for traffic jams - helps take away the stress

[@kennixox262]

I have books on my devices that sync with my iPhone. Unless the book is worth keeping long term, I only read e-books. Save a tree.

[@internetperson8638]

1. Handkerchief 2. (Quality) Pen 3. Travel Fragrance Atomizer 4. Cash 5. Lighter

[@jamestrent-nw9zb]

AK47

[@paulromsky9527]

Good start on your list. Don't forget a comb (small black) and some mints.

[@martingreenberg870]

@@paulromsky9527 Also, as you suggested, a notebook. Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret

[@jimmason8502]

Who the hell wears fragrances any more? Kinda cheesy.

[@tonyryan3630]

@@jimmason8502 I wear fragrance when going out, but not too much. If a lady catches a subtle whiff while greeting you she will be impressed….

[@poolboyinla]

I would not be interested in a woman that smokes.

[@vinziisaac2889]

Neither would I be interested.

[@poolboyinla]

@@vinziisaac2889 Yeah, in America, generally, smoking is seen as the opposite of classy. I was just telling someone the other day, one good thing about modern America is that compared to the rest of the world, there are not a lot of people that smoke cigarettes.

[@vinziisaac2889]

@@poolboyinlaIt's great when smoking is considered the opposite of being classy. In my country India, a woman who smokes is thought of as committing a heinous crime against her gender. The very thought of smoking never crosses a woman's mind here. Of course, there are girls from very affluent layers of society who are into the habit. However, such women are very few in number.

[@poolboyinla]

@@vinziisaac2889 Wow. That is great.

[@JM-lw3nx]

no one asked you

[@kennethbowden3642]

As a nonsmoker and smoking being a hard no for me, I would not carry a lighter. However, the remainder of your suggestions were quite good. Thank you. I always recommend your channel to young men.

[@theruggedscholar1544]

I completely agree with you, regarding smoking; however, I respectfully and humbly suggest carrying a quality lighter.

[@peaceonearth8693]

Haven't you ever wanted to be a man of the forest? Perhaps as a lumberjack? Those guys must at least carry wooden matches if not a lighter.

[@ivancho5854]

Agreed. If she smokes, she's disqualified. It has always been a disgusting habit.

[@danelisslow3269]

​@@peaceonearth8693if you're going into the woods you would bring things like a lighter and other camping equipment but you don't need a lighter everyday.

[@dreadsocialistroberts]

ONS is just fine if she smokes. Anything more than that, definitely not.

[@ThomasEichholzer-bl6ws]

Once (upon a time in Switzerland) at a family reunion the grandfather of my now ex-wife needed a knive, and he said it used to be that every man carried a swiss army knive, and there was I, with my keyring pocket swiss army knive, saving the day. Tears I tell you. Also this video reminds me of when I, a non smoker, carried a lighter at clubs and bars. For like you say, just in case. Mine looks like a zippo, but it‘s matches in a steel box, to spark the conversation farther, ah the good times.

[@kletts42]

Cash and pens are good and I just started carrying a handkerchief. Very rarely do I meet people who do that, but it is useful.

[@lowerquadrant4647]

A swiss army knife can be a lifesaver. Often more so than a lighter.

[@elminero49]

A pocket knife including a leatherman in a pocket is considered a canceled weapon. This can get you arrested in many US states and Mexico.

[@bharat_ki_tareekh]

After my neighbour’s pit-bull bit me 2 times and police didn’t take necessary action, it was a necessity but the problem is we can’t carry it in a metro, not in a bag in college and so it’s hassle to to travel with.

[@jonathanlister5644]

I love your content, people seem to have forgotten about the importance of elegance.

[@Olyfrun]

On the subject of pens, I carry a plastic Kaweco sport. Cheap, cheerful, beautiful and writes like a dream. I have never pens at home, but carrying a small and light pen like the sport is a real boon

[@alineharam]

The editing, with the plain title prior to the next point, is appreciated.

[@Anvilshock]

> nauseating jump cut every sentence > "the editing is appreciated" Yeah, nah.

[@jamestrent-nw9zb]

I agree entirely with always carrying a fresh handkerchief, and in addition to the five items mentioned, I never go out without my Tiffany sterling silver business card holder, which contains cards, both with just my own details, as well as business cards. it is slim, elegant and fits into my inside pocket without it showing. I always observe a note of intrigue and recognition of refinement whenever I discreetly avail myself of it's use.

[@benjackson103]

Great video! Lighter, is always a nice touch. I have a zippo with my initials on it and a Dunhill style lighter though not as expensive. Handmade here in New York.

[@yokosomike]

I carry a lighter … surprisingly for birthday parties and my daily mediation to light up my incense. A mini shoe horn that folds up in my bag is very handy here in Tokyo as we take our shoes on and off throughout the day and it has been known to save many a loafer. Another edc I carry are chopsticks and a Japanese foldable fan. Been hot here in Tokyo this summer and if I’m even just taking a short walk to catch a train, a quick flip to open and I have automatic air conditioning. Domo.

[@Crazy_Joe_Davola]

Everything you said plus a small gentleman's knife, and my 1911. : )

[@moorshound3243]

Good comment

[@KlausKokholmPetersen]

-remember to have your jacket tailored to conceal the bulge.

[@M5onster]

I always carry a small, pocket size flashlight. I like the S1R Baton II by Olight. It is small, bright, rechargeable, fits easily in your pocket and works great to illuminate the path to the car in a dark parking lot, or a dark hallway or doorway.

[@mcmneverreadsreplys7318]

If she smokes I'm not interested (period). Still, it's always good to have a fire source readily at hand - but as this would be for practical uses only it does not need to impress. I would add (as others have) a pocket knife; but only if it's actually sharp. (It's amazing how many guys I have met who carry dull ones. For goodness' sake, learn how to take care of your tools - keep your knives sharp. A dull knife neither helps nor impresses.) You probably don't want to hear this but I also carry a concealed handgun with a backup magazine. Additionally, I carry an 'out the front' tactical knife for defense and a 2000 lumen flashlight with an aggressive bezel - both to hopefully prevent my needing to draw the gun. The flashlight has often been useful in everyday life. The gun and tactical knife I hope I never have to draw but will be immensely grateful I had them if I need them. (It is well said, "When seconds count, the police are only minutes away.") I adapt and modify my outfits and my gear selection to suit each day's situation and my desire to carry either open or concealed.

[@irenemarcus967]

My father always said, about many things, "Better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it".

[@matthewch2720]

Chapstick. Mini composition notebook - 60 pages (Dollar General). Perfect if you’re unfamiliar. Fits in the palm of your hand. Uniball 207+ 0.7mm pen (black) AirPods Phone / keys / wallet

[@merlin6532]

Pack of durex :) And seriously pen and Zippo are great ideas, thank you for that

[@ImYourOverlord]

What no love for Rameses Extra?

[@uglukthemedicineman5933]

Wouldn't recommend durex Too fragile

[@charlesstout480]

Please accept my compliments on an excellent series, James. I stumbled across your channel utterly by accident, and, after viewing several of your well-produced and thoughtful videos, I felt compelled to subscribe. My father, a working-class gentleman, also taught me to carry a small pocket knife. One of the problems I have noticed is that many men carry a bevy of keys on keychains and, when added to loose change in a pants pocket, the jingling sounds that occur while walking alert anyone within earshot of their approach. I have used a leather keycase for my house keys and have a small nail clipper in the case. Although it may seem old-fashioned, I also use a small leather coin purse for change. I no longer sound like "Jingle Bells" when walking, and removing the items from my pants pockets is much easier when I need not chase down individual coins.

[@mrphil1956]

Great suggestions! Except for the "lighter." I'm such a staunch anti-smoker, I'd more likely carry a fire extinguisher! On a serious note, I love your content❤

[@sputnikone6281]

I carry 2 EDC items that you failed to mention 1) a pocket knife 2) a mini-flashlight. I could also add that I carry a licensed firearm as I do not live in the UK. Regarding a lighter - I don't smoke but despite that I always carried one during regular & reserve military service

[@loganthrift11]

As an American,EDC is something completely different

[@johndelagarza361]

Yep, I'd leave the "fragrance" and take a pocket 9 and a folding knife. 😉

[@loganthrift11]

@@johndelagarza361 hallelujah!

[@spocko2181]

@@johndelagarza361A five shot.44 special for me.

[@christopherdolan7330]

​@@spocko2181what are you, a 1920s private detective? lol

[@seansimmons73]

380. Like James Bond

[@jeffbeamer9882]

Congratulations on your program. I bought a Dunhill lighter and carry it always. I hesitate to confess how many times I watched that James Bond clip to master lighting a cigarette with style!

[@jakecavendish3470]

I always carry an ankle tag (terms of my probation), a bottle of metholated spirit (reason for the probation), a stuffed alligator (talking point), and what was sold to me as a gentleman's heavy-duty butt plug but is actually very useful as a door stop

[@JDJohnston9906753]

WRIST WATCH. Yeah, everyone has a phone, but a nice watch is classic. It's more discreet and less rude to glance at one's wrist to get the time than to have to pull a 3x6 inch brick with a screen out of one's pocket to check the time. I also keep a BOTTLE OPENER on my key ring. It comes in handy quite often.

[@betweenthedimensions8315]

Great list but I would add to the list: a flashlight and a pocket knife. But I presume you’re in the UK where knives aren’t allowed haha. Also some kind of multitool and maybe even a spool of electrical tape. You can also wind some duct tape around a business card and keep it in your wallet for reuse. I also usually carry a bottle opener and some kind of first aid kit, trauma kit or at least a bandaid (plaster lol). Add tissues to the list separately from a hanky cause they serve two purposes.

[@Derecq]

I'm in the UK, A pocket knife with a folding non locking blade no longer than 3" is legal to carry. I carry mine every day and the markings have worn off the scales. However never never admit you would use it for self defence.

[@TheCrusader50]

I love that handkerchiefs were #1 and I learned from another gent to always carry two. One for personal use ( nose, spills or handwork) and another always on hand to offer those in need.

[@sp-bl1sl]

A gentleman never sends a signal that he'd like to interact with someone when he doesn't, so no lighter under any circumstances.

[@peteradrian9466]

It's not like you're waving it around. You wait for the opportunity, then take advantage.

[@tomahawktactical705]

EDC-pistol, spare magazine, folding knife, flashlight, small multitool, bandana(handkerchief), wallet, phone and keys. Hat, watch and boots most of the time 👍🏼

[@BalladsofBahrain]

What do you think about a comb? Incase you're on your way and want to look clean a comb could help, dont you think so?

[@terrylarson7596]

A small Victorinox pocket knife with scissors. The one I use also has a small eye glasses screw driver which I lent to a fellow at a sporting event when his lens fell out. Countless times I have lent the scissors to trim broken finger nails

[@StevanMilesevic]

Well, I do carry four out of the five. For the fragrance I prefer a "solid cologne" instead of liquid though. I never carry a lighter since I associate it with smoking which I absolutely despise. I just don't have a use for one anyway. Number six should be some kind of pen knife or pocket knife. There are many great gentlemanly options out there.

[@Pellegrino809]

Excellent video, In the US their are some private school that teach what you just mention, unfortunately they are far and few. I need to add the lighter and spray. An additional item i carried is a small note pad. Thank you for adding the link for the pen.

[@JurassicEyesJewelryCollection]

I would suggesf a flashlight. I carry a very bright model that is smaller than a Cap Stick that operates on one AAA battery. Don't forget your small one blade pocket knife. 😊

[@jakerjoules]

I carry a good set of ear buds most of the time so that I can take a call without revealing who it is or the subject. Also they are for privately enjoying my form of music, which is ideally for a much younger set, but I still enjoy it none the less.

[@NXatNight]

I carry a pen with a stiletto that serves as a letter opener, and the pen is the pen, it always comes in handy in situations that you least expect it. A flashlight, which I need for my job. One time use, strong nitryle gloves. Usually if I don't carry my pen and stilletto combo, I tend to carry a separate pocket knife. Then the usual suspects come in such as, a phone and keys. Almost always I have my sunglasses with me and my leather shoe cover which I cannot find a place for, and it's used mostly when I ride my motorcycles with regular shoes.

[@RustyZipper]

That’s a great idea about gloves 👏

[@peaceonearth8693]

If you ever encounter the police. Won't a dagger blade (letter opener) and nitrile gloves be a bit awkward to explain?

[@NXatNight]

Regarding a visibly unused pair of gloves and a knife which is hidden, unless you know with what you are dealing with, then it shouldn't be a problem. But I guess that also depends on where you live and what laws in region are that determine the use and carry of such objects. In my place its ok to carry it however you like and need without intent to harm someone. @@peaceonearth8693

[@robgrey6183]

I found your channel, and subscribed. I'm an American. I attended a private boys' school on the east coast. Many of your principles of dress and behavior were modeled for us there. We wore suits and ties to class. I well remember being constantly reminded to fasten the upper button on my dress shirt, as per one of your other videos. Now I live in Wyoming, on a property outside Jackson Hole. My EDC varies somewhat: -Cash? Always. -A pocket knife. Very sharp. -A handgun. Small, expensive, reliable, understated. In a quality holster. I have found that, here in my affluent part of the western US, the rules of dress are somewhat flexible. There is a sort of "western casual" dress code that combines jeans (unworn, clean) and cowboy boots (not the ones you wear to feed the horses) with a jacket and tie, even at semi-formal, and formal events. This was common here before the money took over, and has remained a tradition. Oh, and for the fragrance atomizer, I have substituted beard oil.

[@nothomelessonyoutube]

Every gentleman should have a Rapier, a horse, a servant, a squire, and a dragon to fight.

[@antinancy]

You forgot wolfhound.

[@nothomelessonyoutube]

@@antinancy well definitely some sort of pet. For me I want a donkey

[@cggage]

Nice to hear. I am a "mature gentleman" and I have carried all of these items with the exception of the atomizer since I was a young man. However, in the past year or so, I have taken to carrying one of the atomizers. I believe these are relatively recent and as they are compact, they are easy to carry. With regard to the lighter, yes, a Zippo is classic. Stay away from the gaudy theme lighters and stick with the very traditional versions. Zippo makes an "Armor" line that is heavy casting and very solid. It looks very established. Now, I know the purists out there would prefer the use of lighter fluid but honestly, the fluid evaporates before you know it. I opted for the butane insert. These look and work great and if you truly want a traditional yellow flame, they make an insert for yellow butane flame, as well. I have never had the butane leak or evaporate. It always works. I don't smoke so carrying the lighter is just a courtesy and, as stated, "being prepared." I recently was at a birthday party and no one smokes and no one could like the candles - except me. This is a good video. I think a gentleman should "be prepared" and discretely so. There is no need to flaunt anything nor should your pockets be bulging with a large Swiss Army knife. I do carry, in addition to the items mentioned, a very small pen know with a nail file, blade, scissors, screwdriver, and tweezers. This is Victorinox's smallest and thinnest pen knife. It is surprising how often I use it. One other item: Keys - Go through your key chain. You don't need 10,000 keys. What do you really need day-to-day? Put those rarely used keys on a separate keychain and put that in your briefcase. Carry around a minimal number of keys, and put them in order so you can reach for the right one without fumbling for them in the dark.

[@MyRackley]

Dunhill.

[@CanadaAstro]

Excellent advice. I learnt these tips years ago as an International traveller. Met Antonio Centeno in London , UK at meetup. He’s a class act.

[@EfrainSuarezII]

I'd like to add something that I learned from my Grandfather and is done in Caribbean and Latin American countries. It combines the travel atomizer and handkerchief. The gentleman's favorite scent is sprayed on the handkerchief and put back in the pocket. as the day progresses, should the gentleman need to wipe his brow and or face, it leaves the scent, sort of a reapplication if you will. I always thought that it was a nice touch. He also stated that should a lady need a handkerchief, it will most certainly leave a remembrance, after they have parted, of the encounter and possibly more.

[@tomchipego]

Pocket knife, handkerchiefs, smith & wesson bodyguard .38, cash, rosary.

[@matthewbrown6163]

I was gifted a rechargeable lighter as a corporate gift. I keep it in my suit pocket as the number of lovely ladies who ask for a light & then start a conversation with me is amazing. I have always carried a pen with me & again the number of conversations started by some charming ladies has been an eye opener.

[@spinningbacksidekick]

A gentleman without a knife or cutting instrument is simply not fully dressed.

[@DeputatKaktus]

I agree with all those items. The fragrance is maybe not for me but I can see why some might want it. That said, I do not consider myself to be a „gentleman“ as far as style goes. But that is no reason not to be prepared. As a daily motorcycle rider (as in „I ride every day, not just in the summer or when the weather is nice“) I also consider a multitool and a flashlight / leadlamp an absolute necessity. I usually have either a Petzl headlamp or an Olight Baton on me. I also will not be caught dead without either a Leatherman or at least a Swiss Army Knife. I often carry other specialized tools as well which I won’t go into. But they have at some point helped save either my day or that of one of my neighbors. Edit: Oh and one really useful tip for Zippo lighters: get the Zippo butane insert if you do not use your lighter regularly. It is a straight drop in replacement and saves you all the faffing about with refuelling all the time because the fuel keeps evaporating in a week.

[@TheGreatMachine9]

tip with the hankerchief, spray a vanilla scent or lavender scent on it. its more comforting when being used.

[@imnobodywhoareyou4588]

From where I live, I always carry my CCW and OC spray 😅

[@edwardpate6128]

I never leave home without my concealed carry weapon.

[@Wannabearborist]

I sadly don’t live in the us so I only can concealed carry my pocket knife, the stupid thing is: I keep myself to the law so I don’t have a firearm but someone who’s out to do harm to my family or myself doesn’t keep to the law and thus might have a firearm, I’d have no use of a pocket knife in that situation then. One day I hope to live in the us but for now it gets even worse because I’m moving to Belgium for an arborist certification and in Belgium even a pocket knife is illegal 😭

[@johnnyragadoo2414]

Me either! Be safe and be free, friend.

[@NGMonocrom]

My take on these 5 items: 1) I carry a large bandana. Just find it more useful. You can bleach a white bandana with a black pastel design to be all-white. 2) Classy looking pen, and paper at all times. Mine is an inexpensive Shaeffer that looks much more expensive due to the black lacquer and chrome accents. 3) Mini-atomizer.... Will have to add that to my Everyday carry. 4) Cash, absolutely. _All_ men should be prepared for realistic eventualities. I carry a few different denominations on me. Plus, a $50 bill and a $20 bill in a hidden pocket in my wallet for emergencies. Was once at a well-known Pharmacy when all of their card-readers went down. Long line of people.... I was literally the only one able to pay for his purchases. 5) Lighter, yes; but never a Zippo. That's coming from someone with a nice collection of Zippo lighters. The issue is simple. The standard Zippo insert lets fuel evaporate. Not an issue for smokers. Very real issue for the rest of us. Imagine filling a Zippo full of fuel. Two weeks later encountering a woman who asks if you have a light. You pull out your Zippo, but all you get is a spark of flint. Embarrassing. Thankfully there are elegant, not too expensive lighters out there that you can fill with fuel, and said fuel will not evaporate. _Would also recommend...._ 6) A flashlight. Preferably a single-AAA LED model. Amazing how much power (both lumens and Candela) a very small modern-day light can produce. Very useful, not just outdoors late at night. A bare aluminum model is best for hiding both wear on the finish (no finish with bare aluminum) and for hiding tiny scratches that such a light might pick up over the years. Plus, it looks like something a modern-day gentleman would carry.

[@robo2606]

Great that you take the risk of mentioning a lighther 😂

[@IsambardKingdom]

I carry a sharp, sturdy folding type pocket knife, ever so useful, and so often needed - you become the man who gets things done - more used than the handkerchief

[@TheDailyWorkYT]

Great video James! Great job!

[@Gent.Z]

Thank you, sir

[@filiusrubonus]

As an "old man" I agree to your list of the five items. My Father (born in 1910 as Baltic German) told me the same - and many special things and rules, a classical gentleman has to internalize. One special item he put to his list, I use to take with me every time by going to a classic celebration (White or BlachkTie - or formal Morning dress): "Some Safety pins" He said: "You are able to help a lady, if there are "dress-problems" and you can save her day and the happening" - He was right - often i was the Rescuer

[@NolanKruseGolf]

For me, I always make sure I have business cards on me. Never know when a networking opportunity may arise.

[@martingreenberg870]

Rather than a business card, I Cary a personal card. Name in the center. Phone number and email address in lower left corner. Plus, of course, a nice card holder. Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret)

[@markuspollack2643]

Dupont, Fischer Spacepen, Handkerchief - Check - although I use the last one. Eau de Toilette only in the Morning. Small Multitool and a Penlight.

[@Grumpy-Curmudgeon]

In modern society the lighter is highly optional. Very few establishments allow indoor smoking. As for carrying a lighter to meet a lady, well in my opinion no true lady would smoke in public. (Also, for me personally smoking is a deal breaker.) The modern option for ladies is to ask not for a light but for the time. (So perhaps a quality wrist watch would be a good choice.)

[@ImTheDudeMan471]

EDC architect firm messenger bag: Parker Jotter XL black gel, red/green color pencils, yellow highlighter, Pentel P205 0.5mm mech. pencil, led flashlight, Leatherman Wingman, arch. scale, plain paper sketch/note book, digital camera, tape measure, rubber bands, hard candy, wet wipes, travel toothbrush. And wearing one of my dive watches.

[@KadeBronson]

I carry Hot Wheels.

[@DRNewcomb]

You cary two handkerchiefs. One for you and an immaculately clean one for a lady in need. I lost an heirloom tortoise shell Shaffer. I don’t carry fine pens any more. I always have a safety pin on the inside of my lapel, in case of need.

[@LeviHeatonIII]

If a woman I was interested in walks up and asks me for a light, I am no longer interested. What are you talking about? It's 2024!

[@spocko2181]

“It’s 2024!” Blech, no need to remind me.

[@LeviHeatonIII]

@@spocko2181 what?

[@olbradley]

What difference does the year make?

[@retr0sfunkadelix]

If she’s smoking weed it’s more of a turn on. I’m a stoner at heart, I prefer it over drinking. I honestly hate the carts and pods people have been smoking lately. Old school joints will definitely catch my attention .

[@Wannabearborist]

@@olbradleyyears ago people believed cigarets where healthy but today we know how unhealthy they are, that’s why he said “it’s 2024”

[@melodylewis2807]

Traditionally Southern (USA) gentleman always carried a pocket knife. As a southern woman I have often available myself of that gentleman! My ex's grandfather had an assortment of knives for this purpose. For instance he had a small mother of pearl knife he carried in his pocket for church. He had others for when he was working on the farm or just hanging around the house. I wish more men carried knives these days.

[@timeparty718]

Carry all but the lighter, not for me though ! ... as a non-smoker why would I be interested in a woman whose breath and clothes smell of stale ash?

[@westerngent]

In the USA gentlemen carry pocket knives. Not for defense, just in case you need to open a surprise gift card elegantly, split an apple to share after buying it from a street vendor, or a thousand other small uses too numerous to list. I like your content and it is sorely needed by the younger fellows.

[@davidbooth8523]

This guy would like to live in a Charles Dickens novel

[@peaceonearth8693]

Gentlemen were common up to 1964 or so.

[@darrellzayac3441]

I would suggest a small pocket multi tool such as a Schrade dime or a leatherman. Just make sure you leave it in the car if you are going to an event or flying where it would be confiscated.

[@scottb7963]

I always carry some $2 bills with me. Some may think they are hard to find, but the teller can order them for you. I will get 100 at a time and that will last me a few months. They are great for tips and bartenders and valets will always remember you. I will give one or two to the valet when I arrive. It's nice to walk out of the establishment and there is a line at the valet and your car magically appears in front of them.

[@Dan_Vinci]

You missed a multitool (Victorinox, Leatherman, Gerber...), something that allows you to cut, to screws, to prys . Great Vid!

[@luisvelasco316]

Plenty of other similar responses, but I endorse having a pocket knife, specifically a Victorinox SD. This has a small but very sharp blade, a nailfile/screwdriver and a tiny but surprisingly useful scissors, as well as a tweezer for splinters and a toothpick. Or a couple bucks more gets you their Rambler model which adds a Phillips head screwdriver/bottle opener blade. Both are very small, less than 3" /7cm long and very unobtrusive in your pocket or on a keychain.

[@johnlowe37]

I'd suggest a pocket multitool that includes scissors (for trimming loose threads), tweezers, and a screwdriver blade suitable for tightening eyeglasses screws. It troubles me that some posters seem to think that a gentleman never gets his hands dirty. A true gentleman will not hesitate to get his hands dirty when circumstances demand it. He'll also get cleaned up at the first opportunity.

[@marcusl.1874]

A small foldable knive I recommend as well. Quit handy from time to time