5 Harsh Truths From My 5 Year Relationship (For Men)

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@rosaria715 4 ай бұрын

having an avoidant partner is so hard, i was secure when we started dating, and i became anxious with all the avoidance, stonewalling, silence treatment. So much that i doubthed my own judgement and feelings, when i addresed things... he ask me to just get over it to "drop it". I could not, he ignored all my approaches, that lead me to force a hard conversation on him, and then he ended things. But that honestly was the best outcome, i could not continue like that, i dont wanna to constanty worry about my wording of if its a good day to just talk about things to not get punished with no talking for a week. It is so hurtfull and i truely hope he heals for himself. But i cannot deal with this in my life, im very sensivite and i have alot of love to give. He ask me for peace, yet he never gave me peace of mind or clarity with his behaivor. What i know for sure is, if he cared as much as me, he would have try to work on it. He didnt and that is ok, that is nothing i want in my life anyway - the avoidance, it solve nothing, it only create bigger issues in the long run

@elisegray6962 3 ай бұрын

You probably triggered his insecurities on many levels and he was clearly not ready to be with someone that secured. I'm glad you're out of this, you deserve a much better man

@tsuyuchen3257 5 ай бұрын

I'm a woman who just had an "uncomfortable conversation" with my boyfriend whom I want to spend the rest of my life with. What you said is so true, mature, and allows for both parties to grow. I learnt a lot from this. Thank you, Chief.

@wakulovszki 5 ай бұрын

You have more knowledge than most of the 30+ y.o. men I know, you’ve definitely done the hard work, keep sharing your wisdom! 👍🏻

@SumanthLazarus 4 ай бұрын

I think he sounds about 30y old, definitely not someone in their early 20s.

@wakulovszki 4 ай бұрын

@@SumanthLazarus he mentioned he’s 23 y.o. :)

@Peacemaker234 2 ай бұрын

Im going through it right now with m gf Im trying my best to fix things while giving her space, I hope things turn around today. she's my world.

@SumanthLazarus 4 ай бұрын

13:35 This is an interesting point where you say that relationships help you overcome or improve on the ways that you were raised, something like a do over for your children, you having experienced something negative or unfulfilling in the past.

@jpwhy1647 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@ЯремаЙосипенко Ай бұрын

what's the name of the background music at 18:08🙏

@martialbarquero4852 5 ай бұрын

Hi from France....thanks for these interesting videos...very inspiring and educational. Keep up with this great job shared in nature...

@riccardoc1711 4 ай бұрын

Thanks, very inspiring.

@ClubDoobie 5 ай бұрын

Any advice on standing out and truly being able to lock in a relationship?

@PremiumUserUltra 4 ай бұрын

I don't know if he has actually had a overall or just being with one person committed. Never seen his gf/wife. He also focuses on on the masculine mind instead of understanding the way his gf/wife thinks, like actually thinks. There is no "locking in" anymore, I can guarantee there is opportunity everywhere. Truly locking in is only using social media professionally, for all in the relationship.