5 hours of Walking in Tokyo as a Black Woman || How Do Japanese Treat Black Women? (Black in Japan)

[@nekonoke]

I am Japanese. When you see foreigners wearing Japanese clothes, you can tell that they respect Japan. Many Japanese people have a favorable impression of you.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hello. Thank you for your comment. Yes, I've heard the same from other Japanese people. As well as from Peruvian people when foreigners wear their native clothes. Moroccans were also so happy when other foreigners and I wore their clothes. All the cultures I have personal experience with, as well as have seen on youtube, are so happy that a foreigner is taking time to learn and experience their culture, however sadly, there is a narrative in my home country that we should be kept separate. 😓

[@mikyahalbena-yasharal3387]

I was wondering if they viewed it as culture appropriation? However, I noticed, in the video, “No one gave a stank-eye!” ❤️Most westerners, make the mistake of not assimilating in the culture, which they visit.

[@이효민-w8h]

@@mikyahalbena-yasharal3387 outside of western countries most other countries don't care about sharing their culture so there is no cultural appropriate

[@kiap7396]

You guys use the term "Cultural Appropriation" far too loosely. It is NOT when someone is wearing your clothing/immersing themselves in the culture. It IS doing this and then so-deeming yourself able to "Correct" the terminology/standards by one's own redefinition as if the culture/thing is YOURS to redefine. Ex. Calling Cornrows "Bo Derek Braids" 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️One thing shows the utmost respect; it shows you've taken time and therefore given a certain level of thoughtfulness to take a literal walk in someone else's shoes. The other thing 180's that and goes the other direction to go out of your way to be disrespectful.

[@jaylee.the.artist]

Highly doubt it. If anything, you may receive many compliments, as it's always amazing to see others appreciating our cultural garments.

[@xblackcattearsxcattears7308]

For the people wondering why she is dressed like that in Japan, it is common for people to wear traditional attire such as Kimono and Yukata during the summer. And no it is not cultural appropriation for her to wear one it is cultural appreciation. For many Japanese, seeing foreigners wear their traditional attire is a nice gesture to them. The concept of cultural appropriation over there is not the same as it is in Western countries.

[@hhc1948]

Don't say western countries. "Cultural appropriation" is unique to black Americans and its mainly due to their inferiority complex.

[@troymcclure681]

Dude please post a link of japanese people dressed like this on a regular basis

[@xblackcattearsxcattears7308]

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[@troymcclure681]

@XBlackCatTearsX CatTears dude you literally sent a video of 2 girls out of hundreds that were around that were dressed like thar 🤦🏾😹 and the girls themselves said they were doing it for attention. And the guy said in the other video why men should wear a kimono not that it should be worn on a daily basis 🤦🏾😹😹 Imagine a black man walking around in Mexico in a mariachi outfit 😂😂😂😂

[@xblackcattearsxcattears7308]

It’s a personal decision, some choose to wear it daily while others don’t. Like any other traditional garment. I know a few people who do wear it daily. I’m not familiar with Mexican culture but isn’t a Mariachi Charro worn by performers? A black person wearing a mariachi in Mexico is not the same as wearing kimono in Japan because the Japanese are okay with it as long as it is done respectfully and out of appreciation.

[@scarvello]

One thing about being black is we will forever be relevant and put under a microscope. It’s annoying at times but it’s how the most high created us we are truly a special people that all throughout time we will always be the center of attention.

[@D1Snr]

What about if you don't want to be the center of attention and just want to blend in?

[@scarvello]

@@D1Snr it’s damn near impossible unless your around your own kind.

[@marsishome9488]

@@scarvello Even then some of us stick out like a sore thumb.

[@africanglobalnomad]

@@marsishome9488 oh I am sorry that you prefer to stay invisible even around black people.

[@marsishome9488]

@@africanglobalnomad I am okay with invisibility for safety reasons.

[@reinaemgarcia4490]

“These situations happen, but they’re not really bad in comparison to actually being hurt or killed because of my skin color in my own home country.” This statement says a lot about how so very far behind others we are in our country regarding human value, acceptance, and respect for our differences!

[@sandycheeks1580]

🎉😮What country are you from? Is it America? 😢

[@reinaemgarcia4490]

@@sandycheeks1580 Yes; America.

[@Akira_DewStar]

Yeah. In terms of freedom it’s great. In terms of cultural appropriation, gender equality, LGBTQ+ equality, and discrimination. Well, it’s getting worse as years go by.

[@vrdrifter4933]

@@Akira_DewStar no it’s not. Your a narcissist. Stfu your fine

[@Hollylivengood]

@@Akira_DewStar Oh no, it's getting better. The past was the worst, always.

[@KeeCruz]

I remember when I was in the Philippines being young and going to school was terrible. Kids would throw rocks and literally call me ugly. It was a rough experience but within that timeframe I really felt I was different and I was ashamed of my color. They associate being dark as being dirty. I am thankful to the people that didn’t just see me as a skin-tone. I did find it funny because the original Filipinos looked black 🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@RaunchyGoblin]

@Kee That’s so sad! I hope when they grew up they learned of their mistakes and had growth.

[@cfoster6804]

Yes they certainly were!

[@Seremonii]

Wow !

[@sabir1208]

Yep. The negritos

[@KeeCruz]

@@sabir1208 they would called me “ita” 🙄

[@CH-ep3hc]

As a black man I had wonderful experiences in Japan. Honestly it felt like a breath of fresh air, and I could have continued to live there indefinitely. I had never felt so able to be myself and people were always kind and interested in who I am, instead of being afraid of me or hating on me. I felt loved in Japan.

[@brookarellastyle260]

I’m glad it was a wonderful experience for you, & glad you chose to share that experience with us! ❤😊

[@mekx7901]

Clap clap

[@gracelynfortlightamooti6763]

Why did you leave?

[@sanaaniz]

@Beth A. watch the news in America and you’d think twice about that comment lol crime rates are up !!!!

[@u-kneeque]

@@sanaaniz They are for a *reason* , and its not what you think. Afri©an men are NOT more vioI£nt than any other man, Jeffery Dahmer for example. *They* want to keep Afri©an's heads down because they're powerful people in every aspect. So they built abo®tion clini©s in their areas, they made a few famous in exchange of ®apping about g u n $ and p®omes©uity, they wrote that in the ©ont®acts. I'm not a bla©k person nor an ameri©an, I can see the bigger picture without the influen©e and tri©ks of the *m £ d i a people* . They want people to be nation4lists and ®a©ist. I think you need to stop sleepwalking, see the signs and think.

[@thelifeofjoi]

So many people trying to tell her about her OWN experience!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!

[@mellowlake079]

Exactly

[@AmarraQ]

💯💯

[@codymann6152]

😂 that's un social media dumb 😂 not one person on here is relevant to the next.

[@mellowlake079]

@@codymann6152 What? 🤔

[@keiseanhenderson6236]

This video explained my experiences so far in japan as a black male. I get looks when with my Japanese girlfriend because I open her door and treat her so well, she tells me that Japanese people love me for it and I should learn better Japanese to understand them. 1 year in and it's challenging but I'm not giving in

[@HarmonyBella8]

❤❤❤

[@z3onix]

Wouldn't it be easier to learn the language of the country your living in?

[@kaskaskas]

@@z3onix I think he worded it wrong lol he is learning it

[@SatiDevi444]

It's a breath of fresh air seeing people recognize that you can appreciate other cultures and not screaming cultural appropriation.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I hope more people learn to use words by their proper definitions, and understand what appropriation really is too. 😅 Understanding each other's culture is how we connect and stop wars. I hope we can share more of our cultures worldwide -- especially more food🤤

[@SatiDevi444]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan I'm a big-time weeaboo, can speak and understand basic Japanese with a Japanese stepmother. I also was raised Hindu, still am spiritually, my parents met in India and gave me a Sanskrit name. So you can imagine the kind of comments I get. 😅

[@PoorNeighbor]

Actually it's only american .The concept of cultural appropriation doesn't exist in asian countries. Same in Arabic countries. We should be able to wear whatever the hell we want. No issue in that as long as it is respectful

[@afrinaut3094]

I don't know the poeple your talking about "screaming cultural appropiration". But you didn't mention the real-cases of "cultural appropriation" or the specific ethnic/historic context in your condescending comment vs the idoits who "scream" a very-serious term they don't understand. You & the young woman who made this video, do understand that the reason "cultural-appropriation"-concerns come from America & other ex-european colonies, right? The answer is obvious. Her experiences in Japan are her own & that's cool. The world isn't japan, & her eexperinces are not that of other peoples. Japan's history is not the same as colonized poc, including the US. Expressing love for another peoples' culture is awesome...when that is what is actually happening. African Americans, Afro Latinos, & Native Americans etc entire history in the US & with white-America (& other nations of the Americas in general) is built on all forms of exploition not limited to opportunity, wealth, cultural-plagiarism & cultural-appropriation. Using an aspect of culture without respect to it & its peoples of origin - cultural-appropriation. Stealing an aspect of culture, passing it off as your own or your-group's invention instead.- cultural-plagerism. This also encompases- cultural/historic-erasure & stolen-sacred-artifacts (& lands). I'll use African-Americans as an example, but they are far from the only one. The same nations where people "screaming cultural appropriation" are the same nations I grew up in, where board-meetings ban POC books from US schools (claining it oppresses whites), classes that would make cultrual-exchange in the US possilbe by giving credit to AfricanAmericans are sidelined as not manditory mainline classes nation-wide (optional college electives), & the constant rhetoric that "race doesn't exist" dog-whistling for "AfricanAmericans don't exist". Rock N Roll, Twists, Cornrows, the Bango/country music, so many AA dances, the Jalaiah Harmon case vs Tick Tock, Kim Kardashian with the Vouge BigBooty History lie, the very-recent increase in opportunities for poc in Hollywood (especailly for black-skinned black women), the lie that the Irish were chattel-slaves or race-based-slaves, the "complete" payment of race-based-slave owners' descendants as late as 2016 via taxes in the UK, colorism/misognyior in the American entertainment industry, "the Civil War wasn't about slavery", MLK JR supported a race-blind world view, etc etc. The same Ebonics, clothing & other forms of African American expressing that non-black youth can use, when on the black folks that created it, is at best not seen as "universally relatable"/"marketable" & at worst gets said AfricanAmerican people kicked out of school (The Crown Act) or not called back for a job. AfricanAmericans have overcome all of this, but that is neither proof of oppressions non-existance nor an excuse to allow these discriminatory-systems to persist. But yeah cultural-appropriation is a serious topic, sorry that its not anime. lol

[@h_uns1m]

@MsSorayanot literally. The shade is so unnecessary and we have EVERY RIGHT to feel upset. This video is APPRECIATION. APPROPRIATION is mocking said culture/using it as an aesthetic or for looks, not truly willing to understand the culture. Only wearing it because they think it’s cute, regardless of true meaning. I wish people would take us serious for once :/

[@SadeWithTheReceipts]

I was married to a Japanese man for a very long time, and his mother and grandparents were veeeerrryyy sweet....UNTIL we got married and procreated. That is a no no in their culture. They don't like it. True colors came out then. It took a while, like you stated in this video, basically they have an image to uphold so they try not to show racism in public or in front of other's, but baby, I know the true them, their culture and everything about them. I wish it was different. They are nice until you have a child with their nationality, or marry. I wouldn't even tell you what they REALLY think of us here. I wouldn't dare.

[@SadeWithTheReceipts]

You even walk like them, it's cute tho 🥰😍

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I can see this happening, completely. 😅

[@SadeWithTheReceipts]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan No problem. Looking forward to seeing more of your vlogs 🤗I'm also a KZbin, TikTok, & Facebook creator. 😁

[@ranilatchmipersaud4630]

Wow thats sad

[@SadeWithTheReceipts]

@@ranilatchmipersaud4630 Really it is. But it's reality. Well at least the reality that I know and have experienced.

[@AlreadyButtercup]

Oh man I feel like tearing up. Seeing so many Japanese say you're cute. I miss Japan. I hope I can go back soon. I'm impressed you're mature enough to let go of the bad experiences you had. If you were angry I would NOT blame you but you're a great example of how to deal with it gracefully.

[@leahmadalyn]

Because she's pretty and wearing their apparel. There are some black women who have had different experiences.

[@pagola]

​@@leahmadalyn exactly and why the fuk is she tearing up😅😅😅...you always want to be accepted

[@christineleatherwood7987]

Everyone needs to respect each other based on their actions not on what race, sexuality, etc.

[@beamed7770]

@@leahmadalyn all races have different experiences everywhere.

[@JMac-27]

@@christineleatherwood7987 people are allowed to feel however they want, this is the really real world

[@ManicMaiden]

As a black girl; I nearly cried at how much positive reception you got! I always have this weird fear that I’d get discriminated if I ever go to an East Asian country. It’s nice seeing other black people enjoy their time abroad!

[@YuniChanOfficial]

Sameeee

[@lullaby218]

A whyte scinetist with straight hair once visited a primitive tribe that never saw a whyte man before. And the first thing they all did was touch his hair.

[@lullaby218]

It's like an instinct to groom I suppouse. So nothing bad. But one should have the courtesy to ask permission.

[@awesomesauce7446]

​@@lullaby218 gr8 b8 m8 r8 8/8

[@julieberthelsen389]

It's so double standard. Black community got affended when other people braid there and yet, ohh my so much positive responds she got. Why not name calling her for taking on another colture that is not here's, like black community did with so call' white and asian having braids?

[@moi.cest.sorane]

It is so cool that at the beginning you showed us people laughing or touching your hair and (not knowing the context or what they were saying) we thought it was a bad thing but further, we realized the same people were actually being nice to you… Understanding the context is ALWAYS a very important thing! Great video that shows that prejudices and stereotypes can be overcome.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you for watching and understanding! Japanese culture and American culture ad language are so different, that our interactions can cause so many misunderstandings. I hope I can bridge that gap for everyone who watches my videos. :)

[@justabout6979]

I loved that too! Heartwarming

[@poypoyh4413]

She said “これ下げといていいの？.” It means “This part of your hair is not tied. Is it OK?”. I think she asks it because she is afraid that the Enim’s hairstyle got partly untied against her will.

[@sassycat6487]

I've never quite understood this as a white person because I also have had strangers pet my hair. I've had Black people make positive comments about my hair as well and stare at it. But when I see Black people who have this experience they say it's racist? Maybe it's just something I'll never understand because for me I find people interested in my hair flattering.

[@johnysharki5694]

​@@sassycat6487fr I had a friend who had an amazing hair texture her hair was just so smooth, shiny and thick and a lot of people wanted to touch it to know how it feels but she never took offense to it

[@cwell510]

For non fluent Japanese speakers, it helps to be thick skinned and open minded when first encountering the local population. Being stationed for three years in Sasebo, Kyushu, it took me time and patience to learn about the culture and the language. Japanese people are very friendly and accommodating if you take the initiative to engage with them.

[@dariomladenovski6481]

stationed in Japan? oh yea Japan is still a US colony I forgot

[@siphiwemabuya]

Are you back? Take me back with you when you go back. Lol

[@cwell510]

@@dariomladenovski6481 Not quite 🤡

[@leahmadalyn]

I am definitely learning the culture BEFORE I visit

[@voxieart]

This approach I imagine would be the same for any culture in the world. Everybody can be very friendly, if you take the initiative to engage with them 💛

[@MusashiArisa]

Thank you for this! I’m Japanese and I grew up there. I am really glad you included the footage of girls talking about you or that lady touching your hair to prove the point because people who don’t speak Japanese language would def think those actions are racism. One thing to add: If I see someone in Yukata or Kimono on train I probably wouldn’t sit next to the person because I don’t want to mess up their kimono sleeve !

[@brendadickson9583]

Awww you are kind.

[@phoenix825185]

Did not think about that.... that's very sweet of you

[@APG-fu6gk]

Good point! As a foreigner I was not aware. Thank you. This is one of the best videos on the interpretation of Japanese culture that I have seen.

[@dannertech]

Love seeing your perspective thank you for this comment! this is like opening a new world for me!

[@LoyalLove3]

Aww I hope the creator sees your comment.

[@blackrosejinx5563]

“It was up to me to fix their behavior…. …I would call them bird poo” Get their asses 😭

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

🫡

[@daniellecartagenes168]

It was said so quick and subtly, I almost missed it. But the way I cackled when I heard it! 😂😂😂

[@MessagesFromAurora]

hahaha I was like, did I hear that right?? 😂😂

[@Jgjules]

Savage and funny

[@Jgjules]

I’m sorry the other teachers didn’t stand up for you 😔

[@gori0451]

I'm a Japanese living in US. I do get lots of attention when I go to a small town in northeast or south as they rarely see Japanese there. But I try not to take it personal and try to think they are just curious. I think that's just natural human behavior. Im glad to hear you are enjoying Japan. One big reason Japanese people staring at you is because you look gorgeous! Look forward to seeing more videos from you!!

[@jaxthewolf4572]

Excuse me if I myself stared at you, I think Japanese people are very good looking people. 😂

[@ash_nessa]

@@jaxthewolf4572 same whenever i see foreign people i cant help but stare

[@SkyBlue12.5.01]

I might do the same, as where I live, Japanese people rarely visit, so I am unsure as to if I've ever actually seen someone whose Japanese in real life before...

[@APG-fu6gk]

I am black born in Brooklyn NY visited a McDonald's in Vermont and the same thing happened! 😂😂😂

[@kuroe-chan5190]

They probably admire your beauty. I’m in Nc which is beginning of the south. We have a good number of Asian people that moved her but I don’t meet many born Japanese either and when I do and hear them speak in their language it is sop beautiful and awesome i love it. I’m black and love how big of a melting pot we are becoming. There are many Asian born Americans also and some don’t know their language well, so I love to hear bilingual think it’s amazing.

[@JimmyDiggs]

I visited Sasebo, Yokosuka, Numazu, and Tokyo while I was in the United States Navy. Just before we arrived in Japan, several white sailors on my ship (who in several months had never spoken a single word to me) felt it was their duty to inform that the Japanese people didn't like black people. This was a blatant racist lie. While getting to know these areas, it felt to me like I was being treated like a young black prince. In fact, my buddies and I found an area of Roppongi where the Japanese girls ONLY dated black men. At one point, our ship was caught by an unusually strong monsoon that lasted two months. My Japanese girlfriend moved me off of the ship and into her home overlooking the bay. Subsequently, I only have love for, and fond memories of, the people of Nihon.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

This! Exactly! I don't understand this! Before moving to Japan I was told how much asian people hate black people and how racist they are. In Japan, especially if you speak Japanese, you're pretty much treated like everyone else. Not necessarily put on a pedestal, although there are some instances, but also not treated as inferior. Taiwan also treated me very kindly. It really is a breath of fresh air, coming from a country where race is embedded in everything from our jokes to our media. I feel like I can just "be" here.

[@shottashabazz6721]

Never heard that about Japan being racist but China is a whole different level of racism and prejudice and it’s out in the open to.

[@Just_My_Reviews]

Typical for WP to hate on blks, ESPECIALLY when we go somewhere people admire us.

[@deamorebeaute2412]

They date you for you American Nationality. You have to be some type of slow to think that Asian people as a collective, aren't anti-black. It's black people like you who think that just because someone will procreate, date, or marry you that they aren't racist. Your white buddies understand the system of racism because their racial category created it. A lot of you black folk are naive and docile. Operating from a plantation mentality. Thinking that everyone who smiles at you is your friend. Which is exactly why your racial category is at the bottom of the world's social and economic ladder.

[@JimmyDiggs]

@@deamorebeaute2412 Oh my, was it something I said? Listen up slowness. In every Asian country I've visited, (Japan, Korea, Taiwan, the Philippines, Hong Kong, even Vietnam), there is a part of town were the women ONLY date black. You can't swing a dead cat without knocking over a dozen white boys, but they don't date them. There are Asian women who only date whites, but they go to THAT part of town. And it's not just African-American men they date. They also date African-Caribbean men, African-British men, and Continental African brothers. In fact, there used to be a code for it. Whenever you arrive (regardless of the country) you tell the taxi driver, "Take me to the jungle." He would know EXACTLY what you meant! Before long you'd find yourself surrounded by Black men and dozens of nightclubs that play ONLY our music ----- jazz, R&B, blues, funk, and now hip-hop ----- NO rock-n-roll, NO country-western, NO pop. It was called The Jungle because that's what WE called it. It was our code word for an area were we could relax and enjoy a taste of home, away from home. Every Asian nation is different. Just like every European nation, or every African nation. The Chinese are racist A.F. The Filipinos love us ---- and everyone else. Whites don't control the world. Some may think they do, some wish they did, but the African Diaspora is more powerful and more loved than you can imagine. Travel ---- see for yourself ----- and leave your plantation mentality luggage in the United Snakes.

[@a.m238]

日本人としては、単純に嬉しいですね。浴衣という日本のものを外国の方が着てくれてるのは。そして美人です。

[@rodrigodiazdevivar6250]

They have no honor! They only do it for selfish reasons, these people only want attention and money! あなたには名誉がありません！ 彼らは利己的な理由でこれを行うだけであり、これらの人々はただ注目とお金が欲しいだけです！

[@Meta9871]

I never understood what people meant by cultural appropriation. I live in eastern Europe, and seeing someone from the other side of the globe wear our traditional clothes would be cool, it would make me feel appreciated and understood, even.

[@klemowon]

I think a simple way of thinking of it usually comes down to how much respect the people of that culture are given outside of their clothes, their music, hair, food, etc. Appreciation is seeing the beauty of a culture and what the people of that culture have brought to the world. It shows admiration in a way that respects the boundaries of those people. Appropriation often happens against discriminated groups of people without considering context- ie using it as an ornament bc it’s pretty, or cool, without caring much for where it came from, why it’s practiced, or whether it’s appropriate or respectful to use (like using sacred religious icons for the aesthetics). Tldr- Appreciation shows love and respect for a culture, while appropriation disregards the people behind that culture.

[@qwandary]

Cultural appropriation is like what Christianity did when they took pagan symbols and holidays and merged them with Christianity while devaluing the traditions and hurting pagan individuals. They didn't appreciate what they took, the tried to morph it into something else while hurting or killing the people it belonged to. They made it difficult for them to practise their own culture while stealing it from them. Do you understand how that is different to a Christian sitting down with a Buddhist to celebrate a Buddhist holiday with them in appreciation of their culture? When someone wears a traditional Japanese outfit, it's appreciation. When someone wears a religious gown or hat because it's 'cute' while not knowing or caring about the significance it has and the disrespect it shows to that culture, that's appropriation.

[@nemesi55]

It loses its meaning when people use the term incorrectly. Appropriation is specifically using important or sacred cultural relics in a flippant or disrespectful way, or taking or wearing something of a culture outside your own and acting like you’re an authority on it when you’re actually ignorant. Like if some clueless American went around wearing a yukata backwards but went around acting like they’re an authority on all things Japanese just because they watch anime, THAT’S appropriation. It’s acting like you know better than the people the cultural stuff you’re using actually came from.

[@hypnoteapot]

​@@nemesi55 I wouldn't call it appropriation, just being a jackass. I don't think anyone would feel insulted by a poorly worn yukata, it's not a bad look for japanese society, it just makes the individual look like an idiot. To me appropriation is when a cultural element is used (or misused) by an outsider making money out of it and preventing the original "owners" to shine at the front scene and thrive. For instance, a troup of white dancers peforming some traditionnal native american dances ans touring around the US.

[@nemesi55]

@@hypnoteapotIt can definitely be both. Jackassery lends itself well to appropriation, I’d say. If you’re wearing a garment wrong it’s just being ignorant, but if you act like you know better when people from the culture try in good faith to correct you, I’d say that crosses the line into appropriation. Similar to your example. Around the area where I live the Hopi people stopped allowing outsiders to attend their sacred rituals decades ago. Back then, clueless (white) hippie kids would go and treat the dances of the kachinas it like it was a party. They’d interrupt the dance and act obnoxious and drink and basically act like it was all made just for them. And they’d also don the regalia and act like jackasses even though kachina costumes have a holy significance within the culture. It was self-centered and disrespectful behavior, so nowadays nobody from outside gets to attend unless they are a special friend of the tribe. But, just having an interest in a culture is a neutral thing on its own. It’s not as though liking the garments or wearing something that is commonly worn by normal people in a given culture is appropriation on its own, that’s where it’s crazy talk

[@HealingSunHouse]

There is love and hate everywhere. There is love and hate amongst ourselves too, we also have issues with colorism... I'm glad you're open about your experience

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I completely agree. It depends on, will you use that love or hate that you find to define the whole, or just accept that both are there? :) Happy New Year!

[@HealingSunHouse]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan yes! Happy New Year to you as well!

[@JesusSavesTheLostBrokenConfuse]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan yes its about our heart, will it judge others or continue to keep our ears listen and see who is for us and against us

[@rengurenge]

Most of times it's just curiousity. I grew up without seeing any other race but white, can't help myself to not look when I see somone different near me and when I traveled to other places far away from home I had peoples approaching me because I was taller and looked different than locals.

[@danifranc7011]

This was very accurate! I Lived in Japan! I loved it there! They mind their own business! But as you say underneath there are some prejudices , but they can't and dont express it. Dating is accurate also on who they approach. Well done! Girl how did you move around in those shoes lol

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

The shooeessss! They were painful. -_- hahahahah. But I have my own geta as well that I wear in the summer time when I'm too lazy to wear actual shoes. 😅 Thank you for your kind comment.

[@HCHSKaraoke]

loool i was looking at her shoes the whole time like i was about to offer her my seat

[@PhyliciaATL]

I would have broken my ankle on those stairs 🙃 😆

[@danifranc7011]

@@MKCamo520 did you even watch the video? She didn't get any bad reactions and even showed how they ignored her. Can you watch the video

[@danifranc7011]

@Alvin J. you all are so disrespectful. Yall didn't want the video. She understands the culture well , for the most part she said they don't pay any attention to her snd that she has positive experiences so what are yall going on about. Yall just love to argue with blackpeople

[@naco1609]

どの国のどんな肌の色の人でも日本の文化を楽しんでくれるのはとても嬉しいです;-) ネットではひどいことを言う人が少数いるかもしれませんが、大多数の人が好意的なので気にしないでくださいね:-) お着物とてもお似合いです♡ You are beautiful♡

[@puchokoffie8152]

😂

[@PenNin-t1h]

​@@puchokoffie8152 cool kid hope you Mama's proud of you

[@mikiyachi2]

So cute when she wanted to help fix your hair, she could have just as easily ignored the strand out of place, but she talked and helped 💕

[@CherokeeGeee]

I respect how you put this together and how you acknowledged your bad experiences but highlighted the fact that those are not your daily interactions ❤️

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you! :) I hope you enjoy the upcoming videos as well!

[@jethorenedukes1443]

Thank you for dropping 💎 of knowledge

[@movewithentertainment2389]

Love you Dear

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

@@movewithentertainment2389 😊 thank you

[@Kingofthepeople]

I'm black and proud and I love Japan especially Tokyo.❤🇯🇵🖤

[@skip031890]

No one cares. 🙄

[@Kingofthepeople]

@@skip031890 Don't be hating?

[@lifeis2171]

Your profil3 look like the ghetto

[@GlitterHippie2]

@@skip031890 yet, here you are, lol. Some people are hilarious. 😂

[@georgeappiah8314]

@@skip031890 YOU CARE THATS WHY YOU RESPONDED

[@kenitrader9762]

Honestly, you’ve left a positive impact on me about Japan. As a black person living in Germany, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate people minding their own bl****y business!😅

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

😂😂😂😂 I've heard many great things about Germany too though. Well......in Berlin. I heard the opposite about the countryside. 😅

[@maggiewanjogu2168]

Hie Keni. Do u live in Berlin?

[@siphiwemabuya]

I am coming to Germany!

[@LUMIMOONN]

As a black person living in germany, they don't really give a crap about you being black or not atleast where I'm from

[@darrylbrown8253]

Germany isnt bad for black people. I was pleasantly surprised how friendly they are towards black people especially with their past history.

[@mikiyachi2]

I remember renting and wearing a yukata in Japan for the first time and being really nervous (as I had read negative comments on KZbin) but in my experience, almost anyone who to about me/to me about it, were just happy that a foreigner was interested in Japanese culture & complimenting me - a very wholesome experience!

[@umadichristopherumadi]

Even in Nigeria when I see a white person in super market or along the road I sometimes stare even as a black person So sometimes it just my curiosity or amazement because it's not something I see everyday so I feel it's not always negative and even when they treat you differently "not every one is going to like you" It also happens between black to black, white to white you know 🙄 Tribe to tribe in a particular country if you get my point Just learn to let others people opinion not bother you and your going to happy with yourself xoxo

[@orwellmushaikwa2591]

I can imagine especially if they are walking around with a camera man in front of them lol.

[@peachycream]

Yeah I think sometimes our own paranoia fuels things. So you feel stared at you are you and can only talk for yourself. But if you interviewed everyone on the train others would say the same. But based on their paranoia....big nose, hair colour, height, weight etc

[@masehoart7569]

This simply means you were not brought up properly

[@libera7161]

Exactly 👍❤️

[@alovalentini3587]

Yeah. Go to Mexico and be Japanese. They all will call you Chino. They aren't racist just misinformed and surprised to see you there.

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

There are several channels of Black Americans living in Asia, specifically Japan. And everyone of the people Female or Male Black American feel safe and at peace. Enjoy Japan.

[@ieshjust16]

Right I agree and I would love to visit.

[@GoJojo-lv6zi]

She’s a black woman that feels safe somewhere. I’m happy for her. I hope that one day I find that peace of mind too.

[@safiab.]

it was so heartwarming to see all the people saying nice things about her!!

[@theboredprogrammer1114]

As a Filipina, the time where I stayed in Japan was okay-ish as I guess my face could totally blend in there. It would be more obvious that I am a foreigner and southeast asian when I talk to some locals (except for my husband and his family) with my still horrible Japanese. Sadly, colorism is a huge thing with some Japanese and some have bad prejudices against other Asian foreigners. If I see you randomly, I would be happy and if you seem to initiate a conversation, there's a feeling of relief to finally able to talk in English.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hey! Thank you for your comment. Yes, unfortunately I’ve seen prejudices from Japanese towards other asians, especially Filipinos in the education industry.

[@teshiarodriguez4756]

Filipinos are prejudice against black people too. Everyone is prejudice against black people.. I'm a black woman who's married to a Mexican. Racism is everywhere.

[@samumthembu]

@@Ghe608 I fully agree with you. We shouldn't`t make excuses for racism. Sometimes I notice that some foreigners excuse racism as a copping mechanism here, like being in denial of some sort in order to create a picture that feels more comfortable and would make sense for them. Besides that, there are so many factors at play in terms of the different experiences that black people get here.g skin tone, body side, hair texture, mannerism, country of origin, gender, etc most of which are things that are completely out of one`s control.

[@nekonoke]

@@Ghe608 It is "rude" to touch another person's hair. If I were in the vicinity, I would make them stop. However, I don't think it is "due to racism". What they touch is usually "hair" and not "body" such as "shoulders". Perhaps, to the Japanese who try to touch (I am Japanese, too), Afro-hair or her hair in this video looked like decorated "belongings", not "physical bodies". Maybe they thought it was armor, not skin, that they could touch. Of course, that does not mean it is rude to touch it casually. But for them, it was an expression of "friendliness". That is not the same as "ill will" as racism.

[@cfoster6804]

@@nekonoke Armor? Oh come on. Japanese know what locs are. There are enough young people there with them for them to know by now. You are making excuses as well.

[@jirenthegray]

Tokyo is different than Osaka. Osaka is WAY more friendly than people in Tokyo. I would only say that what you've presented would be an accurate perception of how they would treat you in Tokyo. It doesn't represent the whole country of Japan. It's a different ballgame in how they treat blacks in Osaka. I LOVE it out here! While it's true that Japan have some discriminations. It's not racism. They don't look at black people with full of hate. There is no systemic racism or governmental power to stop black foreigners (or foreigners in general) from moving up. If anything they are curious and shy. Which explains why they stare. They truly want to speak to you but they are scared to speak English. Hence why it's easy to break the ice by speaking Japanese. And if they do speak English, allow them to speak English to you. Be encouraging to their level of English to keep them practicing. When it comes to Osaka, the people are more soulful and love to laugh. You can let loose a little bit without feeling like you're out of place. If you're black, especially from the US, I encourage you to visit Osaka first before you visit Tokyo. -- I speak as an African-American man who currently lives in Japan and is married to a Japanese woman. 🙂

[@jungunning5392]

I also walked downtown Tokyo for five hours. I stayed their for two days bcuz my girl wanted me to get use to traveling alone in Japan. She taught me how to read a write Japanese. While in Japan, I stayed in Nara. We hung out in Osaka a lot. We visited Kyoto and Kobe. The only racism I encountered was in Nara from people from Los Angeles.

[@kathleenking47]

Kemushi Chan, is a BW who speaks japanese..on KZbin However, IMO she looks half japanese and speaks it Her dad looks half, and she looks like him

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Yes! This. People in Tokyo are generally colder...but as you saw in the video, the people that interacted with me were friendly, right? :)

[@TVwriter23]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan I've noticed this with cities with double digit populations.

[@africanglobalnomad]

@@TVwriter23 that 😂

[@esgiegee9576]

I am Filipino. I am also discriminated in some parts of the world. I feel bad when that happens. I guess- everyone- white black blue or yellow, experience discrimination whether u r in ur own country or outside. We can’t control the outside world and their reaction to our behavior, culture or beliefs. We can only control our own reaction, behavior and stuff. Great video u have there.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I completely agree. I think it’s ok if people don’t like me, as long as they just leave me alone :)

[@janetdesmith8125]

You are so right. I am white and have been turned away from a black resteraunt. I went to a Bosnian Resteraunt and was discouraged from ever returning.

[@esgiegee9576]

@@janetdesmith8125 I’m sorry to hear about that. Everyone is really experiencing discrimination in one point of our life. What I do is I don’t go to those places - to skip all the dramas. I can’t do anything if other people can’t accept my culture or not. I’ll go to places where I feel safe and secured.

[@janetdesmith8125]

@@esgiegee9576 Thank you 😊 💓

[@ttdanimations1231]

@@janetdesmith8125 black restaurant? where would you find something like that

[@sheikahchick9861]

I’ve learned so much about cultural (mental) biases in my Japanese journey. Though something might be interpreted as racist in your own country, it could be far from it in another, where the person doesn’t actually mean harm. This is why it’s important to be educated culturally instead of people jumping to conclusions based on their own culture. Btw you look STUNNING.

[@bettyveronica9880]

I’m a white American woman, and your videos popped into my feed. This was very interesting and informative! This reminds me of one of my favorite field assignments in sociology which was observing how people reacted to others in different environments, situations, etc. Very cool! I also agree with them that you’re beautiful and looked cute in the kimono.😊💜🌎

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hello ☺️ Thank you for your comment. :)

[@2mac_mini952]

Ok but what does you being white add into your comment?

[@DS___]

I absolutely love how you added context so the viewers are not left with just perception... this makes a world of difference. Your honesty about your experiences both good and bad and your correct framing of those events is so appreciated. I stumbled across this video and I'm so glad I did

[@BrooklynPhenixRising]

I'm so glad you pointed out the difference between "racism" and "prejudice" they are completely different and should be dealt with differently as well. Thank you for your video very informative 😊

[@michelleobrien6996]

L Smith Isn't racism a subset of prejudice? It is prejudice based on race, rather than prejudice based on another characteristic.

[@BrynhurstSixOwe]

You shuck and jive for massa too boy?

[@emerald3232]

Dealt with differently I hope you mean by severity, because both shouldn't be tolerated.

[@BrooklynPhenixRising]

@@emerald3232 Again, both should be "Dealt" with but one is ignorance and sometimes can be reasoned with.... I did say Sometimes! The other, well I match energy so it is what it is!

[@saniharuo]

@@michelleobrien6996 no can prejudice can be with anything, but racism is societal and systemic oppression, prejudice bred into government laws and rulings and that can and will dictate daily life every day for those in the oppressed classes. Prejudice can be daily, such as school bullying for a half person in Japan, but racism is a system taking someone else's race and actively making it difficult for them to succeed, such as if Japan made a law saying "all people of this specific race can't do this because of this" or something.

[@andyhu7205]

During my time in Japan, I only had one kinda strange experience. While I was riding bikes with my host family, we ended up in a rural area. Riding near rice paddies, you have to line up single file. There were 2 girls riding toward us, so I lined up in front of my host siblings. The girl in front was staring at me very hard (understandably, in the countryside there aren’t many foreigners, especially a black person). When we passed, I said hello, and she was so shocked she accidentally hit me with her bike (her bike had the tassels on the handlebars, but they had been cut off, leaving a sharp zip tie sticking out) and left a large cut on the back of my left hand. I shrieked, because it hurt, and I scared the second girl so badly she fell off her bike into the water! We got off our bikes to help her, and everything was chill again. I now laugh at this experience a decade later.

[@MiyaMam948]

Did the girl apologize?

[@andyhu7205]

@@MiyaMam948 No, surprisingly! She just kept staring with her mouth open, but her sister apologized for her when we helped her up 😂

[@pinokosthewife]

Oh, OUCH, that sounds painful! I'm glad you can laugh at it now, but owww, your poor hand! Girl was so hocked, fff.

[@Cutthecamerasdeadass1899]

Strange? That's a disgusting experience

[@andyhu7205]

@@Cutthecamerasdeadass1899 I think it’s funny in retrospect

[@dannydangar34]

I was married to a Japanese man and lived in Japan it was great he was great the culture is amazing and my grandmother is Chinese so I love all cultures, learning is how we grow.

[@hanazuki333]

What went wrong...

[@dannydangar34]

@Hana Zuki we were on different paths but still really good friends

[@samasthetic]

I'm black, and I did wear a kimono a few times in the US because I took Japanese tea ceremony (and kimono is required!), and I was involved in the Japanese Student Association. I got some looks, but I did not care! In the association, I had to tie obi for female Japanese students because they didn't know how. They were very appreciative. My Japanese friends have always been sweet and respectful. I even met some sweet Japanese girls on an online fashion game--one who is always quick to update me on new kimono releases! Nonetheless, this was a great video, and you really inspired me to jump back into my Japanese studies. ☺️ Best wishes in Japan!!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Those sound like such great experiences. :) Yes, I've met many Japanese people that don't know how to properly wear kimono too. I love people like you that are curious about other cultures enough to wear what they wear, do what they do, and eat what they eat. It brings us closer as humans, don't you think? :)

[@doorressanderson1370]

Lol what's the name of the online fashion game, please?

[@plumpbird.]

what is the game

[@madamadadane7989]

Beautiful mindset. Accepting and embracing oneself as other instead of being frustrated is a journey and enlightenment. Where I live, I know I don't fit in and I don't find a point to try to anymore. I find a lot of good people along the way. Lovely video

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hey, thank you! Yea, at some point it just gets tiring trying to get people to understand you. Thank you for your comment!

[@dize.nozaki]

I am Brazilian-Japanese. I loved your video! The way you speak shows wisdom and respect. You really know about the Japanese thinking. In fact, the way you speak and walk have a Japanese way of being!!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 Hugs from Brazil!!!!!!!!

[@blvndr]

Dude are you Jetstream Sam???

[@nodonchumi]

Honestly thank you! This video was enlightening and honestly soothed some of the fears I’ve had about being a dark skinned woman with locs. I’m fairly extroverted but anxiety is debilitating so seeing you walk around in a yukata unbothered is honestly heart warming 💗 だから物語を変えてくれてありがとう!

[@MichelMawon4982]

I visited Japan in 2019 and found the same to be true, people just mostly left you alone and didn't stare. I agree, not knowing the language can make you assume the worst if you're expecting more of the same. I had a great experience.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Exactly! Another common story I’ve heard is of Black people thinking Japanese people are talking about them on the train because they heard the Japanese person say “Burakku”. So they give the Japanese person a dirty look. I can’t judge because I’m never in those situations, but burakku does not refer to Black people in Japanese. It often refers to an exploitative company, or some entity that is bad. 😅 This isn’t to say that Japanese people are or are not racist, just that assuming can make things worse.

[@jovelhamilton601]

I miss sasebo Japan. Fukuoka city 😀😀😀😀😀 they are so friendly. I use to go hoop wit some Japanese dudes and bruh so much fun. Yes I was in the military. But when Xmas comes around japanese folks do a adopt a soldier for holidays. And they are very loving and respectable people.

[@0h3rica80]

I hope this goes viral, I see so many videos like this and the comments are botched with negativity! I love how you cleared the questions with your experience and explained culture and society.

[@cassandraharada3331]

Hi, I've been here for about 20 years and I am a white woman so I won't even pretend to understand your experience. However, It sounds like you've handled your "bad experiences" so gracefully. That's very impressive (especially when the children called you poop, that would be really hard to deal with) I love it when people think I don't understand Japanese and talk nonsense... I always make eye contact and pretend like I was part of the conversation to begin with!. I've done my best here, and I really love my life in this country. I'm glad you seem to be rubbing along too.

[@edwinpillay1409]

She's used to being called the (n)word in America that's why she handled it so well as you put it.

[@cassandraharada3331]

@@edwinpillay1409 she didn’t say that explicitly, but coming from america myself, I can remember the number of times I’ve heard other people use that word and kind of grasp the level of thick skin a person of colour would have to build up in order to survive. It’s tough, as people here don’t understand that or the hurt some people have survived and they just make comments and observations based on what they see without intent to hurt. I used to have old women grab any bit of loose skin I have on my body and make comment on how fat I am, despite how hurtful it might be. I also have people constantly comment on how much I “look like a man”. As “polite” as japan is, sometimes the social filter is missing here! So as I said, I cannot imagine what a person of colour might go through, especially if they’re coming from america.

[@pduffy421]

@@edwinpillay1409 Is that as bad as what the 19,000+ white women experience when they are raped by black men in the USA? Or the 570,000 white that are violently attacked by blacks in the USA? I think you'll find that whites experience far worse and far more racism that blacks ever have.

[@thumpercomet3856]

I'm learning Japanese and that brief description of High/Low-context languages has helped me so much get my head around some of the concepts.

[@yuii9698]

やっぱり日本人として日本に興味を持ってくれているだけで嬉しい！

[@cakebakebetty]

do you have any tips to share to a foreigner about visiting Japan? i want to be respectful to everyone!

[@yuii9698]

@@cakebakebetty Just have fun!! As long as you have the heart willing to respect, People will know that!! If some people, especially in countryside, looked like they're judging you, they're probably just curious, cuz I was like that younger lol. Once you say konnichiwa, they'll be amazed lolol. and Many things are different from any other country and confusing, so just ask people!! Most of people loveeee to help others, though they don't really look open, Japan has such a caring culture. BUT one thing, not many people speak English. You should prob get google translate app or smt, so you wont be a weird foreigner talking shit they don't understand and making them panic hahahaha

[@cakebakebetty]

@@yuii9698 thank you! and yes i have been studying japanese for a couple of months now but still havent gotten the hang of it quite yet TuT im working on it and i hope when i get my ticket ill be able to communicate a little bit!

[@yuii9698]

@@cakebakebetty damn, hope you'll like japan, wish you the best trip!! where are you from btw

[@cakebakebetty]

@@yuii9698 im from the US! :)

[@JessicaHicks]

This was such an informative video. Thank you for taking the time to present it to us.

[@tehkuwen5222]

Lol hearing you call those kids bird poop in retaliation was hilarious to me, your narration is calm and the aesthetics were beautiful, I love it

[@bbyskittles91]

I must be emotional today because this video made me tear up so many times. You are so well spoken.

[@courtneyjames5495]

I went to Japan for the first time last month. Not only am I a black girl who had blue box braids at the time, but I have a wheelchair that I use to help me get around because I have a disability. So I’m used to being stared at, even in the US, because of the chair. It’s been happening my whole life, so honestly when people stare at me sometimes I don’t even notice unless they’re making a very obvious. Because I’m so used to just tuning it out. When I was in Japan, I noticed there were a lot more people who directly stared at me instead of doing that thing where someone looks at you, and they kinda look away, and then they look at you again. But even though I got stared at, sometimes, most people weren’t staring at me. And only one person touched my hair. But it was this old lady at a kimono shop in Asakusa. And she didn’t just come up to me and randomly touch my hair. I was talking to her. I also know she didn’t mean anything by it. I’m also positive that I got a lot less stares because I was in Tokyo, where they are more used to foreigners. I’m not sure how it would be if I was somewhere else in Japan where they’re not used to seeing as many foreigners. Overall, I felt fine. I felt a lot safer there than I do in America most days. Many people gave me compliments on my hair. I also think it helps that I speak Japanese. I’m not super fluent, but if I have a bachelors degree in Japanese language, and I’m pretty good. Most people were perfectly nice to me and very helpful. I never felt that I was in danger or that I was being harshly judged. I had a nice time. People also went out of their way to bring me things because I wasn’t always able to get into the stores with my wheelchair… and even with all the ADA laws, they don’t even do stuff like that in America most of the time.

[@user-ld2qx5yw3h]

Personally, I think it is rude when people look but try to act like they aren't looking like you're taboo or something. When people simply look at you, they probably find you unique, interesting, perhaps beautiful, and worth looking at. :)

[@SpiffyPenguin]

Aaah another black girl who likes different colored boxbraids! I definitely think that while I was in Japan, I got stared at more for non natural haircolor while being black vs just being black lol. Although when I went to my school in a more remote area, I got a lot of the not so great reactions to seeing a black person- but I also got a lot of kind, helpful people coming my way too. Like any other country, there are good and bad folks. But I'm glad you got to see a lot more good, it's nice that people were so helpful! 💜

[@WizardOfWor]

I love to live in Japan to get away from the craziness that's out here in the US. And I happen to also be black.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

😅 Yea...I know the media blows things up, but what I've been seeing about the US recently doesn't necessarily make me want to return any time soon. But! I still love my country! Hope you can come here soon. :)

[@WizardOfWor]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan Thank you! I sure wish that I had a lot of money to move there & get a citizenship or to even travel to there (though it's probably harder as I'm 40).

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

@@WizardOfWor "Hard" is a figment of your imaginationl YOU CAN DO IT! Seriously! You can! I first came to Japan as a volunteer and lived here for free for 4 months. I met other middle aged people who were doing the same. :) You can seriously do it if you release the idea of what a 40-year old person is supposed to do or how they're supposed to be. :) I believe in you!

[@WizardOfWor]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan Thanks! It's the encouragement that I need!

[@k.ferguson9385]

Where she is ppl seem to know what manners is They know how to mind their business

[@cruzianfibergeek]

I'm glad I watched this video. It's a lesson not to make assumptions when interacting with other cultures.

[@AudaciouslyMe]

I travelled Central America this past summer, and had a few similar experiences. Honestly, it did get really overwhelming, but I was not living there and I just had to endure for 5 - 7 days. Touching my hair, attempting to feel my skin, staring at me, asking me to take pictures. The upside is i never felt unsafe or in danger at all. It takes alot of patience and confidence. Kudos to you, and Bless your soul!!

[@yourcousinduchessrowena]

What country? Dominican Republic???

[@AudaciouslyMe]

@@yourcousinduchessrowena No, El Salvador & Guatemala

[@ملكة-س6ظ]

That's very odd bc, there's a lot of afro indigenous, and afro meztizo ancestry in El Salvador. I'm sorry that happened to you.

[@AudaciouslyMe]

@@ملكة-س6ظ i appreciate your comment, but is there really? Where are they?? I travelled a major part of the country and did not see anyone even close to darker skin!

[@ملكة-س6ظ]

@@AudaciouslyMe You're welcome! 😊San Vicente, Zacatecoluca, chinameca, San Salvador & Ahuachapan have significant afro Salvadoran population. And, to have dark skin doesn't make you necessarily black. I have many ppl in my family who are dark skin but, aren't black.

[@dancingcorpses5750]

Just subscribed to your channel! I'm a Polish girl interested in Japanese culture and I really love how objective and positive you were in this video. It was a really nice surprise how kind Japanese people were to you, I honestly didn't expect it when I clicked on your video. I feel like a lot of people (especially Americans) are very sensitive when it comes to the topic of race and discrimination to the point they can find it almost anywhere (even in the way someone looked at you). I kinda understand it because of how horribly black people have been treated for hundreds of years in the US and not only there. It's especially easy to misunderstand the context when you're in an another country with a different culture and language. I hope I get to visit Japan one day :)

[@randomcontent853]

Please Google the naning incident it's a very important part of Japan history

[@meruk8682]

I'm Japanese. Your camera focused on the empty seat next to you on the train, as if to imply that the woman standing didn’t want to sit next to you, preferring to stand. I can only speak for myself but in a similar case where I’d have to squeeze myself in an open seat, I would always choose to stand. Several reasons for this. 1. I don’t want to sit on your pretty Yukata 2. I want to respect your space, and squeezing myself in that tiny space would invade your comfort 3. It’s just polite to stand if I’m physically capable, in case someone else who REALLY needs to sit arrives (eg pregnant woman, elderly, disabled, etc) I think this type of 遠慮(えんりょ　others-first) thinking is more common in Japanese people than you think. I wouldn’t necessarily think that the lady avoided sitting next to you, although I understand how someone can certainly think that way 😊

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hi! Thanks for your comment! I have heard this before from other Japanese people, but I was implying something that many foreigners who live in Japan experience-the “gaijin seat”. In this video, I don’t think it was happening, but was implying it for the situations in which it does. Many times, the train can be very crowded but the seat near me or for many other foreigners, Japanese people won’t sit down next to us. However, if a Japanese person gets off the train, one of the standing people will rush over to sit in that empty seat. 🫠 For me personally, it does depend on the train line and time of day, but it still happens…

[@Will2getfit]

Amazing video. I agree that a mixture of language barriers and people being defensive creates more issues when there’s prolly not any. People need to be willing to put themselves out there if they expect or desire new friendships especially as a foreigner in a new place. (I think this is common in most countries)

[@JadedeaJade]

I lived in Japan for 2 years. I've consciously and subconsciously adopted some of their practices. They welcomed me, I felt like I was finally home, and just never learned my own language. When I came back to America, I had to adjust back to my actual "country of origin." Never felt or saw any prejudice, just, oh there's a Black chick over there, and since I do have a big butt, probably got some stares too lmao.

[@JadedeaJade]

Also, my cat that I got from Japan, seemed to hear familiar sounds, and she came down heheheheh. She misses Japan too.😊💗😊

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Oh!!! I completely understand this. Going back to the US, the reverse culture shock is strong, right?! I love my life here. :)

[@okthen5566]

The men welcomed you alright

[@JadedeaJade]

@@okthen5566 Yes, very quietly, without interaction, as if I wasn't there.🤷🏾‍♀️ Japanese men did not approach, flirt or shower any interest towards me. As far as I was concerned, they saw me as a grandma walking through.

[@okthen5566]

They're just racist

[@afrinaut3094]

As an African-American I think a lot of this has to do with the fact that Japan was not a nation that was built on anti-African racism/enslavement like Brazil, Cuba, the United States of America, Colombia, Venezuela, Haiti, etc etc. etc. Like K-pop a lot of Japanese Pop culture was founded by a tone of influence from African-American founded music/culture. Edit: with that said although (just using AfricanAmericans as an example) have shared-experiences, we are individuals with variety in our lives. Some Africa-Americans have had bad experiences in Japan, so I’m not trying to discredit their experiences. Also. Japan may not have used large scale African-enslaved labor, but they do have a history of colorism against darker-skinned Asians, like other Asian nations (not great when Africans are a dark skin race of people). Combine that with the Afriphobic stereotypes found in European & Western nations, that Japan is exposed to via their close historic ties with said “white” nations like the Portugal, ex-colonies like the US, & Brazil etc. And the sometimes gross representations of African descent people in Japanese anime, some ganguro, milf, & gyaru designs, manga, (sometimes live action tv) & hentai begin to make sense. Lookin at you The Promised Never Land, YuGiOh, Dragon Ball, & Terraformars etc. Japan & most of the Asian continent has a relatively positive relationship with Europeans/Whiteness at least when compared to Africans & Indigenous Americans relations with white people. The entirety of the Asian continent wasn’t colonized. Japanese ambassadors we’re invited to the US in 1860, though white civilians sometimes referred to them as “colored heathens” (& the later Chinese exclusion act & interment of Japanese Americans). Race based slavery of AfricanAmericans (including Africans & Afri-Caribbeans peoples) wasn’t legally abolished in the US until 1965, news of freedom, spread slowly. And technically peonage slavery of AfricanAmericans was continuing in the US till 1963, & all the other demonic policies afterwards: Redlining, the WOD, & ForProfitPrisons, etc (live-science)!

[@bennieparker4143]

Clown u haven’t been there , ur assuming . That’s a racist place mainland and Okinawa

[@ryanekana2042]

It's not that deep

[@captainwartburger2571]

@@ryanekana2042 it is though. Thanks 😊

[@onyekachukwumukwumereije799]

@@JustinJ you calling him a clown but look at yourself. 😂

[@MsWander2222]

Wait until you hear what the Japanese were doing in the DRC in the 1980s. 🥲

[@JruGambino]

I want to go back so badly! I was treated very kindly, and I felt safe in a way I never have at home.

[@neenab9143]

I really enjoyed this video. I love how you showed the different perspectives. Especially the one where the lady touched your hair cuz as a black woman my first thought was “oh no she didn’t! BOUNDARIES!!” But then you showed later that she was letting you know it was hanging out and if you wanted her to fix it. And I definitely would have thought those girls was talking about me. It just made me aware to not be so presumptuous

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much for watching. I’m glad you liked the video ☺️

[@FineNaturalHairROCKS]

This video was soooo GOOD! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us 🥰

[@Deviljho5]

Gotta give you credit for walking around Tokyo wearing traditional Japanese wear! Hopefully your feet wasn’t aching after this video!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

🥲 You have no idea, the pain. 😭

[@Deviljho5]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan 🤣

[@africanglobalnomad]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan you held your own with your head held high and walking daintily. You killed it young lady! So proud of you 👏🏾

[@musaeugeniengwangfu4823]

Each time she walks I feel she is literally tiptoeing almost as if she doesn't want to walk atall😂

[@ae5664]

my thoughts exactly for the whole video!

[@jandelhandeler]

I love how philosophical and empathetic you are about those who react to you. I have lived in places where I am very unusual looking and have experienced some very intense reactions but that is just humans being humans and the vast vast majority of people are simply curious and polite.

[@BaybAzzon]

I visited Japan for 3 weeks. The 1st night I was on the way to my airbnb. I had two suitcases and I was struggling. This man and his girlfriend were walking by. He gave his girlfriend the bags he had in his hand and took my suitcases from me, and help me get to my airbnb. And then they continued on because they lived a little bit further up. Oh my God I felt like he came to rescue me. Before that on the train before I got off on my stop to get to my airbnb, this older gentleman offered to help me get to my destination. Because I wasn't sure of where exactly I was supposed to get off. So I've had amazing experiences in japan. But I was only there for 3 weeks like I said

[@BaybAzzon]

@@Ikamcmorris I am darker than the girl in the vid.... And very obviously black features

[@JonBlack413]

@@JustinJ😂😂😂

[@GODESE]

That’s so awesome

[@Justsomebodyelse235]

@@JustinJ Stop being an uncultured fool.

[@NataliaMarquesa]

Everyone will be different. Not everyone will be nice or bad. Every experience is different. It's nice that you came across some decent people. Don't listen to the ones that want to be racist. They never been there they can't talk.

[@oliviahope3728]

I’m sure they respect you so much for learning their language! Not many foreigners do that! And yes, if you don’t speak the language it’s easy to think they are laughing at you or talking negatively about you.

[@ArtSeeFriend]

Thank You for sharing this video! I’m black and have never been or lived outside of the USA. However, you sharing your experience makes me feel as if I’m actually there. My father was in the Air Force and he stayed in Okinawa Japan in the 1970’s. I feel that, If we love ourselves first others will gravitate to our good energy/vibration! ❤🙏🏽

[@CP-gq7en]

Just curious, how comes you have never travelled?

[@ArtSeeFriend]

@@CP-gq7en Financials Don’t allow! Travel isn’t free!

[@shimmerandshineee]

Offtopic, but I love your Connie pfp from Steven Universe!

[@sheeba8334]

@@CP-gq7en my question exactly... being born .. raised..and living in Kenya East part of Africa... just a regular lady hustling here and there but I have been able to traveled to different parts of the world despite my low income...not forgetting how difficult it is to get a visa coming from this part of the world ...I have been able to travel to few countries and counting.... Like Dubai.. China.. Poland..Ghana.. Liberia.. Sierra Leone.. Ethiopia... Rwanda.. Uganda.. South Africa to name but a few..... no excuse regardless where you come from...rise up and try !!!

[@Yara0313]

@@shimmerandshineee Its not rlly off topic

[@josepha9184]

I’m Mexican and went too Japan Hella respect because some of them too also love Mexican culture ❤ Much Love Japan We have pass history

[@glaubertbarros]

the 3 japanese women complimenting you without knowing you could understand was the most wholesome thing I have seen this year so far

[@TBean472]

Great video, continue being a role model to other black women here in the United States. This video has changed my perception on traveling 🙌🏾❤️

[@switch689]

I love that you are exploring and studying other culture. You are a very well rounded, respectful, considerate person. A lot of people live in their own bubble and they judge and even hurt people that are different. So naive or ignorant and don't care at all!

[@itsladykit]

Lived in Okinawa for 3 years. Had some of the same experiences as you. Lots of “かわいいね” 😂😂😂 It’s like you said, understanding the context and culture to separate “racism” from curiosity, admiration or astonishment. 100% would return to live in Japan.

[@timbattle4035]

You are pretty. Okinawa is beautiful too! 😘 It's good to live in a space where you can feel confident enough express yourself. Enjoy Tokyo lil mama. 🙏🏽

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you for your kind comment. :) I love Okinawa btw.

[@dreamoutloud2629]

What a wholesome a beautiful perspective on life and the human experience you share here. I dig your content and style!

[@camerontrickey6057]

Being stared at doesn't necessarily mean thats a bad thing, If something stands out usually you'd look and ponder.. But that doesn't mean they're criticising you.. But it's definitely nice to know that people in Japan are quite relaxed with all this ❤

[@lifewithyana2924]

Love to see this as a Black girl who would love to visit Japan one day. I love how the majority seem to mind their business and they just keep going. It's sad that I do have to point that out ( as it should be that way in general ) but, it's reality. Either way, I'm happy to see your experience in Japan, and I will visit one day for sure.

[@ieshjust16]

Chinese are the racist ones not Japanese

[@musicstar617]

What an excellent video! You deserve an award! Well done ❤️

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥰 That’s a very high compliment. 😊 thank you

[@jimmieuajack007]

Wow!!! I just stumbled across your video and I have to say that I admire your ability to leave your comfort zone and go to a totally different place and culture and be so open to learn of their ways!!! It takes great bravado to do that!!!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@gheechiedan9299]

That outfit is STUNNING! 🤩👍🏾

[@gabbyyates9351]

The woman that wanted to fix your hair for you is so sweet that just made my day!!

[@rashida7777]

This was so well done. I am sure your other vids are of like quality. Thanks!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hey! Thank you so much! :) I'm very glad you liked it.

[@dellascott163]

I think that the only reason you're not approached so readily is because Japanese guys don't want to contend with their parents. It's not that they won't date AA women, they're just afraid to...also probably because they're afraid of rejection because you're the prettiest thing around and you don't have to lower your standards for anyone.

[@FaithAndLoveFaithAndLove]

Honestly I was thinking the same thing pertaining to their parents.

[@thereallaminen]

Holy shit racist hahah

[@SadeWithTheReceipts]

Yes my ex husband is Japanese and they completely disowned him once we married and had a child together.

[@LoyaltyQueen]

@@JustinJ nobody wants to listen lmaoooo

[@Dankslyfe]

@@SadeWithTheReceipts that's so sad, I'm sorry they did that to you guys 🤎

[@Atraxrobust]

Totally agree. Im a german guy and I‘m married to a japanese woman. I really learned a lot from her. I’m everytime impressed how respectful she treats other human beings and I really love watching this!

[@LooneyBlade113]

"It was up to me to fix their behavior..... I called them bird poop" had me dying 😂

[@AG-catlady]

This made me want to cry (tears of joy). Very moving and beautiful 😍 .

[@ssmythe61]

You Go Girl!!! Stand Tall and Proud!! Show em how we do! ❤ I’m so Proud of you!! ❤

[@BlueStormBuG]

Thanks!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate this! :)

[@mrwilliams5480]

I enjoyed your video and admire your courage to try something new and different. I think it’s cool that you decided to go to another country and immerse yourself into their culture. Also, your breakdown of the experiences you had recording the video and your experiences in general were explained very well. Your genuineness was felt. All the best to you!

[@veronicastewart4722]

I lived in Japan for 10 yrs I studied Japanese language and culture I started in Niigata and moved to Yokohama. I developed more character and meaning in my life . I remember when I started reading quotes from Bushido, and it was amazing experience. I traveled throughout Japan from Tokyo to Kobe. Japanese have developed self discipline which part of honor. After , I left Japan and moved to Bangkok. What a big difference Bangkok was untraditional and traditional from partying in Pattaya, Kwang, other cities. Thailand was more laid back

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you for sharing your experience :)

[@juliemesser2053]

I hope you're happy in Japan. I'm so sorry that you got hated over in the US and those kids in Japan. It breaks my heart to hear you go through that. Honestly for me It doesn't matter where you go,or where you live they be problems like this. No country is perfect all you got to is swallow all your pride and have respect for others.❤😊😇

[@richardmildenhall9420]

My students learning Japanese will find this video very interesting and instructive. Thank you for sharing this!

[@vivalavienails]

My daughter plans to move to Korea and I know it's not the same as Tokyo, but watching your video really set in how important it is to learn the language. My daughter has been learning the language and has a Korean tutor and this will help with the feelings of discomfort when you think someone is talking about you or laughing at you. Also how important it is to call out a person that is being nasty just to correct them and their misconceptions. Loved this video ❤️

[@IMarie-xs5dg]

This video answered so many questions I have had. I always wondered how we are perceived there. Are they afraid of us? Do they treat us the same? Do the men like us? You answered everything perfectly! My favorite part was when the young ladies were walking on the street, they were excited and happy and called you a Kawaii ❤️ Please do more of these this is great!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I’m glad you liked the video. I personally think Black women have an advantage because Japanese people are even less familiar with us compared to white/black men.

[@mamembissinediop4251]

Hello ! My daughter is 10 and she is dreaming about living in Japan. She wants to become a mangaka. I will tell her about your channel, sure she will learn a lot from you 😉 You are very well articulated and I like your positivity. You are right no need to be in Japan to hear or experience racism.

[@佐藤田中-s3o]

外国人の漫画家は少しずつ増えており、作画、原作どちらでも実績はあります。作品が素晴らしく、編集者と会議ができる日本語力ならおそらく誰にでもチャンスはありあます。漫画市場は今後まだ増えていくでしょう。外国人のみの雑誌などもでるかもしれませんね

[@JoonieJuice]

I love that u called the children bird poo 😂 shame on the other teachers for not stepping up. Very lovely video and thank u for sharing this with us.

[@XxEmoGothOutcastxX]

It's funny cause bird poop is white

[@Michael45592]

​@@XxEmoGothOutcastxXlmao

[@Cutthecamerasdeadass1899]

It's dumb bc bird shit is white and pale...Shows how much they know...

[@teanoel1650]

my name is tea and my class always called me ocha! hehe this was such a comfort, and amazing to see your experience. Thank you so much for sharing, I appreciate this so much. I have been considering moving there (in a bold dream), and my heart was recently broken, so even taking a trip and knowing these things are so incredibly helpful. Thank you for sharing 🖤

[@w05apple22]

Wow this girl has it together and is able to look at positives and negatives and create a great respect life for herself! I am impressed!