I Got Stopped 5 Times! | Is THIS Appropriation? | They Don't Know I Speak Japanese

Can foreigners wear kimono in Japan?
0:00 Intro
1:34 How to Rent a Kimono in Japan
2:55 What Happens When a Black Girl Goes to a Japanese Hair Stylist
4:15 Called Out for Cultural Appropriation in Japan
5:50 Japanese React to my Kimono (How would you feel in these situations?)
7:00 They Don't Know I Speak Japanese...
9:09 Can Foreigners Were Kimonos? (Askin Japanese)
10:15 Fun with Japanese Kids
😂 So many people were talking about me, and they didn't realize I spoke Japanese! I guess I could have also added, "What Japanese Guys Think of Black Girls in the title too, huh 🤔...considering some of the responses in the video.
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[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

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[@su2426]

貴女には明るい色の着物が良く似合います😊

[@Butterballdoll]

You are soooo humble…. It sounds amazing and I love how sweet you are! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Raderade1-pt3om]

Cultural appropriation is western concept that hardly anyone cares about in Asia at least in my country, people rather feel proud when others participate in our culture. We appropriate whatever we want here and not care about appropriation as it causes divisions and double standards. Western countries are so diverse yet people there tends to rather restrict esvhother from cultural exchange then what's the point of multiculturalism if u can't participate, embrace n enjoy eachother culture..

[@autisticusmaximus9562]

@@Raderade1-pt3omit’s mainly black Americans who cry cultural appropriation. We wuz kangz n sheeit

[@Blueclouds161]

It’s not cultural appropriation. It’s cultural appreciation.

[@Windragon100]

Agreed, I feel like anyone that isn't disgracing the kimono or to expand to lens to the culture(s). It's fine in my book and I appreciation when people embrace the views/lifestyles of other cultures besides their own. And sometimes with the view/lifestyle could blossom into better understanding of how one another lives.

[@Certified_Potat0]

Oli London said that same quote 💀😊

[@curisu3968]

guter kommentar bruder, eligella auf die 1

[@Myjonestreaction]

same thing...

[@czcdzcxtoe]

@@princessprincess7708dutch braids don’t have an origin on african tribes, these were the braids the viking women used

[@GizmoDeTrini]

I find it so interesting that it’s always people who AREN’T from that country, that want to scream appropriation on their behalf. But then the locals are all like “oh we don’t mind! We love you experiencing our culture!” 😂😂

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Yup! I think people are just trying to find new ways on hating on other people by calling them appropriators, racist, sexist, etc., not realizing these words have completely different meanings. 🫠

[@rubyrose7858]

So true! When I put a photo of me wearing a furisode for my coming of age ceremony on the internet long ago, people who were hating on it were all non Japanese people 😂. and the ones who knew I was half Japanese also added that even if I'm half Japanese, I am still not allowed to wear one since I look full white 😂 really sad how people have to hate and make every positive thing into a negative one. 😒

[@_momosumomo]

It's even better than "we don't mind," it's "this is great!"

[@day-goneknights4464]

Sadghuru is right, problems originate from taking an identity. If everyone just identified as a child of the cosmos then we are all the same.

[@makesmewannadie647]

Just like avril lavignes music video for hello Kitty. Everyone was yelling at her saying shes racsist and the japanese LOVED it and absolutely adore her

[@BrettCaton]

Most people are happy when you share their culture, because it means you appreciate and respect it. Nobody wants their culture to be forgotten.

[@Nothereforit174]

I was gonna insult you but I’ll try to be decent. We don’t need your whiteness to carry traditions and culture. People of color exist without or with you. If you stopped existing tomorrow, I wouldn’t go “damn who is gonna remember my culture?!”. You’re allowed to participate when it’s normalized and invited. Don’t create generalizations for your selfishness knowing you come from people who have in fact erased entire cultures with their insistence on being admitted and included, before then taking over and capitalizing off non western people including the Japanese who never recovered from forced cultural re education programs. We’d all like to be forgotten more by you if it means avoiding that

[@Nothereforit174]

I’m just being honest, not mean, white insistence of participation can only be addressed so kindly though when you make habit of speaking over and for others

[@theldun1]

White people in the states get slammed for Appropriation constantly.

[@hvyarms4496]

​@Nothereforit174 I'm not white, dudes right. We like seeing our cultures around the US. That's what America is all about at least

[@dazocat5566]

This 💯🙏

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

Cultural Appropriation is such an alien concept to other countries. I'm from the Philippines and nothing makes me happier than other cultures wearing out clothes, singing our songs, cooking our food etc. Cultural Appropriation is the silliest thing I've ever heard of especially when it's almost 2024 and the entire world is connected to an insane degree.

[@solhesperia]

cultural appropriation is essentially taking a part of someone's culture without acknowledging said culture

[@yelenasashadrozdov6502]

Cultural Appropriation is an alien concept to Russians too. I love seeing people enjoying our culture, clothes, food, etc…

[@LegitimateW]

@@solhesperia it only applies in western countries because they make things more complicated 🙄🤣

[@solhesperia]

@@LegitimateW eastern countries appropriate too

[@Mjp11111]

Agreed its a bizarre and ridiculous American twitter creation.

[@MsBrooklyn11232]

A lot of people are confused with the the words Cultural Appropriation. Cultural Appropriation is when a person who is from different culture takes from a specific culture such as traditional hairstyles, foods, traditional dances, traditional clothing etc and then renames it and says that they are the ones who invented and came up with it when they didn’t. A black woman wearing a Kimono is not cultural appropriation it is cultural appreciation. Please know the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation!

[@xLadyRaine]

And also profit off of it**

[@Just_Chayah]

II agree 💯.

[@yo2trader539]

Like Korean Karate.

[@vicmwaf]

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[@iiiiiiiiiiii90000000]

Can you give some examples of this happening?

[@iyoihinma]

I am Japanese. When I see people from other countries wearing kimono, I am happy. Since you have come all the way to Japan, I hope you will wear a kimono and experience its culture, no matter where you are from! Ignore silly opinions such as cultural theft, and just walk around proudly and happily！

[@biale8719]

That's right, I also think kimono is beautiful in any person💕🌸

[@ZonnexNecton]

THANK YOU! As long as folks are cool with it and respecting culture, then that’s amazing.

[@torahibiki]

Know that you're a minority and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@notmything6629]

Thank you for clarifying that. It's appreciation and appropriation. Americans just want to put the white guilt everywhere and now it spills over across over ethnicities and cultures..I am sick of this

[@soniachristian3874]

Excatly 🔥🇳🇬🇬🇧I’m British Nigerian and lived in The Netherlands 🇳🇱 I identify more with the Dutch culture and Nigerian than British.

[@user-cl6fh8fe7h]

Hello, I am Japanese. I am sorry if I have offended you unintentionally because I am using the translation function. I wanted to comment on your kimono because you look so nice in it. It suits you very well! It is like a kimono made for you.🥰 We are happy that our country's culture is shared and enjoyed. Thank you for experiencing Japanese culture！❤

[@Mynessly]

Hi I am turkish who's born and live In France. I love Japan and your beautiful culture. I would love to speak japanese.❤

[@shiwashere]

When I went to Japan in 2010, I visited a yukata shop because my sister had a few from her trips to Japan and I wanted one of my own. The shop I went to in kyoto was absolutely wonderful. The elderly shopkeeper recommended a red one with Japanese maple leafs after I mentioned being Canadian. I still own it to this day and it is a very treasured possession

[@dannywolfpero]

That lady was well informed! Makes me wonder if they have kimono patterns for someone cat obsessed. Some women at a kimono booth at a convention wanted me to try them on because I'm so small. It was fun, I wish I could have afforded it at the time.

[@eddvcr598]

As a Japanese person, let me tell you and everybody that wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation. Kimono literally translates to “something you wear,” and they’re just that; just clothes. There’s nothing sacred attached to them, so anyone who wants to should wear them freely! Wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation, but rather cultural appreciation; it brings a smile to my face to see people from overseas appreciate my culture. You look so elegant and beautiful in kimono 😊🇺🇸🇯🇵

[@zendraw3468]

afaik kimonos are worn on specific festivals or celebrations or whatever and are not a typical wear. and the design of the kimono is unique and specific to the japanese culture. so tell me more how wearing a kimono is not a cultural apropriation, japanese person. and this video means nothing, people will aways be nice to hur simply becouse manners and japanese are famous for being nice no matter what. if she wants accurate resaults then she shuld make a poll availible to lets say 100k japanese at least, and lets see the resaults then.

[@eddvcr598]

@@zendraw3468 Well, thanks for sharing things as far as you know. But I may know a wee bit more, seeing as how I’m … Japanese? Kimonos aren’t just worn for special occasions; there are plenty of people who wear kimono casually on a daily basis, and there are no rules that say you are only allowed to wear them for special occasions, though there are occasion-specific kimonos (kind of like how people wear all sort of dresses for daily use (summer dress, casual dress, etc.) but not wedding dresses.) Are you Japanese? I don’t know why you’re so angry about something that Japanese people are assuring isn’t offensive at all. If you’re suggesting that the voices of the Japanese people don’t matter because “we’re nice” and aren’t as important as yours, well that’s something I _do_ find offensive.

[@zendraw3468]

@@eddvcr598 you are not the japanese voice, same way im not my country`s voice, like i said, atleast 100k poll with japanese peple for a somewhat accurate statistic. and again, the kimono is not just a random made up dress. it has history and culture. same as an indian garb. maybe appreciate your culture more and dont be so accepting of western perversion. western people trying to act like japanese is cringe. and no im not japanese nor angry.

[@simonebaker4915]

I truly appreciate your comments. I was born and raised in Brazil, and have been living in Canada for 10 years now. When I finally had the chance to visit Japan, I was so excited to wear a yukata! I felt so beautiful, and felt nothing less than pure joy and appreciation for Japan. For me, all this discussion about culture appropriation is ridiculous, especially when the person is motivated by such positive feelings towards another culture. ❤ Thank you for understanding!

[@melissas4874]

@@zendraw3468 There is a KZbinr named Sora The Troll - he also confirms that the Japanese like it when people wear Kimono, talk about Manga, Anime etc since they are showing an effort to understand and enjoy Japanese culture. Everyone should be this way honestly, but in the U.S. we don't really have any one culture. You just sound like you hate Japanese people honestly.

[@JapaneseBrit101]

As a Japanese woman. I LOVE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE WEAR the KIMONO. She looks beautiful in her kimono!!! We encourage other people to visit Japan and experience our culture. Including Clothing, food and other tradition. ❤

[@jpm83]

How about nothern European man wearing fundoshi?😜

[@mo5zy]

​@@jpm83We Japanese would be happy to see northern Western men wearing fundoshi. In Japan, we see white men wearing fundoshi and participating in traditional Japanese festivals. We Japanese are very happy to see them participating in Japanese festivals.

[@gakidomo9561]

@@mo5zy How about Koreans wearing them? We don't mind as well! Hello comrade!

[@Certified_Potat0]

A kimono/ yukata are probably one of the best traditional clothing especially with the artwork

[@mo5zy]

@@gakidomo9561 We Japanese are happy to see Koreans wearing kimonos and fundoshi. The only thing we Japanese do not like is when foreigners make fun of traditional Japanese costumes or wear them in a disheveled manner, which makes us very uncomfortable.

[@moniquekyahlovewilson2374]

As a Jamaican I also want to add that there are cultures where if you wear their traditional garbs or colours, speak their dialect, use slang words or phrases from their lingua, eat their food or act in ways stereotypical to that culture it is seen as flattery!!! I am a Jamaican and I can tell you that there is nothing more flattering to us than see other nationalities and ethnicities embrace the elements of our culture that make us uniquely Jamaican! So when Volkswagen had a Superbowl ad where a white guy spoke 'Jamaican' or when Adele attended a Caribbean festival wearing a Jamaican colour bikini we absolutely loved it!!! Meanwhile Americans were yelling cultural appropriation and ready to cancel Volkswagen and Adele. As you said in this video the problem is when something that is culturally specific is rebranded and claimed by another ethnicity or race (primarily a more dominant race or ethnicity)...that is when it becomes cultural appropriation. Que Jamie Oliver's 'Jerk' rice!!! 🙄 In my opinion Americans (of course there are always exceptions) would do well to learn about other cultures. The world isn't America and we don't all live in a space where racial sensitivities and divisiveness prevails so stop forcing your perspectives on the world and perhaps instead try to learn and value those other perspectives! Lovely video!

[@fayseverin2305]

Thank you.

[@abstract5249]

What do you call bacon from Jamaica? Jabacon.

[@forest_hobo]

Fine said!

[@andrearace1168]

It's sad, America hasn't always been like this. I'm so happy that other countries embrace people appreciating their cultures.

[@ryanmullett8832]

say beer can in a jamaican accent@@abstract5249

[@Dontjudgeme420]

How dare anyone accuse you of appropriating Japanese culture when you are literally in Japan, and went to a Japanese store run by Japanese folks, AND DID IT ALL IN FLUENT JAPANESE!! Like the balls and brainworming of some people. Not even finished but fantastic video. Your hair did turn out so good. She really went in there and did the thing. Flawless.

[@autisticusmaximus9562]

It should be noted that black Americans culturally appropriate almost everything Even goes as far to steal other cultures and identities to make themselves feel better

[@stavv222]

As a white girl who grew up and Japan, the women in my community would all gather at our home to dress me up in a kimono. A Yukata (basically a summer version of a kimono) is a popular garb to wear for summer festivals (maturi's), but because my mom wasn't Japanese she didn't know how to properly dress me. So I literally had a team of a dozen women from my neighborhood who did my makeup, hair, dressed me and even do photoshoots. It not only produced core memories for me, but looking back it definitely made my mom happy being so welcomed and accepted by the women in the community who lent such a big hand. My take from it is that they are more concerned of losing the tradition of wearing a kimono (or yukata), so it brings relief and joy to see not only their youth but people from different ethnicities wearing and appreciating such traditions.

[@MagdalenaTheremin]

It was very sweet of them to do so

[@MagdalenaTheremin]

Do you also like classical music - I see that you follow some channels with classical music. Good choice

[@ytplol8446]

Eh whatever people has lost it today, too little ruffles around as a kid and now they get offended over everything i am defence even me..

[@justhenry1260]

Your description reminded me of the part in Mulan when they're helping her get dress for the matchmaker. ♡ I hope you enjoyed your time there :)

[@SidMaron]

That sounds lovely.

[@ChitChatPattyCake]

I am a woman of colour and I wore a kimono while in Japan for my friends wedding. I was plus sized at the time and got so many compliments! Everyone was thanking me for being respectful and loving their culture.

[@shyviking]

As humans should act towards each other. I go to karate 2-3 a week. Do I approrpriate karate from the japanese? Did the japanese appropriate karate from the koreans and the chinese? "Cultural appropration" is a deeply divisive term, that should be - well - cancelled.

[@yousaidwhatinc]

I hate when people get offended for other cultures when they don’t give a fuck

[@BonkersClipsBlips]

Again Japanese people will always compliment you . Does not mean they mean it. They are not as direct as foreigners.

[@moseslenana65]

Aww

[@gagaxueguzheng]

​@@shyviking True, it's such a bullshit term. Most things were developed on the basis of something that existed before. Building cars isn't cultural appropriation of German culture. And if a fashion brand uses a certain pattern that has been used before, then this is just normal.

[@Cyborgdelta1]

It annoys me to no end when you get people (sadly most of them are western) scream cultural appropriation. People learning and experiencing traditions or other cultures is what keeps it alive and exactly as you said as long you are respecting the values of that culture or tradition then it is ok.

[@Bustaperizm]

It is ONLY Westerners. People like their culture being represented in the world.

[@felixbaumgartner5474]

​@@Bustaperizmnot even all westerners. I only heard of cultural appropriation because it's such a big deal for the Americans, but in Europe we don't have that concept

[@pingteo6104]

@@felixbaumgartner5474It’s because they are the biggest offenders themselves, so they jump at others in defensive mode.

[@Opantyuopapaopantyuusagiii]

日本人としては嬉しいですよ😊

[@nunyabiz012]

@@Bustaperizmcorrection… it is ONLY Americans, or those they directly influenced. Won’t hear anything about cultural appropriation from Italians, Danes, Swedes, Bulgarians, Polish, etc. ONLY from Americans, British, or Germans, because they were all directly influenced by the US culture destroying liberals.

[@xiaoka]

One small critique - "Potsticker" is the literal translation of the Chinese name "guo tie" (鍋貼, literally meaning "pot" and "to stick"). It's definitely not any sort of appropriation of foreign cuisine.

[@aoiahiru670]

THANK YOU !!!!

[@RainbowAceOfSpades]

Came to say this too.

[@Sha-Ne-Ru]

People learnt the word appropriation and ran with it, many don't know what it actually means. wearing traditional clothing in the country itself, where the money has gone directly to locals, is probably the top form of appreciation.

[@cinnamonstar808]

ALL HISTORY IS BLACK. Black people cant appropriate any culture they abandon. ok give them the Kimono ( which is EDO) not edo Japan Edo the real on in Nigeria. TAKE THE DRUMS BACK AND THEIR NIGERIA NAMES... because the real japan moved out when they moved in.

[@markmower1746]

The real facts are,twenty years ago people didn't even care about this cultural appropriation crap.

[@i-3137]

so can we werar braids since you wear our dresses?

[@CYBER_N0T]

@@i-3137 Yes. Wearing braids isn't cultural appropriation. It's only if you pretend you came up with the idea of braids or something

[@firstofall21]

@@CYBER_N0T you mean came up with the idea of braid box and those specific kind of style right? Cos braids also used in many countries and ethnicity or race, some even look almost similar with corn row too.

[@dees21984]

If Japanese people don't think it's appropriation, then it's not appropriation. It's their culture so theirs is the only opinion that matters. People on the Internet love to be offended on behalf of others without actually knowing what those people think. And you are correct that most people do not understand the correct definition of cultural appropriation.

[@fritziearago9518]

Logic left

[@iikii5903]

Honestly the only people who are offended are those who even created the ideology that wearing other cultures are offensive. When in reality it’s not racism at all

[@everythingisfine9988]

I think cultural appropriation is total b******* therefore it is.

[@nomorepancake88]

She did it right with respect. That is what matters. There are some young Japanese girls who doesn't seem to have any respect towards our own culture and they wear kimono in more exposed way (oiran) for a formal occasion such as seijin-shiki ceremony, we see that as a disgrace.

[@thisisnotausernameXD]

I think there is a difference in the perceptions of people in their homeland and diaspora. I am Indian and I absolutely have nothing against people from other cultures wearing a bindi, even as a fashion statement. But my second generation Indian-American friend considers it appropriation because if she wore it in her small American town, she would not be treated well. So who knows how the Japanese diaspora may feel about the kimono being worn by a non-japanese person?

[@masudaharris6435]

As a 70-year-old Japanese person, I must say I have never thought of this topic before and have never seen a black person wearing a kimono or yukata before. I am all for it. Absolutely nothing wrong with keeping this worthy tradition alive.

[@codesymbi]

I'm mexican, and we don't really care if people use the stereotypical stuff seeing in movies (Ponchos, tequila, cactus, deserts) It's more a meme nowdays We only rage when people call us *_Latinx_* But overall you can *_BE_* funny with our stuff, just not make fun of it Also, i'd love to use and do some traditional things from japan, i love their culture so much

[@miyan0908]

I would like to say that in my opinion as a Japanese, you look very good in kimono. I don't think it is cultural theft in the slightest. Rather, I thank you for your interest in Japanese culture. My one concern is that many foreign tourists think of Japan as a theme park. Please remember that Japan is a place where people live just like your country and there are rules and manners there.

[@lamontwhite7752]

Beautiful culture

[@miyan0908]

@@lamontwhite7752 Your homeland also has a wonderful culture!

[@lamontwhite7752]

@@miyan0908 thank you every since i was a child i often wanted to visit japan and china

[@miyan0908]

@Christopher Jacobs No, that's not true; Cos Play is more of a minority culture. Kimono is not Cos Play. It is formal wear. There are many Japanese who do not like anime. It is true that most Japanese do not speak English. But they can talk to cats.

[@allitus]

i visited japan a few years ago and now im studying japanology - japanese language and culture. i wish to become a translator or something of sort, studying your culture has been very enlightening and i wish to visit toyama again someday

[@mskagome118]

Wow, let that sink in that all the people that were attacking her weren’t Japanese, and all the people that were complimenting/pleased to see her in a kimono were Japanese. Loved the video. One of the best ways to understand and appreciate another culture is by listening to those who are a part of the fabric of that society. Listen to their stories, understand the implications behind the aspects of their culture that you are interested in, and use that understanding to broaden your worldview, and you did that.

[@museemtarot4121]

They just mad they didn’t have the balls to do it

[@superfan364]

cause they think they did something for that other person when they're actually just annoying as shit. they need to stfu and sit down for once

[@haruyanto8085]

Basically western morality police. "Cultural appropriation" is an extension of the Not-see (german accent) racial purity theory.

[@Chocokaylarobin]

I feel like thats always how it starts and it's irritating bc people try to speak for others when they don't need to.

[@RecoveringChristian]

Yeah but the big two, Chinese and Japanese people traditionally don't raise a stink about it, even since the great "enlightening". Traditionally it's always been white and black people who are the most offended.

[@yootube6522]

This was a very uplifting experiment, and I'm glad you got such lovely feedback! Lest people attribute this to the Japanese cultural value of politeness, I have experienced similar approval in many other countries where I have traveled--Japan, India, Nepal, Turkey, Peru. I have never had a citizen of a country be dismissive if I wear an article of clothing associated with their culture; on the contrary, they are often pleased that someone would wear and enjoy the local clothing (or food, or amenities). If one does this in a respectful way, the result is almost always positive. So yes: cultural appreciation. However, if you were to wear a kimono and then deliberately do something culturally inappropriate or offensive, you'd get a different reaction, and rightly so. In fact, a number of other content creators do exactly this sort of disrespectful thing (and worse) to get views. I appreciate that you're making videos about how we can share ourselves and our cultures in positive and affirmative ways. And yeah, can confirm--that salon stylist did a beautiful job, and love the matching flower hair ornament. :)

[@taylorfrink1182]

people who throw out "cultural appropriation" so loosely are almost guaranteed to not be very well traveled, if in fact they have left their home country at all.

[@thebakagirl5293]

I actually appreciate the hairstylist for trying to do her hair. She could have just said “no I can’t”, but she tried it confidently and slayed.

[@wednesday1899]

Seriously her hair looks so good! I love the result 🌺

[@kellharris2491]

It looks so cool.

[@SkyeAten]

Interesting because recently there was a vid on tik tok of a white hairdresser braiding a black girls hair and she did it so beautifully but she received SO much hate. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. This side of YT seems to be safe, but some areas of the internet are filled with very angry gate keepers...

[@hkoizumi3134]

As a Japanese myself, when I see Gaijin try out our tradition, I feel nothing but joy and excitement. If they are willing to learn, I'd love to teach them. Afterall, sharing ideas is fundamentally a human thing.

[@oogabooga5510]

True! Same here with Mexican culture. It only becomes a problem when others take from our cultures, and claim it as their own. Or use it to discriminate. But, it’s such a wonderful thing to share cultures! :)

[@The_Gallowglass]

who you callin gaijin >:O

[@The_Gallowglass]

@@user-zp3pt9zt6t Yeah the 99% of people who don't give a f@ck, because life is too short

[@inatm7862]

@@The_Gallowglass Many old Japanese people think gaijin is just short version for “gaikokujin ・外国人 ・foreigner”. They never knew it's bad means.

[@lamaisontokyo4696]

@@inatm7862 Japanese language shortens everything. I’ve never felt any discomfort when designated as « Gaijin ». Pretending this word is meant to be offensive is Holywood made BS…

[@Still_I_Ride]

First time on your channel, but i have to say It literally gave me chills and brought me to tears to hear a Black woman being complemented so much, in a foreign country. You really did look great!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Welcome, and thank you! :) I got tears when I was editing the video.

[@Dornwild]

While I was learning Japanese in high school (in Hungary), our adorable Japanese teacher would borrow us traditional clothes to put on for performances in front of the school and even in front of Japanese guests. I always had the impression meeting Japanese people that they were happy for foreigners showing interest and admiration for their culture. This video was so heartwarming! Thanks! :)

[@CathyGoesTo]

As a Filipino, I feel honored when foreigners wear our traditional Barong Tagalog and appreciate its beauty. It a cultural pride we proudly share with the world.

[@jadedseer]

I just googled that after seeing your comment, and I have to say, it surprises me how similar the Barong is to our romanian "ie". At least for the male ones, the form and the embroidery is visually similar. Very nice!

[@WalanGasigijtamrong]

As a Thai, I, and most of my people, share your sentiments.

[@jakeykun808]

❤❤❤❤

[@whole_milkk]

Same for my country. As a Puerto Rican, I love seeing people dress up in the traditional Jíbaro attire. It’s gorgeous and should be appreciated by anyone (as long as it’s done respectfully ofc)

[@matthewosterman9030]

Cultural appropriations of clothing is a sham

[@tigerqueen007]

It's so sweet of the people to say you look lovely in that kimono. You absolutely do.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you 😊 Yes, even when editing I was really touched by their kind words.

[@suzygirl1843]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan Where can we buy online?

[@barboris257]

Because the japanese people are very polite, and their political elite are coward under American foot.

[@okiiedokey]

The way you explained how if you don't understand the language you often mistake kindness for talking bad about you That is exactly why it's important/helpfull to know the language of the country you visit or at least some basics. It improves the experience of your visit. When the people commented your kimono I smiled a lot because it was such a warm and welcoming feeling! :)

[@anxia-tea5846]

“Cultural appropriation” translation: “I don’t know that a large part of how american culture formed is through the mixing of other cultures and am trying to simply disguise my own racism”

[@coolklefkisarecool]

Bro cultural appropriation IS real

[@chiiix33]

Sounds like you’ve never lived in America 😂

[@GamingDad]

@pikascoolawesome sure it is

[@polka3310]

As a Japanese, I can only be happy to see such proper knowledge and respect for Japanese culture. If you ever come to Japan, do some research on various cultures and customs. I don't think it is plagiarism to touch the culture with respect in that way.Also, Kamakura is a nice place. Come and visit if you like.😊

[@Alex-xb5hf]

Thank you for your words.😊 Its good to know the opinion of a native person.

[@malimania1615]

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[@jakecowsert6185]

I think most Americans want to go to Japan for the women lol

[@jakecowsert6185]

Specially I love Asian culture beautiful ppl

[@jaidenavery7118]

​@@jakecowsert6185 I think most americans want to go to Japan cuz they watch too much anime

[@makotohosoi]

I'm hafu, born in Japan but lived the majority of my life in America. My looks favor my Italian half. Back home in Japan, no one bats an eye, but in America, people get up in arms about it. A lot of people that will call out "appropriation" are people not of that culture

[@kingwolf9447]

The way the term is used seems to be a uniquely American or Western usage An incorrect usage for sure.

[@tuseroni6085]

get up in arms about what? being mixed race?

[@RealChinese]

they don’t know that they’re mixed and they look more non-japanese than japanese.

[@McDuck94]

Not western, just American really

[@ambi3nttech]

@@McDuck94 Bullshit. Most western countries are way more woke than America is.

[@Axqu7227]

You look GORGEOUS in that kimono! Everyone was calling you beautiful because you are!

[@Loona-Nenj]

Thank you for educating for people who may be unfamiliar with these subjects!😊

[@user-ph1ph7ci9r]

Here in Singapore, there's a day called racial harmony day where we are allowed to wear any traditional costumes to school to celebrate. My friend who was born in the UK but brought up in SG wore a kimono over (her mum's japanese) and she won best outfit. She looks Soo stunning in the kimono

[@The_Truth-]

That’s beautiful.

[@keribere244]

I wish I could partake in those things but I basically have no culture 😅

[@angynotangie6335]

Omg u from Singapore I'm from USA sadly but I LOVE Singapore so much y'all are the best I wanna retire there ヽ( ᐖゞ)

[@allisonguthrie8257]

@@keribere244 every person, every country has culture. You might just not recognize yours because it’s hard to recognize culture from the inside. To you, your food, clothing, celebrations just seem like the normal way to do things, but they are your culture.

[@mypreciousprincess88]

nice to see a fellow sgrean!! i agree that racial harmony day is really nice to be able to embrace one another’s cultures and wear our friend’s traditional costumes! tho there was an incident in my sec sch where the teachers banned a kimono for one of the classes when they wanted to present it for the fashion show competition for whatever reason idk (i think its cos its not one of the main races in sg) :(

[@mrsaagar7]

Actually felt my eyes get a bit teary when so many people complimented you in under a minute. I'm Dutch but with Indian ethnicity and just thinking about how happy that must've made you feel makes me so happy. Great video, hair stylist did an incredible job too!

[@robina.1456]

ME TOO IM HOLDING BACK TEARS LMAO

[@newjnsbby]

felt the same way!! Was so nice to see such great reactions, warmed up my heart 🥰🥰🥰

[@spacemanjaxen543]

woon je in nederland

[@amoirnoir6428]

I love this so much. People just walking by giving her compliments, her smiling so much and having a great day. So awesome.

[@checreates]

This was really moving thank you for sharing. I’m glad you got to feel beautiful :) and thank you for the note on not being defensive. I was so embarrassed for asking for to go when they didn’t allow that for my leftovers and it ruined a few days, especially with the elder next to me staring at me. I appreciated how you said this could just be a judgment.

[@ArnicaMachado]

As an Indian, this makes me so happy. I also love to see foreigners wearing out traditional clothing. I don't think it's appropriation at all, but I just see it as them wanting to take part in the culture and be a part of the country they're visiting or living in. I remember a Dutch family visited my church and they wore Indian clothes and they looked really nice wearing them. My mum has friends from Tanzania and they gave her their traditional dress. It's not appropriation at all! It's appreciation and sharing 💖

[@gonebynow5612]

In a similar vein I got a qipao from my mom's boss, who is Taiwanese. One of my sister's coworkers (not Taiwanese) told me I would be racist if I didn't get rid of it because I'm White. I did eventually donate it because I never wore it and had no room for it, but like... who am I going to listen to in that situation? The _not_ Taiwanese person calling me racist or the person who gave me a dress from _their own culture_ and _specifically wants me_ to have it? I'm not saying bad cultural appropriation doesn't exist but it's so much more nuanced than people make it out to be.

[@ArnicaMachado]

@@gonebynow5612 That's true. But it's really sad that you didn't get to wear the qipao :(

[@gonebynow5612]

@@ArnicaMachado If it means anything my mom's boss had me try it on to see if it would fit, and it was very pretty. :) Black with silver accents and flower print on it.

[@ArnicaMachado]

@@gonebynow5612 That's great! It does seem very pretty ^^

[@LottyDotty05]

I'm going to a traditional Indian wedding in May. My fiancé is the best man and we are excited to wear traditional clothes. I'm going as full at as I am allowed. I'm giving my all to embrace those 3 days of celebration because it will be a very rare event for me to attend, so I want to experience every bit! 😊

[@KateKohai]

People really get appreciation mixed with appropriation & oftentimes shout appropriation in utter ignorance. She looks stunning and lives, works, speaks and very obviously appreciates the Japanese culture ❣️

[@RecoveringChristian]

Lindsey Ellis explains it perfectly. This is ALL cultural appropriation. It's only a problem when it becomes cultural MISappropriation. I'm tired of this gen z appreciation bandwagon narrative.

[@malimania1615]

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[@tubester4567]

Yep, like how some Asian countries make fake western products and brands to sell by the millions in markets across Asia. No culture is more appropriated than western culture. China is the biggest appropriator of the world.

[@Ahrone1586]

The concept of culture appropriation is just stupid.

[@superfreakmusic7681]

Yeah my bestie and I used to go to Southall in the UK which is a big area of Indian and Pakistani culture with a long high street lined with shops full of gorgeous clothes and jewellery. We would buy fabric, Indian skirts and and bindi's and wear them, and buy incense for our homes and ate lunch in the local hole in the wall place. We did this because we appreciated the culture and we treated everyone with respect. I never dreamed that one day I would be accused and judged for wearing an item of clothing from another culture because I thought it was beautiful. We should be able to share and appreciate each others cultures-if we hold on too tightly then it just created barriers. Shall we stop tourists from buying Scottish kilts for example?!

[@stuartsmith8155]

This video made me so happy, cried a little. Thank you for sharing your joy with us🥰

[@bianca-sg8zq]

So proud of you, Emin, taking your own path and making other people happy while you do it!! Lovely spirit!!🪷💞

[@alisonduck]

I am Japanese. Thank you for honoring Japanese culture. I wish more people would explore other cultures the way you do. Also your Japanese is great!

[@cyclonechaos]

I'm actually mixing VK (visual kei) and Yami Kawaii into my style. I love the fashion and culture as well as the music genre of VK. And by throwing Yami Kawaii into the mix not only does the dark themes with cute images speak to me personally but I also feel that I might help spread awareness about menhera that mentally ill people deserve better treatment and are people too.

[@matoto243]

I am Japanese. It really suits you. Some people say that wearing a kimono abroad is cultural appropriation, but that is not true. If you don't claim kimono as your country's culture, it won't be cultural appropriation. Thank you for wearing the kimono❤❤

[@thenonexistinghero]

The people using the word to insult generally don't even know what it means. It's just that one day a progressive decided to look in a dictionary for once and instead of looking for actual definitions, he found a new word to misuse and now all the progressive woke racists constantly use it.

[@seranes_silence]

Especially if you’re wearing it correctly aka with the help of a professional! 💯

[@armanithequeen25]

Right! And adding on to that, there’s African print kimonos. I’m a woman of African descent and I have a Japanese kimono and an African one.

[@HomeTravelGardenInspo]

Minus the makeup that goes with it.

[@zendraw3468]

unless its cosplay or have some official function, like in martial arts, i dont see how is it not cultural apropriation.

[@THEchiQ]

This was really informative. Thank you.

[@overthecounterbeanie]

It's really disgusting how some people take pleasure in insulting and demeaning others, because they think the internet affords anonymity. I'm so glad you are clapping back at your haters in the classiest way possible.

[@rootedpen2]

couldn't disagree more. I couldnt care less what loophole she's making with definitions and usages etc. By what appropriation means by majority of media users and "cancellers" she is indeed appropriating the culture by simply using it. just like many many others who simply just dress in styles of black or asian cultures harmlessly and are harassed for it. she should not be exempt just bcz she's not white. (im a brown middle eastern btw so no this is not a white rage vomit, im just not a fan of hypocrisy) the good reception and reaction she got doesnt show anything but the fact that the japanese people are more well-mannered and cultured than americans who shout and argue over everything (digitally or in person). if she'd done the same in her own country she would not have gotten a good reaction there. conclusion; as long as the silly appropriation fiasco exists she should expect those comments. if she has a problem with the term then she should stop using it for her own culture as well, and call out the ridiculousness of it altogether, not just separating herself from the notion just bcz she "knows better" than to call the clothes anything else but their names (like she said other do with other cultures).

[@Saralightff]

@@rootedpen2 Of course you are. Your not Japanese so shhhh. Don’t speak for us . This does come as white girl cries of Internet. You can rent them just like you rent movies. If she was white there will be nothing but silence. Since she black you quick to point out. Why do you insist in pointing fingers then actually learning?

[@rootedpen2]

@@Saralightff im referencing the Japanese people shown in this video so idk why ur getting heated, im not speaking for anyone im just stating their reaction shown here (AS IT WAS THE CREATOR'S INTENTION) so if u feel like someone is speaking for u u should actually call her out. im not caring about her being black and wearing kimono/yukata, I'm "pointing fingers" as u wrongly put, bcz she's being a hypocrite when she was faced with cultural appropriation comments. She stated her displease of others using her (black culture) other than back people themselves, but when she's wearing another's culture's traditional features it's studently okay? " If she was white there will be nothing but silence", no there wont be. many get harassed on internet for wearing anything but their own cultural attires. I'm against the use of term "cultural appropriation" altogether, as long as anyone is respectful toward the origin of that dress/hairstyle and loves it where is the harm in trying it. so im happy that she wore the kimono and liked it, but then she went on about others wearing black hairstyle and that's still appropriation and she doesnt like it. that's hypocrisy. if she has a problem with being called out, then she should stop calling others out too. regardless if she's black or not idc. i hope u get my point instead of being rude and jumpy.

[@Johnithinuioian]

@@rootedpen2 Actually good argument

[@shadowgl9]

@@rootedpen2 her hypocrisy is out in the Open and it's only reinforcing her high demand for attention and arrogance. The Japanese hates the kind of behavior she demonstrates with vanity being in the forefront, because they are a respectable culture who hold manners and dignity above all else, of which she has none but pretends to be classy, honest and humble. She personifies the exact opposite of the positive cultural character traits that the Japanese cherish.

[@peyplay1636]

I am very self-conscious and have really bad social anxiety, but this video just made me want to go out and wear clothing that I like and not care what others in my own area think

[@sheilag.834]

I was that way when I was young. Now that I am almost 60, I don't care anymore. They can not walk in your skin and breathe your breath. Find some time to enjoy your life. People who actually care about you will understand. Those who don't care about you, well, their opinion is bad gas.

[@peyplay1636]

@@sheilag.834 thank you, you are so sweet

[@jd_jd_jd]

I agree with Sheila G... live your life for YOU. Be your own Super-Hero

[@raphaellouisreyes6069]

Yes. Go out and celebrate whatever culture you desired to celebrate!

[@Soravia]

Try wearing clothes, hair and accessories that black people do, and see what happens then.

[@emkelly8879]

Absolutely gorgeous - a reminder that the vast majority of people are gracious given the opportunity if they feel safe and respected. Great video - thank you!

[@websurfer5772]

I didn't expect this to make me cry. I guess when people are finally nice when you're not expecting it, it makes me cry. 😢 I like the Shalom Alechem music.

[@dhal8520]

I wore a kimono with a hijab while i was in Japan for my honeymoon. I could hear an excited couple talking about how interesting it was for them to see kimono being worn that way (i could understand japanese a little bit). It was honestly a wholesome experience

[@pedrovieira8363]

Woah, you got me curious about how it would look, so i googled it, it's gorgeous!

[@juneseghni]

how does kimono fit with hijab thiough as it is so fitted to the body?

[@bruhmoment-ov4sr]

well kimono aren't really "fitted" they're supposed to be straight and flat, no they're not supposed to be a very curvy garment. Kimono usually cover most of the body and if worn properly, won't show curves of the body. Even a yukata, thin summer kimono, shouldn't be a curvy garment.@@juneseghni

[@maiasm]

I’m a Black American, too, and visited Japan. In my experience, Japanese people were very excited when I was excited to learn about their culture and were very eager to show me different things. I think it’s all about respecting a culture and wanting engage with the people rather than just doing it for an aesthetic without care to learn.

[@kirakishoushirobara2898]

Why is it cultural appropriation for a japanese person to wear locks but not for a black american to wear kimono tho? Both are using them just as an aesthetic at the end of the day.

[@muava1487]

@@kirakishoushirobara2898 How are they using them as an aesthetic?

[@kirakishoushirobara2898]

@@muava1487 wdym? Why would a japanese person wear locks? Because they like how they look. And a black person may use a kimono because she likes how it looks. Nobody is concerned with the history and practical uses of them, its all because of how it impacts their physical appearance.

[@aino-kaisav5504]

@@kirakishoushirobara2898 Do you know what is the historical use of kimono? To be worn. As an outfit. The word "kimono" literally means "a thing to wear", if you look at the kanjis the word is written with.

[@kirakishoushirobara2898]

@@aino-kaisav5504 bro I study japanese as a third language. Of course I know what it means. So what is your point? Just because it serves the same use as a t shirt then you are saying is completely devoid of history and cultural ties to japan? Sorry, but no. Say that to a Japanese American if you want to hurt their feelings. It still doesnt matter. Its beautiful designs make it part of an aesthetic too even when religious patterns are used. Locks and braids which have been used by many cultures around the world also form part of an aesthetic regardless of their history and practical uses. The African immigrants in my country who make a living out of braiding non black people with straight hair obviously couldn't care less about non blacks using braids/locks. They just want to put food on the table while giving people nice looks. Let them be.

[@findoutthehardway]

You're so courageous, intelligent and well attuned! Subarashi! Props young lady

[@goatqi]

Great video. I’ll be visiting in a few weeks.. Can’t wait!

[@Leavemealone441]

I’ve been living in Japan since 2017 (so 6 years already). I’ve wore kimono twice. It went like this both times. Japanese people didn’t stop throwing complements at me the entire time, the same ones you were told. They (mostly nice ladies) even came to talk to me and ask me why I’m here, why did I choose to study in Japan, why do I like it, etc. They all looked so happy that I was enjoying, appreciating and interested in their culture.

[@Daniel.Emmanuel10]

How it should be

[@lisavan3595]

As someone who’s Japanese and American, I can’t explain how important this video is!!! I get asked the same question (like “Is wearing Kimono appropriating the Japanese culture?”) so many times and was always so sad that someone felt the need to ask that question. Like, YES!! OF COURSE!!! The Japanese people absolutely LOVE foreigners having interest and appreciating our culture 🥰 🇯🇵 Honestly, some people (especially Americans😅) are sometimes wayyyy too sensitive about cultural appropriation that many people can’t even tell the difference between cultural appreciation 😢

[@hothotpot8596]

True true, it's sad people have to ask for something harmless like I once saw someone on youtube ask "is it appropriation if i use pencil/chopstick to make a hairbun" I was like, that's being practical when there is no hair tie, nothing about appropriating any culture

[@arcueid980able]

Unnecessarily white Knighting things they have no business in, nor affecting them in any shape or form.

[@tfyk5623]

Japanese are arguable more racists than Americans

[@jess.hawkins]

It's a very annoying phenomenon for sure because sincerely partaking in some cultural practices of others can be a good way to be more connected with people of different backgrounds around you, and God knows we need more sharing and connectedness in our fractured societies right now, not some odd game of "am I allowed to do this if x"

[@shandya]

Asians who live in their origin country tend to have no problem with foreigners wearing their culture. Because we practice our culture in daily basis. We see our own people wearing our traditional clothes, speaks our own native language, etc. Meanwhile that does not happened to Asian (or any other PoC) in US, they have to stripped their identity to assimilate & living the (white) American way. That’s why they’re easier to be offended seeing foreigners wearing their culture, because they themselves doesn’t have much chance to do the same.

[@AnnaInPieces]

This is the first video I've seen of yours and as a disabled young woman i cant really travel, ive always wanted to visit japan and live there. Thank you for sharing your experiences for people who can't. I am definitely binge watching your vids today! ❤❤❤

[@mickeykm]

thanks for making such a well thought out video. I have always loved learning about other cultures especially the food part of the culture. All our differences are cool to learn about. Come together before it is too late.

[@christinefraher]

I teared up seeing so many Japanese people praise and encourage you!! This is the Japan I grew up with and love. When I visited Tokyo this past winter (2022), it felt so much colder. Im going back for my cousin’s wedding in Meijijingumae in a few weeks and will be wearing a kimono then and was a little nervous as I know I dont look fully Japanese (im half). This was very encouraging and hopeful to watch. Thank you for making this video!

[@cynbrown4349]

I think it's safe to say that any large city will be colder. NYC is going to be colder than Yonkers, Paris colder than Aubervilliers, etc.

[@RoxelanaLisowska]

Why are you crying

[@jama211]

@@RoxelanaLisowska Why are you not?

[@twxnk.5667]

@@RoxelanaLisowskabro stfu let them cry

[@Ash.3s]

⁠​⁠@@RoxelanaLisowska Nostalgia? The op did say they grew up there and most likely moved away for whatever reason, so if anything, why *wouldn't* they cry over the memories they've made there?

[@xXBAMitZJiLLXx]

I was smiling ear-to-ear when all those people were complimenting you throughout, it was so refreshing and moving to see people love other peoples appreciation of their culture

[@malimania1615]

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[@xFNikki]

It was adorable they complimented one after another!!

[@TexasCat99]

Same here.

[@MuSicBlock5774]

Yeah, me too, it was heartwarming

[@markanthonywilliams4976]

agree

[@anchoragegmd]

This was a really sweet and uplifting video. And also, I think the kimono looked amazing on you! 😄

[@lindseyhanson2731]

Awww! So sweet! I’ve often found that people are honored when someone, not of their culture, enjoys and celebrates their culture. They are usually so flattered! And all those people were right! You look so lovely in that kimono! ❤

[@kali18]

I just want to say thank you so much for being a beautiful figure in Japan for black women. As a black woman myself I appreciate other cultures seeing our femininity because so many are fed lies about us (stereotypes) that is only a minority and not the majority of us. ❤ I am going to Japan 🇯🇵 this October because I have had a love for both Japanese traditional and pop culture since I was like 8. 🎉

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much! I appreciate your comment! I wish you safe travels on your way here!

[@starloved6824]

That’s so cool! Have you been learning Japanese so that when you go you’re able to understand them more clearly?

[@sleeperboi8701]

@@starloved6824 Most likely not. These PoS Americans can't be bothered to study the country's language before going. Also funny how they said black women and not black people solely on excluding their men. Excellent display of American behaviour.

[@Maria-oh1nq]

Let me guess youre a black american woman, the insecurity is oosing right out of you

[@generalnguyenngocloan1700]

She would have looked more pretty in a solid baby blue or even a white kimono. I didn’t think the kimono she wore was nice for any woman. She’s so sweet anyway. 👘👀👍🏻

[@jasonanno3881]

I don’t know how many of you remember this but Katy Perry wore a kimono a during a performance and a lot of Americans screamed about appropriation. I saw a lot of man of the street interviews with Japanese people about it and the question asked wasn’t “do you think this is cultural appropriation?” it was “do you know why people might be upset at her for this?” And none of the people asked had any idea - this concept doesn’t really exist in Japan. I asked my relatives in Japan as well and they weren’t familiar with the idea. It’s honestly ridiculous to be offended on behalf of another culture, or worse, tell people of that culture that they should be offended. This mindset is poisonous and is the opposite of “progressive” thinking. The end goal should a world where everyone is able to enjoy whatever part of other cultures they want. The modern day “progressive” thinking in America is so inclusive they’ve become exclusive, so far left they’ve fallen off the edge.

[@djsapien3448]

This doesn't take into account the opinions and rightful questioning of Katy Perry by Americans of Japanese descent whose perspectives are different from continental Japanese people.

[@myjams7180]

@@djsapien3448 Exactly. People born and raised in Japan might not know about the underlying racism the West has in regards to Kimonos and Japanese culture.

[@gyounce1]

I remember that people were also angry with her for blending Chinese and Japanese clothing, but I don't see the issue. What's wrong with blending cultures? Have you ever heard of "Wafrica"? It's Japanese traditional clothing with African inspired patterns and colors and it's dreamy.

[@marytapioca]

I'm a white, American woman married to a Japanese man. We have three grown daughters. If we all wear kimono's for a photo, who is appropriating?

[@sometime.somewhere]

I think it is fine to share cultural things, in fact it is normal. Perhaps the root of it here regarding peiple calling her out who are not japanese is because japanese culture appears, from the outside at least, to be well preserved. No one would ever mistake it for a modern invention. Whereas things in USA (where I assume the comments may have come from) seem to be, viewed as an outsider, more mixed, so if you come across a way to dress or do your hair that appears modern and it is in the media, you may not know where it comes from or to show appreciation. I wouldn't expect someone to research everything they might do, so mistakes might be made. I also think unless it is a sacred thing, it might not garner any feedback from the culture it belongs to regarding it being appropriate (unless in this case, you do it on social media!). I am not protective of hairstyles that are from my culture, I don't really care and think it's not important to me, but can see why for others if they have no sense of their culture being highly regarded or if beyond their country of birth they have no other country they might be connected to, i.e. descendants of enslaved people, I haveas my culture the country of my birth and a caribbean country as heritage for many generations before that. But there is nothing in my heritage that is particularly specific that isn't just associated with most people who are black, and/or who have my texture of hair, and/or are from that climate/area of the world. Additionally being born to a different country to that of my parents there is another layer of a different culture and being removed from my parents one, so perhaps I am less anchored to a culture than I could be.

[@user-gr6kb3gx1o]

YOU LOOK GORGEOUS OML!!! you def did my culture justice, and I love how all the obasan on the street were so supportive

[@_erdutza.]

I love when people are open to experience other cultures. My friend is actually going to a traditional event/dance with me this weekend. She is totally open about coming to try out my culture's food and dances which are completely new to her.

[@R1ley.0_0]

I've always wanted to do this even as a kid because I've always loved the Japanese culture, but as a black girl growing up in America I always was told or heard that it was Culture Appropriation and would offend the people that are Japanese. This video really helped me see that it didn't offend them or it wasn't wrong. Now I would definitely love to do this in the future.

[@kamicop1234]

全然問題ないよ、日本人は洋服着てるし

[@chrisbirch2002]

I believe it would be more offensive to Japanese people to have virtue signaling college students from another culture trying to dictate what is okay in their culture.

[@R1ley.0_0]

Yes that makes sense@@chrisbirch2002

[@thegoodnessness]

What I've noticed is most cultures will embrace outsiders who want to dress and learn their culture. One thing is to make sure your normal clothes are appropriate for the country you are going to. Not many countries like to show bare shoulders or cleavage but are happy to assist with traditional attire.

[@aoiahiru670]

Do what you want as long as it's with respect. Haters gonna hate, as they say. ドンマイ、ドンマイ！

[@foreverkei-chan]

I have NEVER heard Japanese people openly compliment someone so much in public…you are honored!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@jan_phd]

You know nothing.

[@Tairone1337]

Wow are you serious? Are you around or talk about Japanese enough to even say that? Wow an idiotic comment .

[@kitakou]

same here even though I'm Japanese born and raised in Japan lmao

[@Damianskull]

​@@jan_phd what do you mean?😊

[@mrfivehead258]

@@jan_phd You're weird

[@DrTavaresChannel]

Beautiful! Heartwarming! Will share your video with friends! Just subscribed to your channel. ❤️

[@TeaWithHobbits]

Goes to show that there's so many more kind people in the world than we first think! Love how supportive people were. You look gorgeous

[@crimeco1]

As a black girl living in Asia I always do my braids in various colors (bc I did same back home) and I always get long looks which always made me uncomfortable and I kept my guard up. But after living here for 4 years and understanding some of the language all I hear is "wow your hair is beautiful " in thier language and I'm able to let my gaurd down bc I know what they are saying and I often respond in the language too...the little I know.

[@sammierose1150]

Where do you get your hair done, if you don’t mind me asking? Like do you go to a black salon in the country in Asia that you are living in, or one than specializes in locs and braids? Or do you have to do it yourself at home?

[@Tairone1337]

That’s the problem with black Americans, they think staring mean disrespect or racism but in fact it’s just curiosity and wanting to know more, but people can’t communicate due to language barriers and Asians are very shy.

[@gltme2403]

Tairone Wassup, I agree with you and that’s because they actually don’t have a “culture” culture means an appropriate unique way of manner, appearance and the way they live their life and work, all I see is some people going to work getting drunk and cussing at each other and 24/7 on concerts and clubs which is literally opposite of “living” it’s just trash, unhealthy and problematic and sad also the diet is so poor, fast foods 💀 literally most of those self-made unique issues are caused by peoples’s idiotic illiterate opinions for example the cancelling and slurs or cultural appropriation, you can’t see those stuff in other places or countries cause they don’t exist, they don’t create words that have such a bad influence on others or they tend not to use it therefore it doesn’t exist cause of their behavior

[@StoryCrimeWithG]

@@sammierose1150 I have other black friends who know what they are doing with hair so I call and make an appointment. In a country you might only find 1 or 2 black salons which means we often have to travel to get your hair done . People like me who can't do it make the trip. But others learn how to do thier own hair ...my sister does her own hair but she's in the US and I honestly don't know a thing with hair....I can bake n make fun stuff but hair and makeup I am just stupid at those.

[@Tairone1337]

@@gltme2403 I agree, only in America is where opinions without facts actually do hold water which is bs. No other countries let’s you work or attend Ivy League school based on color of skin. They wonder why failure rate is so high. I believe it’s part of black culture to rob, be disrespectful , and hurt people. When a black man goes to jail and returns home, they get heroes welcome like they served in a war . How can black folks say black excellence. Making money from robbing people, cheating the system, riots (teens in Chicago), beating people up for fun ( sf stonestown mall) . I mean 12 year olds are committing adult crimes and carrying guns in school! All black folks can really do is bring up mass shootings but that doesn’t even compare to the daily murders. Black folks claim they built America, if so, they would be doing well in society. To be fair this is regarding most black population in America.

[@monicasmm]

Wow she did such a great job with your hair and so carefully! Like you said, she didn’t even hesitate, she just jumped right in and killed it with confidence!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Right?! She did wonderfully!

[@MiciousDawn]

You live in Japan for years, speak the language, understand Japanese nonverbal communication, understand the culture.... I would say you're assimilating, not appropriating.

[@merpasakiejingu]

I picked up loving and occasionally wearing kimono while living overseas in Japan. A few times I had to go to the nearest kimono store to help me get dressed because I hadn't mastered tying an obi at that point and going to the store and back, even not fully dressed, I got many compliments that I looked good, because I was wearing their cultural dress with appreciation and love. Japanese people love when anyone, of any culture, loves and appreciates their cultural clothing, because that means its being passed on and will continue to live on. That was 10 years ago. I now live back in the US and have to travel 4 hours to get to the nearest kimono store, but I go as often as my bank account will allow me, and I'll be wearing a kimono to my work christmas party in 2 days. You looked gorgeous in your kimono btw :)

[@EkaterinaKonon]

I am Russian and I admire how politely you explain the misunderstanding of Cultural Appropriation. Admiring other cultures has nothing to do with it. You look and sound lovely! Also thank you so much for showing people, that Japanese are kind. That is very important too.

[@theyard6958]

I loved your comment! Blessings!

[@sahogrygoryan7993]

Plz remind me, ruzzian culture is to kill innocent children?

[@franck-hermanherald4094]

Thks for your comment... I would love to visit 🇷🇺 as well❤

[@xFuuw]

the excuses she makes to defend her culturally appropriating others culture while condamning those who does the same to her

[@paracuna]

​@@xFuuw when did she say that?

[@ssicamon1927]

I lived in South Korea for 6 years and always tried to avoid wearing Hanbok clothing because I didn't want to anger anyone by wearing their traditional outfits. Instead, I actually ended up offending people when I was turning down their requests to try on Hanbok. Throughout my time there, friends and coworkers constantly tried to get me to try on Hanbok because they were so excited to see how I would look in it, and were excited to share that part of their culture with me. After years, I finally caved and rented an outfit with a group of my friends, and was so scared to offend someone. Instead, I have never in my life received more compliments throughout the day, and appreciation from random strangers for expressing an interest in their culture. It was such a nice change in perspective.

[@MuSicBlock5774]

That is really wholesome

[@simonebaker4915]

I appreciate your comment, thanks for sharing your lovely experience!

[@gltme2403]

Because people in America are so sensitive, and the cancel thing is absolutely ridiculous, those stuff don’t exist outside America cause people are sane and rational, like tf what you gonna do If I were the clothes that belongs to ur culture 💀?! I own the clothes, you own the traditional values and respect and pride and should feel honored that others are trying your culture, that literally gives value to that culture

[@JP-hj1il]

You got that right. Great job. I tell people when they travel outside the US,do the opposite of what the US thought you, you'll be appreciated.

[@DizzyBusy]

I'd be pissed off if someone refuses to try wearing my traditional clothing in my country, I'd think, "This person thinks they're too good for my clothes."

[@Bittebitte_gib_mir_gift]

I don't get many wholesome stuff in my yt feed, so thank you very much for this portion of good mood and kindness.

[@veramorita2065]

What inspiring video!! Thank you❤❤❤

[@Thieves_woodchuck]

私は日本人です。他国の人が着物を着る事を日本人は誰も盗用だなんて思いません。むしろ日本の文化を楽しんでくれていると、みんな嬉しく感じてる筈です。 日本人は気にしないのに、他国の人が文化盗用だと気にするのがすごく不思議😅

[@jennifermorrey7378]

Wise words from a wise person. I wish westerners would understand that cultural appropriation is wrong and is just another way to say "I am a racist that doesn't want to be called a racist. We need more people like you.

[@illegalxxx]

ホントこれ、何着てもいいし楽しんでくれれば俺らも嬉しい 外野が「日本人の怒り」のフリをして自分の意見を押し付ける方に怒ってるのに。

[@the.stone__295]

文化の盗用って言ってる人の感覚が全く理解できないよね、意味分かってその言葉を使ってるのかなって不思議に思う。 起源主張してるわけでもないのに笑 これが文化の盗用なら日本人は洋服着れないよ😂

[@taktktk5240]

自分等は真似されてもいいが、 真似するのは盗用とは上からの奢り傲慢。もしくは日本文化が気に入らない勢力と結論が出ている。

[@akari5113]

Im Japanese, but a lot of people who aren't even Japanese try to say its cututal appropriatian wich i think its so dumb! Its not! shes such a beautiful woman 🥰❤️❤️ i feel appreciated when she wears my cultures clothing. its so beautiful!

[@melissacourchesne2121]

Today Japaneses wear more western clothes than traditional japanese clothes. So it is cultural appropriation? NO! The Woke propaganda is so dumb!

[@Sunny10tv]

I totally agree~ 👍 She looks stunning in the kimono~ 👍 I wish they would have kimonos over here in America. I've wanted to wear one since younger but not sure where to get one~ I am curious though & I hope this doesn't sound rude but very curious is a kimono considered sort of as a dress in Japan? I love the outfit~ 💖👍

[@joanna7573]

I would say you got those positive comments because you do actually look good in the kimono! and the women at the store put it on you properly!That was the vibe I got from the older ladies. And I can't believe how well the lady did your hair - beautiful.

[@user-gg8oo7ns6v]

着物の色や髪型、 全ての要素が滅茶苦茶マッチしてて感動しました🥹💖 もの凄く似合ってます💞‼️ 特にドレッドヘアと紅い花の組み合わせがメッッチャ素敵で惚れました😭💘

[@user-gg8oo7ns6v]

最初見た時は、英語がわからなかったから映像だけ観て「着こなし方めっちゃ素敵！」と言う気持ちだけでしたが、 字幕つけて動画を見ると、「文化の盗用」など、異文化交流における悲観的な一面について語っていた事を知り、複雑な気持ちになりました。 　この動画では日本に限定されていますが、地域を問わず、ネイティブにはネイティブの魅力がある一方で、その文化を楽しむ異国方々によって新たに生まれる、それぞれのルーツのカラーが混ざった魅力があります。 　だから私は、異文化を楽しむ事に悲観的な気持ちなって欲しくありません。 仮に、異文化に触れる事について否定的な感情が生まれるとすれば、それは、その文化に対するリスペクトの欠如が原因だと思います。 私は、好意的な感情によって行われる異文化交流に否定的な意見があって欲しく無いし、あるべきで無いと思います。 (最後に)私は、この動画であなたが日本人には出せない着物の魅力を引き出してくれたと感じ、感動しました。 何より、日本文化を楽しまれている姿がとても嬉しかったです。

[@user-yy4gm4qc6y]

🇯🇵🙋🏿‍♀️😂😂😂😂😂

[@flyingsolo242]

I see this as accepting the local culture, showing your love and respect of the Japanese people. You took the time to get informed, respect all the involvements... You should be proud of that day 🙂.

[@sdb1082]

Yep, looks like the locals did too 🥰

[@Emshii_]

My family is Ukrainian and I’d be honoured to see someone of another culture wearing our traditional clothing. Appropriation and appreciation are different!

[@MissSladousek]

Exactly! I'm not Ukrainian but I feel the same way! I honestly believe that there is more into it... maybe some lobby to stop the foreign influence and make people buy only clothes styled by their country of origin. I think there might be money involved. There is a loooooot of money in fashion

[@neffyg35]

I just Googled traditional Ukrainian clothing and I'm in love with the hair flowers. Not sure what it's called but it's very pretty

[@Emshii_]

@@neffyg35 Yesssss, I also don’t know the name but the flowers are huge part of it. Personally I like the white blouses with red flower embroidery on them. I wish my family had more of our traditional clothing because I’d love to wear my cultures clothes more often.

[@neffyg35]

@@Emshii_ they look comfy. Like loose in the right places but still fitted in the waist.

[@mayanevergaf]

Ukrainians are horrible racist people. Why you'd tell a lie like that when you know this black woman would be filleted alive if she did that in that wartorn hellhole.

[@liccalocca4172]

ほんとにほんとによくお似合いです！ 着物の柄と色があなたの肌や髪に合っていてとってもきれい！！ 道行く皆さんが思わず声を掛けちゃうのも頷けます🥰

[@anotherrose626]

This is such a lovely video and view on this sort of topic! Really enjoyed the video ^ ^

[@user-ew3vl2wn9l]

I am Japanese. My greatest joy is when people from other countries respect Japanese culture. When I was in kindergarten, there were classes in which we tried on the national costumes of other countries such as India and South Korea, and we ate the food of those countries as school lunches. It was a very rewarding experience for me as a child.

[@718snoopymoe_nyc7]

Trust me We Americans love Japanese culture, food, arts , And Anime

[@jaidenavery7118]

​@@718snoopymoe_nyc7 I wouldn't really say Anime is something to brag to a Japanese person about watching.

[@718snoopymoe_nyc7]

Bruh who is bragging I gave my opinion why you mad for people on the internet love giving their opinion on others opinions 😅🤣

[@kpopsolos]

@@718snoopymoe_nyc7 don’t say “we” just say most, because not all Americans are like you

[@718snoopymoe_nyc7]

Lmao 🤣 u just want to be heard Goofy 🤡

[@samojede6776]

The hairstylist did an awesome job!

[@esosun7893]

Totally. It was stunning

[@LearningGrowingLovingLife]

I really loved watching your video and hearing everyone’s response. It made me feel like there’s still a lot of hope for this world, we really have to get outside of our boxes to experience more of the world and different perspectives and points of view. You are beautiful and I’m jealous that you know Japanese language. So I’m going to make a go to work on mine. I’ve always wanted to visit Japan in this gave me a lot of encouragement.

[@xm2895]

Woooowwwwww I honestly expected people them to have said not nice things, but I was blown away. That’s the other part that you mentioned that is important, language!!! Not knowing the language can make you make assumptions about what others are saying. This video was very insightful and you looked lovely in that kimono❤

[@TalykStudios]

I did a paper back in university on exactly this topic - "Is foreigners wearing kimono cultural appropriation?" We didn't find a single Japanese person in our interviews that said it was. The only remark was maintaining an air of respect for the garment and culture. I've seen the exact same dynamic, for example, where African-American and African people completely disagree on a topic. A channel called Jubilee does group discussions and interviews just like this and its really opened my eyes to the true dynamism of human opinion. Segragating all of us - "White people wear this, black people wear that, Asian people wear that" is quite literally the definition of racism and an over generalization of opinion.

[@divx1001]

It's sad that you even have to conduct such interviews. Ever since the topic of cultural appropriation came up, it was clear as day that people that contribute directly to the culture in question are not appropriating anything.... How the hell did this stuff get so convoluted that Americans feel the need to harass other people for a concept that is strictly American and applicable only to the US?

[@i-3137]

so can we wear braids?

[@Mcwsmurf1]

@@i-3137 yes.

[@monicacreator3168]

@@i-3137 Go ahead, but remember it's not for non white people hair and that you may lose damage your hair

[@akiarasenpai8978]

Well said. You summed it up perfectly

[@adork2dacore]

I seriously think its just America that have this entitlement of my culture is only for me and my people. In my country, we welcome foreigner to enjoy our foods, our old garments, and so on. I was able to go to Jamaica a few years back and my light skinned cousin got braids and the locals were happy with the hairstyle. I'm going to S. Korea and you best believe I will be renting a hanbok while I'm there

[@liastorm795]

Is your cousin biracial or just a light skinned black woman?

[@adork2dacore]

@@liastorm795 European looking hispanic

[@LuisGustavoSO]

Lol, why would it matter? I don't think they get offended with white people appreciating they're culture either.

[@rachelguerrine6423]

@@liastorm795 There you go, you just proved their remark about it being pretty much an American obsession.

[@iamsherlocked875]

@@liastorm795 directly showing why an american USA is such shallowminded

[@2degucitas]

It makes me happy to see you speak Japanese perfectly with mannerisms and gestures that fit.

[@sazi]

I'm a white guy and living in Japan I was asked several times to dress in kimono. Like you I was complimented on how it looks and how I carried myself/respected the culture. My best friend even gave me his as a parting gift. A great vid and you bring up important issues to consider when we partake in other people's cultures.

[@kimmichi9535]

I wore Kimono here in the US for a Japanese festival. I learned how to properly put it on with all the parts. At the festival an older Japanese woman saw me and asked if I dressed myself I said yes and she was so surprised and excited. She also offered to retie my obi since I didn't tie it tight enough. That obi was secure for the next 10 hours lol. We roamed the city after and I got so many compliments. We went to a Ramen restaurant for dinner and the waitress was so excited and asked me so much questions and told me she never wore one before. She even brought out the cheif to see my Kimono 😅 Short ver: I am American and wore a Kimono in the US no negativity from anyone Japanese just 1 bad comment from a fellow American 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@poypoyh4413]

As a Japanese, I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed Japan. And I had a similar experience, since fastening the obi is sometimes a little difficult. An older lady came and told me that my obi was untied and she would fix it. I think especially older people are happy to see younger people(no matter what nationalities they have) enjoying kimono. Thank you for sharing your story😊

[@alanm3438]

I was stationed on Okinawa in 1985/86. I took some USO tours around the island. I did not have the experience that you do but it is always something that I am grateful for. Now I use KZbin to enjoy Japan all over again. I admire your ability to speak the language. It was my understanding that black people and anyone else who are not Japanese were not generally excepted. I think that you blend right in and you are very lovely in the kimono. I lived in a poor black neighborhood for many years because it was the only house that I could afford. Black culture and language was hard for me. I was not welcomed unless they wanted to borrow some money. You did a great job on the video. You have fun personality, willing to try new things and your are pretty. I am glad that you enjoy Japan. Thanks for the video and it was good to meet you. Domo!!!!

[@dwalker6868]

Thank you for the video. I definitely plan on renting a kimono on my visit.

[@linalenachan2189]

I remember when I booking my Maiko transformation I was so nervous of taking pictures outside thinking people would think I'm silly or stupid, but the clerks in the store were very emphatic about other people loving it. I accepted, but still thought they might be pushing it just because it was more expensive to shoot outside.... In reality, I was stopped by so many groups of japanese girls who wanted to take pictures of me, surprised that I knew how to speak in Japanese, asking me were I was from and being super curious. I ended up crying back in the store because I had never been complimented on looks before.

[@yo..9584]

See japan isn't that bad Why do people make these videos like the japanese are racist

[@OoiYunKai]

wow where did u book it and how much was it??