5 Huge Tips To Avoid Getting Played...

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[@blingblingnelida]

Hi Stephanie Coach..." Avoiding to get Played...is my perspective is to be Honest to Yourself. Face The Problem. Talk to the person. Confront it. Address it in a positive calming kindness lovely manner. Listening. Express what you need & wants. Be upfront w your partner and SPEAK UP. SAY IT. DON'T HIDE YOURSELF. Boundaries are necessary 👌.

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[@minkamileva4903]

Hi amazing people,and u awesome Stephan

[@indiab3476]

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[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

As the old saying goes, "actions speak louder then words". Beware of early promises. Keep an eye on their daily habits and routines as eventually, that will show you their true colours

[@ericajoluc.2829]

Dead on facts

[@jacindagreene4254]

🗣

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Im seeing this now. Very disappointing

[@tiffanyjohnson4271]

You are so right! I watch patterns!

[@suzanbelfield1434]

You are so right. I saw this very thing with the last gentleman I dated.

[@DivineWoman369]

Trust your gut feeling.

[@jayc5756]

True

[@flusteredtorchic9024]

I just got played for the first time and went through some bullshit because of this

[@biba350]

Yes absolutely agree lesson learnt

[@globalwordfilmstv8532]

As Salaam Alaikum 🧕🏾

[@luciaviteri1320]

OMG you are so right, the inner voice is screaming "This is not the right place" and we still get stock in there 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@edwardpulz8830]

NEVER be afraid to ask questions. If she/he becomes irritated or agitated by the questioning in all probability their intentions are less than genuine.

[@sunshinesunflower4110]

I asked my bf a question in a respectful, loving and calming way, he did not give any answer instead he blocked me right away. Lol

[@dirlenelopez6033]

Or they give you a vague response...lol

[@DanaPaigeMzPearl]

That gut instinct works every time.

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

I listen to my intuition more

[@margomazzeo1680]

@@sophisticatedmm3632 Wish I can more.. in the future..

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

@@margomazzeo1680 You definitely should

[@CaedricFields-ne9ff]

I went against it,and got played,out of money and time

[@GodisGraciiouss]

Date with a purpose and be ready to become single for a long while. It’s a lot of game players out here.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@wanderertatiana2498]

@@stephanspeaks6821 Not sure this person is the real Stephan...

[@hawaiigirl8089]

No kidding! I have noooo problem being single. I love living alone & not sharing bathroom, etc. I have no idea why so many women are so needy?

[@hawaiigirl8089]

@Nikki Saynor knowing what you do now about narcs you will be fine

[@roslyngrizzard4082]

Too many. So sad…

[@rayelatrice1343]

To add to setting a deadline. It doesnt have to be like an ultimatum but a mental deadline for yourself. You have already told this person what you require, they did not forget. You shouldn’t have to repetitively tell someone how to treat you or what you want. If you don’t see changes by your timeframe, Simply walk away. Do not waste your time. There is so much more out there. 💕

[@potentialrizing1949]

💯

[@mishelleevans4863]

You and Stephan speaks the complete truth.

[@pjSoCal23]

Just walk away.. agreed!

[@MzTinkerbell]

@Raye thanks for this advice. I needed to hear this. I know this but you just gave me confirmation. Thanks sis🙏

[@kristeeweaver4585]

🎯 Well said!!! 😊

[@mrjarrel7477]

One thing I noticed is people break up for the same exact reasons they get together. They will see all the red flags from day one and ignore it. Then a year or two and even couple kids down the line, the red flags come up and they blame the other person for it. Reality of the situation they knew the red flags were there but them ignored it because of their lust or their habbit of wanting to change people

[@pjSoCal23]

Or sometimes you don’t see the red flags until you really get to know somebody and they sell you a dream or they future fake. Then even without a kid, you are in too deep and have to walk away.

[@donatello4716]

@@pjSoCal23 This is so true.

[@stephaniestokeseley631]

You are so right. I allowed a man into my life not to date but as a friend. I saw the red flags but in my mind I was thinking he's just a friend so I'll just ignore it but then the more we talked, hung out, etc. I developed an "unhealthy attachment" to him and those flags I ignored became the things that forced me to leave because he was toxic. I found myself in an entanglement. I know now you can't ever ignore the red flags. Address them.

[@MzTinkerbell]

@@pjSoCal23 that's what happened to me more than once 😔

[@keturah1980]

Very true!!

[@stephaniemarie9850]

Don't lie to yourself and ignore the red flags or try to make excuses for them. A duck is a duck not a Eagle.

[@potentialrizing1949]

💯

[@WassupItsAnna]

Facts!

[@HindiLargo]

Funny you say that... changed the ringtone on my phone to a duck quacking when he calls! So true!!!!

[@melissalitus8879]

Yep people say I am picky because I won't settle 💯 if a dude even talk to me a certain way I cut him off. Lol we don't have time for games it's all about choices

[@GG-cl9ww]

😆 🤣 true

[@ketiahartsfield445]

You have to know what you want, and not fold. This will help.

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

Absolutely

[@AndreaSylve]

Agree 100%. Healing is essential after heartbreak. You can't love anyone when you are broken. Heal self so you can not only love but receive love.

[@nofybn7794]

I don't want to receive. I am DONE. IT IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN. I HAVE KNOWN ALL MY LIFE. TIME TO ACCEPT.

[@AndreaSylve]

Known what if I may ask?

[@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223]

What am trying to do right now

[@zanezane3861]

Yes!! I am currently healing from a break up that had several red flags. We didn’t make the year mark, but I have a healthy mindset

[@roshianderson]

I told my husband before I started dating that “I’m only going to commit to a relationship if I see a future with the person (marriage)” and my husband respected that and within 7 months of dating we got engaged. We were both also in very healthy places in our lives and knew what we wanted and didn’t want as well. We genuinely had a connection and this relationship is different than any I’ve been in and I think it’s because of having that set vision and addressing issues right away etc like you talk about Wishing everyone love and happiness ♥️

[@74alyse]

The points that you have stated are common sense. Thank you for sharing your life story.

[@elainewilliams6334]

I appreciate you sharing what you shared and that is absolutely what holds it all together when it's straight from the start and it's still going straight Denise it but when someone refuses to answer a question or turns around and make it seem like it's you it's a done da-da I'm not wasting my time no more thank you

[@user-rh3mm1mq7z]

Thanks for sharing.... We needed to hear this.. We all learn from one another at some point in our lives... Keeping God first in our lives

[@laundrybasket2689]

You are a very rare case. And are SO incredibly lucky.

[@janr.3923]

I did that from the beginning and he lied, unfortunately the lies didn't come out until I was attached. Was given the advice, "don't get attached then"...what is even the point then.

[@Ngan.marianguyen]

How to avoid getting played? Focus on your purpose and your life so much that you dont even give a fuck about anything else. And the second some guy wanna leave ur life or that he’s not for you, you’d just say bye. No big deal. You have you no matter what! So focus on the ONLY thing that matters! Yourself :) 💛💛 #andthetruthwillsetyoufree 🤟🏽🔥

[@mayasheartdesiire]

Ain’t nobody waiting 2 years to know whether they wanna be with a person or not. If you are a healthy whole hearted adult with good intentions that is not happening. Let’s just leave that bs in 2020. A relationship like that will usually turn into a situationship.

[@heather7119]

AaaaaaaaaaaaaaaMeeeeen!

[@margomazzeo1680]

Yes..

[@bee12355]

You should know if it is someone you want to be with within 3-6 months. If you don’t see a future in that time, then leave. Waiting 2 years is for teenagers, not adults.

[@erikaanthony2726]

Facts Sis this happened to me

[@How.Dare.You.]

2 years?? Even 2 months is more than enough

[@Csoli79]

Consistency: The other person will be consistent with their actions. Their words will align with how they pursue you.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@dr.kimbrough4506]

Trust your intuition. I felt uneasy in my last two relationships. I ignored it and wasted a lot of time and money. Don’t be desperate and accept bs. Trust your gut. Love & light!

[@blackjesus4708]

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[@lindacardarelli9428]

I went through this exactly. I was engaged for 7 years!! I did ask multiple times when we were actually getting married and all I got was excuses... oh I’m scared, oh you want a big wedding... and when the day came that we broke up he offered counseling with marriage MAYBE in 5 years. Oh hell no. I wasted way too much time with a coward.

[@DJRenee]

You the fool for holding a engagement ring for more than a year

[@lindacardarelli9428]

@@DJRenee yes thank you for the reminder because I haven’t been beating myself up already. I did learn from this.. painfully but I did learn. I know I’m an idiot for hanging on BUT he is the fool as he lost me.

[@MkatekoNkuna123]

@@lindacardarelli9428 I believe you did what you felt was right at that time. I dont think you were a fool, I think you were just fighting and hoping that things will change and it's ok . It's ok to have hope, it's ok to fight for your relationship.Yes you wasted time but your only human and you didn't know what the future holds. I'm glad your out of the relationship and I believe God will bring someone who will love and treat you as you deserve, one who will marry you. The future is bright and we learn from our past mistakes.

[@MkatekoNkuna123]

@@DJRenee You might be right but there was no need for you to rub it in. Be gentle when you comment on people's issues. People are going through the most so if you feel the need to comment do it with love

[@lindacardarelli9428]

@@MkatekoNkuna123 thank you so much! You understand what I went through and I appreciate you! I know God has plans for me and I’m grateful I’m not being used anymore

[@Withgracefavorandtrurh]

You cannot expose a liar with lies, you have to bring truth to the situation. That’s deep

[@jayc5756]

Facts!

[@jmar385]

That’s how God did the Pharisees

[@empress_tru]

Set healthy boundaries and stay true to them.

[@elizabethrodriguez4908]

Please correct me if I'm wrong! How it starts is usually how it ends!!

[@momo-md9hx]

Not really that way 100%, but it is 70%.

[@prettyancient]

Some are afraid to be deemed as nagging. Also when we approach what we see as issues we can labelled as insecure. I think it’s important to call out what we see! The way how it’s received says a lot about the person you’re dealing with.

[@jogoode1232]

So true!!!!

[@liveinspirewithlivemulumba]

This channel feels like a therapy session and the Christian insight brings a soothing element to the great advice given. Blessings.✨

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[@margomazzeo1680]

@@stephanspeaks6821 You're fake..Stephan would never speak of this.

[@chrisparker6249]

Communication provides direction. We have to speak up in order to see if we are equally yoked or unequal. Never go with the flow but go against the grain.

[@tonid773]

Very well said ♥️♥️

[@chrisparker6249]

@@tonid773 🙏

[@meljolly1213]

The list of tips to avoid doesn't end here. But those are some strong starting points. Most people who date are not in a content place within themselves to even be bothered with someone in their lives romantically, but the selfishness and loneliness inside of them would entertain you and take you along for the ride right along with them. How am I supposed to submit to a man that can't even lead himself? The Bible says, He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22. Things are in Gods timing not in our own. Why should I be so desperate looking for love in ALL the wrong places when I am the prize. Number five is the most important to me because I have done the works within myself; therefore whatever a man comes to the table with is appreciated opposed to being dependant upon. I had to FIRST become the virtuous woman that God wants me to be, before demonstrating any of those characteristics for a man. New year, New abundance and proclaim all of Gods promises 2021 is our year. Blessings to all.

[@samueluchenna4503]

On point dear

[@meljolly1213]

@@chinnalipante9165 I am glad that you have peace now within your life. I am single and even if I wasn't I do not invade anyone else's privacy. If there is no trust and I have to go searching or digging for answers then I don't need to be in that friendship, relationship and or marriage with that person. I have elevated my mental status so much that I know the treatment that I deserve and what I will not tolerate. Thank you for your insight and sharing your story. Stay blessed!!!

[@apriljohnson7772]

So true when you heal you see though the BS quicker !

[@tyraempire1983T]

I’ve always dated with a purpose, but now that I’m ready and older I do have set goals.

[@tiffanyjohnson4271]

Me too.. I don't have time to waste..i date for purpose too

[@isiboranointed7147]

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[@keepingupwithfrancine]

I'm praying to God I marry a man with the same knowledge and wisdom as Stephan😭...everything he said is so true...you don't have to know someone for 8/10 years to get married, If we adults we should know where we stand! Amen to that sir🤗

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Amen! 🙏

[@GodisGraciiouss]

People are just afraid of being alone, that’s all that is. Learn to be alone not lonely but alone. Love yourself your inner self and let go of unhealthy attachments! 2021 guys in 5 years will that man or woman matter? Look how this world is? Its bigger things than a toxic or unequal partner. ✨

[@stephanspeaks6821]

Thanks for watching and also sharing your comments.. I would like to notify all my subscribers on my latest development ever since the rise of Bitcoin. I started investing in Bitcoin when the rise of Bitcoin hits $15,000 and the current increase has made Bitcoin the best digital currency in cryptoworld. Bitcoin is the future, Investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise. Bitcoin has been profitable over 95% days of its existence. Meaning that basically anyone who has bought Bitcoin throughout its history is in profit. Bitcoin has only been around for 11 Years. No other asset with that performance. Bitcoin mining has helped many attain a good financial status and has caused a massive expansion to many financial companies engaging themselves into it. I would like you to learn more from our team broker via WhatsApp [phone]‑3-1-1-5

[@dostergroup]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I'm liking your content brother. Praying for discernment from The HOLY Spirit. 🙏🏾 Just checking, Is that your Official account speaking on investing w\in the comments?

[@InspiredUno]

So true!!!

[@lilj882]

Very true

[@ieshjust16]

This 💯💯💯 people look at me crazy because I've been single but in reality I'm protecting myself

[@melissabrown3976]

2 years is too long! My bf & I have been together for 3 months & we're already talking about getting married. Granted I'm 39 & he's 41 so we know what we want but a man knows pretty quickly if he wants to wife you up. Stop wasting your time, ladies!

[@sheloves3663]

Yes, exactly, the max should be a year. Also, when they propose, they will be eager to make plans and set a date. Being engaged for 5 years is a waste of time also, lol

[@noirfit9721]

I got married after three months of dating. Chile, I’m getting divorced lmbo. He was playing a role and I fell for it hard. He ended up being abusive with mental health issues he didn’t want to work on. He was Prince Charming at first

[@DJRenee]

Men know usually within a month if they want to be married. Women know in three to six. So definitely in a year you should be married or on the way to the alter.

[@thecurrentmoment]

Even if you think you want to marry someone, you should probably do your due diligence and 'read the fine print' before actually committing. See how things stack up over the long haul, maybe a year or two. Not doing their due diligence is why people's relationships fail!

[@okaygee4132]

If you stay close to God, watch and pray, you will know. My challenge is to reject the things that loneliness, lust and pride push for; a sober mind has to prevail if you're going to marry quickly like that.

[@MichelleDeLucio]

Always go with your intuition! I have a strong intuition, and can tell right away when something is wrong! Or just simply doesn't feel right. I've always been right when i go with my inuition. Or what most people call a gut feeling!

[@MKahlovr]

I recently let go of a relationship after 3 months because I no longer feared being alone. (liberating) That showed me I healed passed my last relationship and I recognize my boundaries and self worth.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about your relationship, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌❤

[@ladyzinada5341]

Same

[@MKahlovr]

@@ladyzinada5341 congratulations

[@Anita-tl7hn]

After talking to a guy for a month I didnt know any more about him than I did at day 1. I asked him why he gives me one word answers and his reply was my bad, but still didnt communicate. Him engaging in a conversation for more than 2 texts was like pulling teeth. and I only heard his voice 2x by ME initiating it, otherwise it was text only. When I told him I feel like I'm crowding his space and that I wont contact him anymore, then he called lol, I no longer felt comfortable at this point

[@HindiLargo]

Right! It’s like once we get to the point of frustration to say something... our feelings have been hurt and we change a bit! It takes a toll!

[@melissalitus8879]

His loss. He will regret it when he see you boss up with another man 💯 dudes always come back when you let go and focus on yourself. I can't stand inconsistency it's a turn off for real

[@Anita-tl7hn]

@@melissalitus8879 yes, very big turn off

[@melissalitus8879]

@@Anita-tl7hn yep exactly lol it gets my nerves going 😩

[@jayc5756]

Just move on sis. Next time, let the guy pursue you in the beginning. If he's interested enough, he will want to talk to you and stuff. It is what it is

[@jeneciagallimore7096]

So true stephan set a deadline when dating.

[@roshianderson]

So true if someone actually cares they will figure out ways to address those red flags and issues 💕

[@cindybain5176]

He needs to heal I can't do it for him

[@marybrown6793]

Stephan this was a great video. This video will definitely help a lot of people. I love how you freely share good,vital information. I definitely learned a lot. Thank you for all that you do. Happy New Year!🎊

[@Trishlove007]

Number3 hit home. I was seeing this guy and everything about him made me feel at peace we hung out n flirted multiple times, I fell for him hard. We were cool n have lots of mutual friends. I asked him if he was truly single (you can’t be too sure these days, hidden girlfriends n baby mommas lol) his answer was yes. Then I asked “ if he see himself dating me?”and to this day he hasn’t answered so I packed up my infatuation n left. Because not giving an answer was clearly an answer.

[@shonb989]

The whole kid situation, just recently happened to me. However he is the one who wants kids, and I don't. but it was something he brought up pretty earlier. We thought we could get passed it. but neither of us was going to budge on our thought. So we opted to be friends, and he's one of the best friends I have. Make sure to discuss it asap and please don't ever fold or compromise if its something you stand for. I already have children and im done with the baby stage and have no desire of doing it again. But I couldn't stand in his way if it was something that he really wants

[@natedog2I0]

Every guy wants to raise his own kid rather then someone else’s that’s just how it is.

[@cmd3954]

Trust yr instinct always. Never be afraid to stand up for yrself and tell a player to get.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

Thanks for watching and also sharing your comments.. I would like to notify all my subscribers on my latest development ever since the rise of Bitcoin. I started investing in Bitcoin when the rise of Bitcoin hits $15,000 and the current increase has made Bitcoin the best digital currency in cryptoworld. Bitcoin is the future, Investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise. Bitcoin has been profitable over 95% days of its existence. Meaning that basically anyone who has bought Bitcoin throughout its history is in profit. Bitcoin has only been around for 11 Years. No other asset with that performance. Bitcoin mining has helped many attain a good financial status and has caused a massive expansion to many financial companies engaging themselves into it. I would like you to learn more from our team broker via WhatsApp [phone]‑3-1-1-5.

[@margomazzeo1680]

@@stephanspeaks6821 Scammer ..ur being reported..

[@constancereynolds3110]

For ME NOW because I have a relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ He protects ME from those who will not be good for ME and does not have good intentions towards me. He has spared ME from a lot of heartaches. It is GOOD that only HE knows the HEART AND THOUGHTS of a person. When I was doing things my way I was hurt and frustrated. Now that I seek the Lord about things that concerns ME I'm blessed.

[@akrodriguez2720]

I agree -- Honest communication is the key to developing a real relationship. Both people must be healed emotionally before they can have a successful relationship. Ask questions, LISTEN carefully and remember that words and behavior must be consistent. It doesn't take long to know if a man is playing games or whether he sincere... Your relationship advice is compassionate and insightful. This is your calling.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

Thanks for watching and also sharing your comments.. I would like to notify all my subscribers on my latest development ever since the rise of Bitcoin. I started investing in Bitcoin when the rise of Bitcoin hits $15,000 and the current increase has made Bitcoin the best digital currency in cryptoworld. Bitcoin is the future, Investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise. Bitcoin has been profitable over 95% days of its existence. Meaning that basically anyone who has bought Bitcoin throughout its history is in profit. Bitcoin has only been around for 11 Years. No other asset with that performance. Bitcoin mining has helped many attain a good financial status and has caused a massive expansion to many financial companies engaging themselves into it. I would like you to learn more from our team broker via WhatsApp [phone]‑3-1-1-5.

[@HindiLargo]

I absolutely love the analogy about the intern!! That resonated and makes so much sense when put that way! Thank you!!

[@andrewcampbell-young8426]

Trust yourself and only yourself in the end yourself can't hurt you

[@Trishlove007]

#5 My 3 year relationships I walked away in April 2020, best decision made. I decided to take the celibacy route and pray and heal from it all before even looking in the direction of dating again. I’m somewhat traumatized to be honest so for now it’s just me n my healing process. Whoever supposed to be in my life will be.

[@f.massaquoi9841]

Ready to go into 2021 with less of a focus on relationships, and more of a focus on walking the path God would like for me follow. If that involves connecting with a man, great. If not, that's cool too. I've gotten to a place in my life where I genuinely feel valuable and worthy, and really only want to involve myself with a man who doesn't give me the impression that they feel I am another number with potential. One who genuinely sees the value and worth within me as well. May God grant us all the love of our lives, and shower His blessings upon us now and forever more 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@ericajoluc.2829]

Yes, thank you!! 🙏🏽

[@kristeeweaver4585]

Good for YOU 👏👏🙌!!! You Are Worthy & Valuable...And the man CHRIST has for you will not only see your worth, but Appreciate, Admire, Respect & Value You!! 👑❤👑

[@melissalitus8879]

I love this! ❤ whew a message right there 😊

[@soulfulki]

Thank you! May God bless you as well!

[@jaceem4175]

Amen!

[@emmanuelmwangi2514]

This was truly helpful I always follow you and what you say and its wrking out for me.perfectly fine.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

Thanks for watching and also sharing your comments.. I would like to notify all my subscribers on my latest development ever since the rise of Bitcoin. I started investing in Bitcoin when the rise of Bitcoin hits $15,000 and the current increase has made Bitcoin the best digital currency in cryptoworld. Bitcoin is the future, Investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise. Bitcoin has been profitable over 95% days of its existence. Meaning that basically anyone who has bought Bitcoin throughout its history is in profit. Bitcoin has only been around for 11 Years. No other asset with that performance. Bitcoin mining has helped many attain a good financial status and has caused a massive expansion to many financial companies engaging themselves into it. I would like you to learn more from our team broker via WhatsApp [phone]‑3-1-1-5

[@faithfaith7735]

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[@faithfaith7735]

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[@lavetasmith494]

How do I meet a man like you that knows these thing

[@elsiewest9235]

Go by your gut at all times and you know that you in the right in the right relationship that's what I have experienced

[@lexusgibz2745]

The deadline setting is so important. Thanks for this!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're so welcome!

[@vadamsable]

TIP: Does he consider what it may cost you in any situation? Not necessarily financially. Kendrick Lamar has a verse in the song, "Stars". The lyric says, "Corrupt a man's heart with a gift to show you what you're dealing with." Some people/guys see your kindness as a weakness. Can you be kind or sharing without that person taking advantage of you? Can you do kind things for him without him going too far and seeing you as a shill? This means he respects and cares for you if he reciprocates equally or above. He anticipates that you want to be showered and spoiled too.

[@GG-cl9ww]

Never ever underestimate your intuition 💯. Happy new year 🎉

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@audreywright7788]

@@stephanspeaks6821 This is not Stephan Speaks. This guy is a scammer.

[@firandcurly84]

Pay attention to actions most times actions speak louder than words.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@antoinettepowell2644]

One more thing Stephan. Trust your instincts and be true to yourself. They will likely let you know if the person is being real or playing games. Thank you Stephan...you’re amazing!!!

[@thisisit4666]

This is good. I just got played and realized that I almost did most of these mistakes

[@esavaiano]

Yes, yes and yes! Heal yourself, know your worth, set standards and don’t allow yourself to entertain people that are not in alignment with your needs and desires.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@mariagi97]

Actually I don’t agree with a point of yours: you say that it doesn’t take much to decide if you want to get married to someone. I’ll tell you that if it’s too early, let’s say five or six months, you don’t really KNOW the other person and you run the risk of getting married too hastily. Of all the people I know who decided to get married too soon, none ended up happy; they all got a divorce. I’m not saying that it never happens, but I think it’s the exception, not the rule. You need at least a year or so.

[@MsPrincessaj]

I think it can also depend on the maturity of the individuals involved, and whether or not they have the ability to see what needs to be seen with the other, acknowledge “red flags”, and adhere to the other points Stephan made. Often times, in my experience, people are focused on the attachment to the other person, the feel good feelings that come with it, as well as having companionship, as opposed to stepping back, assessing, analyzing, and being objective about who the person is, what they have shown you about themselves, and the reality of the relationship. I have seen people who have dated for a year or longer, and end up in an abusive marriage. I believe that many of us, because of childhood wounds, trauma, and conditioning, are ill equipped to be objective, and do the required work in relationships, and look at ourselves and the healing work we need to do as individuals.

[@MzTinkerbell]

@Maria sometimes a year isn't enough. My aunt thought she new my uncle after many years of dating. She said after 30+ years of marriage she still never really knew him. He revealed something about himself constantly that she never knew 🤷‍♀️

[@donna2693]

From my expirence the man you date and the man you marry are two completly different people xo

[@iamhereblossom1588]

@@MzTinkerbell that's because we constantly change. You can't expect someone to stay the same or be the same person after 30+ years.

[@MzTinkerbell]

@@iamhereblossom1588 I agree. I just don't think you need to be with someone a certain length of time to marry them. Either it feels right or it doesn't. Trust your gut. It knows what your heart hasn't figured out yet. If you choose to marry, be ready to grow and change with that person. Just sayin'...

[@steph_steph876]

Whoo...Stephan's videos... always worth my time!!

[@cindybain5176]

He said it's not going to work. I said ok and went home immediately. Now he's like what happened ? I'm not interested in explaining myself. It was literally just like that. Out of the blue on both parts

[@ceemac304]

lol. now thats a boss lady. ok. he wanted his cake and eat it too

[@zebk8555]

He wanted you to chase him...oops...you left him scratching his head 🤷🏽‍♀️ I commend your response, we're all too wise to be playing the game of Where's Wally!?! 😅

[@aiesha11]

I really needed to hear your message today. Quite honestly I am in tears. I had someone walk out on me with barely any explanation. I'd been married to this person for 5 years and tried my best to communicate and went to therapy myself to try to understand from his point of view. I suggested couples therapy but it was rejected. That was a year ago now, and I used my Career Success after the relationship ended to cope with my feelings.

[@aiesha11]

I am certainly going to buy your book love after heartbreak.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all you have been through! 🙏

[@anonymoustube1]

i feel like u realize this as u get to ur 30s nd above. its harder too see when your younger

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@Simply1Tracie]

I totally went into a marriage ((ignoring the red flags)) and it was a lesson learned. “People are who they are...” and what I’ve learned is that “I’m NOT for everyone” ....

[@uncledrew7633]

To me it’s simple it all begins with your values and beliefs as a man. Then you build your interview/ questions around that. Also pray about it I think a lot of believers forget about that. Thanks Stephan for teaching me this and making it simple🙏🏽

[@mishelleevans4863]

I first want to say you have really driven home what ever one including myself have been saying.Your video along with prayer have greatly improved my mental state. I knew better in my spirit that I should stop holding on. I was falling into the same thing you speak about settling, trying to prove myself to him, allowing disrespect all in the name of "Love and Marriage" and successful business we started. I'm done today on New Year's Eve. I purchased your shirt LOVE ME OR LEAVE ME. It should say LOVE ME OR I WILL LEAVE YOU. My marriage has been 3 years of roller coaster infidelity problem from this man. Baby Momma's, ex-girlfriends, new girlfriends and including a homeless lady he met thinking she had money because she was driving a new truck that she live in right now. I wish him blessing along his path.

[@kayceep.morgan7318]

Trusting your intuition.

[@ninidrvetmiss3992]

I caught my boyfriend cheating when I used hackwilliam325 on iG to hack his phone,I needed to be sure he wasn't seeing someone else because his attitude towards me changed completely,I tried to force myself to trust him and move on with this but it totally made me sleepless at night to the point that I just couldn't take it anymore,a friend of mine told me about William,he was finally done done hacking his phone and I was completely speechless when I found out everything it had been going on for two months and I just found out,it really broke my heart but I guess I just have to move on

[@thesingerintheshower]

The internship example was a GREAT analogy to make with the issue of progress and setting a marker in the relationship.

[@jartustevens9831]

I just don't have the time at All.... I'm looking forward to me and mines future. I see nothing but brighter days 2021 abundantly blessings. Truly I'm Letting Go and, Letting GOD. God Bless you All I truly wish you all the best. Happy New Year💞🙏

[@jartustevens9831]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks 💞🙏

[@blesssowavy]

I like how you're humble enough to respond to all comments

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@David-lx4yb]

#6 Never be afraid to walk away.

[@latushasmith1016]

Trusting intuition and go with it 💯❤️

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@sinceroamor]

👍👍👍bought your book “love after heartbreak” appreciation for your work

[@DanaPaigeMzPearl]

I'm reading it now along with the journal.

[@josephsmom3373]

They should make this information mandatory teaching in high school. For those of us who come from dysfunctional families with generations who haven’t healed, we are set up to fail. I didn’t learn the 5 lessons you just spoke about until my 40s. I wasted years in relationships going nowhere and didn’t understand my responsibility to get what I needed and deserved. . You are spot on with these 5 important points. Thanks

[@yasminebrown8766]

First here Love your videos Helped me a lot with my current relationship 💕

[@cynthia59665]

My late husband asked me to marry him the first weekend we met introduced me to his Mother family 3 months later on his birthday we were married stayed together until death did us apart he crossed over 2010 we were married 16 years . Be careful many definition of Love now a days is scary. He was truly a blessing to me as I was him🙏❤️

[@maggiecos2892]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE How you KEEP IT REAL 💯 on everything !!!!! Also your COMMON SENSE in relationships which i Believe this is Very Rare in people now a days. 😳 😳 😳 😳

[@coolautumn7659]

Brilliant. Thanks Stephan, I did just this today. 🙏

[@kourtney101]

I think this is awesome to initiate the relationship by giving each other the permission to be great!

[@francescasteph150]

God bless you Stephan I really needed this working on healing myself

[@WhereIsCynthia]

Stephan, this is FANTASTIC. Really appreciate the specificity and actionable guidelines. Will be sharing this with a few lady friends 💃💃💃

[@devonjones5200]

Woild u want me to paypal u

[@carolynthreats1966]

Absolutely address all red flags. Some will deflect with bs but it needs to be done especially when the trust is breached or keep it moving!

[@anointedra]

On #4 it hasn't even gotten to the official relationship status...it's a situationship and the person is dragging it on..Definitely must move on from these....6-7 months and he STILL doesn't know if he even wants to make it official. The answer is NO. Keep it moving.

[@auaticamazon]

Yes !!! Set a deadline. Guys who are serious about you will commit sooner than later

[@thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223]

I HAD TO WATCH IT TWICE. BECAUSE YOU JUST GAVE ME A MILLION CENTURIES OF GAME TO UTILIZE, THE SIGNS HAVE BEEN THEIR ALL THIS TIME NO MATTER WHAT COLOR THEY ARE LIKE YOU SAID. BTW IN YOUR PAST-LIFE I'M COVINCED YOU WE'RE YODA, YOUR VERBS OF VALIANCE & SENSE OF REALISTIC LOGIC IS VERY MUCH HIGHLY APPRECIATED THANK YOU AND HAPPY NEW YEAR KING.

[@juanitadebruce4813]

Good day I've just listened to this and was enlightened, thank you. I am 51 years old and was played by a 25 year old who flirted with me on the job, I wasn't attracted to her physically, I fell in compassion with her after she told me that her Mother died😢 I began paying her phone bill by Cash App and when things became suspicious, I began asking her questions regarding how she really felt about me but I never got a straight answer, all she said was: I do care but the flirting got worse . I need to let go but don't know how.

[@samanthamichelle7219]

💯💯💯 great message and luv you in purple 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@samanthamichelle7219]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you are very welcome ☺️

[@SpeciesUnknown]

Thank you. I need to stop being so shy....Dating is ughhh but asking fact finding questions can be challenging for me... In particular my man crushes

[@liahknowsbest5092]

Thank you for this clarity!/🙌🏽👏🏾🙌🏽👏🏾🙌🏽👏🏾

[@FolaAlabi]

People may hide their true selves, pretending to be something or someone else. Always listen to your gut feeling and don’t let your emotions take over. You need to look objectively and assess the person. Always remember that your relationship is a long-term commitment with a huge ripple effect on your life. Do not waste your time with the person who is just playing games - never really looking to commit. Most of the time, you may only know. The choices we all make could affect the trajectory of our lives. Do not ignore all the warning ⚠️ signs.

[@eeL_rM]

That internship example is perfect.

[@josephinemukeni8574]

Iread your book "Then man God has for you" and man you spoke directly to me. Thank God for people like you who share their knowledge with us.

[@TheQShow53]

I have addressed every single red flag I saw in my relationship and I didn’t see no progress. Yes, the relationship got dragged and I was scared to be alone. I couldn’t take it no more and decided to end this relationship that wasn’t fulfilling me and I felt miserable because i didn’t even trust him. I felt I wasted 3 and half years of my life! 😩 I’m beginning to give up on relationships I cannot find a good man I don’t understand 😞

[@mishelleevans4863]

I'm here jut like you after 3 years. I didn't trust my husband, but put up with a lot of crap. Even today as I brace myself to put him out. I'm praying that God will see fit to send me someone for me. Not just someone but a good love only me man. You will get through this just take time for yourself cliche but true. I look at like this 3 years instead of 4.

[@DJRenee]

That's usually because most of y'all need therapy. Y'all looking externally instead of internally and blaming the failure on the other person instead of asking yourself why are you putting up with someone who doesn't want you or disrespects you? If you were healthy, you wouldn't. Get help

[@DJRenee]

@Robert Drake damn

[@jasonmedeiros9492]

Take your time. If instant gratification worked so well why is it over in an instant? I was with my ex for almost 10 years on and off dysfunctional. I would confront issues and she would get defensive. She had male friend over while I was at work all the time. One day I said enough is enough. I was engaged too. Anyways take your time. It will tell you who they really are!

[@christinahughes4278]

Look at that as a hope to find something that reassures you and doesn't justify their red flags or blame you for them.. they're out there looking for you too

[@Betheessence1]

I love the short video getting straight to the point. My schedule is tight sometimes a big challenge to read constantly, although I will get through the books. I need the knowledge. Thank you!

[@ComedienneBevBlaq]

And that’s why I’m not doing it in 2021 just told an Ex yesterday STOP 🛑 CALLING ME! You don’t won’t nothing! Find another test dummy LoL 😂 Thank you Stephan for confirming I did the right thing 😉 Alexis play....I’m Free by Anybody that sings it lol. Alexa I’ll take FREE for $20.21 lol.

[@zebk8555]

Test Dummy 👏🏽 I must remember that one 😂🤣😂

[@ericajoluc.2829]

Love it!!!! ❤️

[@ceemac304]

he wont stop once you keep answering. block the man.

[@MzTinkerbell]

Yass MsBevBlaq! Can I borrow that test dummy line😆🤣😂

[@ComedienneBevBlaq]

@@MzTinkerbell yes ma’am have at it lol...sick of it lol

[@Nobody-xr9xz]

I gave a deadline to a guy because he wasn't sure what he wanted. People found that crazy...I am baffled to hear you encouraging a deadline... thank you for this video

[@livinggood6876]

We have to focus on ourselves and know our own needs to get them met. If the person does not take it to the next level, its a clear sign they only want a FWB. Don't get steered into that situationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing!

[@jodianharvey4025]

Yessssss everything you have said is true. I have currently reached this understanding and have changed my outlook I was not fully sure I made the right choices this is confirmation. Thank you lord

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@suzanbelfield1434]

I’m so guilty of not asking what their intentions are. Working on that. I can usually tell in 3 months or less if the dating relationship is going to go any further than dating.

[@stephanspeaks6821]

Thanks for watching and also sharing your comments.. I would like to notify all my subscribers on my latest development ever since the rise of Bitcoin. I started investing in Bitcoin when the rise of Bitcoin hits $15,000 and the current increase has made Bitcoin the best digital currency in cryptoworld. Bitcoin is the future, Investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise. Bitcoin has been profitable over 95% days of its existence. Meaning that basically anyone who has bought Bitcoin throughout its history is in profit. Bitcoin has only been around for 11 Years. No other asset with that performance. Bitcoin mining has helped many attain a good financial status and has caused a massive expansion to many financial companies engaging themselves into it. I would like you to learn more from our team broker via WhatsApp [phone]‑3-1-1-5

[@suzanbelfield1434]

@@stephanspeaks6821 Are you serious!!!! What does this have to do with relationship advice? I'm not sure about the security of this page.

[@mybusinessplanbook]

Awesome. Yes addressing Red Flags is the important step in shutting down players

[@ginaprinzavalli3746]

Boundaries

[@Super_saiyan_e]

Another great video brother. Thank you

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Much appreciated

[@MissWampire]

Thank You so much for these words. God Bless You.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You are so welcome, God bless you!

[@monieboo]

I did all of this & was played he worshipped me was so good to me and cheating double life the whole time. I just addressed the red flags once I had a day off of work & found the girl and found the truth iam in disbelief because this one got me on how good he was to me my feelings everything was amazing. It was all fake. They really act really good acting. We communicated alot were so open. Talkn marriage kids in the future everything. And I knew him for years. Dated for 6 months. From my past I know for sure dont think u no someone till atleast a year

[@Agent77X]

After dating a person for 24 years and they still not comfortable with marrying you, move on!

[@stephanspeaks6821]

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[@nobuhlekhumalo1903]

24 YEARS of dating and NO MARRIAGE... Lmao😂😂😂😉🙈 F#$K that S#$T... This is ALL toxic nonsense

[@cheesy2970]

@@stephanspeaks6821 this bitcoin pitch has me looking at you suspiciously now. You seemed genuine up until I found this dodgy comment... Is anyone on KZbin genuine anymore 🙄

[@audreywright7788]

@@cheesy2970 The guy is a scammer. It is not Steph Speaks!

[@cheesy2970]

@@audreywright7788 ohh that explains alot. Thank you for clarifying.