3 BIG SIGNS You Found Your SOULMATE | Stephan Speaks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@SoJesusChristMusic]

Love all your videos! I encourage viewers to watch ALL of them, not just the ones that cause them to point the finger. Life is about growth on both ends many times, and often times we don’t see our own mess...we just point the finger and encore when they are wrong. I’m glad you’re doing books for the men too now 😇 Keep the videos coming for men too 😎 I watch all your videos because I want to learn where I’m wrong...but the video you make for men and for both are so helpful for the men that really are trying to better themselves.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@mgnfcnt7628]

Ordering my copy now ‼️💪🏽

[@jayemck7562]

Read it! It was really good. I felt like you wrote this book about me! I saw so much of my story. You had me clutching my pearls lol

[@peacebrown3021]

Thank you Brother, I needed to hear this

[@simonemichellelloyd5435]

Identifying your soulmate: 1. You are able to freely be your authentic self around them and they will accept and love you 2. a) Men: he will feel peace in her presence b) Female: you will feel safe and secure in his presence and so easier to be vulnerable 3. You will receive Godly confirmation about the person. Go to God in prayer and ask if this is the one and wait for spiritual confirmation. We need to be careful of who we allow into our lives. Heal first, so you can see the world clearly and not through broken lenses. Stephan thanks for sharing your wisdom with us.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@astanil]

How God will show His confirmation??

[@latonyak.wilson918]

Thank you for posting this!!

[@rachelkye4107]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks can u tell ne what path you took and what kind of schooling you did to become a relationship coach? Im thinking about going into that kind of career area.

[@EmSquareTheProdigaldaughter]

We have 3 things in common: 1) We're fans of Stephan, and 2,3) share the same middle and last name. 🥰

[@yessi4113]

I seen a quote that said "Don't pray for love. Pray that you'll be ready for love when it introduces itself to you. Pray that you'll recognize it. Pray that it lasts." And I love that esp the first part...because a lot of times we pray for God to send us someone when in reality some of us are not even ready to even receive that love, because we have things within ourselves we have to work on. I've prayed to God to heal the parts of me that need healing even the parts I don't even recognize need healing, and that's real. I've also learned one of the biggest parts of healing is forgiving...you can move on to someone else, but if you haven't forgave people in your past you will not fully be at peace within yourself. Having the ability to be (genuinely) vulnerable with someone is really important and I think is really a good way to identify if someone is truly for you..someone who really wants to take the time to understand your love language as well...I really hope to find that.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you find the person who is truly best for you!

[@jasminebody740]

Sis you really sad something with this. Lately I’ve been working on healing, filling the voids in my heart, and finding out what love really is. Most of us have insecurities that will forever trap us if we don’t ask God to reveal and heal us. Best of luck to you. And thank you for sharing what you learned.

[@halhatha]

Very well said! This is so true especially the forgiveness, including yourself for your past treatment of others. I’ve even sent off a couple “I’m sorry I hurt you” letters, after hearing Stephan say “90% of the time I say send them! (These letters)” and I’m so glad I did! for that other person to receive, for their healing and for me to finally forgive myself. So grateful for these uploads truly inspiring 🙏🏼

[@emmamugambi1333]

Wow! Thats powerful. God help us to recognize love and be ready for it. Work within ourselves first

[@tigertalks1567]

Be love and you will attract love. We create what we focus on. Ask God, be specific, then ask " would I date me" ? Then make yourself that person. Do your part.

[@01LadyNay]

I remember when I was being my hyper, talkative, sometimes dorky self and I was told, " why you acting like a little girl," or "you are too educated to act so silly" ??? I immediately knew, this not for me. I like to take my Boss Lady hat off sometimes and just be free to be comfortable in my childlike vulnerability without feeling judged. I would rather wait. I love this!!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@Ellie-bo9uh]

Good you left,sounds like it would turn into abuse.

[@daniellel.hunter9065]

Just be yourself.If you are comfortable doing this then if you can just ignore their ignorant critiques.

[@museinmohammed8765]

You could have been overly Childish. That does need to be taken into account. Most men don't tell educated women with mature energy that.

[@ghoostnnn]

@@museinmohammed8765 sorry but that sounds like bs, it’s just that he wasn’t for her, because the right man will love her irregardless!

[@annettemarie2076]

A relationship built on a spiritual foundation is a beautiful experience.

[@divyamercyjebakumar7319]

It is the building blocks to a relationship ,it helps in setting a strong foundation for both parties Cause sometimes we get in our way of a good thing .

[@darlenelane392]

AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@SuperShandy777]

Lol I wish hopefully one day x

[@soulsolutions2tarotforsoul583]

Amen

[@aheard1788]

Absolutely

[@natashagerald1822]

I have found my soulmate, it's amazing because I wasn't even looking to be with anyone, but God had different and better plans for me. Thank you Daddy

[@miss_aye8755]

How did it happen? If you don't mind me asking?...just love to hear a good story... ❤️❤️

[@chabee3666]

Same here. Wasn’t even looking. I instantly forgot about my past and only thought of my future. I asked the universe for this. I left my past alone closes the door. I made room for new. I received him my mate.

[@chabee3666]

@@miss_aye8755 when you find him you just know. Because it’s so different. It’s a spiritualmconection mental and emotional over a sexual connection. My soulmate only wanted to know me. He was himself with me. I was myself. I wasn’t defensive or no trusting. It was like I met my other half. Two half’s one soul.we both were vulnerable and unmasked. I was at ease. When a woman isn’t loves right or with the right mate you aren’t at ease. Angry hurt it’s just not the right one for you. But when you find your mate you will know.

[@miss_aye8755]

@@chabee3666 💜💜💜 #themfeels...sooo happy for you both 🥰🥰

[@chabee3666]

@@miss_aye8755 thank you. I also want to add. I had to cut off my ex and past. Make room for new. It happened.

[@kevinlattimore2574]

Be careful looking for signs bc the devil can throw up Billboards too. That’s a bar I’m taking🤟🏿💪🏿💪🏿🤟🏿. Thank you king!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@liemisompota3669]

Amen

[@kareenmbagolor4307]

Oh no.. I'm nervous now.. I always ask for signs. And now I'm not sure if this is a blessing or a curse.. How I wish I know how to identify

[@practicalteachingchronicle6631]

I will be dispelling a lot of myths on my KZbin about relationships. Soulmate is one. Aint no such thing. We can't find love bc we looking for stuff that doesn't exist and God didn't create. Where in the Bible it says anything about soulmate. That words ain't together bc it doesn't exist. Men find a woman so you can obtain favor. And women find a man who'll love you like God love the church. And women respect your husband's. We have to learn the basic 1st kzbin.info/www/bejne/mpCwdohup7-LfJI

[@lorrainetopps6885]

@@kareenmbagolor4307 Read the bible, God teaches the Truth, If you want to know Truth read the bible.

[@EbonyCOliver]

The safe feeling part is way more than physically too. It’s feeling safe exposing your emotions, sharing deep secrets, sharing your dreams and hopes, trusting him around others, trusting he will take care of business , etc.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@kimp.6367]

Hi I totally agree and was thinking the same thing. You can feel safe in regards to this person being able to physically protect you but unsafe in other areas like finances, trusting them with everything that you explained above. Great comment 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@shantewilliams7684]

@Ebony Oliver you are absolutely right. That is the perfect break down. When connect on a spiritual level you start to relax around that person before you even realize what's happening.

[@jeffackland5946]

Hello Ebony how are you doing

[@roshandawalton8]

Girl you said it, in that order!!!

[@gia4957]

You feel like you have known them forever. You communicate and share things with them without fear of judgement. They feel like your best friend. You feel calm , at ease and feeling like you can trust them. And they are sincerely interested in what you have to say. You can visualize them fitting in with your family and friends.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@fatumaahmed4304]

I finally met him and you will know when it's ✅

[@MySweetAriane]

Aaaaw I love this ❤️

[@lovesouls1305]

This spoke value! So true thanks Queen I am so glad to have finally met my soulmate ❤️

[@BlackPearlMinistries]

100% spot on. Exactly how I feel. It will smack you in the face when it happens.

[@lurabunny]

This is sooooooooooooo accurate. As soon as I started dating as my authentic self, flaws and all, I met my husband. You will only know when you can feel safe around when you know/are in tune with yourself

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@blackmamba2345]

Thank you

[@blackmamba2345]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Just found you on youtube. You are an Awesome spirit my brother. I Believe it's finally my time to be blessed with my soulmate. And guess what? He found me.. YAHOO !!!

[@JackieS812]

Great information Bro. Stephan! So true! So true!

[@Channel_dri]

Lean on Gods understanding and your INTUITION. I swear you can never go wrong with those two

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@jamesshank5423]

Oh my God it really work.. My ex is fully back with much love you should try writing to this for any help on whatsapp❤️❤️.

[@jamesshank5423]

➕2️⃣, 3️⃣, 4️⃣, 8️⃣, 0️⃣7️⃣8️⃣6️⃣9️⃣6️⃣3️⃣9️⃣0️⃣❤️❤️❣️❣️🖤.

[@iamaleo247]

@Dri Skii: Yesss!💯💯💯

[@mritam123]

Indeed... you relationship with God really helps you in all ways.

[@alisaben1]

It's the most amazing feeling being around someone and they really "get" and accept you. It's dang near priceless.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@laydijayne8963]

It truly is 👍

[@Mercycoversme]

Hard to find 💛✨💛

[@childofgodskingdom8403]

Right

[@totallychillgirl8072]

It’s hard for a sigma woman.

[@leannegraceliberty]

Spiritual Compatibility Emotional Connection Intellectual Stimulation Sexual Compatibility Physically Attracted For me it's when all 5 these elements align and as you say, Having peace and security. ❤️

[@kenyaarledge2151]

Totally agree with this.

[@thepurpleroyalhairs20]

How can u know if u sexually compatible wen u not suppose to have sex in ur relationship.

[@cayondaspires2593]

I love this well said

[@dogeplayz174]

Hi

[@kaossity1]

@@thepurpleroyalhairs20 talking about sex

[@gringaembrasil5840]

A soulmate to me is someone you can be completely yourself with,good and bad parts of you, and still loves you totally , Someone who you can laugh with, cry with, , have rows with, have peace and security. To look into his eyes and see the soul in his eyes looking back at you, it’s someone you can feel totally in harmony with out having to consciously work at it

[@starbright2683]

This makes a lot of sense. If you are feeling fearful, neglected, unsure, frustrated, unsatisfied, unseen, unloved, rejected, undesirable... *while you are in his presence,* this should clear up the confusion. 🚩

[@kybeastmode]

Don't go into a relationship broken. But ready to be fixed.

[@victorianorris1916]

Communication, chemistry, like same things, connection, be yourself with them

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

[@lismolina2801]

I had all that and we still didn’t work out.

[@wanderertatiana2498]

@@lismolina2801 same here. Its been such a big and painful shock to me.

[@wanderertatiana2498]

@ianthe' / Tay Omg same!! Never communicated what was really on his mind, turns out he was judging me (and extremely unfairly all along) and even when he realised all of tag he still didn't want me back. Its been an intense pain like I have never experienced before from a breakup. He was toxic and emotionally immature, said a million stupid things and was seriously manipulating, and absolutely refused to compromise on anything at all, which is the the reason he ended it because he didn't feel he should have to compromise, despite seeing how much I was comprising for him, me looking for solutions to our differences and him dead set on there simply being no differences, as if that can ever be the case when two people come together! Yet 4 years later I still miss him and I still feel terribly down and alone and scared. Never experienced a connection like it before or since.

[@clarkclarke]

@@lismolina2801 I don't understand...you both were doing the communicating ????

[@lourdiacelestin2109]

The 3 keys are precisely defined. Men should feel peace in her presence. Women should feel security and safety. In everything you do, put God first, and he will direct you. Godly confirmation! Great video Stephan. Thank you much!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@vvvccc8820]

I AGREE 👍 💯

[@monicapetty5941]

Amen I believe when you connect with your soulmate it’s peaceful and you can be yourself around them. The man of God will treat you with respect.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@evangelisttiffanysumpter224]

God being the head than everything will fall in place.

[@monicapetty5941]

@@evangelisttiffanysumpter224 , Amen so true

[@___24b22]

What if they changed

[@monicapetty5941]

@@___24b22 , A man of God want change.

[@membreeyafreethinking2578]

You feel like you belong to that person and you will feel it in your heart ❤️

[@vayoha02]

I started to cry when you said women tend to get in their heads, question everything, and end up confusing themselves and project. THAT is what I do all the time but couldn't understand why. I wrote it off as a defense mechanism to avoid being hurt. Especially since I do not date and only now taking a leap of faith. I have trust issues based off the high failures of relationships I see. But I will fast and pray to see what God tells me. God will continue to bless you. 🙏🙏

[@harrietoboge6529]

This is me, struggling to trust. This is from within and not from the person I'm dating. Yeah! I've got to pray about this too.

[@millicentjennette7032]

I was like that and I definitely had to trace patterns and they led me to my childhood. Looking for my father’s love he was hot and cold at times. In and out my life but still in the house (weird right). Me trying to figure out what I did what I was doing wrong all the time. Sitting in my room saying I must be a bad child but wasn’t it was him. I did that in most my relationships till I got with men that wanted me and would do anything to keep me. I felt safe but never grew to love them. Then I worked on me. Healed that past hurt. I don’t have to push, pull, or pry a man to stay from fear. Let go of the need to know everything and stay out your head. Actions speak louder than words

[@lynetteb4146]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ebonymcmillan4355]

When we ask God for an answer, we had to be ready that the answer may not be what we want to hear. However, in the long run will benefit our lives.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Amen 🙏

[@Trishlove007]

This worked perfectly with my last relationship. God wasn’t playing about me. Now it worked out in my favor. I am free n blessed.

[@truthheals4491]

I'm the type that will still ask for more confirmation...God be like no I said no lol. It's a no go! Definitely, have to meet people where they are and accept that you can only change you before you can help heal others. Let people go. Hopefully, they'll find the Truth!

[@cind4846]

So true. I was thinking about a particular guy while watching TV and I wanted God to give me a sign, so I ask Him to show me a commercial that relates to marriage, proposal, or engagement 💍. In less than 5 minutes, a Nissan Commercial appeared showing a runaway bride leaving her groom at the alter and taking off with the Nissan. At first, I misinterpreted the commercial as God saying yes to me pursuing this guy because the commercialinvolved a wedding, but as I dissect God's response even further, I realized that He was telling me to run away from the situation and not put any more thought into pursuing this guy. Although I felt a little disappointed, I thank God for protecting me from future heartache. I'm thankful. 🙏🏾

[@sharhughes1086]

God will have the person who's meant for you! When God sends you his best you don't have to worry get ready! Just ask God who the person is before you leap he will tell you and show! God knows the heart we look @ the surface.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@danrutherford4365]

So true ,hi @Shar

[@sharhughes1086]

@@danrutherford4365 👋

[@karmab.1253]

Amen 🙏

[@jerlenelewis2041]

Thank you. If you ask God, He will tell you yes or no. LISTEN to Him???

[@kai14151]

"Be your authentic self" ! A solid #1 towards healthy relationships.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌💯

[@kai14151]

Absolutely! Well said.

[@totallychillgirl8072]

Most people don’t know what “being your authentic self” is.

[@kai14151]

@@totallychillgirl8072 Agree. Only If people would spend genuine time alone. That is when you find out how to heal & seek self.

[@muonlyte]

Fasting and praying is a definite way to be able to see clearly in the spirit

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@sandi6818]

I can’t fast too long bc I have a fast metabolism. But I’ve been praying for the right man who wants the same things

[@kristygarrett3028]

My husband is my soulmate. He loves me for who I am, even when I am a mess. He sees my beauty and my brokenness. He challenges me to be my best self and he makes me feel loved.

[@Creating2413]

For me I felt my soul mate showed up after I concentrated on healing and it was an answer to everything I needed. He shared my values, had the level of personal responsibility, was interested in many of the things I was interested in and we could talk about everything and anything and laugh together. He describes faith differently but has a strong faith. He is so focused and pays attention. A strong desire to help him in life overall that wasn't present with other people I've dated.

[@Creating2413]

@@Books_Makeup thanks. I do treasure every moment and thank God every day. 🙏

[@gapeach7814]

That's beautiful

[@kateriawilliams4005]

I truly believe I found my soulmate, I manifested him & I even have had so many confirmations about it with God & the universe, He even told me he was praying for me..🥺❤️💍

[@MichelleSmith-jb9qh]

🥰🥰🥰😇🙏

[@jerlenelewis2041]

God..... and the universe 😮🤔

[@Bhannahable]

Everyone has more than one soulmate! A soul mate is anyone who has brought forth any type of change or lesson in your life.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@liyaah85]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you have very good communication skills lol

[@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman]

“Be ourselves with confidence and see who embraces us and who doesn’t” LOVE THIS 💯

[@evelynkimber6132]

Yes I feel in my spirit when a person is not for me.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@jamesshank5423]

Oh my God it really work.. My ex is fully back with much love you should try writing to this for any help on whatsapp❤️❤️.

[@jamesshank5423]

➕2️⃣, 3️⃣, 4️⃣, 8️⃣, 0️⃣7️⃣8️⃣6️⃣9️⃣6️⃣3️⃣9️⃣0️⃣❤️❤️❣️❣️🖤.

[@realestate2181]

From prior experience, I'd say laughter is a key component to a good relationship. Laughter always draws people together. :)

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@misselle1430]

Some cultures r more serious than others but doesn't mean they're not happy.... just might not be the place to stick around if one is a chatterbox and joyful...

[@janine1111]

I really agree with this

[@elizabethpearson5946]

I have attracted my soul mate and I am experiencing the signs Stephan described. What I have come to realize is that we accept each other, we don’t try to change each other. Yet, we choose to work on ourselves and be better people everyday.

[@Liz-dragon-street.]

🙏❤️

[@sergnextdoor5213]

Sounds really cool 👍

[@anndiestephen7671]

You're right. Acceptance is a big one. 👌

[@ActivateDivineDNA]

My guy said my voice makes him feel confident and peaceful and his heart skips a beat like I’m superhuman lol 💗

[@motlagomangseane6463]

Soul mates are rare to find when you find one praise God for them. Nothing beats like being with your soul mate you connect in every way 🤗

[@fezekatjemolane2131]

I never knew how lost and broken I was once upon a time. God indeed SCREAMED no as I walked down the isle, but I rationalized my marriage and opened the door to hell. I thank God for His 198th merciful do overs, graces and forgiveness- I Walk in my truth, I know who I am😄😄😄 You speak the truth Stephan. Stay blessed

[@dianemcguffin6346]

Time to build the foundation, don't rush it. When I did rush is when I got hurt the worst and that took even longer to heal. I agree with your three keys. And God doesn't rush things and sometimes we have a lack of patience.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes! Thank you for sharing.

[@soniaexplores_]

💕 what would building the foundation look like? I think this is the part I am confused about.... If any resources you'd like to share, I'd greatly appreciate it!

[@jenniferpope4867]

If he/ she says God is first in their life, actually taking time to see if their lifestyle lines up with what he/she says. Some can say they love God and they live a life as if they don't know God.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@melissalitus8879]

Facts 💯

[@pjSoCal23]

Very true. There’s a difference with loving the Lord and doing what is right on the narrow path and the other difference in saying I know the Lord but yet I’m doing things that are on the path of destruction.. Like promiscuity, multiple women and blaming your brokenness for those problems. It’s a cop out.

[@nrivera3604]

That’s where the line “actions speak louder than words” come ❤️

[@Wrightn221]

That part! I met a guy that said he believes in God but not Jesus. Nice but his life is a mess.

[@laydijayne8963]

It IS Truly magical when you DO find your soulmate ... it’s like something I’ve never experienced before ..so much in common, finishing each other’s sentences, exact same taste in music, same sense of humour, same Birthday, ect... being your true self and not having to be false ...just being your crazy self and them loving you for being you and laughing at the same time.. helping each other out in times of need , being supportive in all situations ,seeing your flaws and still loving you and all your flaws ect.. I’m still scared of getting hurt as I have in the past ,that’s the only thing I’m insecure about but I just had to share this 👌❤️✌️Xxx

[@angelasmith8312]

Talk to God he’ll let you know if he’s the one. I thought the same, he wasn’t who he made his self to be. Wishing you luck!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all that you have been through! 🙏

[@angelasmith8312]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks one day at a time, education on narcissist is helping me tremendously🙏 I had no idea what I was going thru. I thought something was wrong with me?

[@laydijayne8963]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thankyou God bless you X x x

[@tarynstewart8279]

I am not sure about finishing each other’s sentences, having the same birthday, and having the same exact taste in music, as I feel like my parents were soulmates and they didn’t necessarily share all the same tastes nor did they finish each other’s sentences or share a birthday. But I think the ease, peace, and overwhelming feeling of security are better measurements. That doesn’t mean that they didn’t ha e tumultuous moments but those were rare; I can count on one hand how many times they actually argued. They were married for 50 years until they each passed away in 2017-2018.

[@helenkennedy4661]

"the devil loves bad relationships because it causes a domino effect in the world. " That is deep. Thank you for your help, this is so helpful. 🙏

[@ceej8131]

Ooooh THAT WAS KEY!!! Do not confuse how you feel when your with him vs how you feel about him when you’re apart. 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@juicinwithjazz1372]

Prayer and being able to communicate with them easily is a key indicator for me.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@kellylupeska6436]

Am all the way with you,, my man,, being yourself is the key to findind your soulmate, thankyou for letting us in✌✌💞💯

[@positivevibesyo]

You are absolutely right!!

[@multicreativeartist6579]

Usually i'm quiet and only speak when spoken to, but today in class this girl chose a seat right next to me. We where working on computures and I just came back from the bathroom so I was a little bit behind. BUT I easily asked her for help. Usually my tongue would be in a not and it would be hard for me to speak. But with her I spoke naturally as if she was one of my friends. Any indications? (I also felt very calm and peaceful in her presence

[@wojo8881]

What about the slaves who prayed countless days?

[@73starrdiva]

I hope those watching this video will find their soulmate. One that will be there for you whether you are able-bodied or not; that you’re viewed as a blessing and not a burden. congrats to you all.

[@yaonani6556]

A woman has to be so deeply rooted in God ,that a man has to seek God to find her .. and vice vesa... I dated wrong for so many years but now after so many bad experiences and encounters ,she came and I feel peace ,she speaks to my inner man ,she allows me to be myself and I love the feeling of being completely “naked”(vulnerable)with her .. most important sign I have of all is that she PRAYS with me .. I thought I may never feel like having a life with someone but when I see her or hear her voice ... I see a HOME... God has never been so clear to me on the signs on this proverbs 31 woman ..

[@AmNichole]

Your intuition/spirit is powerful and you have to pay attention to it. If you ignore it and then wonder what went wrong, always listen to your gut! (The spirit, intuition, whatever you wanna call it! It’s never wrong)

[@Wrightn221]

You better preach! What God has for me, is for me.

[@YessiWaters]

Wow, this video is sooo amazing!! So many gems in just 15 min! You inspired me to do a 7 day water only fast last month & it really helped me connect closer with God, my intuition, & truly see the walls I put up in myself/ why & what I have to do to break them down. thank you for the wise advice 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@thelusmejennifer]

Wow my initial thought upon watching the video was that I should I try a 7 day water fast and scrolling down and seeing your comment just gave me the confirmation to do it. 🙏🏾

[@MsChrissied]

Yes. Peace, security and safety. The key to any solid union.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@NYCAppl3]

Recently I was thinking about my last relationship and I thought to myself, I didn't like who I felt I had to be in order to be with him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Be yourself with confidence and see who embraces that and who doesn’t, which makes life easier to weed out who is your soulmate and who is not.

[@NYCAppl3]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks absolutely 🙌🏾 💯

[@olaronkeolasanya7999]

This is me😭😢

[@dawnjohnson9504]

I'm feeling same way. I know I shouldn't be with him keep feeling like this like he's bord with me.

[@sonyasilcox5507]

I've met someone n in 5 days I feel like he is my soulmate ... its crazy how we feel like we have known each other forever .. I feel safety .. he says I'm his peace .. I hope it grows

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@thetokenvamp]

Update please! ❤️

[@tanniebee]

How's it going now?

[@Victoria_chrines]

I'm currently in that stage of my relationship but we both know we can't deny it. It has been 9 days but when you meet the one time doesn't matter. I hope you both are still happy and going strong

[@donnabrown4541]

So true. ❤️If you can not be yourself,wrong man or woman. One you,one life.😇

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@jesuspavis4157]

Be yourself because trust its someone that will love you for you ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@danrutherford4365]

So true and I absolutely agree with you !!! You smile so beautiful@Shatasha

[@jesuspavis4157]

@@danrutherford4365 thank you :)

[@danrutherford4365]

@@jesuspavis4157 you are welcome

[@12Messenger]

I can relate to this. I met a woman that worked at my local bank and initially she caught my eye (the weird part is i never imagined having sex with her). She did something to me spiritually. I can't describe it in words but she had a beautiful auro of self love. I always deposited my money outside in the bank drive thru but i wanted to start going in just because she was inside. We did have a conversation and i felt the connection was God made honestly. I never seen her again after only talking to her 3 times which broke my heart i wish i would've asked for her number but i was trying to be professional with her in her workplace. I asked her co worker where she was after not seeing her the very next time...i glanced around the room and at her desk and i didnt see anything on it. I asked where she was her coworker informed me she had got another job out of the state. I honestly felt like God gave her to me. She left a mark on me to this day and that was 4 years ago in the beginning of May. I've met plenty of people and general and women and...she still stands out of ALL the women I've met with no competition. So when Stephan speaks about spiritual glow that is important. A lot of women today are seeking validation outwardly and by the way they dress but I'm just not interested in most of them because i can see right through that . Physical part fades. I honestly still try to find her to this day not like all the time but whenever i think about it I'll still try to find her. If I ever hit the lottery or get worldwide exposure I will pay the world to find her for me. $75,000 for anyone who finds her online or in person. I wish she could come enjoy this life with me

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@LOVE_TRUTH_JUSTICE]

That is very touchy. Hope you'll find her, if she is indeed the one that God has for you. However, it could also be human psychology - we tend to like what we don't have. More like fighting for that last item on the shop, eventhough there are other ample items which are much better than the other one. Anyways, best of luck!

[@lashannathomas7100]

I pray you find her.

[@lashannathomas7100]

Beautiful story

[@12Messenger]

@@LOVE_TRUTH_JUSTICE yeah that would be correct if that was the case but i didn't like her because she was unavailable or hard to get...wasnt thinking about that. I genuinely liked her even mentioned i never had the thought of becoming physical with her

[@elegancenj540]

When you are your authentic self and it's the real, it touched me when you said when you feel peaceful with your soul mate you don't have to hide who you are, that tells you everything spiritual towards God, I'm thankful for you, the healer and the union of men and women ❤️🙏🏿

[@JamaicaLove876]

Great points. Soul mate is a spiritual connection that happens even before a physical manifestation. Often times the Holy Spirit will awaken something within ourselves that draws us closer and helps us recognize the connection. Always good to pray and fast, for clarity.

[@maryrainwater6533]

Healing from your past and throwing out old junk is a key sign of healing. Your heart soul and mind have to be ready. You both have to be on the same page about what you want and honest about it. A lot of prayer is a great key to your success.

[@torreb3107]

PEACE , SECURITY , "SPIRITUALITY" & STABILITY ARE SOME OF THE MOST IMPORTANT KEYS !!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@rashawntaylor4316]

Good morning real man will sacrifice too make you happy n ask what ‘s you need help with n what ‘s your future goals ! A real good man will put god first in his life n put you properity in his life , send you roses , help with the bills , keep gas in your car n car repairs , communications is the key n trust , a real man will work too bones too make should everything on okay !

[@sharondawilliams624]

A soulmate can mirror you and reveal something to you spiritually.... I met one of my soulmates. He died about two weeks later. One of my purposes birthed from our connection... One lesson I learned from him was the purpose of a soulmate.

[@Gojo_satroo]

Got the books: The Man God Has For You, Love After Heartbreak, Daily Affirmations For Healing and How To Get a Man To Cherish You Highly Recommend all of them!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@angelinarobertson2130]

I have someone in my life that was always my true person, might be soul mate! We have been split up for a few years now but we are talking again and we both have not been able too find nobody else that satisfies us mentally, physically and emotionally!! We are getting too know us again and I believe we were meant!! By everything you said! We both can’t be our true selves without each other! But with anyone else! We are giving another chance with each other now as we got older!

[@tanniebee]

Any updates? How is it going?

[@StrategicShon]

THIS IS SO ON TARGET -I would add humans are triune beings- MIND, SOUL & BODY- --A GOD MATCH will fulfill all 3 levels (top down)……….(1) MIND-you will communicate at a level where you get each other (2) SOUL-emotionally you feel loved, peaceful, joyful, safe, etc (3) BODY -you are attracted to each other--you get that butterfly feeling when you are together, you spot them in a crowd, you can think about them and smile or have your mind take a trip…)… WARNING: If the body is fulfilled first, you may not recognize that the others are missing!!!

[@esavaiano]

I couldn’t agree more! Be your authentic self so you can recognize your counter part. You should feel safe and secure around your partner not nervous and uncomfortable.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

[@ukobamiracle7859]

Yeah you are right

[@marlowharris4125]

Communication is very important in a relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key!

[@yvonnekaveti1189]

Correct

[@kylewhite7819]

It’s everything

[@amypiliposian5908]

When people ask me, have you found the right one yet? My answer has always been what is the right one? I am just looking for someone who is going to bring out the best of me. There is no such thing as the right one, but there is that one person who is going to bring out the best qualities in you, which is what I consider to be a soulmate.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@jeffackland5946]

Hello Amy

[@amypiliposian5908]

@@stephenlabosarie34 I appreciate your videos, and I’ve learned so much; thank you for all your valuable feedback! 💙💙

[@dirisurrezione365]

Yes the right person has a growth mind set and challenges you to be a Better person and compliments your mission here on earth 🌍 blessings

[@teemack9725]

I am going through a break up that I thought was real. I was abused. I covered it up with a smile. A year later and I am so lost but after seeing this video I will learn to fast, not rush and pray harder. My soulmate is out there somewhere and he’s probably praying for me also. Thank you for sharing.

[@andreaavalos2720]

I love how God speaks through you Stephan. It's so clear and concise. Thank God you are here on this earth. You are blessed. Much ❤

[@darlenelane392]

AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@queenburse758]

Absolutely💯 Yes We Have 2 Get The Godly Confirmation Listen And Follow His Word Put GOD First And Watch The Blessings Flow Most Definitely!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@anitamoses4071]

Everything you are saying I think I'm with my soul mate because I feel peaceful, safe and myself around him that I never feels like that with any other man not even my kids father Thanks Stephan for this video

[@lifenlegacy7333]

Girl! I was just saying this to myself. Hhmm!

[@Joshesmom]

Great advice. I think time is also a true test. Everyone acts great at the beginning but the right man exhibits consistent love, unlike a player. Plus time will reveal red flags that we have to be willing to face so we don’t fall for Mr. Wrong. The right guy will also be as into us as we are them and you won’t feel anxiety like the wrong guys cause.

[@Divine_Peace7]

A lot of times as a woman we're going to miss our soulmate. Some of us are so broken & damaged from past relationships that we probably would not recognize when God sends us our soulmate. I think before we can even ask for a soulmate let God heal us spiritually, mentally, our whole being. Then the 🔑 of finding a soulmate is put God as the foundation in everything. Women it states "when a man findeth a wife he shall obtain favor of God" meaning stop looking & picking just a random guy. A soulmate would have that chemistry, connection, one who can love all of your flaws. That person who is your best friend, lover, protector. A man of God, who knows how to cover his woman/family, that will build her up speaking affirmations, not tearing her down because she opens up about her past. This goes beyond just that physical attraction I can go further, but I think I said enough. This is actually helping me....whew Jesus.

[@messengerbygrace_]

Yesss! Going to God in prayerrrr and receiving the sign within your spirit is what to do. Very grateful for you and your perspectives. Glad you’ve allowed yourself to be used by God in this way. 🙌🏾

[@NoahsArt93]

I thought my first relationship, I found my soulmate cause she was my best friend growing up. Red flags made it clear she wasnt but I was ignoring God. Second time I told myself the same thing, she was the one, with a new girl, but there werent red flags. I thought I made it and I was good, but it ended after rushing from the last breakup. I didnt heal, I see it today and feel bad I lost a potential friend. Today, I am feeling I have healed, but I will be continuing to heal and really paying attention what I want, what God wants for me too and your videos helped me seeking and praying to God and trusting him. Thanks man for helping me grow.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@Happyfeelinpeace]

Two men like me like this. One is from high school, his past isn't perfect, the other is from the next city over and has been married three times. I'm praying to be equally yoked. I feel relieved and I cry in a good way. Some is from fasting. I'm praying for clarity on the man God has for me.

[@emshe7224]

Excellent video as usual! The point about not letting ourself or someone else's negativity project onto a potential parter or soul mate is so important. That's why we all have to take responsibility to learn and heal.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great point! You're absolutely right!

[@missymyra1]

If I say that you could not have said it any better. That "fasting AND praying will get a closer relationship with God, and gain greater clarity". That is the best advice because hearing from God will help prevent a lot of heartaches. But we must be still and desire Him as we desire the delightfulness of this world. I just started watching you, and you have confirmed so many things that God has spoken to me about.

[@mevsmyworld11]

This is such a great tip. I even clap when I heard you talking about confusion and fears. This is by far the best!

[@spirituallydivineevibess]

I’ve found my soulmate and I’m just 18 abt to be 19. we have been through sm together and he has been the only person there for me through hell and back fr. he always listens to my family problems, the thoughts in my head, just everything and he never judges me. he always wants what is best for me and I couldn’t be anymore grateful, thankful and blessed for him. god knew exactly what he was doing by putting him in my life when he did. I am going to marry this man one day. I am going to have children with this man one day. I am so in love with this man he makes me feel so safe, so secure, so at peace, it’s such a blessing. I know we are young but you will know in your heart that , that one certain person is your soul mate fr. we can do go days without sex and days without seeing each other but no matter what at the end of the day when we see each other after not seeing each other for a while the love is never lost. he is my whole heart in a human form. it’s way deeper then sex. he is the love of my life. he is truly my best friend and lover all in one. it’s the best feeling ever. im truly myself around him and we always laugh and smile and always have a good time together no matter if we are chilling or out in public together period. I love that man with every single cell and bone in my fucking body. yk that’s ur soulmate when u guys are so intertwined with each other.

[@seeingstraightthrough]

I'm not looking for a soulmate but for those of you who are, I hope you meet someone who will love you forever ❤️💓💕

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Ana-ot8lm]

He is very picky. He will one day.

[@Ana-ot8lm]

@Tashuna Ray loll ok ☺️

[@seeingstraightthrough]

@Tashuna Ray Truthfully, I don't believe that I have a soulmate. To answer your question, I use to think about being married. I just don't feel like marriage was meant for me.

[@lilmissunshine83]

I was not looking for this information but I feel like God is speaking to me through your messages.

[@jayemck7562]

“The Man God Has For You” was a really good read. Very eye-opening. Add it to you book collection ladies

[@lawrenciabrave3697]

Please can I get the book from you?

[@gatheredcrown6914]

I'm currently reading it!! So far, great read

[@eteldias5176]

With your guidance I have been able to recognize him. It is so incredibly transparent. I have never felt a spiritually connecting like this. It is undeniable. I feel so strong and courageous. I thank God I had healed sufficiently to attract such positive and genuine love in my humble existence.

[@spiritualpoet4003]

Thank you Stephan for including God in your answers!

[@liveinspirewithlivemulumba]

Healing is an important part indeed (in our vulnerability, we tend to idealize some minimal efforts when they appear to come in a better situation than what caused us to be broken). A clear mind can recognize what we truly want and need (instead of making a fairytale out of random interactions because they look and feel better than a painful past). Thank you Stephan for sharing your knowledge with us.❤️✨

[@TeddieBear1968]

Can't wait for this spiritual connection

[@jamesshank5423]

Oh my God it really work.. My ex is fully back with much love you should try writing to this for any help on whatsapp❤️❤️..

[@jamesshank5423]

➕2️⃣, 3️⃣, 4️⃣, 8️⃣, 0️⃣7️⃣8️⃣6️⃣9️⃣6️⃣3️⃣9️⃣0️⃣❤️❤️❣️❣️🖤..

[@kimsmith7212]

I have met so many men online who can't be their authentic self. They want to play games, pretend to be someone who they are not. Stealing identities of others. All I have to offer is my trust. They destroyed the trust. Be yourself!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@carmenhastings9875]

Wow! I have prayed & fasted and this video is confirmation. From the very beginning of it "True Connection" & the "RECOGNITION"...WOW! It trully happened for me. Us. And my daughter saw it seeing us the 1st time we saw each other! There was an instant connection/recognition. We even sd the same thing to God, 1st, asking what that was, and 2nd, telling Him if we saw each other in the parking lot, we would talkto each other. Well, we were both parked on the same aisle, across & up from each other, but BOTH walking carts to our vehicles & seeing ea other again. We have since realized more God has blessed us with, thru each other, but we are taking our time. Continually praying with intermittent fasting. Thank you Stephan. You have been anamazing part of my life, and my dear friends life. May God continue to Bless u and prosper u! Your obedience to Him is an inspiration. Stay safe. Be Blessed! (love the tatts!) God be with you always guiding amd protecting you. (He protected me when my daughter & 3.others were killed when the small plane we were in crashed into the embankment on takeoff. If u, or anyone choses, u may read our story online under my name, Carmen Hastings.) #StayPrayedUp

[@rma3806]

Yes, I agree that being authentic is very important. I wish I had all this information when I was in my 30s...🙁

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@tdibetso8853]

This is powerful and so true!!!! Louder!!!📣📣📣👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Amen. I want to further add that, not only will you be yourself but you will find that you become the best version of yourself.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@rinkhan205]

Your mum must be so proud off you. Tell her she raised a gift to this world. My Allah bless you and you family ❤️🧿

[@yreldafernandez7188]

Respect, be honest, be there for each other

[@maryrainwater6533]

Stephen is right on. A relation is not hard, its only as hard as you make it. Being yourself beautiful. If this is what he wants in his life, believe me you will know if he is real with himself. Relax, be who you are.

[@helliestar1181]

I know I have found my "true connection". All the points you raised I have seen in our connection. I agree you Stephan it doesn't just fall into place. Many lessons are to be learnt in our own authenticity before it will be in divine timing. ❤

[@faithfrinks7157]

I’m so grateful to God my King live these attributes & visa versa I live them to benefit him. After waiting for 12 years & not settling it was worth the wait. Thank you Lord🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

[@ericmiller8325]

Prayer is how we talk to God, the Bible is how God talks to us, as a result I would caution anyone when asking God to speak to their heart on important life issues to ensure that biblical principals firmly confirm what you believe the Lord is showing you. I'm also going to buck the trend and say that I am of the mindset that God can take any two people who want to be together and bless their relationship, so long as they are authentically committed to the Lord and to cultivating a union that's rooted in Godly principals. The idea that you only have one soulmate doesn't seem practical considering all it would take is one person to marry someone who is not their soulmate to throw everyone else out of alignment.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@CammyCamz-o8]

When you feel Safe and secure with him . You got a winner 💯 Intuition never lies.

[@Ohkeh640]

Facts!!!!

[@thisthat2023]

This was extremely helpful as I just met someone new and point #2 - I'm overthinking; he's truly a gem at this point and I'm not looking for that to change; appears genuine

[@angelasmith8312]

I ignored all the red flags. Terrible mistake. He was a covert malignant narcissist. He mask fell off. I thought he was my soulmate. I ignored everything God let me see. I thought it was the devil at first. I’m in the healing process.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌 ❤

[@YaYa-st5vt]

I can a agree...on my behalf his hold rope fell off that’s a rope that comes from his Head down to his feet...Don’t know who he is anymore or where he came from....I sent him back to his #1moms an #2aunt house 1/2021 I’m in da. Process of healing🌬🤡🌬🦁🌹

[@angelasmith8312]

@@YaYa-st5vt he was nothing but Satan himself. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Prayer heals!!!!

[@angelasmith8312]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you

[@YaYa-st5vt]

@@angelasmith8312 Thanks SiS🤍

[@Lex9768]

Per usual GOD is right on time with this message 💗 spending this year getting into alignment to be the woman of god I’m meant to live out so I can receive the love from the man of god that is coming into my life . I have this book I’ll start it today 🤍

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and I hope you enjoy the book!

[@tinajackson390]

A soulmate to me NEVER breaks up and their good out weigh their bad❤

[@britty-britsopenhouse7792]

Truth is clear and it must set you free. Without truth your living a lie. Makes no sense wasting your precious time. Peace must be your final decision. Safety 💯💯💯❤️