5 MASSIVE Secrets Girls Hide From Men (WARNING: These May PI$$ You Off)

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[@graff8757]

Testing you= manipulating you. Manipulating you= playing you. If a woman is really interested you won't have to do much.

[@stevenjackson2967]

The biggest sign I look for is a woman gets touchy feely or touches me with any hand or finger motion. That says her space is open for communication.

[@jonathanwilliams365]

@@stevenjackson2967 once a girl touched me but she had a bf

[@sloebone7399]

If you can’t handle a little attitude from a girl, you’re never going to get anywhere. If it wasn’t a challenge then, believe me, you wouldn’t want them.

[@kenyattamiles4751]

💯

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

@@sloebone7399 that's the dumbest thing anyone has said in this thread. The fact of the matter is females aren't suppose to give you attitude because if we want to get "real" about it, they can't handle what a man can dish out if he feels disrespected or that he was made a fool of in-front of people. Its only since the invention of the police that females can act like they are "equal" without getting the adequate consequences for their actions. If a man is giving you attitude to the point of mocking or ridiculing you, you are supposed to fight back right, you are not supposed to take the humiliation and being stepped on, everyone from your dad to society expects you to "man up and deal with your bullies" but when its a female doing the bulling everyone in society doesn't have the same energy. So since no one is encouraging you to "man up and stand your ground against a female" then its obvious that females shouldn't be able to test you just the same as you are not able to give them consequences for them testing you.

[@tiagodagostini]

The absurd thing is she said "we are afraid these men could be lying about themselves.. so we pretend to be bitchy".. yeahh double standards anyone?

[@SamAndrew27]

There's double-standards for almost all things for women, yep. Modern feminism and the supposed equality it touts is a joke.

[@Payne..]

Soon as you see a woman she is lying to you with all that make up on

[@enniswhalen2428]

@ T D'A -Hey, they LOVE double standards . . . . .

[@michaelbrinks8089]

@@SamAndrew27 Just about everything with most women is either a double standard, a contradiction or a catch-22...

[@fcrossface7875]

TRUE BUT MALES ARE BASICALLY OPTING OUT OF ALL THAT BULLSHIT FEMALES DO BY JUST REVELLING IN THEIR SINGLE FREE LIFE, DEVOID OF THE FEMALE DRAMA, WHICH IS NOT EVER WORTH TOLERATING JUST FOR "INTIMACY", FOR THERE ARE ALWAYS ESCORTS..

[@nonchalantd]

1:14 From my point of view, these women are screening for men they can manipulate. I would remain calm and composed and move on to a woman that can treat me with respect.

[@RobertJones-et7gh]

Yup!

[@drei9]

AMEN. REDPILLED WISDOM.

[@zooknutt]

Well I see your point however the manipulation normally starts as relationship progresses not right from start, they more interested in capturing you at that time. know what im sayin 🍑🍌

[@SRMoore1178]

@@drei9 Agreed. Wisdom for any colored pill one might take!

[@jamesoconnor9532]

Yes!

[@philosophycoaching8002]

1. we act bitchy to filter out guys 2. we want you to approach 3. we don't have a type 4. we get self conscious 5. we lack good options

[@smileyromy8947]

thanks! life is too short to watch the full video..

[@mrmeeseeks6223]

Thanks

[@stylesonly2607]

Your a goat man

[@MrSHARP27]

You're a hero

[@joshuarichard5399]

I love who summarizes the entire video!!

[@peterg4130]

If I approach you cause you're giving me signals and you act "bitchy" or disinterested/not pulling your conversational weight BECAUSE you're testing me... Then you just filtered *yourself* out of *my* process. You're either interested or you're not. I'm not here to play guessing games. The "type/league" IS a myth to an extent. Types are fluid. You as a guy can work on yourself and move up a notch or two. Your personality will definitely add a few points and will help you land a girl who might seem "out of your league". But goes both ways though. She might look like a 10 (to you) but she might be a massive narcissist, might have nothing else to offer, be boring, have a coke problem, be massively in debt, and on and on. Just cause she's pretty doesn't mean she's got her entire life together so you need to have a little more self respect for yourself and not just look at her looks as a barometer for quality.

[@r1234233]

Truth. These are the real secrets she should be revealing. Hot girls can be the most trashy girls you can go for. Theyve literally been validated and entitled their whole life. Because I've experience all the negatives you've mentioned I agree.

[@guillermoc9957]

Well said.

[@archywiseman]

I've known a boat load of gorgeous women who were totally fubar with their lives, be it personal, relationships or all of it.

[@prod.adrienaline]

🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊

[@keylanoslokj1806]

acting bitchy is total turnoff true.

[@christophermartel9310]

If a woman's first step is to be rude/bitchy as a "test" to me.... then my first step is in the opposite direction. Bad behavior is not tolerated. If it's the first "go to" for them, it won't get better in time. It's also a sad excuse to attempt to validate bad behavior.

[@ccampbell7214]

Solid

[@joshua42777]

"we act bitchy" Well I respect myself and won't tolerate that behavior

[@SaturnVII]

context dude, if she's still bitchy to you and you're six months into being an item, yeah sure, I hear you, but when you initially approach her, you're both basically strangers lol.

[@user-zp4lf3lv6x]

HENSCE THA.FRASE ALLOF THEM HAVE BITCH POTENTIAL A GIRL I KNEW SAID THAT

[@willwinters3910]

Wow, I've never heard such excuses for female narcissism put so eloquently and still blame men for being cowardly. Well done!

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

what do you expect from a female

[@aaronlevario8653]

Ummm who here thinks this is way too much information and dating a woman nowadays is exactly like going on a job interview?

[@thomasconrad2729]

It's more like going before the Spanish Inquisition. You never can act or say anything correctly and if you do, you still are punished.

[@davidmolloy126]

I totally agree.

[@user-jq2le7wz2f]

Yeah, for a NASA scientist job

[@Pswayze23]

Welcome to real life brother. It aint for the soft.

[@boomdawg56]

Most beautiful women are flexible in who they date, as long as the guy is wealthy.

[@baronobeefdip2]

bro that's bs, last time I got laid I was unemployed

[@Enigma-om6lx]

For long term , absolutely money is important but for attracting someone,there are very other factors to work on. No female bird will mate with a male bird who doesn't have nest for their eggs 🥚🥚🤭🤭

[@user-zp4lf3lv6x]

THEY WANT UR MONEY LOOKS WONT MATTER IF THEY CAN USE U

[@cfpzona]

This chick makes it seem like women are these magical, mystical creatures so hard to figure out, so elusive to get. They're not. They're just women and they're nothing special until they prove that they are.

[@drei9]

Hahaha. They are only special for Blue pilled Boys. But once you see Through their Bullshit, aint nothing special really.

[@michaelbrinks8089]

@@drei9 Confucius says, "Treat a girl like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan"

[@DMBGirl1234]

@@michaelbrinks8089 I'm not like that at all. This woman is not in tune w herself enough 2give advice on other women! I DO NOT PUT "so much time" into my looks. That's fng insulting I'm fine the way I am. We ALL are!👍

[@DMBGirl1234]

@@michaelbrinks8089 lollll omg I'm sryyy I'd they're that bad these days! I believe it though...

[@johnyaniuk1254]

This is all about making $$$ on courses. The target market is primarily young early 20s inexperienced Beta male Simps. The marketing approach is to appear like a well informed teacher in well edited videos. She knows Simps are more desperate for women so if she uses a crackly voice to try to sound sexy coupled with makeup she'll be more successful in locking down paying customers. In reality she's a 6 or a 6.5 / 10 (at best) on her non-bloated weeks. It's all about the $. Just ask the same Simps parting with $ on Only Fans. What do they get in return for $?? Just a tease... But they're a target market that provides a money source. Guys who want real real information that works will go to Rollo Tomassi's channel as well as Entrepreneurs with Cars, Coach Greg Adams and a few others associated with them. Check them out. You're welcome guys...

[@SamAndrew27]

Men, stop expecting women to act logically - IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN! Women are more emotional and communicate indirectly and with subtlety. However, it's easy to understand women - don't listen to what they say, just watch what they DO.

[@brentonk461]

And Well, that's why all those girls end up with the wrong one.

[@angellondian7628]

So true. I’ve seen it million times

[@mbrady2329]

And / or end up making themselves available to men they rejected 10-15 years earlier, once they begin to approach 40 and are still single, or have just divorced a loser. I've seen that in action a few times!

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

@@mbrady2329 I've been getting this happening to me lately had girls from high school that are Divorced with kids etc in their early 40s hitting me up on Facebook had 5 off them within 6 months later last year.. they didn't want anything to do with me in high school or just after I was invincible to them.. but since they have been checking me out as I'm now in shape.. They are trying the same crap' you look so good now' your heaps better than my Ex husband etc.. I've just been blocking them ain't interested in them in their decline as they weren't interested in me in their prime

[@jonathanwilliams365]

@@patrioticaussiesams8581 good for you dude!!

[@brianburgess3231]

Exactly Brendan exactly

[@twowheelterror2925]

Understand this fellas... These RED FLAG behaviors will continue into every interaction you have with her. If you end up marrying her she will even AMPLIFY these behaviors into the marriage and this can easily lead to divorce, and possibly you ending up losing your finances, and your peace of mind. She used the words "YOU ARE NOT A GUY WORTH BEING WITH", she will constantly be questioning your value and your WORTH as a person. If you think this is the kind of person you want to spend lots of time with... I can't help you. Relationships are serious matters, and you stand to lose EVERYTHING in the process. When they act, "bitchy", listen to your instincts because she is the kind of person that has NO respect for you, and has a lot to learn about how to treat a man. WAKE UP!

[@johnphelps7519]

Much of what you write is true, but 2 quick points: First, what you think is her testing you upon initial contact may just be due to some circumstance(s ) that are present for HER but which YOU know nothing about. Be curious, inquisitive, in the moment, and make that moment about HER vs your reaction to her. Light humor will almost always work well here: even if SHE doesn't laugh, YOU will feel better. It's just about being a well-adjusted human being. Second, we're all due a base level of simple courtesy until proven otherwise, but genuinely honest respect MUST always be EARNED. One who gives away respect easily is disappointed or disillusioned by another just as easily. So don't have an expectation of being respected by anyone automatically. What have you done to earn THEIR respect?

[@johnphelps7519]

Much of what you write is true, but 2 quick points: First, what you think is her testing you upon initial contact may just be due to some circumstance(s ) that are present for HER but which YOU know nothing about. Be curious, inquisitive, in the moment, and make that moment about HER vs your reaction to her. Light humor will almost always work well here: even if SHE doesn't laugh, YOU will feel better. It's just about being a well-adjusted human being. Second, we're all due a base level of simple courtesy until proven otherwise, but genuinely honest respect MUST always be EARNED. One who gives away respect easily is disappointed or disillusioned by another just as easily. So don't have an expectation of being respected by anyone automatically. What have you done to earn THEIR respect?

[@hardvibes]

4:11 right, she wants to be approached.....if you're the perfect dude with tons of money, a career and charisma. If you're average she's like "get away from me, you creep". They all want the alpha male. It doesn't matter if you're a good guy, with real feelings, and would take care of them and cherish them.

[@rossberning8880]

Yeah, it’s called women’s standards set at very high unrealistic expectations After they hit the wall is the only time they will give the average joe a chance. That’s when they settle for what they can get

[@Diamond-vy1lx]

The average Joe is still a wonderful human being. It really is a miracle we all exist

[@talideon]

Maybe then you need someone to monitor your approach to check if you're giving off a creepy vibe. If you're always getting that response, the problem probably isn't with who you're approaching. Consider what Marni says during the "they don't have many options" bit.

[@guitarman813]

If they act like that, get rid of them. They aren't worth your time. Plenty more fish in the sea as they say.

[@hardvibes]

@@guitarman813 it's basically 90% of women but okay

[@jamesleth806]

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY WILL SAVE YOUR FINANCIAL FUTURE.

[@stevenjackson2967]

so true. I can totally see why men stay single. One bad marriage choice and all the men toys and hobbies go away. The prettier the lady its a very, very, very high percentage she will take a man's financial income. Basically fine looking women cost lots of money to even date let alone keep them for a long while

[@sloebone7399]

You don’t have to marry them and pay their bills. We’re just talking about a little conversation at this point.

[@user-wi9nn6dz8w]

Nobody says that you need to get married. You can still enjoy being around women. If one or more of them bring up the marriage topic, all you need to do is stand your ground.

[@ericreid8987]

Not going be around a girl that plays games straight up. If she wants to test me shes not interested. If she doesnt realize im the best shes going to date. Her loss.

[@kenyattamiles4751]

💯

[@7gmeister]

This is 100% the reason guys don’t respect you. I learned a long time ago that how a girl acts when you met her is likely the way she’ll be once you got her and this honestly requires a real strong lack of character on your part so the only thing I’m thinking at this point is sex and then out

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Yep she is cold or rude or any BS tests they pull SHE JUST Failed my tests but I'm not interested anymore in today's western girls NOT WORTH THE HASSLE

[@7gmeister]

@@patrioticaussiesams8581 I know right?

[@sloebone7399]

And that’s exactly why she’s bitchy at the start. It makes total sense. If she was your girlfriend you’d encourage this exact behavior when random guys approached her.

[@AlexRamirez-fj4dj]

I have found that asian girls specifically born in other countries that come here and have a dad at home tend to act like real ladies. This can apply in some ways to latino girls in a small way but feels more present the 1st group i mention

[@7gmeister]

@@patrioticaussiesams8581 True story, back in the day I was a metal guy with long hair. I had the look down and everything and I met a girl in the bar and she was being really shallow and offered to let me start the night with her since I lived pretty far away. I knew she was really to just sleep with me and she was so over the top shallow and I was having fun with her so I decided to go home with her but I didn’t sleep with her. She tried everything! Turned out next day she had a bf so I abused her sports car all the way home and never saw her again 😂 Beautiful girl and if she was a descent and honest person it probably would have made a good match but she wasn’t interested in me. She just wanted to sleep with me. There’s just a weird line with women where if you’re over on the guy she wants to screw side you’ll never have any kind of real relationship with them. Those girls are crazy period! Any girl that’s just looking for sex is likely not worth the time or the hassle even if she does want to take it further because their heads are full of a lot of crazy ideas that aren’t based on reality and you’ll spend all your time wrestling with that

[@part1801]

I was walking through the casino and saw a girl that immediately looked away and I could see through my peripheral vision that she wasn't going to make eye contact. I kept going.

[@sloebone7399]

Who cares what she does? If you like what you see, go ahead and look. Confidence doesn’t always help but it doesn’t hurt.

[@ryos555]

Whether it is women or men, the first interaction between two people should be based on their best behaviors. Why would either want to to date someone who's relationship is founded on toxicity, or bitchy?

[@ccampbell7214]

Solid

[@viking6535]

Me: I'm a protector and provider. What can you do for me? Don't tell me I can get a piece . I can get that anywhere. So, what else you got.

[@ccampbell7214]

Solid.

[@memorylanemodelcars]

Right I was. At a Bar approached a Gal got the Brush off. BS. She later was approached by Narciistic Abusive butthead. She left bar with him. Dated him 8 months. 10 months later same bar shes complaining about this guy. I recognize her Shes whining to Gf she wants a Nice guy whos loyal. Not a cheater etc. I walk uo tell you're a liar the Nice Guy non Cheater ? Was me. You blew me Off ! Now I'd NEVER EVER want a Date with You. I value honesty above all and you don't have it

[@SchuylerT.Colfax]

@ Walt Ronk: Good on you! She will do this over & over again until she gets old and says 'Where have all the good guys gone?' I have no sympathy for women like that.

[@SchuylerT.Colfax]

@Sam Crubish Amen, brother!

[@terrycullender123]

I had a college interview so I wore a suit to work in the morning. When I came back in my uniform? 5 girls asked me where the guy in the suit was? "I work here! I was wearing a suit!" so "We know you work here. Where's the guy in the suit?"

[@djs12007]

Actually, there IS a barrier, the very first one you mentioned, if she's wearing her "resting Grinch face" and her guard is up. She wants to filter out all the sleezy guys, the pickup artists, and the non-interesting guys, let's not forget, the guy with no personality, (which she assessed in the first 5 seconds...really?), then she also filtered out the Good Guy, because your earlier advice videos you tell us not to take any guff from her.

[@r1234233]

And who says the girl is smart enough to even read the guy? Sounds pretty stuck up and assuming to me

[@ccampbell7214]

They're flippant..

[@badgerrrlattin35]

So often, a womans outward beauty is inversely proportional to her inner beauty. Sad.

[@gingereaves4097]

I disagree. I have had both men and women tell me they thought I was aloof and stuck up (they thought I was very pretty), but they found out that I was very shy and a bit insecure.

[@natureandphysics403]

@@gingereaves4097 Shy and insecure about what?

[@wahoofan222]

very true, beauty only skin deep

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Exactly 99 % of them and even the 5's and 6's now thing they are 10s. Mates ugly Sister is like it

[@gingereaves4097]

@@natureandphysics403 I was a shy child and that attribute is part of me. Some people are introverts, while others are extroverts. I did not talking in a large group or before a class. I loved to read (learned at 4), and was reading at the high school level in 6th grade.

[@dmitrialeexev7131]

I'm autistic and never dated. No girls have ever shown me interest either; nor has girl has ever talked to me. I need to try to get over my approach anxiety but I live where girls have a reputation for being ice cold. Did you know people with aspergers are 9-10 times more likely to kill themselves than the general public? Because our lives are extremely isolated. We want love but most people domt understand us so they abandon us. It is our fault too for being socially awkward

[@anthonyhamm6875]

@Dmitri good luck man! May you find the woman who matches your heart.

[@johndawhale3197]

Come to Colombia...your type is sought after by Colombianas.

[@tod3msn]

Excellent advice and even better insights. I think you are 100% correct that financial status and stereotypes are not why women pick men. Again, it comes back to a man being confident and willing to learn from past rejections and willing to listen to your advice. I think confidence in oneself is a big deal in the game of love. Great post. Thank you!

[@JO-iv7tl]

Shes more flattered by the attention of being approached. She will turn down 90% of men that approach.

[@jtbyrd456]

Kilometers ooo

[@keithgraham9547]

You fail because you expect to fail and don't understand the first thing about women. No women ever slept with a man because you both like the same ball team, or both like cats, or both like to hike. Think about it for a minute. Instead of being willing to screw a mud puddle, if you have lots of choices, what do you want? A little thrill, lots of excitement, some unknown about the person but feeling safe, and a person you would like to show off to others. You want cool, confident, and charming with a sexual edge. So women DO have lots of choices, but 90% of men don't exhibit any of those traits. Go learn to be the 10% of guys who do. Then YOU have lots of choices.

[@keithgraham9547]

@@wilfreddv Duuuude, let me 'splain something. Being a man that catches the interest of women is hardly a "unicorn." Since you haven't noticed, a. Women are the only ones with a vagina, and b. The human race has managed to procreate for several thousand years. Here's fact. If you want EITHER a casual or serious relationship with a woman, you have to get in the game. And the more game you have, the more successful and options you have. If you don't want to learn, ok. Go be a monk. My son is pretty much like that because he refuses to try. Sorry, you're going to get shot down sometimes. If you quit, your chances of forming a positive relationship with a wonderful woman is... uh, let me get my calculator... uh, ZERO. My suggestion is go watch a bunch of Kezia Noble videos and learn how to get in the game.

[@kansastour]

What you are basically saying is women love being validated. Totally agree.

[@SamAndrew27]

@@keithgraham9547 gets it. Big ups, my man!

[@zooknutt]

Oh well I'm happily married now and passed my prime so dont gotta think about this stuff anymore anyway

[@ccampbell7214]

Good on you!

[@curlyfine907]

All I remember from back in the day 30 years ago was hearing a lot of no to the question do you want to see a movie Sat night? If I heard no then I'm looking elsewhere

[@daddytubewatches]

Except in 2020 a consent form must be signed so these" beautiful" women dont charge them with assault 20 years later.

[@jethrob258]

Proves the point that no matter how good looking they are someone is putting up with them. If they are bitchy in the dating world they will be twice as bad behind closed doors. Believe that.

[@ccampbell7214]

Boom 💥 nailed it

[@mk-ultra8750]

Amen! Tell it brutha!

[@billsimons6658]

Sorry, I'm out, just don't want to play games anymore. I just don't find any value to it.

[@dvez7542]

What a blessing to is to be single, this time permanently! No need to sweat women when there are other interesting things going on with your life. i can spot a genuine person or twat a mile away. Playing games is not the way to go. If it doesn't feel right from the git go, then it's time to bounce.

[@dvez7542]

After what I’ve been through, trust me. It’s great to do what you want when you want how you want Especially when you require solitude and peace of mind to engage in your purpose. This doesn’t mean not interacting with women or social things but for me there are more important things, but it’s all relative.

[@cisium1184]

That probably explains why I have so few relationships - because I also use filters, and one of them filters out women who are bitchy to me.

[@Brandon.manga.]

BOOM

[@WhitePillMan]

BINGO

[@goldinthegreen8593]

Good on ya

[@tylerfrizzell3319]

I concurr

[@michaelwest6757]

Snarky & smart-ass ... I'm just fine with. Bitchy,..? I'm outta here.

[@Neptunianist]

I have to say if I woman acts aloof, derogatory, sarcastic or "testing" in any way, I tend to view her as damaged or at least an unpleasant person. I have dated lots of attractive, sincere, loving, sexy and affectionate woman and none of the ones where we dated ever behaved that way when we first met. Often we either met through friends or online and, in either of these cases, it is going to be based on conversational content and existing safety and familiarity but even recalling my clubbing days, the ones I formed relationships with were never initially dismissive or unfriendly. I have met types that are like that but, after I felt their hostility, I left them alone. It might be a filter for them but they're losing some very decent chaps by doing so (myself excluded just out of modesty but, seriously, I think I am a fairly good and intelligent guy).

[@mbrady2329]

Many of the women you've described are deeply insecure, whilst having done precious little to address their own insecurities.

[@kylel6924]

If men don't persist it doesn't necessarily mean they are weak it could simply mean they value their time and would rather pursue someone who is a little more open at first and easy going. Everyone is different. I know some insanely attractive ladies that don't have a bitchy bone in their body. Persistence is important to some degree but it's easy to over-persist which could repel women. Some people are for each other and others are not. 🤷‍♂️

[@jasondavis3774]

That's kinda the point in reading women isn't it?

[@carlosbrannan703]

Facts man

[@goldinthegreen8593]

Exactly

[@rusedorange]

Did you not watch the video Kyle? Straight from the horses mouth man.

[@jasonleon9313]

Your rite about that . Not gonna nag a girl to talk to me !

[@gregthompson9434]

I steer clear of most women , my life is to good to screw it up

[@r1234233]

truth

[@gingereaves4097]

LOL. Greg, that's why I steer clear of most men!

[@gregthompson9434]

@@gingereaves4097 👍🏻

[@tim_nj_devil176]

Ohhh, I get it now. It is all so clear to me. So, all those girls & women who would tell me, "You're ugly", "You're not worth a second look", "Have you ever considered plastic surgery? Then again, it does not work for everyone." or would cringe in disgust when I would be standing next to them at a bar waiting for a drink...these were just the "bitch filters" to test me. Seriously, women are just as visual as men and looks matter; otherwise, we would not have the expression, "You do not get a second chance to make a first impression." We size & judge people from the moment we see them. How many women have said (looking at a guy's ass for example): "What a cute 'confidence'?" or (when looking at a guy's physique) "Look at the size of those confidences!"

[@Diamond-vy1lx]

Before I started writing this comment I thought Society was on a downhill spiral since God knows how long. But I dont even know how it was 20 years ago, so I dont really know anything I like to think (some) people (still) have moral values... (and are just... complicated... 😂)

[@alibertylover]

I'm not interested in aberrations of human behavior. My dog is my favorite companion & dose not play games

[@awalton9024]

Old joke: Throw your dog and your wife/girlfriend in the trunk of your car, drive on an unpaved road for ten minutes. Open the trunk and see which one of them is glad to see you.

[@julianwaugh968]

Not even fetch!.

[@davidcoleman730]

She just said women are going to act bitchy and have been approached all the time and then says to approach them. Also, why can’t women walk up to men if they like them? Women want equality, that means maybe ask a man out once in a while. The same reason women are afraid to approach men is what we deal with all the time. It’s not a cake walk for us and rejection hurts us too

[@silentalpha4141]

Yes exactly, its soo stressful, and the other thing is we have to aproach so many girls to get one, its not everyday that we see the girl of our dreams

[@jasoncaine2600]

You have comprehensive issues 🤷‍♂️

[@MrPittsbrother]

Another one they won't admit but is massively true in most cases: owning real estate and the location you live. They will judge you on this because they're usually looking for a partner where they can use him to leverage their position in life and status. It's about trying to live high society and I don't blame them for having this attitude but it sucks all the same. Its not all about smoke and mirrors which is essentially what self help gurus would have us believe to sell their products. It more about material goods and impressive lifestyle.

[@Brandon.manga.]

Well said

[@tod3msn]

Really, you are offering assessments which are nothing more than anecdotal observations when the people you are criticizing “the experts” who are nothing more than people who know what they are talking about can help people a lot more. Anyone popular with women would not be at this website so while it’s ok to have an opinion I’ll listen to the experts.

[@MrPittsbrother]

She's selling "positive thinking". IE, BS

[@Bleiser3]

@@tod3msn lol, "experts" lmao

[@CrimsonSurvival]

Women crave security... AKA...Money.

[@sheffrudytke1086]

Older woman is key my brother. I'm 31. My woman is 41.

[@insanecuckooman8342]

@@sheffrudytke1086 ew. i would never settle for stale clams.

[@simonroberts1187]

I'm 53 , was married for 27 years , she left me , the first woman I told that my wife had left me , we started seeing each other , it only lasted 12 months . She was 15 years younger than me , I couldn't believe she would be interested in me , but having watched some of your youtube videos , it makes sense. You've given me more confidence , now I understand what attracts women. I also realise what a simp ive been. No more of that! Thanks Marni, you're a massive help to us blokes . Come to England and help us get our masculinity back, we need this honesty!

[@destructo3915]

That's why I dread marriage. Makes you feel like you wasted 27 yrs of your life. Better to just be single, enjoy yourself and live your best and if a woman comes along and wants to be in the picture great but never try too hard and lose focus to keep a girl around and if she's not down 100% reject her instead of waiting for her to leave. I did that with a girlfriend and she didnt care that she made me lose other opportunities with women leading me on and making me wait for her only to have her leave. So yeah glad I've already learned these things at 28!!!!

[@VideoArchiveGuy]

Not to be rude, but if the younger woman was interested in you it would have lasted more than 12 months, so she WASN'T, your initial instincts were correct.

[@samd5274]

#1 secret girls hide, I only love myself and only want your money

[@lamargrisby8376]

The 1st method is simply her playing hard to get! But that's still playing games! Why play games when you can just be up front and honest cuz that can be misleading and can backfire.

[@Diamond-vy1lx]

I think some either do it unconsciously because they dont know how to handle it or have done it too much that they stuck to it. But what do I know after all? ...

[@georgedunn320]

Oh, well that explains it: all those Karens aren't actually bungholes; they're just _filtering_ to avoid those hordes of admirers!

[@santiagoperez2094]

Im quite sure most if not alm karens have been assaulted as children.

[@georgedunn320]

@@santiagoperez2094 That's an interesting perception. There was a lawyer/novelist named Vachss [died quite recently] who held that view quite passionately. Was he an influence on you?

[@ArvelDreth]

I think the closest thing that most women have to a "type" where they totally refuse to stray away from is if they like a guy who is much more masculine, or if they like pretty boys. Also, oddly enough, I more often see very overweight women dating more attractive and thin guys rather than the reverse. I don't remember the last time I saw (in person) an overweight guy who wasn't single or dating a woman who was more overweight than him.

[@Milofchg]

As a short man 5'5. I find it insulting that women view a short man as inferior. As if we can hide our height like women do with their looks. If a girl openly views a short men as a negative. She should be sure she is near perfect before making any assumptions. I'm just saying. I myself don't have an issue with my height. As long as I keep up climbing my ladder, achieve my life goals, stay healthy, keeping a positive outlook on life, keeping a full head of hair at 49 years of age, stay fashion forward, and try to stay/look youthful for my age. I'm good, I'm happy, just don't mess with me. I'm from Chicago and I hold a green belt in Karate LOL

[@sheffrudytke1086]

Dude I know how you feel I'm 5'2. Just keep trucking

[@abdu_jilani]

Trust me im 5”11 ... there are other things than height that matter

[@sircefiro]

Man I know a guy that's about that tall gets heaps of women, he's a bit of a slime bag lmao but does real well

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

Check this out, marni here says she is 5`4 and she said men who are 5`5 and above have a chance, she also said money and looks aren't everything, but it so happens her husband is 6`4 and he is athletic and rich, and people still buy her BS programs

[@laurencegoodwin4047]

I’m 5ft 3 , have loads of female attention and haven’t been fired out of a cannon…… yet

[@iamdonewiththis9253]

A women who's already hit the wall giving guys tips to attract her, nah am not interested

[@papamidnightfpv]

'The wall' pertains to single women and obviously you do listen to it or you wouldn't be here commenting on the first place ;-}> women don't know what they want but this chick is honest about the goofy shit they think. Point is you will never have a woman without putting up with some shit sometimes. Haters are beta, be above it

[@ccampbell7214]

😄😆😄

[@VideoArchiveGuy]

Don't be fooled: 1. We act bitchy to filter out guys Meaning, if they are bitchy to you, they aren't attracted to you, move on. 2. We want you to approach IF you are attractive to them. If you are not, you will just annoy them. 3. We don't have a type 4. We get self conscious So once again, men need to do all the work and be counselors - not a big deal, but once again, see #1. 5. We lack good options True, but see #1. So the bottom line: approach if you like, but if she acts bitchy, she's not attracted to you so move on.

[@bravesrule384]

@VideoArchiveGuy - about women who act or come off as bitchy, they aren't intrested...I remember Marni doing a video where she talks about if a woman comes off or acts bitchy, initially...means she likes you.

[@VideoArchiveGuy]

@@bravesrule384 I don't buy those mind games. If she's going to act bitchy because she LIKES me, it's a solid pass, sorry.

[@bravesrule384]

@@VideoArchiveGuy - here's the link to the video I mentioned. Marni did it back in 2016. kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3nPqWOAlqqtnLc Personally, I feel a certain level of bitchy is sexy. Not overly extreme, no...but a certain level of bitchy is very attractive, IMO.

[@sublime_tv]

@@VideoArchiveGuy I sounds immature as fuck, but a lot of women DO think emotionally.

[@VideoArchiveGuy]

@@sublime_tv They can think emotionally, the question is do YOU want to have to deal with that for months/years?

[@deanfisher5017]

If they're so young and so beautiful and are always being hit on by guys they may not be able to sleep with ALL of them, but they certainly can put forth a valiant effort to try !

[@Captain-Awesome]

Hey Marni: I know of a larger population of subscribers who are sexually frustrated, perhaps more than even singles. Married (mostly men) people. I am a confident, outgoing, and good looking 46 year old man. My persuasive skills and charm are lost at this point on my wife and there seems to be an ice barrier the size of Texas between us. I could definitely try that cooking tip. As a group though it seems that a lot of my buddies that have also been married for 15-20+ years are in the same icebreaker boat trying to carve our way through. Do you have any tips for us faithful yet isolated married men? BTW you are smart, funny, creative and yes beautiful glad I found your channel. I subscribed.

[@craiglawson1930]

Yea dude its time to end it im in the same boat they have lost respect for us the only thing i have going for me is my child is grown and moved out and she cant really get me for anything

[@aaronkofigayi2905]

Most of the time I meet ladies and I just don't approach not because I am shy but it will be a waste of time. I pick clues but I just ignore them. Sometimes some ladies make the first move and I appreciate that and I make it count and make it good friendships like good friendships otherwise I just keep walking away like I have never seen. Is it a bad thing. I do this because I have a woman and I don't want to waste the other girl's time even though pick on all the clues

[@RISEOFTHEOATHBREAKERS]

I'm going to break with the herd mentality and say that this is all too much. I'm guessing that most guys would not want to approach a "super hot" girl if they have to bring along ten pages of crib notes.

[@talideon]

It basically boils down to "women are humans too" and "any initial testing/hostility is to (imperfectly) filter out jerks". You don't need crib notes for that.

[@blastorange2460]

Keith Gaughan lol you can say that again 9 times out of 10 it just invites them

[@valesauce7235]

@@talideon lmao that's so counterproductive because the initial hostility to "filter" out jerks is exactly what selects for them and filters good men out. so either it's a false theory or she's dumb or she's lying or what?

[@mbrady2329]

@@shinraexecutive2, scoring yourself as a 6 is a large part of where you're going wrong.

[@notsure6796]

@@shinraexecutive2 Don't stress it. You either have the money or you don't. It's really nothing personal. You basically have until you die to try and get rich if you really want kids. If not I say go live your life. Look at it from women's perspective, they dry up and lose their eggs early. But still have to walk around town with pms anyway, and weak arms lmao. I mean unless you are a human trafficker or arsonist in real life, there is no reason to bring yourself down or feel you aren't good enough. It's nothing personal it's just business

[@dameion75]

If a guy persist these days it’s considered sexual harassment. The man is labeled a creep, goes to jail, and his life is over. The lesson here is to don’t put up with games. Find someone who will act like a responsible adult, and just be yourself. If she doesn’t like you move next.

[@alg11297]

These are secrets NO guy knows. They just suspect it all along. It's called being paranoid.

[@MrNegative57]

Confidence. I've dated lots of above average , beautiful women. A little patience goes a long way. Remembering the worst answer she can give you is " No" . Talk to them as a person.

[@mbrady2329]

Confidence, and self-respect.

[@My2centsfuturestrader]

Yes. And some of the most beautiful girls are actually loanly. Guys intimidated and friends are jealous.

[@jacobmedina9011]

As a young guy learning these things is extremely powerful , thank you

[@duke5280]

Save yourself 15 years of heartache by applying these lessons

[@mr.j3371]

Yea same here too man!

[@davidark9054]

I once got asked out on a date from a woman months after she rejected me. Since then, rejection became another channel of hope.

[@willbarnz6960]

Also get this into your head... BE SELECTIVE as well... Not every 10 remains a 10 once you see how they treat people.... many will drop points fast and only remain that 10 to someone who is shallow.

[@ccampbell7214]

😆

[@kodymosley7763]

I like this video you remind me of my friend 99% of the time when I’m approaching a gorgeous woman I do not ask for their telephone number or talk to them I hand her my business card and tell her if you’re not married or not in a relationship and find some downtime or need a listening ear give me a call.this work for me 95% of the time. I feel wasting time with someone is not a option for me because time is the one thing a person can not get back.

[@NebukedNezzer]

I graduated from high school in 1963. I had never read the beautiful mind book or movie that was way later. I am a Dominant and had no problem walking up to the most beautiful girl in the room. all the other boys were so intimidated by her they would stay away. yes, she was happy to get attention. my thought was if there is a chance of getting blown off its no worse if she is beautiful. give it a try. I told my son. fake it till you make it. put on the air of confidence to get started. soon you learn how it works. Shakespeare made the taming of the shrew. my wife was no push over and we had a good family together. women want a man who will be worthy of them and men want women who are also worth the effort.

[@AW-zy1kw]

Yeah that's how it was when I was young too but I am about 20 years your junior. When I was on the hunt it might have required a little liquid courage but I got really thick skinned really fast. Nothing ventured nothing gained. I think with all the social media now and dating apps, the dudes are afraid to approach these women. Its really a numbers game regardless of what people say. I consider myself top 10% and I am not delusional. Only top 1% types can tempt pretty much any woman. People act like a 10% guy can approach and get any woman and that is just NOT accurate.

[@nemonucliosis]

#1 I've been persisting with this one girl since 2017.. She's made it very clear she's not interested and even has a restraining order against me. Her husband has talked to me numerous times too, fine fellow but a little "protective". Anyways, I haven't cracked or quit and I've maintained my confidence and composure for 3 years so far... So I think I'm on the right path!

[@sircefiro]

Yeah man, you got this

[@graff8757]

Just a few more years

[@nemonucliosis]

@@graff8757 I'd say another decade just to make sure

[@ccampbell7214]

Hang in there buddy 😅

[@natureandphysics403]

If these traits were presented to a psychiatrist, as a list for evaluation of psyche, with no gender identified, just the behaviors listed ...

[@ccampbell7214]

Nuts

[@rossilake218]

Is it me, or did this lady just do a “Circle back to You” maneuver? Ok Jen!

[@jonholloway5081]

Sorry, Still think this chick is full of it, All these Rules just to get a Women, Why would you bother, There's Millions of them out there,

[@nobodyknows3180]

And she really doesn't cater to relationship guidance, she's strictly PUA, and nothing whatsoever for older guys.

[@michaelmyers6985]

She's actually pretty dang helpful. Thanks!

[@r1234233]

Dont listen to her manipulative advice. Girls who act that way usually think too highly of themselves.

[@hansbass5028]

I thought you were brilliant in this video.I believe what you said and got some very helpful insights.I loved the video. Thank you.

[@sterlthepearl1000]

In the dating game, as soon as we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise.

[@dukadecastro5381]

I like that word sentence. "There's no barrier to entry".

[@patinho5589]

It’s all trading. A high quality spiritual woman would have unconditional love for all humanity. And be busy serving all humanity. Different benchmark. I’d expect the women to be kind to every single nerd. To be capable enough of handling it all.

[@genewilliams3810]

Your INFO is so AWESOME MARNI, There alot of people that talk the talk,but, Your info has been the MOST HELPFUL, I THANK YOU.

[@stanj85]

Marni. This is absolute proof you are a beautiful witch. How are you reading my mind?! I have a drop-dead, beautiful, 10/10 woman in my life who is CONSTANTLY being chased by men in and outside of our social circles. Her and I are now close friends, but I've been thinking its completely impossible for me to date her. I know the type of men she's dated in the past, and physically, I'm nothing like them. Her and I have a deep mental connection, but I have a nagging voice telling me that pursing this is an impossibility because she's several leagues above me. But this video is giving me hope that even a guy like me could succeed with her, if the conditions are right. Thanks again, Marni, for doing such incredible work helping men like me find the value that they have to offer. And also, please stay out of my head!!!

[@linxUK]

Shoot your shot bro

[@rossberning8880]

Dude, sorry to say but great looking women crave that kind of attention. If she is a 10, it’s a guarantee that she will monkey branch to another guy in a snap of a finger and not even think twice about it. It’s called hypergamy. Do some research before you fall for the trap and get hurt. Not trying to be disrespectful in any way but educate yourself before you make that decision

[@raywilliams2463]

MARNI, YOU SEEM SO PERFECT... BUT ARE YOU THAT WAY IN YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP?? ASKING FOR MYSELF LOL

[@roymanning1845]

The only way I'd get married is through the Lord .And the Lord even told me to not go ahead of him for my help mate . He told me if I did I would fall into trouble . All the laws are on their side . So a man would have to be nuts to go out and meet a woman and get married without going through God .

[@PastTime777]

Women want 3 things in this order. Looks, Protection, Providing. That disqualifies many of the "Good Guys" because the 1st impression is based on looks.

[@CDaeda]

Some men have certain expectations of themselves.

[@russ9921]

Your best video yet, Marni. You’ve answered questions men have fretted over for centuries.

[@Johnny-sn2ls]

Happy new year! 🍻🙂☃️🎄😘🍾❤️🌹

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I would only approach a girl or woman Marni if she looked at me from across the room and started flirting with me.

[@thegeorgiawebwarrior]

Marni, I really would like you to do a video on how the hell to get into a situation with a woman in these covid times. It's not like I can go to a club and be around lots of single women or go to a concert and meet somebody. We are extremely limited by covid in our opportunities to meet women. I've been following you and I am a very confident man and also ready to meet someone but don't know where the hell to go. It would be great if you would address this in a video! Thanks, I've been soaking up what you've been saying and learning a lot. Keep up the good work. 😎 By the way, my name is Rodney and The Georgia Web Warrior is my business name. I do internet marketing and this is not trying to get more business. I am really trying to get help here. Thanks again.

[@949OC714]

Target and Wal-Mart my man.

[@thomascarpenter7415]

Time to push the “ Start “ button on my Road Glide Special ...

[@80sGameGuy]

Marnie, the energy and passion you show when you deliver these tips is worth emulating as well. People like enthusiasm.

[@guglehaqer]

Guys dont mess up... Just be yourself true to what you feel and approach nicely... If u feel your feelings aren't being acknowledged then know he/she isn't meant for you...

[@silentalpha4141]

You dont know how hard it is, when finally you Attract to a girl and step up and she act bitchy or say do not bother me, when i hear and see the girl face that i attract to, hurts me

[@guglehaqer]

@@silentalpha4141 it appears to me that you may have a personality/behavioral issue, just be more social be more urself, be mindful and relax... If u would give more possessive about girls they would get far from u.

[@dannyboi7286]

Good advice, it would be more useful if there were any single women worth the effort.

[@ccampbell7214]

👍

[@markwilliamnorth4374]

If they prove to be a waste of time in their first meet with a test of any kind I avoid garbage instantly.

[@stevecrane8763]

I don't let anyone walk all over me! I have a lot of self confidence, self control, and I always have hot girls checking me out!

[@rusedorange]

Why are here then Steve?

[@xScReAmxAiMnFiR3x]

I bet you drive a Ford bud

[@johnpaulsecond4626]

soo insightful; what i really respect so much in this lady is her dedication to honesty, which in itself reveals the magic of attraction and the different layers of what it means to be human.

[@kaixar3771]

I saw your ad on your video😅

[@karl8739]

She is a business lady pursuing her passion....making ads 😂on a mainstream app like KZbin a new stream of revenue 😂on her own youtube channel😂brilliant ✔

[@davidtomes2298]

My name is Dave, and I love Marni.

[@fiverx2159]

secret 5 seems to contradict all the others as well women getting approached all the time + not having good options means they do have a type or at least a type they don't want sorry but None of these secrets are helpful in anyway its just circular talk

[@joseabad2552]

Thanks for the advice Marni your the best coach have a great day ❤

[@davidmckenzie3398]

Help Marni! Define the difference between: High Quality Guy 😀 Medium Quality Guy 😐 Low Quality Guy 😟

[@sourabhs14]

High quality guy- confident guy with social skills

[@autiger222003]

Save you some time..go read Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.

[@davidmckenzie3398]

@@FoxyLindz , Thank you very much. The way you explained it is very helpful. Would you say the same descriptions could apply to women as well?

[@davidmckenzie3398]

@@FoxyLindz , I was thinking you would say that. It makes sense in so many ways. Thanks to you, I just learned where I stand, and where my family & friends do to. 👍

[@eduardvandermerwe9836]

love this video, honest and clear !

[@johnevans6053]

I have discovered I have a Neanderthal variant that makes me 89.3% more likely than the average human to not sneeze when exposed to bright sunlight. Do women find this type of thing attractive??? I hope so, because I got nothing else :(

[@AW-zy1kw]

Lol if the beautiful girl acts bitchy toward you she is NOT attracted. She is not going to filter out one she's attracted to.

[@ThePLAYUZ]

Long story short women want to reject us

[@Joe-hd5qq]

B.S if I see a pretty woman and she isn't even giving a hint that she is interested, I will pass her by,

[@FineBlueAgave]

This is the smartest spot that you have done in a long time

[@svang55]

I don't agree with #1, guys who give up aren't necessarily weak. If I give up because you're bitchy, its because I don't wanna play games. And #2, women wanna be approached BY GUYS THEY THINK ARE HOT.