5 Mindset Shifts for Biblical Christian Homemaking as a Stay-at-Home Mom

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[@demep488]

Your videos are so great. I am 50 and my youngest is 12 so I'm past this phase. I want to acknowledge how helpful this is. When I was in the thick of four young boys to care for I was drowning. Unfortunately I was "Christian " but not. I finally came to the truth in 2018 so, I really struggled with the negative and self centered thoughts. I discovered this same truth after I actually started following Jesus. Anyway, such a great channel.

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Thank you so much for this sweet encouragement! I appreciate you watching and commenting. Motherhood and homemaking can be so difficult in certain seasons, but being a Christian and putting our sights on Him can make it SO. MUCH. EASIER.

[@yardenrice]

Your videos are wonderful and very helfpful. I just know your channel is going to flourish. May the Most High bless your hands. Thank you ❤

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Thank you so much for saying this!! That was so encouraging to me. :)

[@yanak7159]

My words would be “kind and loving”. Your message is so needed for us moms! Great reminder to have joy in the homemaking. And it is a mindset. I’ve started to switch my mindset: being greatful, spending more time in prayer and reading the Bible early in the morning before kids get up. I find myself a lot less irritable, more patient, and not snapping at the kids. Reminding myself that it’s such a blessing that I get to be a homemaker and in my case, being able to also work from home with a flexible schedule.

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

It’s so true. Such a great reminder that we GET to do this. Especially these days when being a full time homemaker is so hard to do.

[@nperfectplans]

I think I would want them to remember me as being gentle. Being gentle can be so hard when you're always overestimated but having a gentle spirit and tone I feel like can be a game changer for kids. ❤

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

It can be so incredibly hard, I know all too well. Especially when you feel like freaking out inside! But the children absolutely pick up on our vibe and they mimic it.

[@danyelleanderson9106]

Keeping blended eggs in a jar 🤯 what a brilliant life hack! Thank you for your content, especially on overstimulation. This week I've been at my end. Reminder to come back to Jesus ❤️

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Right?! It occurred to me one day… why am I not bulk prepping scrambled eggs?! And you’re so welcome, I’m so happy I can point you back to Jesus!

[@regxnkuchxn]

NEEDED to hear this today. Thank you for taking your time to serve us mommas and homemakers the way you do! 💕

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

You’re so welcome, sister! Thank you for watching!🤎

[@anamarijapavlic1619]

Great video and Message. ❤

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Thank you! 🤎

[@littleacornsmightyoaks]

I relate so so much to the nervous system at a ten. Way beyond a bit of caffeine and I cannot do earplugs - I don’t get it - not only can I not stand the feeling, but it would stress me out more NOT to hear my children well. I have been a home making mama sixteen years, with a big age spread, but only recently realised I have massive anxiety undercurrents. I don’t feel it or display it for the most part - but I get sudden physiological symptoms that are just awful - like feeling unable to breathe. It’s horrible. I realised my nervous system is totally spent. There are reasons - my teen has a difficult diagnosis and has been through years of intense mental health problems, and my youngest (2) had a medical diagnosis last year, meaning even more than average constant vigilance. I get guilt about the middle three children not feeling “special” enough so there is constant need and worry. Yet I am intent to be that calm, centred mama. The toll has been this weird and really agonising set of physical symptoms that hit me without warning. I will check out your course. I have always been prone to overwhelm and learnt years ago to try hard to dial down expectations and demands - but it’s not easy, under the circumstances. I really dislike the feeling of overwhelm so much. I pray a lot. I will definitely check out your course - and thank you for your content and for highlighting these parts of motherhood, without implying failure. To be honest, I know that I feel best when I am totally lost in just caring for my family - this isn’t very du jour - it’s all about very narrow ideas of self care - but I thrive serving my family and need my calm to focus fully on that. God bless xxx thank you

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey so openly. It’s clear how deeply you care for your family, even in the midst of such intense challenges. I want to acknowledge the weight you’re carrying-managing the needs of your children while striving to remain calm and present. It speaks volumes about your love and commitment as a mom. I understand how the constant demands can take a toll on your nervous system. Feeling like you’re constantly “on” and then experiencing those sudden, overwhelming symptoms can feel so defeating. This is exactly why I created my course. I wanted to offer a step-by-step framework to help moms like you regulate their nervous systems, find calm even in the chaos, and move out of fight-or-flight mode. It’s not about adding more to your plate but learning practical, gentle tools that support you in responding to your family with grace-while still taking care of yourself. It sounds like you’ve already learned so much about dialing back expectations and finding a rhythm that works for you. The course can deepen that by helping you release the underlying anxiety and overwhelm that hit without warning. If you feel led, I would love to walk this journey with you through the course. Please know that you’re doing an incredible job, and your desire to thrive while serving your family is so beautiful and inspiring. Thank you again for your kind words and for considering the course. I’m here for you if you have any questions. God bless you!

[@tamiurquizo746]

Kindhearted ❤❤

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Love that. 🤎

[@nperfectplans]

Your videos have truly been a blessing in my life. Thank you for being such a woman of God and sharing your wisdom ❤

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Wow thank you SO much. I’m so happy they have blessed you. 😃

[@kristiecox7350]

Don’t tease us, where’s the French toast casserole recipe? Lol I love how you save the scraps for it. I will do this now. ❤

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Haha it’s the magnolia home one! It’s soooo good! I have the cookbook but I’m sure it’s online somewhere too!

[@kristiecox7350]

@@TransformedHomemakersSociety oh, ok I have that book. Lol

[@phoebzhunley3908]

Faithful

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

That’s been a common one! Can you tell me more about this? Faithful in what, specifically? 🤎

[@Ldrousseau]

My word from my children would be Joyful, but I think I pick that because that’s the word I struggle with. It’s possible they will say Loving, Present, Warm… only praying they will say something good ❤Blessed❤

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Gentle is a common one from these comments and the comments in the Facebook group!

[@nancypanasyuk8860]

Do you homeschool any of your kids as well? I ask only because I have 4 kids, 5th on the way, I work one day a week at my job and the rest of the time I’m a homemaker and a homeschooling teacher. Love that you said we need to be thankful for all our blessings! I need to be reminded of this every second of every home day

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Yes, I do. I’m mama, teacher, dr, chef, all the things! 😆

[@nancypanasyuk8860]

@@TransformedHomemakersSociety 🙏🏼♥️Thank you for sharing examples of inspiration. God bless you and your family

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

@@nancypanasyuk8860 thank you so much for watching! You bet 🤍

[@LauraS1104]

I rarely think about myself. The only thing I do for myself is have my coffee from Dunkin. 😂

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Good job! 🤎 although I think it’s ok to think about ourselves from time to time - just not wallow in self pity.

[@Kathrynlove]

On my hard days...I call adoption agencies and tell them I need to make an adoption plan...😂 I am such a psycho. It's so hard 4 kids homeschooling and my 4 year old with Autism is so hard...Motherhood is the hardest thing in the whole world. I can't even BELIEVE the challenge!! I am so glad I found this video. It was Great!! It is True.

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Thank you for watching! It really is so sanctifying isn’t it?!

[@desanders12]

What is so horrid about homemaking?

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

I explain it in the message I provide in the video, but many moms experience crippling anxiety and overwhelm while balancing daily tasks, multiple children, and much more. 🤎

[@Pangajck]

I hear you but the continous home making is horrible is not necessary. Seem like a draw for attention to click. Horrible to me seems like a big word. Yes the work is hard but there's a good reason we choose not to outsource this work. To be able to work in my own home & care for my family while our provisions are made available feels like a miracle so it's hard for me to see it as horrible. Yes it's hardwork but incredibly rewarding. There are not many hard work that matches the reward of home making....peace & blessings

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Thanks for your comment. I'm wondering if you listened to the message?

[@juliejank8190]

That is a blessing that u have never thought of homemaking as horrible. It is true though for many. Thx Kyrie for this mindset shift and challenging us, esp those of us who are in such a low place in our homemaking

[@dianaa9864]

My word is ... Kind🩷

[@TransformedHomemakersSociety]

Such a good one. Encompasses so many fruit of the spirit. If you’re kind you’re being patient. If you’re kind you’re being loving. Etc.

[@dianaa9864]

Beautifully said. That is exactly why I picked this word. Kindness encompasses all the characteristics I aspire to have in raising my sweetheart. ​@@TransformedHomemakersSociety