The best thing you can do to a narcissist is to focus on yourself and move on. Remind yourself they aren’t worth the stress they cause. Leave them to stress themselves out 👌🙌🙏🏼☺️
@ViolettaD14855 күн бұрын
Problem is, job market isn't great in the US, and almost every place has at least one.
@ViolettaD14854 күн бұрын
@kathrynhogan9273 i just hate being their primary target. I will always hear how they continue the pattern with someone else when I move on, but they always zero in on me first. I simply cannot grey-rock believably. I've listened to HG's work narc package, and much of it works for corporate jobs, but in teaching, the administrations are more controlling now than when I was a grad student. You just _have_ to use their bad methods, even though yours are successful. Or _because_ yours are successful. One private school i worked at lost 30% of their student body after the guy who hired me was replaced by a character i call "Executive Dementor." A teacher i kept in touch with said he had to do the Plan for Improvement the year after I left, and it was total BS. ED was always going on about "student-centered teaching," but the kids would sit there sullenly, not responding to him. The other teacher, who had grown up in that town, moved halfway across the country to another job the next year.
@MargaretM-vd7bb5 күн бұрын
No they kicked mine straight into the Black Hole, still crawling out of it. Continually Consuming your Knowledge , learning about myself, understanding the Narcissist and their Behaviours and the reasons they are this way is the sole reason I can now see some light. Thankyou sincerely HG. ❤️🌻
@flapper275 күн бұрын
Thank you, HG! 💜 5 of the Worst Things To Do With A Narcissist: All of these ways threaten a narcissist's control a. Trying to manipulate the narcissist b. Thinking you can change the narcissist c. Expect the narcissist to understand your perspective d. Thinking you can manage the narcissist successfully e. Telling the narcissist that he's wrong
@TruthSeekingElf5 күн бұрын
Yes, it´s demeaning and utterly exhausting. This just pains me to no end.
@Chris-jo8tmКүн бұрын
Toxic isn’t in my character and won’t lower myself to childish games. I offer silence and keep my power. I can’t fix anyone and have no intention of wasting my energy. I wish I could help but have learned enough over last 2.5 years it’s hopeless if the person is so delusional about their behaviour and what is reality
@Pieceofpeace435 күн бұрын
So these are the type of video that certify how narcissists are a threat to humanity and intimacy in general. They want it their ways and even if it goes their ways that’s’not ok. They are such loosers and yet they found deep pride in it. Amazing 😂
@ViolettaD14855 күн бұрын
The "even if it goes their way" part perfectly describes some teachers I had in elementary school. They just couldn't stop harassing me, even if I wasn't misbehaving, and then they wondered, "Why don't you act like this in Mrs. So-and-so's class?"
@ihdtdd5 күн бұрын
Thinking about manipulation is a wasteful exercise of emotional thinking, that's all ego fuel, keeping you in oppression, fool's errands as HG Tudor appropriately described. HG's Video, You Cannot Control that Which Cannot be Controlled comes to mind. Spending time on the cult of yourself and learning how to do that is the worst thing we can do, that inflicts the most damage on a narcissist, more than anything we could possibly dream up. IMO.
@lauracox38565 күн бұрын
Guilty 2-5. I don't think I've intentionally tried to manipulate someone based on the fact they were a narcissist, but I'm definitely guilty of the rest!
@The_Park-View_Crow4 күн бұрын
7,000 subscribers, well done HG.
@NarcissismandPsychopathywi-x4g4 күн бұрын
Thank you. Steadily moving forward.
@danistark7814 күн бұрын
Thank you, sir.
@AYKAY884 күн бұрын
Have a child with one
@cindyfrancis94914 күн бұрын
Really didn't see it that way, u can be manipulate in that I u would never know😂
@joannturi39684 күн бұрын
It's all child's play. A 7 year old makes more sense than these senseless individuals. Let them go on their merry way.