1) working on yourself 2) passion about something 3) calm 4) independence 5) kind and positive I guess I'm the exact opposite of these :(
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
It’s things we can all work on 🙌
@AshantiCampbell13 ай бұрын
It’s all a process boo
@georgiehughes48583 ай бұрын
Don’t be sad… pray & ask God to help you begin to evaluate honestly, get books, listen to positive & beneficial KZbin videos, be curious to understand why you do certain things, etc
@mrunalinisirsikar72223 ай бұрын
6, accept yourself doesn't need validation for her insecurity
@oneofakind22763 ай бұрын
I guess I have been dating unhealthy men. My ex spoke all of these things about me and he loved them. Yet, he still cheated
@ZendelAtkinson3 ай бұрын
There's no perfect relationship. It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.
@SERIKAmrabat3 ай бұрын
I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.
@ZendelAtkinson3 ай бұрын
Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@SERIKAmrabat3 ай бұрын
I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.
@ZendelAtkinson3 ай бұрын
You definitely should
@how_you_talk2 ай бұрын
So so appreciate you. You are amongst the very few who actually tell people to work on the relationship rather than completely giving up and separate. Many people like u have saved relationships and thankfully their kids are also fine.
@uberbabe5853 ай бұрын
It has nothing to do with what kind of woman you are, it all depends on the man you're with, if he's willing. You can be the queen of all there is and still a man may not see it. Be yourself, the right one will stay and won't be able to live without you.
@alfievelasquez3 ай бұрын
I agree, authenticity is the key, the right person will connect to it, just persevere and not take things personally when it feels like “rejection”.
@yashlr30592 ай бұрын
Love yourself so when a partner leaves, wish him/her well and continue to invest in yourself
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
Yes 💯 ❤️
@Shankari1112Ай бұрын
@@Ruzinawait till you meet a narcissist
@SadiaYounus-ob4cg2 ай бұрын
I am proud to say I am and everyday I am become the best version of myself ❤
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
Yes! 💯
@ArtemisDeer4443 ай бұрын
I just realize I'm everything on this list ... I'm a brand new woman 🥰🙏💕
@annmoore86963 ай бұрын
Smiley Big 😊
@dhivyadevimarappan43463 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
@amandahachigabalala87572 ай бұрын
Loving myself too💃😉
@ShanmugaJothi52 ай бұрын
Ur not a women ur silence killer want anman to be her slave no bloody will be
@ShanmugaJothi52 ай бұрын
Mcruell out soft fake but want others have to be slave just go
@reemsaif3105Ай бұрын
Encouraging women to embrace themselves is Key ❤❤
@RuzinaАй бұрын
Yes 🙌 ❤️
@geraldine71013 ай бұрын
I have never chased a guy...good advice
@Beela20203 ай бұрын
Yes Never pull away thats all ❤🎉
@EdelweisSusie2 ай бұрын
Well let me tell you - I have always been the type of woman with the 5 traits you describe, and both my ex-husband and ex-partner abandoned me because I was too independent: they felt I didn’t need them and wouldn’t notice if they were in my life or not! What I’ve learned is that men don’t want long-term any more: they just suck the energy out of a woman then abandon her (usually just when she needs him the most) and monkey-branches to his next conquest. Be who you are, sod them, and make a happy life for yourself, ladies. They’ll end up sad, broke, lonely old players: it’s called karma!
@adeniyittmilade45222 ай бұрын
Yes look you are correct
@zee518-ym1tk2 ай бұрын
💯%
@fadumomusse21322 ай бұрын
I'm with you on this
@aminakashumba97412 ай бұрын
It feels good to hear someone describe who exactly you’re 🥰. I’m humbled to have all the qualities.
@ethaniel2543 ай бұрын
This echoes a lot from a guy friend of mine of what he looks for in a woman. In his words: Personality, intelligence, great smile, kind & confident 😮
@Hannah22653 ай бұрын
I love these teachings... I completely agree. A woman of value is confident in herself! I've learned a lot over the years, after my divorce. It made me look ar myself & what I wanted in my life. I have a new bf and he adores me just as I am! ❤
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank for sharing this ❤️
@amreenbanu17082 ай бұрын
Great 👍
@virtue14953 ай бұрын
This message just encouraged me. Needed to hear this and it's all so true. Thank you Ruzina🤎🤎🤎
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
You are very welcome ❤️
@annemarieleuca83493 ай бұрын
I love the kindness and something in your voice, that' s a mirror of your soul.Thank you!
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙌
@tenzin09773 ай бұрын
Wonderful video🙏 thank you so much Ruzina for sharing this❤ I am a spiritual, courageous , passionate and independent woman in Love with myself❤
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it ❤️ and yes you are 💯 🙌
@wunmishittu44192 ай бұрын
I process all the listed qualities and most of my relationships endured. Most of my ex wish for continuity even without intimacy, we relate real good.
@deepikamewada680Ай бұрын
Wow so nice... Thank you so much to tell me the words that I really want to hear...❤❤
@Beni68-t6zАй бұрын
This is so encouraging ❤
@RuzinaАй бұрын
🙌 ❤️
@bulelwamahura3 ай бұрын
I am on the right track. Thank you for sharing 💞
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Glad to hear 🙌❤️
@MaNcu-dg2wt3 ай бұрын
It's only applicable for real man who have the same qualities. A lot of man are intimidated by confident women. They want women to need them. I got told that a lot that I'm too independent and they felt that I didn't need them.
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience you’ve made some valid points. I believe a healthy strong man will appreciate a women who can be independent and not feel intimidated.
@alingkinai75203 ай бұрын
I agree.
@rainbow_world893 ай бұрын
Yes its all true 💖 these are the most important and basic things all women must work on.
@susanjohn6701Ай бұрын
I quite like your podcast and the subject chosen today. It's my first time listening to you. Keep up the good work. In many cases, I noticed independent women tend to think too much of themselves, often turning off the man. No man wants to feel smaller than their woman. They need to have a true balance in everyway.
@RuzinaАй бұрын
I absolutely agree it is about balance 💯
@elisastahl85183 ай бұрын
How - right You ARE ! She wants the Best - this means sssshe needs to become the Best of herself ! yes a passionate woman - WHO light-up her soul - what She enjoys what her soul loves doing. How beautiful - what You are dis-playing - You are so wright. Independent - Goals - Ambitions - a woman being- a Goal-Getter - she Does - what it needs - ! This is vry Great what you are Doing ! Thank You VERY MUCH !
@NobuhleNqgakayiАй бұрын
Thanks for the tips and to add, I think the woman should also exude happiness and be romantic yet vulnerable when necessary
@martinamaric16353 ай бұрын
That’s the trick, good healthy men.😅
@fruzsinavalo20443 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are amazing this video was so so great. ❤
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
So glad you found it helpful ❤️ 🙌
@ingridbowen51103 ай бұрын
Wow!!! well said ty for your great wisdom and positivity and strong words of love and confidence you have shown authentic and strong, you really are."" Keep up the good works. I'm looking forward to hearing more of your wonderful words of encouragement in your future videos. God bless you. 😊❤ 🎉
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful comment & and I hope you can continue to enjoy future videos 🙌 ❤️
@cynthiadistefano64412 ай бұрын
This was a truly great video! I totally agree with what you stated about confide t women and how they think!
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
🙌 ❤️
@ShiningBrightlyEachDay3 ай бұрын
Post divorce I am practicing these 5 things and have never been happier!
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
❤️🙌
@dr.franciscanishatotalheal3 ай бұрын
Very useful dear.Thanks for giving me new ideas and making me believe that I am not wrong many of the times.
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
You are very welcome so glad you found it useful 🙌❤️
@mawescott3 ай бұрын
Good Healthy Men ☝🏾very important
@minuagrawallarelationshipc-s6m2 ай бұрын
I completely agree on this points.. thank you ❤
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙌
@honeymayfair-rt9tc3 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏excellent speech fascinating 👏👏👏👏
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙌❤️
@tracymimiekaapala2373 ай бұрын
I have literally lost myself, not even l can recognize myself. I feel my passion died.
@teresarichmond54333 ай бұрын
I’m everything you said in your video & yet it’s amazing how many men don’t see value in who I am & all that I bring to the table for some reason. I am a feminine woman who also owns a successful business to boot! I think it’s because they are suffering from missing out on the next pretty face on dating apps. They act like they are confused, directionless & lacking understanding of what they want at 55-60 years old 😮 Maybe they have never been exposed to so many beautiful women in one place (apps) it just scrambles their brain. 🤷♀️ I’ve never seen anything like it !
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
Hello Teresa this is interesting & thank you for sharing this insight 🙌
@meganhenry57953 ай бұрын
Be the type of woman you love...the rest will follow.
@GothlindReiss3 ай бұрын
RIGHT ON!! 👍💫 ❇ Beautifully Said!!! Tk U for sharing!! ♥
@elinorjones93963 ай бұрын
Really liked this. Resellience compassionate and caring in myself as a woman I have found beneficial inside and outside of work for the care I provide to my myself, my family and my job, nurse 😇
@deviscott45943 ай бұрын
That is so true Love your video
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
❤️🙌
@galinaverbitsky93572 ай бұрын
Thanks for very beautiful sample lesson ❤
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
You are very welcome ❤️ 🙌
@godschild49273 ай бұрын
I got all this except calmness.. Am working on it 🎉 the passion ❤ everytime am focus on my passion. His more chasing me 🤗👑
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
Yes we have all things to improve on 🙌🙏
@nicolapetersen16332 ай бұрын
I agree to some of these thing's. However, often when a woman is self sufficient, men are intimidated by this.
@eunicegfaith3 ай бұрын
Perfectly said- Thank you.
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome glad you found it helpful ❤️ 🙌
@aparnavarma3363Ай бұрын
Wonderful advice 👏 👌 Thank you
@RuzinaАй бұрын
You're so welcome!
@LosaliaLuvuFaoliuАй бұрын
Thanks a lot, from Tonga 🇹🇴
@RuzinaАй бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@BelindaKambuanga2 ай бұрын
I agree with your video, because I am a woman who always work for my own, and I help my husband to support our family 🙏🙏💪💪
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
❤️ 💪
@rosewint72033 ай бұрын
Very good point I found it very interesting that the person I’m ❤💯👍🙏
@ReyneldaTumulac-zr4pbАй бұрын
Yes thanks true love about topic have see you
@arlenemarisjacob9339Ай бұрын
Well said!
@rosewint72032 ай бұрын
Sending you my love too it was very inspiring I love ❤️ ❤❤ it 👍💯🙏
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
So glad you found it helpful ❤️ 🙌
@user-hr2yk5wh3u2 ай бұрын
Beautiful video! ❤
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
❤️
@evelyneuwamahoro8842 ай бұрын
Uuuuh, I am more than enough already! The world out here makes women worry for 😢 things that ain't of value, Thx
@ashnienair38573 ай бұрын
Enjoyed this video
@Chi-nemeremАй бұрын
I am everything on the list except independence and I really wish to actualize this come 2025. I really want to do things by myself
@reginafodayholyspiritpleas31533 ай бұрын
Thank you very much it’s so lovely, God bless you ❤️
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙌
@payalthakkar2610Ай бұрын
You are best..it's really helpful
@RuzinaАй бұрын
I'm so glad you found it helpful 🙌
@Radtech20023 ай бұрын
Good video Ruzina 💐
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙌❤️
@amrutajadhav-h4z3 ай бұрын
Very helpful content
@mohalencomsile888Ай бұрын
Profound 💥
@ChiomaOkoro-t4hАй бұрын
Focus on you , do you not for anyone but for your self. Never try to do anything for yourself because of a man. I mean these things are irrelevant these days
@EugénieOuchakova2 ай бұрын
Thank You so much!!!
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
❤️
@chiomauzoma67123 ай бұрын
I love all the tips , thanks
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙌
@ThriftTea3 ай бұрын
absolutely brilliant ! thank you 🤍 i hope to see more great content from you ! blessings 🤍
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank for this comment 🫶❤️
@EllaRodriguez-ms5kwАй бұрын
I am that type of woman. Thanks for the confirmation.
@RuzinaАй бұрын
Love it 😊
@ceciliajerrytashie24693 ай бұрын
This is me, you are actually describing me. Thanks.
@janet19242 ай бұрын
New sub! Love your messages ❤
@Ruzina2 ай бұрын
Thank you for subscribing 🙌 ❤️ hope you continue to enjoy the videos 😊
@tracymimiekaapala2373 ай бұрын
Sometimes one would find it easy to continue being themselves if there’s room to. How does one come out when down trying to please partner who let you fall and when you try to get up, he doesn’t have energy, time and patience? I guess, you stop trying.
@sylvia53613 ай бұрын
I learn’t to get on with my life within the marriage, men do. Don’t make them the centre of your attention. Make you number one. Stop doing everything for him he’s a man not a child.
@honeymayfair-rt9tc3 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏wonderful advices !!!!👏👏👏👏
@namrataJeАй бұрын
So true!!
@aidahabdghani50982 ай бұрын
I agree.But different strokes for different folks.Different man want different things in a woman.It differ according to their background , their upbringing and where they are from.
@TheGoodNurse953 ай бұрын
Hello Rozi , my hero !!! i love your contents !
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching always 🫶❤️
@Asiamariestar3 ай бұрын
Very on point!
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
🙌❤️
@btechmathshub70502 ай бұрын
I agree 💯
@anneongadi25253 ай бұрын
Very true
@annatolmachova87183 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊❤
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
You are very welcome 🙌❤️
@Mombo123453 ай бұрын
Some men don’t like a woman to be to dependent either . I’ve been there both ways and my last relashionship he told me I was to independent.
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
I belive healthy men will appreacite and value independent women.
@zenap22733 ай бұрын
100% true
@Stacy4493 ай бұрын
I have a lot to work on.. tears 😢
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
No one is perfect. We all have areas to work on 🙌
@DeisyGonzalez-c7w3 ай бұрын
Love it!
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
🫶🙌
@piumalichandima49742 ай бұрын
I am already all of this 😊❤
@ruchabarve2412 ай бұрын
Good
@Kate-hi1usАй бұрын
I am this woman and he still ghosted me and got married , ladies each man is different and want different things.
@Lloydibwoy3 ай бұрын
Those 5 qualities mirror myself as a man...Where mi Empress at !!
@Afulio-p1c2 ай бұрын
I was a young girl I saw many toxic couples fighting men cheating and hitting woman treated like slaves put me off .when grew up I never forget that .I met men and and that exactly what I saw and that's why I rather live single and prioritize me cause I rather be happy with a peace in mind and have freedom to do whatever I want in life to be independent.
@nichitacool49553 ай бұрын
Nr 3 i need to work on it 😅
@darlinah80903 ай бұрын
Fantastic ❤❤❤❤❤
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
❤️🙌
@TheGoodNurse953 ай бұрын
Hello Rozi , my hero !!! i love your contents ! But can you make your background less busy . I like it to be brighter and less busy . Take care !!! ❤❤❤
@nathmeenakshi2 ай бұрын
That's me all within me❤😂😂
@shonaboris68323 ай бұрын
My ex boyfriend is Punjab he treated me like a queen because he would do anything for me but sometimes rude as hell 🤣
@musubikamary56133 ай бұрын
THANKS DEAR
@sundasnaze39973 ай бұрын
In our society no body let the women do what she wants, she have to do all the things in accordance her in laws and dear hubby.. so there is no chance of be herself and independent.. also in that situation no one can be stay calm, kind and positive 😢
@ratupawar42683 ай бұрын
Really nice dear
@hanahadgo19242 ай бұрын
exactly ❤
@mariannasantorinaiou35353 ай бұрын
It's me❤❤❤❤💯💯💯👍👍👍👍
@basiapawlicka18363 ай бұрын
Ruzina, I agree but in 90% because I had a stressful time and people could connect with me better. By saying we should always be happy bunny - we feel objectified ..
@chandrikavrayappa8049Ай бұрын
You are so gorgeous
@RuzinaАй бұрын
pray 🙏 ❤️
@1708A3 ай бұрын
New subscriber here🌹♥️. I love your content. Are you on Spotify? Thank you!
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
🙌❤️ hope you can continue to enjoy the content thank you for subscribing. I currently do not have Spotify but it may be something I consider soon!
@LuddyGinwangi3 ай бұрын
Point number 4 is me
@DianaHocevarАй бұрын
🎉🎉🎉
@AllyAngoman3 ай бұрын
Thankyu for your amazing coarch
@Ruzina3 ай бұрын
So glad you found it helpful ❤️🙌
@jenniehaque3 ай бұрын
I have all that unfortunately i dont want the man
@modestamedard89013 ай бұрын
😂
@Dorothy353 ай бұрын
@jenniehaque most times I am not bothered to try that hard