5 Quick "Style Lessons" To Know By 30: Changes Everything!

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0:00 7 Fashion Lessons EVERY Woman Should Learn By 30 //
Here are the biggest lessons to learn about style by 30 (but honestly the earlier we can learn this the better). These style lessons will bring a more confidence to your life!
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1:15 // Lesson 1: Your clothing is your visual voice
3:43 // Lesson 2: Your wardrobe is a collection of meaningful pieces
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5:26 // Lesson 3: Guilt doesn’t belong in your wardrobe
8:04 // Lesson 4: Quality over Quantity is real in all areas of life
9:41 // Lesson 5!
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[@tinabecker1313]

I love how your videos aren’t the same content everyone else on KZbin is making. I appreciate your creativity and I love watching your videos 🤍

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Tina! We try not to look around and instead just do our own thing. Means so much that you say that ❤️

[@miriamscigliano2153]

I love your advice, it has really helped me realize the message that I am sending with my clothes. I have neglected myself for so long and in an effort to be avoid being called "high maintenance" I had become NO maintenance. Your advice made me realize that the message I'm sending with my clothes is...I'm not worthy. I have decided to prioritize myself this year and allow myself to enjoy dressing in a way that asks for respect. Thank you for your awesome videos! It's about so much more than fashion ❤

[@bethanyleonardo]

I can totally relate to the avoidance of high maintenance, I've definitely said the same thing in the past. So happy to hear your powerful words and goals.

[@Rooshii]

So well said.

[@WiccanRai]

I'm well past my 30s, but I still found this useful. Especially when it comes to guilt. I am still struggling with finding a balance between practical/comfort and stylish and expressing my style. I am limited by a tiny budget, but I have items in my wardrobe that I hesitate to wear because in the back of my mind I'm questioning if it's practical or maybe I don't have shoes that go as well as I'd like, but if I wore it, I'd still feel good. But I will turn instead to something safe. If that makes sense.

[@varshaverma5393]

Your 30s' wisdom are gonna build my 20s. Masterpiece! ❤

[@awildthatcher]

My issue with my wardrobe as of late is accepting my weight gain. I have beautiful pieces that went together and matched my personality perfectly, but now I'm trying to decide between buying a whole new wardrobe to match my new size, or try to lose 20 pounds to fit into my old, beautiful clothes. I think alot of people can relate to gaining the COVID-19-pounds 😅

[@KiniVuitton]

Same! Like at what point do you give away or wait it out to fit again.

[@alexandradiaz8877]

Loose weight!!

[@emilybalentine9123]

this is a difficult situation that I can only infer has been influenced by both the body changes and the financial investment it requires, rather than give an immediate answer I have to ask: what do those clothes mean to you? what exactly do you find hard to accept? (Is it the visual you give, the fit, the stress of feeling you ‘need’ to fit old clothes?) and how is your current wardrobe different? it’s hard to accept anything much less changes in our body but at the end of the day the clothes are meant to fit you, you do NOT need to fit the clothes; i want to believe you’ll find beautiful clothes that match your personality and also make you feel confident regardless of your shape now. If it’s a financial concern, find 2-3 nice pieces now so that you have something that’s matching you as you decided what to do next.

[@jeanninelaila4228]

This is exactly how I feel!!! I had to get rid of so much and buy new things in a rush to just fit into clothes again and it feels interruptive to my style development. Thanks for sharing and helping me realize I’m not alone

[@alexandrasmith7682]

When I was 22, I inherited two beautiful silk embroidered Japanese coats from my Grandmother. They didn't work with my style back then but I loved them for sentimental reasons and because I just knew a time would come. They started appearing in my mid-30's as a coat I could wear over that little black dress in the evening. I have cherished them even though I might only wear them twelve times a year. I have realised that friendships are the same ... Some of my most valuable are American friends that I don't get to see every week. Wonderful piece, Bethany x

[@audreyhowler]

Thank you for reminding us that we "have a right to take up space"! Women especially can feel the opposite, even us mature ladies. I hope you don't mind me stealing this phrase from you when my teen needs a self esteem pep talk. Luckily for her though, she has a much stronger sense of style than I did at her age, no matter the trends. Frilly, floral and feminine to her core!

[@bethanyleonardo]

love your kind words, and yes, please feel free to steal that message! :)

[@kathleenreese5010]

The best gift I ever received was a color and body type analysis when I was 27. It helped me develop my own style at an early age instead of wearing what was "in". I love your videos.

[@slt9315]

I love how Bethany incorporates healthy identity to fashion. Her thoughtfulness for others shines through her craft. Thank you!

[@hinnaparmar]

I’m 25 and I’ve worked in jobs where most people I work with are much older than me. I do really believe that your style sends a message because I never feel like I’m treated like I’m younger because I’ve developed a “mature” sense of style. So many people compliment me on my style and outfit and even though I dress for myself, it’s so nice to hear!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love this ❤️❤️

[@blueandblackberries]

Came for 5 quick style lessons, left with some of the most helpful life advice I’ve seen on KZbin. I’m lacking words to express how much these have made me reflect, thank you!

[@bethanyleonardo]

that means the absolute WORLD Monica! Thank you for sharing that

[@jessieflores6783]

Wow for some reason I thought you were 25 haha. I’m turning 30 this year and I’m so excited. I’ve always been very insecure and just in the past couple years I’ve started to find myself visually. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you!

[@xristinarose2409]

Def agree with quality items. When i had poor quality polyester clothing that irritated my skin, i barely took care of the items. Now that i have better quality items that dont itch and sit well on me, i love the items so much more and i automatically take care of them

[@chloehowerth]

I love the tip about building your closet as a collection over time. I like the idea of investing in each piece slowly rather than buying a bunch of cheap clothes quickly. I also love those Vogue Inside the Wardrobe videos! They’re always so thoughtful about each piece in their closet.

[@encetewu]

You've got that talent for speaking about clothes that makes it more than just pieces of fabric you put on everyday to cover your body. Very powerful message :)

[@jeanninelaila4228]

This lesson was so important for me to hear especially towards the end when you talk about authenticity. I’ve been on this style journey and trying to be intentional with everything in my life including my style. It is way harder than it sounds and truly takes so much time to develop. You’ve been such a guide and expander for me and I truly appreciate you, Bethany. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ashlynnkaplan680]

I just love your message and heart in what you do! I’ve realized in the last few months that I do not want to be “effortless” in the way that I don’t have to try. I want my style to be perceived as caring, attentive, and aware. Recently, a couple of people I know told me that I dress in such a thoughtful way and present myself likewise. This encouraged and warmed me on so many levels. It was so much more than the clothing I was wearing! It revealed that how I dress and present myself therein, others can see where my heart is at and how I live my life. It’s truly exciting what you’re doing and wonderfully impactful, especially in a time where so many have opted to blend in for comfort. It kind of reveals that we truly do dress for others rather than ourselves. During this whole pandemic, I maintained getting dressed every day, putting on some make up, making sure my hair looks neat. Because I have a little kids watching as well and it wasn’t for others, it was for me. Keep on keeping on Bethany! Much love! 💗

[@justynabaczek8244]

This is the most wholesome KZbin video I saw this year. thank you so much, you put in words what I have been feeling for some time now, but never voiced.

[@dishadeka]

Paused the video to comment that your first point of saying to let style be your voice is so apt in today's time .. loved the concept overall .. you're truly a gem Bethany ❤️💕🌼

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks friend ❤️❤️

[@Trissa.33]

I also am well past my 30's yet I wish I had this advice back then. Even so, I am taking this advice in the here and now as better late than never! Thank you x

[@susanwexler6983]

I love your passion! As a much older woman who taught high school for many, many years, I totally agree with you on the importance of knowing that the way you dress tells people who you are. I love the way you have gone deeper about the importance of curating your relationships, friends, home, etc. You are extremely wise for a young woman. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with young and older women alike. I wish you and Zack continued success! ❤️

[@sophiahayward577]

Guilt is a huge thing. I’m so glad you brought that up. When I buy an expensive piece that is quality and someone finds out the price and gives a reaction, I feel guilty and annoyed at the comment. So what I bought something beautifully made that I love and the person who made it actually got a proper wage. So great point Bethany. Love from NZ

[@pinteranna6754]

I just want to say how happy I am to find your videos. You are so different than the other fashion KZbinrs. You are original, natural, sophisticated, intelligent. Keep on this amazing work ❤️

[@dvelasquez.motion]

It's crazy, I've been coming to the exact same conclusion on my own, I'm just about to turn 29 in a week so I totally get what you mean about finding your voice and expressing it, and how fashion and clothes are just another mean to express yourself and understand who you are, and why do you like what you do? , what makes you, YOU?!. I loved every second of this process of growing up and existing, and I thought I was the only one haha, so it's kinda cool to know that others understand and see clothes the same way I do. Thank you for sharing

[@ah5721]

This is so true! I'm 32 and I finally have let go in trying to fit in and I'm wearing what I love . If I don't love it or it fits weird I donate it or get it tailored. I buy intentionally to fill a space or need in my closet that I don't have. Recently I decided I am done wearing skinny jeans that dig into me so I bought some slim fit straight pair. I also like some vintage and historical styles and I'm slowly bringing them into my style. It's freeing !

[@deborahmichele]

I wish I had understood/started thinking about style this way when I was your age! Especially, your first point about using style as your voice. WOW. It's becoming apparent to me that dressing well and to express yourself is actually an act of self love. It's been so inspiring and helpful to me to watch your and other youtube style mavens break down how to have a stylish wardrobe; something I have always aspired to, but never learned at home, so it seemed...out of reach and impossible. The thing that I appreciate about you in particular is that you really express your individuality through your clothing. I Love all the ideas you're sharing in this video. Thank you Bethany!

[@mariellazavala72]

I’m so glad I found this video! I’m definitely taking these tips into my clothing style because I still feel like I’m so lost … I never had a certain style in my 20s and just went with whatever I thought looked good and since I just turned 30 last year I’m still trying to figure it out … and with the changes of my body as I got older … I’m wanting to dress in a minimalist and elegant and classy but expressive way , like having a style that stands out but yet is different than what is fast fashion but yet calm and presentable way for my age … idk if it makes sense .. I want to look my age but I don’t want to look to juvenile or clothes that age me …

[@stupor_mundi]

As always I love and appreciate how you go much deeper into style than what just meets the eye. 💖

[@DayDreamer2192]

Having just turned 30 this year, 2 thoughts struck me most: thinking about your closet as a collection (this one is really going to change how I shop forever), and giving yourself permission to take up space. As you're growing up, you discover yourself, but a lot of people try to say "settle down now" and you're absolutely right: you have to stand your ground. Thank you for this video!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love this, Samantha!

[@sanjeevbains690]

I love this heart to heart video on personal development through style. Your style course has been a game changer for me and it's giving me the confidence to take up space through my wardrobe.

[@aprildouglas6644]

Thank you for this video. It made me realize what I’m doing right and wrong. No guilt !

[@MAvila744]

Hi Bethany, What I love about your channel is that you show respect for yourself by what you say, how you act and, yes, what you choose to wear. I am someone who believes that how you dress immediately conveys to others a level of self respect. So many times you see young women dressed in ways that IMO show a lack of self respect. It comes in their choice of clothing. Too much exposure of skin IMO sends the wrong message. Is it their style or is there something more going on? I believe it is the latter. Bethany, you have so much class and the way you dress sends a message of ‘I respect myself.’ Your style is the younger version of me but I still prefer it as I get older and choose pieces that reflect it. Congratulations on being a wonderful example for young women (and yes we older women too!)

[@ayeshaaymen2331]

honestly love how diverse this channel is content wise and how active too ! ;)

[@soniapanchal4675]

Its so Beautiful to being able to internally connect with someone you have never met in person but that person does have a special place in your Life, This is for you Bethenny! One of the most amazing feeling is when someone brings up an Impactful point above the surface, that deep down one allways experienced but wouldn't just realise it so consciously as one does when that special person offers such deep analysis so simplified, In context with the "Power of a piece of Dress" with respect to the memories woven in its threads and re cherishing those by feeling great full for that experience, it can be a self expression of celebrating Life, couldn't see this without you unfolding the blind fold, Thank You Bethenny !

[@bethanyleonardo]

I feel like you said it better, Sonia! Thanks for your kind words. Much love your way 😘

[@soniapanchal4675]

@@bethanyleonardo apologies for spelling your name incorrectly, From all Past years I think I was so engrossed looking at you but I See I should have also learnt ur name well, Today is a very special Day for me it's Like I admired you so much for years and suddenly I see you know I exist and take those moments of ur Precious Time and Life to send me such a generous reply! It's only Love I feel for the Person I every time see whenever u upload a video!!

[@RaineHoltz]

So insightful. You have so much to say and every single one of those things is brilliant. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and helping so many women to feel confident in their skin. I am one of them. The world needs more of it. Women taking space and enjoying themselves. You are a dear. ❤

[@byadeline]

This video is full of great quotes! I love how you describe how clothes are empowering and a real tool to commande respect, that's how I've always felt about my clothes, but too many times I tried to be the cool girl and follow trends that never served me because I didn't feel like myself wearing them. It's so true that when you're 30, you start to really know who you are and you let others be okay or not rather than adapting.

[@norahdelagarza775]

Hi Bethany! I believe that style should not be limited by age. People can have style at any age but not everyone has style. I was not able to join your class because I paid my brother's property taxes which left me at limited budget this month and probably next few months. Also your course is in the middle of the week and I work. It would be more convenient on a Saturday if possible. Love you. 🥰 XOXO

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Norah, no worries! The masterclass is independent study so you can watch the lessons whenever you have time each week. New lessons are unlocked each Monday for 9-weeks. So if weekends are better for you then you can watch and complete them on the weekend. 🤗

[@helen4997]

Thank you, "I can take up my space" You are so wonderful thank you for sharing...

[@krizabelldegooijer4861]

Hi Bethany! Kriza here from Amsterdam . Thank you so much for all this beautiful videos. I learned so much this past few days, discovering more about myself, catching up with myself. And being more intentional with what I wear, what I bought and everything else around my life. I felt like I had a brand new beginning to be myself even more & to always bring out my true self properly. Thank you for inspiring me. God bless you. ♥️

[@bethanyleonardo]

so happy for all your success in self discovery! Thank you for sharing

[@mariawelling4194]

Hi Bethany! Monday the 28th will be a day to remember you as an inspiration moving foward..I desperately need to bring back my personal style which has been dormant since I moved from N.Y. I'm excited to bring back that sassy, classy lady back!!

[@nayelisolis4567]

Please, please, please make more podcast episodes! I love to listen to you on my morning commute towards downtown. You’re the reason I try new looks!

[@DansonforJoy]

There were so many thought-provoking moments in this video, Bethany. I've observed the same in my thirties - I don't mind a bit if I stand out with my dress being different than every other woman around me. And yes - regardless of whether it's "right" or "wrong," the way we present ourselves DOES tell people how to treat us, and I've been surprised to experience that over and over. I love that "who is she?" phrase you repeat on your channel. It often comes to my mind when I consider wearing a hat or sunglasses or something unique. ;) Being able to spend more time on fewer, more precious things is a lesson I've learned, too - and it was funny to hear you use college friends as an example, because I did the exact same thing! In that new environment and social opportunity, I wanted to be friends with EVERYONE...and I was...but upon graduation, I realized there were only a couple girls I would keep in touch with long-term. Watching this video makes me want to take the style masterclass all over again! I enjoyed it SO MUCH the first time around, and I know it's something worth revisiting every year, at least. :)

[@bethanyleonardo]

I'm so very excited to hear this, girl. It truly means the world! PS I think we would have been friends in college AND after!

[@DansonforJoy]

@@bethanyleonardo I'd like to think so, too! :) It's nice of you to say!

[@valeriaguerra2825]

Thank you for your wisdom. I think that is difficult to find honest messages as the ones you share. It's not about being trendy and accepted, but to be oneself.

[@angelienicole482]

You're truly amazing❣️ I'm turning 18 soon and I'm grateful I get to learn so much from you

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love that, Elaine!

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

Yes, we have the right to take our space and express our personalities. That's so important. Don't let anyone tell you what to wear. At least in your free time.

[@sreejanair2080]

Love this! So powefull and authentic. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks lovely!

[@PetiteLeeLife]

I am so very excited to start your course on Monday. I will be 43 next month, and it's the best way to start and celebrate a new year of me! ♥️🎉

[@bethanyleonardo]

So excited for you Jennifer! Happy early birthday!

[@gracemilandou3915]

Thank you, so much, that video was enlightening !

[@shrutisaxena8471]

You carry so much value! ❤️

[@moggies4460]

You are so thoughtful about all of this and very interesting. Thank you for sharing all your wisdom. Some of my favorite outfits are ones I’ve gotten from your style videos. I’d love to see outfits put in these videos even. I just love love your style. And would like to get inspiration from what you’ve put together as much as possible. 😊💗

[@ranli1583]

Thank you so much for sharing those amazing ideas. They touched me and just can’t say how much I love them♥️

[@yumisabaduquia4755]

Thank you for inspiring us! From the bottom of my heart 🙏🏼

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh thank you so much!

[@anniest-georges3690]

I am so happy! I finally signed up for your online course! I find you very inspiring and I plan to share what I learn with my 2 daughters (21 and 17). I am sure we will learn so much! I love your way of promoting self care, self love and the idea of viewing our personnel style has a form of art. Just beautiful! I can’t wait to begin! 🤗🥳

[@bethanyleonardo]

So happy for you, Annie! I look forward to your wins with the course!

[@indiramardis]

I love this video 🥰 very insightful

[@Nettesvideo]

So very nice to hear some fruit for thought.

[@mariangrino8880]

Im on my 40s but i still there are lots of lesson ive learned from you true enough life is short wearing you love should be intentional

[@annaklaus8377]

Superb advice.

[@madahikhan3352]

I'm 27 yo right now and just recently I've started to worry about my looks.. I'm focusing on losing weight now but this is good to know so I can save some money and buy new clothes.

[@bethanyleonardo]

LOVED 27 as an age!

[@zenaidaroxas70]

I'm turning 45 this year and I love how my style has evolved. I'm put together, polished and classic but not boring. It's all about knowing yourself, you're right. How you present yourself to the world is important.

[@user-ry8lq3kr8b]

Guilt is definitely something I struggle with in my closet. If I buy something (especially if it's expensive) and it ends up being something I don't like/don't wear, I always feel guilty and lose confidence in my ability to make wardrobe choices for myself. I'm working towards just recognizing every "mistake" as just the trial and error process of finding my personal style, but it isn't easy!

[@chuchicakes]

I love love your videos! I just recently discovered your channel and can't get enough of it, learning so much. Love, from the Philippines!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thank you lovely!

[@katinalam2263]

Well said, my friend!👏

[@MrandMrsLeighs]

You are so good! I learned a lot from this video. I’m starting following you now. You are such an inspiration. -Irish Leigh

[@sybilkot8294]

Love that you're wearing Dôen tops in your videos!

[@trishtells]

So happy this video came out right now, because I have only a couple of months left 😂 thank you for every single video 💜

[@bethanyleonardo]

ha that's awesome :) Thanks Trish!

[@MagdalenaKubus]

Thank you

[@sudhatamang5703]

Wow 😮 I just love your videos very inspirational

[@TheZeyre]

Hi Bethany, Love this exploration! 🌺🌻🍷Will have to rewatch this! Xo Joanne

[@aninagabrielle]

I am so happy that I found your channel while I am in my early twenties. I feel like my future self will be so thankful for that. You help me get on the right track on intentionally getting to know myself through my style and purchasing the right clothing for me. What I love about you is that you never made me feel like I need to purchase what you have but more like you’re sharing your thought process and I should try to apply that to myself. You are so inspiring and helpful!! I’ve been practicing your style tips and I feel more confident about myself! I appreciate what you do. 🤍

[@ernayulia5556]

Such a beautiful video,its deeper than material things💙💙💙

[@nourake341]

Thank you love your content I am in my mid 30 and enjoy your content so much ❤️🥰

[@owlbefine8910]

Sounds like a great class to join!

[@sophieshen6886]

This video is sososooso amazing that what u have to said! Thank you

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Sophie!

[@SpidermaninTimeOut]

Excellent! So well said.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks lovely

[@SpidermaninTimeOut]

@@bethanyleonardo ❤️

[@brookstanbery6021]

Watching this is making me excited about turning 30! I'll be 28 on May 1st. :)

[@stapleskeri9811]

I love this video 💜

[@Jasophy]

Great video

[@yumkhamthoibichanu3278]

Really love your vedio each and every word u say is meaningful and inspiring ..❤️❤️

[@joviecelzo]

I really love your videos 😍

[@tdz1658]

Guilt doesn't belong in my wardrobe. Strongly agree! Even for things that I literally never wear, I feel happy just owning them and trying them on. They can wait for a perfect occasion that might never happen

[@wayNAY87]

I wanted to improve my style this year but I recently became pregnant. Can you do a video on maintaining good style during a temporary season of life?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love that idea ❤️

[@DansonforJoy]

I've been in pregnancy fluctuations the entire time I've been watching Bethany's channel - for years! Haha! I dream of the day I can order myself a well-fitting pair of wide-leg, high-waisted pants, but in the meantime, I've focused on cardigans, jewelry, shoes, hats, and other accessories, as well as fine-tuning my preferences in fabrics, colors, and undergarments as I keep a capsule wardrobe that is easy to transition with my body changes. I hope that gives you some encouragement, @SaintHannahs, but I second your request for a "good style in temporary seasons" video from Bethany! :) I'm sure it would be extremely inspirational!

[@Filipino-Serbian]

I love your voice and all your style❤❤❤❤

[@angelaa.7352]

At 39 I am just learning most of these!

[@89Caroline9]

Very inspiring thank you i'm realising a lot of things about me and the messages I'm sending to myself and others with my clothers. I recently bought a new hat in my favorite colour very different as not normally wearing hats, had some wonderful comments from strangers.

[@TheZeyre]

One thing for sure ... Your course has changed the level of play on the wardrobe level. Even at home what I wear has altered significantly.

[@sophiehamilton1327]

Hi Bethany, I found this video so poignant and meaningful, I love that you make content that is unique - I'm sure not an easy thing to do on KZbin! I am loving your personal style course, and I would love to see a video where you talk about how you care for the pieces in your closet. Since I've started investing more in quality clothing, I feel like I'm missing that information about how to care for it properly to make it last. Would you consider doing something like this?

[@bethanyleonardo]

thanks for the topic idea Sophie, I'll see what I can come up with. And thanks for the encouragement!

[@LisaRanae79]

You are a special soul 🧡🦋

[@kichan2727]

I just turned 30 and I was quite happy to find that many things I already do 😃 - some great additional tips as well! - May I also ask where that jeans from the thumbnail is from? It looks amazing on you🥰

[@soyajoya1494]

Your vids are relevant to even 40-yr-olds. Thanks for making these..

[@mamtadubey5689]

I love ure personality and looks Ure amazing

[@jackhopper8677]

I thank you soooo much for your vids & to share your beauty to the world. You are soooo beautiful.

[@p797ooja]

Hearing you talk is like therapy. I miss your podcasts

[@perlycapellan1829]

Good day, Dearly Bethany! Any bright clothing style ideas for women in their 40’s in mind? Thank you. 🙂🥰😉

[@KiniVuitton]

Hi! Do you still recommend belted looks for petites that carry their weight on their waist?

[@chaithanya1418]

Good💕

[@bethanyleonardo]

❤️❤️

[@asilmarahleh4295]

Can you recommend literature talking about the points you mentioned in this video? I always find when I hammer a point in by reading I understand it fully. It would be nice to have a short video of you recommending a fee books and a brief abstract of each.

[@bethanyleonardo]

I didn’t reference particular books for this video, but I would start with the psychology of fashion as a good read

[@asilmarahleh4295]

@@bethanyleonardo Thank you

[@FacebookQueen]

Just turned 30 👏

[@VC-jb8mc]

I’m 29 & as I shop for clothes I get so nervous about what to buy and usually from what section. I shop in juniors still & feel embarrassed and confused. I like the laid back/relaxed look and looking nice as well; a nice dress, nice clothes for daily wear, a sophisticated blouse here & there. It’s so confusing and sometimes stressful.

[@vj8396]

Being yourself is where home is...🎈

[@joliabanang7161]

Hi Bethany, I am learning a lot from you, I am really having difficulties dressing up. The more I try harder to dress better than the way I used to, the more I feel like I don’t really dress well. Do you have podcast?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Jolia, I do have a podcast! Should be linked in the description or you can find it as Only Looking Up. I plan to post to it soon again frequently. 🤗