5 Reasons I Feel Sorry for Single Men Over 30!

[@famt2156]

I see why Tony closes the comments when he is talking to men. Women, if you want men to listen to what Tony is saying, we can't just agree and make negative comments about men. Just let him speak.

[@robincain5287]

I receive that...

[@caseyj5597]

I absolutely agree. Sometimes I see one of Tony's video titles and just have a feeling the comments are gonna be turned off on this one...! 🤣

[@kaleshabrown]

Literally 💯❤️

[@nicolewadley1987]

@famt2156 I agree and understand completely. But as he stated, “women don't listen”…and he ain't lying!!! For instance, it's STILL women who share personal information in the comments after he’s suggested a million times not to

[@nzingahoney]

When TG speaks things you have been longing to hear someone say in EXACTLY the same way, not for years, but for DECADES, it is really difficult to remain quiet. In Tony's words: 'yall got to forgive me ', because we are all human and cry out when hurt badly enough.

[@Nurseaholic]

If more married men would advocate for marriage & not make it sound like a death sentence when young men are speaking to them then maybe the stigma would change.

[@ieshjust16]

A married man just did a debate on why marriage is good for men.

[@DR-lf5rg]

Amen 🙏

[@paulettjones6255]

Amen

[@ONLYLOVEIZATION]

Don’t forget there is an increase in narcissists as we are in the last days. I’m not surprised so many people have been stung entering marriages!

[@DioniWise87]

@@ieshjust16Is this online? Do you have a link?

[@Ms.Sipp40]

Tony, I’m sorry to say it but there are some men that are 40 and are still playing the field. ITS REAL LAME OUT HERE!

[@Iambecoming1111]

The ones in the back couldn’t hear you💯💯💯

[@nomessnostress]

Almost 50 with health issues still doing it

[@robincain5287]

its just a mess out here.. fr

[@LovelySoul33]

Right! That’s cause they don’t have anything substantial to offer a woman

[@Skylimited55]

Very true. From Detroit Mi

[@Happinessis_12]

I am a virgin and I have absolutely no regrets ❤️

[@shawnni3014]

❤❤

[@ieshjust16]

👏🏽👏🏽

[@SimpleRN3]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@itzyogurlEleanor]

Congratulations 🎉

[@memestar2536]

​@@darlenebernard4288 that's clearly a man

[@YourLoveNeverFails]

It’s only god that can change a man’s heart from being a sex motivated player, to a love motivated, faithful and loyal husband to his one wife.

[@SimpleRN3]

I truly wholeheartedly believe this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ieshjust16]

🎯

[@HisWillForever]

Facts! A man that seeks to be in right relationship with God through his son Jesus Christ will experience a lasting change of heart towards everything and everyone once he’s born again.

[@toogroovywavey136]

Period!

[@AChebby]

He has to be in love with Christ first, before that man can love any woman. He has to submit to God/Christ first, before he can lead a woman.

[@MeekahLynne]

Men don’t approach for dates. I get more men making small talk but no..”forward motion”. I know I’m probably not “welcoming” more but it’s only cause of the chaos that men over 40 bring. My peace came when I stopped trying to date. Mr Gaskins, it’s worse than you think for single women and dating.

[@ButterCookie1984]

If you are not "welcoming", why do you suggest its the men?

[@breannn]

I believe men feel no reason to get married is because they simply don’t have to! As long as women keep giving single men wife benefits, there will no be no sense of urgency to get married. A single man can get everything a married man can get in most cases.

[@SWest18]

The women who are giving out those benefits always lose in the end. If a man approaches you with children in his 30’s and has never been married…RUN! Don’t walk, RUN!

[@ehmrahq1548]

Remember when Kevin Samuels kept saying all black men want to get married?

[@carolyn4realife]

@@ehmrahq1548 devil is a lie.

[@Glory444Reign]

I wanna get marry

[@jasminehill6312]

A lot of men…..especially BM already have kids when they hit 30 so they aren’t concerned about the thought of delaying a legacy. They separate kids from marriage and they don’t want marriage but they already have kids🤷🏾‍♀️

[@SWest18]

They tend to play in their youth. I urge women to avoid men with children especially if you don’t have any. It’s not worth the risk nor the baggage that he will come with. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@jasminehill6312]

Agreed!!! And once you hit your 30s finding a BM that doesn’t have kids is like a needle in a haystack

[@candacebenford1734]

​@SWest18 People make mistakes, men and women. Just because a man has kids doesn't make him a bad man. Nor a woman bad if she has kids already. That man with a child could be your Husband. Stop judging people.

[@DR-lf5rg]

He's right about men not approaching. Just stare at you. People describe me as friendly and approachable, but they don't say anything to me. Ironically, a gay woman approached me at an event one night. She came over, introduced herself, asked how I was doing, asked where I was from, and offered to buy me a drink. When I tell you she had more game than 99.9% of men out there who have flirted with me, I am not lying. I turned her down, but I thought to myself, she could give these dudes a class on how to approach women. We're in sad times ya'll.

[@Didi-fr5ic]

The same with me, I can say hi to every single person in a room, I would say just keep being yourself, your man will see you and he will come if he wants you, some men can be a bit careful but just keep shining..our aura's are different.

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

This happens to me too! I'll get hit on by lesbians but not normal men!!!

[@nzingahoney]

Damn right 😂😂😂😂

[@ehmrahq1548]

I believe they have become socially awkward due to only having to talk on dating apps. Some of these men have no conversation skills whatsoever. I'm 42, and had the best conversation with a 25 year old guy.

[@nzingahoney]

@@ehmrahq1548 girl tell me about it but be careful with them younguns. They may seem more mature than they actually are

[@carolyn4realife]

I see more folks walking and kissing dogs than walking with kids.

[@ieshjust16]

Everyone doesn't need kids

[@freespirit8635]

Deep 😢

[@carolyn4realife]

@@ieshjust16 Then don't have them. The video was about men creating families which usually includes children.

[@KDStyle1]

Oh my...

[@hapshabyahyisrael9810]

Speak the truth!

[@delight1743]

In all honesty I REFUSE to be laid up with anyone operating in pure LUST. That is senseless and it's getting OLD!! You're right, too much sampling going on!! We as a PEOPLE are made for much more than that.

[@gmsunshine531]

Thank you for speaking truth. Many men over 30 want women to check off their list of wants, but when we get to know them we find out they come with so many issues- mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. The question then becomes: Am I better off being single? Great video

[@nailartexpress-pressonnails]

My father is in his 60’s living in regret right now because he did not want to fix his marriage with my mother! He wanted to leave his family and do what he wanted and put work and other things before his family. I forgave him a long time ago but I can’t help but to feel bad sometimes because he is lonely. I told him the only way he will have a good woman in his life is at least getting married again because women want commitment. My mom never went back to him and definitely does not want him now after 20 years of healing! Tony is on point with this message. I witness this with my own parents.

[@ButterCookie1984]

How do you know he is in regret?

[@nailartexpress-pressonnails]

@@ButterCookie1984 We had a conversation and he told me out of his own mouth that the one thing he regrets is not being a good husband and making his marriage work with my mother. He finally held himself accountable especially being a father to me and my sibling. I was shocked but realized that he started to open his eyes.

[@Itsque28]

Good for your mom. So glad she did the healing. I can only imagine how she felt having to be uprooted put of her marriage because your dad didn't want to do right. ❤

[@cmarie5867]

Thank you Tony! Please let this be your message to young men. I’m in my 50’s and my heart aches for the young ladies in their 20’s and 30’s. Most have no idea of what it’s like to be courted and treated with dignity and respect. I believe your point of view is God given and your voice and message can begin to help heal our community.

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

A very young-looking 35 over here, and it hurts so bad 😢

[@nzingahoney]

I'm 43. I been hurting. 😢

[@sjtalksandlife]

Yea I do too..alot desire a blessed husband. Its slim pickings out here..

[@thankmelater90210]

I'm 29 and desire to be courted but unfortunately I live in a society who doesn't believe in courtship. They believe in dating short term and shacking instead of marriage. I still believe God got my soulmate for me!

[@robincain5287]

Hi Tony and family.. Have a blessed day.. smh.. its men over 40 and 50 as well..

[@TwilaB0721]

Over 30 is any man over 30.

[@pajdesign]

@@TwilaB0721 😂 lol

[@KDStyle1]

​@@TwilaB0721right

[@kimsanders8262]

And 70

[@sbeasley7100]

I recently had a male “friend” that I’ve known for quite some time talk about being with me and getting married. I didn’t take too much head to it because it was out of the blue. He pulled the “we’ve known eachother so long” card. A week later I brought it back up to him and his exact words were “I was just talking”. This is where their head is at! I’m 26 for context.

[@Ms.Sipp40]

He meant it. He felt rejected when you didn’t give him the response he wanted but it also may be he needs some more maturing….

[@cuzinangel2355]

Just a thought, you weren't overly excited or impressed by what he said. You weren't hanging on every word that he said like it was the most intelligent thing you ever heard. That probably made him feel rejected.

[@learningalot231]

Most are just grown boys and others are looking for a woman to take care of them while they do minimal effort in a relationship.

[@gracefullyrachel6573]

@@Ms.Sipp40I second this… he may have felt scared to express his feelings because of your response; so he downplayed it to protect his ego. I had a similar experience.

[@la6136]

I have had many male friends say this stuff to me and when I ended up giving them a chance they had no clue how to treat me right. You are on point they are just talking. Doesn’t mean they know how to be a good partner or see you as their wife.

[@thebizmiss6485]

My friend was a longtime player. Been married 15 years and they adopted a couple of years ago. As a married man he's the happiest I've ever seen him. Almost a little corny at times but happy none the less.

[@MeekahLynne]

Mr Gaskins, based off part 1 of this. You talked about starting off with humble beginnings (lower priced wedding rings etc). Please do a vid on differentiating between a man’s bare minimum effort vs his maximum effort that may be the bare minimum. I hope that makes sense.

[@themultifacetedmom]

This would be a great video

[@adorekaniyah4741]

please!!! 😊

[@sunkissedn71]

Those glasses look nice on you brother Tony. 😊

[@c.ggraygray4389]

I agree. Tony Gaskins glasses look really nice on him.🤓👍🏼🤗

[@caseyj5597]

Yes, they do suit you Tony

[@nickg1236]

Tony you are spot on here, as usual. But I will say I think part of the reason men don’t approach women like they used to is that many of us weren’t raised with our father or a comparable male role model; so we simply never learned how to approach a woman in real life. I personally struggled with it until my late 20s, and even then I had to get past a lot of fear and apprehension. Sad but true.

[@gjinkalla23]

❤ Truth❤

[@siboocy75]

Tbh honest there's nothing wrong with anyone being single over the age of 30 (men and women). People have their own reasons for choosing to remain single, and should never be shamed or ridiculed for it. If a man is over 30 and single, it could be that he just not ready for a relationship (maybe based on past experiences). He still on a journey to finding himself and figuring out what type of man he is. He prefers to do that whilst single (and celibate) because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. Being single is not a sin. As a matter of fact the Word of God even makes an emphasis about that in 1 Corinthians 7:8. A lot of people have entered relationship due to pressure rather than anything else. They didn't want to seem odd, forgetting that just as there are benefits of being married, there are also benefits that come with being single.

[@Cherishmi]

I hardly ever comment but truth is in order to pick the right mate, one needs takes self awareness & usually that comes about by intention & solitude. But theyre too consumed by entertainment, corn & social media

[@cassiemorrison9096]

Thank you Tony for telling men to start approaching women because they like to stare all night but not come up to you to just say hello. Im constantly experiencing this!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nzingahoney]

They want YOU to approach bc they've been told they're the prize u see

[@Glory444Reign]

@@nzingahoney no that’s not why, it’s because of ‼️self limiting beliefs‼️

[@sinaileon2863]

If you want them to approach you do something

[@sinaileon2863]

​@@nzingahoney and you have been told You're the prize too

[@nzingahoney]

@@sinaileon2863 i have not. I spent my entire life thinking I was not good enough and had to earn being picked by a man by being pretty and friendly and forgiving and second guessing enough

[@psychowolf99]

Looking a woman like a business deal.. I felt that. I feel like that’s how men treat me. They’re just comparing me with everyone else.

[@aspiring...]

Thank you for talking to the men. Very few speak this way directed at men.

[@quincysthillaire]

What you do in business is futile.. what you do in family is earthshattering. 🙏🏼 thank you god for that word.

[@AshleyHenderson8899]

You’re speaking straight facts, sadly there’s a whole lot of low vibrational males who doesn’t take heed to your valid truth and will call a high vibrational male like yourself a simp. Love and light unto you and your family! 🙏🏽💎❤️🫶🏽🦋

[@aquarianage22]

Even men in happy long term relationships still look at other women no matter how beautiful their partner is

[@AshleyHenderson8899]

@@aquarianage22 Just because a male is married doesn’t make him high vibrational. That’s low vibrational behavior.

[@aquarianage22]

@@AshleyHenderson8899 it's all men in my experience and even "good men" do it, constant window shopping irl 🤷

[@AshleyHenderson8899]

@@aquarianage22 It’s a mindset love. Change your mindset and watch what type of man you attract!

[@aquarianage22]

@@AshleyHenderson8899 it's definitely not I'm speaking from actual reenter experience 🤣 all men look

[@debrajordan6514]

Brother Tony. 1st of all, I applaud you for being a true King. Glad your wife was blessed with you. In all honesty from my recent experience. A lot of black men don’t want real quality and authentic women. Women who are loving, caring, loyal, integrity , hardworking They don’t want us.

[@Lullaby-doll63]

That's too much like responsibilities that they would have on their shoulders. They would have to be what we are Loving caring integrity, Anne loyal. Which they are not any of those things They don't want to be the leaders of the family. They're content being what they are and there station in Life they don't want to grow into manhood.

[@jasminehill6312]

I see that a lot in Black men too!! Many are just enamored by toxic women while complaining that they don’t want toxic women 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@TwilaB0721]

Dont feel sorry, or tell them anything any more. They are not listening. They'll learn the hard way. Like you always said " can't raise grown people " Now some don't know how to approach women, that goes for the older men too. That would be a very good topic🤎

[@Jazzzzzy007]

You said it!!! These men getting dogs like that’s a true meaningful relationship. I’ve been seeing a lot of that online and in real life smh these grown boys need healing so they can be loyal to the right women instead of dogs 😢

[@ChakeraRoberts]

The best part of life is a wife and children! I know that’s right!

[@styledbykieat]

This needs to go VIRAL!!!!!!!

[@cocotruffles9815]

Thank you Tony. I am really glad you made this video. I recently got dumped by a guy that I was completely ready to be with but after two months of being there for each other he told me he doesn’t want anything serious, but just wants to talk and hang out here and there then try again in the future. This guy is 28 years old single never been married and has no children & has a masters degree. I’m not saying I’m a perfect woman, but I never disrespected him or made him feel inadequate to the degree of wanting to let things go after just two months. this is a recurring pattern with guys that I’ve met out and about. all the guys under the age of 35 to think have so much “time” and they don’t understand that life is passing them by and they’re going to grow up old and lonely with nothing to show for it. Thank you for these videos and keep spreading the message.

[@KimberlyH.]

No man is dumping a woman they really want to be with

[@ThisNuru]

Fear and ignorance 🤦🏾‍♀️ Our guys don’t realize they’re opting out of best stuff life has to offer. May this msg find its way to the ppl who need to hear it. This is an excellent talking point

[@LisaS483]

Marriage is grown men stuff...many of these guys ain't ready. Same for many of these women.

[@Iambecoming1111]

This is absolutely true. This was much needed im gonna share with my son.

[@AnnDonley]

Tony Gaskins I am 50 and I know several guys my age they have kids but never married. Especially where I am from.

[@jasminehill6312]

Yeah! That’s everywhere!!!! They are concerned about marriage because they already have kids and they aren’t looking to establish a family

[@paulettepoole5476]

Look at Tony looking all Distinguished 👍🏽

[@LifeArt-n1h]

Wow, this a good teaching here, yes please help show the men the right way, because there are many good women out here having faith for the right one to be in their lives🙏🏽

[@ImaniBelle-tu5nu]

Any man who slept with hundreds of women scares me because it sounds like he doesn’t see value in sex meaning he’ll just sleep with someone just because. In a relationship or without a relationship

[@MWisdomWisdom]

PLEASE PREACH TO THESE MEN ESPECIALLY THE ONES OVER 35+. THANK YOU FOR THiS.

[@julienneriviere6723]

I was just having the same convo today about men not approaching anymore and all of sudden you mention it in your video..

[@jadajordanward]

WOW! ALL TRUTH AND PURE WISDOM! 🦋

[@abundantlife1111]

Tony U hit the nail on the head! They don't know what they were never taught and Yes they r missing the very best parts of life! Rejection is a part of life and builds character! Please teach a class! I really wish you could have a show about the real-life, respectful interaction between a man and a woman, because it is Soo Needed! 🙏

[@nzingahoney]

💯 💯 💯

[@patwilson1257]

You’re right Tony. It’s real talk. Man stand up and do what God created you to do. You are to be leaders in this world. You have everything inside of you, that you need to succeed. God set this pattern from the beginning. Man, woman, children, family. There enough examples of what not to do in life. He’s telling you right. God bless you men, who know this is real.

[@seunelegbe3623]

Thank you Tony for addressing this. I was just discussing this with several of my male family members that fall in this category of men. They are out here thinking they can get a good woman at any age they think they have played the field enough. I'm sharing this with them.

[@SassyMye]

Alright!!! Preach. God bless you, Tony. You have ΝΕVER lied.

[@JIJII420]

'"the women looking like the heels of methuselah" 😂😂😂

[@YAHsKid]

Tony you said everything we needed our men to hear. I hope they hear from the heart and act. Because we really do want and need yall. Thank you ❤

[@GodDogPassport]

A guy is talking to me telling me I’m beautiful, sees and accepts me for my heart and appreciates my life experience, wisdom, and Christian mindset BUT is hung up on I’m not a white, blonde girl 👱‍♀️. Based on Tony’s teachings I explain to him PREFERENCES VS. STANDARDS and looks compatibility (he’s mixed race like me). He’s 5’8” but I see his heart not that he’s 4” under 6’. He’s younger than me but because I see how his mind processes and how he treats me, I see that he’s a good family man. Thank you Tony for teaching me preferences v standards and I hope your message gets in his and other men’s spirits bc there are so many marriage minded wife material being left for superficial, OnlyFans type females that men are lusting after without the standards.

[@lifeventures6651]

PLEASE keep the door open for your real husband. If that man told u he wants a white blonde, keep him in the friend category. It is not for you to convince him what he should be looking for. He needs a Godly male mentor and to hear from God about preferences versus stadards. Meanwhile, you keep letting men court you until the one shows up. -from a married woman

[@caseyj5597]

If any man told me that I'm not a white blonde girl, I would say I absolutely agree, and you ain't the one either! Laters! 🤣🤣🤣

[@amaragrace94]

As a black African woman dating a white Christian man, that ain't it sis. My bf, like many men, says he likes a woman that dresses feminine and acts feminine, which I naturally do. I remember in the beginning how he complemented my skin and how he thinks I'm beautiful by referencing Song of Solomon 1: 5-7 lol. If he ever said he prefers blonde hair and blue eyes, I would be out of there with a quickness because I love myself as God created me. Go where all of you is loved.

[@indiramonteiro9050]

Tony i can say that what you are saying is coming from your heart, God bless you for share the truth nothing but the truth to the men out there

[@carolynlong8701]

You look so nice today 😎👍🏾nephew and have a wonderful Mother’s Day with your wife and kids.

[@shan4145]

My big brother Tony as usual comes in like a 💎. Love to your family toos🦋💖🇨🇦

[@indriadrayton1132]

These men end up tragically in nursing homes only a few years later, forgotten & unwanted. Listen to Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes song, Where are all my Friends...

[@AChebby]

Breaking hearts, abandoning children= burning bridges.

[@transforgoku]

There are plenty of married old men with sons/daughters that got thrown into nursing homes to rot while being visited once a month if not once a year by their families, is that any better?

[@Mindsetolympics]

And a lot of men period are traumatized they want a woman to stick around for b.s.

[@bribri4275]

To God be the glory ❤️ when you can look at a man and see the blessings on/in his life. Thank you for your example, TG.

[@traceyh.coleman4850]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you, Tony! Well spoken and truth shared. May God continue to bless you, your wife and your two sons. You all are doing great work for the Kingdom. Great representation! 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽

[@kristalliiite6408]

I pray this video goes viral!!!

[@Purposeoverpotential]

Amen!!! And ok Tony I think you should keep the glasses too. They go with the brand FR. Looking renewed and prepared brother!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@hapshabyahyisrael9810]

Bro. Tony may the most high continue to use your gift to be a light to all you reach. I never stop learning, applying, getting understanding and wisdom to become better in life as an example to those I encounter daily! Thank you Bro. Toby. Continued blessings to your family!❤

[@lovenikcamille]

Love this! Some of this applies to us as women and I receive the message 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏽

[@Ms.Sipp40]

Paralysis by an analysis!!! That’s a fact sir.

[@sjtalksandlife]

My son is 34 and desires to marry. He said that its hard because of these young women's mindset. He is a good man and a hard worker, but he cant seem to find someone that he's compatible with. I worry if his standards are too high..😩

[@keptbygrace6221]

He should not lower his standards.

[@pasoe_dodi_]

Thanks for your insight. 💪🏽

[@carols5773]

God knows you are telling the truth! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🎈🎉

[@Rynnelzulu]

Doing Gods work may those who have ears hear and apply. God bless you 🙏🏼

[@angelalynn4225]

Keep it real Tony!!!Those folks !!!I love your work ❤️

[@kristalliiite6408]

I’m soooooo glad you addressed men approaching women. I get approached, but I’m tired of the women complaining about it 😂

[@Mel-cc9vr]

Great message

[@IceyIcey2023]

Interesting comparison to the food. I understood it that way 📓

[@aliciaross1974]

Preach Tony preach! You are truly in your calling.

[@ambiebby1636]

Not the bollywop scalawags 😂

[@GodDogPassport]

Love it when he says that in his videos makes me chuckle every time.

[@adriennesamantha]

Amen Tony 🙏 one of my favourite videos of yours, Tony 🌟🌟

[@SimoneWmson]

Tony this was soooo good! I’m really hopeful that there’s more men out here like you.

[@4LADYSWEET]

Love the glasses! Gives you a classic and sophisticated look! 👓

[@Motivationstation9880]

Teach Tony! Bless you.

[@MartyMar-yk1ik]

Looking sharp bro!!

[@sharonross6820]

This is excellent advice fellas. Listen up!

[@moniquethornton3032]

Tony what is a boly wop scally wag?😂😂😂😂😂

[@nappyfries]

All of this. And it hurts both men & women. One of the saddest things I see too is that a lot of men don’t hold themselves & other men accountable for bad behavior yet only blame the worst of the worst on women like we’re all the same. But that goes both ways too. Women do that too.

[@adriasmith5104]

Love how you tell it!!!!

[@profmj7630]

Thanks for this message

[@NTP313]

You're awesome, so true

[@kairosunltd130]

Teach❗❗❗Mr Gaskins.🔥🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💎💎💎👑👑👑

[@darncash2056]

My ex was very "pro marriage". He didn't think it was wrong to look at other women and held women to a really high standard when he wasn't meeting them. I think the Red Pill community has hurt a lot of them. It made them very toxic.

[@ehmrahq1548]

It certainly has made them bitter and angry.

[@sinaileon2863]

Curiously the red pill have a lot in common with the content in this channel. The difference is that they say things to women too that they don't like and in this channel you only hear things you like, bad things about men. And that is toxic.

[@timewithruby]

I use to work in the club, it's crazy I witnessed 50 & 60 year old men acting like they're still players in their 20's trying to chase 20, 30 & 40 year old women. Yes, plenty of them view women as mindless sex slaves, chefs/maids instead of looking for their partner they can spend their lives with. It's funny & sad at the same time. It's crazy!

[@sjtalksandlife]

Exactly..what woman wants to sign up for that!..🙄

[@Truu5StarLifeDriver]

Anotha 1! On Point☝🏾 much needed message!

[@PragmaticMoves]

The divorce rate is a factor. Marriage is partly business so people are not kidding themselves

[@melaniegenuinely]

Tony used to always say he don’t do videos for the men because they don’t wanna listen but it seems like God may be causing a shift because there’s tons of men who have no etiquette when it come to women matters 😊 Back in my day, men approached even if they knew they’d get rejected. They had to actually call you and did. If you lived in the same neighborhood dudes would walk, ride bikes, or catch a ride over to see you if they didn’t have a car and you sat on the porch, curb, block, or wherever and chopped it up. This generation is creating so much hate towards each other that marriage has no value in their eyes and it’s a shame. I would’ve never thought I’d see the day where we’d have to tell people why marriage is valuable. This is so sad.

[@nzingahoney]

💯 💯 💯 especially for black folk cuz the others understand

[@sinaileon2863]

Back in the day women were good to men too and do things for them

[@Brownbeauty555]

Thank you for all you do. Please do a series on how men should approach women. I consider myself a feminine and beautiful Queen. Inside & out. 😂White men approach much more then the brown kings.

[@trinigirl7846]

Thanks Tony for sharing your wisdom God gave u with us daily. Can u also do a video on how women should respond to men advances when approached

[@Ms.Sipp40]

He has but you’ll have to look through his videos….

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

"Shut up and listen " gave me a giggle 😃

[@Corts_World]

I would rather someone who has been through what I've been through or something similar give me advice if they've stopped making those mistakes and are now following God and living proof of a healthy lifestyle.

[@ButterCookie1984]

Are they the ony people who could offer sound advice?

[@Corts_World]

@@ButterCookie1984 It's just my preference. But God will use whomever :)

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

True. I have a friend who sleeps around. Not with any women he had children with but raised a girlfriend child. They no longer together but now his children have moved away wt mom. And he not even invited to the ex girlfriend kid graduation this month. I know he feels lonely Good looking but used his looks to get what he wants- now he is alone and compared to other men his finances he cannot compete at the big age he is. Sadly.

[@lovingtheagapeway5554]

Hmmm. … I can’t put my finger on it, but Mr. Tony looks different. He has the aura of a professor.. an analyst. Whatever it is, it’s doing him well as far as the outer appearance.

[@caseyj5597]

It's the glasses

[@lovingtheagapeway5554]

@@caseyj5597 : Yeah .. I thought so. He should wear them whenever he does future workshops or lectures before the crowd.

[@juanitaervin4757]

Having a wife is a luxury not every man can afford

[@zerogravity4008]

I pay 30.00 an hour for a Morehouse graduate who is brilliant in all Math and Science. 200.00 an hour is mind blowing to me. There are a lot of exceptional students and grads willing to tutor for side pay. 🤯

[@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner]

Trust me Tony, most of us want marriage esp us virgins. It just sucks that men of my race are still playing the field and sleeping around. Nobody will ever be good enough tbh.

[@Mindsetolympics]

A lot of black men and men of color are traumatized….

[@ehmrahq1548]

Yes they are broken. The sooner black women realize that, they will see it's a blessing to be single and free from them. They're so broken they they will only end up oppressing you.

[@chocolatechick412]

Tony Man Definitely not Approaching Us I went to a Festival and not one Man was Interacting with women they was either with the homies or on they Phones the whole time I work 7days straight and Get 7days off and I try to go out on solo dates on all the free time I get I also try to keep my Hair,Clothes,etc looking Nice and try to smile in Public but Men jst not Approaching Me I’m in 30s Tho but it’s really different Out her Now 😣

[@nzingahoney]

Behold the end of a breed 😢